How To Detach From People and Situations - Stoicism

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  • @cslewislegacy1
    @cslewislegacy1 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    "We suffer more in our imagination than in reality." - Seneca

    • @krised2351
      @krised2351 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How true is this phrase. Possibilities might be a positive thing to think of, but it's also too dangerous, for the reality is now living in lies.

    • @northstarmn
      @northstarmn ปีที่แล้ว

      Hence religion. Gods, especially jebus are all made up myths.

    • @LamondoHillII
      @LamondoHillII 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      When I first read this quote about 2 years ago now, it shifted my entire outlook on life.

    • @CherieChrist
      @CherieChrist 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So true !!!

    • @Stevenisswarming
      @Stevenisswarming 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Imagination is reality. Reality is the content within consciousness, that beings are experiencing . Everyone is imagining everything that goes on all the time , because consciousness creates reality.

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

    “the root of suffering is attachment.”

    • @ladyd1614
      @ladyd1614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly !! Let them go , if they want to go!!! Bye 👋

  • @Morpheus1128
    @Morpheus1128 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    "to get something you never had you have to do something you never did."

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Self worth, respect, values.

    • @conorscott-x2r
      @conorscott-x2r 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wgengnagjagaghaja glad gakdghakegegjaakegjrtu we’re😢😮🎉😢p

  • @louiseelliott6404
    @louiseelliott6404 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Spot on. Point 6 I’ve just gone off most social media as much as possible except for videos like this which help with personal development and growth.

  • @OnStoicism
    @OnStoicism 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    "The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @KimNgan-uz4si
    @KimNgan-uz4si 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Focusing on what we truly need in life-emotionally and mentally-feels like such an underrated concept. In a world full of distractions, it’s so easy to lose track of what we really need to thrive. This video is a great reminder to be mindful about our choices, and align them with what leads to true fulfillment!

  • @amdeko
    @amdeko 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I will keep clapping for people until its my turn 🎉🎉🎉

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙏💝

  • @ISEEKSPACE
    @ISEEKSPACE 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've been dealing with a car situation for a while now and also been going out a lot with my friends. The amount of stress I feel is becoming too much. I'm very introverted so I know I'm drained. It's good to come back to this vid to center myself because it's so easy to get up on the attachments we have to things and people that we forget ourselves. It's been a pretty hectic year so far just because I feel I haven't stopped "dealing". It's absolutely time for a break.

  • @stoicethics_stoicism
    @stoicethics_stoicism 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Engaging in open and honest communication with trusted individuals is advocated as it strengthens social bonds and provides valuable insights.

  • @TheStoicStrength
    @TheStoicStrength ปีที่แล้ว +56

    "No man is free who is not master of himself." - Epictetus

  • @KnowledgeWisdomLife
    @KnowledgeWisdomLife ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Detachment - a powerful tool for navigating life's challenges

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    "Anger: an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured." - Seneca

    • @gloriabitutu8776
      @gloriabitutu8776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s deep. Thanks

    • @batterbatterswing
      @batterbatterswing 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is it okay to let it out? Seems like there's no answer for the pacifist here

  • @miriamha970
    @miriamha970 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Yes I agree with stepping back to figure out what to take in and what not. How about charging after what you want rather than not knowing what you want and having circumstance and people choosing you. Of course not the later.

  • @wisdomhistoryphilosophy
    @wisdomhistoryphilosophy ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Even the smallest gestures of compassion can have a profound and lasting impact on the world around us

  • @StoicInYourLife
    @StoicInYourLife ปีที่แล้ว +20

    "Fantastic video! It offers a profound insight into the Stoic approach to detachment and maintaining inner peace. As Seneca once said, 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.' This video beautifully encapsulates this philosophy, showing us how to navigate our emotions and relationships with wisdom and composure."

  • @StoicEmblem
    @StoicEmblem หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Life is a journey, not a destination"
    Experience all you want

  • @StoicHabit101
    @StoicHabit101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    " Live a simple life and do not enslave yourself to temporary possessions." - Seneca

  • @WOKELENSUS
    @WOKELENSUS ปีที่แล้ว +15

    ""To live a good life: We have the potential for it. If we learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference" - Marcus Aurelius
    Your video is very interesting, thanks!

  • @ammoodz2313
    @ammoodz2313 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love listening to Kevin Conroy talk about the "stoic dudes"...Gotham will sleep well this night

  • @darrellborland119
    @darrellborland119 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A rather difficult balance comes to the fore, when we consider a friend who means well, but engages in conversations that are a bit demeaning. A power imbalance can occur, creating tension. Therein lies the inner challenge...how to tell them, but leaving an opening for a better friendship. Thanks. subscribed.

  • @LamondoHillII
    @LamondoHillII 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Really needed this, this morning. Thank you for a great lesson. Rules 3,4 and 7 spoke to me as if they were on a loud speaker. Having a philosophical friend to consult with, controlling how much of your emotions you reveal and focus on what is needed not the want. Won’t forget this.

    • @candee2021
      @candee2021 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😮d4

  • @therealHeavensBlessing
    @therealHeavensBlessing ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @Jesusisking235
    @Jesusisking235 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Humans are repelled by clingy people. Learning to detach FROM EVERYONE not only attracts the right people into your life who will SHOW YOU RESPECT, but also repels people who are not healthy for you. The secret is to never chase ANYONE. This is what makes a man attractive because of the inner confidence that is noticed by others.

  • @Mickey-v9p
    @Mickey-v9p ปีที่แล้ว +3

    TRULY VALUABLE INFORMATION & ANALOGIES…..
    🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️

  • @StoicMaster.
    @StoicMaster. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    " Live a life of meaning, not a life of luxury." - Seneca

    • @Evaselfmade
      @Evaselfmade 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can have both, one is not better than the other it's preference

  • @shanhans3945
    @shanhans3945 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really love stoicism. I hope I can become stoic❤

    • @scentsoftravelmeditation
      @scentsoftravelmeditation 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There is no destination in becoming a stoic. You need to believe that you are a stoic and start practicing it. Gradually you improve if your intentions are profound and sincere. The ego wants us to be attached to a goal and that’s how it makes people stuck.
      Buddha said “there is no path to happiness, happiness is the way”
      :)

  • @geroldcoleman1845
    @geroldcoleman1845 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is good for your self

  • @stoicforlife101
    @stoicforlife101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Within you, there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at any time and be yourself."

  • @Brd3p
    @Brd3p ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you.

  • @stoicdna101
    @stoicdna101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Silence is really power. This is the best video I watched about stoic happiness this year so far...I will certainly watch this wonderful content again. I learned a lot. Thank you indeed.

  • @TIMETESTEDADVICE
    @TIMETESTEDADVICE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "The obstacle in the way becomes the way." - Marcus Aurelius -

  • @shirleyac12
    @shirleyac12 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I appreciate this solid advice

  • @nitaunadkat9514
    @nitaunadkat9514 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Amazing wisdom ❤

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .... VERY INTENSE SALUTE ... 🫡 👍🏾 💯

  • @bettybella2417
    @bettybella2417 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @faithmurithi4036
    @faithmurithi4036 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's not that we have a short time to live. it's that we waste most of of it..profound

  • @StoicStrengthUnleashed2024
    @StoicStrengthUnleashed2024 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This video brilliantly explores Stoic principles to help us detach from people and situations, fostering inner tranquility and emotional resilience

  • @BarnYardBronco
    @BarnYardBronco 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I love how it says "the ancient wisdom dudes" 😂

  • @Maria-jo6nn
    @Maria-jo6nn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you 🙏 take a break sounds good to me right now 🖐️

  • @thomassquad4669
    @thomassquad4669 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤ #Step #Away #ModelwithPurpose

  • @linhtholuu8926
    @linhtholuu8926 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So true 🎉

  • @georgeandrews2839
    @georgeandrews2839 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good one . ..

  • @amasslead
    @amasslead 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    "When you lose your temper, you lose your power. You can control any situation if you first control yourself..."
    | Florence Scovel Shinn |

  • @QueenofKyagwe3257
    @QueenofKyagwe3257 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this yeaching

  • @pewrumalnarayanan3477
    @pewrumalnarayanan3477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good

  • @scentsoftravelmeditation
    @scentsoftravelmeditation 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s cool 💙🦋

  • @LongNhật-u1o
    @LongNhật-u1o 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this teaching
    keep it up!

  • @Stoicism4myLife
    @Stoicism4myLife 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A great Video about: The document discusses the principles of stoicism, a philosophy that encourages individuals to cultivate inner tranquility by focusing on what they can control. It outlines four steps to detachment: taking a break to gain perspective, considering whether to distance oneself from a person, and establishing limits for emotional responses. The document emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-awareness of emotions, and the ability to make rational choices based on reason rather than emotion. It also highlights the role of friendship in the pursuit of virtue and the importance of open and honest communication with trusted individuals.

  • @johnpaulino5494
    @johnpaulino5494 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nobody has power over you, but if you’re not aware of your own inner peace, your involuntarily allowing them to disturb your inner peace! 😊
    HERE A TIP: The next time someone bothers or disrespect you, you can respond by turning what they doing into an exercising facility and still stay true to yourself!!! 😅

  • @darnellmitchell9357
    @darnellmitchell9357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    O good advice p good advice I do it all the time I'm a chess player and I teach kids how to play chess and I pulled back all the time and let me let me think and sometimes I make mistakes but you got some God bless you in the universe bless you I wish I had known this about 20 years

  • @JoyWaweru-kf6cd
    @JoyWaweru-kf6cd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow i love this

  • @ladyd1614
    @ladyd1614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only You { Holy Spirit ,The Creator , THE True And Living GOD }.. can I trust as A FRIEND … !! Point , blank and period !! ❤❤❤❤I decree n declare HE IS MY REFUGE !! Life has taught me to much to trust man , mother , father , sister , brother , children .. no thank you !!

  • @RohitKumar-ig8jo
    @RohitKumar-ig8jo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its . D trick..
    Dont try to deatch . Dont try to attach .. not try... U just fly .
    Kerp in mind. Wt u want!!...
    ❤❤

  • @davidcoupal8083
    @davidcoupal8083 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    awesome

  • @belong53
    @belong53 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is what I do alot

  • @beautyonabudget3238
    @beautyonabudget3238 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has helped me so much thank you

  • @Lmorales43
    @Lmorales43 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I believe there might have been a misspelling in the earlier dialogue regarding the term. In Stoicism, the concept you're referring to is indeed "oikeiosis," spelled as such. It represents the idea of natural affinity or familiarization, particularly in terms of human beings' natural inclinations and the development of a sense of self and community. Oikeiosis involves the natural process of an individual's expansion of concern from oneself to encompass family, community, and eventually, humanity as a whole. It's about the progression from self-interest to a broader perspective that includes caring for others and cultivating a sense of social responsibility and virtue.

  • @MarioMontalvo-p7d
    @MarioMontalvo-p7d 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im so detached that you got what you wanted

  • @Stoicism-wr5nb
    @Stoicism-wr5nb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I cannot believe this guy just said "dude" took me right out of your video...

  • @priddy7456
    @priddy7456 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this

  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤

  • @paulinkayukwa1493
    @paulinkayukwa1493 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely

  • @georgegates526
    @georgegates526 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Could have REALLY used this one when I was young.. Too late now.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's never too late. Try not feel so defeated and hard on yourself ❤

  • @westonlittle7300
    @westonlittle7300 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very informative. These are the pathways of life's blessings 😂 Enjoy.

  • @Jenistheone
    @Jenistheone 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is much more difficult for certain people. Wish it did work for me.

    • @ViYoung-os4kv
      @ViYoung-os4kv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too😂

  • @IcyRolling-i6d
    @IcyRolling-i6d 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truth facts

  • @ShaibuBukar-zi7co
    @ShaibuBukar-zi7co ปีที่แล้ว +4

  • @joannetuinstra1472
    @joannetuinstra1472 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ty

  • @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue
    @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stoicism teaches detachment from people and situations by focusing on inner tranquility and accepting what cannot be changed while controlling what can be controlled.

  • @yemenniru7738
    @yemenniru7738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First of December ❤

  • @STarWalker8
    @STarWalker8 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's interesting seeing how people interpret what is being said.
    Here's mine:
    Listen to the video

  • @CiaofCleburne
    @CiaofCleburne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don’t have ANY friends. Well, one real world friend but she certainly doesn’t bring sunshine into my life. I cringe when my phone rings n its her. So is it me because I am a magnet to Debbie Downers and repel Mary Sunshine. I would love just one friend who could even talk about life a d deeper thoughts instead of whining about their life yet here I am, whining about mine. Im stuck in a paradox to which I see no happy ending. 😢

    • @binathere2574
      @binathere2574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you.

    • @CiaofCleburne
      @CiaofCleburne 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Delphius- and you need to learn how to talk to people.

  • @forgethebind
    @forgethebind 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel like this dialogue was created by Bill S Esquire and Ted T Logan after time traveling to Ancient Greece

  • @marilynruiz746
    @marilynruiz746 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There aren't a lot of people who resemble sunshine to me.

  • @sikotatzfrmv-town9273
    @sikotatzfrmv-town9273 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i miss her guys idk what to do anymore

  • @UnityLove-tj3qg
    @UnityLove-tj3qg 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nothing about not being able to afford leaving the toxic person!!! IF I could, I wouldn't be listening to this, I'd be long gone from this monster! There's no friends and no one is to be trusted! Duh!

  • @Mike-os8lv
    @Mike-os8lv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if you can’t step away from them because you live with them?

  • @Krathon-i2p
    @Krathon-i2p 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What’s one life lesson you learned the hard way? Would love to hear your stories!

  • @rawveganfoodforthought2333
    @rawveganfoodforthought2333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is really great stuff (but using the word “dudes” and “it’s cool “ takes a little bit away.) Thank you!

  • @Michael-kf8ji
    @Michael-kf8ji 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to do

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Already have

  • @elizabethrecco8485
    @elizabethrecco8485 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My sister and her husband came to visit us, it was the summer before elections. They kept badgering us to watch certain shows on t.v. If we wanted the truth. They also told us who we should vote for. When my husband argued with them they packed their bags and left. They then sent me a message saying they were concerned for my safety because my husband was out of his mind. Lol! I told her I needed a break from them! She said how long, I said 1 year. She stopped talking to me and then died within the year of pancreatic cancer, her husband died 2 years later from cancer. The end.

  • @soniczforever5470
    @soniczforever5470 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was told i ruined everyones day tortured around im a 4 stone 12 anorexic im dying. I wont talk anymore. I was told this morning i wasnt good enough because i forgot someones mother. My memory is bad because of my anorexia. I left my intake at 100 calories that walked 70 of them of already. Not eating anymore today. Always bullied in kitchen and not allowed eat outside. What's a barbeque i get yelled at for my morbid terror of eaying. really dont care if i end up somewhere else as this isnt working.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please hang in there and reach for help. You are worth it, you are enough and you are not here to be punished and shouted at. I'm very thin myself although not anorexic and all I know is we have to remain hopefully thats thing will change. Because they will change. Just like the good days, the bad days dont last either. Please hear me when I say you deserve to be here and live a well and happy life. Biggest hugs darling 💝 you sre stronger tham you think and you can do this 💪 call a helpline and let them guide you through these difficult days ❤

    • @stephenybeecherkennison-kb2vv
      @stephenybeecherkennison-kb2vv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤

  • @sanjanakushwaha5263
    @sanjanakushwaha5263 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is there any one who can talk to me temporary so
    thatI can deatched from that person as a help 1
    want it.l want to diverte my Mind...Please help
    me!!!

  • @MichaelAlbrecht-jx5cp
    @MichaelAlbrecht-jx5cp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No I step away permanently.

  • @ariues
    @ariues 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    woah that guy has thumbs on his feet.

  • @MsGechi77
    @MsGechi77 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why do you repeat the content in a loop?

  • @HarmonicsAI
    @HarmonicsAI 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you monetize this channel bro ?

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ..

  • @CasaNova-dl5vj
    @CasaNova-dl5vj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would say all these video on Instagram and TH-cam is ruining relationships and getting into people's mind and making them think detachment is real and healthy

    • @binathere2574
      @binathere2574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You misunderstand the meaning.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm sure a man that calls himself CasaNove ruins his own relationships 🙄

  • @Groundhog262
    @Groundhog262 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, these mass-produced AI videos sure suck. They didn't even watch it themselves before uploading :D

  • @BonefastKharkongor
    @BonefastKharkongor 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I.hate.the.world.🎉

  • @agapeape
    @agapeape 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay, so while I appreciate and understand the premise of this video, it is clearly just an AI generated dialogue. I mean how many times are we gonna hear the same message but put in different words? Lmao

  • @svencejohanson9051
    @svencejohanson9051 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "The ancient wisdom dudes".... Where is Spicoli?

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SALUTE 🫡👍🏾 .... MGHOW

  • @Stoicismi
    @Stoicismi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have.✅
    🚀💹

  • @practicalstoicism79
    @practicalstoicism79 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on. Point 6 I’ve just gone off most social media as much as possible except for videos like this which help with personal development and growth.

  • @therealHeavensBlessing
    @therealHeavensBlessing ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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