I just shaved my head like an hour ago, I've been watching this channel trying to make my mind and I finally did it. If someone reading this is thinking about shaving, do it bro, you won't regret it. You will immediately feel better with yourself. Much love for everyone going through this situation and enjoy y'all new life when taking the leap🤠🤙
Wow what a transformation you look so good and so much younger, it just amazes me that us guys who have lived in fear of going bald take the decision to shave it short and within a very little time we want to go even shorter with a razor cut, you mentioned lack of maintenance but you will now be shaving your head every 2 to 3 days and loving it, I have been using a headblade for a easy and very close shave/cut....enjoy your new life
Looks great! I'm 45 and began balding at 15 years old but didn't accept it until I was 25. Shaving my head was the best decision I ever made. Having this kind of support would have been amazing!
It looks good, brother! Embrace the bald look! Just watching you shave it off, I could see a weight lifted off your shoulders. Videos like this from Baldcafe just keep inspiring others. I shaved my head back during the Covid days of 2020 and haven't gone back. One thing I learned from this channel, Balding is not a choice, being bald is. Also, from my experience when you meet new people, they're not going to question why you're bald.
You look fantastic🎉 much better, and really does suit you. Love the psychological analysis this fella provides, as someone who shaved in lock down, I can relate to the release of energy felt right after doing it. I sit here now with hair again, but I know within a year tops, I’ll be in this situation. Keep posting these videos BaldCafe, they help so many! 👌🙌
He looks sooo much better bald and his face shows it. Congratulations! I love that moment of “just do it” and then the look of relief that he finally hit that point of no return and took that first swipe. I remember that moment and it was so freeing! I also remember thinking my face would look so fatter (I have a S&P beard), but in reality it streamlined my entire face, and did the same for Patrick. So many guys look so much better bald.
Wow that bald look is 10000 times better than with hair, and you can do everything now, swimming, walking in the rain, walking in de wind, no more hustle in front of the mirror, no more low self esteem, and you look much better, its a win win win situation !!!! I'm bald and i like it, if i can choose to have hair, i prefer being bald !!
He looks younger and better looking after that shave. My hair isn’t as bad but I always think about shaving it all off would just be more relaxing like weight off your shoulders
My father has been shaving his head for as long as I've been alive, he still has a fantastic hairline for his age, but he chose to shave anyway. Knowing someone like him who confidently rocks the shaved look by CHOICE has completely eliminated any sort of stigma around shaved heads that I may have had. While I am nowhere close to balding I still shave my head for the convenience and because my father taught me to love the look haha. I hope more men learn that shaving your head isn't admitting defeat, it is CONFIDENCE!! Lovely video.
I think i lucked out in the hair department, on my mother's side they have really good hair, even my grandpa being in his early 90s still have thick hair, so does his brothers, his father was the same, my mother has really thick hair as well, i got a direct copy of my grandpa's hairline, i am close to my 40s and i have the exact same hairline and thickness as i did in my early 20s. I am very thankful for not having to deal with genetic hairloss, it looks awful on young men.
You honestly look better without hair than you do with hair - you were born to rock the bald look brother. You’re gonna look ever better once your scalp gets a nice tan, which will naturally happen over time.
From balding hair, yes. But not from a full head of hair. You know, a person with a full head of hair can shave bald. But a bald person can't gain full hair to rock.
Don't be afraid of going full bald, you can definitely look good and be confident. What you can control is being in shape and grow a beard if you are able
Watching these videos finally gave me the courage to go ahead and shave mine, I started balding when i was 19 and i tried everything i could to try and hide it, eventually it got so bad that it was pretty much impossible to hide and everyone would always point out that i had a bald spot and that my hairline has been receding, Ive always gave it a lot of thought to just go ahead and shave it all off and get it over with but i was nervous that i wouldnt look good without hair. Watching these videos finally gave me the courage to shave it off today and i honestly feel so much better, its just a huge relief to not have to constantly worry about trying to make my hair look a certain way. If anyone is thinking about doing it you might as well just do it, i promise youll feel so much better, your friends might say something about it, but it'll all come and go, plus think about the amount of money youll be able to save on shampoo and conditioner 😂
Looking smart and stylish Patrick! Recognise feeling vulnerable at first. There is strength in that. Now I feel more powerful in exposing myself. it takes time, dont worry.
Fair play! Takes alot of courage to remove the guard from the clippers. I started thinning when I was 22 and spent 18 months trying to master the comb over. Then one day shopping in Sainsburys some young lad shouted "Melon Head" at me. Enough was enough. I wasn't taking this crap anymore so went home and shaved the whole lot off. Haven't looked back since
Did you try 1.5mm micro needling weekly? I've seen people completely bald reverse the losses. I personally do it as well. Feels like tattooing your head but it's worth it.
After doing everything possible to save and replace your hair, experiencing frustration overload and emotions shot, I'd say you look hands-down better with a shaved head, no doubt about it! Your emotions and frustrations with every fail were very well explained. People who're losing their hair will benefit from this video. I bet you wish you had done it years ago and saved yourself from the torment.
He didn't try everything possible, he tried everything that's non effective and didn't try the only effective solution - hair transplantation, he would saved himself from years of torment and have full head of hair, which he obviously wanted to have. Hair transplantation is one of teh best decisions that i made, the only thing i regret taht i didn't do it years ago.
@@alienbishop What if he couldn't afford it? What if the transplant didn't work out like he wanted it to? Not everyone has the money and not every transplant goes as well as expected.
@@wellingsrob4 Transplant not working was 20 Years ago, as for not being able to afford it, check proces in Turkey, it is so cheap, even with flights it's quite affordable, especially considering how much most of people spend on all the stuff that doesn't work before they decide to shave their head.
*I learned how to deal with my balding from my father and my grandfather. They kept the sides trimmed up and walked around like a G. I learned how not to allow my hair to define me nor own me. I started to lose my hair at a way later date but, luckily, they taught me how to drop that weight and walk tall.*
Great video! I am 21 years old and my hairline is also moving further and further back. It always hurts to see friends who are even older than me but have much fuller hair. I am still unsure when the right moment is to take the step to baldness. But your videos motivate me very much not to think that is the end.
My dad has hair my mates have hair but I'm balding bad I had a hairtransplant and I've taken medication but still my hair falls my advice is take the shave see how you feel befor making any decisions I no alot now about hair loss but didn't when I made bad decisions I've got a nasty scar of transplant. Good look in what decisions you make on hair loss
Finasteride and minoxidil. I'm a little older than you and started a year ago and my hair loss seems to have stopped completely. I rarely ever see hair when I shower and I've had a regrowth and density that I didn't expect. I got on early, before anyone else would have been able to notice and looking at my dad and grandpas the hairloss was only ever going to be diffuse thinning because they still have hair. The sooner you start the better and the less aggressive it is, the better your odds.
@@wolves1980 Oral. Topical is for those that report side effects, which effects a small minority of men. It's also easier to commit to, taking 1 pill a day is easier than putting some solution in your hair every morning or night.
Looks great. (as expected!) I've been shaving my head, for the last 3,5 years or so. At first out of necessity, as all barbershops were closed for several months due to corona. I fully understand the doubts and fear of taking the clippers for the first time and just do it, but I never looked back since and I'm totally happy with it now. Still,...if it wasn't for the Baldcafe channel I don't know if I'd had the courage to take the plunge.
Loved your honesty and that you could share your story with all of us. I went through the same thing as you and tried SO many of the same "remedies" that didn't work. It became a viscous cycle and I got sick of the same old results. I started shaving my head about 15 years ago and it was such a release of insecurity! I felt more confident and happy and saved a lot on haircuts lol I think you look great and the combo of the beard looks awesome! Doesn't hurt that you're a musician too, my wife loves my guitar playing 😉 Thanks again for story ✌️😎🤘
@@Baldcafe it just came to the point where I got sick of spending money on all these products that never worked. If you have enough confidence in yourself then who cares about hair 😎 Love your videos! You do a lot of good work my friend 👍 Cheers
Getting over the mental problem of thinking you still can look good without hair is the battle. When today still society makes balding the butt of a joke. The ultimate insult. That is another problem.. This guy explains clearly the whole progression of going though loosing hair from a younger age to getting a little older. I am in my single 50's yes still but still sadly have that instinct to want to put my hat on when an attractive girl is around. Not going after young girls but even for older women still have that stigma and I shave my head for 20 years but can't get over the mental problem of thinking I look good without hair.
Are you on 💯 with other areas of your life? Grooming, hygiene, style of clothes, interests, body, finances? Focus on the things you CAN control and be excellent at it. Women don’t see bald heads when everything else is on point! However, baldness is not a plus when the other areas of your life are lacking, including true confidence, which you will have once you focus on what you can change. ☮️🌻
@@texasgoddess323Yes bro but a people with hair could take care of hair and self confidence and other areas… ij this society there is competition self confidence is important but I want both self confidence and hair 😅
Nah , if you take it as an insult, then it's an insult. But if you accept it as short coming, it's different feelings. Of course you can always use Stantom and a few celebrities out there bald completely. It's really nothing matter until you make it as an issue.
@@Jokerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Hi, Jack! I get it that you want hair!!!☺️Did you read anything I wrote? Are YOU on point in the other areas of your life? Are YOU reading interesting things so that you become more interesting? We’re not worried about the other ppl. Focus on changing what you can change and accepting the things that you can’t. 🌻Goddess (I am a woman, not a bro.)
Bro u can rock the look. I cannot because my head is just too big but I wish I can because not having to worry about hair whether land, sea, rain or shine, seems like a dream.
Can agree. Not balding either, woke up one day and saw myself in the mirror with horrible bed hair. Instead of combing I decided to shave bald and I love it. The feeling is nice and I don't need to style my hair anymore. Keeping it smooth from now on. Maybe I'll grow my hair out again in the future, but for now I'll sport the bald look.
Im 55 and still have most of my hair but if I had thin hair I would just keep it shaved or very short…theres nothing to hide just be you…life goes by really fast and you will regret the time and energy wasted worrying about hair loss..
I have a hypothesis, please respond if you have done this and seen any results. People who have tried Minoxidil or some other scalp lotions for hair growth they always put it on their un-shaved heads, this in my opinion reduces the amount of liquid applied to the scalp because the liquid gets applied to the hair and thus reduces the amount of solution applied to the scalp. WHAT IF you apply minoxidil to a shaved head? This is my hypothesis, my guess is that if you apply minoxidil to a shaved head, all the liquid gets into the scalp instead of soaking some of the hairs. My guess is that applying minoxidil on un-shaved heads increases it potency. Also, laser therapy, if you still have some hairs, the light gets blocked by some of the hairs, thus reducing its efficacy, BUT WHAT IF you use laser therapy on a shaved head where there is hairs blocking its light? Of course this is for subjects that still have hair in the balding spot. Anyone?
Have been shaving my hair since high school - Now in my 50s I'm letting it grow - and to my surprise - my hair is full and have thick hair. I have always liked my hair super short - almost bald (1" on top and 1/2 fade on the sides), and now with this full head of hair - I'm enjoying it. It feels great until the wind hits it as I'm driving - but other than that it feels good to have hair.
Looking great! As someone who's been shaving his head for 25 years it's always funny to see inexperienced guys having a go, you can tell immediately hehehe
Looks good man. Now you are free! Vunerable or exposed are good words for that initial shave because that first step is a big one as your ultra paranoid. A few weeks and a good tan and your a new man. By the way you'll probably wear more hats now it gets cold with a blade zero! 😀
You look great! Shave it down to 0 with electric shaver. I shaved my head for the first time last month due to thinning hair as well. I felt apprehensive at first, but now feel great! I recommend the Braun series 9 pro. It gives a smooth blade like shave with no risk of getting cut.
Stuck in that transition phase of not being able to accept I’m bald and need to just shave it all off .. had a good innings up to 38-40 given my old man went bald in his early 20s
I was forced to get a hair transplant instead of shaving my head. I was told if I would shave my head I was going to be kicked out of the house. Right before the hair transplant treatment they shave your head to prepare for the extraction and I did feel an instant relief of stress and anxiety fall. I wish I could've walked with just a shaved head for a while instead of going with the treatment. It would've saved me a enormous amount of money and would also have been better for my self confidence. A hair transplant can be done whenever. I am about 3 months into the hair transplant journey and it fucking sucks. I got ingrown hairs and parts of the transplant didn't work so I most likely need a second round. Its not the quality of the work or the place that did it, they did an amazing job. Let's hope the end result will be worth it.
When i was about 17 i started losing my hair and I've always wanted to be a rock star talented but was upset of the fact that all of my friends had hair and my favourite musician aa well. One day i was feeling down and my dad walked in my room and asked me what was wrong. I told him that my hair was falling out and was concerned about becoming bald. His answer to me was son with a face that you have i would rather be bald and have a gorgeous face like you. that made me feel so good ,and you know he was right i do have a beautiful face .
when you shave youre head its like you got nothing to hide anymore... i agree its better then trying to maintain something that keeps runing from you... its just like a relationship.... as long as you try to keep her you will lose her more but not only that... youre self respect energy and maybe much more... so yeah... it a relief i think....
Honestly the best way. People spend so much money and more importantly time, dealing with combating baldness. Social media tries to portray baldness as a disease when it's mostly genetic. Just the usual crap trying to make everyone look exactly the same. Sure a lot of women don't like bald men, but a lot don't like fat men, short men, men with no confidence, overly confident men. So many variables, what's the point in worrying. Be yourself, be happy, and the right people will stay, enter your life. Coming from a bald guy with a beautiful wife and 3 kids.
Something you find out when you lose your hair is that people don’t care. Most women don’t care as well. Appearance doesn’t matter as much for guys (although you should be in good shape, well dressed and hygienic), what matters is confidence, competence and “complication” (mysterious).
that is true, I am not balding but I decided to try out that new look and people in my neighborhood don't care that from one day to another I went from a full head of hair to bald. Only people that might care are my parents and I am sure hell will break loose if they visit next week.
"Most women don't care" is untrue. Don't care = now you're more invisible to women from an attractiveness standpoint. Don't get it twisted, women are more attracted to a full head of hair.
@Re3iRtH Not true at all! SOME women don't like bald guys, some don't care but SOME are into bald guys like you couldn't imagine...... different women like different things 👌😀
Idk why i feel its scalp ringworm , he should have gone to a dermatologist to check if he had scalp conditions , getting redness dots on scalp is not normal n can be sign of an infection. Most hairs regrow after treating it with oral meds
@@minsharminni3177 Now that he's shaved he should use the big 3 plus microneedling and see what springs up... that is, if he cares about it at all at this point.
I just shaved my head like an hour ago, I've been watching this channel trying to make my mind and I finally did it. If someone reading this is thinking about shaving, do it bro, you won't regret it. You will immediately feel better with yourself. Much love for everyone going through this situation and enjoy y'all new life when taking the leap🤠🤙
You legend congratulations 🎉
Try red onion shampoo, it worked for me
I did it for 6 months and it made me feel worse. I grew it out and I feel better tbh
@@Baldcafe How have you not heard of Avodart? All this information at peoples fingertips and each would rather be on Tiktok than looking it up.
@@jd0879 dutasteride 0.5 mg
Looking good
I remember when I was shaving my head bald and it was like experiencing freedom each time. Great look for you! Keep the bald style!
Wow what a transformation you look so good and so much younger, it just amazes me that us guys who have lived in fear of going bald take the decision to shave it short and within a very little time we want to go even shorter with a razor cut, you mentioned lack of maintenance but you will now be shaving your head every 2 to 3 days and loving it, I have been using a headblade for a easy and very close shave/cut....enjoy your new life
Its easier said then done and looks awful on skinny dudes
@@simonshura9144 not sure it really makes any difference what a guys body shape is.
Get a bald buddy. It makes it much easier to shave more often.
@@costaricke it does I'm shaving my head every 2/3 days now just never realised how quickly it grows
Looks great! I'm 45 and began balding at 15 years old but didn't accept it until I was 25. Shaving my head was the best decision I ever made. Having this kind of support would have been amazing!
It looks good, brother! Embrace the bald look! Just watching you shave it off, I could see a weight lifted off your shoulders.
Videos like this from Baldcafe just keep inspiring others. I shaved my head back during the Covid days of 2020 and haven't gone back.
One thing I learned from this channel, Balding is not a choice, being bald is. Also, from my experience when you meet new people, they're not going to question why you're bald.
You look fantastic🎉 much better, and really does suit you. Love the psychological analysis this fella provides, as someone who shaved in lock down, I can relate to the release of energy felt right after doing it. I sit here now with hair again, but I know within a year tops, I’ll be in this situation. Keep posting these videos BaldCafe, they help so many! 👌🙌
I think you need the beard when you shave the head
He looks sooo much better bald and his face shows it. Congratulations! I love that moment of “just do it” and then the look of relief that he finally hit that point of no return and took that first swipe. I remember that moment and it was so freeing! I also remember thinking my face would look so fatter (I have a S&P beard), but in reality it streamlined my entire face, and did the same for Patrick. So many guys look so much better bald.
Well done, you've officially accepted being bald, and you look great, goes really well with the beard.
Wow that bald look is 10000 times better than with hair, and you can do everything now, swimming, walking in the rain, walking in de wind, no more hustle in front of the mirror, no more low self esteem, and you look much better, its a win win win situation !!!!
I'm bald and i like it, if i can choose to have hair, i prefer being bald !!
dude lookin fresh!! feels good to move forward with a new confidence for sure! glad ya made the jump to feel better about yourself!
One of my favorite bald cafe videos. Having turned 30 myself, i resonate with him wanting a clean, tight aesthetic.
He looks younger and better looking after that shave. My hair isn’t as bad but I always think about shaving it all off would just be more relaxing like weight off your shoulders
Dude's got amazing body hair to offset any loss on top. What I'd give to have his beard and chest.
My father has been shaving his head for as long as I've been alive, he still has a fantastic hairline for his age, but he chose to shave anyway. Knowing someone like him who confidently rocks the shaved look by CHOICE has completely eliminated any sort of stigma around shaved heads that I may have had. While I am nowhere close to balding I still shave my head for the convenience and because my father taught me to love the look haha. I hope more men learn that shaving your head isn't admitting defeat, it is CONFIDENCE!! Lovely video.
I think i lucked out in the hair department, on my mother's side they have really good hair, even my grandpa being in his early 90s still have thick hair, so does his brothers, his father was the same, my mother has really thick hair as well, i got a direct copy of my grandpa's hairline, i am close to my 40s and i have the exact same hairline and thickness as i did in my early 20s. I am very thankful for not having to deal with genetic hairloss, it looks awful on young men.
@@HansensUniverseT-A Get off this channel, the pair of you! 😅
@@baronmeduse I'll mail you a sample with glue included!
@@HansensUniverseT-AI hope you go bald
@@HansensUniverseT-Awill I be bald , my father is bald and grandfather is bald and and from my mom's father has full hair
You honestly look better without hair than you do with hair - you were born to rock the bald look brother. You’re gonna look ever better once your scalp gets a nice tan, which will naturally happen over time.
LOoking awesome bro!! Can easily tell your confidence went way up after the shave
These head shave videos are quite entertaining! like a very introspective self-interview! nice work!
Glad you like them!
Through all this years watching this channel, not a single bastard got worst with the shaved head. EVERYONE got a better look.
From balding hair, yes. But not from a full head of hair. You know, a person with a full head of hair can shave bald. But a bald person can't gain full hair to rock.
All of the bald people on this channel look more attractive with a full head of hair. It's human nature.
Don't be afraid of going full bald, you can definitely look good and be confident. What you can control is being in shape and grow a beard if you are able
Watching these videos finally gave me the courage to go ahead and shave mine, I started balding when i was 19 and i tried everything i could to try and hide it, eventually it got so bad that it was pretty much impossible to hide and everyone would always point out that i had a bald spot and that my hairline has been receding, Ive always gave it a lot of thought to just go ahead and shave it all off and get it over with but i was nervous that i wouldnt look good without hair. Watching these videos finally gave me the courage to shave it off today and i honestly feel so much better, its just a huge relief to not have to constantly worry about trying to make my hair look a certain way. If anyone is thinking about doing it you might as well just do it, i promise youll feel so much better, your friends might say something about it, but it'll all come and go, plus think about the amount of money youll be able to save on shampoo and conditioner 😂
Looking smart and stylish Patrick! Recognise feeling vulnerable at first. There is strength in that. Now I feel more powerful in exposing myself. it takes time, dont worry.
Fair play! Takes alot of courage to remove the guard from the clippers. I started thinning when I was 22 and spent 18 months trying to master the comb over. Then one day shopping in Sainsburys some young lad shouted "Melon Head" at me. Enough was enough. I wasn't taking this crap anymore so went home and shaved the whole lot off. Haven't looked back since
He looks 100 years younger and 100 times better. Nice transformation. Still wear hats when you want, you look good with them.
This bloke absolutely rocks the shave look and looks better looking, hope you're keeping well Harry up the plym👍
Thank you kindly 😃
Did you try 1.5mm micro needling weekly? I've seen people completely bald reverse the losses. I personally do it as well. Feels like tattooing your head but it's worth it.
On a good note, you look excellent Dwayne Johnson style.
Doesn't work. I've tried it. Needling your head won't alter DHT production,
@@baronmeduse I think the point is you use in conjunction with dht blockers…
@@richgl31 dht blockers sucks to male body
@@lucas953 I think for most they don’t have any effect…
After doing everything possible to save and replace your hair, experiencing frustration overload and emotions shot, I'd say you look hands-down better with a shaved head, no doubt about it!
Your emotions and frustrations with every fail were very well explained. People who're losing their hair will benefit from this video.
I bet you wish you had done it years ago and saved yourself from the torment.
He didn't try everything possible, he tried everything that's non effective and didn't try the only effective solution - hair transplantation, he would saved himself from years of torment and have full head of hair, which he obviously wanted to have. Hair transplantation is one of teh best decisions that i made, the only thing i regret taht i didn't do it years ago.
@@alienbishop
What if he couldn't afford it?
What if the transplant didn't work out like he wanted it to?
Not everyone has the money and not every transplant goes as well as expected.
@@wellingsrob4 Transplant not working was 20 Years ago, as for not being able to afford it, check proces in Turkey, it is so cheap, even with flights it's quite affordable, especially considering how much most of people spend on all the stuff that doesn't work before they decide to shave their head.
*I learned how to deal with my balding from my father and my grandfather. They kept the sides trimmed up and walked around like a G. I learned how not to allow my hair to define me nor own me. I started to lose my hair at a way later date but, luckily, they taught me how to drop that weight and walk tall.*
Solid role models. Winning 👍
Looks a million times better. Makes you look ten years younger.
Great video! I am 21 years old and my hairline is also moving further and further back. It always hurts to see friends who are even older than me but have much fuller hair. I am still unsure when the right moment is to take the step to baldness. But your videos motivate me very much not to think that is the end.
My dad has hair my mates have hair but I'm balding bad I had a hairtransplant and I've taken medication but still my hair falls my advice is take the shave see how you feel befor making any decisions I no alot now about hair loss but didn't when I made bad decisions I've got a nasty scar of transplant. Good look in what decisions you make on hair loss
Try Finasteride, Minoxidil 5%, and derma roller 1.5 length for a year before you shaved it off forever.
Finasteride and minoxidil. I'm a little older than you and started a year ago and my hair loss seems to have stopped completely. I rarely ever see hair when I shower and I've had a regrowth and density that I didn't expect.
I got on early, before anyone else would have been able to notice and looking at my dad and grandpas the hairloss was only ever going to be diffuse thinning because they still have hair.
The sooner you start the better and the less aggressive it is, the better your odds.
@@danke1150 finasteride oral or topical
@@wolves1980 Oral. Topical is for those that report side effects, which effects a small minority of men.
It's also easier to commit to, taking 1 pill a day is easier than putting some solution in your hair every morning or night.
i went to the gym for the second time bald and it feels really good, usually i wear a hat, i feel more at ease everyday that passes
You look great!
Like a San Francisco hipster!
Looks great. (as expected!) I've been shaving my head, for the last 3,5 years or so. At first out of necessity, as all barbershops were closed for several months due to corona. I fully understand the doubts and fear of taking the clippers for the first time and just do it, but I never looked back since and I'm totally happy with it now. Still,...if it wasn't for the Baldcafe channel I don't know if I'd had the courage to take the plunge.
u actually look good as bald, its not often i can tell u would look as good without as with hair, but u really do look good.
Loved your honesty and that you could share your story with all of us. I went through the same thing as you and tried SO many of the same "remedies" that didn't work. It became a viscous cycle and I got sick of the same old results. I started shaving my head about 15 years ago and it was such a release of insecurity! I felt more confident and happy and saved a lot on haircuts lol
I think you look great and the combo of the beard looks awesome!
Doesn't hurt that you're a musician too, my wife loves my guitar playing 😉
Thanks again for story ✌️😎🤘
Thanks for sharing brother. If I may ask, what was it that finally gave you the push to accept it and move on? What gave you the courage to do it?
@@Baldcafe it just came to the point where I got sick of spending money on all these products that never worked. If you have enough confidence in yourself then who cares about hair 😎
Love your videos! You do a lot of good work my friend 👍
Cheers
I am currently going though what you dealt with, but I feel you have a great nose and perfectly round scalp. It looks great.
Getting over the mental problem of thinking you still can look good without hair is the battle. When today still society makes balding the butt of a joke. The ultimate insult. That is another problem.. This guy explains clearly the whole progression of going though loosing hair from a younger age to getting a little older. I am in my single 50's yes still but still sadly have that instinct to want to put my hat on when an attractive girl is around. Not going after young girls but even for older women still have that stigma and I shave my head for 20 years but can't get over the mental problem of thinking I look good without hair.
Are you on 💯 with other areas of your life? Grooming, hygiene, style of clothes, interests, body, finances? Focus on the things you CAN control and be excellent at it. Women don’t see bald heads when everything else is on point! However, baldness is not a plus when the other areas of your life are lacking, including true confidence, which you will have once you focus on what you can change. ☮️🌻
@@texasgoddess323Yes bro but a people with hair could take care of hair and self confidence and other areas… ij this society there is competition self confidence is important but I want both self confidence and hair 😅
Nah , if you take it as an insult, then it's an insult. But if you accept it as short coming, it's different feelings. Of course you can always use Stantom and a few celebrities out there bald completely. It's really nothing matter until you make it as an issue.
@@Jokerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr Hi, Jack! I get it that you want hair!!!☺️Did you read anything I wrote? Are YOU on point in the other areas of your life? Are YOU reading interesting things so that you become more interesting? We’re not worried about the other ppl. Focus on changing what you can change and accepting the things that you can’t. 🌻Goddess (I am a woman, not a bro.)
@@texasgoddess323 women with universal alopecia use hair system… why a man can’t use it?
Bro u can rock the look. I cannot because my head is just too big but I wish I can because not having to worry about hair whether land, sea, rain or shine, seems like a dream.
looks absolutely awesome well done, welcome to the crew :)
I’m not losing any hair but shave my head regardless. Love the clean look and feeling.
Can agree. Not balding either, woke up one day and saw myself in the mirror with horrible bed hair. Instead of combing I decided to shave bald and I love it. The feeling is nice and I don't need to style my hair anymore. Keeping it smooth from now on. Maybe I'll grow my hair out again in the future, but for now I'll sport the bald look.
So happy for you man!! Looks great 🤙🏼
Good for you bro. Very open about how overall hair loss had weighed heavy. Looks sharper in the 2 pics at the end
Good man. You look fabulous and you’re on your way to freedom. Enjoy your life! 😊
What a transformation! You look great! Keep that look for sure.👍
Im 55 and still have most of my hair but if I had thin hair I would just keep it shaved or very short…theres nothing to hide just be you…life goes by really fast and you will regret the time and energy wasted worrying about hair loss..
The lack of hair brings the focus back to you. Your eyes, your face are great so enjoy the freedom you now have.
I have a hypothesis, please respond if you have done this and seen any results. People who have tried Minoxidil or some other scalp lotions for hair growth they always put it on their un-shaved heads, this in my opinion reduces the amount of liquid applied to the scalp because the liquid gets applied to the hair and thus reduces the amount of solution applied to the scalp. WHAT IF you apply minoxidil to a shaved head? This is my hypothesis, my guess is that if you apply minoxidil to a shaved head, all the liquid gets into the scalp instead of soaking some of the hairs. My guess is that applying minoxidil on un-shaved heads increases it potency.
Also, laser therapy, if you still have some hairs, the light gets blocked by some of the hairs, thus reducing its efficacy, BUT WHAT IF you use laser therapy on a shaved head where there is hairs blocking its light? Of course this is for subjects that still have hair in the balding spot.
Anyone?
Hey. At least you got a dopeass beard! I'm balding and have a patchy ass face! Looks great brutha.
Have been shaving my hair since high school - Now in my 50s I'm letting it grow - and to my surprise - my hair is full and have thick hair. I have always liked my hair super short - almost bald (1" on top and 1/2 fade on the sides), and now with this full head of hair - I'm enjoying it. It feels great until the wind hits it as I'm driving - but other than that it feels good to have hair.
Any man that embraces baldness and goes bald with a beard is a chad with massive confidence influx.
Looks really good, emphasizes your good features even more.
You look so good man, the bald for sure suits you well
I’m where you were at in your late twenties, now, at age 34. You look good with a shaved head man!
You have a great head for shaving. A lovely thick beard as well. You're a very good looking guy. Hold your head high.
Looking great! As someone who's been shaving his head for 25 years it's always funny to see inexperienced guys having a go, you can tell immediately hehehe
Bro’s eyes are gorgeous
Real talk
Glad we’ve had abit of a run of content last few weeks 💪
Might be a little break for a few weeks now unless anyone else comes through because…..I’m next
@@Baldcafe - 我用中文写的，所以没有其他人能读懂。 我猜你终于要剪头发了。 你要回中国参加重要时刻吗？
@@Baldcafe 👍👍 boom! amazing! I’m looking forward to it.
You look great man, I think the beard creates a good balance
Look good on him. Shape of Skull is the main stuff. His well rounded looks good
Looks good man. Now you are free!
Vunerable or exposed are good words for that initial shave because that first step is a big one as your ultra paranoid. A few weeks and a good tan and your a new man. By the way you'll probably wear more hats now it gets cold with a blade zero! 😀
You look great! Shave it down to 0 with electric shaver.
I shaved my head for the first time last month due to thinning hair as well. I felt apprehensive at first, but now feel great!
I recommend the Braun series 9 pro. It gives a smooth blade like shave with no risk of getting cut.
You genuinely fit the look my guy
Stuck in that transition phase of not being able to accept I’m bald and need to just shave it all off .. had a good innings up to 38-40 given my old man went bald in his early 20s
Please check out my course for guys who are in your exact position. baldcafeway.com excited to get an update from you when the time comes 👍
I was forced to get a hair transplant instead of shaving my head. I was told if I would shave my head I was going to be kicked out of the house. Right before the hair transplant treatment they shave your head to prepare for the extraction and I did feel an instant relief of stress and anxiety fall. I wish I could've walked with just a shaved head for a while instead of going with the treatment. It would've saved me a enormous amount of money and would also have been better for my self confidence. A hair transplant can be done whenever.
I am about 3 months into the hair transplant journey and it fucking sucks. I got ingrown hairs and parts of the transplant didn't work so I most likely need a second round. Its not the quality of the work or the place that did it, they did an amazing job. Let's hope the end result will be worth it.
Bro being forced? that sounds absolutely savage brother
This look is really good on you. You already look free and unencumbered.
You look decent bald dude. I went the transplant route, will get a second one soon. Best wishes man.
Looks great! Just need to fade the sideburns into the bald sides.
When i was about 17 i started losing my hair
and I've always wanted to be a rock star talented
but was upset of the fact that all of my friends had
hair and my favourite musician aa well. One day
i was feeling down and my dad walked in my room
and asked me what was wrong. I told him that my
hair was falling out and was concerned about becoming
bald. His answer to me was son with a face that you have
i would rather be bald and have a gorgeous face like you.
that made me feel so good ,and you know he was right
i do have a beautiful face .
Yo Bald looks good on you!
Man you look fantastic it really looks great
Damn bro, you look fucking amazing without hair! 🎉
Also, please keep hats around still, great for shading the vulnerable scalp from UV 👌
Welcome to the club
You look awesome dude!
when you shave youre head its like you got nothing to hide anymore... i agree its better then trying to maintain something that keeps runing from you... its just like a relationship.... as long as you try to keep her you will lose her more but not only that... youre self respect energy and maybe much more... so yeah... it a relief i think....
Bro you look great!!
best choice ever , you just look good and clean .
It suits you, man! Good choice.
It looks great man! Thanks
Honestly the best way. People spend so much money and more importantly time, dealing with combating baldness.
Social media tries to portray baldness as a disease when it's mostly genetic.
Just the usual crap trying to make everyone look exactly the same.
Sure a lot of women don't like bald men, but a lot don't like fat men, short men, men with no confidence, overly confident men. So many variables, what's the point in worrying.
Be yourself, be happy, and the right people will stay, enter your life.
Coming from a bald guy with a beautiful wife and 3 kids.
Well done man! Welcome to the group!
Ne regrettez pas ça vous va hyper bien , on ne vois que vous
You look great brother, you got a good face, you can definitely pull it off.
Looks nice short.
Good job! Looks good! I did micropigmentation! Absolutely recommend it!!! But make sure you find the right craftsman!
you look awesome man!!!
Something you find out when you lose your hair is that people don’t care. Most women don’t care as well. Appearance doesn’t matter as much for guys (although you should be in good shape, well dressed and hygienic), what matters is confidence, competence and “complication” (mysterious).
that is true, I am not balding but I decided to try out that new look and people in my neighborhood don't care that from one day to another I went from a full head of hair to bald. Only people that might care are my parents and I am sure hell will break loose if they visit next week.
"Most women don't care" is untrue. Don't care = now you're more invisible to women from an attractiveness standpoint. Don't get it twisted, women are more attracted to a full head of hair.
Women dont care in the sense that they didnt care about you whether you had hair or not. Now it is just worse lol.
@Re3iRtH
Not true at all!
SOME women don't like bald guys, some don't care but SOME are into bald guys like you couldn't imagine...... different women like different things 👌😀
In my personal experience women like confidence above all, even those who claim not liking bald guys are attracted to a bald confident man.
Excellent decision. Keep your head shaved and have fun with your facial hair !
Looks amazing suits you bro! Embrace it brotha!
Flakes from minoxidil? What preparation were you using?
Idk why i feel its scalp ringworm , he should have gone to a dermatologist to check if he had scalp conditions , getting redness dots on scalp is not normal n can be sign of an infection. Most hairs regrow after treating it with oral meds
@@minsharminni3177 Now that he's shaved he should use the big 3 plus microneedling and see what springs up... that is, if he cares about it at all at this point.
100 percent better now. It really suits you. Well done for taking the plunge 👍😊 Yeah..... So much better bald.
You have a good bald look, not everyone can pull it off
Looks great bro!
i ordered Minoxidil, im also lacking a beard so i cant go bald
Looks great bro, bald is for bosses 💪😎 that's the new hashtag for baldCafe now #baldisforbosses lol
Looks great man
Looks great, good job!
Looking really cool... congratulations... looking sharp!
My hair are good I had slight hair fall and receding line I m 27 , I keep shaved head for two months a year and it really helps
looks a million bucks bro!
He looks great and clean. Congrats!
Welcome to the club 💪