Couple Struggles With Learning Boundaries As Step-Parents | KARAMO

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  • John and Shay have been married for 6 years, and their blended family is standing in the way of their happily ever after. Shay wants to control the family dynamic while John struggles to keep the everyone together. Can Karamo help these parents create one happy family?
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  • @mactrek2
    @mactrek2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Her saying, "These kids", have me side eyeing her. Children can feel when their presence is resented and frankly we only have her word on this issue. Maybe they treat her like she treats them. Was she a part of the breakdown of his previous family? Second wives can be just as toxic as first wives especially when they are feeling insecure about stepchildren being loved more than they are by the father. She seemed to have painted a pretty picture of herself sacrificing.

    • @user-nq7pf1gx9z
      @user-nq7pf1gx9z 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe the kids made it very clear that she was nothing to them and that they don't care for her. I mean, she can get hurt too, no?

  • @MsLady-gb3gy
    @MsLady-gb3gy ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yall did not know each other well enough for marriage 💜🎀💫

  • @shalondamartin6398
    @shalondamartin6398 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    that lady does not like his children, you heard it in her language. She says her demeanor changes when his children are coming over. If yall are fine when his children aren't around, she definitely makes his children the point of issue.

  • @Rip_Kari
    @Rip_Kari 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My manz said b4 i bought the couch i laid on it to make sure it was comfortable...BARRZZZ

  • @prinMISHces
    @prinMISHces ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The lady gives me off vibes . Calling his kids “these kids”

  • @andreakalaaukahidelacruz5898
    @andreakalaaukahidelacruz5898 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loved this one. You can tell that she is a great parent. And good advice given on stepping up as a father and husband. Wife and husband should be on the same page with everything.

  • @MsLady-gb3gy
    @MsLady-gb3gy ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Respect is earned, they don't know you that well, new wife starting off these Kids red flags. 🎊💜🎊

  • @vanessacort2370
    @vanessacort2370 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just love the way u get to the heart of the matter quickly n give workable solutions..
    N calm everyone down😊

  • @IndigoAjah
    @IndigoAjah ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don’t think the man is the problem.

  • @antoinettedavis2359
    @antoinettedavis2359 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great advice. A topic that a lot of us can benefit from how to work out Blended family struggles.

  • @ArtAbsurdist
    @ArtAbsurdist ปีที่แล้ว +14

    From a woman’s perspective- that man is NOT the only problem. The woman is also a problem as she shouldn’t be so harsh on his kids & she has admitted it herself that before his kids arrive, she has a sense of doom. 🤔 she’s not putting in the energy or work to earn the children’s trust and respect. Just bc the kids said they don’t have to listen to her doesn’t mean it came from the coparent/ex. Trust and believe. Bc I can see from here that man is being manipulated and also controlled by his new wife. Show host- you totally hurt that man on stage. Be fair.

  • @unapologeticallyBlack414
    @unapologeticallyBlack414 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    No one cares. He doesn’t have to apologize. Y’all can’t cancel him. And chef P just got signed to a brand deal. Go away haters

  • @ashadesuza4237
    @ashadesuza4237 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Even before the wife came out I thought he was a lazy father.. wanting peace bcus u only see them on weekends clearly says that u want only the easy part of parenting. That's truly not fair to the kids..to your wife..or to the mother of the kids.

    • @oldheads773
      @oldheads773 ปีที่แล้ว

      You don't know that man situation you definitely HURT

  • @ChickensEntertainment
    @ChickensEntertainment ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "You're not special"

  • @user-nq7pf1gx9z
    @user-nq7pf1gx9z 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What's missing is.... communication in their marriage. Once they get on the same page everything else will fall into place.

  • @neisysimmons4414
    @neisysimmons4414 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Advice!!!

  • @chaneldior9090
    @chaneldior9090 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    If y'all don't like him unsubscribe and stop watching his videos damn every video y'all commenting on this man platform smh

  • @deevillarreal9475
    @deevillarreal9475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dad needs my thinking: no buggin at work. No talky no telly no catchy helly👍✌️👉😂 Helicopter Mom & Marine Dad enjoyed this show

  • @Benita.W
    @Benita.W ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this couple! All the best to them ❤

  • @unapologeticallyBlack414
    @unapologeticallyBlack414 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Please never apologize to Allie. Please do not let all these irrelevant people in the comments pressure you

  • @mauricesnell5886
    @mauricesnell5886 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Raising a blended family as a couple can be difficult. You have to have the patience and should be understanding toward your mate's children to have a good relationship toward them.

  • @Girrinvader
    @Girrinvader ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Watch out he might make you reflect on your actions for taking food to a laboratory 👀

    • @nunyabiz12345
      @nunyabiz12345 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🗣👎🏾🍅🍅

    • @lawdadz4332
      @lawdadz4332 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% he’d rather you poison yourself and praise the person who did the poisoning because his skin matches hers.

  • @FavianShields
    @FavianShields ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please apologize to that poor lady

  • @kcbluebutterfly2182
    @kcbluebutterfly2182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being a step parent is hard.

  • @blessedgirl1428
    @blessedgirl1428 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes yes 👏👏👏👏👏Karamo you are the best💕💕💕💖

  • @beverleyreid563
    @beverleyreid563 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Some really serious issues. None of it is easy. All the best to the entire family.

  • @MissMurfreesboro
    @MissMurfreesboro ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yessss keep up the good work

  • @anarsuazo
    @anarsuazo ปีที่แล้ว

    Man sir and respect your home that you share with your family, so we your other children come in visit they too can respect you and your family.

  • @Becca_Lynn
    @Becca_Lynn ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Stop deleting comments and apologize to Allie

    • @yaisa111
      @yaisa111 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      why are you trying to control a fully grown man whom has HIS own platform if you have issues with past episodes ~ dont watch ☑️its simple.

    • @deeteee1902
      @deeteee1902 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@yaisa111 nobody trying to control him. Its called public pressure. This ain’t a new phenomenon. He is a fully grown man who can’t admit he fucked up yet you still think he is a good person? 😂

    • @nataliewilliams1932
      @nataliewilliams1932 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@deeteee1902 a mistake doesn’t mean he’s a bad person! Chill 😒

    • @Becca_Lynn
      @Becca_Lynn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yaisa111 Bc gaslighting and bullying guests, especially on such a public platform, is unacceptable. Weird that you would support that kind of manipulative and destructive behavior.

    • @Becca_Lynn
      @Becca_Lynn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nunyabiz12345 tomato tomato yourself girl

  • @eddymonies8302
    @eddymonies8302 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    APOLOGIZE TO THE TIKTOK LADY ABOUT HOW HORRIBLE YOU AND CHEF PUKE TREATED HER!

  • @jaebae7071
    @jaebae7071 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor man scared to de*th about it. I still don't feel like he will address it. It will take alot of encouragement from wife to re-feed him this info from Karamo Show. ... Before she realizes, he CAN'T speak up. The guilt is too much. I pray he sticks with it and mustards the courage.

  • @mhizzcatia9511
    @mhizzcatia9511 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Tne wife is controlling.... thts all it is

  • @kayklicousgang1822
    @kayklicousgang1822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get this nobody ever understands the step mom paint of view

    • @kayklicousgang1822
      @kayklicousgang1822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      point

    • @BKM-333
      @BKM-333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cause the step mom is irrelevant. Shes a random addition no one else in the fam signed up for! The kids & the baby mama did not ask to deal with some stranger coming in & changing up everything

    • @kayklicousgang1822
      @kayklicousgang1822 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BKM-333 so just because the father didn’t work out with the baby mother means that he has to be alone for the rest of his life

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That's not their mom sorry and talk to ex she not going to stop

  • @villainsbridgeclub5268
    @villainsbridgeclub5268 ปีที่แล้ว

    Salsa rosada

  • @blackqueen5804
    @blackqueen5804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What lady are some people talking about???

  • @jorgealejandro672
    @jorgealejandro672 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Karamo is on it 9 out of 10 times, this is a 10th one. It’s not the dads fault. The moms an overly controlling psycho and he feels like no matter what he can’t win

  • @rainonyourparade2730
    @rainonyourparade2730 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    is this the first white man on the show?

  • @BKM-333
    @BKM-333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    STEP PARENTS NEED TO STAY IN THEIR LANES!! PERIOD! DONT LIKE IT THEN DONT BE WITH A FATHER!!

    • @kcbluebutterfly2182
      @kcbluebutterfly2182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what exactly is their lane? Kids can destroy the house and step mom just smiles and cleans all day? Kids can eat every thing in the house, step mom smiles while she goes to the store daily? Step kids can call step mom names and lie and is supposed to stand there with a smile on her face. Or hide in the room came out only to cook and clean. I really want to know what you think is their lane.

  • @tultiden2040
    @tultiden2040 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Did you apologize to Allured Beauty yet

    • @Girrinvader
      @Girrinvader ปีที่แล้ว +9

      FOR REAAAL

    • @b.u.dmusic9424
      @b.u.dmusic9424 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you get a life yet?

    • @yaisa111
      @yaisa111 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      why are you trying to control another man and his platform if you have issues dont watch

    • @adcoleman3624
      @adcoleman3624 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@yaisa111 because he railroad that girl and didn't tell the full story

    • @chibip4635
      @chibip4635 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No and we don’t care

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His wife no right tell his kids what to do they have a biological mother

    • @jewels514514
      @jewels514514 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She has all right when they are in her house and they have considered themselves as a blended family.

    • @BKM-333
      @BKM-333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jewels514514 no! the kids didnt ask for her to be there, she needs to know her place, shes not their parent, its not just “her household” its the dads too, & if she cant allow the father to spend his time with his kids the way he wants to, then she needs to excuse herself from the household!

    • @kcbluebutterfly2182
      @kcbluebutterfly2182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      what do you suggest when the kids come over to her home, let them run wild doing what they want, or call mom every time they want something? I'm a step mom, do I back off and let them run my home?

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They need divorce and move on

  • @lawdadz4332
    @lawdadz4332 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Apologize to Allie or get this backlash forever clown

  • @3090cael
    @3090cael ปีที่แล้ว

    APOLOGIZE TO THE TIKTOK LADY ABOUT HOW HORRIBLE YOU AND CHEF PUKE TREATED HER!