The book that changed my social life
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 มิ.ย. 2019
- There has been only one book that has fundamentally changed the way I interact with people.
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So I tried uploading this video like 13 times over the past few weeks but I've been experiencing some crazy hardware malfunctions. I had to delete a lot of the b-roll in this video to make everything work, so hopefully you guys still got something out of it. Everything is resolved now so I'm stoked to finally crank out more content. In any case, thanks for watching!
The book that changed my social life forever was Orwell's 1984. Since I read it, I quit socializing with anyone.
Reading a book is easy but implementing it in your life is the real work
“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”Carnegie. Thanks as always! Your a BIG inspiration to my channel <3
"searching reddit for answers" pretty much my life
"If you want to be interesting, be interested."
Too many compliments can make people think you're disingenuous so use them wisely and time them well
Its sad people automatically assume Anti-Social people dont want to be social and be invited to things, its a huge problem in our society
"...focus on what Peter Parker was saying." 😂👌
I have social anxiety and I'm reading 'How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety' by Ellen Hendriksen who is a therapist who struggled with SAD herself. Definitely give it a read, it helps me a lot.
Is it just me or does anyone else feels uncomfortable when a person uses your name more than twice in a conversation and starts to ask too many questions about you?
1) Make the conversation about the other person
After 2 same people read this book
“The Lost art of Listening”
I’ve kept “how to win friends and influence people” and Marcus Aurelius “meditations” in my book bag every where I go for the past 5 years. Good stuff
As someone who started reading this book because of this video, I want to point out towards the end about you saying some people need someone pretending they care, I refer back to the book about people hearing cheap praises and that people don't like flattery but genuine appreciation. So although some people need to hear some sort of validation of their day, it should come from a genuine place because if you fake it, people will notice it and think less of you. I just thought of reminding that from the book. I really think you made a great video that peaked my interest of this book so I'm grateful to come across your channel. Thank you for your incite and sharing your views.
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"Sometimes people just need somebody who pretends like they care..."
There is this girl in my class who always gives out compliments to people but they don’t seem genuine and it’s like she’s doing to make friends. Compliments are tricky
Smile. Remember and use a persons name. Be lavish with your compliments. Can confirm that book is a masterpiece.