This Is How You Get A Woman To PURSUE YOU! | Apollonia Ponti
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Learn to let go guys. I know it's hard but it's for the better. They might come back but it's up to you what to do next. ❤️
Update : after 2 months of NC with intent she message me ,ask how am I and she asked me out. The thing is the scenario shift/flip she's the one that's keeps on calling and asking to hang out. Always remember patience is very important. ❤️ When a woman comes back be chill and be cool about it. Never ever be clingy and needy. She should be the one to be excited seeing and talking to you.
Great advice man. We never know what the woman we love is going through but we gotta improve ourselves and not get obsessed. If you think you found the right one that it's on you to decide to keep talking to her. Hope things are going great for you.
I hope you are telling the truth that 2 months thing worked man, I really hope
She's dropping gems yet again. Much appreciated Apollonia, take care, stay blessed.
Thank you!
@@ApolloniaPonti how can I get u to chase me ? 🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍
A satisfied customer. I hope you are enjoying engaging in all this subterfuge. How long did you disappear for?
I could i get a girl to chase me?
So i have literally watched hours of your content... And i was trying to get an ex back... And no contact rules and more just didnt work. Then you opened my eyes to the abundance mindset. And so far its help me get out of my feelings. Thank u
I don't have a ex girlfriend
Good to give them space and see their reaction.
Yes it is good to give them space
Gentlemen please prioritize yourself and have confidence. Apolonia drops fire on this!
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So lame. Get rid of the military crap.
You definitely need to be confidence
No one needs to be chasing anyone. If two ppl are interested in each other they need to put games aside and let each other know that in a way that makes sense so they can get busy enjoying life together. Ppl who wanna be chased are insecure and want extra attention because of some hurt they've experienced. This is a mess. Chasing implies thay someone is running away from you because they dont want you. If someone doesn't want you, clearly this isnt ur person.
Truuu
It takes a really really really strong man to be successful in life. You need faith to believe in yourself regardless of the situation. Apparently women really like confident men.
I'm really going to try these techniques. I recently completely blew it with this woman I am still really into. I now realize that I was rushing and putting unnecessary pressure on her, she is a very busy woman as it is. We did go to an event together & it was so much better than even I expected.
I was texting her too much after that, trying to plan a time to meet up again. At first it was fine, then she really started getting busy with work. At the time my personal work really started picking up, it wasn't until yesterday what she must have been going through. She blocked me on a certain app, but I can still write to her, she said she needed some time to herself. So we haven't talked or had communication for about 3 weeks, it's so tought. This woman is the perfect woman through my eyes, I would really love to have the opportunity to use ssome of these techniques you mentioned. Patience is the key 🔑 , never show desperation. Thank you for this video I've watched a few other videos of yours. I really enjoy the way you talk and the reality of these techniques. Please keep'em coming 🙏
It is very difficult but one is so much aided by being in abundance. Abundance in choices. I do dance, that’s my thing.
Find your thing to lead you to abundance. In abundance you can relax and enjoy getting to know how you match.
I also dance too
If a woman doesn't pursue me or want me I am fine with that and appreciate her honesty !! It just means I focus and concentrate on more important things !!! Getting over disappointment is no big deal !! Just a part of life !!!
Same her bro
The girl always chooses. No amount of ignoring or games will make her chase you. She either wants you or doesn't. Period. Focus on other things in life. If a woman comes along fine. If not that's fine too
Apollonia if I could find a lady who likes me and listen to me all the things I've learned from you I would be so thankful for all of your tips!
Bro so would i
Wow you are so in line with another life coach I follow, coach Corey Wayne.. You teach exactly the same lessons (which is good stuff)
Apollina is far better. Even the best of all. Original and genuine one.
@@ArshadAli-sn2cd agreed
@@ArshadAli-sn2cd corey preached this YEARS ago tho.
So do i
I really wish I had watched this vid and your other vids a month ago. I might not have lost a woman that I was totally falling for. I did exactly what you said in this vid on what NOT to do. I got over emotional and didn't give her any space. I didn't let her pursue me at all... I was over eager and didn't pace myself at all. Now she's seeing someone else. I'll be watching more of your vids for the future.
Bro you should watch more of her videos
That’s unfortunate… I’m kinda in the same boat. All the best time.
Every playa bn thru dz..dust ya self off and kp it movin
I understand…I may have done the same by being far too available..I still have a connection and I may be her man after all but, I’ve learned a lot in the process of my pursuit..Now, there is another woman in the mix…I say raise your value and someone better will appear like magic..
as a woman i agree with this one.i understand her to give men direction of having wll alanced relationships with their lovers.we do need the time to process the emotions so that we make level headed decisions for both parties to come as the best versions of themselves
So do i my friend
Apollonia it s amazing how you have helped over dozens of men attract the woman they want
Apollonia point is amazing
I really like this post 😀. I am currently communicating with a lady who lives a long distance from me, we have really nice conversations and I like her and I get the sense that she likes me, but I see the logic in giving space for both of us to process things. Thank you for this 😊.
Same way here , she's overseas, in my home country , I'll see her in about 2 weeks.
I also like this post to
@@catrashoo safe travels, hop all goes well 👊✈️🙏✌️
I love this video! Very good information. I will say though, that it is very sweet of the guy to acknowledge he had a great time, and not just go silent, after being intimate.
"I had a great time with you!"
Otherwise it can feel disconnected, and empty. Please consider that before creating space. 💜
Oh no that goes against the macho culture we have in society today. Being human is no good. But be a robot without emotions instead! 🙄
I need to be intimate with a girl from my gym
How do we even get to dat intimate point? I kp meeting confused women who won't admit they're confused.
When I back off and give them space, they never chase just ghost me.
same
same with me
Then they never liked you in the first place. Don't water dead plants, move on, let energy flow for a person who actually deserves you!
Don’t worry most of us never get chased. Girls will only chase men that are incredibly hot or extremely handsome. The rest of us are automatic friends zone or nothing
@@highaltitude787 Kind of agree w/ a these comments . It's not as simple as She is stating. Once You give away the option ,its sometimes gone .
Your advice is so good. It’s right on point. I avoided her for a while. Now she is asking for me.
Thank you so much for watching! I'm always happy to give you advice!
Wow I needed to hear words like this from a female perspective thank u so much 👍
So do i bro
This is awesome 👍🏽 Let her process her emotions 🖤 💪🏼
Defiantly bro
Attention Deprivation works perfectly she’s right in every point guys!
Thank you for this video. I wish I would of see this before I got involved into a relationship. I truly could of used this then but never late then now
So do i because her videos do help
Leave a trail of bills as you walk around town.
Your Second video in a row that is right on time!! I actually was going to see her on Monday and apologize and ask for forgiveness for whatever I did wrong ??? And tell her that I respect her decision and feelings that see doesn't contact me!! Oh boy I must be totally clueless !!! 😳 . Maybe, I'll see her again in a couple months???
Thanks for all you do!
I know your tips work but I will never understand no matter how it is explained to me why when to people like each other they have to play all these games
I know it’s the most stupidest anoying thing ever
I felt that way too! But after being married for a while you gotta spark it up by doing something that isn’t predictable and is fun again. By teasing her a little and recreating yourself time and time again, it’s almost like she’s always dating a new and improved man. And this goes both ways too! She also needs to keep pursuing and keeping the spark alive. I hope this helps
That's why it's called "The Game"
Apollonia is giving some Game!!!!!!!!!!!
Very delicately described a subject that was so complex and complicated but when it comes in the hands of Madam Apollina, it becomes so soft and liquid-like; so is the grip of Apollina on his subject-matter. Well done madam!👍
Yes it is very delicately
Appolonia thank you for everything words can't even describe how much I have changed my life
Yes Apollonia point thank you for everything
What women desire?! Why do men have to bend backwards for what women desire?! Men, just be yourselves. YOU are the prize. If she likes you, she likes you, if she doesn’t -she can kick rocks. The audacity of these women. Just love us men for who and what we are, If not -take a hike, but leave us alone.
I sympathize with your mindset but you should always take all the info you can carry. Yes, WE are the prize but there's a game to be played... We all played it at some point, and you want the best hand possible. It doesn't devalue us and in some cases, it's part of the fun 😊
@@goldeneyegaming5439 Yeah you can still be yourself and add your own flair to tips like these, it's just a bit of conscious effort starting off but it'll make things easier
For real they always be like I was waiting for you to do this and that….. hahhahaha keep waiting bish I do me if you don’t like me then Bye Felicia
You definitely should be yourself
@@goldeneyegaming5439 only b***** play games, real women are direct and honest....
She has a real point i did this with a tinder date didn't really show her to much attention i would message her ever now and then but let her do most the work now we have been together for 2 months and she is now also best friends with my female mate so heads up guys don't chase them let them chase you
Small talk let her do her thing and most the talking just ask her simple questions and it will just roll
Okay since i commented this and are currently dating for a while now and quite happy
This is great advice. Thanks so very much.
You are so welcome! Thanks for your comment!
Your pacing your self 👏🏻
Beautiful video! I have a friend I like more than friends ghosted me about a couple of weeks ago and I miss her alot and I believe she has another friend and this hurts! I know I need to move on and keep going!💕🙏😭
thanks for this amazing video! it made me realize that I should not rush things especially I know that she's also kinda into me. I think I should slow down my pace and give her needed space(but also keep the attraction). Again thanks for the video
Timid and Cold? Hell yea that's my default setting! 😆
Your pacing your self, your getting to know her.
That is a good point
You're giving great advice.
Yes she is
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Thanks a lot Apollonia.
I love your energy and your passion.
You are always inspiring me.
I like her energy too
I honestly wish there was a way to have a one on one session in person.. I thought I knew a lot, but clearly I've missed some things.
I also wish there was a way to have a one on one session in person?
Thank you so much. I just started a new connection on line yesterday with a woman. She did get excited when she found out we had a lot in common. I realize it's too soon to know if she really likes me more than a friend. I thought I affended her when I flirted,so when she stopped texting me,a few hours later,I decided to delete all of our conversations,then in the middle of me doing this,she text me & said good night but please text her later. At first I thought it was a good sign,but after thinking about it,I feel like she isn't that interested, because women do that sometimes. I don't want to have a bad attitude because I don't like that when men have a attitude but I just feel like not bothering. I did respond to that text,but if I don't here from her, I'm not going to send her a text in the future. If she likes me,she can text me.
Apollonia , love from Macedonia !
Be the best you can.
We should all learn the push and pull strategies...May be , we could be married to our best life partner ...
Yes we can bro
How do you not have more subscribers this shit is gold!
Just be compose smooth and not needy that all
No matter what you do, it’s just a woman nature. They are very insecure about a lot of things and all those things put them in different modes as they aren’t pleased with their own issues. Once you get her to open up to you the best thing you can do is never give her the impression that you can’t be trusted because after that it’s game on and it will eat away at her as long as you talk to her something will remind her of you breaking her trust and in that moment of breaking her trust you will lose her.
Im definitely trying that
I’m Winning someone’s Heart at the end of the video 😍☺️
So am i bro
There are TOO MANY rule in dating. I haven't pursued a woman since 2016.
I'm not jumping through hoops to get a woman to "like" me.
Same her bro
If a woman really likes you she will do things for you, not other way around
Coach once again great video 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 keep up the great work coach ❤️🙏🏻👏🏻
Yes coach this video is great
I'm in a weird spot. 4 months ago I started talking with my neighbor and she us a cool women. Anyway is hard to not see each other everyday. Initiate conversations just as much as she does with me. It's weird getting to know a woman that's literally a 10 second walk or less we have to see each other everyday and it's a weird dating scenario.
Good job
Exactly correct space very important 👌🏻👌🏻
Balance is the key 🔑 word 👍
Yes balance is the key
You’re amazing
Sorry I couldn't find any Link on How to walk away which is exactly what I am doing starting this Monday and plan on being absent for the next couple months !!
I love this channel, Thank you Apollonia, but what do you do if she has blocked you on all Socials?
Move on and find a different woman to follow on social media
God bless you in the Mighty Name of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Thank you for all your wisdom and insight, Apollonia. I sincerely appreciate it.
Amen, I too feel like the Lord has guided me towards her lessons. She's been a blessing in my life.
@@AnthonyALLopez so do i bro
This is amazing if there was away to call and talk that would be amazing ur a great inspiration 😁😁😁 and I need ur help
You are truly incarnation of Goddess Of Love ❣️😊
Thank you for your support!
@@ApolloniaPonti welcome dear 😊
Yes she is
Omgosh I have a friend that his girl keeps cheating on him and for some reason he keeps coming back to her is because he keeps pursing her because that’s his first girlfriend he was crying last night on the phone when I was speaking to him I told him exactly what you are saying that’s crazy and your notification just popped up right now it was like it was meant to be lol 😂 I will send him this video your awesome thankyou
So my ex broke up with need, started dating. Broke my heart obviously. I agreed to be friends unwillingly but I did agree to be friends. The kind of get my mind off of it I started dating someone that's not serious, she messaged me and I told her about it in a nonchalant way. She got really upset and said that was being a hypocrite for being upset that she started dating someone after she dumped me. Long story short I know it's manipulation, but what's the reason for it why would she want to put herself through the headache? Wouldn't she just want me as a friend? She was very clear about being platonic. After being upset I respected that boundary and decided to not lose at least the friendship. What is all that for what does that mean?
She is not your friend based on this. Dumb her completely from your life.
Happy mother's day🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌹🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌸🌷😘
and strong lengths to see what this woman have to offer you 👍🏽👍🏻
For sure bro 💯
Thanks!
This is why so many women are hyper masculine, and the men that initially like her being in that masculine energy in her pursuit of him end up getting emasculated by these women in so many ways.
Even if she does pursue, innately women dont respect men who dont pursue them as men. This is why these types of relationships dont end up going well for too long. The woman usually ends up full of resentment, and it gets expressed verbally.
The man feels like she thinks he's inferior because deep down she does, because after all you didnt have the balls to go after what u wanted as a man even though u as a man were the one designed to hunt for the most part. Dating coaches shld be mandated to provide scientific research to prove what they're teaching works best for both ppl in the LONG run. Without it its just a bunch of info based on how to toy with ppl who've been broken.
Exactly, that's why many don't last and end up exes. I think the men that follow this think they want to be pursued and then get turned off later on or are actually more in their feminine energy. Or perhaps are very insecure and need constant ego strokes/reassurance etc. Only issue is if you're playing games to get someone to like you how long are you going to play that game for? Once married/living together as well 🤐
if i stand 🧍♂️in the 🚪doorway , how will anyone enter 🤔 says my 👩mother
This girl im talking to, tho i really like her, never really gives me a signal that she likes me to the point where she wants to strike up conversations. Usually just sending me cute memes. She has my art as her profile picture on IG and twitter, even tho there are better artists who she can use their art as their pfp. So I can't quite put my finger on whether she likes me enough or not.
Omg wow had an AMAZING date with my female friend Monday I didn’t hit her up she text me the next day we have talked since but I didn’t bring up how good the date was til today haha I said “ you know I find myself daydreaming about our date night 😍” she actually text me last night and said “ I’m laying here thinking about you “ I know why now after seeing this vid.
Why do you even accept to be with a female "friend" that you're obviously in love with ?
That girl teasing tf outta you and seaking validation from you, you sap sucka
Slow down on the heart eyes, it was just one date. You’re going to scare her off.
Damn my brotha that’s corny
your advise is always golden
Yes her advice is always golden
I literally don't have energy for this anymore
Very nice view's
Greetings from mountains everest Nepal 🇳🇵
Wow you are amazing woman Thank you
Thank you so much for the support!
Since I've been giving my wife space she has starting to chase and show affection and I have been able to work on my self..
What do I do, I think I screwed up and spilled all my emotions after she told me “ i really just don’t have any kind of feelings for you “
As a woman listening to this advise, I think this sounds like playing a game. That to me is an issue…too many men and women are playing games and acting hot and cold. I do agree not to be texting each other nonstop, give each other a bit of space (a bit, get busy with living life)….but communication should flow and neither should feel forgotten or like they don’t matter. In a relationship both need to put their best foot forward and stop with all the damn games on both sides. If a man or woman just wants FWB, then be straight up. If you are dating with intention, say that. Or if you want marriage, say it. The person that desires and wants you…will love you for you. BE YOURSELF!
Hello Apollonia. I asked out my gym receptionist. At first she was ok with it. On the way out i tried to make a date to which she responded she had work, which she did. I then asked her for the following week and she said her schedule changes bla bla.. i texted her something witty, with no response.. so now for the last 2 days i just leave and say have a good night. When i did it tonight she k8nd of looked sad. Am i right for just being cordial but pulling back? It sucks because i have to see her when i go..
Thanks for sharing your wisdom 🙏 🙌 😊 💟💛💛
Defiantly thank you for sharing
Cool, thanks
So in short, it's complicated. (Y) :)
I am broked i really need help.
My fiancee in first was so love giving, caring for me every day every hour and talked hourse but after engagment now she ignoring me, and behave like she doesnt love or care for me i am so worried, she want me to always reach her but she does not want anymore to reach me. I dont know what to do my life us ruined.
Just chill
This valuable videos ate very helpful thank you alot coach
My pleasure!
This only works if the two are already in love I hope I make sense?
Now that I mastered this.....I have a lot of women pursuing this high value man. The world is my nachos because I don't like oysters lol
I’m a new subscriber, and you are my new favorite TH-cam channel. 👏👏 #greatcontent
Thanks Matt. Welcome!
@@ApolloniaPonti yeah ! Apollonia is very Good
Not me bro
Great thanks to "U" Appolonia its magical.You're spreading joy to all of us.
So nice of you
What can I do if I don’t have social media an can’t heart her stuff
PLEASE DO A VIDEO ON "WHY DO WOMEN AVOID ME LIKE THE PLAGUE"😭😭😭
She should definitely make that video lmao 🤣 😂
Been following your channel for a while, thanks for the good work!
Only problem is I gave her space but now I'm no longer interested in the relationship?
Interesting !
so what does it mean when you have been out with a women numerous times but she calls it friends hanging out and not dating.
If the texting balance is 58.975 % vs 41.025% in favor of the guy, is this good or bad ? ... what`s the exact formula ? ... I really want to nail it
Apolllona is fine
My girl at first she was good but right now she is acting strange now she can't test if i don't test and it's getting confusing I've tried to know why but she behaves as if she is not interested anymore,what will I do to set things right
Great vid💯
Thank you.
Nice advice ma'am thank you
Consistently give time to yourself. She needs to know your time is valuable. Otherwise she won’t appreciate.
I know this woman I like who will NOT pursue me. She’s too shy, has two jobs and goes to school so she’s got a full plate. But when I text her, she answers as soon as she’s done with her day. Thing is, all the work she’s doing but with me she won’t need to work if she doesn’t want to.