Sometimes being alone really is the answer. Go ghost and lock in, don’t come out until you’re disciplined enough to continue following your purpose despite the distractions. Let’s go ghosttttt. Love you bro 🙏🏽🫡 MY SOCIALS: Instagram/tiktok/X @maliquedlewis TALK TO ME: One on one consultation calendly.com/forpurposedrivenmen MERCH: maliquedavidlewis-shop.fourthwall.com/ PODCAST, DISCORD, MORE: linktr.ee/maliquedlewis update: a popular question I’ve gotten under this video is how to maintain your relationship while going ghost. Here’s the answer: Purpose first : do everything you need to do in the day so you can be the version of yourself. Meaning you’re pouring into your own cup. Second: Make time for loved ones Because your cup is filled you now have the capacity to pour into others and be better for them. Going ghost should actually make your relationship better. Your relationship matters to you.. this is a good thing. That means it’s a priority, it’s not a distraction. Go ghost on the things that are distractions, not on the things that matter to you.
Literally, you've said so much in 3 mins that made a change in me. Please also include the word woman or she when you speak about men. It helps deep down to resignate with me as a woman!! Thank you 😊
I remember going ghost once and I was doing so well I was even going gym and was in the best shape mentally and emotionally when I met up woth friends and people in general I got hurt I started smoking drinking, I got myself into a toxic relationship and started seeing myself slacking that I became depressed! So you are right with everything u say
Going ghost literally changed my life for the better, I am more focused, less distracted, more disciplined in all areas. The only sucky part is when people think something is wrong when they don’t hear from you but I’m definitely locked in on my happiness. You’re spot on brother. Keep elevating and speaking truth! 🎯
I just turned 16 , and i just deleted instagram and planning on deleting snap also, and i want to make more time to focus on myself and to connect with God. I never been in a relationship, drank alcohol or even smoked, i wanna have a life without lust and to succeed in life🙏
I’ve locked myself away for 8 months to focus on my business. I only see the people at the gym or during my exercise routine. I’ve hung out with friends less than 5 times this year, and I don’t call anyone unless they reach out to me. Sometimes I feel burned out, and I watch videos of people who are already in my desired state. Right now, I don’t feel the need for friends because I believe many of them won’t stay in my circle as I elevate myself in the future. People might think I’m a loser-having no friends, no parties, no invitations, and no income. But I’m genuinely happy with every success and little win I achieve each day. I don’t need to share or prove anything to anyone.
it is such a great book for learning how to attract money. It's easy to understand and follow. If you’re looking to improve your mindset and start seeing results, this is definitely worth a read!
Even if the person decides to check on you I think it’s important to decern the intention. Some people are simply monitoring spirits. As soon as they don’t have access they start freaking out.
Brother, I disappeared for the last 3 years. By the time I started integrating myself back to my social life, I had a new degree and have transitioned from active duty military to doing finance at a bulge bracket. Also put on muscle and hit my pr goals. More importantly, I came to a lot of terms within myself came out more aware or myself and where I stand- knowing that I will never be better than anyone to my left and right and that individuals are being exactly that, individuals. Ages ago, confidence was an issue. Now I know that confidence isn't even a topic and all that matters is delivering respect over the expectation of receiving it. More power to you my man!
Confidence is extremely hard for me to come around especially since I grew up being looked down upon. I grew up in a harsh area where people will do something to you if you look like an easy picking. I hate it.
So on time! Deactivated all social media 2 weeks ago (except TH-cam) My spirit always lets me know when to Deactivate from the media. Social media is too loud , and too entertaining! My mental health is better, my purpose is more powerful than constantly scrolling looking at other people’s lives. It’s time to lock in, and focus on what’s really important ❤
@@REGGIEKING9999 good for you Reggie! It’s so time consuming! Especially tiktok for me. TH-cam is not considered social media to me because I don’t scroll on here like I do the other apps. But I love this for you. Tap in, grow, heal, in silence and whatever else you need to do. I’m rooting for you! Your mental means so much more 💓 Be Blessed!
@@shes_ah_truckher7716 Thank you queen. I am rooting for you also. And yea social media lately been draining me. Too much negativity on there. And yea TH-cam is different. Stay Blessed....
watching this video, I’m a woman but I started to realize that the person I was wasn’t developed at all. I really rely on others for some type of comfort. That happiness wasn’t coming from me. I had been in a spot where I was mentally strong a few years ago so I know that’s a possibility for me. It’s time to bring that version of myself back and love myself bc you can’t pour into another persons cup unless yours is filled. It’s hard ofc but nothing good is easy. I keep telling myself this and I was gonna break no contact with someone but I watched this video and you really pointed me in the right direction and reminded me why I’m doing what I’m doing. I appreciate you and I’ll be referencing this video when I feel I need a reminder. Thank you 🩶☝️
My wife and l have been hidden by God, from the world 17 years and we bought our first house 2 years. It’s our sanctuary dedicated to our ancestors. We are obliviously happy. I’m retired at 57 years old. She’s a Doctor now and has her office at home. Praise God❤❤Hard work and consistency with prayer. Walk in faith
Life has been hard for me lately. I work 40 hrs a week 8-5 at a job I don’t like(Walmart) Graduated in 2023 with my BA in Cybersecurity, went on a couple interviews but have not been able to find a job. I took the CompTIA sec+ exam to better my resume and knowledge but I failed, still tryna to study so I can take it agian but most days when I get off I’m so tired and I don’t have a lot of time, your videos keep me pushing
You can do it. I worked at Walmart straight out of high school, gave them four years, and was fired in 2020. During that time, I was studying for the sec+ on and off and was like, you know what, Imma take it and pass in 2021. Now, I work as a consultant in cloud security. I'm trying to find my drive and lock back in like I did when I was hungry. Clicking on this video and seeing this comment to push you to keep going is probably why I'm here…
I was on that same journey man. I did get my security+ but it didn’t help with jobs. Focus on labs and real world experience while you chase the cert. I have no degree but a lot of cyber certs including the CISSP. A few years later and I’m making over $150k in this economy. Just being realistic it’s a journey not a sprint or a race. So take your time and become atleast 1% better each day. Apply to 10 cyber jobs a day regardless of cert. Stay blessed
Almost 6 months since my break up and 3 months from last contact with my ex. Ever since, I had to really work on myself and break old toxic habits . I been going to the gym, having a closer relationship with God by going to Church and Bible studies, starting my career job, focusing on my health and family , and learning to be by myself. I’m planning to buy a house within 2 years, and buy my first car by the end of this year. I’m planning on traveling alone for the first time. In conclusion, I realize I’m doing this for me. It’s hard to lock in sometimes but not impossible. I appreciate your video, felt like it resonated with me. It gives me motivation to lock in even more in my situation. God bless you and everyone in this comment section.🙏🏻
@@jonathan-lw3ue you’re doing amazing and I encourage you to continue on your path and have full faith and confidence that you’re doing everything for the right reasons and most of all for yourself 🫂🙏🏼
I’m not a man, but I can tell you Brother that after listening to you talk and you stating all these facts it just took some of my pain inside away. Is a reminder that what we are doing as humans that are seeking a better life even through the pain. Thank you 🙏 I know God is backing all of us up
Am going thru this right now. So many "friends" turned fake, haters. I took myself away from the scene and focusing on coaching hs football, bodybuilding, improving my life with god.
Great video, thanks for sharing!! I know that a lot of young men struggle with navigating their life as soon as they hit that period of young adulthood. I was like that as well because life is sometimes really tough. Thankfully I found out about the book called 'Chase No More: The Path To Success', and everything changed by 180 degrees. Writer addresses every aspect of man's life: self-improvement, fashion and style, grooming, relationships, dating life, modern masculinity, how to build success and wealth... It was like mind-opening experience for me and the best thing is that is a very short read.
The power of detachment is so Key, nobody else is living your reality but you, really finding at the core what you naturally love to do and honing into those special abilities not allowing nobody to dim your light and maximizing your day one step at a time is key, we get a little better each and everyday, just gotta keep going and be consistent in showing up for ourselves !
Me and my girl of 10 years just split apart. No cheating or anything, we just couldn't settle our differences. Lost all of our mutual friends in the process. The message of this video resonated with me and I appreciate you sharing this with us brotha.
Just told my guys yesterday. I can’t play 2k until I hit this goal I’m working towards. I’m almost to the top of the mountain. I need all of my energy focused in.
When i first started out,i kept posting on my status that im working out and being better,but i realised it was just to boost my ego and get validation which was why i went ghost for myself,another W video man ❤
Distraction is temporary pleasure! Whew! I went off the grid. Changed my number, deactivated my social media (except TH-cam) to pour back into myself. Ain’t nobody gone have me like I have me! Distraction can keep you on the same frequency or pull you down! It’s hard sometimes, but you have to be able to identify distractions and not give any of your energy to it
Crazy seeing this on my recommendations seeing as I just recently got myself into a situation where I left everything behind to go work full time with this TH-camr only to have the contract terminated weeks within signing. Now I’m in a new state with no job, no place to live, and a very poor financial situation… thinking God called me to do this, maybe He meant for all this to happen and there’s a reason I’m now completely isolated from all my friends and family. I don’t even want to tell them that this “great oppurtunity” just completely backfired on me. It’s embarrassing. I have no other choice but to lock in now. God doesn’t put you through nothing you can’t handle. I have faith He’ll get me through this.
Keep your head up my g. Read Jeremiah chapter 29 verse 11. Hold on brother. I see beauty emerging from these ashes. You got this! Sending 1000 virtual hugs 🫂 🤗 ❤️
Felt like a big brother was talking to me on the other side of the screen that had me emotional because everything you said was accurate to my situation. I lost friendships, a relationship and most importantly myself because I was getting caught up in a lot and was trying to be there for everybody instead of healing and working on myself. I’ve been ghost for two months going on three and I’ve slowly shown improvement with my anger management, my conflict resolution, became more calm & relaxed and just began zoning in on my love for music. It’s time to stop telling and start doing. Pop out show them like you said. I needed this more than anything in this current time so thank you so much.
As a woman, I recently came across your video, and it truly resonated with me. I'm currently experiencing the Ghost phase, and your post really validates what I'm going through. Thank you for sharing!!
For me I believe this is apart of Gods plan, this video right here.. Yesterday I came to the realization that I am the reason for my own suffering. That I am the reason that my goals aren’t going anywhere and I actually felt ashamed to feel like a victim in my own life… I watched a video this morning where it said “You are chosen, God chose you” and so I clicked it without thinking and it felt like the video was just speaking to me, like God had intended for me to watch that video.. Yesterday I took the time to delete my social media and anything else that might distract me from my real purpose.. This morning as I scroll down and I come across your video, you’re telling me to go ghost and to put all my energy into me.. you’re absolutely right.. This is the time where I truly need to focus on myself and reinvent myself behind closed doors.. It took a lot of sacrifices, it took a lot of bad days, a lot of tears and frustration before I was brought clarity on who I must be not only for me but for the me in the next 5 years..
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
Divine timing! Passed my brain evaluation (neuro psych) Got paperwork to go back to work ( cleared medically) Now, have an interview again. I just really hope this isn’t them getting me to come in to fire me. This will be sometime next week. This could also be to see how I’m physically doing from nerve damage. Pray for me brother, please. This is one of the last steps in order to have a living, normal life again. Unbelievable the most High has brought me to this point. All glory and thanks be to God!⚠️💯 Of course, won’t be content but will spend a short time having immense gratitude for it all. Then, elevate further once back on my feet 💪
If i really wanna see the results I want, only me gonna get me there. Stay Locked in and on your purpose brothers and sisters. Appreciate your wisdom brother. 💯
NEW SUBSCRIBER 😮WOW MAN WOW! Gone ghost for 74 days now and I’ve officially lost 26.4 lbs as of today❤❤❤❤❤ the gym and my new eating habits have been a success and this video just proved to me that my selfish season is well worth it! 😊thanks so much!
This came in perfect timing. Not a man but I am going through a painful grieving phase from a relationship and it has overly consumed me so much I had fallen into depression. I feel like I lost me I don’t know me anymore. I definitely need to go ghost just be in silence and focus on self until it’s safe to come out 🙏🏾
@@kevonnmitchell5166 I just went through the same thing; a sad relationship. But LET ME TELL, going in to isolation and PRAYING: LOOKING INTO MYSELF; GOING TO CHURCH, being quiet: NOT DEFENDING MYSELF IS HEALING ME!! I THANK GOD! You will have a PEACE!!
bro I just pause at 4 mins in feeling like I had a whole 12 hour sermon. I feel reborn from your wordw and it will take a lot killing the bad parts of me inside to get to where you are describing. that pure self love for others is truly born from having to bear that weight first and foremost. ❤
I am not a man but when I say I felt this in my soul. I’m on this journey now and thanks for video I know it’s all worth it when I finish and see the results. Thanks for the motivation.
I'm not a man but thank you for encouraging them and being a positive role model for them. There is way too much negative content on here putting them down or steering them in a negative unhelpful direction.
All praises TMHG 1st and foremost.🙌🏽 Your prescription is on point for the times like now, much appreciated! When I thought it was just me you put the rubber where it meets the road. No more procrastinating going forward. Thank you! Shalawam and blessings always 🏹⚔️🛡️🛶🌽🦁
This came at the right time.. literally going through a self rebrand right now.. for me. It’s financial discipline, no petty purchases and such. Thank you for this. You have a new subscriber. 💯
🤦🏾♂️ Every time I do this, they call private, have someone else call, knock on my door 🚪 NO MORE ANSWERING OR ALLOWING ANY SPIRIT TO ENTER MY HOME! Time to shake the enemy off - devil 👹 🙏🏾GOD IS GOOD🙏🏾
Bro your videos have been keeping me going , I watch them everyday whether it’s morning noon or night . I started hitting the gym and working on all the areas of my life mentally spiritually and physically.. I can’t even get into what’s been going on in my personal life because it’s so much but all I can say is God is truly using you and he’s speaking through you Keep it up bro You’re changing lives out here You’re changing men’s life internationally fam not just in the US
Lately, many people have jumped on the trend of creating uplifting videos, but none of them have truly touched my heart like yours did. You're doing an incredible job. Keep it up!
TH-cam has been reading my mind again. This is exactly what I've been doing for the last 5 months and what I've been thinking about most recently - cut off more contact further and further for some time and maybe a few years and just reconnect with friends when I'm "successful" already.
God truly placed this video In front of me and I thank you for your words. You definitely have inspired me to go ghost and focus back on God & his purpose for my life. I needed this today, Thank you!
I love how a stranger is telling me everything I’ve needed to hear to let go of the pain and start new. These past two years have been so eye opening for me that I’m taking the steps to put my self first. I hope everyone gets to grow to their best version. We deserve a great life, it’s only one.
the funny thing is that i'm a woman and i just found your channel. i couldn't have found this at a better time because i've been struggling with putting me first. i'm going to start with baby steps. i hope you all reading this accomplish your goals also!
That’s part of the reason why i deleted all three of my social media accounts this year (Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat) is to go full ghost mode so i can do my journey of growing up and glowing up in peace and then whenever I’m ready go back to social media to keep in touch with some people
This is the best thing to do when it’s Tom to take control back of your life! Christ has a calling on our lives and this season of isolation should be praying, studying and fasting to find that calling.
Respect and Salute 🫡 🙏 !!! Young Brutha !! 2nd Divorce after 26 years , So I have to regroup at the age of 53 !! Shit !! I know now , I wish I learned when I was younger !! Continued Blessings 🙌 🙏
Usually I take the idea behind these kind of video and skip them after 2-3 mins but I could not able to skip his bcz it spoke my life. NO BUDDY IS RESPONSIBLE YOUR SUCCESS
It’s so many videos on what self love looks like, I guess it’s different for everyone. Yet this is by far the best version I could’ve received. Glowing up for self love 💕
Needed this message today. I am in the middle of this. day 57 of 75Hard. I have been struggling with being alone and I have zero desire to be on dating apps/social media. Meanwhile, I have been enjoying my hobbies, exercising 2x daily, eating well and reading wonderful books. I have lost 15 pounds! My social circle do not get what I do and are indifferent to my pursuits. I often feel weird for these passions/goals. Thanks for reminding me there are others like me and that I am on the right path because I say so. ok, back to being 👻
Going ghost will definitely reveal the stalkers and monitoring spirits, because most grown adults understand people needing to take some time and space for themselves to grow or take care of their priorities and the inability to be available all the time. But if when you go ghost, or let a person know that you need to take some time for yourself or start bettering yourself and leveling up, and they buck back at you, talk down on you or say you acting like you too good for them, or guilt you into spending more time with them or for spending less, big red flags 🚩🚩🚩on the field playa! You got yourself a world star stage 5 clinger/hater/snake in your grass.. at and that point is probably best to just stay ghost, because they ain't here for your come up, they waiting on your downfall or to claim when you make it that they were there supporting the whole time 🙄😒
First Watched one of your videos last night.. i was running with an “exotic dancer” and i lost it all down to my license because of tribulations..woke up this morning motivated than ever .. i didnt smoke , i threw my bong outside the night prior and I got me a journal and wrote down the 10 essentials from another video as well as realizing i was a man child. I Always blamed parents and the absence of a male role model but now i understand the ball is in my court as long i keep god first .. i even almost lost my faith and everything .. thanks to your words I’m on a spiritual cleanse .. i dont have the money for the better foods yet but im determined.. praying this lil wendys job hire me so i can open back up a-lot of doors that i allowed my ignorance and procrastination to close. Definitely will be following up daily , much love 🙏
This found me at the right time, I deleted all my social media accounts , I’ve started reading the bible now and listening to motivational videos here on TH-cam and I’m growing my TH-cam channel ❤🙌🏽
Sometimes being alone really is the answer. Go ghost and lock in, don’t come out until you’re disciplined enough to continue following your purpose despite the distractions. Let’s go ghosttttt. Love you bro 🙏🏽🫡
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update: a popular question I’ve gotten under this video is how to maintain your relationship while going ghost. Here’s the answer:
Purpose first : do everything you need to do in the day so you can be the version of yourself.
Meaning you’re pouring into your own cup.
Second: Make time for loved ones
Because your cup is filled you now have the capacity to pour into others and be better for them.
Going ghost should actually make your relationship better. Your relationship matters to you.. this is a good thing. That means it’s a priority, it’s not a distraction. Go ghost on the things that are distractions, not on the things that matter to you.
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Literally, you've said so much in 3 mins that made a change in me. Please also include the word woman or she when you speak about men. It helps deep down to resignate with me as a woman!! Thank you 😊
I remember going ghost once and I was doing so well I was even going gym and was in the best shape mentally and emotionally when I met up woth friends and people in general I got hurt I started smoking drinking, I got myself into a toxic relationship and started seeing myself slacking that I became depressed! So you are right with everything u say
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen thanks
Going ghost literally changed my life for the better, I am more focused, less distracted, more disciplined in all areas. The only sucky part is when people think something is wrong when they don’t hear from you but I’m definitely locked in on my happiness. You’re spot on brother. Keep elevating and speaking truth! 🎯
I’m a woman but man , I needed this .
Even us women need to lock in and show up for us. Because nowadays we can only rely on ourselves
I am a woman too but listened to this multiple times. Really emotional to be real about these truths that I needed to hear. Thank you for this video.
@@dominiqueharvey6156 me too!
Sometimes the message just lands differently coming from a male voice
@@dominiqueharvey6156 we love a STRONG and PURPOSE DRIVEN woman too! WE FAM. we all need to be strong! love to u sis ❤️
I just turned 16 , and i just deleted instagram and planning on deleting snap also, and i want to make more time to focus on myself and to connect with God. I never been in a relationship, drank alcohol or even smoked, i wanna have a life without lust and to succeed in life🙏
@@Verainium this is great keep going u will go far in life king
@@Verainium Keep going bro 💪
I’m 34 and wish I had figured this out at your age! Keep going bud! You got this!
@Verainium with this mindset at your age, you'll definitely go above and beyond 💯💪🏿✨️. Wishing the best for you, young kKING 🤴🏿
@@Verainium may you receive everything that you wish for. Work hard at fighting that temptation and you will win. Good luck to you on your journey 🙏🏽
I’ve locked myself away for 8 months to focus on my business. I only see the people at the gym or during my exercise routine. I’ve hung out with friends less than 5 times this year, and I don’t call anyone unless they reach out to me. Sometimes I feel burned out, and I watch videos of people who are already in my desired state.
Right now, I don’t feel the need for friends because I believe many of them won’t stay in my circle as I elevate myself in the future.
People might think I’m a loser-having no friends, no parties, no invitations, and no income. But I’m genuinely happy with every success and little win I achieve each day. I don’t need to share or prove anything to anyone.
It’s hypothetical
@@yen802 Hello Somebody!!
Just keep in mind: Nobody at the end of their life ever said they wish they had worked more at the cost of their relationships.
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@@Whosaysyoucant who's the author of the book?
@clintvillarreal779 bro I be asking the same thing with all these type of comments
@@clintvillarreal779 Eric Cook is the author
it is such a great book for learning how to attract money. It's easy to understand and follow. If you’re looking to improve your mindset and start seeing results, this is definitely worth a read!
@@Whosaysyoucant botted comment
Damn. Im done with years of doing nothing. Time to take control of my life.
Even if the person decides to check on you I think it’s important to decern the intention. Some people are simply monitoring spirits. As soon as they don’t have access they start freaking out.
I definitely agree
@@magnificentmyangel that part!!!!
You're right.
That part.
@@magnificentmyangel THISSSSS
Gotta love the fact that this video naturally popped up in my algorithm, some sort of positive change is happening
@@TheRealEnrique1 for sure, we must keep going, full focus!
same i think its time
Same. This was right on time.
Sometimes we have to move in silence and go ghost for a year or two get our mind together and lock in🧘🏿♂️💫👁
Exactly bro, our evolution needs that, that’s where the most progress is made 📈
That part 💯
yea lock in, then when you guys fall on your faces all of sudden that phone start working again crazy how that works
@@demikpre you must be talking about yourself and if you're just say that
Definitely going ghost I give birth in 4 months and I will still be ghost ❤😂
Brother, I disappeared for the last 3 years. By the time I started integrating myself back to my social life, I had a new degree and have transitioned from active duty military to doing finance at a bulge bracket. Also put on muscle and hit my pr goals. More importantly, I came to a lot of terms within myself came out more aware or myself and where I stand- knowing that I will never be better than anyone to my left and right and that individuals are being exactly that, individuals.
Ages ago, confidence was an issue. Now I know that confidence isn't even a topic and all that matters is delivering respect over the expectation of receiving it.
More power to you my man!
I love it for you. Real discipline.
@@geekyhennessy well said brother 👏🏽 best of luck to you on your journey 🙏🏽
love that, never being better than anyone, were just individuals, and delivering respect over the expectation of receiving it.
Confidence is extremely hard for me to come around especially since I grew up being looked down upon. I grew up in a harsh area where people will do something to you if you look like an easy picking. I hate it.
@@geekyhennessy Keep it in drive bruh!
Keep uplifting the Kings, just know that the Queens are listening and being uplifted too!
Appreciate all of yall! Let’s keep being great 🙏🏽
Definitely!!
@@NkemOnyeka12 yes we are
@@NkemOnyeka12 that part!!
@@NkemOnyeka12 yessir
love the part where the lord and savior was brought into the conversation don’t lose the lord amen
So on time! Deactivated all social media 2 weeks ago (except TH-cam) My spirit always lets me know when to Deactivate from the media. Social media is too loud , and too entertaining! My mental health is better, my purpose is more powerful than constantly scrolling looking at other people’s lives. It’s time to lock in, and focus on what’s really important ❤
Same here. Deactivated my social media today.
@@REGGIEKING9999 good for you Reggie! It’s so time consuming! Especially tiktok for me. TH-cam is not considered social media to me because I don’t scroll on here like I do the other apps. But I love this for you. Tap in, grow, heal, in silence and whatever else you need to do. I’m rooting for you! Your mental means so much more 💓 Be Blessed!
@@shes_ah_truckher7716 Thank you queen. I am rooting for you also. And yea social media lately been draining me. Too much negativity on there. And yea TH-cam is different. Stay Blessed....
@@REGGIEKING9999 You’re welcome ☺️ and thank you hunny 💓🤞🏾❤️
you just spoke my words ma'am
Go ghost!!! Get locked in 🔒💪🏾✝️🙏🏾🙌🏾
watching this video, I’m a woman but I started to realize that the person I was wasn’t developed at all. I really rely on others for some type of comfort. That happiness wasn’t coming from me. I had been in a spot where I was mentally strong a few years ago so I know that’s a possibility for me. It’s time to bring that version of myself back and love myself bc you can’t pour into another persons cup unless yours is filled. It’s hard ofc but nothing good is easy. I keep telling myself this and I was gonna break no contact with someone but I watched this video and you really pointed me in the right direction and reminded me why I’m doing what I’m doing. I appreciate you and I’ll be referencing this video when I feel I need a reminder. Thank you 🩶☝️
My wife and l have been hidden by God, from the world 17 years and we bought our first house 2 years. It’s our sanctuary dedicated to our ancestors. We are obliviously happy. I’m retired at 57 years old. She’s a Doctor now and has her office at home. Praise God❤❤Hard work and consistency with prayer. Walk in faith
@@TheworldofTino Congratulations!!Wishing you two many more years in your beautiful home!!
@ thank you , may god bless you and your family 💕
@ thank you
Bless you my brother
@ bless yo as well, thank you
Life has been hard for me lately. I work 40 hrs a week 8-5 at a job I don’t like(Walmart) Graduated in 2023 with my BA in Cybersecurity, went on a couple interviews but have not been able to find a job. I took the CompTIA sec+ exam to better my resume and knowledge but I failed, still tryna to study so I can take it agian but most days when I get off I’m so tired and I don’t have a lot of time, your videos keep me pushing
@@ZayBeatztm88 Keep pushing. You are 1000% on point.I work in the same industry here in the UK.
You can do it. I worked at Walmart straight out of high school, gave them four years, and was fired in 2020. During that time, I was studying for the sec+ on and off and was like, you know what, Imma take it and pass in 2021. Now, I work as a consultant in cloud security. I'm trying to find my drive and lock back in like I did when I was hungry. Clicking on this video and seeing this comment to push you to keep going is probably why I'm here…
Trust me brother, i can relate and we are one step closer. Every each step are added value, trust the process my friend
I was on that same journey man. I did get my security+ but it didn’t help with jobs. Focus on labs and real world experience while you chase the cert. I have no degree but a lot of cyber certs including the CISSP. A few years later and I’m making over $150k in this economy. Just being realistic it’s a journey not a sprint or a race. So take your time and become atleast 1% better each day. Apply to 10 cyber jobs a day regardless of cert. Stay blessed
I used to work at walmart too and now im a barber.Keep pushing
Almost 6 months since my break up and 3 months from last contact with my ex. Ever since, I had to really work on myself and break old toxic habits . I been going to the gym, having a closer relationship with God by going to Church and Bible studies, starting my career job, focusing on my health and family , and learning to be by myself. I’m planning to buy a house within 2 years, and buy my first car by the end of this year. I’m planning on traveling alone for the first time. In conclusion, I realize I’m doing this for me. It’s hard to lock in sometimes but not impossible. I appreciate your video, felt like it resonated with me. It gives me motivation to lock in even more in my situation. God bless you and everyone in this comment section.🙏🏻
@@jonathan-lw3ue you’re doing amazing and I encourage you to continue on your path and have full faith and confidence that you’re doing everything for the right reasons and most of all for yourself 🫂🙏🏼
this found me at the right time. let's go ghost and lock in. thank you
" I say I love myself but don't have self discipline" 😮💨needed this reminder as I put my sneakers on to go walking when I don't feel like it.
I’m not a man, but I can tell you Brother that after listening to you talk and you stating all these facts it just took some of my pain inside away. Is a reminder that what we are doing as humans that are seeking a better life even through the pain. Thank you 🙏 I know God is backing all of us up
as a woman in her early 20s, this is exactly where i’m at in life. many are elevating and awakening. it’s a beautiful thing. beautiful words
Am going thru this right now. So many "friends" turned fake, haters. I took myself away from the scene and focusing on coaching hs football, bodybuilding, improving my life with god.
Dude is 100% ON POINT 💯
Great video, thanks for sharing!! I know that a lot of young men struggle with navigating their life as soon as they hit that period of young adulthood. I was like that as well because life is sometimes really tough. Thankfully I found out about the book called 'Chase No More: The Path To Success', and everything changed by 180 degrees. Writer addresses every aspect of man's life: self-improvement, fashion and style, grooming, relationships, dating life, modern masculinity, how to build success and wealth... It was like mind-opening experience for me and the best thing is that is a very short read.
The power of detachment is so Key, nobody else is living your reality but you, really finding at the core what you naturally love to do and honing into those special abilities not allowing nobody to dim your light and maximizing your day one step at a time is key, we get a little better each and everyday, just gotta keep going and be consistent in showing up for ourselves !
Facts on facts brother
The seven spriitual laws of success
Me and my girl of 10 years just split apart. No cheating or anything, we just couldn't settle our differences. Lost all of our mutual friends in the process. The message of this video resonated with me and I appreciate you sharing this with us brotha.
@@BigChiillin peace bro, stay strong
@@Qski_Corleone Thank you brother. Stay blessed 🙏🏻
Damn bro stay strong 💪🏾
@@RXSOUTHSIDE Appreciate you 🙌🏻
Sometimes you gotta pop out and show people! 💯
@@PrinceMajesty1 you stole my comment 😆 🤣
Just told my guys yesterday. I can’t play 2k until I hit this goal I’m working towards. I’m almost to the top of the mountain. I need all of my energy focused in.
Let’s goo! Thats discipline!
Just to let you know, happiness in not just at the top of the mountain. The journey and the now are all you really have.
@@miguelesteves9740 I agree. The mountain is just to represent this current goal. Im a “happy with my life at the moment” all the time. type of guy.
When i first started out,i kept posting on my status that im working out and being better,but i realised it was just to boost my ego and get validation which was why i went ghost for myself,another W video man ❤
I'm not a man but I love your content.
You’re always welcomed! Appreciate you 🙏🏽
@@lifeas_jaz same
I watch for my son, but find helpful advice for myself.
Same. We all here listening.
Man up girl
Distraction is temporary pleasure! Whew! I went off the grid. Changed my number, deactivated my social media (except TH-cam) to pour back into myself. Ain’t nobody gone have me like I have me! Distraction can keep you on the same frequency or pull you down! It’s hard sometimes, but you have to be able to identify distractions and not give any of your energy to it
Crazy seeing this on my recommendations seeing as I just recently got myself into a situation where I left everything behind to go work full time with this TH-camr only to have the contract terminated weeks within signing. Now I’m in a new state with no job, no place to live, and a very poor financial situation… thinking God called me to do this, maybe He meant for all this to happen and there’s a reason I’m now completely isolated from all my friends and family. I don’t even want to tell them that this “great oppurtunity” just completely backfired on me. It’s embarrassing. I have no other choice but to lock in now. God doesn’t put you through nothing you can’t handle. I have faith He’ll get me through this.
Amen brother 🙏🏽
Keep your head up my g. Read Jeremiah chapter 29 verse 11. Hold on brother. I see beauty emerging from these ashes. You got this! Sending 1000 virtual hugs 🫂 🤗 ❤️
My own mom doesnt know how Ive improved my life. I ghosted literally everyone and moved over 1,000 miles away. I had no choice but to win. It works.
I know this for the Men, but I needed this !
Thank you
Felt like a big brother was talking to me on the other side of the screen that had me emotional because everything you said was accurate to my situation. I lost friendships, a relationship and most importantly myself because I was getting caught up in a lot and was trying to be there for everybody instead of healing and working on myself. I’ve been ghost for two months going on three and I’ve slowly shown improvement with my anger management, my conflict resolution, became more calm & relaxed and just began zoning in on my love for music. It’s time to stop telling and start doing. Pop out show them like you said. I needed this more than anything in this current time so thank you so much.
@successclub360 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This Message Popped Up On My Timeline & I Knew This Message Was For Me Cause This Exactly How I Been Feeling Just So I Can Elevate & Grow .
perfect timing! 🙏🏽
As a woman, I recently came across your video, and it truly resonated with me. I'm currently experiencing the Ghost phase, and your post really validates what I'm going through. Thank you for sharing!!
@@selenadavis1643 same🩷
For me I believe this is apart of Gods plan, this video right here.. Yesterday I came to the realization that I am the reason for my own suffering. That I am the reason that my goals aren’t going anywhere and I actually felt ashamed to feel like a victim in my own life… I watched a video this morning where it said “You are chosen, God chose you” and so I clicked it without thinking and it felt like the video was just speaking to me, like God had intended for me to watch that video.. Yesterday I took the time to delete my social media and anything else that might distract me from my real purpose.. This morning as I scroll down and I come across your video, you’re telling me to go ghost and to put all my energy into me.. you’re absolutely right.. This is the time where I truly need to focus on myself and reinvent myself behind closed doors.. It took a lot of sacrifices, it took a lot of bad days, a lot of tears and frustration before I was brought clarity on who I must be not only for me but for the me in the next 5 years..
This is the time to reinvent yourself brother, yes it is 🙏🏽 Gods plan. Proud of you, keep going 🫡
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
@@surendamor4917 Real
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@@surendamor4917 noted
@@surendamor4917 I’ll have to read that, Is it similar to “The art of seduction”?
@@surendamor4917 stop spamming youtube videos with this comment.
Divine timing!
Passed my brain evaluation (neuro psych)
Got paperwork to go back to work ( cleared medically)
Now, have an interview again. I just really hope this isn’t them getting me to come in to fire me. This will be sometime next week. This could also be to see how I’m physically doing from nerve damage. Pray for me brother, please. This is one of the last steps in order to have a living, normal life again. Unbelievable the most High has brought me to this point. All glory and thanks be to God!⚠️💯
Of course, won’t be content but will spend a short time having immense gratitude for it all. Then, elevate further once back on my feet 💪
Proud of you brother! 🙏🏽
If i really wanna see the results I want, only me gonna get me there. Stay Locked in and on your purpose brothers and sisters. Appreciate your wisdom brother. 💯
NEW SUBSCRIBER 😮WOW MAN WOW!
Gone ghost for 74 days now and I’ve officially lost 26.4 lbs as of today❤❤❤❤❤ the gym and my new eating habits have been a success and this video just proved to me that my selfish season is well worth it! 😊thanks so much!
@@TVeeTime keep it up
Be still at times and let God work.
"know what success comes with" hit me hard. it can get pretty lonely up there.
This came in perfect timing. Not a man but I am going through a painful grieving phase from a relationship and it has overly consumed me so much I had fallen into depression. I feel like I lost me I don’t know me anymore. I definitely need to go ghost just be in silence and focus on self until it’s safe to come out 🙏🏾
@@kevonnmitchell5166 I just went through the same thing; a sad relationship. But LET ME TELL, going in to isolation and PRAYING: LOOKING INTO MYSELF; GOING TO CHURCH, being quiet: NOT DEFENDING MYSELF IS HEALING ME!! I THANK GOD! You will have a PEACE!!
Keep holding on everything is going to be ok if you need someone to talk to I'm here for u God loves
@@dariansanders679 Thank you
@@dariansanders679 thank you. It’s tough right now…
You will be fine bro. Keep praying I went through that too. And God shows up in ur darkest times always ❤
bro I just pause at 4 mins in feeling like I had a whole 12 hour sermon. I feel reborn from your wordw and it will take a lot killing the bad parts of me inside to get to where you are describing. that pure self love for others is truly born from having to bear that weight first and foremost. ❤
I am not a man but when I say I felt this in my soul. I’m on this journey now and thanks for video I know it’s all worth it when I finish and see the results. Thanks for the motivation.
This applies to women as well! Thank you for this! 🙏🏽‼️
Absolutely! 🙏🏽❤️
AMEN.....Man this is the TRUTH. NOBODY calls Bro, etc......I needed this Brother!!!!
I just realized this is a platform geared towards the male audience , but as a woman , this helped me
A lot and I will be subscribing
women are definitely welcomed! i appreciate you joining thank you 🙏🏽!
I'm not a man but thank you for encouraging them and being a positive role model for them. There is way too much negative content on here putting them down or steering them in a negative unhelpful direction.
Haven’t seen my friends and some family in over 10 years🤷🏾♂️ This video makes me feel like I’ve don’t nothing wrong. Thanks brother. 💪🙏
Your channel is growing quick brother much love, listening to these video’s helps a lot of us, what youre saying is the truth, you a smart dude.
Wouldn’t be possible without each of you, thank you for your support brother
All praises TMHG 1st and foremost.🙌🏽 Your prescription is on point for the times like now, much appreciated! When I thought it was just me you put the rubber where it meets the road. No more procrastinating going forward. Thank you! Shalawam and blessings always 🏹⚔️🛡️🛶🌽🦁
This came at the right time.. literally going through a self rebrand right now.. for me. It’s financial discipline, no petty purchases and such. Thank you for this. You have a new subscriber. 💯
I love this ❤❤❤ I really needed this today ❤
you got this! ❤️🙏🏽 i appreciate you tuning in
Thank God I clicked on this video
🤦🏾♂️ Every time I do this, they call private, have someone else call, knock on my door 🚪 NO MORE ANSWERING OR ALLOWING ANY SPIRIT TO ENTER MY HOME! Time to shake the enemy off - devil 👹
🙏🏾GOD IS GOOD🙏🏾
" they wanna stay up with the trends, they wanna keep up with their friends "
12:56 ok bars !!!
Much love bro! "Discipline is the bridge between goals & accomplishments." is a quote that changed my life. Without discipline you will crumble
Bro your videos have been keeping me going , I watch them everyday whether it’s morning noon or night . I started hitting the gym and working on all the areas of my life mentally spiritually and physically.. I can’t even get into what’s been going on in my personal life because it’s so much but all I can say is God is truly using you and he’s speaking through you
Keep it up bro
You’re changing lives out here
You’re changing men’s life internationally fam not just in the US
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Proud of you bro 🙏🏽
Lately, many people have jumped on the trend of creating uplifting videos, but none of them have truly touched my heart like yours did. You're doing an incredible job. Keep it up!
Honestly, this has touched my soul. I needed this. I am greatful i came upon this
Your video came a commercial before a video and thank God the timing was everything….
these words ❗️it’s deep and it’s real❗️More life💫more purpose ✨
Thank you brother! 🫡
LOVE THIS! If you always waited for other people to do something with you, you'd never do anything!!
as you continue to elevate in Life the TRUTH is a lot of People not HAPPY for you. FACTS man... especially family members
TH-cam has been reading my mind again. This is exactly what I've been doing for the last 5 months and what I've been thinking about most recently - cut off more contact further and further for some time and maybe a few years and just reconnect with friends when I'm "successful" already.
Man this was so edifying and encouraging. I needed this, it shifted something in me. God bless you. Thank you 🙏🏽
I am a women and i needed to hear that. Thank you so much, god bless you
God truly placed this video In front of me and I thank you for your words. You definitely have inspired me to go ghost and focus back on God & his purpose for my life. I needed this today, Thank you!
You got this!
I love how a stranger is telling me everything I’ve needed to hear to let go of the pain and start new. These past two years have been so eye opening for me that I’m taking the steps to put my self first. I hope everyone gets to grow to their best version. We deserve a great life, it’s only one.
I so needed this this morning. Thanks for sharing!
You’re more than welcome! 🙏🏽 let’s have a great day ☀️
the funny thing is that i'm a woman and i just found your channel. i couldn't have found this at a better time because i've been struggling with putting me first. i'm going to start with baby steps. i hope you all reading this accomplish your goals also!
That’s part of the reason why i deleted all three of my social media accounts this year (Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat) is to go full ghost mode so i can do my journey of growing up and glowing up in peace and then whenever I’m ready go back to social media to keep in touch with some people
@ForPurposeDrivennMen I’m genuinely grateful i came across your TH-cam channel man 🙌🏽
Ignoring the huge amount of news out there and instead focusing on yourself is elite advice for peace of mind
This is the best thing to do when it’s Tom to take control back of your life! Christ has a calling on our lives and this season of isolation should be praying, studying and fasting to find that calling.
I’m a woman but this resonates with where I am right now. I’m planted.
Respect and Salute 🫡 🙏 !!! Young Brutha !! 2nd Divorce after 26 years , So I have to regroup at the age of 53 !! Shit !! I know now , I wish I learned when I was younger !! Continued Blessings 🙌 🙏
God bless you bro thank you for your support OG! 🫡🙏🏽
@@ForPurposeDrivenMen !! No Doubt
Wise words king!!! … LETS LOCK IN! … Make the last quarter of 2024 the best !! … SALUTE! 🫡
Locked in!!
I’m a woman and I am doing this now. I’m starting over. Life is interesting. Great advice.
read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.
I needed this! Confirmation. I gotta stay off the phone for sure.
Just ran 3 miles listening to this. Thank you.
🫡Let him cook !! Thank you for another great one ! 🙏🏽💎
❤️🫡
Usually I take the idea behind these kind of video and skip them after 2-3 mins but I could not able to skip his bcz it spoke my life. NO BUDDY IS RESPONSIBLE YOUR SUCCESS
God bless you Malique I've been a subscriber since you were at 8k Subs, keep it up man.
I appreciate you more than you know brother, thank you for your support 🙏🏽
And of course may God bless you too 🫡
It’s so many videos on what self love looks like, I guess it’s different for everyone. Yet this is by far the best version I could’ve received. Glowing up for self love 💕
Needed this message today. I am in the middle of this. day 57 of 75Hard. I have been struggling with being alone and I have zero desire to be on dating apps/social media. Meanwhile, I have been enjoying my hobbies, exercising 2x daily, eating well and reading wonderful books. I have lost 15 pounds! My social circle do not get what I do and are indifferent to my pursuits. I often feel weird for these passions/goals. Thanks for reminding me there are others like me and that I am on the right path because I say so.
ok, back to being 👻
Right On Soul Brother. 💯
You know it brother
Realizing my role in my suffering. I am making the choice to truly accept what was and to do what’s necessary for my physical and mental wellbeing.
new day, new video and new goals to set and achieve🙏🏽.
Let’s go! 🫡🙏🏽
i don't know how or why this pop up on my timeline...but man i needed this my all life ! from France with love
Going ghost will definitely reveal the stalkers and monitoring spirits, because most grown adults understand people needing to take some time and space for themselves to grow or take care of their priorities and the inability to be available all the time. But if when you go ghost, or let a person know that you need to take some time for yourself or start bettering yourself and leveling up, and they buck back at you, talk down on you or say you acting like you too good for them, or guilt you into spending more time with them or for spending less, big red flags 🚩🚩🚩on the field playa! You got yourself a world star stage 5 clinger/hater/snake in your grass.. at and that point is probably best to just stay ghost, because they ain't here for your come up, they waiting on your downfall or to claim when you make it that they were there supporting the whole time 🙄😒
stalkers and monitoring spirits good point, im literally facing that right now.
First Watched one of your videos last night.. i was running with an “exotic dancer” and i lost it all down to my license because of tribulations..woke up this morning motivated than ever .. i didnt smoke , i threw my bong outside the night prior and I got me a journal and wrote down the 10 essentials from another video as well as realizing i was a man child. I Always blamed parents and the absence of a male role model but now i understand the ball is in my court as long i keep god first .. i even almost lost my faith and everything .. thanks to your words I’m on a spiritual cleanse .. i dont have the money for the better foods yet but im determined.. praying this lil wendys job hire me so i can open back up a-lot of doors that i allowed my ignorance and procrastination to close. Definitely will be following up daily , much love 🙏
this format really suits me
im a woman and i love your content! it applies to everyone everywhere. keep up the good work man!
thank you!
I just got fired 😢😢😢low end job but I’m a senior at the university so imma lock in for the remainder of my courses 😊😊😊
same bro
You got this ✨ God bless
This found me at the right time, I deleted all my social media accounts , I’ve started reading the bible now and listening to motivational videos here on TH-cam and I’m growing my TH-cam channel ❤🙌🏽
Set my new goals and set achieve 💪🏽✨🙌👁️