Do Abusive Partners Ever Change?

Host: Ursula Mariani │Instagram: shortest.link/...
Co-host: Sibonganjalo Bonga Botha │ Facebook: shortest.link/...
Guest: Dany Vambili │ Instagram: / danyvambili
Technical Director, Editor, & Videographer: Given Masilela │ Instagram: shortest.link/...
Producer: Sibonganjalo Bonga Botha │ Facebook: shortest.link/...
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[@ScissorN]

Abusers dont change they learn to mask the abuse for who they are not willing to loose but soon as that dies down they go back to being abusers… same as Narcs

[@luzukomkati7445]

such a layered conversation. As he stated at the beginning that society usually deals with the fruits rather than going to the root causes. This episode went straight to the roots. From 12;00-15 min We cannot run away from what patriarchy has done(expectation of power, provision and strength from men regardless of age).The lines are so blurry when it comes to male abuse. "deal with things before they deal with you. "I like how him and his partner saw a gap in the church and decided to offer their services. He mentioned that the church would rather pray issues away than deal with them. Yho hay this conversation, so many nuggets to chew on.

[@mlekalakala839]

The level and depth of knowledge and education in this episode? I’m still trying to digest. Shuu🙆🏾‍♀️

[@raymondmalatji1034]

This should have been at least 3 hours long. There are some serious issues to be unpacked here. Thank you Dany for the gems dropped here

[@banziimavuso9974]

It's possible, only after a lot of introspection. I was able to want better for myself and I didn't want to keep hurting people cos I was hurting.
I've owned that I chose a partner who was not as honest or had a good character but I married her.
I was addicted to the highs and lows.
It's possible to change.

[@breslygaseb5465]

This episode deserves a standing ovationn

[@pink_sugar_]

What an eye opening episode👏

[@nozizwenuku8905]

I can't wait to need couples counselling🤭😶‍🌫 but also being toxic in relationships stems from our relationships with our fathers or lack there of, I know it's doing a real number on me in my adulthood and as a woman who wants to be in a healthy relationship with a man and as a parent it affects me even more- please explore this as a topic.

[@zammyzee8073]

This chat has me questioning some life decisions 😅 thoughts were provoked shem!
Danny Vambili a name to remember.

[@mrsl2175]

Danny Vambili 🙌 well done ! Thanks for the knowledge 🙏 God bless you all

[@phumlanomdebevana5998]

This is deep, an eye opener in many ways than one. Thanks for your consistency in bringing value adding conversations to the surface guys it’s refreshing to find something worth ones time in these streets these days.

[@anelemkwanazi2259]

Woah! 😭 this was an incredible conversation.

[@tresiaaindongo9837]

I absolutely loved this episode❤️

[@jeansophia2092]

Abuser never change really. But i believe in helping while the branch can still bend. But once they older its almost impossible.

[@The_Third_Place]

i was 9, my 13 year old cousin would make us do thing, touch her parts. wabted to shower and share the bed with me, to the adults we were close cousons and ive blurred out some stuff out of my memories and 2 decades later i realise that was wrong

[@rivoningo]

💯

[@sollynkgalabimankga6012]

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