My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.
I love how in tune Jay is to his wife's emotions. Before she started crying, he picked up that she was getting emotional and immediately put a hand on her leg to bring comfort. I think a lot of men don't know what to do when a woman cries. For me, a simple hug means everything in that moment. It says, "I'm here for you and I've got you!" There is tremendous feeling of safety inside of a husband's arms next to his chest because, of course, that's where his heart is. Women also need to allow their husband to comfort them and be okay with being vulnerable. ❤ Good job, Jay!
How refreshing to hear a couple where each other give each other credit rather than blame each other. “You’ve always been supportive” “It’s because you’ve always been consistent”. So sweet!!
@@drwellbeing2023She’s so gorgeous. Many times, not always, men will put up with more when their wife is extremely beautiful. I had a boyfriend once, who put up with everything from me. It was kind of unfair of me. He has died since then, and I still feel guilty.
Condolences on the loss of your boyfriend, and on the guilt that you are carrying. I wonder if he "knew" in his heart of hearts that behind your "unfair" behaviours, you are really a good person? Otherwise, why would he have put up with it? And why would you be so aware of it yourself now? What are you doing to forgive yourself? Have you tried "talking" to him in your mind, or writing him a letter to express your regret at how you behaved? Perhaps the letter can be symbolically burned in a private little ceremony out in nature where you can send healing love to him, asking him to forgive you. I do hope you can forgive yourself, so that you can heal and live a full and happy life @@lisagrimes4801
I liked when he said: you shouldn't make your partner dependent on you. Rather, you should guide him/her to love themselves. Indeed, making a person dependent on you showcases our insecurities and alter ego nature.
I’m 72 years old now. I spent 34 years in 3 different marriages and I’ve been reflecting my part in those relationships as I’m listening to you both share. Interestingly I wonder if my last 10 years alone haven’t been so good because I’m in a relationship with myself. I’m experiencing many of the same things I would with a partner but with just myself. I grew up in the 1950s and 60s when the ideas you talk about were very rare in our society and especially in my family. Thank you for giving me more love and depth and understanding in my own relationship with myself.
I feel women should not even consider getting married until they have had some time on their own. Thats when you learn how to survive on your own and can appreciate when that special one comes along.
I understand you so well as I am doing the same and I'm so happy to be alone and build my own reality and realize what I want, its so satisfying! a big hug
We bring ourselves and our "stuff" into any relationship...so, if we haven't worked that out, it'll be reflected back and create more ongoing issues, until we compassionately heal. We contain all of it inside...so relationship with others or self, it'll be there. We most often blame others for hurting us....when the truth is, they are merely triggering the pain we already contain within. Be mindful to how your internal dialogue is. If you are self critical, saying a lot of "shoulds" to yourself, and so on, you will continue to have problems in relation to yourself and others. When we deeply heal our core wounds, question our narratives, challenge our cognitive distortions and biases...we open up the possibility to show up for ourselves fully, having our own back, self efficacy. We then attract others who will reflect that back. May you be well 💫
I really wish I could hear you say what you wrote hear over a cup of tea. I feel there's so much I'd like to hear from you from all the experiences you have gathered over the years sorely in your marriages. you sound wise.❤
I definitely cried when Radhi started crying, I felt that. I have a husband who is everything I am not (which is good) but can be intimidating as his wife. I feel the pressure to have to keep up and just be "perfect" all the time. I appreciated your vulnerability and the rawness of this conversation; you are both so inspiring and amazing.
Omg she is so vibrant... I find her so invigorating and wise. Don´t even know how Jay knew she was about to cry. Must be so hard to be put under the spotlight and accept to be part of the whole teaching and sharing wisdom that Jay does. Radhi is by far the most genuine person on social media right now. So vulnerable, so honest, so imperfectly perfect, and full of energy... Just inspiring to see and hear.
How wonderful it must be to have such honest, open and KIND communication. I have not ever experienced this level of love/respect/honesty with any of my relationships. This is beautiful to witness.
That expression of raw emotion was so beautiful...no shame or ridicule. Jay even made sure to reiterate that she doesn't need to stop crying. Very refreshing to see especially since it's often looked down upon being highly sensitive 🥺 💞
Love the part where he said if you love someone try to make them fall in love with themselves. Yup, you're absolutely right, its extremely hard to do that in so many ways. I love how in tune you guys are and the admiration for one another is so beautiful to see. Cheers!
This is called True relationship. Healthy one where there is no drama cheating betrayal lies & emotional set backs. Clear communication & fair intentions inspire me.
I ve never seen someone more beautiful and grateful for being loved and accepted. You are both beautiful soul’s and that is wonderful. That’s takes a huge amount of wisdom ❤ Her tears are gold.
When she started to cry, I did too. She is beautiful and I loved that you two are willing to share your relationship with us. It gives such a real and relatable image of what love could be. Thank you for this.
I got married to my husband a couple of months after I turned 18. He was 24. We literally knew each other 3 months before saying I do. It felt so natural and as though we were meant for each other. Almost 22 years and 2 kids later he is still my best friend. This is not to say our relationship is perfect but to us it’s right..like we were literally created for one another…to learn and grow with. We are definitely soul mates. After all this time we are still learning things about each other and our relationship. It’s a beautiful thing. Never stop learning about each other and taking interest in each other. That’s such a key part. Committing yourself to a life partner is a journey. Sometimes that journey seems smooth and easy and sometimes the journey is bumpy and difficult. And it is lifelong. You have to embrace all the seasons. Partners teach us a lot about ourselves also. It can be messy and beautiful all at the same time. We get this one life..make the most of it no matter who or where you are. Love and be loved ❤
Thank you for not editing out when Radhi got tearful. There's so much video content where people DO want to appear perfect. Perfect house, perfectly in shape, perfect relationship. There's a difference when someone offers something from the heart vs a facade. I felt the ❤ in this podcast. Thank you. :)
This is one of the most refreshing podcast that I’ve watched in a long time! Considering that Jay and Rahdi have been together 10 years, the love and respect they show freely in front of each other is amazing! So great to hear each of them explain how the other has impacted their lives clearly. It’s obvious that to have this type of conversation we need to know ourselves extremely well…
Being with someone who brings the best out of you while loving the core of who you are is goals. I can tell even though you guys aren’t “perfect” you are perfect for each other. Love what Jay said about not hindering people by doing things for them, instead showing them how to be better. Also I love his wife’s personality. We are all on a growth path but confidently owning who you are and where you are in life without distortions is gold. ❤
I completely agree with you! When you're with someone who brings out the best in you and accepts you for who you are at your core, that's truly the ultimate goal in a relationship. Nobody is perfect, but finding someone who is perfect for you makes all the difference.
Jay really loves Radhi, i have never seen any man in this much love in relationship, he notices her single thing and the way he appreciates her and looks at her.
Radhi is such a beautiful soul inside & out... glad she found someone to cherish her in this lifetime, who is equally as beautiful inside & out. Both are genuine loving people and I can only wish everyone else is as fortunate as them in their lifetime.
His realization she loved him for who he is, not for how he’s doing, hit deep. It’s the difference between unconditional vs conditional love. One of them is evergreen, whereas the other floats like a leave in the wind. Keep on lovin 💚
Radhi has changed my life through being herself. Her wisdom always comes when I need to hear it the most! She is so awesome! I miss her presence on youtube, but I too am a private person so I understand. Thank you Radhi for sharing, it’s truly so so helpful and touching!
Summary 00:00 Loving someone means making them fall more in love with themselves 05:30 Relationship survived major life changes 15:41 Helping someone find their own voice takes patience and is more valuable than fixing them. 20:30 Sharing ups and downs of a relationship to show imperfection 29:46 Perfection doesn't equal happiness, focus on what makes you happy 34:46 Investing time and energy in relationships is crucial for meaningful connections. 44:29 Celebrating others' success is important 49:17 Building connection through shared experiences 58:36 Regular check-ins and quality time are crucial for a strong relationship. 1:03:11 Investing time in relationships is crucial
Watching Radhi getting emotional and teary and then owning it and not apologising - so appreciate that. Also, appreciate Jay supporting Radhi in that moment and helping her calm down. I personally struggle a lot with expressing when I’m emotional infront of even closest of people. If at all I do tear up, I find myself apologising again and again.. as I feel that I’m embarrassing people around me. Watching Radhi made me realise that it’s so ok to cry and not feel bad about it. I’m encouraged to be more vulnerable around loved ones.
Yes Radha has no idea the impact she just made by crying on camera. I’m a crier too when it comes to feeling many emotions and I always try to hide it for the fear of embarrassing others. Crying in public should be more normalized.
It’s so interesting, I have been a coach for 32 years. I have had, basically strangers, tell me in their first session their deepest and darkest. I play my cards so close to my vest, personally. I mean, I share with my family, friends and clients antidotally, when appropriate, in order to help them. But I don’t really show vulnerability much. I am extremely successful in helping others. I could be even more so probably if I allowed myself to be more vulnerable… not “in control “… Lots to ponder 😊
@@InsideouttrainingWB I so agree with you! I ain’t a coach and yet I find myself wanting to put up a strong front all the time! And even when I do end shedding tears - I immediately try to hide it as I think I’m being weak and that’s not how I want the people to view me. Being vulnerable takes courage and more than that a really safe environment - ain’t that easy to find.
I love Radhika’s words on perfection. It is SO true that things that are considered “perfect” don’t make us happy. What makes me happy right now is my self-exploration and schedule I made of things that I love to do and some new things that I’m trying. This isn’t something anyone would probably view as perfect or even valuable yet has made me happier than I’ve been in a long time.
They are the biggest fans of each other. Loved this interview. Thank you for setting bar high and for setting an example of a healthy relationship between two people that truly care about each other ❤
❤❤❤ this chat. One day, I’ll have an amazing relationship like that. Transparency, love, communication, a reflection of how much one invested we both will be. ❤
Love episodes like this. You two really bring out the best version of each other. You can tell how much deep and pure love there is. Not perfect but so wonderful to see. Wish you guys a lifetime of growth together, success, love. ❤
I’m just half way in and I could not feel more relaxed about the way I am. The messy part is being always pushed away and try to hide it from everyone instead of just let it be and embrace it. The energy that comes from both of you in so pure/clear/deep that you can not but relax and enjoy this beautiful conversation. I don’t think the two of you are perfect and I that makes me happy 😊because I can stop looking for perfection and still be able to grow and be happy ❤ Lots of love you two Xx
Agreed and to add being abused and never being treated as a human but more like a slave. Made to feel bad for wanting affection or a date night. I don’t see perfect because perfection takes time. When you love someone you love with them all their faults. Changing someone for your ego isn’t a good gesture because it leads to hatred. I got more love than hatred for anyone but I will never love again or trust anyone with my heart. Assuming I had the perfect life, and assuming it could only get better with the ups and downs. Only to realize it’s been a lie and scam all while being abused and made to feel like trash. Broke me and building from scratch wasn’t easy. I got my life back on track and praying daily God made everything that harmed me take its rightful place. Won my lawsuit and living like I never have not knowing what happiness was. Very interesting though .
@@azurenylas1992 I’m so sorry to hear about all of this. Its sad that we get to experience so much hurt sometimes in a relationship, but that’s not Love, not the kind, sweet and forever patient, and you deserve this love! God will take care of you, you are his perfect creation, he’s helping you grow. I know sometimes it’s too hard, just from you saying to needed to go to the court, but don’t give up, take a break, grow in Gods and all well be just fine ❤️ God bless you and keep you safe ❤️
I have learned so much about myself in this podcast, this was so GOOD!!!! Not many people talk about the downs in relationships in the ups and downs. I loved both authentic perspectives.
I love the authentic feeling she shows. I am also a crier, mad or sad or happy or frustrated will bring out tears. Thank you for this genuine podcast ❤❤
Beautiful…simply amazing. I love the fact that even though a partner can be critical of you because they want the best for you and yet there is no element of judging from the other person. That positive mindset and confidence on your partner’s critical remarks is so relaxing.
24:32 he saw the lip twitch and knew right away she was going to cry. I love that he's that perceptive of his partner and wish more people, including myself, were that in tune with the people in their lives to pick up on these things and respond in a healthy way.
What stood out to me in this video is when Radhi got emotional, she started to explain that people don't have to be worried. It shows that she grew up, but her marriage to Jay is a safe place for her to show her emotions and where people truly care about her.
It is so cool watching the past podcast compared to this one. I feel how much more grounded and confident you both are individually, which is ultimately strengthening the relationship. What a beautiful couple!
If you guys are not perfection together I don’t know WHO ever will be ❤ I do know what you mean about perfect… No perfection is tooo much pressure! Leaving everybody room to be and believe what they choose freedom and happiness is in the end what everyone wants 🙏🏼 thank you. You both live the example of LOVE it’s VERY INSPIRING ❤
Thanks for this beautiful share. You both are so precious💖. I just want Radhi to know one thing: You ARE perfect with ALL the emotions and ups and downs that you have. Us women especially, we are made to experience life in cycles (every month especially due to our hormonal changes), and to gain wisdom from that we NEED to go through moments of doubt, solitude and grief. This world currently is built for a linear life, and I guess I just want you to know: I see you and I honor you in your full expression with ALL that that includes💖. Bless you, love🙏🏼.
Watching this on Valentines Day, my husband is away for work. When Rhad started 😢 I started crying too (more actually) my husband is so amazing and I appreciate him more every single day. You guys are amazing!
This conversation is so intelligent and genuine. You guys showed that you're so deeply in touch with your vulnerabilities. Radhi, thank you so much for your honesty and humour. I appreciate you a lot!
Watching Jay sense/feeling what was going on with his partner brought tears to my eyes because I literally felt it. I never had a guy be able to do that or be/feel that. It just beautiful. Men...take notes.
So beautiful to see the love, respect, sensitivity, and admiration they have for one another. I loved hearing how they seem to have a shared desire to work through issues, support each other, and embrace their own personal growth journey! Continued blessings! ❤
Two flames kindled in sync each radiating in support for the other, they both shine together so brilliantly, this was marvelous to watch and truly listen to! 🥰
😢I've cried through this whole conversation because I saw myself & my husband in both of you,we are all working on healing from past wounds & it takes time but it is beautiful if a husband & wife love each other through this journey of choosing to be & stay together forgiving each other for all the little things we get wrong or do wrong & not giving up on each other just loving each other with all out inperfections❤
I'M A CRIER AND LOVE HOW SHE ANNOUCED THAT ! Thank you for keeping this vulnerable moment in the video and sharing it with us. We appreciate your vulnerability ❤️
I can’t stop thanking you guys for your honesty transparency and cuteness & love. I have tears in my eyes couple of times during this interview. Thank you ❤️
What a loving and amazing couple! Truly authentic and honest with their relationship. The world needs this couple and this episode so please keep doing it. Thank you Jay & Radhi!!
The most important thing is you both understand your cultural roots. It's so-so romantic to see you both talking together please bring Radhinka once every six months at least, there is so much to learn from you both as a couple and also as a person, it feels much more romantic than any typical scene of any movie or anything. For me, it's always a treat to watch you both together.
what makes it so difficult to understand from what they said initially ? she doesnt like to come on too often which is why after much prodding she finally came. aap indians ko kuch kam sunaai padta hai ?
Thanks You two!!! My favorite parts: 1) How to Include the changes of growth... Individually within the Unit 2)Commitment to scheduled Check-Ins... Daily, weekly, monthly, annually! #Solid😍😍
Watching this feels so real and mesmerizing at the same time. I had been noticing the gestures and non-verbal cues, of Radhika especially, She looks so genuine and honest with what she says. It's so apt and perfect that two perfect couple yet imperfect talking about their imperfection on a perfect podcast. Love ❤
Radhi is a power house! Brilliant, articulate confident, georgeous extremely successful. She holds her own, driven. Destined. Elevate her to that level!!
I started crying when she started crying but I found it amazing how he instantly realized that her emotions shifted and was just there for her. ❤ beautiful
I really enjoy listening to you guys. I've been with my husband for 30 years, 22 of them married. But I'm finding I've changed in ways that I feel good about me and evolved, but my husband thinks he has not and has a hard accepting we both have grown up and changed despite thinking that no changed has happened. Life and our experiences have changed us. This makes its hard to talk to him on a deep level because he is not open to to moving forward differently. He always refers to the past. I know neither of us has been perfect, but to me is learning and moving past it and moving in a positive and loving way. But its hard. Sometimes its like taking one step forward and half step back.
Healing core wounds, questioning cognitive distortions....healing your attachment style, are all key factors in all of that. I wish you healing and peace 💫
It is an honour and privilege to witness this conversation between Radhika and Jay. They are open, honest, authentic, vulnerabe and mature individuals. They are normalizing being human, healing and growing. They are perfectly human and it is beautiful to observe. Wonderful gift.
Radhi, your authenticity and self-awareness is so refreshing. I feel the empath in your personality. A fellow empath, I love you shared that in real time. The world needs this share!!
It was intriguing how good they both are about not interrupting one another but they interrupt their own statements with some frequency. I nodded/giggled when she commented about learning to be more succinct because I was getting so lost in these long, disconnected sentences. I sometimes felt like I was on explanatory highways to nowhere but they appeared to completely comprehend what the other meant😅. It might be just me.
I felt that too - these emotions - and had tears in my eyes. I believe it is important to be authentically yourself and that there is no need to 'keep up with sth. or someone'.
Thank you for being so authentic. I honestly hate when people are expected to be happy and perfect all the time. I think there is nothing wrong with knowing your strengths and weaknesses and being ok with that!
I really relate to her strong emotions. I am definitely a crier too and there's nothing wrong with that. I really admire her continuing the discussion and showing that raw emotion. This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I relate so much to Radhi in her questioning of what she's doing with her life. I question everything all the time! I am also not always certain in my decisions.
I have been waiting for this podcast for 2 years. I enjoyed your honest and meaningful conversation. Can't wait to see what you two bring in the future. Thank you for sharing your personal relationship bits with the world to help people learn or at least see a different side.
Radhi, thank you for showing your emotions. I’ve cried with you. I’ve laughed with you. May you keep choosing what feels true to yourself and may you let go of everything that doesn’t. 🌱💛
My single ass just keep smiling throughout this episode. Radhi is absolutely stunning and the look of pride on Jay’s face when he was listening to her talk made me smile. Love them both.
I absolutely LOVED this episode! Felt like I was right in the room with you too and feel inspired by your beautiful connection! Wishing both of you eternal happiness.. & grateful for all the work that you both do!
❤❤❤!!! All the Feels! This chat between you two was so helpful and enlightening for all, but especially for those of us who are in newer relationships & trying to do our absolute best to finally get this 'relationship thing' right. Thanks so much to you both! Life can be wonderful single, but it's so much more amazing when taking the journey with the right partner, who's 'perfectly imperfect' for you 💞
My wife is 8 months pregnant and as she was driving today, she got involved in a terrible head collision accident. Her car was pushed away 15 metres away while she was inside. I thank God she survived and the baby is okay. God is great.
God is Good. Praying for a healthy delivery.
Praise God!!!!!!
Amen
thank God
Amen!! Our Almighty God
"I am not telling you to stop crying" - that is actually very powerful. He clearly understands these aspects of the mind :)
I love how in tune Jay is to his wife's emotions. Before she started crying, he picked up that she was getting emotional and immediately put a hand on her leg to bring comfort. I think a lot of men don't know what to do when a woman cries. For me, a simple hug means everything in that moment. It says, "I'm here for you and I've got you!" There is tremendous feeling of safety inside of a husband's arms next to his chest because, of course, that's where his heart is. Women also need to allow their husband to comfort them and be okay with being vulnerable. ❤ Good job, Jay!
I agree men need to gain more emotional intelligence.
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@Danielle M we all are blessed, you just have to patiently wait for the one from God.
You could sense her emotions surfacing. I totally cried when she did! I understood her path and loved how he took care of her. ❤
My boyfriend laughs at me when I start crying.
“I’m not telling you to stop crying” 25:26 the way he created a safe space for her to feel out her emotions is so godly
How refreshing to hear a couple where each other give each other credit rather than blame each other. “You’ve always been supportive” “It’s because you’ve always been consistent”. So sweet!!
Er they have plenty of dirty laundry like everyone else and remember it’s a podcast to make them lots of money so they are good actors at play!!
@@drwellbeing2023She’s so gorgeous. Many times, not always, men will put up with more when their wife is extremely beautiful. I had a boyfriend once, who put up with everything from me. It was kind of unfair of me. He has died since then, and I still feel guilty.
Condolences on the loss of your boyfriend, and on the guilt that you are carrying. I wonder if he "knew" in his heart of hearts that behind your "unfair" behaviours, you are really a good person? Otherwise, why would he have put up with it? And why would you be so aware of it yourself now? What are you doing to forgive yourself? Have you tried "talking" to him in your mind, or writing him a letter to express your regret at how you behaved? Perhaps the letter can be symbolically burned in a private little ceremony out in nature where you can send healing love to him, asking him to forgive you. I do hope you can forgive yourself, so that you can heal and live a full and happy life @@lisagrimes4801
Everyone is perfect on social media to make millions.
It’s a scam
I liked when he said: you shouldn't make your partner dependent on you. Rather, you should guide him/her to love themselves.
Indeed, making a person dependent on you showcases our insecurities and alter ego nature.
Same here🤍
I’m 72 years old now. I spent 34 years in 3 different marriages and I’ve been reflecting my part in those relationships as I’m listening to you both share. Interestingly I wonder if my last 10 years alone haven’t been so good because I’m in a relationship with myself. I’m experiencing many of the same things I would with a partner but with just myself. I grew up in the 1950s and 60s when the ideas you talk about were very rare in our society and especially in my family.
Thank you for giving me more love and depth and understanding in my own relationship with myself.
I feel women should not even consider getting married until they have had some time on their own. Thats when you learn how to survive on your own and can appreciate when that special one comes along.
I understand you so well as I am doing the same and I'm so happy to be alone and build my own reality and realize what I want, its so satisfying! a big hug
We bring ourselves and our "stuff" into any relationship...so, if we haven't worked that out, it'll be reflected back and create more ongoing issues, until we compassionately heal.
We contain all of it inside...so relationship with others or self, it'll be there.
We most often blame others for hurting us....when the truth is, they are merely triggering the pain we already contain within.
Be mindful to how your internal dialogue is. If you are self critical, saying a lot of "shoulds" to yourself, and so on, you will continue to have problems in relation to yourself and others.
When we deeply heal our core wounds, question our narratives, challenge our cognitive distortions and biases...we open up the possibility to show up for ourselves fully, having our own back, self efficacy. We then attract others who will reflect that back.
May you be well 💫
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I really wish I could hear you say what you wrote hear over a cup of tea. I feel there's so much I'd like to hear from you from all the experiences you have gathered over the years sorely in your marriages. you sound wise.❤
I definitely cried when Radhi started crying, I felt that. I have a husband who is everything I am not (which is good) but can be intimidating as his wife. I feel the pressure to have to keep up and just be "perfect" all the time. I appreciated your vulnerability and the rawness of this conversation; you are both so inspiring and amazing.
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This!
I instantly cried as well! Such a great conversation between two beautiful and loving people.
Same 😢
seriously
Omg she is so vibrant... I find her so invigorating and wise. Don´t even know how Jay knew she was about to cry. Must be so hard to be put under the spotlight and accept to be part of the whole teaching and sharing wisdom that Jay does. Radhi is by far the most genuine person on social media right now. So vulnerable, so honest, so imperfectly perfect, and full of energy... Just inspiring to see and hear.
I agree!! I think she's so confident but adorably feminine at the same time!
He saw her. (But our camera was on him at that moment.)
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Time stamp when she got emotional?
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How wonderful it must be to have such honest, open and KIND communication.
I have not ever experienced this level of love/respect/honesty with any of my relationships. This is beautiful to witness.
That expression of raw emotion was so beautiful...no shame or ridicule. Jay even made sure to reiterate that she doesn't need to stop crying. Very refreshing to see especially since it's often looked down upon being highly sensitive 🥺 💞
Being vulnerable is valid. I love Jay and how he encourages people to be genuine.
Wha to do if you have caffeine right before bed
Love the part where he said if you love someone try to make them fall in love with themselves. Yup, you're absolutely right, its extremely hard to do that in so many ways. I love how in tune you guys are and the admiration for one another is so beautiful to see. Cheers!
O Jay...I don't think you could have a partner more perfect than Radhi, you are so wonderful together❤️
This is called True relationship. Healthy one where there is no drama cheating betrayal lies & emotional set backs. Clear communication & fair intentions inspire me.
When Radhi started crying🥹🥹 how Jay jumped into action awwww🫶🏼 Same girl! I cry about everything ✨✨
same 🥲
Me too :)❤
I ve never seen someone more beautiful and grateful for being loved and accepted. You are both beautiful soul’s and that is wonderful. That’s takes a huge amount of wisdom ❤ Her tears are gold.
When she started to cry, I did too. She is beautiful and I loved that you two are willing to share your relationship with us. It gives such a real and relatable image of what love could be. Thank you for this.
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I started crying too
I got married to my husband a couple of months after I turned 18. He was 24. We literally knew each other 3 months before saying I do. It felt so natural and as though we were meant for each other. Almost 22 years and 2 kids later he is still my best friend. This is not to say our relationship is perfect but to us it’s right..like we were literally created for one another…to learn and grow with. We are definitely soul mates. After all this time we are still learning things about each other and our relationship. It’s a beautiful thing. Never stop learning about each other and taking interest in each other. That’s such a key part. Committing yourself to a life partner is a journey. Sometimes that journey seems smooth and easy and sometimes the journey is bumpy and difficult. And it is lifelong. You have to embrace all the seasons. Partners teach us a lot about ourselves also. It can be messy and beautiful all at the same time. We get this one life..make the most of it no matter who or where you are. Love and be loved ❤
Thank you for not editing out when Radhi got tearful. There's so much video content where people DO want to appear perfect. Perfect house, perfectly in shape, perfect relationship. There's a difference when someone offers something from the heart vs a facade. I felt the ❤ in this podcast. Thank you. :)
This is one of the most refreshing podcast that I’ve watched in a long time! Considering that Jay and Rahdi have been together 10 years, the love and respect they show freely in front of each other is amazing!
So great to hear each of them explain how the other has impacted their lives clearly.
It’s obvious that to have this type of conversation we need to know ourselves extremely well…
I was just telling my boyfriend how Radhi makes me feel so normal with my emotions 🥺👉🏼👈🏼 normalizing people who feel deeply about every experience ❤️✨
❤Absolutely
Being with someone who brings the best out of you while loving the core of who you are is goals. I can tell even though you guys aren’t “perfect” you are perfect for each other.
Love what Jay said about not hindering people by doing things for them, instead showing them how to be better.
Also I love his wife’s personality. We are all on a growth path but confidently owning who you are and where you are in life without distortions is gold. ❤
I completely agree with you! When you're with someone who brings out the best in you and accepts you for who you are at your core, that's truly the ultimate goal in a relationship. Nobody is perfect, but finding someone who is perfect for you makes all the difference.
The kind of Love I want to spend the rest of my days.
Jay really loves Radhi, i have never seen any man in this much love in relationship, he notices her single thing and the way he appreciates her and looks at her.
I agree
Radhi is such a beautiful soul inside & out... glad she found someone to cherish her in this lifetime, who is equally as beautiful inside & out. Both are genuine loving people and I can only wish everyone else is as fortunate as them in their lifetime.
His realization she loved him for who he is, not for how he’s doing, hit deep. It’s the difference between unconditional vs conditional love. One of them is evergreen, whereas the other floats like a leave in the wind. Keep on lovin 💚
Radhi has changed my life through being herself. Her wisdom always comes when I need to hear it the most! She is so awesome! I miss her presence on youtube, but I too am a private person so I understand. Thank you Radhi for sharing, it’s truly so so helpful and touching!
I love hearing the authenticity, vulnerability, and honesty around their relationship.
Summary
00:00 Loving someone means making them fall more in love with themselves
05:30 Relationship survived major life changes
15:41 Helping someone find their own voice takes patience and is more valuable than fixing them.
20:30 Sharing ups and downs of a relationship to show imperfection
29:46 Perfection doesn't equal happiness, focus on what makes you happy
34:46 Investing time and energy in relationships is crucial for meaningful connections.
44:29 Celebrating others' success is important
49:17 Building connection through shared experiences
58:36 Regular check-ins and quality time are crucial for a strong relationship.
1:03:11 Investing time in relationships is crucial
Thank you
Watching Radhi getting emotional and teary and then owning it and not apologising - so appreciate that. Also, appreciate Jay supporting Radhi in that moment and helping her calm down.
I personally struggle a lot with expressing when I’m emotional infront of even closest of people. If at all I do tear up, I find myself apologising again and again.. as I feel that I’m embarrassing people around me. Watching Radhi made me realise that it’s so ok to cry and not feel bad about it. I’m encouraged to be more vulnerable around loved ones.
Yes Radha has no idea the impact she just made by crying on camera. I’m a crier too when it comes to feeling many emotions and I always try to hide it for the fear of embarrassing others. Crying in public should be more normalized.
It’s so interesting, I have been a coach for 32 years. I have had, basically strangers, tell me in their first session their deepest and darkest. I play my cards so close to my vest, personally. I mean, I share with my family, friends and clients antidotally, when appropriate, in order to help them. But I don’t really show vulnerability much. I am extremely successful in helping others. I could be even more so probably if I allowed myself to be more vulnerable… not “in control “…
Lots to ponder 😊
@@InsideouttrainingWB I so agree with you! I ain’t a coach and yet I find myself wanting to put up a strong front all the time! And even when I do end shedding tears - I immediately try to hide it as I think I’m being weak and that’s not how I want the people to view me. Being vulnerable takes courage and more than that a really safe environment - ain’t that easy to find.
@@shailydilse , indeed. To show vulnerability shows trust. And that is scary sometimes. Sending good energy your way.🙌🏽🙌🏽
Give her space to feel what she is feeling without trying to fix it right off
I love Radhika’s words on perfection. It is SO true that things that are considered “perfect” don’t make us happy. What makes me happy right now is my self-exploration and schedule I made of things that I love to do and some new things that I’m trying. This isn’t something anyone would probably view as perfect or even valuable yet has made me happier than I’ve been in a long time.
They are the biggest fans of each other. Loved this interview. Thank you for setting bar high and for setting an example of a healthy relationship between two people that truly care about each other ❤
Please do more of these episodes with Radhika ❤️❤️
Lol yes we love radhika
*such
Yess brother, this is my favorite podcasts of all time, please make more podcasts with radhika!
Yes
Isn’t her name simply Radhi? Just curious🤓
❤❤❤ this chat. One day, I’ll have an amazing relationship like that. Transparency, love, communication, a reflection of how much one invested we both will be. ❤
Love episodes like this. You two really bring out the best version of each other. You can tell how much deep and pure love there is. Not perfect but so wonderful to see. Wish you guys a lifetime of growth together, success, love. ❤
Yes you can see in their eyes that they love each other so much
I love when a wife and husband can sit and properly 😍 communicate together ❤️ . It shows, true ❤ is possible.
I’m just half way in and I could not feel more relaxed about the way I am. The messy part is being always pushed away and try to hide it from everyone instead of just let it be and embrace it.
The energy that comes from both of you in so pure/clear/deep that you can not but relax and enjoy this beautiful conversation.
I don’t think the two of you are perfect and I that makes me happy 😊because I can stop looking for perfection and still be able to grow and be happy ❤
Lots of love you two Xx
THIS!!!
Agreed and to add being abused and never being treated as a human but more like a slave. Made to feel bad for wanting affection or a date night.
I don’t see perfect because perfection takes time. When you love someone you love with them all their faults. Changing someone for your ego isn’t a good gesture because it leads to hatred. I got more love than hatred for anyone but I will never love again or trust anyone with my heart.
Assuming I had the perfect life, and assuming it could only get better with the ups and downs. Only to realize it’s been a lie and scam all while being abused and made to feel like trash. Broke me and building from scratch wasn’t easy. I got my life back on track and praying daily God made everything that harmed me take its rightful place. Won my lawsuit and living like I never have not knowing what happiness was.
Very interesting though .
@@azurenylas1992 I’m so sorry to hear about all of this. Its sad that we get to experience so much hurt sometimes in a relationship, but that’s not Love, not the kind, sweet and forever patient, and you deserve this love! God will take care of you, you are his perfect creation, he’s helping you grow. I know sometimes it’s too hard, just from you saying to needed to go to the court, but don’t give up, take a break, grow in Gods and all well be just fine ❤️ God bless you and keep you safe ❤️
Cute you two. Love supportive & playful best friends in a married couple.
You’re the best couple I’ve ever seen! Thank you for sharing your stories, feelings and REAL emotions with us !
I have learned so much about myself in this podcast, this was so GOOD!!!! Not many people talk about the downs in relationships in the ups and downs. I loved both authentic perspectives.
I love the authentic feeling she shows. I am also a crier, mad or sad or happy or frustrated will bring out tears. Thank you for this genuine podcast ❤❤
Amazing guys that’s how couples should talk and find solutions to any misunderstanding. Thank you for sharing with us
Beautiful…simply amazing. I love the fact that even though a partner can be critical of you because they want the best for you and yet there is no element of judging from the other person. That positive mindset and confidence on your partner’s critical remarks is so relaxing.
24:32 he saw the lip twitch and knew right away she was going to cry. I love that he's that perceptive of his partner and wish more people, including myself, were that in tune with the people in their lives to pick up on these things and respond in a healthy way.
What stood out to me in this video is when Radhi got emotional, she started to explain that people don't have to be worried. It shows that she grew up, but her marriage to Jay is a safe place for her to show her emotions and where people truly care about her.
I love how Jay Shetty lets her wife talk and speak everything she has deep inside her soul..
Love love love the advice re: daily check-ins 💜💜💜 And I was sad when this episode ended!!!!!
These two are so in tune despite their obvious independence, a fantastic example of a great couple .
And that’s what the world needs more of… authentic love in the middle of the filming. Thank you for not editing that moment out.
It is so cool watching the past podcast compared to this one. I feel how much more grounded and confident you both are individually, which is ultimately strengthening the relationship. What a beautiful couple!
An hour flew by listening to Jay and his wife speak about love 🥰 I love their connection and their relationship, it's so inspiring!
If you guys are not perfection together I don’t know WHO ever will be ❤ I do know what you mean about perfect…
No perfection is tooo much pressure! Leaving everybody room to be and believe what they choose freedom and happiness is in the end what everyone wants 🙏🏼 thank you. You both live the example of LOVE it’s VERY INSPIRING ❤
Thanks for this beautiful share. You both are so precious💖. I just want Radhi to know one thing: You ARE perfect with ALL the emotions and ups and downs that you have. Us women especially, we are made to experience life in cycles (every month especially due to our hormonal changes), and to gain wisdom from that we NEED to go through moments of doubt, solitude and grief. This world currently is built for a linear life, and I guess I just want you to know: I see you and I honor you in your full expression with ALL that that includes💖. Bless you, love🙏🏼.
love to see you twin flames at union finally serving the higher purpose. Thank you for existing
Married 31 years. Had to learn this with very few tools. Your conversation resonated with us and will help so many relationships.
Watching this on Valentines Day, my husband is away for work. When Rhad started 😢 I started crying too (more actually) my husband is so amazing and I appreciate him more every single day. You guys are amazing!
This conversation is so intelligent and genuine. You guys showed that you're so deeply in touch with your vulnerabilities.
Radhi, thank you so much for your honesty and humour. I appreciate you a lot!
Watching Jay sense/feeling what was going on with his partner brought tears to my eyes because I literally felt it. I never had a guy be able to do that or be/feel that. It just beautiful. Men...take notes.
So beautiful to see the love, respect, sensitivity, and admiration they have for one another. I loved hearing how they seem to have a shared desire to work through issues, support each other, and embrace their own personal growth journey! Continued blessings! ❤
I cried with Radhi.. ❤ she is a beautiful person ❤
Two flames kindled in sync each radiating in support for the other, they both shine together so brilliantly, this was marvelous to watch and truly listen to! 🥰
The chemistry is so real, so deep & so strong what you guys have is so special 💯💖
😢I've cried through this whole conversation because I saw myself & my husband in both of you,we are all working on healing from past wounds & it takes time but it is beautiful if a husband & wife love each other through this journey of choosing to be & stay together forgiving each other for all the little things we get wrong or do wrong & not giving up on each other just loving each other with all out inperfections❤
I'M A CRIER AND LOVE HOW SHE ANNOUCED THAT ! Thank you for keeping this vulnerable moment in the video and sharing it with us. We appreciate your vulnerability ❤️
I can’t stop thanking you guys for your honesty transparency and cuteness & love. I have tears in my eyes couple of times during this interview. Thank you ❤️
What a loving and amazing couple! Truly authentic and honest with their relationship. The world needs this couple and this episode so please keep doing it. Thank you Jay & Radhi!!
The most important thing is you both understand your cultural roots. It's so-so romantic to see you both talking together please bring Radhinka once every six months at least, there is so much to learn from you both as a couple and also as a person, it feels much more romantic than any typical scene of any movie or anything. For me, it's always a treat to watch you both together.
what makes it so difficult to understand from what they said initially ?
she doesnt like to come on too often which is why after much prodding she finally came.
aap indians ko kuch kam sunaai padta hai ?
I love how their both great listeners and give each other the space to express their views.
Episodes with Radhika are amazing 💖 please more
Thanks You two!!! My favorite parts: 1) How to Include the changes of growth... Individually within the Unit 2)Commitment to scheduled Check-Ins... Daily, weekly, monthly, annually! #Solid😍😍
Watching this feels so real and mesmerizing at the same time. I had been noticing the gestures and non-verbal cues, of Radhika especially, She looks so genuine and honest with what she says. It's so apt and perfect that two perfect couple yet imperfect talking about their imperfection on a perfect podcast. Love ❤
Yeah
Wow seeing her cry immediately made me cry. She's so genuine we all feel her realness. We love you Radhi 🩷
Radhi is a power house! Brilliant, articulate confident, georgeous extremely successful. She holds her own, driven. Destined. Elevate her to that level!!
I started crying when she started crying but I found it amazing how he instantly realized that her emotions shifted and was just there for her. ❤ beautiful
I had to send this episode to my partner. It’s almost surreal to watch as I reflect on my relationship. A very therapeutic video. Thank you!
Whatever this connection, energy or journey you both have found in one another
, I hope to find it too. Thank you.
I really enjoy listening to you guys. I've been with my husband for 30 years, 22 of them married. But I'm finding I've changed in ways that I feel good about me and evolved, but my husband thinks he has not and has a hard accepting we both have grown up and changed despite thinking that no changed has happened. Life and our experiences have changed us. This makes its hard to talk to him on a deep level because he is not open to to moving forward differently. He always refers to the past. I know neither of us has been perfect, but to me is learning and moving past it and moving in a positive and loving way. But its hard. Sometimes its like taking one step forward and half step back.
So true going through same with my husband it can be frustrating 🤦🏻♀️
Healing core wounds, questioning cognitive distortions....healing your attachment style, are all key factors in all of that.
I wish you healing and peace 💫
Her physical beauty is captivating. And then you listen to her speak… ❤
I am in a relationship with myself, and this still was so beneficial for me. I love seeing this example of just being yourself....always.
How many wives can honour and respect their husband the way Radhi has…wow🙏🏾👏🏾💐
It is an honour and privilege to witness this conversation between Radhika and Jay. They are open, honest, authentic, vulnerabe and mature individuals. They are normalizing being human, healing and growing. They are perfectly human and it is beautiful to observe. Wonderful gift.
Radhi, your authenticity and self-awareness is so refreshing. I feel the empath in your personality. A fellow empath, I love you shared that in real time. The world needs this share!!
It was intriguing how good they both are about not interrupting one another but they interrupt their own statements with some frequency. I nodded/giggled when she commented about learning to be more succinct because I was getting so lost in these long, disconnected sentences. I sometimes felt like I was on explanatory highways to nowhere but they appeared to completely comprehend what the other meant😅. It might be just me.
I felt that too - these emotions - and had tears in my eyes. I believe it is important to be authentically yourself and that there is no need to 'keep up with sth. or someone'.
Thank you for being so authentic. I honestly hate when people are expected to be happy and perfect all the time. I think there is nothing wrong with knowing your strengths and weaknesses and being ok with that!
I really relate to her strong emotions. I am definitely a crier too and there's nothing wrong with that. I really admire her continuing the discussion and showing that raw emotion. This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I relate so much to Radhi in her questioning of what she's doing with her life. I question everything all the time! I am also not always certain in my decisions.
I love that you both emphasized how quality should be spent. Thank you so much! You are inspiring in many ways. 💕
Thanks Radhika, you always bring a true light out. Can't wait to watch and learn more about your own journey. I love your authenticity. ♥️
I just love the energy, the Love and the friendship you have and how engaging you are to your audience. Your eyes' color, just beautiful!
I just LOVE these two .. I love witnessing the tenderness between the two of them
Thank you for making me cry and realize that true and deep love still exist.
I have been waiting for this podcast for 2 years. I enjoyed your honest and meaningful conversation. Can't wait to see what you two bring in the future. Thank you for sharing your personal relationship bits with the world to help people learn or at least see a different side.
Love these convos! So DEEP and AUTHENTIC! Thank you for honest conversations! MUCH required!
Radhi, thank you for showing your emotions. I’ve cried with you. I’ve laughed with you. May you keep choosing what feels true to yourself and may you let go of everything that doesn’t. 🌱💛
My single ass just keep smiling throughout this episode. Radhi is absolutely stunning and the look of pride on Jay’s face when he was listening to her talk made me smile. Love them both.
I always learn so much from both of you, the way you interact and support each other, it’s truly amazing.
I absolutely LOVED this episode! Felt like I was right in the room with you too and feel inspired by your beautiful connection! Wishing both of you eternal happiness.. & grateful for all the work that you both do!
ughhh Jay is such a realistic ideal certified lover boy I just swoon over the way he looks at his lady ❤️🌈☺️
She’s so genuine and honest…thank you for being yourself..this is what the world need…I have so much respect for both of you!❤
❤❤❤!!! All the Feels! This chat between you two was so helpful and enlightening for all, but especially for those of us who are in newer relationships & trying to do our absolute best to finally get this 'relationship thing' right. Thanks so much to you both! Life can be wonderful single, but it's so much more amazing when taking the journey with the right partner, who's 'perfectly imperfect' for you 💞
People criticize me for crying everytime ....But she approved that crying is not that bad !! Thanku ❤️🦋