#18 Let’s have a raw conversation about this
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- I never wanted to relocate to Zimbabwe it was something that I thought of or planned certainly not before we had bought a house in the UK at least!. Relocating back to our home countries as people who are in the diaspora can be a challenge. In this video i share how I overcame this challenge.
Hello 👋🏿 thank you for stopping by and taking the time to watch our video.
About Us:
We are the Tandi’s and this is our channel documenting our journey back home to Zimbabwe. We have lived in the UK for over 20 years. In a bid to prepare for our relocation journey back to Zimbabwe we are building our homestead in rural Zimbabwe.
Our goal is to have a sustainable and self-sufficient homestead that is offgrid. We are going to install a borehole, solar for electricity and everything else.
We are creating a safe space on our channel to build a community of like minded people who have the desire to relocate back to their home country. In this space we can share ideas, stories and expertise with each other.
Expect a 1 video from us every Friday and if we post an extra video that week then it’s a bonus!
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We don’t care about anything we are definitely going to Zimbabwe.
Forwards every backwards never we are on our way to Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
loved this, watched with my son hanzi so are we gonna go back to Zimbabwe 😂😂😂
What was mums answer nekuti the boy is ready for Zimbabwe already 😄. Thank you for watching ❤️
I really wanted to hear this ...
It's a disease that i must heal from or else....Kenya is my home.
Thank you ...keep it English pls i'll follow on this one
And yes i am also getting a vlogging gadget this week.. ... see how much were on the same page.
Thank you for your comment and I will definitely keep it bilingual. I will subscribe onto your channel as well and follow your journey too.
I believe that there are so many opportunities back home and you can always make good money in Zim. Been living here i diaspora for over 27 years and I started my journey to relocate back home in 2022 and I am enjoying it:)
I believe this also and it’s good that as people in the diaspora we are sharing ideas as a collective. Your win is my win and my win is yours those are the principles of Ubuntu. Please share your journey with us I’m looking to speak to Diaspora’s who have made the leap and get their advice, tips and what they have learned. If this is something you would interested you please let me know.
Absolutely, I am more than willing to do so and I have just started a youtube channel called Mkanyamixedfarming Where I will be sharing my entire journey. The only problem is that I am new on youtube and I am not yet familiar everything around youtube. However, I am doing my best for a beginner:) Keep up the good work
I resonated most with the part where you spoke about seeing yourselves purchasing a house in the diaspora despite having prioritized building in zim first and also having lived in the diaspora for over 20 years .
While the general thinking is probably that after being overseas for that long,one should have had at least purchased a home where they are , I’ve recently started appreciating that everyone’s story and paths all differ, there’s definitely lots of societal pressure however one should always do what makes sense for them and their family so Kudos to you for embracing your circumstances and the path you’re on🎉 Thanks for the transparency and the much needed reality check
You are welcome and thank you for sharing your experience and you are right it comes down to what you need to prioritise first. I’m glad Zuruvi stuck to his plan instead of me feeling like a lost out I actually gained a lot more and as a couple we grew even more stronger.
Home sweet home i am also planning to go back home after 22 years in diaspora i really appreciate your content and your willingness of going back home. This is my last year in diaspora.
Oh my goodness I feel so excited for you. How does it feel to be on a countdown ?. I can only imagine.
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The feeling is good and I am really excited. I have been going home now and then every time that I am coming back to the UK I feel emotionally drained and sad up the point I couldn't take this anymore. I am happy for you and family that you have decided to make the move let's keep in touch.
Wabaya diaspora at 15 it takes a lot kubvuma kudzokera ,Well-done mai Zuruvi...maita mai vemusha and mazarurira mhuri makomborero
This was exactly my situation. Hubby and i now have a solid relocation plan with dates etc. We'll be relocating by the end of the year.
Oh my goodness that’s amazing to hear!!! Well done team for managing to align with each other I feel like that’s the biggest battle amongst many couples. If you win there the rest just flows. How does it feel to be on a countdown to getting out of the diaspora ?.
@@TheTandisLivingtheGoodLife The countdown is amazing. We've been to Zim every couple of months for final touches.
The authenticity and calmness when you explain this makes it so beautiful ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ From tiktok to here you will always be my inspiration.... Thank you Mai Zuu for sharing with us
You are very welcome. Thank you for making this place a safe space to be able to share some of these things it wouldn’t be possible without you guys being so supportive.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hoping this video will be seen by many , community yedu ichikura! Its really nice to be here ❤
I hope so too because it’s a conversation worth sharing. It’s also good for people to see what can be achieved if we work together as a couple semhuri.
Surely the community is growing let's make it a movement please.
You are a good storyteller, your content flows well and you stay stuck at the topic, with a bit of fun in there. Keep it up
Awwww thank you I sometimes hear myself going off tangent sometimes but it’s great to hear your feedback I appreciate it.
unotenda here kuna mwari tete? Just curious if this has been a big factor in how you were resolving the conflicts in your relationship/marriage? Maita basa for sharing.
You are welcome 🙏🏿
I think your worries were understandable especially for us moms. l really enjoyed the content and had to thought it through before commenting 😂, coz we have been there before.
That’s true , I have had a lot of criticisms about building and relocating to Zimbabwe. I’m documenting everything on my channel as well . I actually relate to your story. Again congratulations on your house I’m always impressed with your house in Zimbabwe.
I’m a fellow subscriber on your channel I have been watching your videos. You have been making a lot of progress too which is brilliant.
I do follow your channel its really informative and helpful don't worry about the criticism i do face the same. Unfortunately I am not going back to Zimbabwe to please anyone but genuinely for myself. I am really excited about the journey back home lets all stay in touch.
True being Rhoda we see your work and encouragement
Our channel has been monetised 🎉🎉 Congratulations I see them adverts
Yes we have monetised on our channel and it’s thank to your support it really wouldn’t be possible without you and everyone pano 💃🏾💃🏾👏🏿👏🏿
Been following since day 1. Always inspired. We have been in Kings land for a year now, and as u wr saying about discussing and being on the same page rings so true, we discussed wen we came that at one point we need to return back home and stay there so as soon as we settled here we started building slowly back home and it's been amazing. So just know that u are not only inspiring people who have been in the diaspora for a long time, but also the new wave of immigrants. Pamberi nekuvaka
Pamberi nekuvaka ✊🏿. Thank you so much for always coming and tuning in your support is always appreciated.
Thank you, Amai Ziruvi. This is by far the best video you've ever made. That's a very important topic. Vakadzi, if u dont see the vision munotisungira play. M luck my wife quickly saw the vision coz anga atosara. Ndakamuudza kuti wozondibatira kumberi. Luckily akangwarira ngwarira tirikuchimhanya zvinonakidza
I’m glad you think so! Thank you 🙏🏿. I’m glad that you and your wife are now on the same page. I think it sometimes takes the women a little while to see the bigger picture but we get there eventually.
The power of letting go!
That’s the message it’s almost counter intuitive to let go but when you do it things become easier sometimes.
You brought in the marriage dynamics that comes with making this decision and I learnt a lot from it. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Honestly I love your aura Mai Zuu❤. Munongondipa kaHappiness kamwe soo🙂❤️
Thank you my manager at work said something similar today and that made me smile. Thank you Kuda xxx
Thank u for sharing i love the way u are very humble .
You are so welcome 🙏🏿
Cant believe how mature you've become.To me you are still that teen who lived with her mum.Enjoyed your letting go lesson❤
I’ve grown up and matured. I’ve learned a lot about myself and time to time I’m surprised it’s me that young girl 😁
@@TheTandisLivingtheGoodLife You know what I built a house in Harare but Harare has changed so much I would prefare to live where you built yours.Its quieter ,its peaceful
You are doing a great job and keep it up 👍🏾
Thank you for your words of encouragement ❤️
Thanks Mai Zuruvi been a follower in the terraces, my problem and i think with most people is what we are going to do back in Zim that will sustain us as much or as comfortable as it is here in the UK, tinotya kuno broker kkk would you mind sharing with us not really the exact details of how you planned your financial stability and provisions that will sustain you in Zim, but ideas on the time frame it lasted you to trust kuti if we go back home this is what will support your family, the projects you saw are now bringing cash in zim and also the time it took you to save to building your dream house and be left with enough moeny to relocate
I fully 💯 understand what you mean and I guess it comes to down to your personal reasons as to why you are going home and how relocating looks to you for example I know people who come to the UK and work for a few months and go back home. Starting businesses and side hustling is definitely not for everyone. So we will talk about this because when I went home I so some possible ventures for people who wish to do something to make an income so that vasazo broker 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Thank you for coming down the terraces.