1. Disregard them too 2. Don't react emotionally 3. Remove them from your mind 4. Demonstrate your value 5. Cut off contact 6. Prove them wrong 7. Go out and have fun 8. Build your social status 9. Act as if they don't exist 10. Give them the silent treatment 11. Don't beg for attention 12. Be kind but emotionally distant 13. Don't reveal your struggle
This days we all get negative advice there family live are gone and people staying single so ignoring and having fun while you ruin some else life is not a solution. We should learn to care about other people. I hate like this videos I don’t know why I get this
@beautyshines2124, your words resonate deeply, reminding us of the intrinsic value each individual holds. In a world where conformity often overshadows uniqueness, your insight shines brightly, illuminating the beauty in our differences. But behind this sentiment lies a tale of personal discovery and appreciation. What inspired you to recognize the irreplaceable essence within yourself and others? Your perspective offers a refreshing antidote to the pressures of conformity. How do you nurture and celebrate your own uniqueness amidst societal expectations?
Absolutely! It's amazing how powerful a positive mindset can be for our daily lives. This content really hits home-such a great reminder to focus on growth. If you're looking for more uplifting vibes and tips, check out some of the content I share; it might resonate with you too! Keep pushing forward!
@martiemc8398, your heartfelt words encapsulate a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. To love deeply is a profound experience, yet to also recognize and prioritize self-love amidst such emotions is a testament to your strength and resilience. Your comment hints at a transformative process, where the balance between loving another and loving oneself is delicately navigated. What insights did you gain during this journey of self-love and acceptance? Your acknowledgment of self-worth is inspiring, prompting reflection on the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself. How do you continue to nurture and prioritize your own well-being while navigating matters of the heart?
@@StoicHabit101 only the worthy deserve that type of deep love and loyalty. Once they show you their not worthy you become an alchemist and transform. You shower yourself with all that love that you gave to the undeserving. You pick yourself up by the bootstraps, gather yourself, and become your own very best friend.
@@truthseeker5941 Your comment beautifully encapsulates a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It speaks to the transformative power of resilience and self-love in the face of disappointment and betrayal. The imagery of becoming an alchemist, transforming pain into strength and self-love, is both evocative and inspiring. It conveys a sense of agency and empowerment, suggesting that one has the power to shape their own narrative and redefine their sense of worth. By emphasizing the importance of recognizing when others are unworthy of deep love and loyalty, you underscore the value of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Your words resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, offering solace and encouragement to those who may be navigating similar challenges. Intriguingly, your reflection prompts one to consider: How can we cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and resilience in the face of adversity? What practices or mindset shifts can empower individuals to reclaim their worth and embrace their own inner strength?
I love him so much… and I think everything is my fault… that for 13 years I was the one who was always good for nothing. We are taking a break but it hurts.
Just cut off a one sided friendship of 20 years just recently and feel a sense of happiness. As we go through our journeys, it is perfectly healthy and necessary to cut ties with meaningless toxic relationships. Part of self care.
Me too. I said enough is enough. Friendships, don't always have to last. Sometimes, people grow apart and mature in diff. ways. Definitely need to realize. Esp. those friendship we keep clinging into from childhood or younger years.
Thank you for sharing your experience, Haitiqueen0119. It sounds like a significant step towards prioritizing your well-being. What signs or realizations prompted you to recognize the toxicity in the friendship, and how do you plan to nurture healthier relationships moving forward?
It their loss..... rejection is a sort of affirmation that you are on the right track for your own life. It may sting a bit at first......but......you WILL get over it in time. NEVER BEG for anyone's attention, it wreaks despiration. Stand tall and be a success in all that you do. They will notice your success and how they had nothing to do with your future. THIS ONE LIFE IS YOURS-----NOT THEIRS------they weren't born with you and they don't die with you, they simply came into your life somewhere along the way to either teach a lesson or learn a lesson. They are on their own journey in life as you are.
If you are rejected don't dwell on it, lifes too short. Been used to rejection and it's no biggie. I used to let it bother me but realise lifes too short to dwell on disappointments. Hope you are all well and live your best lives.
I'm 73 years old and once again I'm convinced I have a guardian angel. How timely the information I need arrives at exactly the right moment. I am infinitely grateful to the author of this information.
Suffer in silence and work on yourself….You will come out better and stronger. Deactivate social media, and delete every trace of that person that you felt who betrayed you. Everyday gets easier!!!
I have been rejection a lot in my life either by friends or romantic interests, although I still confess my feelings towards those I like/love. And I usually get "How can you do that, all the time?" Or "You're so brave!". Although I don't do it without praise. I do because it helps me grow. And after each rejection, I get more comfortable with my own worth. And I slowly and (slightly painful) I grow to trust myself and love myself more. ❤ Thank you for this video!
I don’t believe it was a coincidence your page came across my feed. Your messages are profound. I’m taking things day by day. The pain is no joke. I’m trusting GOD to show me the way. Just pouring goodness into me is helping me become stronger.
Thank you for this, I got out of a very serious relationship and I needed to hear this. Bless you and all the stoic philosophers who have showered us with all this wisdom.
I was married for nearly 42years. It was the most lonely journey. My husband died a year ago. We had no emotional connection. I don't want a man in my life anymore. I am too used to be lonely.
Your resilience after such a long and lonely journey is truly admirable. What new experiences or pursuits are you exploring now that you're embracing solitude?
I'm sorry to hear that, my dear. But there is the possibility that your husband [did] want to communicate with you emotionally but did not know how to. Some people have a hard time with this. Lift your head up high and have positive thoughts as you move forward.
I found the stoic approach to handling rejection incredibly insightful. Instead of reacting emotionally, the emphasis on maintaining composure and focusing on personal growth is invaluable. It's about building inner strength and not letting others' opinions dictate your worth. Definitely a mindset I'm eager to adopt in my own life.
I was in deep need of your wisdom many moons ago. How unfortunate for me to discover you late. My marriage has dissolved. The love of my life of many years has ended. However, I love that your videos have come to me now in my life as I move forward. It gives me hope to move on with better choices. The proverbial lightning strike hit me too late to save a marriage, but since it was toxic, I feel more equipped to engage in new relationships. Thank you!!
Your journey toward healing and growth is truly inspiring. How do you plan to apply the lessons you've learned to cultivate healthier relationships moving forward?
This video is very timely for me cos I'm experiencing rejection right now. I'm now in the process of healing and slowly detaching myself from my boyfriend.
Your resilience in the face of rejection is commendable. What strategies have you found most effective in the healing process and detaching yourself from past relationships?
Intro 00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too 00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally 00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind 00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value 00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact 00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong 00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun 00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status 00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist 00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment 00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention 00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant 00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle 00:18:54 Conclusion
These 13 lessons on using rejection as a tool for growth are invaluable. Stoicism offers such a unique and empowering perspective. Grateful for the shift in mindset this has sparked in me. Thank you!
Rejection is often seen as a setback, but this video brilliantly reframes it as an opportunity for growth and resilience. Stoicism teaches us to view challenges as tools for self-improvement, and these lessons are a powerful reminder that rejection can be a stepping stone to something greater. Thank you for this empowering perspective!
This video reminded me that rejection doesn’t define us-it redirects us. The Stoic approach of using rejection as a tool for growth is something I’ve started practicing, and it’s been life-changing. To anyone reading this, I hope you find strength in setbacks, wisdom in challenges, and the courage to keep moving forward. 😊
The emphasis on self-worth independent of others’ opinions is a crucial takeaway. By choosing to disregard those who overlook us, we affirm our value and prioritize our own happiness, which is such a valuable lesson for anyone facing rejection.
I have been practicing this for a long time. I’m a sigma female. I don’t care about anyone’s opinion and focus on myself and the things I need to do for my life. I march to the beat of my own drum and don’t seek validation from others. I’m important and so are you.
This video brilliantly shifts the perspective on rejection. Instead of seeing it as a setback, it encourages us to view it as an opportunity for growth. The insights on using rejection as a stepping stone to greatness are truly inspiring!
Greatest source and lesson of knowledge and greater wisdom. Blessings in disguise and it’s always greater in the end for my narrative. Looking forward to expressing myself in my public speaking and sharing some of these lessons. Freedom is ringing, so let it ring.
I'm dropping more GEMS for you all!! These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too. Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
Wow, what an incredibly detailed and heartfelt message! It's evident that you've put a lot of thought and effort into compiling these transformative suggestions. Your commitment to personal growth is truly inspiring. I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of setting an alarm to disrupt daily routines and visualize goals every three hours. It seems like a powerful way to stay focused and aligned with one's aspirations throughout the day. How do you maintain consistency and motivation while implementing these practices?
@@F1Modelbuilder It is in the Bible, it’s just referred to as something else. “ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies” “You will reap what you sow” It’s just worded differently, but same meaning
Gosh one of my friend start to ignore me without any reason nd subconsciously i did the same things as described in the video 😂😂 so proud of myself after her i started interacting with others nd find so many beautiful souls worthy of my time and love so guys Never giveup for one person♥️
@nimranazir7360, your journey of self-discovery and resilience shines through your heartfelt words. It's truly empowering to witness how you've navigated the complexities of human relationships with grace and determination. Despite the pain of being ignored by a friend, you didn't succumb to despair or bitterness. Instead, you found strength within yourself to prioritize your own well-being and seek out connections with others who appreciate and value you. Your ability to adapt and grow from challenging experiences is commendable. By embracing the wisdom shared in the video and applying it to your life, you've transformed moments of uncertainty into opportunities for personal growth and renewal. Your resilience serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles in their relationships. Your story leaves me curious about the beautiful souls you've encountered on your journey. How have these new connections enriched your life, and what valuable lessons have you learned from them? Additionally, what advice would you offer to those who may be struggling to overcome similar challenges in their interpersonal relationships?
This video is incredibly insightful! The part at 07:13, where you explain how rejection can be a 'setback turned into a setup for a comeback,' really resonated with me. It’s such a powerful way to reframe challenges into opportunities for growth. Thank you for sharing these actionable lessons inspired by Stoicism. Truly inspiring
This video is a game-changer! Turning rejection into a tool for growth and self-discovery is such a powerful message. Thank you for sharing these lessons with such clarity and inspiration!
Thank you for your advise. I've been in a relationship for 15yrs and I still feel lonely and rejected and verbally abused. It's hard because I still love him.😢 7:29
I appreciate the emphasis on emotional mastery when dealing with rejection. The stoic approach of not reacting emotionally but instead reflecting and growing from the experience is truly powerful. It's not easy, but it's worth the effort. Who else has tried this approach and seen a change in how they handle difficult situations?
A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him , but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him...
I didn't see my life with anyone else, I thought I couldn't love like that again, but you know what? I did, and it's even better than before!! Go fearlessly out there again and love ❤
After years of being "black sheeped" by my family, then dumped by partner of 7yrs, losing my home. I had an emotional breakdown. My family "helped by not talking about it" my isolation was unbearable. I moved 70miles away. Then followed many years of my very existence being ignored.
@jegsthewegs, your resilience in the face of adversity is truly remarkable. It's heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges you've endured, from feeling marginalized within your own family to experiencing the devastating loss of a long-term relationship and home. The emotional toll of these experiences, compounded by the lack of support from your family, must have been incredibly difficult to bear. Your decision to move away in search of a fresh start speaks volumes about your strength and determination to reclaim your life. Despite the isolation and years of feeling overlooked, you refused to let despair define you. Instead, you embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing, bravely carving out a new path for yourself. I can't imagine how daunting it must have been to rebuild your life from the ground up, but your resilience shines through in every word you share. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the indomitable human spirit. I'm left wondering about the moments of hope and resilience that sustained you during your darkest days. What kept you going during those challenging times, and what advice would you offer to others who may be facing similar struggles? Your journey is a testament to the fact that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward.
I greatly appreciate all that you shared in this video. It helped me reframe rejection in a more empowering way. Thank you! I’ve subscribed to your TH-cam.
The best part of the video is at 16:49 with the lesson 'Don't reveal your struggle.' It emphasizes maintaining composure and dignity during challenges, aligning with Stoic principles. This lesson teaches true strength lies in handling adversity with grace and self-respect, showcasing resilience and unwavering commitment to personal growth.
Rejection means Redirection. It's also a form of Protection. Redirect your Focus. NEVER GIVE UP. Grow. Transform to better. Things CAN change for the better.
Father GOD remove them all from my life - they don't deserve my love, time, patience & blessings I used to share with them! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I really really really love myself too 💚💜🩷❤️💙😇 thank you, LORD for my strength, power & decisive attitude 🙏🏻 I bless them all but I let go of all negative snakey people. I am sol happy & grateful that I always can count on GOD - HE is the one who comforts me in the last years, gives me peace.. I am enjoying my own company & with my Baby boy, dearest Fam & some few friends 🎉🥰🍀👍 Thank you, GOD for my peace, time & financially freedom 🌺
I have the same feeling, but I never showed my weakness. Unfortunately I’m quite experienced in this thing, but you never get used to feeling this way. The Stoic philosophy helps me as I have enough going on in my life and I’m steady on never showing weakness. Ofcourse I want to call her, ask her why, get her back, scream my lungs out, but in the end they don’t posess you. You were, are and always be assigned to direct you life by God. Respect that life was given to you, not to be dependent on someone else. You can become better out of all of this, do it. Trust Gods plan, trust the process, time will show you.
Some good books you could read to lean into these ideas: You Are A Bad As - Jen Sincero No Excuses - Brian Tracy The Power of Now - Eckhart Toole and if always suggest Marcus Arelious' - meditations
Okay thanks for the advice and support I will do my best to get a better life 😂and hopefully I will finally have a chance to have fun with a woman that shares my love and respect and who will care for me the way I care for her I hope that she is a good friend listener honest and caring person who will never break my heart not cause I am afraid to relive that experience once more because I feel that that pain might remind me of my past feelings that made me so strong and finding myself once more but as long as she treats me like her king I will never be able to betray her and arm her not even once my violent life is over and I want to be with someone that makes me happy
Powerful material, I have been practicing some of these techniques but didn’t know they are before my time. One thing I do know is that self growth is inevitable and will come to you as a gift to self. Stoicism works for me and broaden my knowledge of the why behind my actions to be a better version of myself daily ❤
everytime i see him want to tell him off for switching up on me & choosing someone else when I thought i was so certain he liked me, and then the other part of me longs for him, hoping he will give me a chance, that he will desire to take a chance on me
I didn't necessarily get rejected but in a way i kind of did this girl and i would always give each other a bunch of attention whenever we would see each other we couldn't keep our eyes off each other but i recently started to notice that now whenever she sees me she always gets on her phone it sucks but it's ok I'll use it as motivation.
I have given myself to this man since my husband passed .I waited 3yrs to date .meet this guy ,he came by every day call every day were always around now I feel so stupid he only call me during the day now .but not at night
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0:44 thy should know the truth 😅
You bet!😊
Thanks ❤
Yes!! I completely agree
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1. Disregard them too
2. Don't react emotionally
3. Remove them from your mind
4. Demonstrate your value
5. Cut off contact
6. Prove them wrong
7. Go out and have fun
8. Build your social status
9. Act as if they don't exist
10. Give them the silent treatment
11. Don't beg for attention
12. Be kind but emotionally distant
13. Don't reveal your struggle
What if it happens one's husband is the one rejected the wife
@@rosalinealoy6162 I don't believe I am the one to respond to this. Only posted the resume of the video
This days we all get negative advice there family live are gone and people staying single so ignoring and having fun while you ruin some else life is not a solution. We should learn to care about other people. I hate like this videos I don’t know why I get this
Ah, but there is more to all of the point. I love the additional comments/ insights/ explanations.
reject him as well and he will come around, act like his actions not affecting you or just find another husband @@rosalinealoy6162
people will miss you because you're unique and incomparable.
Or maybe they won't, but does that matter?
@@charlottebruce979They dont matter
@beautyshines2124, your words resonate deeply, reminding us of the intrinsic value each individual holds. In a world where conformity often overshadows uniqueness, your insight shines brightly, illuminating the beauty in our differences. But behind this sentiment lies a tale of personal discovery and appreciation. What inspired you to recognize the irreplaceable essence within yourself and others? Your perspective offers a refreshing antidote to the pressures of conformity. How do you nurture and celebrate your own uniqueness amidst societal expectations?
Exactly 😮😢😅
YES
Damn, I needed to hear this so BADLY!!!!!! I'll listen to this every day when I wake up until I'm better!!!!!
Absolutely! It's amazing how powerful a positive mindset can be for our daily lives. This content really hits home-such a great reminder to focus on growth. If you're looking for more uplifting vibes and tips, check out some of the content I share; it might resonate with you too! Keep pushing forward!
Rejection is protection
Absolutely ❤️
@celeste3100
Lol, like it!
@@april9037
Positive
Ok but it still stings awful especially if you aren't prepared geeee
Yes these people could be toxic
I loved him so much, but I love myself too.
@martiemc...once upon a time I had his baby and loved him deeply and profoundly BUT not more than I loved myself.
@martiemc8398, your heartfelt words encapsulate a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. To love deeply is a profound experience, yet to also recognize and prioritize self-love amidst such emotions is a testament to your strength and resilience. Your comment hints at a transformative process, where the balance between loving another and loving oneself is delicately navigated. What insights did you gain during this journey of self-love and acceptance? Your acknowledgment of self-worth is inspiring, prompting reflection on the importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with oneself. How do you continue to nurture and prioritize your own well-being while navigating matters of the heart?
@@StoicHabit101 only the worthy deserve that type of deep love and loyalty. Once they show you their not worthy you become an alchemist and transform. You shower yourself with all that love that you gave to the undeserving. You pick yourself up by the bootstraps, gather yourself, and become your own very best friend.
@@truthseeker5941 Your comment beautifully encapsulates a profound journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It speaks to the transformative power of resilience and self-love in the face of disappointment and betrayal.
The imagery of becoming an alchemist, transforming pain into strength and self-love, is both evocative and inspiring. It conveys a sense of agency and empowerment, suggesting that one has the power to shape their own narrative and redefine their sense of worth.
By emphasizing the importance of recognizing when others are unworthy of deep love and loyalty, you underscore the value of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-respect. Your words resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of betrayal, offering solace and encouragement to those who may be navigating similar challenges.
Intriguingly, your reflection prompts one to consider: How can we cultivate a deeper sense of self-love and resilience in the face of adversity? What practices or mindset shifts can empower individuals to reclaim their worth and embrace their own inner strength?
I love him so much… and I think everything is my fault… that for 13 years I was the one who was always good for nothing. We are taking a break but it hurts.
Just cut off a one sided friendship of 20 years just recently and feel a sense of happiness. As we go through our journeys, it is perfectly healthy and necessary to cut ties with meaningless toxic relationships. Part of self care.
It's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health by letting go of toxic relationships. Good for you for taking that step!
Can we be friends
Me too. I said enough is enough. Friendships, don't always have to last. Sometimes, people grow apart and mature in diff. ways. Definitely need to realize. Esp. those friendship we keep clinging into from childhood or younger years.
Thank you for sharing your experience, Haitiqueen0119. It sounds like a significant step towards prioritizing your well-being. What signs or realizations prompted you to recognize the toxicity in the friendship, and how do you plan to nurture healthier relationships moving forward?
Same, I totally understand how you feel. It’s a sense of relief.
It their loss..... rejection is a sort of affirmation that you are on the right track for your own life. It may sting a bit at first......but......you WILL get over it in time. NEVER BEG for anyone's attention, it wreaks despiration. Stand tall and be a success in all that you do. They will notice your success and how they had nothing to do with your future.
THIS ONE LIFE IS YOURS-----NOT THEIRS------they weren't born with you and they don't die with you, they simply came into your life somewhere along the way to either teach a lesson or learn a lesson.
They are on their own journey in life as you are.
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Very good. I like that 👌 Bravo!
Except it's not their loss, they rejected you for good reasons.
Amen very true words.
If you are rejected don't dwell on it, lifes too short. Been used to rejection and it's no biggie. I used to let it bother me but realise lifes too short to dwell on disappointments. Hope you are all well and live your best lives.
Facts ❤
I'm 73 years old and once again I'm convinced I have a guardian angel. How timely the information I need arrives at exactly the right moment. I am infinitely grateful to the author of this information.
Thank you so much!
"True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future." - Seneca
Suffer in silence and work on yourself….You will come out better and stronger. Deactivate social media, and delete every trace of that person that you felt who betrayed you. Everyday gets easier!!!
These stoic philosophies are so valuable. I send them to my grandchildren every day. They are lessons in life 100%!
I have been rejection a lot in my life either by friends or romantic interests, although I still confess my feelings towards those I like/love. And I usually get "How can you do that, all the time?" Or "You're so brave!". Although I don't do it without praise. I do because it helps me grow. And after each rejection, I get more comfortable with my own worth. And I slowly and (slightly painful) I grow to trust myself and love myself more. ❤ Thank you for this video!
I don’t believe it was a coincidence your page came across my feed. Your messages are profound. I’m taking things day by day. The pain is no joke. I’m trusting GOD to show me the way. Just pouring goodness into me is helping me become stronger.
No such thing as coincidence. I love it !! 😊❤🙏
I have practiced most of these and must confess that I now have so much more peace.
Thank you for this, I got out of a very serious relationship and I needed to hear this. Bless you and all the stoic philosophers who have showered us with all this wisdom.
Glad it was helpful!
Amen
I was married for nearly 42years. It was the most lonely journey. My husband died a year ago. We had no emotional connection. I don't want a man in my life anymore. I am too used to be lonely.
Your resilience after such a long and lonely journey is truly admirable. What new experiences or pursuits are you exploring now that you're embracing solitude?
Beautiful peaceful alone
I'm sorry to hear that, my dear. But there is the possibility that your husband [did] want to communicate with you emotionally but did not know how to. Some people have a hard time with this. Lift your head up high and have positive thoughts as you move forward.
love these!
rejection has been coined as too negative,
now Im seeing rejection and molding it to a positive power, it is tough to do but worth it.❤
These insights are truly empowering! 🌟 How do you approach turning rejection into a positive force in your life?
I found the stoic approach to handling rejection incredibly insightful. Instead of reacting emotionally, the emphasis on maintaining composure and focusing on personal growth is invaluable. It's about building inner strength and not letting others' opinions dictate your worth. Definitely a mindset I'm eager to adopt in my own life.
I was in deep need of your wisdom many moons ago. How unfortunate for me to discover you late. My marriage has dissolved. The love of my life of many years has ended. However, I love that your videos have come to me now in my life as I move forward. It gives me hope to move on with better choices. The proverbial lightning strike hit me too late to save a marriage, but since it was toxic, I feel more equipped to engage in new relationships. Thank you!!
Stay strong! ❤️🌹
Your journey toward healing and growth is truly inspiring. How do you plan to apply the lessons you've learned to cultivate healthier relationships moving forward?
This video is very timely for me cos I'm experiencing rejection right now. I'm now in the process of healing and slowly detaching myself from my boyfriend.
Me too😢
Good For You ! 🎉
@@beajohnson2668
Don’t Ever Look Back.
Your resilience in the face of rejection is commendable. What strategies have you found most effective in the healing process and detaching yourself from past relationships?
Good on you. Heal, love yourself more, and put yourself first. ❤
Intro
00:01:52 1. Disregard Them Too
00:03:33 2. Don't React Emotionally
00:05:15 3. Remove Them From Your Mind
00:06:33 4. Demonstrate Your Value
00:07:41 5. Cut Off Contact
00:08:42 6. Prove Them Wrong
00:09:48 7. Go Out And Have Fun
00:10:56 8. Build Your Social Status
00:11:56 9. Act As If They Don'T Exist
00:13:00 10. Give Them The Silent Treatment
00:14:12 11. Don't Beg For Attention
00:15:16 12. Be Kind But Emotionally Distant
00:16:21 13. Don't Reveal Your Struggle
00:18:54 Conclusion
These 13 lessons on using rejection as a tool for growth are invaluable. Stoicism offers such a unique and empowering perspective. Grateful for the shift in mindset this has sparked in me. Thank you!
Rejection is often seen as a setback, but this video brilliantly reframes it as an opportunity for growth and resilience. Stoicism teaches us to view challenges as tools for self-improvement, and these lessons are a powerful reminder that rejection can be a stepping stone to something greater. Thank you for this empowering perspective!
Absolutely love how you delve deep into human philosophies. Your insights are truly eye-opening!
Stoicism really helps me keep my cool when life gets messy!
This video reminded me that rejection doesn’t define us-it redirects us. The Stoic approach of using rejection as a tool for growth is something I’ve started practicing, and it’s been life-changing. To anyone reading this, I hope you find strength in setbacks, wisdom in challenges, and the courage to keep moving forward. 😊
Rejection is often seen as a setback, but this guide shows how it can be a powerful tool for self-improvement and success.
The emphasis on self-worth independent of others’ opinions is a crucial takeaway. By choosing to disregard those who overlook us, we affirm our value and prioritize our own happiness, which is such a valuable lesson for anyone facing rejection.
This is so refreshing! I'm so ready to love myself even more. ❤❤❤
I have been practicing this for a long time. I’m a sigma female. I don’t care about anyone’s opinion and focus on myself and the things I need to do for my life. I march to the beat of my own drum and don’t seek validation from others. I’m important and so are you.
Yesss ❤❤❤
This video brilliantly shifts the perspective on rejection. Instead of seeing it as a setback, it encourages us to view it as an opportunity for growth. The insights on using rejection as a stepping stone to greatness are truly inspiring!
Greatest source and lesson of knowledge and greater wisdom. Blessings in disguise and it’s always greater in the end for my narrative. Looking forward to expressing myself in my public speaking and sharing some of these lessons. Freedom is ringing, so let it ring.
Just what I needed. I also thought of avoiding their frequent hangouts, never speak about them with others.
Deleting all my social media has made my life so much better , I’m fully focused on myself and I’m not looking back .
I'm dropping more GEMS for you all!! These suggestions have made me the person I am today. So take one or two or all of them and transform yourself to a super being. Thank me later. I personally did and do everything listed below and I got massive results.
1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper.
2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life.
3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins.
4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room.
5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF.
6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post.
7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water.
8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain.
9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other.
10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma.
It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results.
What have you got to lose, try some or ALL and see your results. Let me know know too.
Have a great day... and thanks for reading.
Wow, what an incredibly detailed and heartfelt message! It's evident that you've put a lot of thought and effort into compiling these transformative suggestions. Your commitment to personal growth is truly inspiring.
I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of setting an alarm to disrupt daily routines and visualize goals every three hours. It seems like a powerful way to stay focused and aligned with one's aspirations throughout the day. How do you maintain consistency and motivation while implementing these practices?
True words of wisdom. Thank you.
Let go and let God....... you don't have to do a thing - Karma will take care of it for you.
Krama is not. Taught in the Bible nor in stoicism
Wanting karma means you are back to square one.
The purpose of stoicism is to be totally indifferent to others and situations.
Amen !!!
@@F1Modelbuilder It is in the Bible, it’s just referred to as something else.
“ God will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies”
“You will reap what you sow”
It’s just worded differently, but same meaning
@georgiafranci...
Good comment 👍
Gosh one of my friend start to ignore me without any reason nd subconsciously i did the same things as described in the video 😂😂 so proud of myself after her i started interacting with others nd find so many beautiful souls worthy of my time and love so guys
Never giveup for one person♥️
@nimranazir7360, your journey of self-discovery and resilience shines through your heartfelt words. It's truly empowering to witness how you've navigated the complexities of human relationships with grace and determination. Despite the pain of being ignored by a friend, you didn't succumb to despair or bitterness. Instead, you found strength within yourself to prioritize your own well-being and seek out connections with others who appreciate and value you.
Your ability to adapt and grow from challenging experiences is commendable. By embracing the wisdom shared in the video and applying it to your life, you've transformed moments of uncertainty into opportunities for personal growth and renewal. Your resilience serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles in their relationships.
Your story leaves me curious about the beautiful souls you've encountered on your journey. How have these new connections enriched your life, and what valuable lessons have you learned from them? Additionally, what advice would you offer to those who may be struggling to overcome similar challenges in their interpersonal relationships?
This video is incredibly insightful! The part at 07:13, where you explain how rejection can be a 'setback turned into a setup for a comeback,' really resonated with me. It’s such a powerful way to reframe challenges into opportunities for growth. Thank you for sharing these actionable lessons inspired by Stoicism. Truly inspiring
This video is a game-changer! Turning rejection into a tool for growth and self-discovery is such a powerful message. Thank you for sharing these lessons with such clarity and inspiration!
A philosophy that will help us survive in this somewhat cruel world.
I have never been so disrespected and degraded and treated so badly in my entire life.
Me too😢
Thank you for your advise. I've been in a relationship for 15yrs and I still feel lonely and rejected and verbally abused. It's hard because I still love him.😢
7:29
I appreciate the emphasis on emotional mastery when dealing with rejection. The stoic approach of not reacting emotionally but instead reflecting and growing from the experience is truly powerful. It's not easy, but it's worth the effort. Who else has tried this approach and seen a change in how they handle difficult situations?
We are rich only through what we give, and poor only through what we refuse.
I'm so thankful that i found this channel ❤
A very fascinating video , this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me , I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him , but I can’t , I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him...
Amazing how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impresive
I didn't see my life with anyone else, I thought I couldn't love like that again, but you know what? I did, and it's even better than before!! Go fearlessly out there again and love ❤
You’re Addicted - thats not love. If you truly love them let them go and find their happiness.
Know you value ❤ stoics
Thanks for this very helpful video. I've recently started my stoic journey and I intend to stay stoic! ❤
This explanation of stoicism is spot on. It's fascinating how relevant these ancient principles are today!
Thank you Lord ! I have been doing this fir years and didnt even know this lesson. Thats just how God created me , thank you Jesus 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@yadip65:
Great
Thank you so much...❤❤❤
Thoroughly enjoyed this powerful message. Given me strength to keep battling on with dignity and poise.
" A person's worth is measured by the worth of what he values." - Marcus Aurelius
After years of being "black sheeped" by my family, then dumped by partner of 7yrs, losing my home. I had an emotional breakdown. My family "helped by not talking about it" my isolation was unbearable. I moved 70miles away. Then followed many years of my very existence being ignored.
@jegsthewegs, your resilience in the face of adversity is truly remarkable. It's heart-wrenching to hear about the challenges you've endured, from feeling marginalized within your own family to experiencing the devastating loss of a long-term relationship and home. The emotional toll of these experiences, compounded by the lack of support from your family, must have been incredibly difficult to bear.
Your decision to move away in search of a fresh start speaks volumes about your strength and determination to reclaim your life. Despite the isolation and years of feeling overlooked, you refused to let despair define you. Instead, you embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing, bravely carving out a new path for yourself.
I can't imagine how daunting it must have been to rebuild your life from the ground up, but your resilience shines through in every word you share. Your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the indomitable human spirit.
I'm left wondering about the moments of hope and resilience that sustained you during your darkest days. What kept you going during those challenging times, and what advice would you offer to others who may be facing similar struggles? Your journey is a testament to the fact that even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light to guide us forward.
It's amazing how a smile and a helping hand will make one popular and respected... 🙄🤔🤣
Thanks for your advice.
All powerful advises, Thanks for those benifits , advises!! This will help many!💯
Saying No sometimes saves yourselves.
Don't always say Yes to everything.
There is a limit for all of us.
Love and best wishes .
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Powerful, I really needed this.
More incredible lessons for me thank you very much lord 🙏❤️
Brilliant.
Thank you. I needed this positive reinforcement
This is valuable.
How can I like this video a thousand times ??
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Practicing my resolve to not react emotionally to the horrific ai reading of this 🧘
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I greatly appreciate all that you shared in this video. It helped me reframe rejection in a more empowering way. Thank you! I’ve subscribed to your TH-cam.
Solid video, thank you for the new perceptive. o7
This content always offers valuable insights.
Thanks for sharing with us.
Stoicism offers a profound philosophy of resilience and inner strength that resonates deeply with me.
The best part of the video is at 16:49 with the lesson 'Don't reveal your struggle.' It emphasizes maintaining composure and dignity during challenges, aligning with Stoic principles. This lesson teaches true strength lies in handling adversity with grace and self-respect, showcasing resilience and unwavering commitment to personal growth.
Grateful for this. Thank you!
Rejection means Redirection.
It's also a form of Protection.
Redirect your Focus.
NEVER GIVE UP. Grow. Transform to better.
Things CAN change for the better.
Father GOD remove them all from my life - they don't deserve my love, time, patience & blessings I used to share with them! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I really really really love myself too 💚💜🩷❤️💙😇 thank you, LORD for my strength, power & decisive attitude 🙏🏻 I bless them all but I let go of all negative snakey people.
I am sol happy & grateful that I always can count on GOD - HE is the one who comforts me in the last years, gives me peace.. I am enjoying my own company & with my Baby boy, dearest Fam & some few friends 🎉🥰🍀👍
Thank you, GOD for my peace, time & financially freedom 🌺
When my classmates diss me I love it ❤ it makes me stronger and wiser. My own company is the best anyhow.
I have the same feeling, but I never showed my weakness. Unfortunately I’m quite experienced in this thing, but you never get used to feeling this way. The Stoic philosophy helps me as I have enough going on in my life and I’m steady on never showing weakness. Ofcourse I want to call her, ask her why, get her back, scream my lungs out, but in the end they don’t posess you. You were, are and always be assigned to direct you life by God. Respect that life was given to you, not to be dependent on someone else. You can become better out of all of this, do it. Trust Gods plan, trust the process, time will show you.
Some good books you could read to lean into these ideas:
You Are A Bad As - Jen Sincero
No Excuses - Brian Tracy
The Power of Now - Eckhart Toole
and if always suggest Marcus Arelious' - meditations
❤ I really needed to hear this. Thank you!
Okay thanks for the advice and support I will do my best to get a better life 😂and hopefully I will finally have a chance to have fun with a woman that shares my love and respect and who will care for me the way I care for her I hope that she is a good friend listener honest and caring person who will never break my heart not cause I am afraid to relive that experience once more because I feel that that pain might remind me of my past feelings that made me so strong and finding myself once more but as long as she treats me like her king I will never be able to betray her and arm her not even once my violent life is over and I want to be with someone that makes me happy
The answer is YES thank you for this
Thank You.
Hope you liked it ❤️
A video I needed so much❤❤❤
Thanks, l needed this 😊
Powerful material, I have been practicing some of these techniques but didn’t know they are before my time.
One thing I do know is that self growth is inevitable and will come to you as a gift to self.
Stoicism works for me and broaden my knowledge of the why behind my actions to be a better version of myself daily ❤
This is some good stuff! You deserve more followers ❤
"Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius
thanks for interesting video. I studied a lot
Powerful and credible message
Thank you 😊
everytime i see him want to tell him off for switching up on me & choosing someone else when I thought i was so certain he liked me, and then the other part of me longs for him, hoping he will give me a chance, that he will desire to take a chance on me
Very helpful!!
Thank you so much. I do have some of those good qualities. I sen
Excellent
I didn't necessarily get rejected but in a way i kind of did this girl and i would always give each other a bunch of attention whenever we would see each other we couldn't keep our eyes off each other but i recently started to notice that now whenever she sees me she always gets on her phone it sucks but it's ok I'll use it as motivation.
lots of lessons for me, thank you
I have given myself to this man since my husband passed .I waited 3yrs to date .meet this guy ,he came by every day call every day were always around now I feel so stupid he only call me during the day now .but not at night
Cos hes with his wife.
Superb...
Don't let idiots rent space in your head... 🤔🤠🎶
That's a good one Daniel
@@spmoran4703 Well thank you... it just makes sense if one can hold their tongue 😛🤣