3 IMPORTANT Things Your Wife NEEDS From You! - Marriage Advice
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3 IMPORTANT Things Your Wife NEEDS From You! - Marriage Advice
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Speaker: Sheikh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
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You know what makes me furious? Most women in the comments of this video are saying things like 'Yes! Spot on! All men need to take notes and be better!!" Yet, on the other video by the same speaker, talking about what men want from women, there are TONS of women in the comments, acting like true hypocrites, saying things like "this is so annoying! My husband doesn't DESERVE my respect! I dont need to be better for him!". Why do most women feel exempt from self improvement yet they will be the FIRST to say that their husbands and other men need to completely change and be better for them? A lot of women have a serious issue with thinking they dont need to be better on anything and that all their relationship issues come from the man. Guess what? If you are living and breathing, you DO have improvements to make. Being a humble and pious Muslim is about always trying to improve your character.
Oh Allah, please let us women not be of those who are hypocrites. blaming men for the issues they themselves need to work on. May we all realize we need to constantly be working on our character. not just men. Ameen
I pray Allah protects us from marrying hypocrites and from being hypocrites ourselves. Amen
May Allah Almighty protect you and bless you! Just Yesterday I was saying to those women that had problem with him doing the same lecture about what Man want from their woman’s and lot of women was out of control expressing themselves.
I know. They're just a bunch of hypocrite idiots
All i can say is as a woman soon going to go through divorce...A woman needs to sometimes feel that she has her husbands attention. For 20 years i tried. And in that 20 years...except for the first year in which i kind of told my husband i'll take you for dinnner...for our anniversay...he never took me out for a meal. He always went out with his friends and was nice to his relatives. But when i asked for help it was never willingly given. He spent 18 hours on the phone and when i asked for just 10 min to help me in my work he point blank refused. I stayed in the marriage for my 4 kids. But finally when i heard he was looking for another wife...i thought enough is enough. I need a husband who will be there for me and who i can trust. Not just a brood mare. I pulled my weight in the family ...providing half the income...and yet he complains i don't keep a clean house or i'm not loving enough! Women need to feel valued, and they need to be able to trust the husband will always be there for them and will take care of them.
Oh Allah, please let our men also not be the one who is egoistic because of being man and let them know that if any man are more intelligent than any women that is not because of his being man, let them know they can be wrong and women can instruct them. And I will pray to Allah that as a women you also start to respect women .
As a muslim man, I will try my best for my future wife.she will cant imagine how mush love i will give her. YA Allah , Please take care & safe my future wife.I am waiting for her.I want to be a best husband for my wife, Best father for my child.
😊 Good times ahead !
Bro are you married yet?
Proud that guys like you exist. MashAllah
Bro you are just me !
@@Danish_Khan_ you seem to be indian right ?
are indian men good to their wives ? we mostly hear they treat their wives badly as a slave and make them serve their in laws ( husbands parents )
As a female, I can confirm that this is 110% true!
A Ali I will do those with my future wife Insha Allah 😍
for you its true, but not for every female
@@waifu_png_pl6854 ,
That's okey.
Just don't complain when your husband doesn't do these things to you,deal?
A Ali, Bitch please😐😐😐😐
@@waifu_png_pl6854 yes exactly every wives are not same ....
Women who have a deep knowledge they only think this .....
1. Always refresing your confession of love for her
2. Undivided attention time
3. Simply just listening to her without giving any advices or speculations
I'm shocked how well this person understands about women... Each and everything is mention soo clearly and sweet.... Awesome video👌👌👌..every husband Hv to watch this
This is what Islam teaches us
So he appeals to women
That deserves an amen?
Should he appeal to God!
This is not that man . This is what islam teaches ! Allahu akbar
@@rashmitamang6572 This man is preaching what he learnt from western people
LaLa ohy begherat chup kr aram se bat kr
Today only.. I realized how women think & what blunders I have been making until now... It has completely changed my mindset.. May God bless u..
❤️😘😁😁👈
It is a bit more complicated than that.
May allah give good hedhayath ameen ameen . Lecture is true and every single word is right.
YA ALLAH make my future wife to be one of the happiest woman in this world, and allow me to express my love to her within the limit of Islam. Aameen Summa Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalameen.
She will be a lucky woman
Marriage has to be announced in a society at all costs otherwise it can potentially damage the repute of the man and woman. Secret marriages must not take place. In fact, nikah in itself encompasses an open announcement that it has taken place.
However, once a marriage has taken place in this fashion, it is up to a court of law to decide whether it should continue or be annulled keeping in view all the circumstances. We cannot give rulings unless a case is closely studied. Likewise implementation of a decision in this regard also rests on competent authorities of a state.
As for the condition of approval of a guardian please refer to the following discussion: Wali's Consent in Marriage. th-cam.com/video/VuBpsc2DDHI/w-d-xo.html
Oh she's a lucky one that will take you my man
I wish all man be like you
Every women will agree that this talk is spot on 👌 Guys pay attention, may Allah make it easy for you all Ameen
Aysha Ameen lol
I disagree. I don’t want that at all because it’s unrealistic and sexist.
Aysha and you listen to the “What men want from women lecture” sister. But I have a feeling you are a Western feminist who will hate that also important well done lecture!
Aamin
Dr. Acula [student] Lol what you're saying is quite widespread now actually. Btw nice dp. Dont know many Muslims who watch anime lol.
Wise and true advise for men. I'm a Christian and I can say across cultures, religions and languages, this remains the same truth. Listen to this preaching my brothers and sisters.
Are you married
I’m not even married yet but I want both men and women to treat each other equally and love each other and have trust within their relationships. Yes a senior high school student just said that 🤗
I think, we become complicated when we received or felt less love from our dear husband. Per experienced.
Let us not make this world hard for us.
Be giving and loving.
By hearing this today i got atleast one man who caught my point.i always wanted these things to be understand by my husband...make dua for us our relationship is going very wrong.
May Allah ease your hardships
May Allah make it easy for you
Recite "Ya Wadud" a lot.
Mine too
Mine too with my husband.
quality time you said..
I'll work on it from now on.
Nice explanation.
Yes! Alhamdullilah I really thought I was crazy and the only one asking for this.. I know I have work to do on my end since I've know heard what the man needs but this video made me realize that I'm not the only one asking for this.. this is the nature of most women ... InshaAllah I'll find the one that understands me and visaversa
for my husband ,his family and mother is the most deserving to spend time with.He loves to spend time with them because he believes a person cant go in jannah if his parents are not happy so spend time with them and be there when they need
Exactly......Sir you are right ....May Allah make all husbands loving and caring
Muslimah _peace Ameen lol
Muslimah _peace Ameen
Aaameeen
Ameen
aameen ya Robb, make my future husband too
Every wife should show this video to her husband or husband to be. Every man should watch this and act upon this video before it is too late.
Ya Allah guide us men ❤
SHEBBY007
U r great
My husband would never watch after 17 years marriage
Watching internet whole day but not this
No love
No interest
No watching
Just being cared
Sophie Müller i wish i was great. The sad fact and the honest truth is i realised all this too late. I wosh i had opened my eyes earlier and knew and acted on all this. The fact is my next partner will have all this now and i will fully act upon it.
I never got credits in my life..watever I did was always wrong..no praise nothing..soul mate doesn't exist for me I guess...😑
@@223nadia doen't lose hope Allah has a plan for all
He don’t care his daughter is first
I AGREE WITH EVERY BIT OF THIS VIDEO!!! I was just smiling for whole 7 mins coz everything said in this video is absolutely true and there is no doubt about it.
All the time on the video I was thinking about my unimagined future wife . 😍
Nicee.. alhamdhuliahh.. my husband is allah gift..dua for us.. allah want to tie our relation vry strong till jannah😍
Thank God my husband do all this good things eveng ystd he say it when he eat when i cooked
The number one thing a wife needs from her husband and a husband needs from the wife is understanding.
You can't have true intimacy and love and respect and trust without deep understanding of each other's character.
which i felt for 6 years but couldn't make clear to one person, this video has cleared that within few minutes...MASHALLAH...what a beautiful video....just speaks the word of every woman...
Every women should be treated like a princess... Mashaallah agree with each word... very well said👍🏻
💓
And every husband should be their slave.
@@killerpro6982 😆
@مقدس , Now that's what I wanted to see . Equality in a relationship.
Astha Saxena nevermind sister we are now Mgtow 😍 more money and no more cohabitation with a person who question over and over again after a wedding commitment 🙂
Escort girl are now better less expensive.
INSHAALLAH i will full fill all there needs and these things to my future wife😊
All i want from him is that he obeys the laws of Allah , with sincerity. That is the man which i wil fall in love with , In Shaa Allah . And i dont care how long i need to wait for him... For i know that i need to deserve such person , first .
Adriana Bonita masha Allah same here siz
You dont need to wait for long sister,i think i am the perfect match for you but problem is i am little bit lazy and fat too and my nose looks like the beak of bird.i am 100 kg big fat boy,i eat a lot of food but you need ensure there is a lot of food in kitchen otherwise i will end up eating you,so what do you think?
Zalima Hussein sister are you really cruel,because your name is (zalima=cruel)
Syed basit LOL ! Lets get merried !
Syed basit i am a very actieve person , i like work outs , walk a lot , and i dont eat Garbage , junk food , and i dont drink alcohol... Your life wil be hell ! 😂
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This is so true! I almost lost my wife of 19 years because I did not give her what she needed. Woman are high maintaince but if you take care of them they will take care of you.
One of the most important needs of a wife is when his husband treats her special and make her priority and to feel her that he loves her so much and most all is to respect her wife.
There are two parts of every communication. Transmitter and receiver. The definition of respect and love differs between different people. Based on upbringing some women will never have enough of whatever their definition of love or attention is to them
I’m so gonna show this to my future husband cz he better learn this.
And the other video about wives was such an awakening. I aspire to be a wife who’ll guide her husband to the right path, make him feel like a king but also be his best friend. Ameen 😊
Ps. Gosh! That’s gonna be a lotta work!! 😆
Finally, I see some sisters who are also taking the other video seriously as well cuz I see the women are very happy in the comment section of this video but in the other video (I'm sure even sisters have noticed this, one sister actually pointed this out as well) women were so like..... annoyed basically. They were just saying my husband doesn't deserve my respect or this or that but when it comes to this video every girl is like, Yeah spot on, every man should take notes and I'm like sisters that's not how it works 😐. But Alhamdulillah there are also sisters like you and some others who are taking their rights as well as their responsibilities seriously. May Allah bless sisters like that.
Mashallah.. these are the things needed in my life.. I dont know when my husband understands this.. hope soon he will do.. inshallah 😭
May Allah put love and faith in your heart and your husband's heart
10 years down the line and I'm still waiting for the day that my husband appreciates me....... Still looking on.....
May Allah ease your hardships
Send him this video?
Yeah trying showing the video lol. Can’t just expect him to understand quantum physics without providing him a book about it.
Have patience my dear Sis., Even this too shall pass.
May allah bless you
Omg thank you! My husband doesn’t get it. He use to do this. Once we got married that was it! Keep doing what you did to get me!
thank you brother.جزاك الله خير
MashaAllah, u said my words. JazakAllahu khairun kaseera Brother Yasir Qadhi. 100% agreed
In this vid, the comments numbers in majority are affirmation, while the opposite vid, the affirmative comments numbers in minority. May Allah bless us with beautiful marriage
Well said ...... the leceture is very true every man can think like you your is wife soo lucky
My opinion to this lecture is everything is clearly said and yeah not yet married but one day wife to be inshallah not only men may Almighty make us good women too❤ SubhanAllAH how beautiful is my religion
💯%.....May Allah(SWT) shower his blessings upon every husband and wife. A'AMEEN SUM'MA A'AMEEN
This is true to the core...
Thank u so so much...i m in such a stage of life where i have to move on...trust me...i literally cried after listening to this...it was as if the speaker was reading out every single word from my heart..may Allah bless us all.
To all those waiting for their man out there, may Allah give all of you my sisters this caring and understanding husband, may HE bring your dream prince to you soon🤲
Also make us the best wife and the best woman in his knowledge 🤲
Ya Allah I'm also in the que ya Rabb... 🙃🤲
I wish my husband could listen to this and change for better. I pray Allah will guide him to realize how important these words are in our marriage SoubhanaAllah. Am in pain
Wow!! Definitely needed to put my feelings into words and this is simply said. My husband makes me feel like this is too much....apparently I'm not the one. I only want to be loved wholeheartedly. May Allah grant us mercy, grace and peace during these times...InshaAllah
Ma shaa Allah
You r right, I will send this link to my husband.
Spouses not all of them. Take each other for granted. He's so right they have learn to appreciate each other. This life short our spouses don't live forever. My opinion don't be afraid to love one another. Inshallah we are granted good spouses.
Every husband in this world needs to be made to watch this video!
These are all the missing puzzles pieces…Some wise men know this but then again there’s a lot of men who don’t. This would prevent A lot of Narcissistic men knowing they are going in the wrong direction and finding a true way to love the woman he’s married too!
Just a question, if a man is constantly reminding his wife about his love, won't that reduce the worth of his love. It is natural, every time we get something easily, we don't appreciate it any more and sometimes we might also get annoyed of that thing. Just trying to understand the phycology of a women and I'll be honest It's NOT easy😅
MASHA ALLAH how nicely you have explained a women's heart..
The talk is exuctly right.
It is so true. JazakaAllah khaira.
Masha Allah exactly what I want from my husband...very beautifully expressed...may Allah bless you brother
Got tears in my eyes .... Don't know the reason... Well narrated .. may Allah pak bless you ameeen
Go watch the other video what a gut needs from his wife
How beautifully you explained it. 👍
MashAAllah MashAAllah very true a superb speech. ..Allahamdulillah.
Absolutely spot on. He understand women’s better than I understand what I want myself . Lol.
Men take heed. This is valuable information to make your marriages successful and happy.
Ma sha Allah wonderful speech. May Allah bless all of us a happy conjugal life. Ameen
U r right sir may allah grant all the husbands loving and caring for their wifes
Yes exactly the talk is absolutely right about the wife
I want to thank you for your thoughts. As a Christian I was given a fresh look at how my wife wants to be treated and I appreciate your insight. God bless and thank you once again.
Believe me,every intelligent women in the world want to be respected,honored and acknowledged more than they want anything else.
I love my future wife Insha Allah😍💜
MashaAllah
Awesome... Defined what woman need... Its reality..
what a message.. its really touching.. thankk you for understanding women soo deeply
Have to i did never think in this way before and not only this in his other video the way he said id actually true.you really are a love expert.better than anyone else
Masya Allah the explanation is beyond words! It’s 100% correct and beautifully explained. :’)
Why do Indonesians write Masya Allah instead of Masha Allah?
May Allah give us a good futuer wife n good futuer husband Ameen
Ameen
Alhamdulillah I needed to hear this brother. Jazakallah
Beautiful.... very well said 👌🏼
This is the first time this video is like as if i m directly speaking it to my hubby throughout this video...these all points are exactly my issues...save me Allah
is true! i just married yesterday and i agree! we always need our husbands praise and attention!
Assalam alaikum sister. May Allah bless your new union and give you all goodness in this dunya and akhira. Allahuma ameen
+Alhamdu lillah inshallah brother!
Thank you for such an amazing message. 💖👌💖👌💖👌💖
Bless message and amazing video
Allah blessing you my brother
I came here after watching the video “what men want from women” which honestly pissed me off. I felt it’s unfair. But, I couldn’t deny a bit to this video. It made me realise how different men and women actually are. SubhanAllah may Allah guide us and help us to be the best partner to our spouse.
you are brainwashed by western culture...both the videos are correct to the points...And Islam teaches us this....but we have created a different world . listening and respecting your husband doesn't make you low...but increase respect and love of your husband towards you and vice versa.
mashaallah, what an amazing speech. may the Almighty Rabb always give u courage to clean out men perception over ladies. Time is attention indeed.
Wow, it's so correct. Every men should be like this
Jazakumullah khyran
May Allah reward u abundantly
I love my future wife 😍
hahaha
If you get one that is.I mean, how do you even know that you would be blessed with one? Nobody knows the future.
ouch
Decka the 10 dimensional creature Allah created us in pairs. If you dont get it here, you may get it in Heaven.
Decka the 10 dimensional creature
You are actually wishing bad for him. Instead of saying Insha Allah.
Best marriage advice...God bless you
Beautiful lecture! MaShaAllah❤️
Thanks you so much for this great video really really appreciate I never knew any older men understand those feelings I really appreciate it thank you so much my brother may Allah subhana watala continue to bless you.
Above said is all about being romantic, though it is also an important part of marriage,
But the most important thing is being sincere. If husband is sincere then only he can make his wife feel loved, cared and number one priority and for this he don't need to give flowers, celebrate adversaries or tell now and then I love u. His sincerity itself makes her to feel all these things without any show.
Otherwise what is the fun of giving the bunches of roses, celebrating birthdays and anversaries, repeating words like parrot, which in reality means nothing
Men should know apart of seeing the things women has also quality of smelling things.
You are absolutely right. Thumb up.
well said
Mash Allah this is so right.. Men pay attention. Remember when she is happy everyone is happy.
Are you married? I am assuming you are a male.
Above statement is so biased.
@@Just_logic ik right 😂
Beautiful voice and beautiful message to all the man ..
Excellent.. Touching
U r soo right.....soooo right
Beautifull word's mashaAllah..I just download the video for my husbnad...lets see😏
😆same I wanted him to listen this beautiful saying
IM GLAD I WATCHED THIS , IT WILL IMPROVE ME INSHAALLAH
Masshallah it's a beautifully saying...soo true.touched my ❤
Beautiful 😊...Jazakiallah khair brother..
Jazaakumullahu Khayraan Jazaa for uploading this beneficial Naseehah.
Thank you for the video my friend very positive and informative
thank you for the vid.brother...love it.😊
ur wife is so lucky 😊she have uh in her life ur thinking so amazing mashallah
Exactly.Mashallah!!!
nevermind sister we are now Mgtow 😍 more money and no more cohabitation with a person who question over and over again after a wedding commitment 🙂
Escort girl are now better less expensive. Samiya Shaikh
UNITED MONEY the naive way you think is the same as me when I was in your change.
When you will get more mature in life you understand.
To answer to your « hikma » Im prefer telling that my elder brother (deeply on deen) suicide himself after his hijab wife left the house with the daughter after 10 years of marriage and my brother caught that she were cheating on him.
Just have look on divorce rate and who is initiate divorce often time and you will shut up fuck up.
The wife you have in your mind is a Disney dream boy. Wake up because you will lose soon everything and you will get back to me for gratitude ;)
MaashaAllah ❤ very nice... all wives need this attention from their husbands 😊
Wow, i must cry..wonderfull,true and great Words💖👑
Jazak’Allah i need this badly thank u soo much Alhumdolillah i am on the right path.
Heart touching ..
This is What I expect from my husband, beautifully explained 👏👏👏🙏🙏 the unspoken words of womens
superbb subhanallaah everything is lyk wht a wife needs thnk u so much
Masha-Allah, very realistic, what a good research on human nature! Allahu Akbar!!!
MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah...what a lovely marriage advice...feeling very happy after dis video...Allhumdullillah...whoever made dis video ..may allah bless u.... i had tears in my eyes