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  • @lillunalol
    @lillunalol 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +565

    This guy's social skills are so good I started talking to my computer fr 😭

    • @Soul_Born
      @Soul_Born 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Same Ian gon lie

  • @AccPremturk
    @AccPremturk ปีที่แล้ว +1176

    yesterday i rlly liked how i acted , i was being funny with 3 cute girls and saying what i wanted

    • @Wathivs
      @Wathivs ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Good things

    • @CosImUpRn
      @CosImUpRn ปีที่แล้ว +89

      That's great for you! I hope more progress comes from there

    • @MegaIiyambula
      @MegaIiyambula ปีที่แล้ว +88

      We love to see brothers winning, good job brah

    • @ImperiaISoup
      @ImperiaISoup ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thats my warrior!

    • @ConversationswithCyle
      @ConversationswithCyle ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I really hope to be like this one day

  • @kadthedreamer
    @kadthedreamer ปีที่แล้ว +1097

    3:07 Bro started rizzing us up outta nowhere

    • @osokukuspartan1351
      @osokukuspartan1351 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      😂😂😂

    • @younglando_
      @younglando_ ปีที่แล้ว +33

      LMFAOOOOO

    • @Flqmmable
      @Flqmmable ปีที่แล้ว +68

      BRO I GOT ALL FLUSTERED HAHAH

    • @grimziiie
      @grimziiie ปีที่แล้ว +6

      HAHAHAHAHA

    • @OhitsONnow
      @OhitsONnow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      THE PLAYMAKER

  • @PeterIsip-n9v
    @PeterIsip-n9v ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I honestly just have nothing to say, that's the hardest part for me. I just have nothing to say, I have no fear of talking I just don't know what to say.

    • @misteryio3116
      @misteryio3116 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Talk about sex

    • @vanillamilkbread
      @vanillamilkbread 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      RIGHT 😭

    • @Jayynoz.
      @Jayynoz. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      my biggest problem. i hate talking and i definitely hate small talk

    • @chroniclebeast15
      @chroniclebeast15 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      you’ve lived your whole life, everyone got something to say that’s what starters are for, you gotta relate or contrast to their responses plus people love talking abt themselves so listen and add on to their words

    • @JohnnyBGoode-xn9mo
      @JohnnyBGoode-xn9mo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Go do things. Interesting things that you enjoy. Challenge yourself and reflect. You’ll have things to talk about.

  • @cobruhfn3576
    @cobruhfn3576 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    10:36 bro done got me blushin

    • @siarahhb.7347
      @siarahhb.7347 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      U ain’t locked in

  • @ripdeadpoet
    @ripdeadpoet ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Made me realize how scared I really am. I feel like sometimes I make excuses for why I can’t make friends or talk to the girls I actually like but I really am just scared and I want to change that.

    • @kirayoshikage1491
      @kirayoshikage1491 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s hard, my recommend is to try getting counseling. If you happen to be in a college they’ve probably got a counseling center you’re already paying for

    • @ily_lag
      @ily_lag 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      realising your flaws are the beginning of changing.

    • @Ashleeey6585
      @Ashleeey6585 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ii feel you so much

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too even went as far as saying I'm retarded as an excuse

    • @joonjonjew
      @joonjonjew 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@kirayoshikage1491worst advice beta chad. Just go ask her out OP

  • @DioBrando-jm2bz
    @DioBrando-jm2bz ปีที่แล้ว +55

    ,,closed mouths don t get fed , if u got sum to say then say it"

  • @nTrubl3
    @nTrubl3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    This channel is a mystic breath of fresh air

    • @jaycee5036
      @jaycee5036 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Onggg

  • @stevet5473
    @stevet5473 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Bro's spritting GAMEEEE

  • @Flqmmable
    @Flqmmable ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "whats on yo mind?"
    that make me feel all flustered. If you wanna ask me out just do it already. 👀

    • @pazeros6424
      @pazeros6424 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No yo, it was scary asf. I don't how the girls, but I didnt like that

  • @dantheman9087
    @dantheman9087 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I love this guy he reminds me of the dry creek wrangler school guy. Confident and well spoken men both of them.

    • @tatayakka285
      @tatayakka285 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yeah man im so glad someone else knows that guy. both amazing people

    • @omgxab2223
      @omgxab2223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did not expect Dwayne to get a shout-out tonight. 🎉

  • @millymilly3494
    @millymilly3494 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Bro is rizzing up through the phone screen lmfao

  • @user-uc1lx7io2n
    @user-uc1lx7io2n 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    "Silence is loud itself" is so good. Like what. Shimon don't miss with these random, intelligent, philosophical quotes. Much love brother

  • @flying_solo4479
    @flying_solo4479 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    You are probably the biggest inspiration to me right now, no joke.

  • @ConversationswithCyle
    @ConversationswithCyle ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I am a very shy person but I try to say what really but it comes out awkward so I stay quiet close mouths don't get fed to my shy boys and girls you won't know what is possible unless you try. You can do this 💗

  • @yoshi4545
    @yoshi4545 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    10:40 dawg jus ask me out already😭

  • @wibble6966
    @wibble6966 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Hey man, I just wanted to say once again that you're a great human being and that you've literally helped many people through a screen basically. I'm pretty sure you are aware of that by now and it is honestly impressive and awesome. Keep up the good work no matter what!

  • @kevacionorm4096
    @kevacionorm4096 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I just wanna thank you man. Not afraid to say you helped inspire me to start making the content I enjoy. Keep up the great work you do🙏🏽

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Much love to you fam

  • @crimson2knight
    @crimson2knight 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like that you added "yourself included" cause everyone's got their moments. To reiterate, no one's perfect all the time.

  • @choporchubbzda1
    @choporchubbzda1 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My algorithm really blessed me this time with exactly what I need right now thank you for coming to TH-cam man, you will 1000% make a huge impact no doubt about it

  • @ImperiaISoup
    @ImperiaISoup ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This guy is changing my life. I had an idea how to change my life but didn’t know how to formulate it. This guy has helped me so much when I was a my lowest (teenage low lol, it was a great experience to finally get taught by a literal master!). I’m 16 and If shimon is reading this I thank you greatly.

  • @franciscogonzalez9597
    @franciscogonzalez9597 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m manifesting the energy to move out of my parents house and eventually get my own house positive vibes only

  • @Becerraproductionhaus
    @Becerraproductionhaus ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This kat is the reincarnation of Jimi Hendrix. Wise words bro!

  • @dunno-19
    @dunno-19 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I gotta give you the appreciation you're due man. Coming across your video's has been invaluable and I don't say that lightly. I've learned and become such a better human being, toward others and also myself. This video in particular really spoke to me. I had a sorta breakthrough when you explained how we act when we're around people who's opinion matters little, versus around the opposite. I do that too much, the overthinking is atrocious. But the point is, I understand how I am when I'm not constantly worried and fearful of judgement/rejection from others, and I see how I actually am when I'm free of that. It's the most liberating thing. Thank you Shimon.

  • @onthisjoyride
    @onthisjoyride 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes learning body language is so important 🥳

  • @Jeff13579
    @Jeff13579 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “The only guaranteed things in life are death and taxes” had me cracking up bro 😂😂

  • @vielsafttrank7582
    @vielsafttrank7582 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Confidence really is key and I need to work on that, especially during conversations. You just ooze confidence the way you speak and I want to get to a similar level. Because how am I gonna get the hot guy, if I ain't speaking properly to him. ✌

  • @keonihall4
    @keonihall4 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    man you have really opened up my eyes on a lot of things. You make it so simple for people to understand your videos. I really like this video specifically about being condifent and just being yourself. People love confidence but not everyone can be 'your' person like you said. Keep doing your thing, I truly appreciate your videos and the work you put in for everyone. Much love

  • @OhitsONnow
    @OhitsONnow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Holy shit. This dude just cut to the heart of what I realized from self-introspection 8 seconds into the video
    This man's got the sauce

  • @adrieljames3484
    @adrieljames3484 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When bro started coming close to the camera, ngl jit got me giggling and blushing

  • @edwinmalkil7727
    @edwinmalkil7727 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn this is informative. Someone younger than me enlightening me. " Closed mouths don't get feed" 👌🏿

  • @arkarh1114
    @arkarh1114 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You became my fav content creator since I've got sober,
    can tell you've been working on self improvement for years
    keep it up you're aura is next level !

  • @gamingjamari6898
    @gamingjamari6898 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bro charisma just unmatched. Interesting video to watch.

  • @hozic9929
    @hozic9929 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    you arer the real self worth goat

  • @whynot6156
    @whynot6156 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ngl when bro said "what on yo mind" i puckered up for real

  • @ade2y
    @ade2y ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bro i can listen to you for hours ..
    It relaxes

  • @Chunksclipz
    @Chunksclipz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I started watching this because I was getting anxious the girl I was talking to didn’t like me anymore, Safe to say now I’m already speaking more from my heart and I think it’s going well, talking about the future, respecting her thoughts whilst offering mine, thank you shimon Davis you’ve given me a new perspective.

  • @WhoIsShawn.
    @WhoIsShawn. ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have these exact problems. Our conversations with you are always the best. Keep it up

  • @livywithane
    @livywithane 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never gotten so much attention iml🫠😂 but this is all facts. In my head I’m such a chill and down-to-earth but outspoken girl. But in reality I can’t talk for my life and I’m not much of a flirter when talking to guys I like. I think once I emotionally detach myself it takes away my overthinking a lot and lets me be more confident and comfortable. I like to joke and compliment guys a lot if I’m interested in them- as a friend or more than that🤷🏾‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️

  • @paulcelsoong6569
    @paulcelsoong6569 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey thanks for the positivity man… just want to say that I really like your vibe! Please stay that way

  • @JASONVISION
    @JASONVISION ปีที่แล้ว +8

    3:32 i love that guitar on the left omggggg ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mandezs
    @mandezs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro, I just have to say I feel blessed to have found your videos.

  • @Indie-Insider
    @Indie-Insider 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love watching your content bro….,
    I could say watching your videos is helping me to improve upon my English Speaking skills and other stuffs.🇬🇭

  • @16BitKingFTW
    @16BitKingFTW 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    5:07 "she came inside of my lab"

  • @Kwemtougoji
    @Kwemtougoji ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This guy is the difference between people that post self help videos for money and for genuine reasons.
    So so relatable , hope you keep this up bro , your absolutely top notch ❤❤

  • @BariumLR
    @BariumLR ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Get this man to 1M Subs. He deserves every bit of love we can give him

  • @WoW-qs4bv
    @WoW-qs4bv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being autist, though not so high on the spectrum, I really respect the work and love in this video. It helps lots, all love man 🤞

  • @transphobik4020
    @transphobik4020 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are the goat . Conversation going well im in there 💯

  • @rubybishop8749
    @rubybishop8749 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man I came here for advice you got me all flustered in this here tf. I just wanted to know the type of advice men get so I can help move the convo along because almost all the guys I've gone on coffee dates with are so shy and I'm not really into that so I'm trying to find ways to encourage them to grow BUT MAN YOU CAN'T PULL THAT I had to pause cause ahhhhhhhh

  • @cruz0823
    @cruz0823 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man got me feeling better about myself fr!😂👏🏽

  • @mason3641
    @mason3641 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    For me this is only part of the problem. Even with people Idrc about I still have trouble communicating my thoughts. And sometimes I just flat out got nothing to say. If anyone struggles with the same problem I'd appreciate ur input

  • @RealityOfJvrse
    @RealityOfJvrse ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Love this I love this! 💪🏾 Boldness along with total honesty, having humility & confidence and like you said not being worried about being judged will take you a long way in the midst of conversation!

  • @kroepoek3764
    @kroepoek3764 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You a dangerous guy man. Ain’t no way I let my girl get near you haha. But on a serious note, great video!

  • @Literally-Me
    @Literally-Me 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks brother , I appreciate all your videos . I wish I would have had someone like you to tell me these things when I was younger .

  • @ianquinones7985
    @ianquinones7985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo you don’t miss bro, your videos really speak to me. I appreciate what you do. Tribe is on the rise ☝🏾

  • @levkopavlyk5798
    @levkopavlyk5798 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shimon's videos are the best meditaion for me fr

  • @lobsterbo_i123
    @lobsterbo_i123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As the great Bruce Lee said: “don’t think, feel”.

  • @devinecharles
    @devinecharles 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏 I love this, we learn from each other, this video is really worth to be seen by lot of people.

  • @drugsforhugs7106
    @drugsforhugs7106 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You helped made things feel simple and I understood everything you said thanks man much love bro 👍

  • @juanlewis6460
    @juanlewis6460 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    not u trying to rizz me up. hey man i like your content, youre really changing the world, keep it up

  • @maxannison17
    @maxannison17 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3:15 why’s bro so captivating 😭😭😭 making me wanna lean in fr

  • @shenwishes
    @shenwishes ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My conversations started going downhill when I started to expect things. Maybe it's best adviced to live in the moment and not worry about what the other person thinks. That's just me reflecting on myself. Great video as always

  • @deletedchannel8721
    @deletedchannel8721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was looking for this video about an hour ago without even knowing. Thank you a lot!

  • @KazeWinnie
    @KazeWinnie 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What's on your mind?×3 part
    really killed me 😂

  • @nitram8947
    @nitram8947 ปีที่แล้ว

    I acc love your energy man, reminds me of one of my best friends who moved abroad. Thanks for the vids, much love 🙏

  • @christiangray8167
    @christiangray8167 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im glad I found this channel

  • @vsnxw5903
    @vsnxw5903 ปีที่แล้ว

    The realeast youtuber out there always helping others, thanks bro ❤

  • @bohyII
    @bohyII ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother you opened my eyes, thank you and all the best to you

  • @nlmb28s14
    @nlmb28s14 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Shimon love all your vids! could you make one about getting from the “online talking stage” (like just replying to her story for the first time) and how we shift from that into the first real life date? Especially cause we don’t know too much about each other here at the start the chat dries much of the time

  • @tsolmon9962
    @tsolmon9962 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When bro started looking at my soul I felt all of this stages: Whatchu doing bro, ngl he not half bad, just ask me out already 😫😫😫

  • @joshls321
    @joshls321 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spitting game 🔥

  • @egg8337
    @egg8337 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    AM I GETTING RIZZED UP RN?!?!

  • @szymus1646
    @szymus1646 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love listening to you

  • @2Squarky
    @2Squarky ปีที่แล้ว +1

    brother u a lifesavior god bless u 🙏

  • @JanetHubert-s1k
    @JanetHubert-s1k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Once went to a dentist. She was young and cute. We really vibed before and during my session then after we were still talking I was her last patient that day so we were just chilling having a convo, I didn’t even realize cuz I thought I was waiting for something then I asked what’s next and she says we’re done we’re just chatting. Immediately she said that I realized I was having a conversation with this cute girl and now I froze up. Made me realize we overthink somethings and ruin it for ourselves.

  • @asianjesus9813
    @asianjesus9813 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bro got me blushing

  • @mikey3947
    @mikey3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was really needed rn, thanks man. Have a good one.

  • @eargaze
    @eargaze ปีที่แล้ว

    If you come across this message, it’s not a coincidence, the Universe is watching u, knows what you desire, align with that feeling of fulfillment, choose peace over anything, and remain grateful at all time

  • @sidwhite2800
    @sidwhite2800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Davis you are such a beautiful person thanks for the advice

  • @yungyoom9293
    @yungyoom9293 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    somebody get my guy a robe with a long white beard cuz he WISE

  • @lovelyjay4400
    @lovelyjay4400 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:21 that’s how i respond to people🤣 Kids love doing this🤣❤️

  • @Jerry9taile
    @Jerry9taile 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:07 Alr bro you ain’t have to rizz me up 😂

  • @shaylaaa65
    @shaylaaa65 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    just joined the family i already love ur vids

  • @ariannecapote7260
    @ariannecapote7260 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I made this effort to my friend. I fell in love with him, and I wished I hadn't asked him these questions. He doesn't know I like him. We are no longer talking now because I choose not to fall deeper. And it feels like a one-sided heartbreak but he shouldn't know my feelings for him. Because I know he doesn't like me. He has described to me what his dream girl is because I intentionally asked him, and it's not me.

  • @Morgan-yf6ng
    @Morgan-yf6ng ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ifwy heavy keep going 😊🔥

  • @cloudblue934
    @cloudblue934 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    really needed to hear this

  • @sugar-spice38
    @sugar-spice38 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That was smooth ass hell though 😁😁

  • @nolifezay4636
    @nolifezay4636 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just found your channel Shimon, and u are already changing my life, keep giving me the best advice, thank you brother❤️🙏🏾

  • @hamp190
    @hamp190 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like older me just talked to me through time travel🙏🏾😇

  • @blondie8024
    @blondie8024 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    u help me with my anxiety sm

  • @tylerlevesque3444
    @tylerlevesque3444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro always makes sense

  • @thraxx-q
    @thraxx-q ปีที่แล้ว

    Man’s saving lives

  • @RedDeadWrangler
    @RedDeadWrangler 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know I am just scared of talking because im texting with this girl but I can’t talk to her in person and I know there ain’t nothing to be afraid of

  • @lewish1248
    @lewish1248 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:44- That’s a Jay-Z lyric! “Closed mouth doesn’t get fed!”😂

    • @e42069
      @e42069 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also joeybadass "close your legs for a bit, Baby, lets open up. Closed mouths don't get fed finishing lunch"

  • @johnnyarteaga4735
    @johnnyarteaga4735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    DONT BELIEVE THIS DUDE. HES DARK, CUTE ASH, Nice ass voice, rich cz youtube. nahh he can say whatever he wants😂 do you own a giraffe?

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks

  • @Noahwarriorsfan
    @Noahwarriorsfan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice, so factual

  • @tarek7135
    @tarek7135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No way 3 minutes into advice Bro starts rizzing me up and down Like Crazy man i feel violated

  • @kaloyan_Creates
    @kaloyan_Creates ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This mf knows what's going on in my head better than myself

  • @Blockbusterkptv111
    @Blockbusterkptv111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great vid, clear cut explinarions bro💪🏾

  • @whynot6156
    @whynot6156 ปีที่แล้ว +897

    ngl when bro said "what on yo mind" i puckered up for real