As an adult I take myself to the cinema all the time cause I wasn’t able to go as child. Growing up I would always want to go see the movies in a a huge giant screen. Now that I’m older I can do just that.
I’ve always looked at it as if there’s a film you wanna see on the big screen and nobody wants to watch it with you then why miss out? This can apply to things like concerts too. Nobody is gonna know if you’re on your own if you’re surrounded by people. Always think that. I’ve been to so many films in my own because I’m a massive independent and foreign cinema fan. I even went to Sundance on my own. Did I care? No. Nobody cares.
@@PavelTalks Nobody could afford to go so I just said eff it and went on my own. It made me broke myself but was SO worth it. Experience of a lifetime. I had an all access pass too. I went all out
The vast majority of movies I've seen in a theater past the age of 23-24 have been alone. What can I say, not a lot of people are going to drop what they're doing on Sunday to go see The Zone of Interest with me
I used to love going to the movies by myself! I remember once in January 2022, I went to a subtitled midday screening of the anime film “Belle” on one of the bigger screens at a local theater, and I was the only one in the auditorium. It was, and still is, one of my favorite screenings I’ve ever been to! Just me, a giant 4K Laser screen, and loud surround sound. It was *magical*. However, since then, I’ve been to many movies by myself. The more often I did it, the less special it felt. I missed having people to talk with after the movie. I missed having someone to reminisce with on the way out of the theater. I just missed having that social interaction. Whenever I go now, 99% of the time I go with someone else, and when I do go by myself it’s now usually because of reasons beyond my control. I think I only went to 3 movies by myself last year. I like having someone to talk with after each movie I go out to see. I don’t think it’s weird to go to the movies by yourself. I just personally love the socialization aspect, as well as the different discussions that many films can lead to afterward that come with going with a friend or loved one.
wow - this is an interesting comment! It’s fascinating to me that you say that, because the more i’ve gotten into movies, the more i find myself thinking about the movies rather than discussing them with others, whilst you’re the opposite. I love that you have such a vivid memory from 2022, that’s definitely a special one. thanks for your comment, i really appreciate it !
I'm a film student and I wanna go to the movies a lot, and people don't often want to join. And that's fine! Recently I watched The Iron Claw alone, and it was a wonderful experience. The cinema is a lot of fun going together though, being able to talk about the movie later with your friends!
love that!! the iron claw is coming to irish cinemas next week and i’m so excited to watch it!! I understand that feeling though, it’s a balancing act !
@@PavelTalks oh be prepared for the iron claw! i went in blind and it was, extremely heavy but so so good. i have brothers and genuinely cried from mid movie til 2 hours after and now it's in my top 4 on letterboxd!
i’m so excited - I think I know a very rough outline as to what it’s about and what happens, but i’ve watched no trailers or anything, it’s my favourite way to go see movies haha, i’m hopefully seeing it tomorrow 🤞🏼
Went to a late night showing of 2022 Batman by myself and had an awesome time! If you find it awkward to buy a ticket at the theatre on your own you can always buy it digitally.
A friend who I was going to cinemas with moved out of town a couple years ago and it kinda forced me to sometimes go alone, and right now I’m in a situation where I actually prefer to see some movies alone. Like movies that feel a bit more intimate such as the new movie Past Lives. Bodies Bodies Bodies is an interesting movie to go see alone tho because it definitely benefits from having a crowd and it’s a movie I’d definitely want to watch with a group of friends. That’s usually how I see most comedies and action/adventure type movies.
good point !! I watched past lives alone and cried, I don’t think i could’ve let myself have that emotional relief if I was with other people, but regarding bodies bodies bodies, I definitely would’ve liked to watch it with friends but don’t regret seeing it alone; sometimes i watch stand ups alone and that one always feels weird, I feel nuts laughing to myself sometimes 😂😂
I don't have a problem going to the cinema by myself at all. Most of the people around me aren't as enthusiastic about films as I am so when a movie comes out that I am especially excited for, I'll go by myself if no one else wants to see it too. I saw Blade Runner 2049 and Mad Max: Fury Road by myself and they were both like a religious experience.
Good point, i definitely can relate to being one of the only people in your friend group who loves movies too much lol those two movies you mentioned would be absolutely incredible cinema experiences
This was a great video. I’ve been going to the theater by myself regularly for a while now and I absolutely love it. I feel like I’m in a secret club cuz so many people only watch a couple movies a year.
I've always enjoyed going to the movies alone since I can freely enjoy it without the pain of arranging the date and time, ticket seating so we all stick together, and other small nuisances. I went to go see Weathering with You when it came out on theaters, and since it was on my birthday and exams weeks, no one would be able to make it. It was one of the best experiences I've ever had and definitely became a core memory. I did the same just recently with Suzume 😁
I used to go to the cinema by myself all the itme before the pandemic but I still haven't gone back. It's much preferable- I usually went after work, so I had a shorter walk to the screen, and it was a great way to unwind. Nothing beats the escapism and immersion of watching something on the big screen after a long shift of standing on your feet all day. It really gave me a new appreciation for the medium.
I don't think it's weird at all. I do it all the time if my friends are busy or not interested. A lot of times, I prefer to do it, because it's a hassle to coordinate with someone else to meet up and do other stuff before or after the movie, etc... I just want to see the movie, so I'm just gonna go watch it. I do enjoy going with others when it happens, but since it's so much easier to go alone, I find myself doing that way more often these days. Going with friends was easy when I was younger, but when everybody's working and has different schedules or stuff going on, etc, it's tougher to hang out for something like going to see a movie, so it makes sense to just do it on my own time, or I'd probably never see many movies.
I agree - especially once you get older and your friends go different ways, finding time to all meet to go to the movies at a specific time can be hard you’re definitely right, going alone is easier and it’s almost more personal; it’s you and the movie AND you get to watch even more movies :)
ive been going to the theatres regularly for some years now...while i always try to convince my friends or a friend to accompany me...but if they are unavailable i prefer to go alone than sit back home... especially in non blockbusters and immersive films infact i even prefer to go alone...for then i can watch it more attentively
true!! some movies you NEED to see in the cinema and it makes you ever more focused when you’re at the movies, rather than at home, where there’s sm distractions
When I decide to go watch a movie, it’s usually very impulsive. Sure, I could ask people if they want to join me, but there is always some type of scheduling conflict. I just like getting faded, sitting back on a nice recliner, and enjoying a good movie.
I like going to the movies alone just because it requires basically no planning, and I hate being late on other people's behalf. I only go with friends if I know they'll like it. For example, I'll probably ask my friend to go see Evil Dead Rise because I know he likes the Evil Dead movies
love that - also being comfortable in your own presence is definitely a really good thing, so go you - and tell me what you think of the new evil dead ✌🏼
I try to go to theatre with friends but if they were busy i just go on my own, the only thing that feels little bit of weird was strangers sitting next to me but i'll get used to it in time.
I usually go with family. One instance was where I went with my friends when we went to The Super Mario Bros Movie. The Mario Movie watch group (7 in total) was organized by me since the cast was announced in 2021. That was fun.
tbh i go to watch movies alone if i can most of the time, when i am watching with my friends there is always the dreaded post movie discussions that we have at mcdonalds or something lol. like i will just have to hear them complain about the movie or ask me a million questions about what i think about it or vice versa they have to hear me as well. also in the theatre i dont have to do this thing where i look over at them everytime something funny or interesting happens like to laugh with them or something. so i wouldnt say its weird at all although its not really common for people to do i guess.
facts!! sometimes i don’t wanna share how i felt about the movie too because i want to internally process it, as weird as that sounds and nothing worse when somebody didn’t care about the movie and then they’re super confused after and it takes away peer pressure when you go alone, because you’re not trying to ‘impress’ the people you’re with great comment :)
The only time I’ve ever been to the movies alone was when I saw Oppenheimer and honestly I enjoyed the personal experience. not having to worry about anyone else and just watching the movie in peace is nice. it felt like my own bubble. Thing is I’m also only 17 so I’ve just gotten used to going everywhere with my family. I think I’m definitely ready for some independence when I go out lol
i love it; whenever i went to university at 19 i adored the independence, I love you love it too! i’m really excited for you - it’s such a fun time in life, enjoy it!
This is actually an interesting question...... I personally hate putting social restrictions on my life or would put them on anyone else.... if something brings a smile to your face and isn't hurting anyone JUST DO IT..... going to the cinema by myself is my escape from the world... it gives me the same sort of enjoyment that say a cold beer might give another person... it helps me relax and disappear into another world for a few hours.... and if someone has a problem with that well quite frankly they can shove it...
always done it. on of mye favourites thing to do. now, since i live about a two minute walk from the cinema, i check my phone a bit before the movie starts, and often its an empty viewing. book the ticket, go up and have the whole cinema for myself... love that... ofcourse, some movies is better with an audience.
So at 63 I see majority of movies alone. I see 200+ films a year including Film Fests and I am rarely with another person. I live in Philly and most times the theaters are filled with single patrons scattered about. We don't need someone to read a book with why would film be any different? Plus I like to sit super close and most people hate that. I will sometimes see a film the second time with my daughter or someone else and I like to hear their thoughts especially if it's a film I don't get the hoopla like LICORICE PIZZA and EVERYWHERE, YADA YADA.
that’s actually very nice to hear, especially that you engage in movies that you don’t get but have conversation about!!! and i love how much you go to see movies alone - i want to be like you at 63
I miss the old days of going with my late parents It would always be a treat yet I still got dragged to movies I didn’t want to see Then as I grew up it had the opposite effect Also keep in mind if you have friends in high school there’s carpooling involved But after graduating there’s less contact and not many people have free time or they move away It just hurts knowing that’s a part of life Certain theater experiences you start to notice too; Loud and disruptive people especially at night Parents bringing in their screaming children even to movies not appropriate for them Someone constantly on their phone or just being annoying getting the usher to kick them out It stinks too when someone randomly kicks your seat for no reason Also gotta pick the right showtimes to avoid such situations Even covid made it a bit scary, sitting next to people you couldn’t tell were healthy or sick avoiding coughing and sneezing Reserved seating has helped too not scrambling to find a decent seat I go alone now these days cause my siblings live so far away and it’s hard to meet locals to go on a movie date Plus they’d rather do other things on certain weekends even if the weather is so crummy with nothing else to do So yeah going to the movies has changed since my childhood There’s a lot of things to consider
Honestly, that comment made me feel a little emotion because of how poetically you explained not just growing life but how quickly things changed and with that, they’re things out of our control. It’s definitely something I think about daily and find it difficult to accept at times, and I find myself in a cycle of accepting it - being upset about certain things and repeating it (movies being a catalyst for the spiral) saying all that, there’s so much to consider when asking what the best way is to watch a movie thanks for the lovely comment :)
I've gone to the movies alone so much that now it feels weird going with someone 😂 also i've gone to concerts alone and am going alone soon too thats so underrated too its a great way to meet new people who at least you have one thing in common
Huh it felt weird at first but now I’m used to going alone, but when I was younger I used to go to the movies 2 days a month . So I felt used to the system
You can go to movies with others? I've been watching movies in cinema for 40 years and never considered inviting anyone with me. I think someone might have invited me a few times, but that was more an eating and "doing stuff" social event, that it involved a cinema was not the main point, but I think movie going is not the best "social event", so I would rather invite people out to eat or bowling or both. Sports events seems like better group activities, even if the group is watching the game, you at least can yell and watch. The only grouping and cinema, I can get behind is when escorting those small people, that society, rightly mind you, think can't handle it on their own.
I love that!! 40 years is incredible - you probably have some amazing memories, i’m quite jealous haha that’s interesting you say that too, i’ve not been at the cinema with a group of people since I was maybe 10, it never happens anymore. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing, but it’s got me thinking Thanks for the comment 🫶🏻
Hey! What a good topic! Happy to see you actually had the experience of going alone. First time I went alone I remember feeling so odd and awkward, luckily there weren't many people, and I remember there was one girl who was also going on her own, so it felt nice not being the only one being alone. The movie was Potiche, part of a French film festival, and it was gonna be on for one or two days only, and there would be only one or two screenings, so I didn't have time to invite friends LOL. My guess as to why we feel weird is because advertising. It's always people going to the cinema in big groups with lots of friends... Obviously, it's business so they want us to bring a party 😆 But there shouldn't be any awkwardness to it. I actually enjoy paying attention and not having someone talking over the movie 😅 I never know the polite way to ask them to stop talking 🤭🙈 Hope you get to try it again and just feel perfectly normal about it. Have a great week!!
hey!! yeah it’s definitely way nicer to have nobody near you because it makes you feel like you have the entire cinema to yourself 😂😂 i’ve never heard of that film, gonna look it up now …. definitely a lot to do with advertising which impacts the general mentality around the thought of doing it - same with going for dinner alone etc etc there is no polite way sadly 😂 thank you for your comment as always ❤️
@@PavelTalks awe, no worries at all! i truly think that your channel deserves so much more love, it’s bloody great :)) also, it made me so happy when i was going through your videos to see two people that ALWAYS commented and supported you, you’re so lucky to have them :)
To me this question is more down to is doing anything alone in public weird or unpleasant, which it my opinion it's not and shouldn't have to be. But when you *always* find yourself alone, it morphs into a chore and a painful reminder of how lonely you are. Being able to choose aloneness rules, it being the default is not. Which my experiences watching movies in the theater alone has been.
I love going to the movies alone! The last movie I saw in the theatre alone was Jesus Revolution. It was my birthday. When I walked out of the theatre, my world was different.
"Not having the luxury of pausing" is a very good point and why the cinema experience is quite different from home viewing. no subtitles (except for "foreign" films) is also a problem for me, as often a projectionist doesnt quite know what they're doing with sound levels and are just playing at a booming loud level, so i find myself missing out on any subtleties of dialogue. "Not having someone to discuss the movie with" was always a problem, cos none of my friends were cinema-literate. for them it was just a way to kill a couple of hours and then trying to talk to them afterwards getting mono-syllabic responses, like it "was good/great" or it was "awful/hated it". But why? what did you like/dislike about it? lol! and them not knowing how to express that was kinda infuriating cos i guess i discovered i was crazy for movies and they were just "meh!" so any "discussion" was my monologue and probably totally annoying for them! subsequently all I've had is time to reflect on things by myself. downside to home viewing on a tv, is the reflection on glass of other light sources can diminish the kind of cinematography you describe for "Bodies, Bodies, Bodies" and that if you want to really appreciate the sound quality/engineering you probably need to use headphones. thank you for your thoughtful review and making me think on my own film viewing experience.
I agree again!!! so many times at the cinema I don’t hear a lot of what’s said bc of that AND because I use subtitles at home all the time !! they’re vital for me as I want to catch every part of the movie and I can also relate regarding the discussion, I rarely discuss movies with people because I don’t get the chance. So when I discuss them on my channel , I always question everything I say thanks again, and thanks for checking my video out ❤️
I go by myself often since I prefer going in the middle of the week when most friends are tied up. Its easier to find a seat and I can go in the hall early before the trailers instead of getting sidetracked by what my friends want todo. I like going during the week since its quieter and there are no lines for anything. It can suck not having company to shoot the shit with before the movie but at the same time i can take in the ambiance more.
that’s interesting actually about going mid week - nobody’s said that in the comments, but you’re right, it’s the best time, especially to wind down mid week
I love going to the movies on my own just like I like watching movies at home or tv shows at home on my own. No one to disrupt the movie or show by talking or making noise around me.
I go to film school and even people there think I’m weird 🤣. I go to the cinema alone every single week, sometimes even twice a week 😂 it’s my second home, even when to movies alone when I was a kid.
@@PavelTalks for me personally I love it because I walk home afterwards. Long walks after a movie alone is so euphoric, in your own head and imagination with no interruptions.
Some people might think that going to the cinema alone is weird or sad, but I don't agree. I actually enjoy it a lot. Here's why: First of all, I can choose whatever movie I want to watch without worrying about other people's opinions or preferences. Sometimes I like to watch indie films or foreign films that my friends are not interested in. Other times I just want to watch a blockbuster or a comedy that doesn't require much thinking. Either way, I can pick whatever suits my mood and taste. Secondly, I can enjoy the movie without any distractions or interruptions. I don't have to deal with someone talking during the movie, asking me questions, or commenting on every scene. I don't have to share my popcorn or drinks with anyone. I can just focus on the movie and immerse myself in the story. Thirdly, I can have some time for myself and relax. Going to the cinema alone is a way of treating myself and doing something fun. It's also a way of escaping from the stress and worries of everyday life. I can forget about everything else for a couple of hours and just enjoy the entertainment. It's like a mini-vacation for my mind. So, as you can see, going to the cinema alone is not weird at all. It's actually a great experience that I recommend to everyone. You might be surprised by how much you like it.
Great comment !! I definitely agree with everything you said and I share the same opinion - it’s super nice to just watch a movie in a cinema alone because you can escape for a few hours. I’m definitely going to keep doing it ! Thanks for the comment 👏🏻
Hell yes! I love the discarding of weird social norms. Plus, if your area has movie theater subscriptions, you can save a lot more money if you go often (Bodies Bodies Bodies was great, too)
I did it for the first time in I think 2017(?) and realized it wasn't as weird as everyone says it is. I mean its not like you talk to your friends while you watch the movie anyway (unless youre an asshole). Of course like everyone else I enjoy watching movies with my friends but sometimes if I'm in the mood to watch a movie and don't want the trouble of asking around if anyone wants to go with me, its just easier to go alone. I also watch movies alone if im doing a rewatch in cinemas so I can really take it in more
though i hardly go to the cinema alone anymore cos i hardly go to the cinema at all (my loss, i know!) i do know i often preferred to be alone and in an empty or near empty film house. why? if i was with friends i became too conscious as to whether they were enjoying themselves (or in the case of one friend who seemed to fall asleep almost every time, even when there were explosions going on screen!), and if i had mistaken what they might enjoy. or dealing with noise of other patrons, like patrons who use their phone or chatter through the film. or make loud eating noises. I've been at one cinema where someone brought a whole hot meal in foil and proceeded to stink the place out. or at "The Killing Fields" where some disgusting individuals laughed at the awful carnage, or the ones at "The Elephant Man" who complained loudly cos it wasn't the creature feature type horror film they were expecting. or the group of school girls, who like my friend and I, had snuck out of school to go see "Alien", but then proceeded to scream so much at any cause, it's what i imagine going to a Beatles concert and never hearing their music over the screaming fans, was like. i admit some big audiences at a comedy can get you into the mood of the film though. but between rising prices, poor cinema etiquette of audiences i realised that I'd do better to invest in a big screen tv, and a data projector so i could play things extra-large on a wall. And if i dare risk going to a theatre, it's after I've worked out where the best value is and the times likely to have the least crowd. the funniest downside to that though, was seeing something like "The House on Sorority Row" as part of a double feature and being the only person in the cinema. The ticket seller didn't tell the projectionist there was a customer and they couldn't see anyone in the auditorium so the movie was turned off after the first reel!! that was the scariest part of the whole outing, lol!
wow … that was an incredible comment! you seem to have had SO many interesting movie going experiences, and what I love that most is that you remember everything and you’re the only person who has mentioned how expensive it is to go to the cinema, especially if you get popcorn etc - that’s why i mostly go when it’s a movie I REALLY REALLY want to see I see you have another comment, so imma go read that and reply to that
This video is a bit surreal for me, since I've been going to the cinema alone as far as I can remember, going to the movies alone is more normal than you know, never thought someone would make an entire video out of going alone once as if they were doing something completely altruistic lol
that’s interesting, to me, it was definitely strange as going to the cinema alone was never a thing, even when i mentioned it to friends etc they thought it was very strange, it might be because i’m from somewhere quite small with no local cinemas - i made the video because I wanted to explore that and try it, would be a bit silly if i went to the cinema alone 10 times, vlogged and discussed it each time, that’s why I recorded about my experience once :)
I've been watching more movies on average in the past couple of months than any other time in my life. I'm not a streaming guy. I've always been a cinema kid. There are hundreds of factors when bringing a group together for a movie. Everyone needs to be available. Everyone should have a common interest in the film. Everyone wants to watch a decent film. Everyone wants to get their money's worth. But the fact is everyone is different. I'm inclined to choose a safe movie when going with a crowd, but I can experiment more when I go on my own. I recently paid money to watch Babylon. This movie is over 3 hours long, has extremely polarising reviews, and was a flop at the box office. It's clear to see this movie isn't everyone's cup of tea, but I loved it. If I waited to find someone to go with, I likely would've never caught it on a big screen. Even now, I can't convince my friends to watch it. Get comfortable doing things on your own! You learn very little about your preferences if you play it safe.
I admire that you go to the movies more than stream, that’s so so cool! everything you said is absolutely right, especially about bringing a group of people to the cinema - it’s almost impossible to make it perfect, so why not go alone and embrace it 🫶🏻 ps i really want to watch babylon
Going to the cinema alone isn't bad I do it I am even from watching Dungeons & Dragons alone non of my friends wanted to see it so I decided to do it myself I treat it as a reward to myself if you can binge a series by yourself there is nothing weird with going to the cinema alone
I find it always a hassle to ask a friend or family member to go the see a movie, it’s always I don’t know, I really don’t like that actor, I don’t really like that type of movie or can we go see a different type of movie, so I found I better to go alone watch the movie and be done with all the debating.😊
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I think it’s weird that some people think it’s weird to go to the cinema alone
I agree, facts
I always go to the cinema alone, i always watch movies at home alone, i always watch series alone and it's not that weird
100%!! I agree with you 💪🏻💪🏻
🎬 Then you are my perfect match, because I am also doing the same thing for the past 14 years 🎫 and it's so therapeutic and interesting.......✍
good!!!
Same, I hate watching movies and series with other people. When I'm alone it's easier to immerse myself in the movie/series.
@@panoC97so damn true!!
As an adult I take myself to the cinema all the time cause I wasn’t able to go as child. Growing up I would always want to go see the movies in a a huge giant screen. Now that I’m older I can do just that.
very good point - you’re making up for lost time 🌞
I guess I'm weird I go to the movies alone all the time.
you’re definitely not! you’re doing it right 🤘🏻
I’ve always looked at it as if there’s a film you wanna see on the big screen and nobody wants to watch it with you then why miss out? This can apply to things like concerts too. Nobody is gonna know if you’re on your own if you’re surrounded by people. Always think that. I’ve been to so many films in my own because I’m a massive independent and foreign cinema fan. I even went to Sundance on my own. Did I care? No. Nobody cares.
you went to sundance on your own 😳 that’s the DREAM - I adore your energy, keep it up! 🫶🏻 thanks for the comment !!
@@PavelTalks Nobody could afford to go so I just said eff it and went on my own. It made me broke myself but was SO worth it. Experience of a lifetime. I had an all access pass too. I went all out
LOVE that
The vast majority of movies I've seen in a theater past the age of 23-24 have been alone. What can I say, not a lot of people are going to drop what they're doing on Sunday to go see The Zone of Interest with me
i get the feeling, i’m glad it’s not stopping you from going 🫶🏻
@@PavelTalks oh absolutely not. Why is it seen as necessary to bring someone else? You're not supposed to talk during the screening anyway
I used to love going to the movies by myself! I remember once in January 2022, I went to a subtitled midday screening of the anime film “Belle” on one of the bigger screens at a local theater, and I was the only one in the auditorium. It was, and still is, one of my favorite screenings I’ve ever been to! Just me, a giant 4K Laser screen, and loud surround sound. It was *magical*.
However, since then, I’ve been to many movies by myself. The more often I did it, the less special it felt. I missed having people to talk with after the movie. I missed having someone to reminisce with on the way out of the theater. I just missed having that social interaction. Whenever I go now, 99% of the time I go with someone else, and when I do go by myself it’s now usually because of reasons beyond my control. I think I only went to 3 movies by myself last year. I like having someone to talk with after each movie I go out to see.
I don’t think it’s weird to go to the movies by yourself. I just personally love the socialization aspect, as well as the different discussions that many films can lead to afterward that come with going with a friend or loved one.
wow - this is an interesting comment! It’s fascinating to me that you say that, because the more i’ve gotten into movies, the more i find myself thinking about the movies rather than discussing them with others, whilst you’re the opposite. I love that you have such a vivid memory from 2022, that’s definitely a special one.
thanks for your comment, i really appreciate it !
I'm a film student and I wanna go to the movies a lot, and people don't often want to join. And that's fine! Recently I watched The Iron Claw alone, and it was a wonderful experience. The cinema is a lot of fun going together though, being able to talk about the movie later with your friends!
love that!! the iron claw is coming to irish cinemas next week and i’m so excited to watch it!!
I understand that feeling though, it’s a balancing act !
@@PavelTalks oh be prepared for the iron claw! i went in blind and it was, extremely heavy but so so good. i have brothers and genuinely cried from mid movie til 2 hours after and now it's in my top 4 on letterboxd!
i’m so excited - I think I know a very rough outline as to what it’s about and what happens, but i’ve watched no trailers or anything, it’s my favourite way to go see movies haha, i’m hopefully seeing it tomorrow 🤞🏼
@@PavelTalks Hope you enjoy it! I think you will, based on your excitement and from what I've seen of your videos :)
@@thekaijournal 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Went to a late night showing of 2022 Batman by myself and had an awesome time! If you find it awkward to buy a ticket at the theatre on your own you can always buy it digitally.
really good point, it’s definitely good to push yourself to do these things
also I STILL need to watch that movie!!!
A friend who I was going to cinemas with moved out of town a couple years ago and it kinda forced me to sometimes go alone, and right now I’m in a situation where I actually prefer to see some movies alone. Like movies that feel a bit more intimate such as the new movie Past Lives. Bodies Bodies Bodies is an interesting movie to go see alone tho because it definitely benefits from having a crowd and it’s a movie I’d definitely want to watch with a group of friends. That’s usually how I see most comedies and action/adventure type movies.
good point !! I watched past lives alone and cried, I don’t think i could’ve let myself have that emotional relief if I was with other people, but regarding bodies bodies bodies, I definitely would’ve liked to watch it with friends but don’t regret seeing it alone; sometimes i watch stand ups alone and that one always feels weird, I feel nuts laughing to myself sometimes 😂😂
I don't have a problem going to the cinema by myself at all. Most of the people around me aren't as enthusiastic about films as I am so when a movie comes out that I am especially excited for, I'll go by myself if no one else wants to see it too. I saw Blade Runner 2049 and Mad Max: Fury Road by myself and they were both like a religious experience.
Good point, i definitely can relate to being one of the only people in your friend group who loves movies too much lol
those two movies you mentioned would be absolutely incredible cinema experiences
It’s honestly the best thing when you don’t want someone whispering in your ear.
facts!!
This was a great video. I’ve been going to the theater by myself regularly for a while now and I absolutely love it. I feel like I’m in a secret club cuz so many people only watch a couple movies a year.
thank you for the comment ❤️ as you should!! embrace it!
I've always enjoyed going to the movies alone since I can freely enjoy it without the pain of arranging the date and time, ticket seating so we all stick together, and other small nuisances. I went to go see Weathering with You when it came out on theaters, and since it was on my birthday and exams weeks, no one would be able to make it. It was one of the best experiences I've ever had and definitely became a core memory. I did the same just recently with Suzume 😁
i’ve never heard of those movies but i gotta check them out - thanks for the comment and keep going to the cinema 🫶🏻
I felt a little weird when I first did it almost 30 yrs ago, but it's not a big deal now. I got to the cinema alone most of the time.
Nice, i like that, being comfortable in your own company is super important - I definitely need to do it more
I used to go to the cinema by myself all the itme before the pandemic but I still haven't gone back. It's much preferable- I usually went after work, so I had a shorter walk to the screen, and it was a great way to unwind. Nothing beats the escapism and immersion of watching something on the big screen after a long shift of standing on your feet all day. It really gave me a new appreciation for the medium.
i agree - definitely do it again soon! start the year off right, i need to do it too haha
Speaking from personal experience nothing is better than an empty theater to yourself or with a much older senior citizen esque crowd 😂
i definitely agree, as long as it feels like it’s the screen to yourself 😂
The three reasons you gave at the beginning are so relatable. Love from India dude keep growing
from India?! that’s SO cool !! thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I don't think it's weird at all. I do it all the time if my friends are busy or not interested. A lot of times, I prefer to do it, because it's a hassle to coordinate with someone else to meet up and do other stuff before or after the movie, etc... I just want to see the movie, so I'm just gonna go watch it. I do enjoy going with others when it happens, but since it's so much easier to go alone, I find myself doing that way more often these days. Going with friends was easy when I was younger, but when everybody's working and has different schedules or stuff going on, etc, it's tougher to hang out for something like going to see a movie, so it makes sense to just do it on my own time, or I'd probably never see many movies.
I agree - especially once you get older and your friends go different ways, finding time to all meet to go to the movies at a specific time can be hard
you’re definitely right, going alone is easier and it’s almost more personal; it’s you and the movie AND you get to watch even more movies :)
The best part of going to the movie theather is watching a movie with other ppl, even if they are strangers.
good point!!
I remember when a youtuber said that their friend asked them why they would go alone?? Ive gone to the movies alone up to 8 times and love it!
good, keep going!!! its the best
ive been going to the theatres regularly for some years now...while i always try to convince my friends or a friend to accompany me...but if they are unavailable i prefer to go alone than sit back home...
especially in non blockbusters and immersive films infact i even prefer to go alone...for then i can watch it more attentively
true!! some movies you NEED to see in the cinema and it makes you ever more focused when you’re at the movies, rather than at home, where there’s sm distractions
When I decide to go watch a movie, it’s usually very impulsive. Sure, I could ask people if they want to join me, but there is always some type of scheduling conflict. I just like getting faded, sitting back on a nice recliner, and enjoying a good movie.
you’re doing it the right way, you seem to have such a chill approach to it, no stress, and i’m so jealous
I like going to the movies alone just because it requires basically no planning, and I hate being late on other people's behalf. I only go with friends if I know they'll like it. For example, I'll probably ask my friend to go see Evil Dead Rise because I know he likes the Evil Dead movies
love that - also being comfortable in your own presence is definitely a really good thing, so go you - and tell me what you think of the new evil dead ✌🏼
@@PavelTalks Sure thing
I try to go to theatre with friends but if they were busy i just go on my own, the only thing that feels little bit of weird was strangers sitting next to me but i'll get used to it in time.
i get that, the weirdest is when people sit beside you and the cinema is empty ….
I love it! More people should do it.
Agreed! Thanks for the comment, love the videos 🫶🏻
I usually go with family. One instance was where I went with my friends when we went to The Super Mario Bros Movie.
The Mario Movie watch group (7 in total) was organized by me since the cast was announced in 2021. That was fun.
i can imagine mario being a movie that’s even more fun if you watch it with friends, so definitely sounds like a great time
tbh i go to watch movies alone if i can most of the time, when i am watching with my friends there is always the dreaded post movie discussions that we have at mcdonalds or something lol. like i will just have to hear them complain about the movie or ask me a million questions about what i think about it or vice versa they have to hear me as well. also in the theatre i dont have to do this thing where i look over at them everytime something funny or interesting happens like to laugh with them or something. so i wouldnt say its weird at all although its not really common for people to do i guess.
facts!! sometimes i don’t wanna share how i felt about the movie too because i want to internally process it, as weird as that sounds
and nothing worse when somebody didn’t care about the movie and then they’re super confused after
and it takes away peer pressure when you go alone, because you’re not trying to ‘impress’ the people you’re with
great comment :)
Very interesting topic, I don’t think I’ve ever went alone. Probably because one of my worst fears is being alone if I had to guess
if you ever try it, i’d love to hear what you think! I’d really encourage you to do that :)
The only time I’ve ever been to the movies alone was when I saw Oppenheimer and honestly I enjoyed the personal experience. not having to worry about anyone else and just watching the movie in peace is nice. it felt like my own bubble. Thing is I’m also only 17 so I’ve just gotten used to going everywhere with my family. I think I’m definitely ready for some independence when I go out lol
i love it; whenever i went to university at 19 i adored the independence, I love you love it too! i’m really excited for you - it’s such a fun time in life, enjoy it!
This is actually an interesting question...... I personally hate putting social restrictions on my life or would put them on anyone else.... if something brings a smile to your face and isn't hurting anyone JUST DO IT..... going to the cinema by myself is my escape from the world... it gives me the same sort of enjoyment that say a cold beer might give another person... it helps me relax and disappear into another world for a few hours.... and if someone has a problem with that well quite frankly they can shove it...
always done it. on of mye favourites thing to do. now, since i live about a two minute walk from the cinema, i check my phone a bit before the movie starts, and often its an empty viewing. book the ticket, go up and have the whole cinema for myself... love that... ofcourse, some movies is better with an audience.
i wish i lived that close to a cinema, that’s great! and i agree, it’s the best!!
So at 63 I see majority of movies alone. I see 200+ films a year including Film Fests and I am rarely with another person. I live in Philly and most times the theaters are filled with single patrons scattered about. We don't need someone to read a book with why would film be any different? Plus I like to sit super close and most people hate that. I will sometimes see a film the second time with my daughter or someone else and I like to hear their thoughts especially if it's a film I don't get the hoopla like LICORICE PIZZA and EVERYWHERE, YADA YADA.
that’s actually very nice to hear, especially that you engage in movies that you don’t get but have conversation about!!! and i love how much you go to see movies alone - i want to be like you at 63
I miss the old days of going with my late parents
It would always be a treat yet I still got dragged to movies I didn’t want to see
Then as I grew up it had the opposite effect
Also keep in mind if you have friends in high school there’s carpooling involved
But after graduating there’s less contact and not many people have free time or they move away
It just hurts knowing that’s a part of life
Certain theater experiences you start to notice too;
Loud and disruptive people especially at night
Parents bringing in their screaming children even to movies not appropriate for them
Someone constantly on their phone or just being annoying getting the usher to kick them out
It stinks too when someone randomly kicks your seat for no reason
Also gotta pick the right showtimes to avoid such situations
Even covid made it a bit scary, sitting next to people you couldn’t tell were healthy or sick avoiding coughing and sneezing
Reserved seating has helped too not scrambling to find a decent seat
I go alone now these days cause my siblings live so far away and it’s hard to meet locals to go on a movie date
Plus they’d rather do other things on certain weekends even if the weather is so crummy with nothing else to do
So yeah going to the movies has changed since my childhood
There’s a lot of things to consider
Honestly, that comment made me feel a little emotion because of how poetically you explained not just growing life but how quickly things changed and with that, they’re things out of our control. It’s definitely something I think about daily and find it difficult to accept at times, and I find myself in a cycle of accepting it - being upset about certain things and repeating it (movies being a catalyst for the spiral)
saying all that, there’s so much to consider when asking what the best way is to watch a movie
thanks for the lovely comment :)
I've gone to the movies alone so much that now it feels weird going with someone 😂 also i've gone to concerts alone and am going alone soon too thats so underrated too its a great way to meet new people who at least you have one thing in common
good point about the concerts because I used to do that all the time! and queue for hours and hours 😂😂
Huh it felt weird at first but now I’m used to going alone, but when I was younger I used to go to the movies 2 days a month . So I felt used to the system
yes i definitely agree, it’s weird at the start but then it’s fine
You can go to movies with others? I've been watching movies in cinema for 40 years and never considered inviting anyone with me.
I think someone might have invited me a few times, but that was more an eating and "doing stuff" social event, that it involved a cinema was not the main point, but I think movie going is not the best "social event", so I would rather invite people out to eat or bowling or both. Sports events seems like better group activities, even if the group is watching the game, you at least can yell and watch.
The only grouping and cinema, I can get behind is when escorting those small people, that society, rightly mind you, think can't handle it on their own.
I love that!! 40 years is incredible - you probably have some amazing memories, i’m quite jealous haha
that’s interesting you say that too, i’ve not been at the cinema with a group of people since I was maybe 10, it never happens anymore. Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing, but it’s got me thinking
Thanks for the comment 🫶🏻
No? It's not a social event you're just going to see a movie.
i know, but some people don’t think like that :-)
Hey! What a good topic! Happy to see you actually had the experience of going alone.
First time I went alone I remember feeling so odd and awkward, luckily there weren't many people, and I remember there was one girl who was also going on her own, so it felt nice not being the only one being alone. The movie was Potiche, part of a French film festival, and it was gonna be on for one or two days only, and there would be only one or two screenings, so I didn't have time to invite friends LOL.
My guess as to why we feel weird is because advertising. It's always people going to the cinema in big groups with lots of friends... Obviously, it's business so they want us to bring a party 😆 But there shouldn't be any awkwardness to it.
I actually enjoy paying attention and not having someone talking over the movie 😅 I never know the polite way to ask them to stop talking 🤭🙈
Hope you get to try it again and just feel perfectly normal about it.
Have a great week!!
hey!!
yeah it’s definitely way nicer to have nobody near you because it makes you feel like you have the entire cinema to yourself 😂😂
i’ve never heard of that film, gonna look it up now ….
definitely a lot to do with advertising which impacts the general mentality around the thought of doing it - same with going for dinner alone etc etc
there is no polite way sadly 😂
thank you for your comment as always ❤️
absolutely brilliant!!! i loved every second
thank you, your comment is super sweet
@@PavelTalks awe, no worries at all! i truly think that your channel deserves so much more love, it’s bloody great :))
also, it made me so happy when i was going through your videos to see two people that ALWAYS commented and supported you, you’re so lucky to have them :)
@@maedianee ❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🏻🌞🌞🌞
To me this question is more down to is doing anything alone in public weird or unpleasant, which it my opinion it's not and shouldn't have to be. But when you *always* find yourself alone, it morphs into a chore and a painful reminder of how lonely you are. Being able to choose aloneness rules, it being the default is not. Which my experiences watching movies in the theater alone has been.
i agree! i’ve learned to really enjoy my own company in the recent years and now i truly love it a lot, i prefer it most times too
I love going to the movies alone! The last movie I saw in the theatre alone was Jesus Revolution. It was my birthday. When I walked out of the theatre, my world was different.
i love that 🫶🏻 and happy late birthday!!
@@PavelTalks thanks brother
"Not having the luxury of pausing" is a very good point and why the cinema experience is quite different from home viewing. no subtitles (except for "foreign" films) is also a problem for me, as often a projectionist doesnt quite know what they're doing with sound levels and are just playing at a booming loud level, so i find myself missing out on any subtleties of dialogue. "Not having someone to discuss the movie with" was always a problem, cos none of my friends were cinema-literate. for them it was just a way to kill a couple of hours and then trying to talk to them afterwards getting mono-syllabic responses, like it "was good/great" or it was "awful/hated it". But why? what did you like/dislike about it? lol! and them not knowing how to express that was kinda infuriating cos i guess i discovered i was crazy for movies and they were just "meh!" so any "discussion" was my monologue and probably totally annoying for them! subsequently all I've had is time to reflect on things by myself. downside to home viewing on a tv, is the reflection on glass of other light sources can diminish the kind of cinematography you describe for "Bodies, Bodies, Bodies" and that if you want to really appreciate the sound quality/engineering you probably need to use headphones. thank you for your thoughtful review and making me think on my own film viewing experience.
I agree again!!! so many times at the cinema I don’t hear a lot of what’s said bc of that AND because I use subtitles at home all the time !! they’re vital for me as I want to catch every part of the movie
and I can also relate regarding the discussion, I rarely discuss movies with people because I don’t get the chance. So when I discuss them on my channel , I always question everything I say
thanks again, and thanks for checking my video out ❤️
I go by myself often since I prefer going in the middle of the week when most friends are tied up. Its easier to find a seat and I can go in the hall early before the trailers instead of getting sidetracked by what my friends want todo. I like going during the week since its quieter and there are no lines for anything. It can suck not having company to shoot the shit with before the movie but at the same time i can take in the ambiance more.
that’s interesting actually about going mid week - nobody’s said that in the comments, but you’re right, it’s the best time, especially to wind down mid week
@@PavelTalks Its key, especially for how new releases that are jammed up on weekends.
@@PavelTalks Used to work in catering so sometimes my "weekend" was the middle of the week! like a monday-tuesday or similar off.
I love going to the movies on my own just like I like watching movies at home or tv shows at home on my own. No one to disrupt the movie or show by talking or making noise around me.
being happy entirely alone is a great thing, i’m definitely getting better at it!
love love loved this style of video :)))
thank you! that’s definitely inspiration to make more 🫶🏻💛🌞
00:48 this happens in other countries too. 😮
facts !
I go to film school and even people there think I’m weird 🤣. I go to the cinema alone every single week, sometimes even twice a week 😂 it’s my second home, even when to movies alone when I was a kid.
i LOVE that, it’s definitely something I want to do more but i think everyone should do it. It’s by far the best way to see a movie, so go you 👏🏻👏🏻
@@PavelTalks for me personally I love it because I walk home afterwards. Long walks after a movie alone is so euphoric, in your own head and imagination with no interruptions.
@@trashcanhd1790 definitely! hopping from
one world to another
Some people might think that going to the cinema alone is weird or sad, but I don't agree. I actually enjoy it a lot. Here's why:
First of all, I can choose whatever movie I want to watch without worrying about other people's opinions or preferences. Sometimes I like to watch indie films or foreign films that my friends are not interested in. Other times I just want to watch a blockbuster or a comedy that doesn't require much thinking. Either way, I can pick whatever suits my mood and taste.
Secondly, I can enjoy the movie without any distractions or interruptions. I don't have to deal with someone talking during the movie, asking me questions, or commenting on every scene. I don't have to share my popcorn or drinks with anyone. I can just focus on the movie and immerse myself in the story.
Thirdly, I can have some time for myself and relax. Going to the cinema alone is a way of treating myself and doing something fun. It's also a way of escaping from the stress and worries of everyday life. I can forget about everything else for a couple of hours and just enjoy the entertainment. It's like a mini-vacation for my mind.
So, as you can see, going to the cinema alone is not weird at all. It's actually a great experience that I recommend to everyone. You might be surprised by how much you like it.
Great comment !! I definitely agree with everything you said and I share the same opinion - it’s super nice to just watch a movie in a cinema alone because you can escape for a few hours. I’m definitely going to keep doing it !
Thanks for the comment 👏🏻
@@PavelTalks Hey, thanks for taking the time to reply to my comment. I really appreciate it.
I think people who think it's weird to go the cinema alone are the weird ones, it's no different than attending any other social event alone
you’re definitely right - it’s a mentality that people have and don’t really think about why that mentality even exists
Hell yes! I love the discarding of weird social norms. Plus, if your area has movie theater subscriptions, you can save a lot more money if you go often (Bodies Bodies Bodies was great, too)
exactly!! you get it 👏🏻
I did it for the first time in I think 2017(?) and realized it wasn't as weird as everyone says it is. I mean its not like you talk to your friends while you watch the movie anyway (unless youre an asshole). Of course like everyone else I enjoy watching movies with my friends but sometimes if I'm in the mood to watch a movie and don't want the trouble of asking around if anyone wants to go with me, its just easier to go alone. I also watch movies alone if im doing a rewatch in cinemas so I can really take it in more
exactly!!! you’re basically alone in the cinema even if there’s people around you
it’s all about balance :)
going to the theaters alone is the only way i go. Avengers Endgame was the last movie i seen with someone (2019)
to be fair that’s probably a good one to watch with people but i definitely respect it !!!
though i hardly go to the cinema alone anymore cos i hardly go to the cinema at all (my loss, i know!) i do know i often preferred to be alone and in an empty or near empty film house. why? if i was with friends i became too conscious as to whether they were enjoying themselves (or in the case of one friend who seemed to fall asleep almost every time, even when there were explosions going on screen!), and if i had mistaken what they might enjoy. or dealing with noise of other patrons, like patrons who use their phone or chatter through the film. or make loud eating noises. I've been at one cinema where someone brought a whole hot meal in foil and proceeded to stink the place out. or at "The Killing Fields" where some disgusting individuals laughed at the awful carnage, or the ones at "The Elephant Man" who complained loudly cos it wasn't the creature feature type horror film they were expecting. or the group of school girls, who like my friend and I, had snuck out of school to go see "Alien", but then proceeded to scream so much at any cause, it's what i imagine going to a Beatles concert and never hearing their music over the screaming fans, was like. i admit some big audiences at a comedy can get you into the mood of the film though. but between rising prices, poor cinema etiquette of audiences i realised that I'd do better to invest in a big screen tv, and a data projector so i could play things extra-large on a wall. And if i dare risk going to a theatre, it's after I've worked out where the best value is and the times likely to have the least crowd. the funniest downside to that though, was seeing something like "The House on Sorority Row" as part of a double feature and being the only person in the cinema. The ticket seller didn't tell the projectionist there was a customer and they couldn't see anyone in the auditorium so the movie was turned off after the first reel!! that was the scariest part of the whole outing, lol!
wow … that was an incredible comment! you seem to have had SO many interesting movie going experiences, and what I love that most is that you remember everything
and you’re the only person who has mentioned how expensive it is to go to the cinema, especially if you get popcorn etc - that’s why i mostly go when it’s a movie I REALLY REALLY want to see
I see you have another comment, so imma go read that and reply to that
This video is a bit surreal for me, since I've been going to the cinema alone as far as I can remember, going to the movies alone is more normal than you know, never thought someone would make an entire video out of going alone once as if they were doing something completely altruistic lol
that’s interesting, to me, it was definitely strange as going to the cinema alone was never a thing, even when i mentioned it to friends etc they thought it was very strange, it might be because i’m from somewhere quite small with no local cinemas - i made the video because I wanted to explore that and try it, would be a bit silly if i went to the cinema alone 10 times, vlogged and discussed it each time, that’s why I recorded about my experience once :)
@@PavelTalks I've actually never been to the movies with a group of friends, believe it or not
@@isaiasovelar4434 we’re definitely the opposite, i wonder which you would prefer hmmm 🤔 both are fun in their own ways !
Cool video, hope to see more from you👌👌👍!
thank you✌🏼🌞💛
I've been watching more movies on average in the past couple of months than any other time in my life. I'm not a streaming guy. I've always been a cinema kid. There are hundreds of factors when bringing a group together for a movie. Everyone needs to be available. Everyone should have a common interest in the film. Everyone wants to watch a decent film. Everyone wants to get their money's worth. But the fact is everyone is different.
I'm inclined to choose a safe movie when going with a crowd, but I can experiment more when I go on my own. I recently paid money to watch Babylon. This movie is over 3 hours long, has extremely polarising reviews, and was a flop at the box office. It's clear to see this movie isn't everyone's cup of tea, but I loved it. If I waited to find someone to go with, I likely would've never caught it on a big screen. Even now, I can't convince my friends to watch it.
Get comfortable doing things on your own! You learn very little about your preferences if you play it safe.
I admire that you go to the movies more than stream, that’s so so cool!
everything you said is absolutely right, especially about bringing a group of people to the cinema - it’s almost impossible to make it perfect, so why not go alone and embrace it 🫶🏻
ps i really want to watch babylon
It was weird when I was 16. Now at 46, it's preferable.
i used to think it was weird when i was younger too!
No, what's weird is when you are in an empty cinema and one person sits directly behind you. I moved!
very specific but very true 😂
It gets easier the more you do it
very true! it’s strange but worth it
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Going to the cinema alone isn't bad I do it I am even from watching Dungeons & Dragons alone non of my friends wanted to see it so I decided to do it myself I treat it as a reward to myself if you can binge a series by yourself there is nothing weird with going to the cinema alone
you’re very right !! plus I heard that’s a great movie, so you probably had a fun time 👏🏻
If I’ve been really looking forward to a film, I’ll go on my own. I’m not waiting for some jackass to be ready to join me
you’re right - I would feel awful if I missed a great movie because of thag
I find it always a hassle to ask a friend or family member to go the see a movie, it’s always I don’t know, I really don’t like that actor, I don’t really like that type of movie or can we go see a different type of movie, so I found I better to go alone watch the movie and be done with all the debating.😊
definitely; sometimes it’s easier to just do things yourself lol
I have to go alone because my best friend is jobless and doesn't have the money to get AMC Stubs too 😑
aren’t amc tickets super expensive? i’m from ireland so i haven’t a clue haha
id love to compare prices !
Nah not really
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Going to the cinema these days is weird period.
each to their own!
its only weird if you make it weird
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No, it’s not.
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@@PavelTalks Not a question not a problem.
@@Verboten-xn4rx good, i state that it’s a good thing :)