This video called me out. Thank you for the gentle reminder ✝️ As someone who is married to a man that’s not saved, I find it very difficult at times. But I will continue to show the grace and love of God to my husband by my actions 🙏🏼
Your husband won’t listen to you. I’m calling it now. Learn to love him for what he is rather than risking your marriage over a magic book written 2000 years ago. He, nor I needs to be “saved” and I much rather go to hell in your eyes than giving in to the lies of the church.
Unfortunately not all husbands earn all of the above the pastor said! However it'd be wonderful and great if All husbands earned and deserved it , The world 🌎 would be a much better place! Afterall the Men are supposed to be the leaders so they should Lead with all that integrity and the women will surely follow 😉
I have been married for 37 years. We were friends before we got married, and that friendship stayed. That is a very important part of a good relationship between a married couple. The understanding and talking things through without fighting. ...we kept that bright and happy friendship. That is also made possible because both of us serve God.
Thankyou! Heading up to 37 years married and still learning! But God's ways are the best and honest biblical encouragement like this is rare! So appreciate it😊
Found this and love the definition!!!! The phrase translated as “help meet” comes from two Hebrew words, ezer and kenegdo. Ezer means “help,” but in a distinct way. In English, a “helper” is sometimes thought of as someone in a low position, but ezer describes strength. It suggests that the individual has power to rescue others.
I am not yet a wife, but I believe God is shaping me into the bride He wants for His special and specific son. ❤✝️🙏 I want to prepare in this season of waiting for when that time comes. I was not raised with a godly marriage, so I want to have time for these biblical ideas and truths to take root in my mind and let God teach me what I'm lacking. Thank you for this! 🙏❤️
I am praying that there are three mothers in law "to be" out there, who are on their knees praying for you three ladies. Keep the oil in your lamps for when the bridegroom comes! One of my biggest blessings in life is my daughter in law. She radiates the joy of the Lord, has gently led our son back into fellowship, and she herself was not raised in a Christian home. Her quiet, gentle spirit is powerful.
I would recommend saving this video as well & watching it when married so you wont forget to apply it. Its easy to listen but challenging to actually be in the spot. (Just a tip) 🙂
I love the end point! I’ve been married for 15 years and I’ve never been told that. I do see the wisdom in it. Now, I surround myself with married women, who are primarily pastors wives…and I have mostly mentors that also act as friends (it’s not all by choice, but sometimes God protects and preserves us by keeping us in small circles). Women, that is such sound advice. I honestly had to ask myself, “do I do those things for my husband?” And found myself convicted on some of them. It also doesn’t matter what you face in your marriage or what he does against you, while you are married you are accountable for how you honor the Lord as you honor your husband. Thank you for this video!
This was terrific and to the point. Sorry it was not longer. As a woman we get too attracted to the world’s way of a woman’s role, because it’s always in our face. Women have power in a marriage, but must use it with wisdom. Thank you Pastor.
Do not fall victim to the lies that woman are lesser in a marriage. Marriage should be an equal relationship in which neither party has more power over the other.
@kirbot you are correct. I was married to a husband who urinated on the bathroom floor instead of inside the toilet because he said "YOUR JOB IS TO CLEAN IT UP!" My "former" husband twisted God's Word to force me into a subservient role. God loves men and women and wants us to love and respect each other accomplishing our purpose on this earth. Needless to say, I left him because the treatment escalated in to full blown abuse. Some Christian diehards would even say I should never have left him. Thank God, I had a Biblical loophole allowing me to leave him because he also cheated on me and numerous other horrors, which do offer abuse victims a legal escape. God never wants us to suffer abuse in our marriage. So we must find the balance God intended.
If we are told to submit to the husband..then we very much are seen as lesser in the marriage. I'm having huge difficulty seeing this as anything other than toxic and an excuse for males to use this to just be controlling to massage their egos. Women are often put in this situation, me included in past relationships and it makes us vulnerable.
1. Listen without interrupting. 2. Avoid belittling him. 3. Affirm verbally for his work. 4. Support his goals and aspirations. 5. Take care of your appearance. 6. Prioritise sex in marriage. 7. Yeild to his leadership. 8. Give him space. 9. Stay loyal. 10. Do things together. 11. Support his family. 12. Don't gossip about your marriage with others. 13. Don't be closed with divorced woman or single woman.
This compelling video brings back terrible memories of my recent breakup after four years of dating. My dearest friend made the decision to go, and I was left with an inexhaustible hurt. I can't even begin to imagine my life without him, much as I keep trying to make amends. I'm frustrated. I want to write about how much I miss him here because I can't seem to get him out of my head.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I'm not a wife; I'm not even a woman. But I'm certain that this message is perfect for helping any man find that perfect Daughter of God! Will listen to the husbands' video later
Thank you so much ,I was in fasting and prayer today the Lord was showing me how I should work on improving in area of submission to my hubby .Here I just click on TH-cam and your video pop first .Praise our God
Awesome I've been married for 22yrs now and my husband works soo hard,I haven encouraged to give him space which I do but thought it was too much..I have learnt from all the 12 ways God bless you..
Thank you I pray all separated and divorced couples see this video. Aswell as married couple and single persons waiting on the Lord for a husband or wife.
I love love how you better explained submission by comparing it to the yield sign on the road. It really helped me understand this concept without the negative connotation that is usually attached to this concept.
This is my favorite pastor I listen to him every day I have learned so much and unlearned a lot of things I through was right thank you pastor Vladimir I am learning to be a person to put Jesus Christ first in my life my prayers are for you and your family sign Cynthia Smith
How insightful. As someone who's engaged (wedding in 4 months), this has really helped me evaluate myself in how I can be the best partner to my husband. Thank you, Pastor Vlad, I always take notes on your videos 🙌🙏
Hello Vlad, a couple of little things that make a big difference: - when he leaves to work, and when he comes home, give him a warm greeting/hug. It means all the world for him. - if you want something, ask politely “could you please”. Don’t bark imperatives (do this do that).
I’m not married, but I’m hoping in God it happens. So I’m listening to this and learning in preparation to who God is bringing my way. Videos like this are rare, thank you for allowing God to use you.
Thank God for you🙏🏾 This is simple, understandable & needed especially for women without a father figure, these lessons most times are learned the hard way.
Dear Pastor, i hope the next video will be 12 or more ways of how a husband can show LOVE and HONOUR to his wife! Husbands and wives both need to be taught on the same platform about this, parallelly too, to bring the beautiful balance God desires in a family
Dude, praise the Lord... I have been wondering how to show respect for probably a month now. I asked several people, but no one seemed to know. Showing love always seemed pretty straightforward to me (especially once you understand the 5 love languages), but respect...? That was a whole other ballgame that I felt I understood very little. Thank you for making this video! It's just what I needed!
Lovely Pastor Vlad! Keep sharing the biblical truth! 📖🕊️✝️ I deeply honor, respect, and cherish my husband ♥️! He loves it when I join him in his hobbies. He enjoys board games, although I find them a bit challenging. Still, I help by putting sleeves on cards or organizing game pieces. I’ll ask about these games and he’s wonderful how enthusiastic he gets ☺️! Every other Friday evening, he has board game nights with friends, and I bake homemade treats for them 🍰 . Showing genuine interest in your husband's hobbies is crucial, as it allows you to bond together! 💕
This video is helpful. I don’t feel belittled or like I’m being accused of evil when addressing how and what it looks like to respect my husband. I felt taught not ridiculed. Thank you!
Thank you for this !! Both men and women Need to respect each other. When a Women feels deeply loved and cherished it would be quite easy to respect her husband…. And i understand men need space when overwhelmed, with that women also need to be verbally reassured by the men that he will step away for a moment and return because he loves his wife. Constant validation and affirmation we women need….
Loved the video! I have known loneliness in marriage waiting for my husband to wake up- "It takes two to tango, it takes two to have a marriage"- yeah, me and Jesus!
Thank you pastor Vlad. I will have to listern again. Very good leasons for me here. Been a wife for over 17yrs and picked a lot that I have been missing. Thank you so much.
Much needed this was awesome. I saved this video to keep me reminded this was most helpful 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Holy Spirit was showing me things that I need to stop doing that’s bothering my husband 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'll tell you what....this is the most succinct and clear explanation I've heard on this topic for a long time! My husband has said these to me in many ways but your presentation was very impactful. I'm going to share with my friends.
I am a believer and have been for over 12 years now I've been married for 13 years. I understand completely what God's will is in marriage most of the time. It's just hard when someone isn't seeking the Lord the way you are. But I completely understand all that you have said. Being unequally yoked
Timeless advice that's always relevant. Thanks so much for the reminders. I added an extra bonus point... Never betray his confidences. If he trusts you enough to open up and share something personal with you then respect, appreciate and honour that confidence
Wow thanks! In not married yet, but I pray that when I am about to marry, this video would pop up again🥰 It is completely new to me that what men need first is respect, and then love. Or is it that they feel loved when they get the respect that's due to them?
Some husbands are overly sensitive about respect and will accuse you of disrespecting them, even though it was he who disrespected you. Deep respect is not something that can be enforced, it can only be earned by showing kindness, consideration, love and respect for others.
I believe God is pruning me right now to get rid of everything that is not wife like qualities and filling me up with everything that is. I am proverbs 31 woman. I know my husband is around the corner. God is presenting me to him quickly, in mighty Jesus name I pray amen.
These are great for a spiritually matched marriage. Not so much (especially activities) for a spiritually mismatched marriage. What advice do you have for us? When we, as Abigails, run to our King, our Nabals are likely to feel abandoned. What then?
I'd love to hear that, too! Because, according to the submission teachings, Abigail should have submitted to Nabal. And yet she was praised for disobeying him & taking food & supplies to the king... and God killed her husband for being a fool.
This list is spot on. Practice daily and you won’t regret it! My husband and I have been very happily married for 30 years. I fall more in love with him every day.
Today i needed this message . Thank you lord . Correct time God directed me to see this . Because yest only I had a clash with my hus. Keep me in prayer to let go my ego .
Well said. Thanks for sharing Pst Vlad. Indeed doing marriage the Word’s way is the sweetest. Your teaching is pure wisdom from above. I am challenged as well as informed. I struggled with submitted especially when I dont see the sense of doing so. But that word of God is true, and has to be followed. It stands the test of time. As I started asking the assistance of the Holy Spirit, He took me to word of God is 1 Peter 3 some weeks ago as well. Actually, this is the scripture that helped me overcome my struggle of submitting even when it is tough like tough. Your analogy of the equality and unity of the Holy Trinity is so helpful. A woman is a “source” a source through which good or bad could be shared. Not just to the man but that children and everyone around. May God continue to inspire your teachings.
A man shouldn't put his ego, himself first since Jesus never did.A man isn't supposed to bring you down, hold you back instead of supporting your dreams and goals since Jesus never did to us.A man isn't supposed to cheat since Jesus never did,...should I go on?
Amen,thanks for sharing,its an important lesson for me and our marriage God bless you Pasyor Vlad and yiur beautiful wife and little Samuel,lots of love from Kenya
Listen without interrupting Avoid being belittling or sarcastic Affirm him verbally for his work Support his goals and aspirations Take care of your appearance Prioritize sex in marriage
@@kirbot”Taking care of your appearance.” His explanation sounded more like wives watch your weight. If a wife was to let her appearance go…her husband will then have an excuse for a wandering eye. 🤔🙄😵💫
@@susannahhart3946 why would you as a women let yourself go?? It shouldn’t matter if u are single or married no one should let their self go. Thats laziness, most likely when women were dating their husbands they kept them selves up. Don’t get the man then just let your self go, that’s selfish.
Yes it's very very hard but just what he said it is the true i could say that i am a husband i can tell you try doing this get a Gass for water and full your mouth with the water keeps it full and you will see 👀 bless 🙏🙏🙏💯👍
This is valuable advice when interacting with ANYONE. I often think I can save us all a lot of time if I simply interrupt and stop the NONSENSE, but interrupting is clear DISRESPECT. I too am believing for growth and victory in this area.😊
Very helpful video.. and advices. Being single , it helps me in the future to be a good wife to my future husband by in God's will🙏😇😊 Thank you for this Pastor Vlad. To God be the glory always.🙏😇😊 All for His glory and Honor🙏😇
This video called me out. Thank you for the gentle reminder ✝️ As someone who is married to a man that’s not saved, I find it very difficult at times. But I will continue to show the grace and love of God to my husband by my actions 🙏🏼
Your husband won’t listen to you. I’m calling it now. Learn to love him for what he is rather than risking your marriage over a magic book written 2000 years ago. He, nor I needs to be “saved” and I much rather go to hell in your eyes than giving in to the lies of the church.
@@kirbotthat’s sad you rather go to hell. Then to believe in the word of god. You’re in this video for a reason , you’ll understand soon.
Same here we both need alot of prayer
Unfortunately not all husbands earn all of the above the pastor said! However it'd be wonderful and great if All husbands earned and deserved it , The world 🌎 would be a much better place! Afterall the Men are supposed to be the leaders so they should Lead with all that integrity and the women will surely follow 😉
Same here. Continue to love and give grace. As my counselor reminds me, I am to serve my husband as though I am serving Christ.
I have been married for 37 years. We were friends before we got married, and that friendship stayed. That is a very important part of a good relationship between a married couple. The understanding and talking things through without fighting. ...we kept that bright and happy friendship. That is also made possible because both of us serve God.
Wow I wish I had this
Thankyou! Heading up to 37 years married and still learning! But God's ways are the best and honest biblical encouragement like this is rare! So appreciate it😊
Found this and love the definition!!!!
The phrase translated as “help meet” comes from two Hebrew words, ezer and kenegdo. Ezer means “help,” but in a distinct way. In English, a “helper” is sometimes thought of as someone in a low position, but ezer describes strength. It suggests that the individual has power to rescue others.
Thanks
Certainty is unique each women and is gratefully known. For some women they don’t see that is true for not all women. There is a God.
I am not yet a wife, but I believe God is shaping me into the bride He wants for His special and specific son. ❤✝️🙏 I want to prepare in this season of waiting for when that time comes. I was not raised with a godly marriage, so I want to have time for these biblical ideas and truths to take root in my mind and let God teach me what I'm lacking. Thank you for this! 🙏❤️
Amen! Same for me sister 🙏🤍
Same ❤
I am praying that there are three mothers in law "to be" out there, who are on their knees praying for you three ladies. Keep the oil in your lamps for when the bridegroom comes!
One of my biggest blessings in life is my daughter in law. She radiates the joy of the Lord, has gently led our son back into fellowship, and she herself was not raised in a Christian home.
Her quiet, gentle spirit is powerful.
I would recommend saving this video as well & watching it when married so you wont forget to apply it. Its easy to listen but challenging to actually be in the spot. (Just a tip) 🙂
Likewise!
I love the end point! I’ve been married for 15 years and I’ve never been told that. I do see the wisdom in it. Now, I surround myself with married women, who are primarily pastors wives…and I have mostly mentors that also act as friends (it’s not all by choice, but sometimes God protects and preserves us by keeping us in small circles). Women, that is such sound advice.
I honestly had to ask myself, “do I do those things for my husband?” And found myself convicted on some of them.
It also doesn’t matter what you face in your marriage or what he does against you, while you are married you are accountable for how you honor the Lord as you honor your husband.
Thank you for this video!
You're also accountable to your children and they will hate you for being a doormat to an abusive husband.
This was terrific and to the point. Sorry it was not longer. As a woman we get too attracted to the world’s way of a woman’s role, because it’s always in our face. Women have power in a marriage, but must use it with wisdom. Thank you Pastor.
Do not fall victim to the lies that woman are lesser in a marriage. Marriage should be an equal relationship in which neither party has more power over the other.
@@kirbot submitting to your husband isn't a degrading position.
@@kirbotBe careful you may be manipulating the Word of God
@kirbot you are correct. I was married to a husband who urinated on the bathroom floor instead of inside the toilet because he said "YOUR JOB IS TO CLEAN IT UP!" My "former" husband twisted God's Word to force me into a subservient role. God loves men and women and wants us to love and respect each other accomplishing our purpose on this earth. Needless to say, I left him because the treatment escalated in to full blown abuse. Some Christian diehards would even say I should never have left him. Thank God, I had a Biblical loophole allowing me to leave him because he also cheated on me and numerous other horrors, which do offer abuse victims a legal escape. God never wants us to suffer abuse in our marriage. So we must find the balance God intended.
If we are told to submit to the husband..then we very much are seen as lesser in the marriage. I'm having huge difficulty seeing this as anything other than toxic and an excuse for males to use this to just be controlling to massage their egos.
Women are often put in this situation, me included in past relationships and it makes us vulnerable.
1. Listen without interrupting.
2. Avoid belittling him.
3. Affirm verbally for his work.
4. Support his goals and aspirations.
5. Take care of your appearance.
6. Prioritise sex in marriage.
7. Yeild to his leadership.
8. Give him space.
9. Stay loyal.
10. Do things together.
11. Support his family.
12. Don't gossip about your marriage with others.
13. Don't be closed with divorced woman or single woman.
11 it când be a problem, doesn't the Bible say that men will leave their mama and papa and be one with his wife?
Thanks alot
And what if he is his parents boy.. only concerned about them.. In that case all these have to followed by a wife..
👍 for this video.. worth listening to it. Everything said makes sense ❤❤❤
Women also need these same treatments.. These rules actually work both ways..
Maybe you should say this is a mutual thing
This compelling video brings back terrible memories of my recent breakup after four years of dating. My dearest friend made the decision to go, and I was left with an inexhaustible hurt. I can't even begin to imagine my life without him, much as I keep trying to make amends. I'm frustrated. I want to write about how much I miss him here because I can't seem to get him out of my head.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
The veil has been lifted..Helping people to set themselfs free.. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message…
I'm not a wife; I'm not even a woman. But I'm certain that this message is perfect for helping any man find that perfect Daughter of God! Will listen to the husbands' video later
Thank you so much ,I was in fasting and prayer today the Lord was showing me how I should work on improving in area of submission to my hubby .Here I just click on TH-cam and your video pop first .Praise our God
Awesome I've been married for 22yrs now and my husband works soo hard,I haven encouraged to give him space which I do but thought it was too much..I have learnt from all the 12 ways God bless you..
Thank you I pray all separated and divorced couples see this video. Aswell as married couple and single persons waiting on the Lord for a husband or wife.
I love love how you better explained submission by comparing it to the yield sign on the road. It really helped me understand this concept without the negative connotation that is usually attached to this concept.
This is my favorite pastor I listen to him every day I have learned so much and unlearned a lot of things I through was right thank you pastor Vladimir I am learning to be a person to put Jesus Christ first in my life my prayers are for you and your family sign Cynthia Smith
Love this pastor’s preaching/teaching.
How insightful. As someone who's engaged (wedding in 4 months), this has really helped me evaluate myself in how I can be the best partner to my husband. Thank you, Pastor Vlad, I always take notes on your videos 🙌🙏
Congrats. I pray that the Lord bless you all's union IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN.
Hello Vlad, a couple of little things that make a big difference:
- when he leaves to work, and when he comes home, give him a warm greeting/hug. It means all the world for him.
- if you want something, ask politely “could you please”. Don’t bark imperatives (do this do that).
Wisdom is profitable to direct. Thank you Pastor Vlad for this wisdom.
I’m not married, but I’m hoping in God it happens. So I’m listening to this and learning in preparation to who God is bringing my way. Videos like this are rare, thank you for allowing God to use you.
Amen and amen 🙏 🙏🙏🙏💯👍
Thank you Pastor Vlad for sharing and a reminder for married women to respect their husbands as was it is from the WOG.
Thank God for you🙏🏾 This is simple, understandable & needed especially for women without a father figure, these lessons most times are learned the hard way.
So thankful for your teaching! I needed 25 years ago and still today. Many blessings to you and your family!
Dear Pastor, i hope the next video will be 12 or more ways of how a husband can show LOVE and HONOUR to his wife!
Husbands and wives both need to be taught on the same platform about this, parallelly too, to bring the beautiful balance God desires in a family
Thank you dear pastor
You already have done a video
I saw it just now
Listening to it
Dude, praise the Lord... I have been wondering how to show respect for probably a month now. I asked several people, but no one seemed to know. Showing love always seemed pretty straightforward to me (especially once you understand the 5 love languages), but respect...? That was a whole other ballgame that I felt I understood very little. Thank you for making this video! It's just what I needed!
Agree! You might also find this widely taught bestselling Christian book helpful, Love and Respect
@@gretchensteward4078 Thank you! Will check it out!
Lovely Pastor Vlad! Keep sharing the biblical truth! 📖🕊️✝️
I deeply honor, respect, and cherish my husband ♥️! He loves it when I join him in his hobbies. He enjoys board games, although I find them a bit challenging. Still, I help by putting sleeves on cards or organizing game pieces. I’ll ask about these games and he’s wonderful how enthusiastic he gets ☺️! Every other Friday evening, he has board game nights with friends, and I bake homemade treats for them 🍰 . Showing genuine interest in your husband's hobbies is crucial, as it allows you to bond together! 💕
Where are these women like you? They're like dinosaurs and non existent
This video is helpful. I don’t feel belittled or like I’m being accused of evil when addressing how and what it looks like to respect my husband. I felt taught not ridiculed. Thank you!
God bless you and your husband.......sister bless in Jesus name amen bless 🙏 🙏🙏🙏💯👍
Thank you for this !! Both men and women Need to respect each other. When a Women feels deeply loved and cherished it would be quite easy to respect her husband…. And i understand men need space when overwhelmed, with that women also need to be verbally reassured by the men that he will step away for a moment and return because he loves his wife. Constant validation and affirmation we women need….
Loved the video! I have known loneliness in marriage waiting for my husband to wake up- "It takes two to tango, it takes two to have a marriage"- yeah, me and Jesus!
Yes, thank God Jesus is our ultimate, faithful, trustworthy husband!
Pray for God to place other people around your husband to draw him to Jesus. Sometimes, it takes outside sources to bring them around.
Thank you pastor Vlad. I will have to listern again. Very good leasons for me here. Been a wife for over 17yrs and picked a lot that I have been missing. Thank you so much.
Much needed this was awesome. I saved this video to keep me reminded this was most helpful 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Holy Spirit was showing me things that I need to stop doing that’s bothering my husband 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'll tell you what....this is the most succinct and clear explanation I've heard on this topic for a long time! My husband has said these to me in many ways but your presentation was very impactful. I'm going to share with my friends.
Using the analogy of the unity of the Trinity was pretty powerful.
I am a believer and have been for over 12 years now I've been married for 13 years. I understand completely what God's will is in marriage most of the time. It's just hard when someone isn't seeking the Lord the way you are. But I completely understand all that you have said. Being unequally yoked
Continue to ask God to place other Godly influences in your spouse's life, to bring them to salvation, in Jesus' Name.
Thankyou pst.Vlad, most of the points ive heard you mentioned was about the tongue...may God help us tame our tongue😊
Im really blessed, listening your valuable sharing❤❤❤ God blessed you abundantly.
Timeless advice that's always relevant. Thanks so much for the reminders. I added an extra bonus point...
Never betray his confidences. If he trusts you enough to open up and share something personal with you then respect, appreciate and honour that confidence
Thank you for this. I'm 5 years into my marriage and really needed this reminder. You got another subscriber!
Amen and Amen,,,Make me Holy Spirit when it's time. Thanks for the wonderful message.❤
Sex is only a super glue in the marriage if there is a relationship that is respectful and loving.
Otherwise it just contributes to the tearing apart.
Wow thanks! In not married yet, but I pray that when I am about to marry, this video would pop up again🥰
It is completely new to me that what men need first is respect, and then love. Or is it that they feel loved when they get the respect that's due to them?
So grateful for this channel, God bless you Pastor Vlad.
WOW!!!!! Loved this. Thank you pastor.
Amen in Jesus name bless 🙏🙏🙏💯👍
I love that quote from the bible, "bad company corrupts good morals".
Some husbands are overly sensitive about respect and will accuse you of disrespecting them, even though it was he who disrespected you. Deep respect is not something that can be enforced, it can only be earned by showing kindness, consideration, love and respect for others.
Great, been blessed listening to you share God's word.
The trailer and Kia illustrations hit me hard. Rules of the road!! Thank you!
This is gold. Thank you for making this video
I believe God is pruning me right now to get rid of everything that is not wife like qualities and filling me up with everything that is. I am proverbs 31 woman. I know my husband is around the corner. God is presenting me to him quickly, in mighty Jesus name I pray amen.
I think this video helped me see my husband differently more than any other video. Thank you.
These are great for a spiritually matched marriage. Not so much (especially activities) for a spiritually mismatched marriage. What advice do you have for us? When we, as Abigails, run to our King, our Nabals are likely to feel abandoned. What then?
I'd love to hear that, too!
Because, according to the submission teachings, Abigail should have submitted to Nabal. And yet she was praised for disobeying him & taking food & supplies to the king... and God killed her husband for being a fool.
I took that as, we need to submit to God first. If our husbands ask us to disobey God, then we listen to God first.@@ORSkie
I have learnt a lot as a wife
Thank You Jesus Christ.
This list is spot on. Practice daily and you won’t regret it! My husband and I have been very happily married for 30 years. I fall more in love with him every day.
Today i needed this message . Thank you lord . Correct time God directed me to see this . Because yest only I had a clash with my hus. Keep me in prayer to let go my ego .
Excellent teaching Pastor Vlad.🔥
Blessed with the massage.God bless you and your family❤❤
Well said. Thanks for sharing Pst Vlad. Indeed doing marriage the Word’s way is the sweetest. Your teaching is pure wisdom from above. I am challenged as well as informed. I struggled with submitted especially when I dont see the sense of doing so. But that word of God is true, and has to be followed. It stands the test of time.
As I started asking the assistance of the Holy Spirit, He took me to word of God is 1 Peter 3 some weeks ago as well. Actually, this is the scripture that helped me overcome my struggle of submitting even when it is tough like tough. Your analogy of the equality and unity of the Holy Trinity is so helpful. A woman is a “source” a source through which good or bad could be shared. Not just to the man but that children and everyone around.
May God continue to inspire your teachings.
All these can be applied to men for mutual respect. For instance, a man can submit his ego to a wife’s wisdom .
A man shouldn't put his ego, himself first since Jesus never did.A man isn't supposed to bring you down, hold you back instead of supporting your dreams and goals since Jesus never did to us.A man isn't supposed to cheat since Jesus never did,...should I go on?
Thank you pastor GodBless
Amen,thanks for sharing,its an important lesson for me and our marriage God bless you Pasyor Vlad and yiur beautiful wife and little Samuel,lots of love from Kenya
This was a good reminder, thank you Pastor Vlad
Siempre es una bendicion escuchar consejos para buestro matrimonio. Sin duda The Lord has spoken to me.
God bless you, Pastor❤😊
Thank you Pastor Vlad for sharing this. I've been praying about this kind of content♥
What a blessing to get this reminder! Thanks so very much!
Listen without interrupting
Avoid being belittling or sarcastic
Affirm him verbally for his work
Support his goals and aspirations
Take care of your appearance
Prioritize sex in marriage
Your husband does not truly love you if he can’t bear seeing you without makeup on. That’s just wrong.
Take care of women's appearance why? So that husband dont lose interest and look at other women? Wtf.
Sex is important but dont prioritize it
What does taking care of your appearance have to do with makeup?
@@kirbot”Taking care of your appearance.” His explanation sounded more like wives watch your weight. If a wife was to let her appearance go…her husband will then have an excuse for a wandering eye. 🤔🙄😵💫
@@susannahhart3946 why would you as a women let yourself go?? It shouldn’t matter if u are single or married no one should let their self go. Thats laziness, most likely when women were dating their husbands they kept them selves up. Don’t get the man then just let your self go, that’s selfish.
This is good and helpful!
Is there a 12 ways husbands can love their wives video?
He mentioned a video geared towards that subject at the beginning of the video.
Tq so much for this it's like God show me something tq so much praise the lord Amen
You don't know how this message will save many marriages in our generation.
Thank you Pastor
I think am in my final season of waiting for my husband so am grateful for this. I get to learn this early
Great message. Thank you
Thank you for this! It's Edifying ❤
For me the most difficult part is "don't interrupt him when talking" sooooo hard not to but working on it.
Yes it's very very hard but just what he said it is the true i could say that i am a husband i can tell you try doing this get a Gass for water and full your mouth with the water keeps it full and you will see 👀 bless 🙏🙏🙏💯👍
This is valuable advice when interacting with ANYONE. I often think I can save us all a lot of time if I simply interrupt and stop the NONSENSE, but interrupting is clear DISRESPECT. I too am believing for growth and victory in this area.😊
You have provided excellent points. Thank you!
Thanks so much for these wise teachings👍👍👍
This was perfect! Thank you so much.
Thankyou for advice. I hope its not too late for me to change. I'm on my knees for God's intervention in my marriage.
It’s not too late. God will restore your marriage in Jesus name!!!!
@@Jcislord1860 Amen
No. 7 leadership...if he's not a leader or a poor leader...the woman is left to flounder and no matter how hard she tries...all else suffers
This may not be you, but this is the mantra of women that are unwilling to be led. No man can successfully lead a woman that refuses to be led.
This is a masterpiece ❤❤❤very powerful teaching
God's word works!!! Amen Pastor Vlad, God bless you🙏
Thanks for sharing bro. Greatly appreciated ❤️
Thank you for teaching that, he said some things that I never heard of so thank you. And God bless you.
This was good. Thank you Pastor
Thanks for sharing. This info helps me understand my husband and how I can respect him. ❤
Loved the clip. Thank you for the wonderful advice ❤
Excellent counselor. Very practical and helpful.
Thank you so much. I'm personally blessed. ❤. I have issues in dealing with my hubby, your tips helped me alot...
All are valid points to be followed through the helper,the Holy Spirit.
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Thank you so much for this beneficial information, Amen and amen and amen.
Thanks alot pastor and may Godbless you
Wow.... Best sermon ❤
Thank you so much for this teaching it's helpful to me l have been married for 23years I'm going to use this for my marriage
Wow! The Holy Spirit convicted me so 😭😭
You can be a submissive wife and still be a boss on the job 🎉❤. God is so good 🙏
Thank you and God bless!
Definitely great points backed with Bible verses. Thanks for sharing
What a building sermon this is!! ❤God bless you and your ministry
Thank You Pastor
Very helpful video.. and advices. Being single , it helps me in the future to be a good wife to my future husband by in God's will🙏😇😊 Thank you for this Pastor Vlad. To God be the glory always.🙏😇😊 All for His glory and Honor🙏😇
Wow the first point. Thank you pastor Vlad for this video.
Thank you so much 👍