It's rather ironic that you mentioned the memorial on your neighbors steps. Yesterday, I had the privilege of attending the funeral at Golden Gate National Cemetery in San Bruno, CA, of my friend's father, Ernest L. DeSoto, a Vietnam veteran who was MIA for 54 years. His remains were found two years ago and it has taken this long to properly excavate and identify the remains. It was a very complicated process which included DNA testing along with several visits to his family to gather information prior to confirming the discovery. As you can imagine the family's grieving process has gone on as long as he's been missing. Fortunately, his widow, Joyce who just turned 90 years old in May, was able to witness his return. She fought hard all these years to find him while being a mother and father to their three children. She's just as much a hero as he is. No one can say how long the grieving process should take. For this family it has taken 54 years. Thank you, Susan, for sharing your neighbor's memorial for her soldier. XO
What a beautiful, caring post...thank you! I cannot imagine how one moves on in life with the not knowing. Grief and loss change us yet hopefully don't destroy us. Sounds like his widow is one of the strong ones who lived on, just differently.
Bless you for sharing your story. God keep this Vietnam soldier in his loving care. My oldest brother (who was movie star looking) was sent to Korea as a young man. He passed in his 50's. He was a peace maker and really never belonged in a fighting profession but he answered the call of duty. We are enjoying so much freedom because of what young people fought for. Happy 4th of July. Blessings galore.
As a Gold Star Mom, I totally love and appreciate this beautiful ladies sweet memorial at her home. I have many displays throughout my home to my son. You are right Susan in saying that some people think they know when we should be done grieving, but we are all different. Some people are more comfortable being reflective with their own thoughts & memories and enjoy time and space to themselves after they have lost a loved one. Some people don't want to be alone with their thoughts and want other people around them all the time. But regardless, we all must find our "new normal" that is anything but normal. I, like the lady with the tribute to the military service of her loved one, also display a tribute to my son filled with patriotism and love. Every day is a Memorial Day for me having lost my son while serving our country, 17 years ago, that still feels like just a few days ago. I am not wallowing in grief, I am so thankful that I had my son for 20 years and I am blessed. I never want him forgotten or his sacrifice for all of us. He is always with me in my thoughts & in my heart. I carried him in my womb for 9 months, but I now carry him in my heart until one day when I will see him again. Love never dies and we all choose are own way how to continue feeling & celebrating that love daily. Thank you for sharing this beautiful little story of this loving tribute as we celebrate the greatest country in the world's birthday. So many have fought and died for that freedom. God bless the USA!
First: I want to thank your son for his most precious gift. His life. For us. I’m so sorry you lost him. And, thank you for saying what you did. I lost my husband three years ago. He served in Vietnam on a river patrol boat in the Navy. He was also exposed to Agent Orange. His death certificate (from the VA) attributes his death to Agent Orange. It showed itself throughout the years through illnesses, ending up in Pancreatic cancer and death. He was healthy otherwise, so when he returned home, he ultimately became a sheriff's deputy and served that way. He always wanted to make a difference and help people. I may have lost him three years ago, but it feels like it was yesterday. I miss that man so much. I loved him with all my heart. I can’t imagine dating or “finding” anyone else. But that’s just me. And that’s just my love for him. But I hear people talk about how others should let go and move on when they’re widowed or lose a child, their parents or their grandparents. I’m sorry if it bothers others that I can’t “get over” my husband's death, but I can’t do that. Love goes on. Love is the only thing that lasts forever. How people show their loss is different. Those people who want others to move on or get over it can do so when it’s their turn to deal with it, but I think they should keep their thoughts to themselves until that time comes. I’ll tell you what, though: I’m tired of hearing about it. I’ll say prayers for you and your son. Thank you again. ❤️
"Thank you, for sharing your stories. It's an honour & a privilege to be included. I hope God sends healing🕊️ LOVE ❤️, & comfort 🙏 your way. Bless you". 😢😢🌹
@@chewkie01 Thank you so much for your kind words and it is so nice to hear from someone else who understands as we find that "new normal" that is anything but normal. I will be praying for you and your husband too. Faith is what got me through all this and praying sustains me! God bless you!!
@@marinemom03 God bless you, too! I wish I knew you. I know we’d get along. Thank you so much for answering me. It was such a nice surprise. You take care, okay? You’ll always be in my prayers along with your wonderful son. ❤
22:02 Dear Susan, when my beautiful dad was dying of cancer, I asked him if he was scared of dying. He said to me " No, I'm not scared of dying. I just hope I'll be remembered." And there is that guy on the steps...being remembered. 💕🙏🏼💕
In 2021 I lost my my 33 year old daughter, my 3 and 5 year old grandchildren and my 36 year old son in law, who I knew since he was 8 years old. I'm devastated still. I took a 13 week class through my church called "Grief Share." Everyone in that class had lost someone. I lost 3 someones. There is no time limit for grief and when we're ready, we don't move on, we move forward. Blessings to you Susan.
Having been very lucky in life with a husband that was a very successful Alpha guy with a heart of gold that I was married to for 44 years before he left me for the other side of life, he gave me the resources to travel, move, build numerous big houses so since the early 70's I've collected a wide range of "antiques" which could almost all be called "folk art" today. Paintings, vintage furniture from different eras, pottery, hooked rugs, quilts, woven pieces, hand painted animals, creatures big and small, beautiful teapots/teacups, figurines, dishes and the like. Whatever caught my eye at the time when we'd go "antiquing" together a million times for amusement! All items filled with MEMORIES of him wrapped in each and every item that have been a part of my life since almost the moment I met him and his loving generous nature and love he had for me and my interests. I've been told by a few friends (?) that I have too much STUFF, it would drive them crazy and I should get rid of all of it and move into a tiny house and forget those wonderful years I had with a man that was the "love of my life" and you know what I tell them "not going to happen" and then I think quietly "I'll live with this stuff until the day I die!" I also think silently to myself "none of your business what I do with my life, time or what I live with so mind your own business and leave me to live my life the way I see fit!" Buy what you love, can afford and make life your own! Never listen to anyone else's ideas of what you should do because they're not YOU!
I feel when we look at our homes, we need to ask ourselves "What do I LOVE"? When we make our home full of what we love, people feel at home there. You can sense it. Although many love the minimalist style or the open concept, no personality look, I prefer homes with character and a sense of who lives there. I love thrifting & blend new and old in my home. Cannot agree more about the quality of older furniture. I always sage them when I get them home and then wonder about all the conversations that piece of furniture has listened to.:)
Decorating with folk-art, paintings and vintage furniture is a wonderful way to live fulfilled. Life with precious memories of a time we once shared with loved ones is special. Only God knows why He has called others home and others remain, and we all have special unique stories that only He knows about for we have a purpose. What a lovely tribute of a loved one that has gone from this life yet remains in our hearts. Your neighbor has lovingly displayed the love in her heart to share with friends & neighbors. Her soldier like many others that have passed on would have wanted her/us to go on with life for that is the journey we have to take to be reunited. 🕊🕊🕊
What a sweet memorial on the steps of that woman's home. How precious is her love for family. A celebration of life is beautiful. I have a small memorial for my parents on my vanity and their portrait on the wall in the hallway. It honors them for all the love they gave me.
I cried just reading what you wrote about her steps...I do feel its the very best of our humanity when we honor and remember and never forget...my love to you! HAPPY 4th of JULY!!!Susan & Desi
I got read of my television a few years ago I don’t miss it more beautiful quiet time I discovered yutube only four years ago I constantly watch yu tube it’s so hard to pull away from my yutube screen time but I have learned alot on yutube and I find people are nicer cuzz they don’t know us ha
I can’t imagine anyone not liking your home or your taste. You have made every home you’ve had look amazing and this one is beautiful already after such short a time. It’s a gift you have. The garden looks wonderful already..you’ve worked so hard. Every week we see such improvements. I don’t have any folk art myself, haven’t seen any to buy to be honest, but it looks very original and eclectic in your home. Desi loves his new environment and it’s a joy to see. Lovely video Susan…very touching about the soldier….wonderful tribute to her loved one.🌸
Oh Susan! I loved this so much. Yay to Folk Art👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I have a photo of my in-laws that hangs proudly on my wall, it has raised some eyebrows but I don’t care. They loved me like I was there own and loved my children madly. I will honor them for the rest of my life. I moved on when they died, but I keep their memory alive with that photo. It’s as if they’re smiling back at me saying ,” your doing a good job kid”.
Seriously? Not everybody likes the same thing and I am guessing she wouldn’t care much for downright rustic…raw moss covered wood, stone ….overgrown hedgerows…spiderwebs that embellished the outside windowpanes….I’m nauseated by man made glass and glitter anything ….you can’t imagine? Well my taste is nothing like hers…in fact I watch just to see what NOT to do….
My oldest sister decorates her home with different things she purchased from thrift stores. Her home is very eclectic. She lives in Michigan on a corner lot where she can see the bay. Her house is a Victorian home that makes me feel so welcome. She is that house if you know what I mean.
Susan, I've never come across anyone who exemplifies beauty and love the way you do. The ways in which you share those two things with us bring comfort, joy, and instruction we can all incorporate into our own lives. You are a gift. Thank you for your beautiful channel.
I have never been a trendy person, with clothes or decor. I embrace what makes my eyes happy. I decorate my home for me. I do try to make it tasteful. Maps, clocks, and candles are things I enjoy a lot. The house is lovely Susan! Seeing Desi in his yard fills me with joy! I'm so happy for both of you.
The beauty of you! And it is your home, your life and I am so happy that trifting is fun. My dear sister-in-law is the same way. Once, I never understood it, but now I truly see her house is furnished as if it is an extension on her and she is a beautiful 72 year old now and will always keep buying, replacing, updated and heading out the most incredible second hand store in her town in Connecticut. There is SO much peace and tranquility the second you walk into her door! God Bless you Susan!!!
Ooh, i just got to the end of the video. He's a stray? I hope s/he finds their way home 💓. Happy 4th of July to you, Susan 🇺🇸. I will raise a glass to you here in Ireland 🇮🇪
I LOVE HOW YOU DECORATE BECAUSE IT IS UNIQUE! You find lovely things over time and add them in beautifully! I would love to go along shopping with you ; would be so much fun! Thank you for sharing and taking us along! Sooooo happy for you in your gorgeous new home!👏👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for this video. It really hit home. I had a woman that said I lived in a museum. Even my own son has said things about the way my home is decorated. I live in my childhood home. My parents and I moved here in 1970 or 1971. I’ve never left. I collect things that make me feel good. Most of my things are from when mom and dad were here and married. It hurt my heart for them to say those things. I even collect Elvis Presley. My house is decorated very tasteful. It’s not cluttered or tacky. I miss my parents and my brother and other family so much. But, my HOME is my sanctuary. I’ve spent so many wonderful hours here. I go thrifting and to yard sales every so often. And if something makes me happy or would be of use I buy it. And, there isn’t a set time to grieve and move on. That’s the most disrespectful thing anyone can ever say. I love you and Desi. Have a wonderful week. God bless you. I’ll see you next Saturday. ❤️🙏🏻🥰
I love that you said your home is your sanctuary. I've always said I want to escape the world to my house. My home. Especially these days. But you said it better. ❤️
@@LittlePoetthank you so much Susan. I hope you and Desi have a wonderful 4th of July. I pray Desi isn’t scared of fireworks. I love you both too. Watching your channel helps me out so much. I’m having a few health issues and they really have my depression going overtime. But, when I watch you it makes me so happy and I forget about my problems. Thank you beautiful lady. And, God bless you. He’s using you to help people like me. 🙏🏻❤️🥰You’re such a sweetheart. 🥰
I was told the same; “your home, it’s like a museum!” I have very unique things I’ve collected and love, yes, most are old but well displayed and not overwhelming. I was at first put off but now take as a compliment as they said after visiting; “we love your home! The Most important person to love my home is me! 😊
I have been surprised recently how my happiness factor has increased significantly by having a bird feeder! One of the darlings ventured to eat a few hours after the feeder was up! They now sing their sweet songs nearby. They are my music, and I am going to get suet too, to help fatten them up before the cold snowing winter! 😊😍🥰
I have been following your postings for quite a while and this has been one of my most favorite ones..Especialy the part about grieving, and that one grieves in their own way and time. I will never understand those people who get so upset over something that has nothing to do with them or truthfully any of their business..I love the fact that you always remain faithful to your beliefs whether others agree or not. I so enjoy and always look forward to your posts ..Much happiness to you always...
Possibly add a beautiful wind chime to your listening room. The sound is magical with a slight breeze. I imagine you sitting there listening to music with a cold glass of lemonade or tea soaking in the solitude of peace. I sit on my balcony each morning and just look at the trees and sky and enjoy my coffee. It starts my day and makes me feel happy and relaxed.
When we moved to our country cottage I was determined to have a living room for conversation and music only and we have it! There’s a 1930s couch, 2 French country chairs, Italian marble coffee table, a piano, a 1964 record player, a 1941 tube radio and a Bose radio/CD player. Oh and bookshelves with classics, cookbooks and antique books. It’s a room of refuge; for reading, talking, praying and-- listening!
My family room couch used to belong to my parents. It’s a 4 seater, it’s been reupholstered at least 4 times, but I love it! I found a photo of myself sitting on it when I was 10-11 and I’m 67now. It’s a well made couch. I can’t part with it!
Sorry no Folk art for me! Lol French, Shabby Chic and Cottage for me, I’m 75 and love girly and lots of roses 🥀. I love that the lady is remembering someone who was special in her life! Gods Love to you and Master Desi 🥰👵🏽❤️👍🏾
Grieving is forever it comes in wave’s birthdays Holidays yesterday I cried for my son his birthday is this month and I think of his birth and how happy I was he was so tiny my daddy called him peanut because he was no bigger than a peanut. I incorporated chickens and Roosters into my kitchen and throughout my home I love that you shared the shrine with us I salute this soldier for his service and sacrifice for all of us. Love 💕 and hugs 🤗 coming your ❤Susie
I agree with your view on grief. I lost my beloved husband Chris to covid in 2021. He was only 58. Full of life. We had plans for a little ranch, now plans have changed for me. I'm alone now, but I know I'll be reunited with him one day. I'll never "Move on", but we move "Forward".
As someone who has lost my precious brother in a war I think her tribute is absolutely beautiful. My condo is decorated in blues, grey blue and red. I love it. Your home is gorgeous, Susan.❤️🇨🇦🇺🇸🪖
I like unique, too. A friend once told me that I have an eclectic taste in decorating. I agree with your thoughts about grief, too. You certainly give us a lot of food for thought. You seem so much happier since you have moved. What a positive role model you are for all of us! Thanks for everything, Susan!
I too have a tin roof, and when it rains, it brings tranquility at its finest. Mother Nature's ability to heal souls with the sound of her replenishing what the earth needs, those are the days I curl up with a blanket and fireplace lit... in my own little world. Favourite trend of mine would have to be different essential oil scents in diffuser for different days. (Cleaning?.... resting?...company?... or concentrating on studies?).... with a good cuppa tea!....🍵🫖
Years ago my home was filled with antique furniture. I refinished all of the pieces myself . I had sideboards desks tables dining table chairs. I lost it all in a house fire. I can never replace them again at this stage of my life . The pieces I had can’t even be found anymore . They had a story and so much character . Grief is all the love in our heart and why it hurts so much. We take them with us and although we move forward they remain with us on our journey.
I feel like our home should be a showcase of our journey. I keep something special from all the special people I have loved in my lifetime…it tells a story of who we are and where we have been and who we have loved…unique only to you. Your channel is so peaceful and uplifting..thank you for sharing 😊
“….things that impress me, not other people.” Yes!! Well said. I’m 65 (almost) and over the years I’ve ‘collected’ items for my home that are definitely unique unto me. And if I’m out and about and I see something that touches me then I’ll get it. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve found that I’m very selective on my purchases. I got the biggest grin when you showed the clip of Desi and his little new friend one fence over! Im so happy for both of you! Xxoo
Excuse my bad English, I'm from Germany. It's been a long time since i learned it. There is a saying here: "Bevor du über mich und mein Leben urteilst, zieh meine Schuhe an und geh meinen Weg." I try to translate it: "Before you judge me and my life, put on my shoes and walk my way" And that's so true. Greetings from me and my cat Sally, Birgitt
Vielen Dank, dass du hier auf meinem Kanal bist. Ich liebe dein Zitat. Verurteile niemals einen Mann, bis du in seine Schuhe schlüpfst. Ich sende euch Liebe und Umarmungen, Susan und Desi
There is no timeline for grief. I agree with you, no one has the right to tell us its time to move on! I'm not sure if it's a trend but I love to have candles burning/faux candles throughout my home. Your home is beautifully decorated!
You ask if any of us like folk art. I do like/love it. I have five really great ones, that I bought at estate sales and yard sales. Your yard is improving weekly. Anyone that has lost those we loved can totally understand and appreciate your neighbors memorial. Everyone grieves differently. Every time is see Desi in your back yard having a great time, is makes me smile. Hugs, Caroline
I used to live in MI, but have since moved. Our home holds no trends, just displays our love for local artists and our own art. Yes, grief comes in all sorts of ways, just as it leaves. Everyone deserves to express it on a very deep and personal level. Have a great week you two!😁
I am a big thrifting gal. I love the trend of not following a trend. If you choose colors, pieces of furniture and decor that you love, it will always be in style. I can't wait to get in my own home and decorate it. One day, it will happen.
Honoring someone who has passed on is not the same as grief, it's merely a nod to say "I remember" a mark of respect, rather like crossing oneself going past a church. As for trends, forget them. Two of my most precious pieces of furniture are solid mahogany, very old when the were bought in Ireland in the 50s, traveled to South Africa with my mother in the 80s and are now in my apartment in Vancouver since early 2000s. They are like nothing you would find here, one very decoratively carved console the other a bureau, completely out-of today's style. And yet, I remember where they stood in my childhood home, and they nourish my soul when I polish them. Only have things in your lovely home that nourish you, you have earned that Susan ❤☘
I don't believe in trends. I have thrift for years and decades; if it makes one happy it is terrific. Don't follow trends follow your heart! Love your channel Susan and Desi!!
I agree that our home should reflect who we are. It should be a place of refuge and sanctuary, in which we can relax and refresh ourselves from the chaos in the world around us. I don't follow trends, either. I have a place of prayer in my home; a space at the end of my hallway that I have dedicated to the Lord. My granddaughter is three and she wants to go to Grandma's "church", aka my apartment!! I have many thrifted crystal and beautiful dishes and tea sets. I have bookshelves and comfortable places to curl up with a book. My style is more European, with dark woods. My daughters are french country with light woods. I love how each of our homes reflect our own personalities. That is what makes a home unique. I love your style. Thanks for the videos!!
Watching your video on this full moon night while unable to sleep. What you said about grief is so true. Death is timeless, and anyone who has experienced profound loss understands that you never move on, but eventually find ways to reinvent yourself into the changed person you are, as you accept that life has closed a chapter and opened a new one. It took me a long time to understand that I had to leave the old life behind-a life I struggled to maintain while feeling pain from reminders of the old life that were everywhere. When my husband died, I had no idea who I was without him. We had been together so long, and our children were not yet fully raised. I poured myself into them, making sure they left the nest prepared to face the world, in spite of the loss of their father. After they were gone, I fell apart for awhile. Then I pulled myself together and tried to fit in as usual, with the same friends and community that had been our couple’s world. Everyone was so nice, but I felt they did expect me to get over it, and there was nobody to really relate to about the death because I was relatively young when it happened, and they were all married couples. It required putting on a happy face while feeling lost inside. In time, I learned that it felt more peaceful outside that community, and I began slowly slipping away from it. It was ultimately a couple of incidents where people told me to get over it that motivated me to leave. These days, I choose friends carefully and gravitate towards those capable of empathy. It has allowed me to live more authentically, and to discover and explore the creative side of life that was always there but sometimes overshadowed by other things. Leaving one’s old, comfortable community and home is not easy, but sometimes it must be done in order to find one’s self, and thrive.
Yes to each one having their own style.. I still love the farmhouse look.. guess it’s my style it was a dream of mine years ago.. then it became a trend..
I'm glad some peeps don't like your taste in decorating. Less competition when you let us call "dibs" on a sleep-over. FYI I do dishes, vacuum, scrub toilets and love dogs. I am a super-duper-pooper-scooper-upper. I even clean out gutters and behind refrigerators. (The frig was pushing it, but hey, a gal's gotta do whatta gal's gotta do!)
Susan, you are so talented in the way you film, edit, the music in your videos. I feel like I am watching a movie! I enjoy the conversation, tips. And just chatting about life in general! My God bless you and your new home ❤️ I have something exciting in my life right now! I live alone with my little dog Chloe:) my daughter has been a single mom for 7 years, she has met someone very special and they are getting married the end of August. I am planning to buy her current small home! It is in a nice neighborhood so I will be able to walk Chloe and live closer to my daughter as well! Life over 60 can be beautiful, I saw a quote on a sign at work that said “ Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful” ! That is so true 😊
True! So very true I love THRIFTING. I never worry about what people say when I have visitors most people say… Oh that’s so you! The color blue will be SPRINKLED throughout my home. That’s my birthstone color sapphire blue LOVE IT! Enjoying LIFE❤️😂❤️
I love the way you decorated your home. Yes, I like folk art because it's different, it's a conversation piece. I love how that neighbor honours her loved one. We should never forget the sacrifice of our veterans. Have a great week 😊
Lovely video! The memorial with the photo of the soldier on the porch touched my heart deeply. So many have served our country, and I am grateful for them, both living and deceased. I am grateful for the freedom I have experienced because of those who served. I think your video was about way more than decorating. 😘 I enjoy seeing your new home and always Desi. I'm so happy for you both!
Your home is warm, comfortable and beautiful. Care about what makes you warm and comfortable. Don’t care about what someone else feels about your home. Each of us has different tastes and opinions about decorating. To each his own. Enjoy your home, smile and be happy. God bless you on a new chapter in your book of life. ❤️🙏
Dear Susan, I love, love all your trends. My trends are tea pots with cups with saucer; of course the older the best, I found wonderful treasure in yard sales, thrift shop and antiques stores. I enjoy every decor that you do, you have a gift. Thank you for sharing with us. Kisses and hug for Desi! ☕
You are so right in saying we all greive in our own way and in our own time. It took me a very long time of grieving over my sister's death. One thing I learned was to never tell someone how to grieve or for how long.
Your home is lovely! The folk art pieces made me smile. I like the idea of a “listening room” and would maybe add a wind chime. What a beautiful yard you have. Do you have a hummingbird feeder somewhere in the yard ? I can imagine what it must feel like having a cup of coffee in your kitchen or sitting on the bench outside. Everything looks so cozy , peaceful and calm. Your video made my day. You radiate beauty and kindness right from your heart. ❤️
My wife and I found a sailor in a small boat that rocked back and forth on a tiny platform in a restaurant our son bought. it was such an interesting piece of folk art and no one who worked in the restaurant knew anything about it. It was just there on top of the dessert fridge. About 10 years later, we viewed a home with our real estate agent as we searched for a new place to live. My wife saw a similar piece on a table in the home. Both of the owners couldn't remember where or when they got it but they really like it. Today our sailor who we rescued from the restaurant when it was sold sits in the same room on a similar table where its friend used to rock back and forth.
Lov❤e your listening room idea. I was born in the early 60's and loved hearing my Dad playing his violins and playing his old vinyl records on the "tube" stereo in it's now vintage, beautiful wooden cabinet. It is still there in my parent's home, along with my Dad's music stand and violins. Today, my youngest brother writes his songs and makes his music videos there. So, yes, a music room is a place to relax, enjoy, and remember.
I love that someone put the time and love into a shrine for the person who they lost. Do you ever stop missing a child? Your husband? Never. You shouldn't move on because they're forever a part of you. You should be proud of them and always honor their memory. I still go to Veterans' Day services and I'm damned proud of my father who was a three-war vet. He's been gone since 1997. A hundred years couldn't erase my pride and I have moved on. But, there's still a Dad shaped hole in my life. On another note, your house looks beautiful and I guess I'm trendy. I painted my kitchen blue 8 years ago. The rest of it might be trendy next year? Who knows? LOL I hope that Desi is sooo happy getting to play in his yard whenever he wants. No more waiting for a lead and trudging out through a parking lot or down a walkway. Good boyo. Love to you both xx
I love folk art. The pieces you have in your home are so much fun. The shrine your neighbour built for her loved one is beautiful and touching, hopefully brings her a sense of peace. Your home looks great, so glad Desi has a yard to explore and play in.
Thank you so much Jenifer!!! I am always so happy to see you!!!! I have missed our Venus escapades! I found the perfect little house for me and Dez! I made the right move...even when folks tell us what they think we should do....we know what is right for us, This is a fresh start and I am loving it more each day! Happy July my dear friend!!! xxoo Susan
You’re so right! It does take real talent. And Susan definitely has the talent for it. I wish she posted more often. She inspires me and I need that these days. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I never needed help before. It just happened. It flowed. Praying that it comes back. I think part of it is heart problems and open heart surgery. It takes a lot of effort now that it didn’t take before, darn it.
The listening room is a great idea. When I was a teenager, my old Uncle Ed who lived with us had a huge old radio like that, and I had a ball hearing my 50's rock n roll on it and listening to the 'Sky Castle in Greensboro, NC where all the teens congregated!
All that matters is not whether you like my decor or not… what matters is that we both get the “at home “ feeling that’s makes our house a home! I’ve always known that you’ve loved where you’re living. No one else’s opinion matters.❤
I've lost many... Many..tho I don't grief daily, they exist inside me, a song, a color, a special smell, a meal, a place...can bring one back decades and make you grief that, special love one in an instant ❤️. Every time I trim my steak I remember my doggies..😢
Susan , I love your sensitive nature , it’s the respect for creative ways to express our place on our individual journeys I also am an artist and decorate by creating a desired atmosphere in my home , but separate from that , in each room and the purpose for each room . When people come to visit , they’re visiting me , they know what they’re getting before they come , a different expression of me extended to them that hopefully makes them feel welcome .
This is my favorite video. I wish I lived on the other side of Michigan so we could have fun thrifting together. When you show your decor I see some things I already own such as your living room carpet and electric fireplace. In the late 70’s I sold my handmade folk art and I really enjoyed your love for it. But most of all I love seeing the world through your “lens”. Your appreciation for the small lovely things in life is actually the best part of life that many of us miss. Most of all I loved your segment on the lady with the Veteran photo in her yard. It was heartwarming and so beautiful. Your videos are always heartfelt and thought provoking. I set aside a special time to spend with you every week. Thank you!❤️❤️❤️
I just found your channel. Love it. So relatable. I am 59 dreading turning 60 next year, but you look fabulous at 68 so you’ve given me hope. Thankyou for being so brutely honest and exposing a very vulnerable part of yourself on your life’s journey since your marriage breakup. Certainly have blown some wind of hope and inspiration under my tied wings. Love to you from Australia x
I don’t know, I just love falling in love with what I like... that feels good to me. When I reflect who I am others I attract are there to just enjoy. This feel good to me. ❤
Your decor is so cozy and comforting, especially how you've blended your thrift store finds with everything! The thrift store can't be beat for finding beautiful pieces!
You have made your house, a home.. the lady that made her shrine. Comes back yo what makes a person happy. May of been sad in the beginning but now makes her smile and shows her Love.
Susan, how I wait for your video every Saturday. Was so eager to see how you are doing in your Wonderful new home. You never fail to delight and charm With your sharing, so wonderful to see wee Desi having Such freedom in his own back yard. Your happiness shines through, your kindness and Integrity so evident. I could weep with the beautiful way You explained the story of. Displayed photographs from a Mother's heart For her son.only someone who could walk in her moccasins would truly understand Her grieving Heart ❤amen 🙏 Happy 4th July, from Mary Vancouver BC on this July 1st Canada Day🍁
One of my special things I do is I’ve made each room different so whatever mood I’m in I can pick a place to go be at peace. My bedroom is a cozy cabin theme with battery timer tea lights lanterns and cabin decor, my livingroom is oil paintings I have thrifted. All beautiful flowers of some kind and color, my kitchen is vintage thrifted items. And so on. I love it all. Your new place is amazing. I love so many things about it
Your home is decorated so beautiful, Susan. I love how you are able to find unique pieces including your art work at thrift stores. You are right…you can’t find such wonderful pieces at Target, Lazy Boy or any other retail store….only while thrifting. And sweet Desi…he seems to be so happy at his new home. I adore him so much and I could squeeze him and kiss him!
I love your stories...we all grieve or honor our loved ones in our own way. If there is a heaven and we can look down...he would be happy he was not forgotten. It doesn't mean she isn't living...she is just honoring his life in her own way. Love the rain...wish we would get some in Texas.
It's rather ironic that you mentioned the memorial on your neighbors steps. Yesterday, I had the privilege of attending the funeral at Golden Gate National Cemetery in San Bruno, CA, of my friend's father, Ernest L. DeSoto, a Vietnam veteran who was MIA for 54 years. His remains were found two years ago and it has taken this long to properly excavate and identify the remains. It was a very complicated process which included DNA testing along with several visits to his family to gather information prior to confirming the discovery. As you can imagine the family's grieving process has gone on as long as he's been missing. Fortunately, his widow, Joyce who just turned 90 years old in May, was able to witness his return. She fought hard all these years to find him while being a mother and father to their three children. She's just as much a hero as he is. No one can say how long the grieving process should take. For this family it has taken 54 years. Thank you, Susan, for sharing your neighbor's memorial for her soldier. XO
oh this is so beautiful...2 heroes...reunited...love always find a way...thank you so much for sharing this love story..xo Susan
Hi Luvminchi, this is such a beautiful precious story.
I have a vintage car, a De Soto 1931 model.
I cherish it.
Wow! What a story of love! Thank you for telling us. ❤️
What a beautiful, caring post...thank you! I cannot imagine how one moves on in life with the not knowing. Grief and loss change us yet hopefully don't destroy us. Sounds like his widow is one of the strong ones who lived on, just differently.
Bless you for sharing your story. God keep this Vietnam soldier in his loving care. My oldest brother (who was movie star looking) was sent to Korea as a young man. He passed in his 50's. He was a peace maker and really never belonged in a fighting profession but he answered the call of duty. We are enjoying so much freedom because of what young people fought for. Happy 4th of July. Blessings galore.
I believe that grief is not fixed. It is carried with us in our lives.
As a Gold Star Mom, I totally love and appreciate this beautiful ladies sweet memorial at her home. I have many displays throughout my home to my son. You are right Susan in saying that some people think they know when we should be done grieving, but we are all different. Some people are more comfortable being reflective with their own thoughts & memories and enjoy time and space to themselves after they have lost a loved one. Some people don't want to be alone with their thoughts and want other people around them all the time. But regardless, we all must find our "new normal" that is anything but normal. I, like the lady with the tribute to the military service of her loved one, also display a tribute to my son filled with patriotism and love. Every day is a Memorial Day for me having lost my son while serving our country, 17 years ago, that still feels like just a few days ago. I am not wallowing in grief, I am so thankful that I had my son for 20 years and I am blessed. I never want him forgotten or his sacrifice for all of us. He is always with me in my thoughts & in my heart. I carried him in my womb for 9 months, but I now carry him in my heart until one day when I will see him again. Love never dies and we all choose are own way how to continue feeling & celebrating that love daily. Thank you for sharing this beautiful little story of this loving tribute as we celebrate the greatest country in the world's birthday. So many have fought and died for that freedom. God bless the USA!
First: I want to thank your son for his most precious gift. His life. For us. I’m so sorry you lost him. And, thank you for saying what you did. I lost my husband three years ago. He served in Vietnam on a river patrol boat in the Navy. He was also exposed to Agent Orange. His death certificate (from the VA) attributes his death to Agent Orange. It showed itself throughout the years through illnesses, ending up in Pancreatic cancer and death. He was healthy otherwise, so when he returned home, he ultimately became a sheriff's deputy and served that way. He always wanted to make a difference and help people. I may have lost him three years ago, but it feels like it was yesterday. I miss that man so much. I loved him with all my heart. I can’t imagine dating or “finding” anyone else. But that’s just me. And that’s just my love for him. But I hear people talk about how others should let go and move on when they’re widowed or lose a child, their parents or their grandparents. I’m sorry if it bothers others that I can’t “get over” my husband's death, but I can’t do that. Love goes on. Love is the only thing that lasts forever. How people show their loss is different. Those people who want others to move on or get over it can do so when it’s their turn to deal with it, but I think they should keep their thoughts to themselves until that time comes. I’ll tell you what, though: I’m tired of hearing about it. I’ll say prayers for you and your son. Thank you again. ❤️
"Thank you, for sharing your stories. It's an honour & a privilege to be included. I hope God sends healing🕊️ LOVE ❤️, & comfort 🙏 your way. Bless you". 😢😢🌹
Thank You for your precious Don & Hero. I'm praying for You today. Much Love to You Always🥰
@@chewkie01 Thank you so much for your kind words and it is so nice to hear from someone else who understands as we find that "new normal" that is anything but normal. I will be praying for you and your husband too. Faith is what got me through all this and praying sustains me! God bless you!!
@@marinemom03 God bless you, too! I wish I knew you. I know we’d get along. Thank you so much for answering me. It was such a nice surprise. You take care, okay? You’ll always be in my prayers along with your wonderful son. ❤
22:02 Dear Susan, when my beautiful dad was dying of cancer, I asked him if he was scared of dying. He said to me " No, I'm not scared of dying. I just hope I'll be remembered." And there is that guy on the steps...being remembered. 💕🙏🏼💕
I've put small lamps all over my home. They burn 24/7 so my home is never completely dark. Those little lights make me feel happy and comfortable.
In 2021 I lost my my 33 year old daughter, my 3 and 5 year old grandchildren and my 36 year old son in law, who I knew since he was 8 years old. I'm devastated still. I took a 13 week class through my church called "Grief Share." Everyone in that class had lost someone. I lost 3 someones. There is no time limit for grief and when we're ready, we don't move on, we move forward. Blessings to you Susan.
May you find peace.
Having been very lucky in life with a husband that was a very successful Alpha guy with a heart of gold that I was married to for 44 years before he left me for the other side of life, he gave me the resources to travel, move, build numerous big houses so since the early 70's I've collected a wide range of "antiques" which could almost all be called "folk art" today. Paintings, vintage furniture from different eras, pottery, hooked rugs, quilts, woven pieces, hand painted animals, creatures big and small, beautiful teapots/teacups, figurines, dishes and the like. Whatever caught my eye at the time when we'd go "antiquing" together a million times for amusement! All items filled with MEMORIES of him wrapped in each and every item that have been a part of my life since almost the moment I met him and his loving generous nature and love he had for me and my interests.
I've been told by a few friends (?) that I have too much STUFF, it would drive them crazy and I should get rid of all of it and move into a tiny house and forget those wonderful years I had with a man that was the "love of my life" and you know what I tell them "not going to happen" and then I think quietly "I'll live with this stuff until the day I die!" I also think silently to myself "none of your business what I do with my life, time or what I live with so mind your own business and leave me to live my life the way I see fit!"
Buy what you love, can afford and make life your own! Never listen to anyone else's ideas of what you should do because they're not YOU!
Kudos to you!!! Well said!!!❤❤❤
I feel when we look at our homes, we need to ask ourselves "What do I LOVE"? When we make our home full of what we love, people feel at home there. You can sense it. Although many love the minimalist style or the open concept, no personality look, I prefer homes with character and a sense of who lives there. I love thrifting & blend new and old in my home. Cannot agree more about the quality of older furniture. I always sage them when I get them home and then wonder about all the conversations that piece of furniture has listened to.:)
I don’t pay attention to the trends. I decorate by buying, thrifting, and surrounding myself with things I love! ❤️
Decorating with folk-art, paintings and vintage furniture is a wonderful way to live fulfilled.
Life with precious memories of a time we once shared with loved ones is special. Only God knows why He has called others home and others remain, and we all have special unique stories that only He knows about for we have a purpose.
What a lovely tribute of a loved one that has gone from this life yet remains in our hearts. Your neighbor has lovingly displayed the love in her heart to share with friends & neighbors. Her soldier like many others that have passed on would have wanted her/us to go on with life for that is the journey we have to take to be reunited. 🕊🕊🕊
What a sweet memorial on the steps of that woman's home. How precious is her love for family. A celebration of life is beautiful. I have a small memorial for my parents on my vanity and their portrait on the wall in the hallway. It honors them for all the love they gave me.
I cried just reading what you wrote about her steps...I do feel its the very best of our humanity when we honor and remember and never forget...my love to you! HAPPY 4th of JULY!!!Susan & Desi
You are such an inspiration!!! I love finding treasures when I go "thrifting"!!! Priscilla from WA state.
@@LittlePoet Happy 4th! Have fun! - Debra
I got read of my television a few years ago I don’t miss it more beautiful quiet time I discovered yutube only four years ago I constantly watch yu tube it’s so hard to pull away from my yutube screen time but I have learned alot on yutube and I find people are nicer cuzz they don’t know us ha
Perfectly said. I still like "big hair"😂😂😂
My home decor is thrifted, painted, colorful and not trendy.
PS, I love 🔵
And 🩷🩷 pink.
I can’t imagine anyone not liking your home or your taste. You have made every home you’ve had look amazing and this one is beautiful already after such short a time. It’s a gift you have. The garden looks wonderful already..you’ve worked so hard. Every week we see such improvements. I don’t have any folk art myself, haven’t seen any to buy to be honest, but it looks very original and eclectic in your home. Desi loves his new environment and it’s a joy to see. Lovely video Susan…very touching about the soldier….wonderful tribute to her loved one.🌸
I agree, her home looks like a magazine .
Oh Susan! I loved this so much. Yay to Folk Art👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I have a photo of my in-laws that hangs proudly on my wall, it has raised some eyebrows but I don’t care. They loved me like I was there own and loved my children madly. I will honor them for the rest of my life. I moved on when they died, but I keep their memory alive with that photo. It’s as if they’re smiling back at me saying ,” your doing a good job kid”.
Seriously? Not everybody likes the same thing and I am guessing she wouldn’t care much for downright rustic…raw moss covered wood, stone ….overgrown hedgerows…spiderwebs that embellished the outside windowpanes….I’m nauseated by man made glass and glitter anything ….you can’t imagine? Well my taste is nothing like hers…in fact I watch just to see what NOT to do….
@@Ladythyme oh what a shame you feel like this, everyone is different and it's nice to embrace all .
@@Ladythyme What a sad thing to say. She has lovely ideas and we're all unique in our taste. I hope you have a nice week.
My oldest sister decorates her home with different things she purchased from thrift stores. Her home is very eclectic. She lives in Michigan on a corner lot where she can see the bay. Her house is a Victorian home that makes me feel so welcome. She is that house if you know what I mean.
Susan, I've never come across anyone who exemplifies beauty and love the way you do. The ways in which you share those two things with us bring comfort, joy, and instruction we can all incorporate into our own lives. You are a gift. Thank you for your beautiful channel.
Sometimes it isn’t grief. It’s respect. Or love. Just because someone dies and isn’t in the present, doesn’t mean we quit loving them. 💕
Susan,
You are a highly sensitive person. This world needs more of YOU!
Thank you for being you, I and many more, love you for being real!
I have never been a trendy person, with clothes or decor.
I embrace what makes my eyes happy. I decorate my home for me.
I do try to make it tasteful.
Maps, clocks, and candles are things I enjoy a lot.
The house is lovely Susan! Seeing Desi in his yard fills me with joy!
I'm so happy for both of you.
Susan, you make this southern girl want to move to your little town! So happy for you, dear lady!
Happy 4th of July pretty southern lady!!!!!! xxoo Susan & Desi
The beauty of you! And it is your home, your life and I am so happy that trifting is fun. My dear sister-in-law is the same way. Once, I never understood it, but now I truly see her house is furnished as if it is an extension on her and she is a beautiful 72 year old now and will always keep buying, replacing, updated and heading out the most incredible second hand store in her town in Connecticut.
There is SO much peace and tranquility the second you walk into her door! God Bless you Susan!!!
Your kindness is so touching and I appreciate you so much! Happy 4th of July!!! xxoo Susan & Desi
I live in a medium town…. Grew up in small town and it was idyllic. I love where I live now also. Just right for me
Oh my gosh, Susan, I love that Desi has a lovely little friend right next door ❣️This is so lovely for him. He has such a pep in his step these days ❤
Oh desi seems to be so popular!!! Must be that little face of his!!! LOL...happy 4th of July to you!!!
Ooh, i just got to the end of the video. He's a stray? I hope s/he finds their way home 💓. Happy 4th of July to you, Susan 🇺🇸. I will raise a glass to you here in Ireland 🇮🇪
I LOVE HOW YOU DECORATE BECAUSE IT IS UNIQUE! You find lovely things over time and add them in beautifully! I would love to go along shopping with you ; would be so much fun! Thank you for sharing and taking us along! Sooooo happy for you in your gorgeous new home!👏👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for this video. It really hit home. I had a woman that said I lived in a museum. Even my own son has said things about the way my home is decorated. I live in my childhood home. My parents and I moved here in 1970 or 1971. I’ve never left. I collect things that make me feel good. Most of my things are from when mom and dad were here and married. It hurt my heart for them to say those things. I even collect Elvis Presley. My house is decorated very tasteful. It’s not cluttered or tacky. I miss my parents and my brother and other family so much. But, my HOME is my sanctuary. I’ve spent so many wonderful hours here. I go thrifting and to yard sales every so often. And if something makes me happy or would be of use I buy it. And, there isn’t a set time to grieve and move on. That’s the most disrespectful thing anyone can ever say.
I love you and Desi. Have a wonderful week. God bless you. I’ll see you next Saturday. ❤️🙏🏻🥰
I love you so much! You know what helps your heart and it's your life...I bet your home is so beautiful!!! Happy 4th of July!!! xo Susan & Desi
I love that you said your home is your sanctuary. I've always said I want to escape the world to my house. My home. Especially these days. But you said it better. ❤️
@@chewkie01thank you. I’ve always felt this way. So many wonderful memories with my family here.
@@LittlePoetthank you so much Susan. I hope you and Desi have a wonderful 4th of July. I pray Desi isn’t scared of fireworks. I love you both too. Watching your channel helps me out so much. I’m having a few health issues and they really have my depression going overtime. But, when I watch you it makes me so happy and I forget about my problems. Thank you beautiful lady. And, God bless you. He’s using you to help people like me. 🙏🏻❤️🥰You’re such a sweetheart. 🥰
I was told the same; “your home, it’s like a museum!” I have very unique things I’ve collected and love, yes, most are old but well displayed and not overwhelming. I was at first put off but now take as a compliment as they said after visiting; “we love your home! The Most important person to love my home is me! 😊
I have been surprised recently how my happiness factor has increased significantly by having a bird feeder! One of the darlings ventured to eat a few hours after the feeder was up! They now sing their sweet songs nearby. They are my music, and I am going to get suet too, to help fatten them up before the cold snowing winter! 😊😍🥰
I have been following your postings for quite a while and this has been one of my most favorite ones..Especialy the part about grieving, and that one grieves in their own way and time. I will never understand those people who get so upset over something that has nothing to do with them or truthfully any of their business..I love the fact that you always remain faithful to your beliefs whether others agree or not.
I so enjoy and always look forward to your posts ..Much happiness to you always...
Possibly add a beautiful wind chime to your listening room. The sound is magical with a slight breeze. I imagine you sitting there listening to music with a cold glass of lemonade or tea soaking in the solitude of peace.
I sit on my balcony each morning and just look at the trees and sky and enjoy my coffee. It starts my day and makes me feel happy and relaxed.
Your home is beautiful, Susan. Trends come and go but a welcoming and warm space never goes out of style. I love your curated style.❤
Perfectly said! ❤
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When we moved to our country cottage I was determined to have a living room for conversation and music only and we have it! There’s a 1930s couch, 2 French country chairs, Italian marble coffee table, a piano, a 1964 record player, a 1941 tube radio and a Bose radio/CD player. Oh and bookshelves with classics, cookbooks and antique books. It’s a room of refuge; for reading, talking, praying and-- listening!
My family room couch used to belong to my parents. It’s a 4 seater, it’s been reupholstered at least 4 times, but I love it! I found a photo of myself sitting on it when I was 10-11 and I’m 67now. It’s a well made couch. I can’t part with it!
Love that!
Beautiful 🥲
Sorry no Folk art for me! Lol French, Shabby Chic and Cottage for me, I’m 75 and love girly and lots of roses 🥀. I love that the lady is remembering someone who was special in her life! Gods Love to you and Master Desi 🥰👵🏽❤️👍🏾
Grieving is forever it comes in wave’s birthdays Holidays yesterday I cried for my son his birthday is this month and I think of his birth and how happy I was he was so tiny my daddy called him peanut because he was no bigger than a peanut. I incorporated chickens and Roosters into my kitchen and throughout my home I love that you shared the shrine with us I salute this soldier for his service and sacrifice for all of us. Love 💕 and hugs 🤗 coming your ❤Susie
I absolutely love how you decorated your new home. It is so you, pretty, peaceful, not a cookie cutter decorating, and not over done.
So well said! I feel the same way. And I love learning, too! I love learning from others who do things so well; and Susan does just that!
I agree with your view on grief. I lost my beloved husband Chris to covid in 2021. He was only 58. Full of life. We had plans for a little ranch, now plans have changed for me. I'm alone now, but I know I'll be reunited with him one day. I'll never "Move on", but we move "Forward".
As someone who has lost my precious brother in a war I think her tribute is absolutely beautiful. My condo is decorated in blues, grey blue and red. I love it. Your home is gorgeous, Susan.❤️🇨🇦🇺🇸🪖
This is YOUR home, and it is beautiful. YOU are the one who lives there, and you need to decorate how you enjoy your home, not for others.
I like unique, too. A friend once told me that I have an eclectic taste in decorating. I agree with your thoughts about grief, too. You certainly give us a lot of food for thought. You seem so much happier since you have moved. What a positive role model you are for all of us! Thanks for everything, Susan!
I too have a tin roof, and when it rains, it brings tranquility at its finest. Mother Nature's ability to heal souls with the sound of her replenishing what the earth needs, those are the days I curl up with a blanket and fireplace lit... in my own little world. Favourite trend of mine would have to be different essential oil scents in diffuser for different days. (Cleaning?.... resting?...company?... or concentrating on studies?).... with a good cuppa tea!....🍵🫖
Years ago my home was filled with antique furniture. I refinished all of the pieces myself . I had sideboards desks tables dining table chairs. I lost it all in a house fire. I can never replace them again at this stage of my life . The pieces I had can’t even be found anymore . They had a story and so much character . Grief is all the love in our heart and why it hurts so much. We take them with us and although we move forward they remain with us on our journey.
Minimalistic will never be a trend for me. Susan your house looks so warm and inviting. Well done 👏
I feel like our home should be a showcase of our journey. I keep something special from all the special people I have loved in my lifetime…it tells a story of who we are and where we have been and who we have loved…unique only to you. Your channel is so peaceful and uplifting..thank you for sharing 😊
Desi is such a joy to watch - he’s one of the best things to bloom in your beautiful garden!
He's an absolute charmer!! ❤
I love him so much too.
So wonderful to see the new little spring in his small legs! 😊 ❤❤
I love folk art, always have and always will. There is something about folk art that makes me laugh and reminds me to be happy.
“….things that impress me, not other people.” Yes!! Well said. I’m 65 (almost) and over the years I’ve ‘collected’ items for my home that are definitely unique unto me. And if I’m out and about and I see something that touches me then I’ll get it. But as I’ve gotten older I’ve found that I’m very selective on my purchases.
I got the biggest grin when you showed the clip of Desi and his little new friend one fence over!
Im so happy for both of you! Xxoo
Oh that Desi!!! He has so many friends!!!!! They just love him! Happy weekend to you! You are so kind! xo Susan & Desi
@@LittlePoet why do I find that not hard to believe? Who wouldn’t love that darling boy! He’s precious!
Happy weekend to both of you also. Xxoo
Love your taste you give me ideas thanks for flair and colors ❤️
You are glowing beauty and love and spread light and love! Thank you! Sending you and everyone reading this love and peace! 💕🙏🏻🌻
Excuse my bad English, I'm from Germany. It's been a long time since i learned it.
There is a saying here:
"Bevor du über mich und mein Leben urteilst, zieh meine Schuhe an und geh meinen Weg."
I try to translate it:
"Before you judge me and my life, put on my shoes and walk my way"
And that's so true.
Greetings from me and my cat Sally, Birgitt
Vielen Dank, dass du hier auf meinem Kanal bist. Ich liebe dein Zitat. Verurteile niemals einen Mann, bis du in seine Schuhe schlüpfst. Ich sende euch Liebe und Umarmungen, Susan und Desi
There is no timeline for grief. I agree with you, no one has the right to tell us its time to move on! I'm not sure if it's a trend but I love to have candles burning/faux candles throughout my home. Your home is beautifully decorated!
Perhaps she has moved on but is paying her respect for his service this 4th of July. We are free because of men like him.❤
@@carolwaite4343 I 100% agree! It is so touching...
@@carolwaite4343 AMEN!!
Yes Amen
I can’t help from thinking the person saying “ move on” aren’t appreciative of the sacrifices we Military families make for their FREEDOM 🇺🇸
You ask if any of us like folk art. I do like/love it. I have five really great ones, that I bought at estate sales and yard sales. Your yard is improving weekly. Anyone that has lost those we loved can totally understand and appreciate your neighbors memorial. Everyone grieves differently. Every time is see Desi in your back yard having a great time, is makes me smile. Hugs, Caroline
I used to live in MI, but have since moved. Our home holds no trends, just displays our love for local artists and our own art. Yes, grief comes in all sorts of ways, just as it leaves. Everyone deserves to express it on a very deep and personal level. Have a great week you two!😁
Oh I so agree with you....it's none of my business...its my business to be their friend. Love to you! Susan
You are so happy in your new location! Even your voice is different! Im so happy for you and Desi!
I am a big thrifting gal. I love the trend of not following a trend. If you choose colors, pieces of furniture and decor that you love, it will always be in style. I can't wait to get in my own home and decorate it. One day, it will happen.
Honoring someone who has passed on is not the same as grief, it's merely a nod to say "I remember" a mark of respect, rather like crossing oneself going past a church. As for trends, forget them. Two of my most precious pieces of furniture are solid mahogany, very old when the were bought in Ireland in the 50s, traveled to South Africa with my mother in the 80s and are now in my apartment in Vancouver since early 2000s. They are like nothing you would find here, one very decoratively carved console the other a bureau, completely out-of today's style. And yet, I remember where they stood in my childhood home, and they nourish my soul when I polish them. Only have things in your lovely home that nourish you, you have earned that Susan ❤☘
I don't believe in trends. I have thrift for years and decades; if it makes one happy it is terrific. Don't follow trends follow your heart! Love your channel Susan and Desi!!
I agree that our home should reflect who we are. It should be a place of refuge and sanctuary, in which we can relax and refresh ourselves from the chaos in the world around us. I don't follow trends, either. I have a place of prayer in my home; a space at the end of my hallway that I have dedicated to the Lord. My granddaughter is three and she wants to go to Grandma's "church", aka my apartment!! I have many thrifted crystal and beautiful dishes and tea sets. I have bookshelves and comfortable places to curl up with a book. My style is more European, with dark woods. My daughters are french country with light woods. I love how each of our homes reflect our own personalities. That is what makes a home unique. I love your style. Thanks for the videos!!
Yes, yes, yes to thrifting! I have been doing it for over 40 years! I love this ‘listening room’ idea! Love you, Susan!
I taught folk art painting for many years. I’m so glad to see a revival!
YES!!! I am so excited! It's about time!!!
Can we please just SEE more of Desi incorporated into your videos. Please..We love him so much! He's a Star TOO! 😉 🐶
OK! More Desi!!!
Watching your video on this full moon night while unable to sleep. What you said about grief is so true. Death is timeless, and anyone who has experienced profound loss understands that you never move on, but eventually find ways to reinvent yourself into the changed person you are, as you accept that life has closed a chapter and opened a new one. It took me a long time to understand that I had to leave the old life behind-a life I struggled to maintain while feeling pain from reminders of the old life that were everywhere. When my husband died, I had no idea who I was without him. We had been together so long, and our children were not yet fully raised. I poured myself into them, making sure they left the nest prepared to face the world, in spite of the loss of their father. After they were gone, I fell apart for awhile. Then I pulled myself together and tried to fit in as usual, with the same friends and community that had been our couple’s world. Everyone was so nice, but I felt they did expect me to get over it, and there was nobody to really relate to about the death because I was relatively young when it happened, and they were all married couples. It required putting on a happy face while feeling lost inside. In time, I learned that it felt more peaceful outside that community, and I began slowly slipping away from it. It was ultimately a couple of incidents where people told me to get over it that motivated me to leave. These days, I choose friends carefully and gravitate towards those capable of empathy. It has allowed me to live more authentically, and to discover and explore the creative side of life that was always there but sometimes overshadowed by other things. Leaving one’s old, comfortable community and home is not easy, but sometimes it must be done in order to find one’s self, and thrive.
Yes to each one having their own style.. I still love the farmhouse look.. guess it’s my style it was a dream of mine years ago.. then it became a trend..
I'm glad some peeps don't like your taste in decorating. Less competition when you let us call "dibs" on a sleep-over. FYI I do dishes, vacuum, scrub toilets and love dogs. I am a super-duper-pooper-scooper-upper. I even clean out gutters and behind refrigerators. (The frig was pushing it, but hey, a gal's gotta do whatta gal's gotta do!)
The sound of the rain is soothing! Love your folk art, and yes, the vase is beautiful on its own!
Grief does not have an expiration date.🤗♥🤗 Thank you for your lovely and thoughtful words.
Susan, you are so talented in the way you film, edit, the music in your videos. I feel like I am watching a movie! I enjoy the conversation, tips. And just chatting about life in general! My God bless you and your new home ❤️ I have something exciting in my life right now! I live alone with my little dog Chloe:) my daughter has been a single mom for 7 years, she has met someone very special and they are getting married the end of August. I am planning to buy her current small home! It is in a nice neighborhood so I will be able to walk Chloe and live closer to my daughter as well! Life over 60 can be beautiful, I saw a quote on a sign at work that said “ Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful” ! That is so true 😊
Wow!! I am so happy for all that is coming your way. The best!!
True! So very true I love THRIFTING. I never worry about what people say when I have visitors most people say… Oh that’s so you! The color blue will be SPRINKLED throughout my home. That’s my birthstone color sapphire blue LOVE IT! Enjoying LIFE❤️😂❤️
I love the way you decorated your home. Yes, I like folk art because it's different, it's a conversation piece. I love how that neighbor honours her loved one. We should never forget the sacrifice of our veterans. Have a great week 😊
I love folk art. I am 83 years old. I have collected it since I was in my early 20’ies. It gets better each year as I do.
Lovely video! The memorial with the photo of the soldier on the porch touched my heart deeply. So many have served our country, and I am grateful for them, both living and deceased. I am grateful for the freedom I have experienced because of those who served. I think your video was about way more than decorating. 😘 I enjoy seeing your new home and always Desi. I'm so happy for you both!
Your house is a beautiful home. Decorate your home to bring joy into your heart. Someone will always criticise. Never mind about other people.😊
Your home looks cozy and comfortable. Decorate with what makes you happy, not trendy. Enjoy your week Susan and Desi!
Your home is warm, comfortable and beautiful. Care about what makes you warm and comfortable. Don’t care about what someone else feels about your home. Each of us has different tastes and opinions about decorating. To each his own. Enjoy your home, smile and be happy. God bless you on a new chapter in your book of life. ❤️🙏
Dear Susan,
I love, love all your trends. My trends are tea pots with cups with saucer; of course the older the best, I found wonderful treasure in yard sales, thrift shop and antiques stores. I enjoy every decor that you do, you have a gift. Thank you for sharing with us. Kisses and hug for Desi! ☕
You are so right in saying we all greive in our own way and in our own time. It took me a very long time of grieving over my sister's death. One thing I learned was to never tell someone how to grieve or for how long.
Your home is lovely! The folk art pieces made me smile. I like the idea of a “listening room” and would maybe add a wind chime. What a beautiful yard you have. Do you have a hummingbird feeder somewhere in the yard ? I can imagine what it must feel like having a cup of coffee in your kitchen or sitting on the bench outside. Everything looks so cozy , peaceful and calm. Your video made my day. You radiate beauty and kindness right from your heart. ❤️
Hello lovely Susan
Wishing you a happy blessed 4th of July Happy Birthday our America little pink houses for you and me 😊❤❤❤❤
My wife and I found a sailor in a small boat that rocked back and forth on a tiny platform in a restaurant our son bought. it was such an interesting piece of folk art and no one who worked in the restaurant knew anything about it. It was just there on top of the dessert fridge. About 10 years later, we viewed a home with our real estate agent as we searched for a new place to live. My wife saw a similar piece on a table in the home. Both of the owners couldn't remember where or when they got it but they really like it. Today our sailor who we rescued from the restaurant when it was sold sits in the same room on a similar table where its friend used to rock back and forth.
Lov❤e your listening room idea. I was born in the early 60's and loved hearing my Dad playing his violins and playing his old vinyl records on the "tube" stereo in it's now vintage, beautiful wooden cabinet. It is still there in my parent's home, along with my Dad's music stand and violins. Today, my youngest brother writes his songs and makes his music videos there. So, yes, a music room is a place to relax, enjoy, and remember.
I love that someone put the time and love into a shrine for the person who they lost. Do you ever stop missing a child? Your husband? Never. You shouldn't move on because they're forever a part of you. You should be proud of them and always honor their memory. I still go to Veterans' Day services and I'm damned proud of my father who was a three-war vet. He's been gone since 1997. A hundred years couldn't erase my pride and I have moved on. But, there's still a Dad shaped hole in my life. On another note, your house looks beautiful and I guess I'm trendy. I painted my kitchen blue 8 years ago. The rest of it might be trendy next year? Who knows? LOL I hope that Desi is sooo happy getting to play in his yard whenever he wants. No more waiting for a lead and trudging out through a parking lot or down a walkway. Good boyo. Love to you both xx
Yes...that was comfort for this lady. It is in God's time. Everything under His sky is under His jurisdiction. Thank you!! God Bless.
I love folk art. The pieces you have in your home are so much fun.
The shrine your neighbour built for her loved one is beautiful and touching, hopefully brings her a sense of peace.
Your home looks great, so glad Desi has a yard to explore and play in.
Oh my goodness, your home is so cozy, and welcoming, and has so much personality and uniqueness, I just love it! ❤️🌺❤️
Thank you so much Jenifer!!! I am always so happy to see you!!!! I have missed our Venus escapades! I found the perfect little house for me and Dez! I made the right move...even when folks tell us what they think we should do....we know what is right for us, This is a fresh start and I am loving it more each day! Happy July my dear friend!!! xxoo Susan
You've made your house a home in a very short amount of time. That takes real talent. It's cozy and inviting, yet has style and pizzazz. I love it.
You’re so right! It does take real talent. And Susan definitely has the talent for it. I wish she posted more often. She inspires me and I need that these days. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I never needed help before. It just happened. It flowed. Praying that it comes back. I think part of it is heart problems and open heart surgery. It takes a lot of effort now that it didn’t take before, darn it.
Agreed 100%! So cozy and inviting! Who wouldn't want to visit!
The listening room is a great idea. When I was a teenager, my old Uncle Ed who lived with us had a huge old radio like that, and I had a ball hearing my 50's rock n roll on it and listening to the 'Sky Castle in Greensboro, NC where all the teens congregated!
All that matters is not whether you like my decor or not… what matters is that we both get the “at home “ feeling that’s makes our house a home! I’ve always known that you’ve loved where you’re living. No one else’s opinion matters.❤
I've lost many...
Many..tho I don't grief daily, they exist inside me, a song, a color, a special smell, a meal, a place...can bring one back decades and make you grief that, special love one in an instant ❤️. Every time I trim my steak I remember my doggies..😢
Susan , I love your sensitive nature , it’s the respect for creative ways to express our place on our individual journeys I also am an artist and decorate by creating a desired atmosphere in my home , but separate from that , in each room and the purpose for each room . When people come to visit , they’re visiting me , they know what they’re getting before they come , a different expression of me extended to them that hopefully makes them feel welcome .
Love that!
This is my favorite video. I wish I lived on the other side of Michigan so we could have fun thrifting together. When you show your decor I see some things I already own such as your living room carpet and electric fireplace. In the late 70’s I sold my handmade folk art and I really enjoyed your love for it. But most of all I love seeing the world through your “lens”. Your appreciation for the small lovely things in life is actually the best part of life that many of us miss. Most of all I loved your segment on the lady with the Veteran photo in her yard. It was heartwarming and so beautiful. Your videos are always heartfelt and thought provoking. I set aside a special time to spend with you every week. Thank you!❤️❤️❤️
Susan I absolutely love folk art I always have I have collected for cats similar to yours and I love them they make me smile every day !!!
I just found your channel.
Love it.
So relatable.
I am 59 dreading turning 60 next year, but you look fabulous at 68 so you’ve given me hope.
Thankyou for being so brutely honest and exposing a very vulnerable part of yourself on your life’s journey since your marriage breakup. Certainly have blown some wind of hope and inspiration under my tied wings.
Love to you from Australia x
I don’t know, I just love falling in love with what I like... that feels good to me. When I reflect who I am others I attract are there to just enjoy. This feel good to me. ❤
Nobody says much about my decor, they are my precious antiques
Your decor is so cozy and comforting, especially how you've blended your thrift store finds with everything! The thrift store can't be beat for finding beautiful pieces!
You have made your house, a home.. the lady that made her shrine. Comes back yo what makes a person happy. May of been sad in the beginning but now makes her smile and shows her Love.
I confess I am a thriftaholic but I have never seen shops as good as the ones you have, Susan. I am saving for my trip to Michigan! 😘👍🏼🇨🇦
I invite you to Vancouver Island, you’ll have much fun thrifting and the wonderful people you meet along the way. ❤
I grew up in Ohio. This reminds me so much of my childhood street.
Marlene peters- i style with dollies, books,plants,pictures. Just anything i like. So cozy and earm.
have seen
Susan, how I wait for your video every Saturday.
Was so eager to see how you are doing in your
Wonderful new home. You never fail to delight and charm
With your sharing, so wonderful to see wee Desi having
Such freedom in his own back yard.
Your happiness shines through, your kindness and
Integrity so evident. I could weep with the beautiful way
You explained the story of. Displayed photographs from a Mother's heart
For her son.only someone who could walk in her moccasins would truly understand
Her grieving Heart ❤amen 🙏
Happy 4th July, from
Mary Vancouver BC on this July 1st Canada Day🍁
An honor to share this beautiful video!!! Males me smile.
you are so kind! Thank you so much and Happy 4th!
One of my special things I do is I’ve made each room different so whatever mood I’m in I can pick a place to go be at peace. My bedroom is a cozy cabin theme with battery timer tea lights lanterns and cabin decor, my livingroom is oil paintings I have thrifted. All beautiful flowers of some kind and color, my kitchen is vintage thrifted items. And so on. I love it all. Your new place is amazing. I love so many things about it
Your neighbor's Memorial keeps his memory alive to her❤ God bless our brave Veterans for their service to our country.
Your home is decorated so beautiful, Susan. I love how you are able to find unique pieces including your art work at thrift stores. You are right…you can’t find such wonderful pieces at Target, Lazy Boy or any other retail store….only while thrifting. And sweet Desi…he seems to be so happy at his new home. I adore him so much and I could squeeze him and kiss him!
I love your stories...we all grieve or honor our loved ones in our own way. If there is a heaven and we can look down...he would be happy he was not forgotten. It doesn't mean she isn't living...she is just honoring his life in her own way. Love the rain...wish we would get some in Texas.
Your son must be thrilled to have you close & living in that charming home❤
The way you show the special things you found at this thrift store., It’s almost like you rescuing them and loving them again in their new home. :).
Thank you for sayign that...so many times I feel I do adopt them and love them again!