Another thing that makes it easier to approach from my experience is to not take it seriously. If you have the mindset of just having fun rather than treating it like a test, you’ll find that confidence and ability to be yourself since there’s no pressure at all
@@nordic24 you can’t just switch your mindset like they’re clothes, the best way to change your mindset is to do actions that correlate to the mindset you’re willing to adopt and the more actions and overall experience, your mindset will naturally adapt. So it really comes down to taking action.
1. Presentable (look, smell good) 2. Confident (posture etc) 3. Polite (talk about things right here, right now, don't linger) 4. Setup the next interaction
bro your analogies are TOP TIER . god has truly gifted you with the ability to communicate and deliver , and we need more brothas like you in the world . keep inspiring the future , i wish it was youtubers like you around when i was in high school !
TH-cam knows i needed this, as a teenager i was social and liked people, then covid came and i got used to no social interaction (I was 19 at the time and now just turned 23) i really wanna change it cause life is passing by and i haven't enjoyed it since covid Thank you for this video bro❤
it’s been 2 years since i graduated HS and i haven’t really had no social interaction fr to make new friends and meaningful connections with people my age, i’m changing that this year because i don’t want to waste my 20’s doing this anymore. 😭
Your videos are like therapy, man! They're so relaxing and calming, they really help me unwind after a long day. It's like I'm getting a little mental massage every time I watch one of your videos. Thanks for making them!
Approaching people may seem difficult at first, but with practice, it becomes easier. To approach someone, make sure you are presentable and confident. Have a plan and know what you want from the interaction. Make a genuine connection and avoid coming on too strong. Use relative objects or events to start a conversation. Ask open-ended questions and listen to the person. Set up future interactions and leave a lasting impression.
How to approach people: 1. Find a person. 2. Go up to them. 3. Communicate (words and body language are communication. Congrats, you just approached a person! Give yourself a cookie and a pat on the back.
@@lilliannevillanueva1101 The silly answer: If you go up to someone and do the absolute bullshit you thought you could never do, like idk, make bird noises or whatever, and realize you're able to and no one's beating you up for it you get more headspace to think of what you want to say anyway. The more normal answer: Smalltalk usually starts with something about the situation you're both in. A lot of the time you can literally just ask why people are here (what they like about wherever you are, where they're going or what fits the situation), it gives you context which us useful if you know literally nothing. Not knowing shit about the other person is exactly the thing, the other person doesn't know anything about you as well, so you don't need super elaborate specific stuff imo, like why overcomplicate it? And later you can just ask/talk about what media you/they like or what interests they/you have.
Hey I’m 14 right now I’ve started watching your videos recently and it’s helped a lot. I don’t really ask for help and that I can’t talk to people not even my mom. Thanks to you it’s been easy to talk to my family and friends. I’m glad there is somebody here to talk to people who can help people that really need.
"You dont wanna be crusty. You dont wanna be musty. 'Cause if you any of that, go back home and start over it is not your turn buddy" Gotta hang that up somewhere that got me dead 😭
Shimon, I’ve been watching your channel recently. From what I’ve seen this is exactly what I was looking for. I love the realness of your videos, and the ideas that you have helped me realize a lot of ideas that I’ve never thought about myself. I always love the quality you bring to each each video; the way you speak, and the words you choose, it speaks volumes. Thank you so much
eye contact is very important! not only is it respectful and get you more points, you’ll be able to read the persons body language by looking at them. sometimes people’s words don’t match their body language so it’s important to catch that.
The more you practise, the easier it gets. It's like playing the guitar. At first you have no clue what you're doing and you're nervous to play it since you can't think of anything to play that you know. But after practise and learning more songs, you'll be confident. You'll have complete control since you know what you're doing. Same goes for humans and communication. Practise, Practise, Practise.
I loved this video, so down to earth. You are definitely right about about the over-validating thing. It's nice to compliment people, but it can be super uncomfy to be put on a pedestal, and treating someone like your below them constantly makes it really hard for them to see you as an equal after a while. You're absolutely beautiful btw
I’m so happy he mentioned “lingering around.” I often question myself about this anytime I begin to feel this ‘nuisance’ type of energy, which by then I’m thinking I’ve stayed too long🙃…
i absolutely love your vids man. the original points, the humor and stuff. ngl, the quality we got from your vids is like youre already a 1mil youtuber. Considering the growth youre getting, im already gonna say congrats bro, you'll prolly reach 100k very soon.
Just from watching this video made me want to be friends with you. I don’t know what it is but something about your aura and your personality and voice and laugh that is eerily attracting almost like a siren song. Thanks for the amazing video I binged them while in class with nothing better to do.
I’ve been wanting to approach this girl for a while now and many of the videos I’ve seen have just not clicked with me. Shimon davis you have actually helped me with understanding and being confident thank you so much 🙏 🙏
people will be happy to have met you if you are who they wanna be. If they are shy and you walk up, theyll love you. give value and be floaty-friendly n not srs
Absolutely, stepping out of your comfort zone can feel daunting! I remember feeling the same way when I started approaching new people. It's funny how humor can break the ice-like when you accidentally spill your drink and joke about starting a 'liquid art' project. Or when someone takes themselves too seriously, and you realize that laughter can be the best connector. I joined the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, which helped me lighten up and engage in conversations with humor. Keep practicing; humor really does make social interactions so much easier and enjoyable!
bro, im rlly thankful for your videos man. i am trying to talk to a girl at school but i was too nervous so i was waiting for the perfect moment and every time i approached her something pulled me back and i couldn't. I am corrently getting the final courage to go talk to her. your videos are rlly helping me out man, thanks!
You know man, you give better messages and perspectives than any professional ive ever talked to, all your videos have significantly improved my day to day life, and for that i thank you. If i was helped everyone can improve life for the better 🙂
Brother I’ve been watching this video on repeat. My friends have been pushing me to approach girls at the mall, they do it with ease and do it in the way you’re explaining but I overthink it. I tried approaching a girl and it went bad, I lingered too much like you were saying, but I’m glade I finally did it. I’m gonna keep trying every weekend and take what you’re saying into consideration, thanks for this
I cant help but think if you watch Julian Blanc or not because this advice is pristine when it comes to letting go and stuff, keep up the good shit my guy
Crazy thing is, I’ve had this same problem and I haven’t been able to figure it out, n I’ve been hella hard on myself. I’m not a signs typa person but the angel wings you did at the end of the video It use to be my signature gesture,😂 I was like Yuhh this the one. Nxt thing ik we got the same birthday. But on a real note this video was helpful keep up the good work
There is this girl in my class and she looks and sometimes gives eye contact to me quite often and I have a good feeling that she likes me which I also like her back now. But I also feel like at other times I am being delusional and maybe she doesn’t like me. However, I feel like she is giving me signals to go up and talk to her because she probably is a shy person. I’m definitely going to try and talk to her soon but also don’t really know how to start off.
as someone who graduated school, go talk to her. if she’s not interested it’s way more girls out there that is plus HS feels like a memory that never really happened so take all the risk love! and you can start off by simply saying Hey and smiling and soon you’ll gather the courage to talk more.
“If you treat her like a celebrity, she gon treat you like a fan”.
Some men do without knowing it. Can't blame them
This one’s so true🙏🏼🙏🏼
real
@@thenewjord50 thats why we need self improvement to always be in our masculine frame and soundly minded
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Another thing that makes it easier to approach from my experience is to not take it seriously. If you have the mindset of just having fun rather than treating it like a test, you’ll find that confidence and ability to be yourself since there’s no pressure at all
How do you even let one mindset go, and get another?
This is the blockade I have with almost everything
@@nordic24 you can’t just switch your mindset like they’re clothes, the best way to change your mindset is to do actions that correlate to the mindset you’re willing to adopt and the more actions and overall experience, your mindset will naturally adapt. So it really comes down to taking action.
@@youngdepp Oh, thats my problem. Now it makes sense, thanks.
@@nordic24 no problem, we’re all learning here
What’s the background music called
1. Presentable (look, smell good)
2. Confident (posture etc)
3. Polite (talk about things right here, right now, don't linger)
4. Setup the next interaction
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bro your analogies are TOP TIER . god has truly gifted you with the ability to communicate and deliver , and we need more brothas like you in the world . keep inspiring the future , i wish it was youtubers like you around when i was in high school !
Much love to you g
Facts he giving top info 🔥
FORRRR REALLLL THO
This man rizzing me up from another continent
TH-cam knows i needed this, as a teenager i was social and liked people, then covid came and i got used to no social interaction (I was 19 at the time and now just turned 23) i really wanna change it cause life is passing by and i haven't enjoyed it since covid
Thank you for this video bro❤
Same age as you bro 😊
Same
it’s been 2 years since i graduated HS and i haven’t really had no social interaction fr to make new friends and meaningful connections with people my age, i’m changing that this year because i don’t want to waste my 20’s doing this anymore. 😭
"Oh you like water too? thats crazy me too, whats your favoorite flavour? naa you should buy me some for a week!!"
Peak comment
approaching people is easy but appeoaching a girl you like/crush is a whole another level
m.th-cam.com/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/w-d-xo.html
If u a straight guy or lesbian woman
true
@@Prince_B.Richterno it doesn’t make any sense how do u like someone u haven’t approached
That girl you like is just another person with their own flaws, emotions, and goals. Don’t act like she’s not
Your videos are like therapy, man! They're so relaxing and calming, they really help me unwind after a long day. It's like I'm getting a little mental massage every time I watch one of your videos. Thanks for making them!
Approaching people may seem difficult at first, but with practice, it becomes easier. To approach someone, make sure you are presentable and confident. Have a plan and know what you want from the interaction. Make a genuine connection and avoid coming on too strong. Use relative objects or events to start a conversation. Ask open-ended questions and listen to the person. Set up future interactions and leave a lasting impression.
How to approach people:
1. Find a person.
2. Go up to them.
3. Communicate (words and body language are communication.
Congrats, you just approached a person!
Give yourself a cookie and a pat on the back.
☠️
Yeah but wtf do i say to start talking like can someone give me an example to start a convo and from there I’m good 😂
@@lilliannevillanueva1101 The silly answer: If you go up to someone and do the absolute bullshit you thought you could never do, like idk, make bird noises or whatever, and realize you're able to and no one's beating you up for it you get more headspace to think of what you want to say anyway.
The more normal answer: Smalltalk usually starts with something about the situation you're both in. A lot of the time you can literally just ask why people are here (what they like about wherever you are, where they're going or what fits the situation), it gives you context which us useful if you know literally nothing. Not knowing shit about the other person is exactly the thing, the other person doesn't know anything about you as well, so you don't need super elaborate specific stuff imo, like why overcomplicate it? And later you can just ask/talk about what media you/they like or what interests they/you have.
@@toni2309 thank you man love you ❤️
Bro’s conversation skills smoother than my bald uncle’s head ✨
😂
spilled my drink
Hey I’m 14 right now I’ve started watching your videos recently and it’s helped a lot. I don’t really ask for help and that I can’t talk to people not even my mom. Thanks to you it’s been easy to talk to my family and friends. I’m glad there is somebody here to talk to people who can help people that really need.
I felt the stress growing in my head throughout the video already
"You dont wanna be crusty. You dont wanna be musty. 'Cause if you any of that, go back home and start over it is not your turn buddy"
Gotta hang that up somewhere that got me dead 😭
Shimon, I’ve been watching your channel recently. From what I’ve seen this is exactly what I was looking for. I love the realness of your videos, and the ideas that you have helped me realize a lot of ideas that I’ve never thought about myself. I always love the quality you bring to each each video; the way you speak, and the words you choose, it speaks volumes. Thank you so much
eye contact is very important! not only is it respectful and get you more points, you’ll be able to read the persons body language by looking at them. sometimes people’s words don’t match their body language so it’s important to catch that.
The more you practise, the easier it gets. It's like playing the guitar. At first you have no clue what you're doing and you're nervous to play it since you can't think of anything to play that you know. But after practise and learning more songs, you'll be confident. You'll have complete control since you know what you're doing. Same goes for humans and communication. Practise, Practise, Practise.
*it's not that hard, the most important thing is willing to put yourself in a vulnerable position. that's it.*
I loved this video, so down to earth. You are definitely right about about the over-validating thing. It's nice to compliment people, but it can be super uncomfy to be put on a pedestal, and treating someone like your below them constantly makes it really hard for them to see you as an equal after a while. You're absolutely beautiful btw
I’m so happy he mentioned “lingering around.” I often question myself about this anytime I begin to feel this ‘nuisance’ type of energy, which by then I’m thinking I’ve stayed too long🙃…
Dude, you're saving my life from a burden! Thanks. And also i would like to say that you've a got a very vibrant appeal and also a kind heart!
your way of speaking is so calming bro i could listen to your shit for hours
i absolutely love your vids man. the original points, the humor and stuff. ngl, the quality we got from your vids is like youre already a 1mil youtuber. Considering the growth youre getting, im already gonna say congrats bro, you'll prolly reach 100k very soon.
Ur going places broo. Underrated vid 💪💪🙏
Appreciate that
The first line alone got me, "get out of your head"
Just from watching this video made me want to be friends with you. I don’t know what it is but something about your aura and your personality and voice and laugh that is eerily attracting almost like a siren song. Thanks for the amazing video I binged them while in class with nothing better to do.
I’ve been wanting to approach this girl for a while now and many of the videos I’ve seen have just not clicked with me. Shimon davis you have actually helped me with understanding and being confident thank you so much 🙏 🙏
As a woman, this guy knows what he’s talking about. That’s how my man rizzes me up every time haha
i watched this all the way thru, the way you talk about things is really engaging
Thank you my g
I’ve always been introverted but imma make an effort to get out of my bubble more this year
How'd it go?
@@animegod9585has anything changed for you?
So basically start off as if you are beginning a friendship. Don’t express interest in a serious relationship at the first interaction💀
Why is he actually giving me confidence to talk to my crush? I love your videos man, keep up the work.
I love you fam
@@AskShimon Love you too, man. I’m just really trying to work on my social skills n stuff, your videos are really helping.
people will be happy to have met you if you are who they wanna be. If they are shy and you walk up, theyll love you. give value and be floaty-friendly n not srs
Thank you so much for this, I will use it on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday
Bro you kinda jus saved my life this whole year.😭♥️ All The Motivation an information was jus great.🙏💯
Just getting yourself to say them first words is the biggest hurdle, but good stuff man, thank you!
People won't always remember what you say, but they will always remember how you made them feel. Stay kind❤
Absolutely, stepping out of your comfort zone can feel daunting! I remember feeling the same way when I started approaching new people. It's funny how humor can break the ice-like when you accidentally spill your drink and joke about starting a 'liquid art' project.
Or when someone takes themselves too seriously, and you realize that laughter can be the best connector.
I joined the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, which helped me lighten up and engage in conversations with humor. Keep practicing; humor really does make social interactions so much easier and enjoyable!
this man is majestic ong
Lesson learned, thank you sir😁
No worries!
-have yaself together
-read and pay attention
-have a purpose in life, don't chase ( for men, they will chase you...)
2:30 me when I approach people 😂
🤣💔
bro, im rlly thankful for your videos man. i am trying to talk to a girl at school but i was too nervous so i was waiting for the perfect moment and every time i approached her something pulled me back and i couldn't. I am corrently getting the final courage to go talk to her. your videos are rlly helping me out man, thanks!
How did it go
i really wish this was available when i was in high school bro thanks for this
This guy is the living embodiment of "cool"
You know man, you give better messages and perspectives than any professional ive ever talked to, all your videos have significantly improved my day to day life, and for that i thank you. If i was helped everyone can improve life for the better 🙂
Brother I’ve been watching this video on repeat. My friends have been pushing me to approach girls at the mall, they do it with ease and do it in the way you’re explaining but I overthink it. I tried approaching a girl and it went bad, I lingered too much like you were saying, but I’m glade I finally did it. I’m gonna keep trying every weekend and take what you’re saying into consideration, thanks for this
I just found your page and your video really helped me see things from a different perspective 🙌🏽
Thanks you help me be more confident ❤️
Great video!! Thank you ❤
This prince helped a kenyan shy boy
Thanks bro
"She might have a jacket on" surprised me in a good way lol
this high-key gon save me bruh thanks man this sum good stuff
💯💯
if you treat her like a celebrity shes going to treat you like a fan.. wow
Love your videos man ♥. haven't found a channel so relatable like yours
thank you for the support
Great dude. Great content. Keep em coming
U too smooth with it🔥🙏
youtube sent me a stray ngl ☠️ (i fucked up today)
I cant help but think if you watch Julian Blanc or not because this advice is pristine when it comes to letting go and stuff, keep up the good shit my guy
Thanks alot man, this vid gave me alot of motivation , appreciate it
Bro I needed this, thank you 🙏🏼💯
Any time
Your vids are legit more enjoyable than other social skills videos out there. Lovin this!
thanks for the tips they're actually good not like those others which tell you to become rude to her and sh will remember you
Thanks bro
the jabs part made me subscribe
🔥🔥🔥your channel is gonna grow tremendously
Man you're so chill I love your videos. Keep it up
Shimon Davis for president 2024
Listening to you is like meditation 😂😂😂
I wanna play in his hair. It’s so pretty
dude be fixing my entire life in 10 minutes
Man life really changed lately im still lonely but i enjoy chillin with girls sometimes or partying, its kinda painfull but i got it
Smooth as air.
Crazy thing is, I’ve had this same problem and I haven’t been able to figure it out, n I’ve been hella hard on myself. I’m not a signs typa person but the angel wings you did at the end of the video It use to be my signature gesture,😂 I was like Yuhh this the one. Nxt thing ik we got the same birthday. But on a real note this video was helpful keep up the good work
Another thing, jobs can easily teach you how to approach/speak to ppl.
thank you man you helping more than you could ever know could you do a vid on how to keep furthering things and building your garden?
Sure thing!
This dude look and sounds like a travelling messenger
You may see him now, but you don't know when he'll be gone again
Hes right 2:50
bro I will thank god that you exist you are great, keep it up
i'm now subscribed
that black man spills the truth👏
Really happy I came across your channel ❤
Thanks to this, I got her snap. You truly do help people out here.
5:18 That's the above line thing brother, specifically for my country girl talking itself and making them comfortable is a big thing 😂
Could you make a video about what's next though?
Bro, this brother is good, cant believe he is only 20 years old, that's like my little brother that is 2 years younger giving me all this game
Thanks for the advice man. Appreciate it man
Any time!
I love your fro it’s very nice and flattering ❤
Thank you
There is this girl in my class and she looks and sometimes gives eye contact to me quite often and I have a good feeling that she likes me which I also like her back now. But I also feel like at other times I am being delusional and maybe she doesn’t like me. However, I feel like she is giving me signals to go up and talk to her because she probably is a shy person. I’m definitely going to try and talk to her soon but also don’t really know how to start off.
as someone who graduated school, go talk to her. if she’s not interested it’s way more girls out there that is plus HS feels like a memory that never really happened so take all the risk love! and you can start off by simply saying Hey and smiling and soon you’ll gather the courage to talk more.
@@marieedean7981 alright, thank you 🙏
I’m also stuck 1 week of school left and I don’t l ow what to do
1:13 go back home and start over buddy😂, speaking facts
Good advice brother 👍
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Thank you for everything brother❤
Lots of good advice, thanks bro
You are the goat
So are you my friend
Aside from your mildly bad english, this vid helped me ALOT. Instantly created a good relationship w/ crush. may have lingered tho idk
Lucky
Whats the BACKGROUND music he got
ppl can be meeeaaann tho, coming from experience in approaching ppl
I actually subscribed