This is the BEST men's advice channel I've ever come across. I love the wisdom spoken through these men. My son is 15. Teens want advice from people other than their parents oftentimes. As he gets older, my husband and I are thankful to send videos to him from a channel we trust.
If your son follows this channel and the men and women who come on here to talk about self-improvement and dating, in a short 5 years, your son will hold more value and be more successful than his friends who can order a drink. P.s. Hope that makes sense, it sounded cool in my head, haha. Still mean it though!
Also understand this fellas. Women will never appreciate the process of your self improvement. So even after your success. Once you embark on your new journey to achieve something fresh and new it won’t be appealing to them. So find someone that appreciates your process as well as your success
@@TA-ht4jo find someone like minded in the same stage of life as you. Attract her naturally (physical attraction or personality attraction) then lead by being goal oriented. She won’t like your busy goal oriented lifestyle but she’ll like the achievements. This is coming from my own personal experience as a man in the dating world.
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
While this is true, if that’s the only reason she’s into me what makes her different from other women? There has to be something about you that wants to make her stay for you. Self improvement is for yourself and yourself alone, but you’re not the only one self improvement. If someone else was jus like you and she had to choose who should she choose and WHY?
For me, to obtain the Dragon energy it took me slaying my first REAL Dragon which was my addiction to pornography. This Dragon had kept me a prisoner for 15 years and when I finally said enough, it took everything ounce of mental willpower I had, but once I slayed it, it was like I absorbed it’s Energy. Now I Am the Dragon, and I will slay many more in My Lifetime. Let’s get to work Gentlemen 🔥.
I am on my journey brother of slaying the same dragon. Any tips on how to overcome the struggle? The way that I’m going about it is just constantly being on my purpose so that the thoughts of relapsing don’t slip in.
Every single one of them hit a critical point of discussion that I’ve been talking about with my circle for the past few weeks. Literally every person said something that we’ve been learning and building on recently. Great content
Maybe it’s just me, but once you start talking about having that entitlement and saying to yourself “how dare she not want me?!?” he’s definitely on the wrong side of that thin line between arrogance and masculine confidence. To be fair to him tho he may have meant it in a context that I didn’t quite catch but I’m almost certain that’s not the case. Whether you’re successful or not, entitlement does nobody any good. With that said, I definitely agree with his beginning point about dating advice for men being essentially self improvement advice. Men’s focus need to be centered on themselves, specifically on their mental/emotional health and their purpose and not on women.
I think we as men over value women we put them on a pedestal with their looks.. ofcourse there’s nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful woman. But becareful what you ask for a lot of those women are high maintenance not submissive type. Do your purpose and pick the right woman not the finest woman
@@Angel-ou1fr there is nothing wrong with wanting anything we’re all entitled to want what we want but is it realistic? There was a time I wanted to get with a model type chasing beautiful women but then I realized and saw this pretty shy girl in the corner that I married she held me down. Understanding that beauty and money are superficial those things fade or can fade. And then what foundation do you have been married for awhile that beauty is cool. But her breathe still stinks in the morning she still and emotional woman behind that beauty. A mans money comes with his insecurities and sometimes control these things exist behind those layers we say we want
@@derrickmason7457 beautifully said!! Appearances aren't what they seem and all that glitters isn't gold. Too many people are focused on superficial things only money, status, appearance, and sexual attraction instead of character. You could go after those types and get a terrible partner who only looks good on the surface but isn't there for you through the hard times. Good for you and your wife!!
Make your purpose and your mission your no.1 priority. A woman has to know and feel that you’ll be fine and can thrive with or without her. You’re the captain of your own ship with her simply a passenger.
It’s always funny to me that men get upset that we prefer successful men, so are you suggesting we should strive to be attracted to losers? Here is the thing, people are attracted to abundant energy both women and men. We are wired as humans to want to procreate with people that look good, feel good, and want more out of life like it’s common sense.
Men dont Usually get upset for this Its more when you only for a man for there money and will switch up quick if a wealthier dude comes along It would the equivalent of leaving a woman because a prettier one comes along that's fucked up to do and I'm pretty sure women wouldn't like if every men did that
@@XIX965 I see what you are saying but men are getting upset for women leaving men that are not their husbands. Yes when you are married you are required loyalty if “better or worse” “richness and poor” but in dating both parties have the right to move on with someone they feel is a better option/match for them. That is the point of dating to obtain “data”.
@@jazzyone1986 yes but even in marriages women act like that, men as well but they got financially punished for women don't even get a slap on the wrist. That right there is what upsets men. The so called equality women fight fir is non existent.
Goes for both men and women. In general, I find that most dating advice is hollow and shallow. It wasn't until I got to a place of real peace and confidence that I understood that real confidence is needing nothing, seeing the true meaning of life, and loving yourself. After that, choices are easy.
I can definitely relate to this in so many ways. Thank you for this and keep it coming. May God continue to use you guys and allow you all to reach and touch others.
Chris is really the star of the show, dude got too much energy, he got that kind of fool vibe, but you know he can be serious as hell too, it's exactly how I am, I can be a walking circus entertainment-wise but when I sit to speak about serious topics, I turn the "preacher" mode on, and it's over !
women also like humility and kindness. I wouldn't go for Hafeez cause the red flags are the way he's spoken to other women... I don't care how successful you are if you're not kind and humble.
This is why I coach men to invest in themselves first, and not worry about women, they not going anywhere and if they don't want you today, they will come back tomorrow when you level up. Having a purpose enables you to be confident to know that you know who you are and what you represent. A captain needs a crew, a commander needs an army. But you need to work on your leadership skills to have people follow you. Women will always respect and follow a man who is not only successful but knows where he is going in life.
Great discussion. Invite the women into your sphere to experience time spent with you. Demonstrate your authentic value and let them feel it when they're around you.
The answer is fun.The man who having fun has the advantage over any man. When your having fun is when your the happiest.Your mind is clear. Failure isn’t that serious. There no fear. Look for that person in the room.
Pertaining to men and dating, women camp out at the finish line and wait for the man who wins the race then tries to get with that man. Its simply how they're wired. They desire success objects while we typically desire a sex object, ie a female with beauty, youth over anything. Fellas just focus on yourselves and finding joy in life, but when it comes to successful dating success is key in attracting women.
I am proud of these young brothers. They actually look like men. 3 of them have adult Hair cuts🙄 at least........suits. very good to see. They look like men who would actually want to lead a family and provide for kids. Image is very important.
just curious, is there any instance where you attain this growth and are in the circles or levels such as these men but your social/sexual/relationship attraction doesn't go up?
Of course, but just like everything else in life you have to work at being great in those areas. Some people naturally thrive there and for others its practiced and learned.
Absolutely, We will if that’s more of the lifestyle... we’ve living. Maybe some us naturally want a better quality man. Because he has more exposure in the 🌎 Where Black men haven’t held (women) to the same standards. It’s hasn’t hampered woman’s ability to attract a “high value”man. Whether she holds a PhD or GED. ❤️☮️❤️☮️
what does money have to do with me dating you and being a good bf!???? as long as i can take care of myself and treat you once in a while then whats the problem?? these guys need to get off their high horse
To be 100 with you guys, I don't think you can teach 99.999% of men these things. I think only a small percentage of men will actually take in the info and apply it. A large percentage are just born with the drive while the rest is not cut out for it. Nature has a huge part in this and I believe it's too late for much of the nurture element many of the platforms are trying to teach. I also believe for men it's all about the experience, guys are just going to have to get burned to learn their lesson.
This girl I already hooked up with unfriended me on Snapchat because I stopped giving her attention after she curved me. She unfriended immediately after her thirst trap expired, probably because I didn’t watch it. Wtf is she doing? Will she be back?
Bro, whether they come back or not is not something you have control over. I’m speaking on experience! It’ll be frustrating in the beginning but as cliche as it sounds, just focus on yourself. Rediscover yourself and keep busy. You’ll find happiness within that! 💪🏼
@@TheRoommatesPodcast When I heard you say that, I had to stop what I was doing and let that resignate. I have to use it that one myself. You guys are killing it 👍🏿👍🏿
Lol pretty much idc how good of a human being you are Rihanna ain't talking to you if you broke and ugly 🤣🤣🤣 as nas said get money &success you will never have to chase women
Again fellas you Must Hav Swagger, Sauce(.WW.) RIP MacDre it does Help bruh Relaxxx Stop hatin On women? ah i Go off Title's? i Got dat California Bear Energy im a Living Testimony as Well🙏👑🌴
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Wtf are you wearing?
Youre biggest challenge is your wardrobe. Hire a stylist
Young black men dressed like professionals and having intelligent discussions is really refreshing.
Agreed
Let your actions speak louder than your words! Don’t worry about trying to impress. Commit yourself to your purpose and goals; the women will follow!
Couldn't of said it even better 💯
@black wolf101 same take action speaks louder than words
Love this
Hell a good woman may never come, then what men,?
This is the BEST men's advice channel I've ever come across. I love the wisdom spoken through these men. My son is 15. Teens want advice from people other than their parents oftentimes. As he gets older, my husband and I are thankful to send videos to him from a channel we trust.
Thank you! We’re glad we can help
If your son follows this channel and the men and women who come on here to talk about self-improvement and dating, in a short 5 years, your son will hold more value and be more successful than his friends who can order a drink.
P.s. Hope that makes sense, it sounded cool in my head, haha. Still mean it though!
@@N810garcia It DOES make sense, and I can only pray that he continues to seek out this type of inward self-improvement for himself. 😊
Also understand this fellas. Women will never appreciate the process of your self improvement. So even after your success. Once you embark on your new journey to achieve something fresh and new it won’t be appealing to them. So find someone that appreciates your process as well as your success
Thank you for sharing
Yup
So if women will never appreciate your process, how do we find a woman who will appreciate the process of that’s not in her nature?
@@TA-ht4jo find someone like minded in the same stage of life as you. Attract her naturally (physical attraction or personality attraction) then lead by being goal oriented. She won’t like your busy goal oriented lifestyle but she’ll like the achievements. This is coming from my own personal experience as a man in the dating world.
@@TA-ht4jo some women do appreciate the process
Success is key for us men
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
While this is true, if that’s the only reason she’s into me what makes her different from other women? There has to be something about you that wants to make her stay for you. Self improvement is for yourself and yourself alone, but you’re not the only one self improvement. If someone else was jus like you and she had to choose who should she choose and WHY?
Exactly. Just don't simp and put the best version of yourself out there every day
Thank you for sharing
On point!
For me, to obtain the Dragon energy it took me slaying my first REAL Dragon which was my addiction to pornography. This Dragon had kept me a prisoner for 15 years and when I finally said enough, it took everything ounce of mental willpower I had, but once I slayed it, it was like I absorbed it’s Energy. Now I Am the Dragon, and I will slay many more in My Lifetime. Let’s get to work Gentlemen 🔥.
Why'd i think of skyrim here? Props tho!
Love this
I am on my journey brother of slaying the same dragon. Any tips on how to overcome the struggle? The way that I’m going about it is just constantly being on my purpose so that the thoughts of relapsing don’t slip in.
porn isnt the cause its the effect.
Name checks out
Chris makes this podcast so much more entertaining with his personality 😄
Thank you
Every single one of them hit a critical point of discussion that I’ve been talking about with my circle for the past few weeks. Literally every person said something that we’ve been learning and building on recently. Great content
Maybe it’s just me, but once you start talking about having that entitlement and saying to yourself “how dare she not want me?!?” he’s definitely on the wrong side of that thin line between arrogance and masculine confidence. To be fair to him tho he may have meant it in a context that I didn’t quite catch but I’m almost certain that’s not the case. Whether you’re successful or not, entitlement does nobody any good. With that said, I definitely agree with his beginning point about dating advice for men being essentially self improvement advice. Men’s focus need to be centered on themselves, specifically on their mental/emotional health and their purpose and not on women.
Good observation
Beautifully put :D
Men need savings in the bank, low debt or no debt, good food in the fridge, and a woman in his life who understands HE IS THE LEADER. Timmy C Arizona
@black wolf101I think you should put what he is saying about debt in context.
Simply but yet complicated
This one of the realist podcast out here. I definitely had to reflect on some of points mentioned in the video.
Great!!
I think we as men over value women we put them on a pedestal with their looks.. ofcourse there’s nothing wrong with wanting a beautiful woman. But becareful what you ask for a lot of those women are high maintenance not submissive type. Do your purpose and pick the right woman not the finest woman
💯💯💯💯💯
Is there’s nothing wrong with men wanting a beautiful woman is there anything wrong with a woman wanting a rich man?
@@Angel-ou1fr there is nothing wrong with wanting anything we’re all entitled to want what we want but is it realistic? There was a time I wanted to get with a model type chasing beautiful women but then I realized and saw this pretty shy girl in the corner that I married she held me down. Understanding that beauty and money are superficial those things fade or can fade. And then what foundation do you have been married for awhile that beauty is cool. But her breathe still stinks in the morning she still and emotional woman behind that beauty. A mans money comes with his insecurities and sometimes control these things exist behind those layers we say we want
@@derrickmason7457 she still has to be attractive to us! We may not need to get a model but we don’t want Gabourey Sidibe either.
@@derrickmason7457 beautifully said!! Appearances aren't what they seem and all that glitters isn't gold. Too many people are focused on superficial things only money, status, appearance, and sexual attraction instead of character. You could go after those types and get a terrible partner who only looks good on the surface but isn't there for you through the hard times. Good for you and your wife!!
Make your purpose and your mission your no.1 priority. A woman has to know and feel that you’ll be fine and can thrive with or without her. You’re the captain of your own ship with her simply a passenger.
Post pandemic break up, hearing this advice from other kings is top quality stuff.
Stay strong King
@@Jair-tk9kt thank you, appreciate it king
Enjoying your content out here in Kenya 🇰🇪. Keep up with the good work bros.
"Dragon energy" 🐲🐉
You should make some merch with that term lol
Lol you never know
Opening statement alone....
*Subscribed*
It’s always funny to me that men get upset that we prefer successful men, so are you suggesting we should strive to be attracted to losers? Here is the thing, people are attracted to abundant energy both women and men. We are wired as humans to want to procreate with people that look good, feel good, and want more out of life like it’s common sense.
Men dont Usually get upset for this
Its more when you only for a man for there money and will switch up quick if a wealthier dude comes along
It would the equivalent of leaving a woman because a prettier one comes along that's fucked up to do and I'm pretty sure women wouldn't like if every men did that
@@XIX965 I see what you are saying but men are getting upset for women leaving men that are not their husbands. Yes when you are married you are required loyalty if “better or worse” “richness and poor” but in dating both parties have the right to move on with someone they feel is a better option/match for them. That is the point of dating to obtain “data”.
@@jazzyone1986 yes but even in marriages women act like that, men as well but they got financially punished for women don't even get a slap on the wrist. That right there is what upsets men. The so called equality women fight fir is non existent.
The dragon energy is often transferred from father to son... I knew I had received that paternal gift from childhood
Great to see young men come to this realization. The internal determines the external.
Goes for both men and women. In general, I find that most dating advice is hollow and shallow. It wasn't until I got to a place of real peace and confidence that I understood that real confidence is needing nothing, seeing the true meaning of life, and loving yourself. After that, choices are easy.
I can definitely relate to this in so many ways. Thank you for this and keep it coming. May God continue to use you guys and allow you all to reach and touch others.
You got to build the kingdom alone and she moves in
So true
6:02 that's the energy!
Keep it up my guy
Congrats on a quarter mil subs fam. Ik y'all worked hard for it
Chris is really the star of the show, dude got too much energy, he got that kind of fool vibe, but you know he can be serious as hell too, it's exactly how I am, I can be a walking circus entertainment-wise but when I sit to speak about serious topics, I turn the "preacher" mode on, and it's over !
women also like humility and kindness. I wouldn't go for Hafeez cause the red flags are the way he's spoken to other women... I don't care how successful you are if you're not kind and humble.
Chase excellence fellas
SHEEEESH them suits look dumb fire. Where can I get me one of those?
This is why I coach men to invest in themselves first, and not worry about women, they not going anywhere and if they don't want you today, they will come back tomorrow when you level up. Having a purpose enables you to be confident to know that you know who you are and what you represent. A captain needs a crew, a commander needs an army. But you need to work on your leadership skills to have people follow you. Women will always respect and follow a man who is not only successful but knows where he is going in life.
monk mode.. I like that. I'm really tempted to delete all social apps and bury myself in my work and personal development
Don’t think... just do it.
Awesome advise
True, Charisma follows with absolute belief in yourself “dragon energy”. That’s why people treat you differently
such a great message.. straight facts
Great discussion. Invite the women into your sphere to experience time spent with you. Demonstrate your authentic value and let them feel it when they're around you.
The answer is fun.The man who having fun has the advantage over any man. When your having fun is when your the happiest.Your mind is clear. Failure isn’t that serious. There no fear. Look for that person in the room.
You guys are very enlightening..
100 percent spot on.
A chick that I used to mess wit told me I had “birdman energy”. Relax, she meant it in a good way🤣
Actions VS Words ‼️
Quarter Million Subscribers! 🙏🏾💯
incredible video!
Pertaining to men and dating, women camp out at the finish line and wait for the man who wins the race then tries to get with that man. Its simply how they're wired. They desire success objects while we typically desire a sex object, ie a female with beauty, youth over anything. Fellas just focus on yourselves and finding joy in life, but when it comes to successful dating success is key in attracting women.
Its not lmao... masculinity is key to attracting women
12 minute. Hyperbolic time chamber!!!!!! Super duper
I am proud of these young brothers. They actually look like men. 3 of them have adult Hair cuts🙄 at least........suits. very good to see. They look like men who would actually want to lead a family and provide for kids. Image is very important.
every time they laughed, I laughed lol the conversation was too funny
It's not about finding Mrs. Right. it's about keeping the wrong ones out of your life.
If they are so confident then why do they get all giggly when around beautiful women..??
Cause they havent worked on their inner masculinity and focus on their external achievements
This vid is pure gold
just curious, is there any instance where you attain this growth and are in the circles or levels such as these men but your social/sexual/relationship attraction doesn't go up?
Of course, but just like everything else in life you have to work at being great in those areas. Some people naturally thrive there and for others its practiced and learned.
I listen in my headphones. When Hafiz is laughing it tears my ears apart. If I turn the volume low enough, I cannot hear what they are saying.
The guests technically won the genetic lottery. That's already a point up on most guys
When they laugh, it’s the weirdest ish ever. But good message overall!!
attract don't chase
Absolutely,
We will if that’s more of the lifestyle... we’ve living.
Maybe some us naturally want a better quality man. Because he has more exposure in the 🌎
Where Black men haven’t held
(women) to the same standards.
It’s hasn’t hampered woman’s ability to attract a “high value”man. Whether she holds a PhD or GED. ❤️☮️❤️☮️
what does money have to do with me dating you and being a good bf!????
as long as i can take care of myself and treat you once in a while then whats the problem??
these guys need to get off their high horse
You can have all that, and she still doesn’t bring anything to the table......
The “game” is RIGGED!!!!!!!!
To be 100 with you guys, I don't think you can teach 99.999% of men these things. I think only a small percentage of men will actually take in the info and apply it. A large percentage are just born with the drive while the rest is not cut out for it. Nature has a huge part in this and I believe it's too late for much of the nurture element many of the platforms are trying to teach. I also believe for men it's all about the experience, guys are just going to have to get burned to learn their lesson.
this dude Chris is hilarious XD
Who else thought he was shirtless at first?
For some reason, I might not want a woman after I become successful. I would rather enjoy the success on my own.
It may get boring tho
This girl I already hooked up with unfriended me on Snapchat because I stopped giving her attention after she curved me. She unfriended immediately after her thirst trap expired, probably because I didn’t watch it. Wtf is she doing? Will she be back?
Bro stop thinking about her and be on your purpose
Bro, whether they come back or not is not something you have control over. I’m speaking on experience! It’ll be frustrating in the beginning but as cliche as it sounds, just focus on yourself. Rediscover yourself and keep busy. You’ll find happiness within that! 💪🏼
1:03 - Russell Westbrook Meme 🤔
🔥🔥🔥
Gems
This 💯true....but watch out...when you date a climber...they always looking to climb up from you...better love in poverty...
"Shackled to other people's opinion"
Some people are really trapped by others opinions
@@TheRoommatesPodcast When I heard you say that, I had to stop what I was doing and let that resignate. I have to use it that one myself. You guys are killing it 👍🏿👍🏿
Dating advice for men is to build yourself up to be a better man, stronger, wiser, more bold, richer... What is the dating advice for women?
Be supportive to men
Your confused though. Your kinda sayin you need to be wealthy or something. Im not really sure about your credentials to speak on most this.
Lol pretty much idc how good of a human being you are Rihanna ain't talking to you if you broke and ugly 🤣🤣🤣 as nas said get money &success you will never have to chase women
Again fellas you Must Hav Swagger, Sauce(.WW.) RIP MacDre it does Help bruh Relaxxx Stop hatin On women? ah i Go off Title's? i Got dat California Bear Energy im a Living Testimony as Well🙏👑🌴
Nah "dragon" energy is akin to satan... The energy from the Holy Spirit is "Holy" ... Love, Positivity, Truth,
I'm sure your all somewhat decent as people, but if your tryin to step in the ring, you get knocked down by real dons. Yo I wreak all you
I see what u mean
First
Lol there's always that one guy
Gos is not real. That's make believe fairy tail $hit.
these guys are clueless!!
you can make ok money and date! not all women are the same!!