E30: 3 WARNING SIGNS THE UNFAITHFUL ISN'T COMMITTED TO THE BETRAYED

It's one of the most common questions asked by a betrayed partner: "How do I know if my unfaithful is really committed to the relationship? What should I be looking for?" Today we answer those questions and more. Today's podcast is not only filled with crucial examples of warning signs in the life of the unfaithful but it's also a litmus test for any unfaithful looking for a playbook on how their recovery should look and sound to the betrayed and yes, even themselves. It further provides examples of what the unfaithful's recovery should never look like and if it does, what to do about it and how to get healthy. Each warning sign in today's podcast is accompanied by insight of how it makes the betrayed feel in hopes of reaching the unfaithful, rescuing them from themselves. If your recovery has any of today's warning signs, it's time for the unfaithful to have a significant moment of self-reflection and to search for help and support ASAP. If you're a betrayed and your unfaithful is displaying any of these signs in their life and recovery, it's vital you seek help from an expert that can walk you through next steps. It's not as hopeless as it seems, but after today, it may be as clear as it seems and perhaps what you're doing is not working?
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[@AveMaria-tp4me]

Thank you Sam and James! Create a 12 step program for the unfaithful! They need to live it everyday!

[@AskTheUnfaithful]

you're kind. thank you so much.

[@blackaj69]

That's a great idea.

[@carolynvictory8452]

@@AskTheUnfaithful I agree that unfaithful need a specific 12 step program. The existing ones don't seem to cover the nuances that go along with the destruction in the relationship.

[@Jennieofalltrades]

Thank you for all the content you produce 🙏 Please don't stop, if anything, more content would be awesome 👍

[@AskTheUnfaithful]

you're very kind. thank you for the encouragement as it means so much.

[@MariaAU]

Thank you for such a valuable video, Sam and James. You are helping so many people. Thank you again.

[@AskTheUnfaithful]

it's an honor. thank you for watching and leaving a comment.

[@tryanstutes7412]

How does untreated/undiagnosed ADHD play a role in an unfaithfuls ability to attune, empathize, and follow through with boundaries or commitments made with the best intentions?

[@brightpage1020]

There are world class, famous parenting classes, books and ministry just as there are similar offerings like yours for marital issues because these are the most valuable relationships to society and solving or alleviating stresses or big issues in them is some of the most valuable as well as profitable work we can offer each other as well society. Great point, Gentlemen! Thank you. So grateful there are such dedicated souls to helping make changes in these uncomfortable situations.

[@Jen-gt9cl]

so what if he's not committed, and you have kids... then what!?

[@MarinaM-o6p]

🎤 🗣️🗣️ …..MY “ husband “ should watch all your videos as he is the BETRAYER….. I SUFFERED ENORMOUSLY AS I AM A BELIEVER IN TRUE MONOGAMY .

[@andrealmorman]

Is it trickle truth when , the betrayed has discovered that the unfaithful lied about information that they disclosed. ?

[@andrealmorman]

I find myself doing detective work to get to the truth of the affair details.

[@andymessman8726]

How do you get an intensive with James??? ❤️

[@AskTheUnfaithful]

Hi Andy,
Thank you so much for watching our podcast and inquiring.
For an intensive, just email our office manager Gail at [e-mail] and she will get back to you and be able to set up a consultation.
I hope this finds you well!
James

[@willowhaawk]

I really need your help…

[@AskTheUnfaithful]

you're welcome to email us. Glad you found the podcast.

[@willbain9130]

Hope you are better. I know it's cliché, and I'm the last person qualified to say "time heals", because I'm 5 years past D-Day & I'm still messed up.......but I can say that I am better than I was before today, and I'll be better tomorrow, just gotta put one foot in front of the other. Look out for YOU, do things for YOU. I know that's difficult, but when you do it, you'll remember reading this, and you'll know exactly what I'm talking about :)