I’m A Virgin Looking For A Husband | KARAMO
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- Rebekka is a 34-year-old virgin in the middle of a toxic relationship with her boyfriend, Jake. While she’s saving herself for marriage, Jake feels that he’s devalued in the relationship. Rebekka also feels insecure and her self-esteem issues are only causing a hardship between them. Can Karamo help this couple save their relationship?
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When you have abandonment issues it's so hard to let go of people. Even when you know they're toxic for you :(
True
Absolutely
So True..
😢 this 🙏🏽❤️
That part 😢😢😢😢
I'm 33 and still a virgin as well. At first I was ashamed but now, I am proud! There is no time limit on losing your virginity 💯🙏🙏
Serious
@@MariesWay2 lol
What u waiting on girl ?
@@akeemwalters821 Nothing lol
@@shaedavis53 lets get married I want virgin 😍
She doesn't need a man, she needs a therapist, and Karamo was spot on, with the advise he gave him and her.
In reply to that, I have seen a therapist for 3 years. It's okay to have emotions. No one is perfect, and part of dating is also healing from wounds and not show up in a relationship perfect, since no one is.
@@RebekkaLienyou are beautiful Rebekka
@@RebekkaLien rebeka ur beautiful and u deserve all the happiness in the world 💕💕💕
This is fake lol these are both actors
I'm 31 and virgin also... praying for my marriage now by God's grace.
:) YES! Rebekka here, I'll be praying for you!
@@RebekkaLien thanks girl God bless you.... I'm from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 n u
Amen
GOD is Faithful. You deserve the best please wait on GOD
HE WON'T FAIL YOU
And keep that virginity
Fornication is still a sin though the whole world is doing it
God’s Grace is so real, I stretch my marriage blessing to you, may you find your other half and get married this year 😊 and please invite me to the wedding
I'm almost 24 and this one made me proud to be a virgin too.
Ain't no shame in yo' game I jus turn'd 26 n I'm still a virgin az well
I was in a toxic relationship last year. Like her I’m also a virgin and I’m 29 years old. He got mad at me for talking to a guy because he thought I was flirting and when somebody in my life died, he refused to answer my calls because he thought I was lying. When I would make suggestions he thought I was telling him what to do until finally I decided I didn’t want it anymore. It took me a minute but I decided to love myself and know myself better. Then God sent me an amazing man who loves me for me.
Ok, sorry about what happened to you and your story but it also sounds like there was a communication problem one way or another. So you may wanna consider that in your current relationship. Hope you are happy!
@@dossube just to clarify I did do my best to communicate with my ex but he wouldn’t listen to me and when I tried to hear his point of view he didn’t communicate his expectations. I told him from the beginning the person I was and in the end he didn’t except it. I am much happier now with my current man
@@shelbimdennis I wish to find someone like you someday...👏👏👏☝️
God is so good ! He always answers
Praise God 🎉
this made my entire year. this women is so beautiful and strong and the heart she has is rare. ♥️ loved this episode!!!!
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Crazy how people think marriage means forever ,any contract and any promise can be broken
Exactly.
I agree at the same time my definition of marriage is locked in but now these days it’s something
Until death do you path
True ...only thing is fornication
It shouldn’t be. Marriage is deeper than a contract. If you don’t feel that way don’t get married yet.
I think the fear of losing him is why she is holding. And I believe it has to do with her dad abandoning her. She has to deal with and heal from that first before entering into another relationship
Oh my, the part where he told her to give herself affirmations and talk to her father brought me to tears…
You and I both. I had to pause it and get myself together.
Awww ❤❤❤❤ thank you
All I can say run baby run.
Thank you for having me on the show. God bless you!
You are awesome! God will and you the one perfect for you! Leave the jerk behind! Keep your virginity, it’s sacred!
Please dear I like you, can we be friend?
I'm a proud 35 year old virgin waiting until marriage also due to Christianity. I pray you stick with it because the world will definity try to make you feel there's no reason to wait but there no reason to rush I require a commitment before just giving it up.
@@yirlanieaguirre2638 sure please add me!
@@wonderwoman6146 thank you!!!!
That's awesome she is. It shows that she was smart and mature during her teenage years and and 20s to know that it is never OK to rush losing your virginity to just anybody. That's what a lot of DPOS's fail to understand.
Sadly, many woman weren't able to keep their virginity, because a relative assaulting them, or like with me, a man who I thought was friendly and gave me a ride home, but decided to take my innocence instead
Exactly I had the same boundaries and I was raped. Men have this weird desire to want to be first and I kept myself a virgin only to be raped at 27! By a man that was married it is so disgusting that stupid need. Bc of that I no longer subscribe to the purity myth.
Virginity is a social construct you incel, and what a woman does is not for your to approve or disapprove of.
Thank you both for sharing that with me. Yeah, none of you deserved that kind of harsh stuff. I am 27 and I am still saving myself for marriage. And ever since *last year,* I refuse to let ANYBODY pressure me about it.
Rebecca you deserve the best that life have to offer. Love ❤ your self first you gorgeous 😍, put your trust in GOD and believe 🙏. Big up your self Rebecca one love from Christine in Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤ ♥ 💖.
A lot of y’all missed the lesson both of them were toxic to one another but for two separate child hood issues both was a crutch for one another. Now what I took from this was Thank you K for being such a beautiful human being. I watched this episode and did the same mirror lessoned and learned why isn’t wasnt just the abandonment from my father was also what my mother did to. She never hugged me from the time I could remember never told me anything positive to me to up lift me and now I have to look in the mirror and see what everyone has always told me but never really truly felt. So thank you K for doing that for me today
You are receiving a hug from me sis
It’s rebekka here, hugs to you and know that you are loved ❤❤❤
Rebekka needs to be strong and independent to love herself. She doesn't need a man to be happy right now, she needs to start healing for herself and recognize who she is to be the best human being she is. I wish her well.
But she is 34yrs
@@mourice1669 what does that mean
@@bollagurl it can be hard to be that age an not having been married especially for a woman.
@@mourice1669 I agree. I think it depends on the mind frame of the women and why she’s single as well. It sounds like she has some self esteem issues. I hope she gets through it.
This is good advice. When he came out and said he wants to live in his car, that screams I'm not stable. She needs someone that will reassure her and love her whole heartedly and romantic and a man that has no issues showing her.
People send their representatives and then they show up. This man is not hiding who he is. If I was Rebekka ... I'd end this relationship.
Karamo is amazing for giving her a mirror session. Good luck to Rebekka for her journey on self love and finding a worthy, healthy romantic partner ❤
People who don’t love themselves will eventually start projecting their self-hate onto you. Beware of them!!!
She needs to heal from her issues so she won’t accept what anyone does. She needs to run as fast as she can from him
I have a 42 year old virgin friend. I applaud her for waiting for marriage to get physically intimate.
Interesting I want to talk to her please!
Thank you dear I appreciate the kind words
@@memorychiza2637 I’m right here
I have 42 and 43 years old friends who are still waiting of God.
@@memorychiza2637 Im one of them
I'm still healing from a Toxic Relationship. I was the same, hurting and crying for 2 years. He was a narcissist. I used to have so much confidence, I was a model, I was beautiful and had my self esteem. He took away everything, made fun of me, hit me, the abuse was more emotional and psychological, then got physical. He treated me like I was a nobody. He cheated and disrespected me and i was so inlove i just kept calling and loving him. Now I'm broke, lost everythin and everyone close to me. He introduced me to hard drugs, its like I was'nt kool enough cause I did'nt vibe like that. So I had to get on his level. I did everything to be happy with him and it cost me everything. Been almost a year, I'm still trying to heal, I got out of my house to go in the sun maybe just 3x this year. But I'm trying to love myself. I have so much childhood trauma that I'm healing from. But atleast I'm trying. So I understand now why. Thanks Kamaro for the lesson 🤗
Please watch Greta beresaite 💕💕
You are still breathing..Thanks to God you can retrieve your self back.
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m praying for you. ❤❤❤❤
You can do this babe!! You are still beautiful, screw him. Don't let anyone take away your crown.
alot of man would love love a woman with self respect like hers she will find the one sooner or later
I appreciate that ❤thank you!
I don’t know how long he’s had this talk show but I ran across one video and been hooked ever sense he really do give good advices
I pray God gives her grace power and strength to leave that abusive relationship. She needs to run.
Poor Bekka 😢 You are loved homegirl!!
Thanks ❤
Wow, this woman is so transparent. I don't have self-esteem issues but she definitely taught me something. I literally have big sister sentiments towards her and I don't even know her.
Thanks! I would love to connect ❤
@@RebekkaLien you seem like a beautiful and wonderful woman. The most luck and love to you❤️😘 no more losers
@@RebekkaLien I'm a 20 year old virgin and I get discouraged. But thank you❤️
I have a couple of friends that are grown and still virgins..
They made a pledge to God to keep their body till their wedding night..
We live in a world where Serving God with our body isn't a norm so you hear folks say they are ashamed for being a virgin..
Keep your body please 🙏❤️
She has to leave him and he has to leave her. I love how vulnerable and open she is. That in itself shows she’s ready and has the strength in her. She needs to mi e on cuhz he said “ that’s cool and nobody else has…. Like her” he gone hold on to her til he is washed up
Karamo, you are a great man doing great work in people's lives. God bless you. Patricia from Nigeria
Nothing that she does should push you over the edge. Walk away. Leave. If you can’t get along don’t be a relationship. You don’t have to be abusive just be friends.
I love Karamos therapeutic, calm, interpersonal skills. I agree that both these folks have some issues they need to work on, before being in a serious relationship.
Omgggggg this was my episode, everything she is literally me ! My dad abandoned me and I yearned for that love from a toxic person , no more !!!!!
Love you! It’s rebekka here!
I feel you I'm the same but 2021 I set ppl straight an now I'm loving me
Run right now he’s no good for you
Nothing someone says should push you over the edge like that.
She really should think about therapy, i remember having the same mentality and behaviors. Therapy definitely helped. I’ve been constantly working on myself for the past 5.5 years 🙌🏾
Karamazov be breaking couples up left and right....lol.
😂😂😂
breaking toxic relationship
Let him go. He is supposed to be mature enough to be on his own. He is not the right person for you. He cannot tell you what he doesn’t really feel. LOVE YOUR SELF.
This a story that fixes me I cry like a baby watching this one because this is me .
Awww I’m glad
From all your episodes this is probably my favorite
Thank you, that means a lot to me!!
Girl I'm a 40 yr old n never had sex. I date one guy n that was hit. Im scared to date any guy cause idk how they are.
When she said she slept in the car with him and then he said even though you had an apartment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love the mirror session. Going to do that with my children.
I agree they don’t have to be in relationship together they have to let it go each other. Other thing I believe she doesn’t need her father anymore bc she’s grown up lady she forgot all things from the past she should be forward
Whew!!!! Karamo this hit home with me. With your support Rebecca is going to be a Strong Powerful woman. I did the same thing and got the toxic people out of my life. And the mirror was Brilliant. Rebecca you got this girl!!!💪🏾🧡
Thank you Barbara!!
@@RebekkaLien You’re Welcome💛
So many women feel like they need a man when they really need therapy. Thinking men will solve your Daddy issues just creates more
As a fatherless daughter, I wholeheartedly agree with her final message
Sad become he was using her for comfort and she was looking up to him because of her not having a father figure 😪 She is a strong dignity women and she needs to explore more
thank you
Key word: abandonment
She's looking for it in the wrong place.
I love that mirror technique. This is what she needs to do daily. Build your self confidence in yourself.
So she’s looking for a man to fill the void her dad left. That’s a red flag on her part! Very unhealthy.
Rebecca it sounds cliche but it starts with you loving you! Once you know how awesome and blessed you are…nobody can tell you different. Anyone who tries to can kick rocks because you know your worth. Girl, you are adorable and don’t need anyone who makes you feel less than. I definitely could relate with your entire situation. A little therapy and learning how to love you will put you on the path to happiness, not a man who makes you feel less than.
Baby so am I… n I don’t care what ppl say. I love it and I’m not going to feel bad about it. If sex is such a big thing leave
I really learned a lot from this episode. Rebekka, you are absolutely stunning and you deserve so much love. Keep shining 💖
Rebecca you are beautiful 😍 and smart. My husband of 19 tears treats me like the beautiful queen that I am. Happy wife, happy life and he is everything I could want in a man...plus he fine and so am I. Blessings for this station. Love it.
Are you low key bragging or you are trying to encourage Rebecca just asking..
Thank you. It’s rebekka here, thank you for the compliments dear ❤
She got herself a bum. She should definitely find a new guy who is ambitious and who she is compatible with.
He’s in his 30s and chooses to live in his car ?
Boy bye !
I object!!! Living in your car does NOT mean you are unstable. For many (like myself), it is a choice. Many people are doing the RV life now, vanlife, and some even choose to live in their car. I just purchased a van that was built out with a sofa that reclines into a regular size bed, as well as a kitchenette. The freedom from the rat race of 9a-5p with maybe a 1-2 week vacation along with the high rent/mortgage for many, feels like bondage. I will head out 1-1-23 traveling and touring the country side as a digital nomad spending my time and money whenever and wherever I choose. Now that sounds like freedom to me - not instability.
Good for you. Yes that’s why I became okay with it. He has more freedom financially..
I agree :)
Dang that ending had me crying
Girl, love yourself! Don't have sex, stay happy 😁
#virginity👍🏽
#celibacy👍🏽
❤❤❤❤ thank you
I like her she’s worth so much more and Rebecca you are indeed beautiful.
Aww you’re so sweet. Thanks so much! ❤
This is one of the most beautiful and honest show I ever comes across Mr y up u are one of the best short and sweet 🌟💯❤️
Sis same I just turnt 34😂
This episode hit home about the dad absence, look how she blooms!
She's going to go crazy once she opens that cookie jar and realizes how good hotdogs are.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 thank you. It’s rebekka
Am happy for her that she held onto her virginity but ladies stop thinking that everyone is going get married and most don’t even stay married, y’all be making it seem like marriage keep people just like a baby don’t people only stay because they want to.
Great moves, Ethan, keep it up!
Okay, this is my fav episode yet! Great mirror exercise..I will be trying it!
Try adding sticky notes with affirmations on your mirror as well🙌🥰
She needs to run. You are WORTHY!!! You deserve so much better!!! People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. She needs to not be a doormat. She is a catch!!! She is beautiful!!! She is intelligent!!! Please don't allow this man to treat you this way. Expect much better!!! I'd rather be alone than accept treatment like he dishes out. He is an abuser! You can do bad all by yourself!!! I am so proud of Rebecca when she looked in the mirror with positive affirmations!!! Way to go!!! Reach for the stars. There are lots of fish in the sea!!!
Thanks my dear karamo, you are amazing and just watching your videos makes me realize how beautiful kind and amazing person I am. Happy new year and may God continue to bless you with more knowledge good health and long life, I'm from Liberia and a nurse assistance and I lost my husband and after two years I started a relationship with a man that really ruined my life and I walked away but got depressed. thanks to God that am healing gradually by watching videos like yours and other inspiration videos. I watched the video that you talked to Rebekka the Virgin how to love herself and that video really touched me, thanks for the hard work and dedication to this channel and I really appreciate you.
The end was beautiful ❤
The advice he gave is Top Class. Kuramo is an incredible human being and it's quite incredible how he has and is living he's purpose and just totally changed people's life for the better. ❤️👍🏽
Find you a good man that will respect you,take your time,love is worth waiting for
I think because he doesn't hav a home it annoyed him at times that is why he prefer her to stay away..
Ethan, if Hila found out what your doing... I don't even what to imagine
I love you Karamo..all the way from Gambia west Africa, the smiling coast 🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲😘😘😘 you best Karamo best❣️❣️❣️
I broke my virginity at 30 years of age with a stubborn guy..ten years down the lane we are stuck together.. he says his heart has failed to let me go..and I feel good when ever iam with him.he has nurtured me into growth.I tried to date another man after him but the relationship failed because I always yarned for my mentor .he reminds me that he found me innocent. it is a good feeling to stay around him..and all that she is going through is topical of women who keep their virginity for long..we want to be glorified and always fall for stubborn or bad boys..
Girl you need your dad.
He gave her great advice Shes just like me i pray that don't meet a man like that
she loves him more than herself
If it makes rebekka feel better, im a 23 year old virgin, living with my mother and been in ZERO relationships. Years ago up until now, girls ignore me everyday for these womanizers out here based on their looks and money, not knowing they treat them like shit. This is why i always feel worthless and empty inside, though it pisses me off everyday. At the time, i tried to earn girls respect by proving them wrong that good men does exist, but again they never notice me. Every good deed ive done is never good enough to the point that i question my morality. Thats why i gave up months ago because im not desperate like these other guys out here, also i have nothing more to prove than i already have.
🤦🏾🤨
Stay positive and kind. Work on yourself, fitness, finances, quality time with family and friends, your mental health, and securing your future. You don't need many women, just the right ONE. You'll find her at the right moment and she will appreciate everything that makes you a good person.
You're young with your whole life ahead of you! Get your education and good career, save money while you're living at home. You will meet the woman that's right for you and loves you for exactly who you are. Don't let social media fool you, the Instagram chicks you think are dream girls are broke and broken
23 is really young. Self love 💕
I'm sorry they didn't notice you. You are worthy of love. Honestly, I am waiting until marriage and I'm happy that I'm waiting until marriage. :) It's not a shameful thing to wait until marriage or even be a virgin.
I will never come to this man for advice, this is the second time I see him telling a couple to separate from EACH OTHER
I have watched his show several times
They do need to separate
We actually decided to stay together and heal. I didn’t necessarily agree with his advice because sometimes people need to heal from their traumas together. It’s rebekka here.
It's hard dealing with abandonment issues. I am on her side only because she acknowledged she has anxious attachment and is open to help
❤ thank you
😢😢😢super relatable with abandonment issues
Tell her I am waiting for her in Africa Namibia 🇳🇦🤞
😂😂 lol thank you. 🎉🎉
This woman is so kind hearted, and childlike in her naivety. Many of us are until we are traumatized and mistreated repeatedly by the people who are supposed to protect us, teach us, guide, and love us. So, many men say they want a beautiful woman with a sweet disposition. Look at the damage her father’s absence did to her. Look at the confusion and anxiety she experienced trying to connect with a male companion. These men say choose better. However, her father left her with a desperation for male validation and a lack of guidance on how to choose. This woman is a good representation of what’s going on inside of all the abandoned women around us. Stop abandoning your daughters and stop preying on young girls and women.
Thank you so much. It’s rebekka here. Your comment is such an encouragement to me. You are so sweet. God bless you!
I love her confidence bro
He's telling you, how he feels and you're in denial
Dating is to figure out if the qualities of your current partner are things you are willing to put up with long-term.
She is looking for marriage and if his behavior is any indication of what the rest of her life will be with him then she should run. Sometimes we hold on to people because we believe we can’t do better, fear of being alone or just out of comfort.
I truly hope she works on herself and finds someone who truly values her. But more than anything I hope she finds sincere value and strength within so she refuses to put up with any type of disrespect from a partner. Chasing someone to love you should never be an option.
Wonderful
Wow last part hit home for me
For me I don't think,s this
Relationship is going to work .. and I see big troubles between the too of them ..its not too many people no about love anymore 💔.
You are the best Karamo, wish I knew you long time ago...love your statement, your Name is Rebekka and no one has to remind u who are... And no one has the power to manipulate....you.
Im 28 and a virgin. To me, the idea of both of us learn and grow together, none of us having an advantage over each other is just so overwhelmingly sexy. So yes, i am looking for a virgin woman. It isnt even about religion, its about biological design.
this show is lit
Oh my God she’s amazing woman
She’s my wish
thank you :)
The only person I know is a virgin is a 22 year old MAN. He’s dark and handsome to.
Run, girl R.U.N.!!!!! DO NOT ignore the red flags. He is NOT a keeper.
It's all about Self Love here? You definitely need to love yourself for who you are before anyone can love you?
You are a very beautiful young lady who is having certain issues
If you get the help that you need you wouldn't be having such a Low self image. Believe in yourself and dreams will follow 🙏
Waoo your doing a good job I have stayed for a toxic marriage for 20 years waiting for my son's to be big we separated 4 time I was called names but in me I was telling JESUS I know you're calling me good names and that enough for me but like 2 years now I Invited I myself in my own meeting and I said enough is enough am not carrying anything except my clothes and all we have I believe it's for my children and I walked out now am Free and happy knowing it's not for life sentence to stay single,we meet with my son's time to time and as tomorrow am going to visit them at their school and for him I as God to bless him and his wife and she is pregnant and am praying for her to get a daughter,if you love your self everything will be good on earth as we are journeying to Heaven.
She has separation issues and he has anger and communication issues. They both need therapy.