ALL of these are so true. 👏🏽🔥💯 I wish my parents would have taught me this way of dating in my late teens & early 20’s I had to learn on my own through trial and error. So much time has been wasted. 😩😵💫
Love your videos. & you are so right on non black men wanting us!!! I’m shook. And the way they flirt is so lowkey & not robust & loud like BM. Thank you for your advice ❤
BOUNDARIES, so True!!! My husband kissed me on our 3rd date! Just passed 12 yrs married, 17 yrs in total! He swears we kissed on the 2nd date; he don't know!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, stress him out! 😂Take it from a bw married to a wm for 21 yrs. If I were single I’d be booking this guy for consultations. (He saying what my mother taught me about men.)
This message reminds me of my big take away from the movie about Barak & Michelle. She gave him such a hard time when they started dating. Never let him slip up. She was NOT HIS PEACE....SHE WAS HIS ROCK...HIS COMPASS, and SHE CHALLENGED HIM. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Maybe you are not supposed to be aroused. Maybe your supposed to see if the character, lifestyle, ambitions, etc are compatible first. When men impress you with consistency, patience, support, maybe thats when you're supposed to be aroused.
I have two daughters: 5 and 2, and an 8 year old son - I would love for them to be coached by you when they’re older to prepare them for the dating shark pool. Such sound advice for both sexes!!!
Always think about it in the frame of vasopressin bonding. Instead of being this robotic helpmate that can get everything done, she becomes the needy Damsel in Distress. All of a sudden your arms and legs stop working and you need him to fetch you things or to hold the door or carry heavy things... you get it. A lot of women think of being a man's peace as making his life seamless and easy. Whitman operating on ego and thriving in competitive environments he needs some demands to be met if that makes any sense. This is why even in couples a man might want to make you achieve climax more than he did the other night. Is his own personal competition so when he gets the job done he feels successful. It may rub you the wrong way to seem helpless but it's an easier way to get him feel like he's problem solving with you. Especially if you just don't have the time to bust out a game of Scrabble😅
ALL of these are so true. 👏🏽🔥💯 I wish my parents would have taught me this way of dating in my late teens & early 20’s I had to learn on my own through trial and error. So much time has been wasted. 😩😵💫
Butterflies is stress response...OMG!!! And don't be his peace... Stress him out!!! Thank you. This is gold!!!! Olympic games here we come... lol
Love your videos. & you are so right on non black men wanting us!!! I’m shook. And the way they flirt is so lowkey & not robust & loud like BM. Thank you for your advice ❤
BOUNDARIES, so True!!! My husband kissed me on our 3rd date! Just passed 12 yrs married, 17 yrs in total! He swears we kissed on the 2nd date; he don't know!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, stress him out! 😂Take it from a bw married to a wm for 21 yrs. If I were single I’d be booking this guy for consultations. (He saying what my mother taught me about men.)
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How do i stress him out?
Stressing your partner out = a toxic relationship = doomed to fail. In a relationship you DO want your peace
@@FIREcrochethairstyles Anwar will need to clarify. It's a good stress not a bad stress.
I'm a very calm and chill person. Give me some ways I can stress him out please!
LOL SAAMMEEE!!
In a previous videos he said your boundaries you set can stress a man out. He’s going to be constantly thinking what he can and cannot do
This message reminds me of my big take away from the movie about Barak & Michelle. She gave him such a hard time when they started dating. Never let him slip up. She was NOT HIS PEACE....SHE WAS HIS ROCK...HIS COMPASS, and SHE CHALLENGED HIM. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Everything you said and then some.🌹👏🏽🍷
I agree with all of the things that you said. What I can't imagine is how anyone could get aroused without feeling the chemistry?
This is the problem I'm having. I'm dating good men, but I'm not attracted because I want the butterflies 🙄😅
Maybe you are not supposed to be aroused. Maybe your supposed to see if the character, lifestyle, ambitions, etc are compatible first.
When men impress you with consistency, patience, support, maybe thats when you're supposed to be aroused.
@@GG-rk1buFACTS! 😩💯😂 The men that treat me good aren’t physically attractive at all. It sucks so bad.
@@tinyking11 I get you sis! The boys that make me cream my pants unfortunately don't deserve the chance 😅
Oh My 😱 and the butterflies 🦋👀 Thank you so much❣️❣️❣️🙏🙏🙏💓💓💓🤗🤗🤗
➡️ compatability, nurturing
emotional intelligence
respect of boundaries
attention, unconditional love
Precise, concise, and detailed as always
Idk why ppl ever thought chemistry was legit to base on for long term. Save it for the rom coms
You know what, uhm, i am 35 years old and i am going to follow all this. Time for a change.
You just released the Kraken
Olympic Dating: Gold, Silver, Bronze. Compatibility.
You are a godsend! Thank you for this. Didn’t know women emotionally lead relationships.
Best dating coach out there. Just found you. Subscribed. Btw I’m white and your advice is totally sound. Thank you.
I have two daughters: 5 and 2, and an 8 year old son - I would love for them to be coached by you when they’re older to prepare them for the dating shark pool. Such sound advice for both sexes!!!
Ladies LISTEN TO THS GUY HE DOES NOT MISS
Thanks Anwar! Whats a good stress?
OMG I love you so much this is awesome. Gratitude❤🎉❤🎉
This makes so much sense!!!!! Thank you 🙏🏾
Bless you 🙏🏾
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How do I book a consultation with you 😉
Go to his website from his page.
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Stress him out??
That only works if he’s not the kinda guy to have several options or he’s obsessed with you (usually because of ur looks)
Always think about it in the frame of vasopressin bonding. Instead of being this robotic helpmate that can get everything done, she becomes the needy Damsel in Distress. All of a sudden your arms and legs stop working and you need him to fetch you things or to hold the door or carry heavy things... you get it.
A lot of women think of being a man's peace as making his life seamless and easy. Whitman operating on ego and thriving in competitive environments he needs some demands to be met if that makes any sense. This is why even in couples a man might want to make you achieve climax more than he did the other night. Is his own personal competition so when he gets the job done he feels successful. It may rub you the wrong way to seem helpless but it's an easier way to get him feel like he's problem solving with you. Especially if you just don't have the time to bust out a game of Scrabble😅