Desi running in his yard with his ears flopping up and down is the happiest little dog. Yes to green on the bedroom woodwork. Spend a bit of money on your sun room and . It will bring years of joy. Dressing room soft yellow might be nice.
Hi from Annie thank you for your lovely video and opening your life to us all, love you like a big sister would love to adopt you as my sister I really would. I am 64 and I do think a lot about the future maybe too much, I remind myself take one day at a time. I think you should paint the walls many different colors every room a different color and mood, that is what I have done for years it helps the feel good vibes, bright shades are best. Green or that sunny yellow is nice for the bedroom it matches the quilts. Table clothes are good easy decorating idea so are curtains they are an instant change for any room. As for the garden you can put up a bamboo fence it is cheaper a few posts in the ground then attach the bamboo to them with wire and screws easy job done in one day, you can also spray paint the bamboo to a bright red or any color you like it can be changed often as the garden deco changes etc. I feel inspired watching you and started my U Tube channel over a week ago you can find me at Annie-qu9ik watching you gave me the confidence I still have a lot to learn and need to buy a new camera and mobile other equipment slowly but surely will get there. Also if you buy trees get the larger bigger ones they are mostly or half grown and make good shade and add privacy too. Gives that green feel to the garden. Yes I have let myself do things like eat my fav foods and watch endless romance movies on the internet Hallmark have a good selection amongst others too. We don't need to be perfect at our age we can give ourselves a pat on the back for coming this far and just sit back and relax take it all in, then we realize just how special we all are. Cheers.
You always brighten my day with your words of wisdom. Everything you say is exactly how I feel. It’s so nice to hear someone my age saying things that are going through my thoughts. Thank you for being a best friend to so many of us❤️
Truly a joy to see Desi running around his back yard. I hope he has a little house out there with his name and a letter box for his fan mail. Bless you for caring for him like you do.
Dear Susan your videos are saving me. I have chronic illness and no family here in Tucson, Arizona and just turned 60 years old. Your videos are very comforting and and bring me a lot of joy. I love your new home and yard and enjoy watching you decorate. You have great decorating ideas inside your home and outside. I love little Desi too💖💞
I’m 72 and on my own since being widowed. I made a leap after his passing moving from Ohio to Florida because I always wanted to live in the south. I did not have family in my new town but I eventually found my way. Very happy and secure at this point in my life. You are right that it’s our time and we deserve it. Having a fancy dressing area is like a dessert for your soul. Sounds marvelous 😊
My three priorities are showing my love to my husband of 66 years he brings my meals on a tray, loving our two dogs and connecting with our adult children. My little Shih tzu, named Rascal is the love of my life as Desi is to you. Love your YT!
I’m with your son…privacy fence all the way. I like to sit out & look at my flowers without being the one being watched. Trust me people watch….and that might not bother you. I like that green trim in the picture. I never thought about painting trim like that. Go for it.
Same here. Even if all the neighbors are very nice, privacy with a friendly privacy screen is very important in the garden and balcony area, even for the family and if you just want to sit outside with someone and eat something. I am reassured that it is not only me who feels this way.
Susan - I was confronted with an ugly bare fence. May I suggest that you consider a ‘green’ fence: I planted English ivy, honeysuckle and wisteria right up against the fence. In no time I had a pretty privacy fence that brought in bees, butterflies and hummingbirds! You could then plant your precious spireas in front. And you would‘my need as many, and you would have your privacy a lot sooner!! 👏👏👏👍🙋♀️🥰💕‼️
@@janetstraw191 yes, and I also planted Plumbago which covers most of my fence and produces lovely delicate blue/ violet flowers. I always had plumbago at home growing up, I have planted it everywhere I live. There are a few different types with different flowers, choose your favorite
I am trying to figure out my 1912 farmhouse and 1 acre yard. You could say this is my consolation gift from my husband who is moving on. Trying to fix up house, move my things, pare down my things, deal with my childrens crisis, etc is overwhelming. Right now my kitchen has been gutted and waiting for a remodel. Nothing in the house is in great shape now but I can see the potential and I will be closer to my very young grandchildren. Your videos always inspire me. I will have to think about what to prioritize within my ability to do. I have started on my Queen Bee bedroom. I want to wake up and feel beautiful in this room. I start out with an idea of what I want and the plan changes or evolves with what the house tells me it wants. For instance, the 1940s style kitchen will now be a very elegant Paris inspired kitchen. On a side note: my husband told the children that he hates everything I am planning. It is very hard for me to get his wants and ideas out of my head ( I suppose it will be easier when he leaves) But I remind myself that I am planning for my life as a single woman not his. You have shown us there is a good life after the fork in the road. Thanks.
My priority right now is establishing and re-establishing connections with friends - old and new. I reached out to an old friend and ended up going to lunch with her and her sister and today she invited me to a fun event in a couple of weeks. This might not sound like much but for me it’s huge! I’ve been so isolated starting with covid and then a horrible break up, which actually was a good thing and way overdue but he made it very traumatic. That’s all done and finally things are looking up!
I love the way you show us how to smile through so much of the difficulties in life, and be happy with the smaller things that many of us take for granted... thank you.
Don’t paint the table! Don’t do things too quickly, I find you need to sit back and get used to your new surroundings. Half the fun is looking around and thinking about the many ideas you will have. Enjoy your cottage and garden for what it is and make the most of the moments your in. You look so happy and Desi too. Thank you for another wonderful vlog. Hugs for Desi 🐞
Susan, when you are so open and so honest, you connect in a beautiful way. I love your honesty, and your “just screw it” attitude at times. We are all works in progress, and God willing we get to continue the journey. Today is my 51st anniversary. I know in my heart how blessed I am to be with my forever love and best friend, have my my health, my positive outlook….but with all that said, to too have a bit of social anxiety. And at 71, still wonder what will others think, will I look ok and on, and on and on. Maybe that keeps us on the right track, but we have to give ourselves the grace and understanding we are so generous with, with others. I love your idea of prioritizing your decorating. Knowing what is most important, making those changes, will give you much joy in making your house, truly your home. Have a fabulous week…..hugs to Desi🥰🪴
Susan, you are such a beautiful soul. Thank you, for all of the encouraging words from your heart. My priority is moving forward to finding my new cozy home and fill it with joy and love, that honours me. Have a wonderful week, everyone.
My first priory is to get over the loss of my husband of 47 years. I am living alone the first time in my life in an independent cottage for seniors. Trying to do things by myself for myself at 80 years .
Be careful of the apartment or assisted living places. They all have 2.5 dogs per apartment. I love dogs but that is way too many in a closed environment. Trust me
Thank you for always ending with little Desi in his Dapper bow tie. He just melts my heart! We just did a bunch of work on a backyard patio, pergola, seating and potted flowers. That's it for this summer season. Now we'll take a break, focus on weeding and upkeep. But no new changes til fall. I like to work, stop, enjoy relax.
Desi is smiling at the end. Seriously, he really is and he is so adorable. I think setting priorities is a great way to tackle all of the changes you want to do. Enjoy the process!!
In fact ☺ Thank you for the information. So I looked at the end first, smiled too 🐕🌞🌳and then startet the video from the beginning with my morning coffee😍
You remind me of when I first bought this house. I remember the day I signed the contracts. I was terrified. I was the first time I was doing this alone. This would totally be my responsibility, but when I walked in and used my key for the first time I was excited. I've been here since my 50s. I am now 77, but I'm still changes and renovating. It seems to always be a work in progress. I'm always getting new ideas. Sometimes I have to tell myself "Ria, you need to concentrate on one thing at a time", lol. This summer it's the backyard. I'm cutting things down, making new beds, etc. Hopefully, it will be gorgeous by August.
Desi's eyes just shine! He seems so very happy. Indeed, Susan, there is no rush to decorate, it will come to you in time as you begin to live in the house. It will speak to you. I live in a co-op I bought in 1996 and it was built in 1929. I like art deco and neutral walls, so I chose a light terra cotta for my living room and a yellow -Oklahoma Wheat for my bedroom both were colors I could work with among others. I really dislike the white-grey-black palates on modern homes of today. It seems every designer uses this palate and every house is a "farmhouse", many are not like any farmhouse I knew when I grew up in Indiana and Ohio. My father was born in Michigan and I spent time there too. I love sophisticated colors that I can use as a backdrop for any accents I choose. Take your time, there is no rush and you are already off to a good start. Enjoy the fun you are having. God Bless you and Desi! Jennifer
I agree with your comments about color! The yellow Oklahoma Wheat sounds wonderful. Is this shade from a specific paint co? I'd love to know. Thanks! Elizabeth
Thanks so much Susan for the joy you bring into my life. I too live with a little dog, his name is Happy. I was thinking about the color of your bedroom. How about faded blue jean for the walls and the trim. One color and the room looks bigger. My house needs painting and I'm going to paint the walls and trim all one color. Can't decide what color that will be and it's expensive. I love what the French do with paint. You look very happy in that adorable house. Hope you find a few yummy thrift shops. I love to watch Desi running around his yard. Bless you both.
I have also recently moved. It was a difficult more from the aspect that I left my home that I shared with my husband for 30 years. I am loving my new home, a condo, with lots of fabulous neighbors and many activities. One thing that is a huge priority to me is to find the furniture pieces to complete my sewing and craft room. I can't wait to get it finished, organized and get creative! Thank you for the inspiration!!
I have to agree with your son about the privacy fence. I think they can be good for safety also. Your plants and flowers will look beautiful with the fence in the background. I love your little slice of heaven. So many windows and beautiful light streaming in. And I can’t forget about precious Desi. What joy to see him so happy and free. I’ll bet he passes out at night. ❤
Good to see you doing so well. The house is cute & cozy. Changes & adjustments take some time, so stay busy& you will have a new norm. I am in Columbus , Ohio- widowed 7.5 years now, age 68 I have small home too & 3 cats & a rescued chihuahua, (Felix) not dating-had 41 years of marriage & 2 daughters. It’s not been easy! But, I manage- it helps watch & you tube, all of us are reinventing our lives daily & learning as we go along each day. It’s a blessing to keep moving forward. Thanks Victoria
For your daily decor fir your dining table, you might want to try a beautiful runner. That way you can still see your glass table. Most of all ENJOY yourself in your new home and continue to ENJOY AND TREASURE being YOU. 😊
Hi Susan! I understand exactly what you are saying. My husband and I have been trying to remodel our house of 36 years. We are making progress, but we need to weed out so many things we have accumulated over the years. A lot of it is good stuff, and we kept it thinking we would use it in the future. I also am storing things from my cousin who had to go to a nursing home--more stuff. Now my mother had two mini strokes and has Aphasia. She is in a memory care unit and I am keeping her art work and all of the family pictures, her jewelry, her crafting items, etc.--more stuff. She has decided she does not need most of this stuff where she lives and she will probably never be able to live on her own again. The same goes for my cousin. Now I not only have to weed out my stuff, but all of their stuff while trying to remodel our house. I also want to make a music room downstairs and a sewing room on the other side of the room along with my crafts. I feel like I will never get back to my music. I just turned 70 and time seems to be getting away from me. After thinking it over, my 3 top priorities are 1) weed out mom's stuff to make room for me to get to my stuff. 2) weed out my cousin's stuff in the she shed to make room for other stuff. 3) Move the stuff in my basement around so I can start in one corner and work my way around the room. I have to say writing it down like this has given me inspiration to get started. Sorry this was so long. You always touch a chord in me and I feel like I have to tell you about it. Thanks for sharing your heart. Give Desi a squeeze for me. Carolyn
Our priorities this summer is to get the outside of our house ready to paint. I’ll be 72 years old in September and I’ve been married to my high school sweetheart for almost 54 years. Our kids are going to get together and help us paint. They are awesome people! ❤️
I just love Saturday night even more now seeing your videos! Desi is so precious and just loving his yard so much! He looks like he is smiling as he is running around. Love everything you have done with your new house, it’s a warm and beautiful home! So happy for you and Desi to have made this move and now have your family near you. ❤
Oh Susan. You look fabulous! You have a way of using accessories to give each outfit some extra oomph. During lockdown I started baking bread, cinnamon rolls etc. because, well I had all this time. But I also ate what I baked. Then the restrictions were lifted and I did lose some weight. But, my mother-in-law was diagnosed with Alzheimer's last year. My husband is an only child, so all her care rests on our shoulders. Feeling overwhelmed, hopeless and sad, I began to eat my feelings. I've probably gained 5 - 8 pounds. Not a lot, but I feel it. We're cyclists so that definitely helps but the emotions that cause me to reach for the treats that make me feel better (in the moment) are still there. It's a struggle. Counselling and exercise are definitely helping me gain a better emotional equilibrium. We just have to learn to be kind to ourselves. Do the best we can, and not be so harsh and judgemental when we look in the mirror.
With age often comes a sense of isolation. We lose family and old friends, and lose track of even former colleagues. Thank you for allowing us to share here in the comments, and know we are kind of all in similar situations. Your home is blossoming!!
i agree with you/i believe jesus is watching over susan as well as her mom/i do believe that so much/that our family/and loved ones watch over us//do you?im so happy to have met susan//
Susan...you look GORGEOUS!! Your Hair, makeup, perfect lip color, white top, everything! I think I can see the joy shining through in you! You have a home for you and Desi!! I love the NAVY WALLS!! Navy looks beautiful with your white trim! I have a secret bedroom paint tip for you...your bedroom color will be your joy, peace, and sanctuary color! Make sure you adore it!! I painted my bedroom in this gorgeous soft medium lavendar from Benjamin Moore. Every time I go into my bedroom, I feel instant euphoria!! Can't wait to see what you choose for your bedroom sanctuary color!🎉❤🎉
I'm 66 and single. I'm moving to a new place next month. I've lived in my house for 25 years. I have to admit I'm nervous about moving to a new place and living alone. My priorities for my new home were to be closer to my daughters and grandchildren. Also I wanted a walking friendly neighborhood with good shopping nearby and places to have fun with my grandchildren. It has all those things. The house isn't perfect but it had most of my priorities. I can make changes over time. I so enjoy watching your videos.
Your mother was wise to share that wisdom. It does make life a lot easier to practice that from the start and not wait until we are in the later part of life. You go, girl, give yourself a huge hug.
@@mableannelliott5392 thank you Mable Ann. I think this was her wish for herself growing up! I loved that she imparted that to all of her daughters. Encouraging us in ways she wasn’t.
Susan, we all need to do something for ourselves that makes us feel special. I decided a long time ago that if I was going to be alone I was going to make my home the comfortable and pretty that I could afford. Most of the items in my home have been curated over time as second hand, thrift store finds or handmade by myself, my daughter or the two of us together.
I'm glad you are keeping the glass table. Like I said before, you inspired me to want a glass table. It is beautiful. You are so creative with your flowers that you table is beautiful and different all the time.
I am 72. Love watching you and dossier. Your house is truly looking like a home. What matters is what makes you happy. And your surroundings is where you spend most of your time. It is always fun to see how you have done the decor..
❤ At 12:45 You talk about anxiety 😢 I feel that way every time I want to go out If you're in a new neighborhood and don't really know any other women And maybe there aren't any as pretty as you, the anxiety will come al. It's hard for you to be the most glamorous one around, so I eventually had to stop dressing in my favorite , beautiful clothes 😢 It's depressing fr me
Thanks for saying "I will figure it out." Sometimes I feel so driven to get everything done all at once, and when I can't, I beat myself up. My priority is to get my fence repaired, replace my floors, and paint. Please hug and kiss Desi for me...oh, I would love to see a "Day in the Life of Desi"! I just cannot get enough of that little guy! 😍🤩😘
Yards take years to cultivate, it will come together in time. But you have that lovely sunroom to gaze upon and enjoy for now. I don't think we've seen you or Desi happier. Neither of you can wipe the smiles off your faces. Does a heart good. Love to you both. Laurie
Susan I am so Happy for you and Desi, the little dog who started living life in a closet until you rescued him! I wish you all the best and May you live Happily Ever After in you beautiful cottage home! ❤
PS: I thought about this for several years… window boxes at the front windows of the house…. I couldn’t decide if they would be tacky or not. My house is little and about the same age as yours. Finally I figured out that if the boxes were well made, nothing flimsy, it would work. I painted them to match my trim and I got even braver and put up matching shutters on either side of the windows. Wow, what a big improvement that was. I keep the boxes over flowing with flowers in the summer. I even put winter plants in them, they’re never empty.
Please show more of Desi in his backyard. Love it!! He looks better now than he ever has!! He was the most blessed little dog when YOU rescued him, Susan!!! 💕💕 You both have come so far!!! God bless you two!!
Yes, setting realistic goals for your new home is essential. But you need to give yourself A LOT of credit for how much you have already accomplished in your new home!! it all looks beautiful. Most gardeners will tell you to live in a new property for a whole year before making major changes to the backyard. It gives time to watch the seasonal changes, how the light plays through the day, and time to evaluate how you will use the space. I love that you have Desi to bring you playful joy.
I have a patio home with a Privacy fence. I must say, it gives me peace. I take my book, my tea and my dog Max and relax. It’s my own world. I can hear the neighbors but my mind tells me they are elsewhere. I don’t think I would enjoy my place as much without the fence. When I look up from my book, I see flowers and all I cherish and not see the neighbors yard and all I would do if it were mine
I can’t believe how beautifully decorated your home is already and you just moved in. It’s gorgeous. Take your time on the home “to do” list. Never rush that because it slowly comes together with special thought and time. I think it’s gorgeous already. I agree with your son. I would want a more private yard. I would make that my priority. but at least you have a beautiful sun room. You did good. I forget how far you moved from where to where.
Completely love the idea of painting the trim in your bedroom, the picture of the green trim, I thought it was perfect! My priority for my home is to stop getting so overwhelmed. Everything needs done. So the second thing is to stop worrying about all the painting and landscaping and I’m taking the summer off to just read, stitch something, and learn to relax again. 3rd thing is to learn the fine art of doing nothing very slowly!
I painted my bedroom periwinkle and my ceiling lavender...trim white...when I wake up..I feel like I'm in my garden with some of my favorite color flowers It just makes me feel alive when I wake
I live in a cottage in a little river town where I was born 68 years ago. My husband agreed to move here when we were married because I love this little town so much. It isn't very picturesque but I still love it. Anyway, we have lived in the same house now for 31 years. (second marriage for both of us). My priorities for this summer. 1. Take care of my flowers in my yard. 2. Make sure my house is a welcoming home. 3. Eat healthier so I can enjoy life even more. I feel this can be the best summer yet! God Bless you and Desi and keep enjoying your new home and being close to your grandchildren.
Susan your glass dining room table is beautiful - it is light and airy and fits perfectly in your beautiful cottage. My little Tink loves Desi she barks and runs around when she sees him. So happy for you - good for you moving closer to your family - little ones grow up so quickly and you being part of their lives will mean more to them than you can ever imagine. My grandson are 13 thru 17 and they still want me to participate in their lives.
Love your rustic table behind your sofa. You could put a pretty runner on your dining room table. You could just paint one wall in your bedroom behind your bed as the accent wall if you want. Then carry that color into your hallway. Your home is beautiful Susan. You’ll get there… it all takes time. 💖
I'm living with my twin sister. My priorities are to stay healthy, treat myself out to dinner occasionally, and spend as much time in nature as possible.
It took me almost three years to make my backyard look good and now it looks absolutely stunning. It takes time and I know Susan that your backyard will look amazing 🤗 enjoy every minute of making your new life in your new beautiful home.
This time of year, my focus is my yard and deck. I so enjoy planting bulbs. Yes, that grow tall along my fence line. Bright purples, pinks, and yellows. I place many colorful pots of flowers and hanging baskets on my deck and turn my fountain on. It attracts the hummingbirds. After my yard is ready I enjoy the fruits of my labor with luncheons and coffee time with friends. Join a coffee or book or photoclub. Make new friends and invite them over. I see the best hostess in you.😊
I am loving seeing you so happy and enjoying this journey. I am more than ten years older and from Kentucky, but feel like we have so much in common in loving nature, decorating and life. I have had a new house that I started redecorating before moving in -all builder’s white. I wanted some color - pale gold in living areas with pale terracotta on an accent wall in foyer and above the fireplace. Bedroom/bathroom is an aqua, the color of water in my thinking which I love. Then COVID hit, didn’t do anything else. Then I lost my son, my whole life, so there have been three years that I never even went there. I had almost decided to have everything repainted in the all off white neutral tones we see so much of and buy all off white furniture. It would be safe and not have to put much thought into it. Then, being here with the subtle colors that I had previously chosen, I realized these colors make me happy. I think we both like the warm colors. I am so happy and interested in seeing your color choices. I think I will always want the white woodwork, but I looking forward to seeing how you style your bedroom. Brightens my day to see you so happy!! Hug Desi and enjoy!!
I love Susan's little nuggets of wisdom because i always see me in there ,thank you, i look forward to Saturdays, it's like chatting with my best friend , sending lots of love to you and precious little Desi 🐶 💞💫💐🌹🌻
First thing tomorrow, I am buying a red pot for my plant! Right now it's in a dark green pot. After seeing your red one.....I gotta have a red pot!!! Susan, you are absolutely adorable. Your home is wonderful and you are happy, happy! Love your sunroom and all the wonderful plants and 40's colors and prints. Your bedroom is so cozy and warm. Love the mini lights in the corner plant, too. I've been watching you for years. Always loved the trips to thrift stores and all the products you would tell us about! Here's the thing, you look thirty years younger than what you say! Watching Desi romp around the yard is priceless! Almost forgot: YES, your son is right. A privacy fence is a must!
My husband passed away a little over a month ago. Your videos are wonderful for me. I’m being kind to myself. I sit out in my backyard as long as I want in the evening. I eat what I want. And I’m learning to say no if it’s something I don’t want to do. Thank you for what you do. You are a inspiration
Oh dear....I am so sorry for your loss...I am so happy you are being kind to yourself....this is your time to think and heal....everything can wait,,,sending much love to you Carolyn....Susan & Desi
I painted my bedroom yellow and I woke up every morning happy, a light yellow. Paint can always be changed, a light blue is also a very peaceful color reminds me of coastal decor. Also planting plants, gardenia bush, hibiscus in red makes me happy. My dear you are beautiful and you should have your dressing room glamorous ❤
I have lived in my manufactured home approx 9 years since my divorce and only lately, been able to afford to build a front porch overhang and a large new deck. Now planting out front, and bought beautiful large potted plants for my deck. Fairy lights in porch lanterns make everything outdoors cozy. My hips and knees hurt, but I love it outside.This fall and winter will work inside and start by painting my walls. Thank you for your generous ideas and beautiful decor throughout. ❤️
I get blown away every time I see Desi at the end of your vlog. It's his eyes! Hey girl, I'm eighty and been practicing what you're doing and love watching your vlogs showing others its possible to live a good life at any age.
I don't think I've ever felt as alone as i do right now. 20 years ago my parents died. They left their bungalow to me and my older brother. For financial reasons, we now live together in the bungalow.....and here's the BUT.....my brother is a hoarder. Not only did he hoard into the house, in the 15 years he lived here alone, but also into the front and back gardens....every square inch. I haven't set foot in the back garden for nearly 20 years and the front garden is so bad that i stick to a very narrow pathway if I leave the house. Two years ago, before he cleared that small path, i fell over a box of his stuff. I new it was going to be a bad fall. I broke my nose and had deep lacerations requiring surgery. I also broke my dominant hand (i am an artist 💔) so now drawing and painting is more challenging. In the home i have two rooms....my bedroom and the bedroom that my son had before he moved to London last year. He moved because the hoarding and my brother's attitude was taking its toll on his mental health. He told me he will never come back here. He's so angry with my brother. It's more difficult for me because i love my brother, but i am at my wit's end. I don't want to die like this 😭 i want a little garden to sit in .... I want to be able to have friends over. I haven't celebrated Christmas for several years now, and i used to love Christmas. I'm 57 and have arthritis. I don't know what to do to make a home out of this disaster. My dad built this house...he was a builder...he built the house and landscaped the most beautiful garden and now it is ruined...filled with old car parts, engines...scrap metal....toasters he won't part with...chairs that are broken. I can't even express how bad it is. He has filled every conceivable space. I'm in the uk....ive contacted environmental health, the citizen's advice bureau, I've tried so many things and no one seems to be able to make him clear it up. If he dies before me, i don't know how i will tackle it all. In the back garden is a mobile home that my grandma used to live in....he filled it so full the floor fell through and there are 5 sheds that are also full. When his old car broke, it remained in the garden and now that is filled up. I can't legally force him to sell because of a clause in our parents' will. He can't afford to buy me out and i can't afford to rent somewhere else. Sometimes i feel i can't go on but then i think of my son. I am all he has. I know I'm still luckier than a lot of people, i have a roof over my head and my country is not at war, but life is difficult. On a positive note, i do have a beautiful cat, called Shirley and fairy lights in my bedroom 😁👌🏼💕
Thank you so much for sharing your life...I can feel your pain. Your brother is making your life so hard...I would keep making noise to the authorities...it is half your home but all his mess and he is destroying your happiness. I wish I could help but I have faith that this is going to work out for you and your beautiful cat! I am saying prayers and sending you so much love...I so want you to have your beautiful garden. My love to you, Susan
Seeing Desi run is so sweet!! My one priority right now is to take advantage of my pool, instead of just floating around in it, I'm going to go out in the AM and exercise in it to help get my body in better shape!
Hi Susan. I always appreciate all the effort you put into your videos. I have an idea. When you show things with music in the background, maybe you should play your singing instead of someone else's. That would be a treat for us. I think your ideas for your home are wonderful.
I am so happy seeing your posts in the new house. BTW don't get rid of your glass table. A wooden one will make the room darker and look crowded. Everything looks awesome. Little Desi makes me so happy.
The first thing my sister did when she purchased her house A great alarm system And new curtains She just wanted to be safe ❤❤ Everything looks beautiful Dezi is such a sweetheart ❤❤
I love your optimism and encouragement…I’m 68 too…and I’ve had a great change in my life. Thank you Susan for your uplifting videos! Much love to you and your little buddy! 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺
I think with your bedding, a moss green wall behind the bed would be such a brave ,out of the box statement. Its only paint! ALso I woukd leave the sofa table its rustic style. Rooms aren't interesting without a little juxtaposition. New,,old,,shiney, matte, rough,, smooth , layers, textures. I would definitely put a privacy fence in the backyard. Even a slatted one would give some sense of intimacy in your sweet garden. Also I have learned sometimes... not to go and buy a ton of little plants, but invest in a larger, achor shrub or tree. These set the bones of the garden and establish a sense of maturity. Then go crazy with the annual color or small pennerials as the seasons come and go. Can't wait to see all your progress, both inside and out. What fun to have projects and visions to delight our minds.
Oh my goodness, Desi is really smiling at the end of the video! More of his teeth are showing, and he looks even more relaxed. I think the transitions you are so graciously sharing with us are amazing and uplifting, and it's affecting you, Desi, your family, and who knows who and what else. I love your new quilt and your plan for your bedroom. Your rustic sofa table is terrific. I wouldn't paint it. I love what you said about feeling more glamourous upstairs. I'm going to take that to heart, as I have focused more on practicality rather than glamour. I'm inspired by you, and want more glamour in my life! Love to you and Desi 💗
My priorities right now are having time to enjoy my house. My front porch, back patio, gardens, kitchen; making homemade pickles or having salmon steak or just enjoying the fruits of my garden! Fresh lettuces, radishes, cucumbers and peppers in a few weeks, fresh tomatoes and basil; nasturtium flowers. Stuff I used to consider humdrum and boring is now exciting and comforting. Enjoying the little things, the simple things; a meal, a cup of tea, just sitting enjoying the breezes before it gets too hot! Tending my gardens, watering, weeding, cultivating, saving seeds. Now that my house is pretty much done the way I want, I want time to enjoy it all.
Oh, Susan, you feel like an old friend. Your backyard is going to be great it takes time, and those beautiful plants will look gorgeous when they are up full height. Take your time, yes, be good to yourself. we're here for you. The distressed couch table looks great on its own it's beautiful, and you are a beautiful soul. And Desi is loving his new yard😊
You ARE beautiful Susan! A totally beautiful soul! I think most of us ladies can relate to your feelings! I look forward to all of your videos. I'm alone so much and you make me feel like I'm with my girlfriends! God bless you dear Susan!❤
Susan, you may not like all the walls in your new house being white, but I loved your white outfit and how you just glowed in it, with your jewelry and hair. I think it’s the best you may have ever looked! It must be from all that fresh air you are getting working in your yard. You are absolutely right about setting realistic priorities when there seems to be so much that has to get done. Was exactly what I needed to be reminded of. Has Desi made friends with other dogs in the neighborhood yet? I’ve found that as much as my dogs loved a back yard, they still wanted and needed our daily walks. He does seem to have adjusted to the move very well.
You did grow up to be beautiful, inside and out! Little Desi looks SO happy, how sweet he is! My priority right now is to heal my body and my spirit. Then I'll see. Thanks again for your inspiration Susan, it's very much appreciated.
Isn’t everyone different? I wanted my apartment all white and my son-in-law thought I was absolutely mad but when he finished it, he looked around and said oh wow this is so bright and so pretty and it was. I can use all sorts of colours it’s like painting, a watercolour on white paper, I love it. I love colours. Every few years I get a little bit tired of what I have and I want to change things around . I found with white walls and all I have to do is change accessories so people come into my house and they say wow what have you done? what have I done?I bought new cushions. Different colour scheme, but still fits in with my overall colours. So easy with white walls. Anyway,everybody has their own opinion and that’s mine. Your place looks beautiful and that’s what counts.
I love seeing Desi running around his backyard. I so look forward to your weekly videos. Such a breath of fresh air in this crazy world. I am your age and have made myself a priority for the first time. After years of looking after everyone else I now look after me first. That is a good thing.
I don't have a fenced yard either. I can see my neighbors. They can see me. My priority for some time now has been my landscaping. I'm trying to make my little patch of the world a prettier place. I'm close to the end. I'm happy with the plants I've chosen and I'm happy with where I planted them. Now it's time to let them mature and tend to them. This is what I'm hoping will be the easier part of gardening. Getting to know all my plants and learning what each one needs from me. My second priority is inside my house. I have started some remodeling, but it is not yet finished. I hope to get that done in the next couple of years. By then, I will be 62 and I can focus more on me and less on garden/house. I can focus on relaxing morning and evening routines, enjoying the home I've created, time with my family members, and more travel and fun activities.. Great video today (and always). I appreciate and enjoy your company and look forward to seeing you every Saturday.
Desi looks so happy & free running around in his back yard. He is the cutest little fur baby. Decorating a home takes time and so far you have great ideas. Thank you for sharing
Your happiness is infectious. There is definitely a beach vibe going on with your rustic side table. I would love to hear one of the conversations you have with your grandson while you’re both out digging in the garden. His thoughts on having his beautiful Nana and Desi living right beside him. Ask him what he thinks how you should decorate your garden space. Nana’s new life through the eyes of a little boy.
I was just thinking about you and there you were. I'm 72 and ready to go get my new place in October this year. You have a beautiful home for you and Desi. Have a blessed day 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Desi makes me want a dog of my own. He is so precious and must give you so much joy - and good company. Your personality is vibrant - that's why you need pops of color around you! In your quilt is a very soft blue (I think its blue) - that would be lovely and very soothing for sleep. Bad yards develop over time - don't rush yourself. Spireas grow quickly. Visiting with you is like listening to a good friend. Thank you!
Great hearing how your dealt with your anxiety by dropping the strict diet rules and letting go when you first moved into your apartment, but like you, I'm worried about the long-term effects of junk food. Those were indeed "the good old years" of TV with Dr Frasier Krane, etc., staying up late to watch whatever, when life was new and our whole life was ahead of us. Keep going Susan, you're so inspirational! Your insight and forward vision are what makes your channel stand out.
Dear Susan, you have a very beautiful soul. I am living in a House in Northern Germany with my husband and daughter. We were keeping things, like clothes, toys of my 17 year old. Like old handbags, all kinds of stuff. So, your Dressing room was like a mess, full of things. Same goes for the bureau, and utility room downstears. And you know what, I am starting to let go. And It makes me happy. And you are right, you have to set priorities. So we started with the dressing room and we disposed quite a lot of things. It gives me room and a kind of freedom inside. Thank you so much for your beautiful videos. Take care. Susanne
Susan, You're beautiful and I so look forward to your channel. =) I love your content! I just turned 45 yrs last week and the spirit of your mind is so inspiring to me, thank you!!
1. You did grow up to be "pretty like them." 2. Gardening is a process that takes patience. Frugal gardeners, like me, accept cuttings and divisions from friends and plant perennials that spread. I am reducing my lawn for eco as well as labor reasons, and each year I expand the perennial beds a bit more. Thank you for being a light in the world.
Desi running in his yard with his ears flopping up and down is the happiest little dog. Yes to green on the bedroom woodwork. Spend a bit of money on your sun room and . It will bring years of joy. Dressing room soft yellow might be nice.
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Yes! Watching Desi in his new yard is the best!!!❤❤❤
You make me feel better about who I am. I'm still trying to remember exactly who I was but I'm working on it. Thank you.. Carol ❤
Hi from Annie thank you for your lovely video and opening your life to us all, love you like a big sister would love to adopt you as my sister I really would. I am 64 and I do think a lot about the future maybe too much, I remind myself take one day at a time. I think you should paint the walls many different colors every room a different color and mood, that is what I have done for years it helps the feel good vibes, bright shades are best. Green or that sunny yellow is nice for the bedroom it matches the quilts. Table clothes are good easy decorating idea so are curtains they are an instant change for any room. As for the garden you can put up a bamboo fence it is cheaper a few posts in the ground then attach the bamboo to them with wire and screws easy job done in one day, you can also spray paint the bamboo to a bright red or any color you like it can be changed often as the garden deco changes etc. I feel inspired watching you and started my U Tube channel over a week ago you can find me at Annie-qu9ik watching you gave me the confidence I still have a lot to learn and need to buy a new camera and mobile other equipment slowly but surely will get there.
Also if you buy trees get the larger bigger ones they are mostly or half grown and make good shade and add privacy too. Gives that green feel to the garden. Yes I have let myself do things like eat my fav foods and watch endless romance movies on the internet Hallmark have a good selection amongst others too. We don't need to be perfect at our age we can give ourselves a pat on the back for coming this far and just sit back and relax take it all in, then we realize just how special we all are. Cheers.
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Who hit the thumbs up before the video started? Me!!! Susan never disappoints! ❤️
You're right!🥳
Cathy, I’m with you on that score!! Susan is amazing!!😍😍😍😍
Me too👍
Oh Cathy!!! You are so sweet!!! I give you 2 thumbs up always!!! Desi has all 4 paws up too!!
Me too!
You always brighten my day with your words of wisdom. Everything you say is exactly how I feel. It’s so nice to hear someone my age saying things that are going through my thoughts. Thank you for being a best friend to so many of us❤️
Truly a joy to see Desi running around his back yard. I hope he has a little house out there with his name and a letter box for his fan mail. Bless you for caring for him like you do.
Dear Susan your videos are saving me. I have chronic illness and no family here in Tucson, Arizona and just turned 60 years old. Your videos are very comforting and and bring me a lot of joy. I love your new home and yard and enjoy watching you decorate. You have great decorating ideas inside your home and outside.
I love little Desi too💖💞
I’m 72 and on my own since being widowed. I made a leap after his passing moving from Ohio to Florida because I always wanted to live in the south. I did not have family in my new town but I eventually found my way. Very happy and secure at this point in my life. You are right that it’s our time and we deserve it. Having a fancy dressing area is like a dessert for your soul. Sounds marvelous 😊
"Dessert for your soul"!!!!! Oh my gosh I love that!
@@Roni90317 So do I!!! You are a woman after my own heart! Enjoy!!!
My three priorities are showing my love to my husband of 66 years he brings my meals on a tray, loving our two dogs and connecting with our adult children. My little Shih tzu, named Rascal is the love of my life as Desi is to you. Love your YT!
I’m with your son…privacy fence all the way. I like to sit out & look at my flowers without being the one being watched. Trust me people watch….and that might not bother you. I like that green trim in the picture. I never thought about painting trim like that. Go for it.
Same here! I’m no spring chicken either and I may not be around in 5 years! I want some privacy in the back yard now!
Same here. Even if all the neighbors are very nice, privacy with a friendly privacy screen is very important in the garden and balcony area, even for the family and if you just want to sit outside with someone and eat something. I am reassured that it is not only me who feels this way.
I love the green trim in the bedroom as well…magazine-picture worthy!
WHEN I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF , THATS A GOOD DAY!
Don't paint the table behind your couch, it looks wonderful just like it is. You're doing such a great job on your house and yard.
YES! Please don’t paint that table - that will totally ruin it’s character!👍
Susan - I was confronted with an ugly bare fence. May I suggest that you consider a ‘green’ fence: I planted English ivy, honeysuckle and wisteria right up against the fence. In no time I had a pretty privacy fence that brought in bees, butterflies and hummingbirds! You could then plant your precious spireas in front. And you would‘my need as many, and you would have your privacy a lot sooner!! 👏👏👏👍🙋♀️🥰💕‼️
@@janetstraw191 "Janet, I bet your garden, looks & smells Wonderful!"😊😊🌼🌺🌷
@@janetstraw191 yes, and I also planted Plumbago which covers most of my fence and produces lovely delicate blue/ violet flowers. I always had plumbago at home growing up, I have planted it everywhere I live. There are a few different types with different flowers, choose your favorite
@@wildhorses6817 Thank you so much! I hadn’t thought of that but will certainly try to add it! 🙋♀️🥰👍
I am trying to figure out my 1912 farmhouse and 1 acre yard. You could say this is my consolation gift from my husband who is moving on. Trying to fix up house, move my things, pare down my things, deal with my childrens crisis, etc is overwhelming. Right now my kitchen has been gutted and waiting for a remodel. Nothing in the house is in great shape now but I can see the potential and I will be closer to my very young grandchildren. Your videos always inspire me. I will have to think about what to prioritize within my ability to do. I have started on my Queen Bee bedroom. I want to wake up and feel beautiful in this room.
I start out with an idea of what I want and the plan changes or evolves with what the house tells me it wants. For instance, the 1940s style kitchen will now be a very elegant Paris inspired kitchen.
On a side note: my husband told the children that he hates everything I am planning. It is very hard for me to get his wants and ideas out of my head ( I suppose it will be easier when he leaves) But I remind myself that I am planning for my life as a single woman not his. You have shown us there is a good life after the fork in the road. Thanks.
My priority right now is establishing and re-establishing connections with friends - old and new. I reached out to an old friend and ended up going to lunch with her and her sister and today she invited me to a fun event in a couple of weeks. This might not sound like much but for me it’s huge! I’ve been so isolated starting with covid and then a horrible break up, which actually was a good thing and way overdue but he made it very traumatic. That’s all done and finally things are looking up!
I love the way you show us how to smile through so much of the difficulties in life, and be happy with the smaller things that many of us take for granted... thank you.
Don’t paint the table! Don’t do things too quickly, I find you need to sit back and get used to your new surroundings. Half the fun is looking around and thinking about the many ideas you will have. Enjoy your cottage and garden for what it is and make the most of the moments your in. You look so happy and Desi too. Thank you for another wonderful vlog. Hugs for Desi 🐞
Yes, sit back and live with it for awhile before changing things.
Susan, when you are so open and so honest, you connect in a beautiful way. I love your honesty, and your “just screw it” attitude at times. We are all works in progress, and God willing we get to continue the journey. Today is my 51st anniversary. I know in my heart how blessed I am to be with my forever love and best friend, have my my health, my positive outlook….but with all that said, to too have a bit of social anxiety. And at 71, still wonder what will others think, will I look ok and on, and on and on. Maybe that keeps us on the right track, but we have to give ourselves the grace and understanding we are so generous with, with others. I love your idea of prioritizing your decorating. Knowing what is most important, making those changes, will give you much joy in making your house, truly your home. Have a fabulous week…..hugs to Desi🥰🪴
Susan, you are such a beautiful soul. Thank you, for all of the encouraging words from your heart.
My priority is moving forward to finding my new cozy home and fill it with joy and love, that honours me.
Have a wonderful week, everyone.
I hope you find your cozy place
thank you, MableAnn - and I hope too you find your cozy Place🌺🌼
Thank you , you too are obviously a kind soul🎉
@@jacquelinehillson9589, Your comment is appreciated. Thank you, and right back at ya.
My first priory is to get over the loss of my husband of 47 years. I am living alone the first time in my life in an independent cottage for seniors. Trying to do things by myself for myself at 80 years .
Be careful of the apartment or assisted living places. They all have 2.5 dogs per apartment. I love dogs but that is way too many in a closed environment. Trust me
Prayers for your heart to find peace and joy again❤
Sending hugs 🌻
Thank you for always ending with little Desi in his Dapper bow tie. He just melts my heart! We just did a bunch of work on a backyard patio, pergola, seating and potted flowers. That's it for this summer season. Now we'll take a break, focus on weeding and upkeep. But no new changes til fall. I like to work, stop, enjoy relax.
I absolutely love your sunroom and I agree with making that a priority. You can enjoy that every day, regardless of the weather or the season.
Desi is smiling at the end. Seriously, he really is and he is so adorable. I think setting priorities is a great way to tackle all of the changes you want to do. Enjoy the process!!
He is!!!
Yes....I noticed Desi smiling too!! 😊
In fact ☺ Thank you for the information. So I looked at the end first, smiled too 🐕🌞🌳and then startet the video from the beginning with my morning coffee😍
That house was a home the minute you signed the papers!
You remind me of when I first bought this house. I remember the day I signed the contracts. I was terrified. I was the first time I was doing this alone. This would totally be my responsibility, but when I walked in and used my key for the first time I was excited. I've been here since my 50s. I am now 77, but I'm still changes and renovating. It seems to always be a work in progress. I'm always getting new ideas. Sometimes I have to tell myself "Ria, you need to concentrate on one thing at a time", lol. This summer it's the backyard. I'm cutting things down, making new beds, etc. Hopefully, it will be gorgeous by August.
Desi's eyes just shine! He seems so very happy. Indeed, Susan, there is no rush to decorate, it will come to you in time as you begin to live in the house. It will speak to you. I live in a co-op I bought in 1996 and it was built in 1929. I like art deco and neutral walls, so I chose a light terra cotta for my living room and a yellow -Oklahoma Wheat for my bedroom both were colors I could work with among others. I really dislike the white-grey-black palates on modern homes of today. It seems every designer uses this palate and every house is a "farmhouse", many are not like any farmhouse I knew when I grew up in Indiana and Ohio. My father was born in Michigan and I spent time there too. I love sophisticated colors that I can use as a backdrop for any accents I choose. Take your time, there is no rush and you are already off to a good start. Enjoy the fun you are having. God Bless you and Desi! Jennifer
I agree with your comments about color! The yellow Oklahoma Wheat sounds wonderful. Is this shade from a specific paint co? I'd love to know. Thanks! Elizabeth
I knew a decorator friend who used a soft terracotta in each room. It went with everything and was beautiful and warm.
Thanks so much Susan for the joy you bring into my life. I too live with a little dog, his name is Happy. I was thinking about the color of your bedroom. How about faded blue jean for the walls and the trim. One color and the room looks bigger. My house needs painting and I'm going to paint the walls and trim all one color. Can't decide what color that will be and it's expensive. I love what the French do with paint. You look very happy in that adorable house. Hope you find a few yummy thrift shops. I love to watch Desi running around his yard. Bless you both.
I have also recently moved. It was a difficult more from the aspect that I left my home that I shared with my husband for 30 years. I am loving my new home, a condo, with lots of fabulous neighbors and many activities. One thing that is a huge priority to me is to find the furniture pieces to complete my sewing and craft room. I can't wait to get it finished, organized and get creative! Thank you for the inspiration!!
I have to agree with your son about the privacy fence. I think they can be good for safety also. Your plants and flowers will look beautiful with the fence in the background. I love your little slice of heaven. So many windows and beautiful light streaming in. And I can’t forget about precious Desi. What joy to see him so happy and free. I’ll bet he passes out at night. ❤
I agree with your son. It is safer for a privacy fence. If you find a handyman, it would not be too expensive.
I would not fence all, Desi just found some new friends.
Good to see you doing so well. The house is cute & cozy. Changes & adjustments take some time, so stay busy& you will have a new norm. I am in Columbus , Ohio- widowed 7.5 years now, age 68 I have small home too & 3 cats & a rescued chihuahua, (Felix) not dating-had 41 years of marriage & 2 daughters. It’s not been easy! But, I manage- it helps watch & you tube, all of us are reinventing our lives daily & learning as we go along each day. It’s a blessing to keep moving forward. Thanks Victoria
Yes you definately need a Glamourous Hollywood Room. That is you for sure.
For your daily decor fir your dining table, you might want to try a beautiful runner. That way you can still see your glass table. Most of all ENJOY yourself in your new home and continue to ENJOY AND TREASURE being YOU. 😊
Hi Susan! I understand exactly what you are saying. My husband and I have been trying to remodel our house of 36 years. We are making progress, but we need to weed out so many things we have accumulated over the years. A lot of it is good stuff, and we kept it thinking we would use it in the future. I also am storing things from my cousin who had to go to a nursing home--more stuff. Now my mother had two mini strokes and has Aphasia. She is in a memory care unit and I am keeping her art work and all of the family pictures, her jewelry, her crafting items, etc.--more stuff. She has decided she does not need most of this stuff where she lives and she will probably never be able to live on her own again. The same goes for my cousin. Now I not only have to weed out my stuff, but all of their stuff while trying to remodel our house. I also want to make a music room downstairs and a sewing room on the other side of the room along with my crafts. I feel like I will never get back to my music. I just turned 70 and time seems to be getting away from me. After thinking it over, my 3 top priorities are 1) weed out mom's stuff to make room for me to get to my stuff. 2) weed out my cousin's stuff in the she shed to make room for other stuff. 3) Move the stuff in my basement around so I can start in one corner and work my way around the room. I have to say writing it down like this has given me inspiration to get started. Sorry this was so long. You always touch a chord in me and I feel like I have to tell you about it. Thanks for sharing your heart. Give Desi a squeeze for me. Carolyn
Gardens and homes evolve over time. I was always a “I want it yesterday” girl but now I’m a bit more patient.
Our priorities this summer is to get the outside of our house ready to paint. I’ll be 72 years old in September and I’ve been married to my high school sweetheart for almost 54 years. Our kids are going to get together and help us paint. They are awesome people! ❤️
Sounds like a wonderful family coming together to help. Like in the old days. 😊💖💐
@@gaildela5710 Yes, we are blessed! They really take care of us!
There is an old gardening poem about planting….First year sleeping, second year creeping, third year leaping….that aptly describes shrubs and trees.
I love Desi sooooo much! Every time I see his precious face, and his expressions, I just almost cry because he's in heaven with you!🎉❤❤
Oh yes, Desi is so happy...I have never seen a dog love his backyard so much!!!
I, too, share that love of Desi. He makes me happy, because you have made his little life sooo happy!
I just love Saturday night even more now seeing your videos! Desi is so precious and just loving his yard so much! He looks like he is smiling as he is running around. Love everything you have done with your new house, it’s a warm and beautiful home! So happy for you and Desi to have made this move and now have your family near you. ❤
Ah thank you for your sweet words!!! Happy weekend to you my friend, Susan & Desi
Oh Susan. You look fabulous! You have a way of using accessories to give each outfit some extra oomph.
During lockdown I started baking bread, cinnamon rolls etc. because, well I had all this time. But I also ate what I baked. Then the restrictions were lifted and I did lose some weight. But, my mother-in-law was diagnosed with Alzheimer's last year. My husband is an only child, so all her care rests on our shoulders. Feeling overwhelmed, hopeless and sad, I began to eat my feelings. I've probably gained 5 - 8 pounds. Not a lot, but I feel it. We're cyclists so that definitely helps but the emotions that cause me to reach for the treats that make me feel better (in the moment) are still there. It's a struggle. Counselling and exercise are definitely helping me gain a better emotional equilibrium. We just have to learn to be kind to ourselves. Do the best we can, and not be so harsh and judgemental when we look in the mirror.
With age often comes a sense of isolation. We lose family and old friends, and lose track of even former colleagues. Thank you for allowing us to share here in the comments, and know we are kind of all in similar situations. Your home is blossoming!!
i agree with you/i believe jesus is watching over susan as well as her mom/i do believe that so much/that our family/and loved ones watch over us//do you?im so happy to have met susan//
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I think the same thing every time l watch Susan’s videos . She has a lot of love aimed at her from above 🥰
That is so true. It's nice hearing from others. And as we age there really is an isolation. It can be hard. Great ladies here.
After so much time my house and garden are just the way I want them, and I can maintain and clean and just enjoy. I’m 67.
Susan...you look GORGEOUS!! Your Hair, makeup, perfect lip color, white top, everything! I think I can see the joy shining through in you! You have a home for you and Desi!! I love the NAVY WALLS!! Navy looks beautiful with your white trim! I have a secret bedroom paint tip for you...your bedroom color will be your joy, peace, and sanctuary color! Make sure you adore it!! I painted my bedroom in this gorgeous soft medium lavendar from Benjamin Moore. Every time I go into my bedroom, I feel instant euphoria!! Can't wait to see what you choose for your bedroom sanctuary color!🎉❤🎉
I'm 66 and single. I'm moving to a new place next month. I've lived in my house for 25 years. I have to admit I'm nervous about moving to a new place and living alone. My priorities for my new home were to be closer to my daughters and grandchildren. Also I wanted a walking friendly neighborhood with good shopping nearby and places to have fun with my grandchildren. It has all those things. The house isn't perfect but it had most of my priorities. I can make changes over time. I so enjoy watching your videos.
My mother always told me “be good to yourself”. Not always easy to do, but I loved that advice. Loved seeing Desi in his yard! Such a happy boy. 🐶❤️
I'm so glad that you had such a wise mother. You were blessed. ❤
@@smlorrin thank you kindly. I was blessed for sure. ❤️
Your mother was wise to share that wisdom. It does make life a lot easier to practice that from the start and not wait until we are in the later part of life. You go, girl, give yourself a huge hug.
@@mableannelliott5392 thank you Mable Ann. I think this was her wish for herself growing up! I loved that she imparted that to all of her daughters. Encouraging us in ways she wasn’t.
Susan, we all need to do something for ourselves that makes us feel special. I decided a long time ago that if I was going to be alone I was going to make my home the comfortable and pretty that I could afford. Most of the items in my home have been curated over time as second hand, thrift store finds or handmade by myself, my daughter or the two of us together.
I like the way you think!
I'm glad you are keeping the glass table. Like I said before, you inspired me to want a glass table. It is beautiful. You are so creative with your flowers that you table is beautiful and different all the time.
I am 72. Love watching you and dossier. Your house is truly looking like a home. What matters is what makes you happy. And your surroundings is where you spend most of your time. It is always fun to see how you have done the decor..
So happy for Dezzi's happyness! I'm 75 but still love the clean look of white wherever I can put it. Loved the plants in the rain photography.
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You talk about anxiety 😢
I feel that way every time I want to go out
If you're in a new neighborhood and don't really know any other women
And maybe there aren't any as pretty as you, the anxiety will come al.
It's hard for you to be the most glamorous one around, so I eventually had to stop dressing in my favorite , beautiful clothes 😢
It's depressing fr me
Thanks for saying "I will figure it out." Sometimes I feel so driven to get everything done all at once, and when I can't, I beat myself up. My priority is to get my fence repaired, replace my floors, and paint. Please hug and kiss Desi for me...oh, I would love to see a "Day in the Life of Desi"! I just cannot get enough of that little guy! 😍🤩😘
Yards take years to cultivate, it will come together in time. But you have that lovely sunroom to gaze upon and enjoy for now. I don't think we've seen you or Desi happier. Neither of you can wipe the smiles off your faces. Does a heart good. Love to you both. Laurie
So heartwarming to see Desi looking so happy❤
Susan I am so Happy for you and Desi, the little dog who started living life in a closet until you rescued him! I wish you all the best and May you live Happily Ever After in you beautiful cottage home! ❤
PS: I thought about this for several years… window boxes at the front windows of the house…. I couldn’t decide if they would be tacky or not. My house is little and about the same age as yours. Finally I figured out that if the boxes were well made, nothing flimsy, it would work. I painted them to match my trim and I got even braver and put up matching shutters on either side of the windows. Wow, what a big improvement that was. I keep the boxes over flowing with flowers in the summer. I even put winter plants in them, they’re never empty.
Please show more of Desi in his backyard. Love it!! He looks better now than he ever has!! He was the most blessed little dog when YOU rescued him, Susan!!! 💕💕 You both have come so far!!! God bless you two!!
Yes, setting realistic goals for your new home is essential. But you need to give yourself A LOT of credit for how much you have already accomplished in your new home!! it all looks beautiful. Most gardeners will tell you to live in a new property for a whole year before making major changes to the backyard. It gives time to watch the seasonal changes, how the light plays through the day, and time to evaluate how you will use the space. I love that you have Desi to bring you playful joy.
I have a patio home with a Privacy fence. I must say, it gives me peace. I take my book, my tea and my dog Max and relax. It’s my own world. I can hear the neighbors but my mind tells me they are elsewhere. I don’t think I would enjoy my place as much without the fence. When I look up from my book, I see flowers and all I cherish and not see the neighbors yard and all I would do if it were mine
It's so sweet to see Desi running around the backyard! Thank you for sharing. Enjoy your week Susan & Desi!
I can’t believe how beautifully decorated your home is already and you just moved in. It’s gorgeous. Take your time on the home “to do” list. Never rush that because it slowly comes together with special thought and time. I think it’s gorgeous already. I agree with your son. I would want a more private yard. I would make that my priority. but at least you have a beautiful sun room. You did good. I forget how far you moved from where to where.
Completely love the idea of painting the trim in your bedroom, the picture of the green trim, I thought it was perfect! My priority for my home is to stop getting so overwhelmed. Everything needs done. So the second thing is to stop worrying about all the painting and landscaping and I’m taking the summer off to just read, stitch something, and learn to relax again. 3rd thing is to learn the fine art of doing nothing very slowly!
Yes, Rita....I agree with your ideas....Enjoy whatever you do! ❤
I painted my bedroom periwinkle and my ceiling lavender...trim white...when I wake up..I feel like I'm in my garden with some of my favorite color flowers
It just makes me feel alive when I wake
I live in a cottage in a little river town where I was born 68 years ago. My husband agreed to move here when we were married because I love this little town so much. It isn't very picturesque but I still love it. Anyway, we have lived in the same house now for 31 years. (second marriage for both of us). My priorities for this summer. 1. Take care of my flowers in my yard. 2. Make sure my house is a welcoming home. 3. Eat healthier so I can enjoy life even more. I feel this can be the best summer yet! God Bless you and Desi and keep enjoying your new home and being close to your grandchildren.
Susan your glass dining room table is beautiful - it is light and airy and fits perfectly in your beautiful cottage.
My little Tink loves Desi she barks and runs around when she sees him.
So happy for you - good for you moving closer to your family - little ones grow up so quickly and you being part of their lives will mean more to them than you can ever imagine. My grandson are 13 thru 17 and they still want me to participate in their lives.
Hi Tink!!!! Desi says hey!!!
Love your rustic table behind your sofa. You could put a pretty runner on your dining room table. You could just paint one wall in your bedroom behind your bed as the accent wall if you want. Then carry that color into your hallway. Your home is beautiful Susan. You’ll get there… it all takes time. 💖
Yes, Table Runners are Lovely.
I'm living with my twin sister. My priorities are to stay healthy, treat myself out to dinner occasionally, and spend as much time in nature as possible.
It took me almost three years to make my backyard look good and now it looks absolutely stunning. It takes time and I know Susan that your backyard will look amazing 🤗 enjoy every minute of making your new life in your new beautiful home.
YES!!! Congratulations!!!!!
Paint your bedroom a soft yellow & your trim a white. Your quilt will look gorgeous.
This time of year, my focus is my yard and deck. I so enjoy planting bulbs. Yes, that grow tall along my fence line. Bright purples, pinks, and yellows. I place many colorful pots of flowers and hanging baskets on my deck and turn my fountain on. It attracts the hummingbirds.
After my yard is ready I enjoy the fruits of my labor with luncheons and coffee time with friends. Join a coffee or book or photoclub. Make new friends and invite them over. I see the best hostess in you.😊
I am loving seeing you so happy and enjoying this journey. I am more than ten years older and from Kentucky, but feel like we have so much in common in loving nature, decorating and life.
I have had a new house that I started redecorating before moving in -all builder’s white. I wanted some color - pale gold in living areas with pale terracotta on an accent wall in foyer and above the
fireplace. Bedroom/bathroom is an aqua, the color of water in my thinking which I love.
Then COVID hit, didn’t do anything else.
Then I lost my son, my whole life, so there have been three years that I never even went there.
I had almost decided to have everything repainted in the all off white neutral tones we see so much of and buy all off white furniture. It would be safe and not have to put much thought into it.
Then, being here with the subtle colors that I had previously chosen, I realized these colors make me happy. I think we both like the warm colors.
I am so happy and interested in seeing your color choices. I think I will always want the white woodwork, but I looking forward to seeing how you style your bedroom.
Brightens my day to see you so happy!!
Hug Desi and enjoy!!
I love Susan's little nuggets of wisdom because i always see me in there ,thank you, i look forward to Saturdays, it's like chatting with my best friend , sending lots of love to you and precious little Desi 🐶 💞💫💐🌹🌻
Leave the end table distressed! Love it!
First thing tomorrow, I am buying a red pot for my plant! Right now it's in a dark green pot. After seeing your red one.....I gotta have a red pot!!!
Susan, you are absolutely adorable. Your home is wonderful and you are happy, happy! Love your sunroom and all the wonderful plants and 40's colors and prints. Your bedroom is so cozy and warm. Love the mini lights in the corner plant, too.
I've been watching you for years. Always loved the trips to thrift stores and all the products you would tell us about!
Here's the thing, you look thirty years younger than what you say!
Watching Desi romp around the yard is priceless!
Almost forgot: YES, your son is right. A privacy fence is a must!
My husband passed away a little over a month ago. Your videos are wonderful for me. I’m being kind to myself. I sit out in my backyard as long as I want in the evening. I eat what I want. And I’m learning to say no if it’s something I don’t want to do. Thank you for what you do. You are a inspiration
Praying that you will find fulfillment as you go through this new season of life.
Oh dear....I am so sorry for your loss...I am so happy you are being kind to yourself....this is your time to think and heal....everything can wait,,,sending much love to you Carolyn....Susan & Desi
I painted my bedroom yellow and I woke up every morning happy, a light yellow. Paint can always be changed, a light blue is also a very peaceful color reminds me of coastal decor. Also planting plants, gardenia bush, hibiscus in red makes me happy. My dear you are beautiful and you should have your dressing room glamorous ❤
I love my light yellow bedroom ❤
I have lived in my manufactured home approx 9 years since my divorce and only lately, been able to afford to build a front porch overhang and a large new deck. Now planting out front, and bought beautiful large potted plants for my deck. Fairy lights in porch lanterns make everything outdoors cozy. My hips and knees hurt, but I love it outside.This fall and winter will work inside and start by painting my walls. Thank you for your generous ideas and beautiful decor throughout. ❤️
Sounds fantastic!!!!!
I get blown away every time I see Desi at the end of your vlog. It's his eyes! Hey girl, I'm eighty and been practicing what you're doing and love watching your vlogs showing others its possible to live a good life at any age.
Isn't Desi like a little man? I just love that boy...thank you for being here!!
I don't think I've ever felt as alone as i do right now. 20 years ago my parents died. They left their bungalow to me and my older brother. For financial reasons, we now live together in the bungalow.....and here's the BUT.....my brother is a hoarder. Not only did he hoard into the house, in the 15 years he lived here alone, but also into the front and back gardens....every square inch. I haven't set foot in the back garden for nearly 20 years and the front garden is so bad that i stick to a very narrow pathway if I leave the house. Two years ago, before he cleared that small path, i fell over a box of his stuff. I new it was going to be a bad fall. I broke my nose and had deep lacerations requiring surgery. I also broke my dominant hand (i am an artist 💔) so now drawing and painting is more challenging. In the home i have two rooms....my bedroom and the bedroom that my son had before he moved to London last year. He moved because the hoarding and my brother's attitude was taking its toll on his mental health. He told me he will never come back here. He's so angry with my brother. It's more difficult for me because i love my brother, but i am at my wit's end. I don't want to die like this 😭 i want a little garden to sit in .... I want to be able to have friends over. I haven't celebrated Christmas for several years now, and i used to love Christmas. I'm 57 and have arthritis. I don't know what to do to make a home out of this disaster. My dad built this house...he was a builder...he built the house and landscaped the most beautiful garden and now it is ruined...filled with old car parts, engines...scrap metal....toasters he won't part with...chairs that are broken. I can't even express how bad it is. He has filled every conceivable space. I'm in the uk....ive contacted environmental health, the citizen's advice bureau, I've tried so many things and no one seems to be able to make him clear it up. If he dies before me, i don't know how i will tackle it all. In the back garden is a mobile home that my grandma used to live in....he filled it so full the floor fell through and there are 5 sheds that are also full. When his old car broke, it remained in the garden and now that is filled up. I can't legally force him to sell because of a clause in our parents' will. He can't afford to buy me out and i can't afford to rent somewhere else. Sometimes i feel i can't go on but then i think of my son. I am all he has. I know I'm still luckier than a lot of people, i have a roof over my head and my country is not at war, but life is difficult. On a positive note, i do have a beautiful cat, called Shirley and fairy lights in my bedroom 😁👌🏼💕
Thank you so much for sharing your life...I can feel your pain. Your brother is making your life so hard...I would keep making noise to the authorities...it is half your home but all his mess and he is destroying your happiness. I wish I could help but I have faith that this is going to work out for you and your beautiful cat! I am saying prayers and sending you so much love...I so want you to have your beautiful garden. My love to you, Susan
@@LittlePoet your kind and sincere reply means a lot to me Susan. Thank you so much. Lots of love back to you and darling Desi. Xx
Seeing Desi run is so sweet!! My one priority right now is to take advantage of my pool, instead of just floating around in it, I'm going to go out in the AM and exercise in it to help get my body in better shape!
I'm the same with the anxiety getting ready for a social event like today it was my sons PhD convocation.
The first thing I would do is put that fence up !
Hi Susan. I always appreciate all the effort you put into your videos. I have an idea. When you show things with music in the background, maybe you should play your singing instead of someone else's. That would be a treat for us. I think your ideas for your home are wonderful.
I am so happy seeing your posts in the new house. BTW don't get rid of your glass table. A wooden one will make the room darker and look crowded. Everything looks awesome. Little Desi makes me so happy.
The first thing my sister did when she purchased her house
A great alarm system
And new curtains
She just wanted to be safe
❤❤
Everything looks beautiful
Dezi is such a sweetheart ❤❤
I love your optimism and encouragement…I’m 68 too…and I’ve had a great change in my life. Thank you Susan for your uplifting videos! Much love to you and your little buddy! 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺
68, too.....for another week😊
@@karendegraaf1146 Happy Birthday, Karen! 🥳😁🙏🏼🌺
68 here, too. Congrats!
I think with your bedding, a moss green wall behind the bed would be such a brave ,out of the box statement. Its only paint! ALso I woukd leave the sofa table its rustic style. Rooms aren't interesting without a little juxtaposition. New,,old,,shiney, matte, rough,, smooth , layers, textures. I would definitely put a privacy fence in the backyard. Even a slatted one would give some sense of intimacy in your sweet garden. Also I have learned sometimes... not to go and buy a ton of little plants, but invest in a larger, achor shrub or tree. These set the bones of the garden and establish a sense of maturity. Then go crazy with the annual color or small pennerials as the seasons come and go. Can't wait to see all your progress, both inside and out. What fun to have projects and visions to delight our minds.
Oh my goodness, Desi is really smiling at the end of the video! More of his teeth are showing, and he looks even more relaxed. I think the transitions you are so graciously sharing with us are amazing and uplifting, and it's affecting you, Desi, your family, and who knows who and what else. I love your new quilt and your plan for your bedroom. Your rustic sofa table is terrific. I wouldn't paint it. I love what you said about feeling more glamourous upstairs. I'm going to take that to heart, as I have focused more on practicality rather than glamour. I'm inspired by you, and want more glamour in my life! Love to you and Desi 💗
My priorities right now are having time to enjoy my house. My front porch, back patio, gardens, kitchen; making homemade pickles or having salmon steak or just enjoying the fruits of my garden! Fresh lettuces, radishes, cucumbers and peppers in a few weeks, fresh tomatoes and basil; nasturtium flowers.
Stuff I used to consider humdrum and boring is now exciting and comforting.
Enjoying the little things, the simple things; a meal, a cup of tea, just sitting enjoying the breezes before it gets too hot!
Tending my gardens, watering, weeding, cultivating, saving seeds.
Now that my house is pretty much done the way I want, I want time to enjoy it all.
Oh, Susan, you feel like an old friend. Your backyard is going to be great it takes time, and those beautiful plants will look gorgeous when they are up full height. Take your time, yes, be good to yourself. we're here for you. The distressed couch table looks great on its own it's beautiful, and you are a beautiful soul. And Desi is loving his new yard😊
You ARE beautiful Susan! A totally beautiful soul! I think most of us ladies can relate to your feelings! I look forward to all of your videos. I'm alone so much and you make me feel like I'm with my girlfriends! God bless you dear Susan!❤
How about a table runner, instead of an entire table cloth for your glass table?
Susan, you may not like all the walls in your new house being white, but I loved your white outfit and how you just glowed in it, with your jewelry and hair. I think it’s the best you may have ever looked! It must be from all that fresh air you are getting working in your yard. You are absolutely right about setting realistic priorities when there seems to be so much that has to get done. Was exactly what I needed to be reminded of. Has Desi made friends with other dogs in the neighborhood yet? I’ve found that as much as my dogs loved a back yard, they still wanted and needed our daily walks. He does seem to have adjusted to the move very well.
You did grow up to be beautiful, inside and out! Little Desi looks SO happy, how sweet he is! My priority right now is to heal my body and my spirit. Then I'll see. Thanks again for your inspiration Susan, it's very much appreciated.
Ah thank you for your sweet words!!! Happy weekend to you my friend, Susan & Desi
Isn’t everyone different? I wanted my apartment all white and my son-in-law thought I was absolutely mad but when he finished it, he looked around and said oh wow this is so bright and so pretty and it was. I can use all sorts of colours it’s like painting, a watercolour on white paper, I love it. I love colours. Every few years I get a little bit tired of what I have and I want to change things around . I found with white walls and all I have to do is change accessories so people come into my house and they say wow what have you done? what have I done?I bought new cushions. Different colour scheme, but still fits in with my overall colours. So easy with white walls. Anyway,everybody has their own opinion and that’s mine. Your place looks beautiful and that’s what counts.
I love seeing Desi running around his backyard. I so look forward to your weekly videos. Such a breath of fresh air in this crazy world. I am your age and have made myself a priority for the first time. After years of looking after everyone else I now look after me first. That is a good thing.
Same age, too....Agree on all. It is a very good thing.
I don't have a fenced yard either. I can see my neighbors. They can see me. My priority for some time now has been my landscaping. I'm trying to make my little patch of the world a prettier place. I'm close to the end. I'm happy with the plants I've chosen and I'm happy with where I planted them. Now it's time to let them mature and tend to them. This is what I'm hoping will be the easier part of gardening. Getting to know all my plants and learning what each one needs from me. My second priority is inside my house. I have started some remodeling, but it is not yet finished. I hope to get that done in the next couple of years. By then, I will be 62 and I can focus more on me and less on garden/house. I can focus on relaxing morning and evening routines, enjoying the home I've created, time with my family members, and more travel and fun activities.. Great video today (and always). I appreciate and enjoy your company and look forward to seeing you every Saturday.
Desi looks so happy & free running around in his back yard.
He is the cutest little fur baby.
Decorating a home takes time and so far you have great ideas.
Thank you for sharing
Your happiness is infectious. There is definitely a beach vibe going on with your rustic side table.
I would love to hear one of the conversations you have with your grandson while you’re both out digging in the garden. His thoughts on having his beautiful Nana and Desi living right beside him. Ask him what he thinks how you should decorate your garden space.
Nana’s new life through the eyes of a little boy.
I was just thinking about you and there you were. I'm 72 and ready to go get my new place in October this year. You have a beautiful home for you and Desi. Have a blessed day 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Desi makes me want a dog of my own. He is so precious and must give you so much joy - and good company. Your personality is vibrant - that's why you need pops of color around you! In your quilt is a very soft blue (I think its blue) - that would be lovely and very soothing for sleep. Bad yards develop over time - don't rush yourself. Spireas grow quickly. Visiting with you is like listening to a good friend. Thank you!
You can plant sunflowers to make a temporary "Natural" privacy fence. 2 to 3 rows will do the trick and the seed is very inexpensive
What fun to set up house with Desi! Enjoy every minute of creating a beautiful home. xo
Great hearing how your dealt with your anxiety by dropping the strict diet rules and letting go when you first moved into your apartment, but like you, I'm worried about the long-term effects of junk food. Those were indeed "the good old years" of TV with Dr Frasier Krane, etc., staying up late to watch whatever, when life was new and our whole life was ahead of us. Keep going Susan, you're so inspirational! Your insight and forward vision are what makes your channel stand out.
Dear Susan,
you have a very beautiful soul.
I am living in a House in Northern Germany with my husband and daughter. We were keeping things, like clothes, toys of my 17 year old. Like old handbags, all kinds of stuff. So, your Dressing room was like a mess, full of things. Same goes for the bureau, and utility room downstears. And you know what, I am starting to let go. And It makes me happy. And you are right, you have to set priorities. So we started with the dressing room and we disposed quite a lot of things. It gives me room and a kind of freedom inside. Thank you so much for your beautiful videos.
Take care.
Susanne
Take your time this is your forever home ❤
Best advice of all. Take your time, do it way you want it so you don't have to re-do, or be sorry.
Susan, You're beautiful and I so look forward to your channel. =) I love your content! I just turned 45 yrs last week and the spirit of your mind is so inspiring to me, thank you!!
1. You did grow up to be "pretty like them." 2. Gardening is a process that takes patience. Frugal gardeners, like me, accept cuttings and divisions from friends and plant perennials that spread. I am reducing my lawn for eco as well as labor reasons, and each year I expand the perennial beds a bit more. Thank you for being a light in the world.