My Honest Thoughts on Dallas // + my experience as a black woman

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 พ.ค. 2024
  • TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 Intro
    1:25 Cost of Living
    3:19 Culture & People
    6:08 Transportation
    6:41 People and Demographics
    9:28 Neighborhoods and Safety
    9:57 Deep Ellum
    10:11 Uptown Dallas
    10:23 Bishop Arts District
    10:48 Lower Greenville
    11:10 White Rock Lake
    11:26 Gun Violence
    12:04 Jobs and Opportunities
    13:03 Lifestyle and Vibe of Dallas
    14:41 Weather
    15:08 Trails and Outdoor Activities
    16:15 Dress Vibe
    16:55 Dating
    18:53 Final Thoughts and Wrap Up
    Dallas has been an up and coming city for a few years now. There are great opportunities here and lots to do. However there are some things you should definitely be aware of before moving here. If you're considering a move to Dallas, I am happy to answer any questions!
    Where you can find me:
    Instagram: / kahppuccino
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    Facts about me:
    Born: Rome, Italy
    Location: Dallas, Texas
    Uni: Drexel University

ความคิดเห็น • 367

  • @anaisdottavio
    @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hi! I just posted a new video where I take you with me downtown so that you can formulate your own opinion of downtown Dallas. You can watch it here: th-cam.com/video/p6xi1gswmEA/w-d-xo.html

  • @zuria07
    @zuria07 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    When I first moved to Dallas I noticed immediately that you had to be DRESSED when you went out, even for dinner, but I actually loved it. When I moved back home I was always overdressed for a little bit lol.

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +16

      people here are so fancy and beautiful i love it!

    • @MsCandyCane08
      @MsCandyCane08 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel like it’s the exact opposite I moved from Vegas where ppl always dressed up and I noticed everyone is dressed down here even at dinner and clubs

    • @Emelbelle2
      @Emelbelle2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's best to just be yourself in Dallas

    • @KittyKat-vb1nd
      @KittyKat-vb1nd ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@MsCandyCane08 coming from London and living on East Coast the men overall do not dress very well. Sportswear no matter the cost it is still sportswear and not a proper look.

    • @missjaz2006
      @missjaz2006 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MsCandyCane08hey girl, I would love to hear your thoughts of the big differences you noticed between Vegas and Dallas? I would be moving from Vegas so definitely curious to hear about it

  • @labaroncharles1958
    @labaroncharles1958 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    If you are black and moving to Dallas and want to live around people who look like you check out southern Dallas. There are three majority black suburbs there. Lancaster, Desoto and Cedar Hill TX. Multi million dollar communities and nice regular suburban communities.

  • @Damianoutlaw
    @Damianoutlaw ปีที่แล้ว +107

    6:00
    Dallas native checking in.
    Very good, and very fair video. Just as an FYI......in terms of you being shocked that Dallas has wealthy areas........Dallas has way more money than Philadelphia.....and that was told to me by a Philly transplant that moved here 10 years ago.
    Its almost impossible to be unemployed here in Dallas.
    You are right. Dallas is located in the Great Plains....not that much natural beauty. People come here to make money and get rich.

    • @slickwilly6868
      @slickwilly6868 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you feel about San Antonio or Austin? I'm just not feeling the Dallas area nor Houston.

    • @hilo6487
      @hilo6487 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@slickwilly6868 San Antonio is very slow moving, but I thinkbthey're trying to build it up, just not at the speed of the Big 3. Austin is very hipster and known for it's college culture, indie music scene, a BIT of hiking, and it's closeness to the Texas wine country.

    • @JesseWeil
      @JesseWeil 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@hilo6487😊😂

    • @lrvracer3515
      @lrvracer3515 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dallas is richer (by far) than every city on the East Coast except NY City.

    • @_diamondpearlco
      @_diamondpearlco หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yessss.. this is the confirmation I needed.. I’m on my way 💴 💰

  • @Jmoney709
    @Jmoney709 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I lived in Dallas area for 3 years. It was the most wonderful experience of my life and I will never forget any of my friends from there. Lots of good paying jobs and things to do. Ive never had any issues with crime but in Texas you can always hear gunshots in the distance. The wild west still creeps through the night.

    • @TeutonicTribe
      @TeutonicTribe หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Wild West, yeah? Nah, it’s gangbangers and the like that infiltrate safer or once-great n’hoods cuz now they have the cash. Starting sh*t & finishing sh*t with ‘they piece’ instead of using they words. Open carry & 2nd Amend. ammosexual politics don’t help either. Don’t get too relaxed here

  • @viiluxxallison8118
    @viiluxxallison8118 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    As a city girl from Chicago I really appreciate this video! I lived in Phoenix and I totally understand what u mean by downtown being a ghost town. I would say the same about Atlanta. Only really city people get it!

    • @KittyKat-vb1nd
      @KittyKat-vb1nd ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely.

    • @ogonnaben4261
      @ogonnaben4261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤...I will love to be your friend,what do you think....

    • @Jeschitown
      @Jeschitown 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm from Chicago and let's just say Dallas is not that LMAO but hey if that's your thing

    • @dbalexan
      @dbalexan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes!!! I lived in DC for like 10 years. Now I have people who just moved there asking why I left. They are living in a true “urban city” - walk to everything. One even got rid of his car. 😩😩

  • @ashleyd7447
    @ashleyd7447 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Thank you for this. I'm a 25yr old black woman. I was looking in uptown rather than deep ellum. I'm not into bars, the club scene, and I heard it was great for young professionals that like quiet spaces, greenery like parks, and walkability.
    I feel you on the dating and wanting to asking as soon as I get outside my home. Having my time wasted is my #1 pet peeve

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I think you'll really enjoy Uptown. Lots to do and I'd say a lot more polished than deep ellum. Though I'd check out deep ellum regardless, plenty to do and see during the day if you're not into the night life. The dating scene is still the same for me a couple months later but hope that it works for you :) safe move and good luck!

  • @dannytanner82
    @dannytanner82 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I moved to Dallas from Atlanta 5 months ago. I'm enjoying it so far

    • @rhondabiggs3959
      @rhondabiggs3959 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you like it better? Are there a lot of similarities between the cities in your opinion?

    • @dannytanner82
      @dannytanner82 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@rhondabiggs3959 there are but mainly more differences. Every city has pros and cons. But there's definitely alot of opportunities in Dallas.

    • @dannytanner82
      @dannytanner82 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree. I'm trying to take advantage of the city

    • @2babiesandtheboss
      @2babiesandtheboss ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm choosing between the two currently

    • @fortheladies771
      @fortheladies771 ปีที่แล้ว

      Which part of Atlanta were you in? I’m currently in Atlanta and wanna visit Dallas lol

  • @Rocioslane
    @Rocioslane ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Texas was a part of Mexico and that wasn’t too long ago in terms of history, so it makes sense that they’re culture would have a strong presence there.

    • @ogonnaben4261
      @ogonnaben4261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello beautiful creature❤❤❤❤ I will love to be your friend

  • @BNjelly
    @BNjelly ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I subscribed off of this one video because of how honest I seen you were. I watched this just to get some info about Dallas. It usually takes a couple to a few videos before I subscribe. Your a great TH-camr, very truthful, organized, and straight to the point!!!

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for your feedback and for being here! I hope I helped answer some of your questions.

  • @marktwain368
    @marktwain368 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You have a friendly and enjoyable style and should do more vids like these. Your analysis of the city is really helpful for outsiders, so thanks!

  • @sammii8467
    @sammii8467 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks for the breakdown. I’m weighing my options between Dallas and Houston.

  • @anthonyk423
    @anthonyk423 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Dallas and Texas is more laid back and not hustle and bustle. Plano and Frisco are cities where you have shopping and bars close to each other but not walking distance. People here like to get out and move around and don’t care that things aren’t very close to each other……also most people don’t want night life where they live. If you want nature then parks and lakes are your only option. I’m surprised you were surprised of super wealth neighborhoods considering the GDP of the Dallas area and Texas which are very high. Try to meet people in a different area because it does make a difference. You forgot one big advantage about living in Dallas and Texas…..no state tax.

    • @BrookeLynn-sr6vy
      @BrookeLynn-sr6vy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You do know that Dallas is in Texas right?

    • @anthonyk423
      @anthonyk423 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@BrookeLynn-sr6vy that’s obvious

    • @j.r.6094
      @j.r.6094 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dallas is not Hustle and bustle? Huh
      Maybe the suburbs but inside Dallas city limits is very Hustle and bustle everyday all day

  • @nikolasescuza2
    @nikolasescuza2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! This is the only good, authentic viedo I can find on living/moving to Dallas

  • @anaisdottavio
    @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +50

    TIMESTAMPS:
    00:00 Intro
    1:25 Cost of Living
    3:19 Culture & People
    6:08 Transportation
    6:41 People and Demographics
    9:28 Neighborhoods and Safety
    9:57 Deep Ellum
    10:11 Uptown Dallas
    10:23 Bishop Arts District
    10:48 Lower Greenville
    11:10 White Rock Lake
    11:26 Gun Violence
    12:04 Jobs and Opportunities
    13:03 Lifestyle and Vibe of Dallas
    14:41 Weather
    15:08 Trails and Outdoor Activities
    16:15 Dress Vibe
    16:55 Dating
    18:53 Final Thoughts and Wrap Up

  • @eboniesimone
    @eboniesimone 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video was super helpful! I was debating back and forth between Houston and Dallas and I think this video covered alot of questions I had that I just couldn't seem to find else where so thank you!

  • @happyfeet6663
    @happyfeet6663 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO FROM YOU SPECIFICALLY!

    • @happyfeet6663
      @happyfeet6663 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dreams do come true!

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi!! I hope this was helpful and informative! :)

  • @remjatl80
    @remjatl80 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I’m moving to Dallas next month. Your video is very informative so thanks for the info.

    • @zuli.realty
      @zuli.realty ปีที่แล้ว

      If you need help with realtor, I am happy to assist

  • @mcnits
    @mcnits ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Nice video! DFW is so big in one year, you may think you have seen a lot, but probably not. There is so much to that big place metroplex. Many cities to discover, Plano, Frisco, Grapevine, Southlake, Westlake, Hyland Park, University Park, Heath, Preston Hollow, McKinney, El dorado, Fairview, Keller, Rockwall, Rowlett, Prosper, Addison, Richardson, Carrollton, Fort Worth, Denton, Lewisville, Arlington etc. Once you get to know the place, you might end up liking it more

    • @Jeschitown
      @Jeschitown ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dallas is boring lmao

    • @mcnits
      @mcnits ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Jeschitown Let us give give the young lady a break, she is just learning more and more about this big, fat, popular metropolitan area. She could have moved to Chicago, but Chitown wouldn't be good for her mental health (too cold, too depressing and unsafe LOL)

    • @Jeschitown
      @Jeschitown ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@mcnits I was just there in October again I'm not impressed to be honest, had fun at the game thou. Dfw is big to people who don't know any better or if you from a small town or city. Anyone from NYC, los Angeles, Chicago know otherwise lmao I love this time of year nothing like the holiday season in the great city of Chicago.

    • @sosefokiu3461
      @sosefokiu3461 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JeschitownChicago sucks that’s why everyone is killing each other there.. bunch of depress assholes😂

  • @ieatfruitsandveggies
    @ieatfruitsandveggies 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very real and very informative. Thank you so much lady!

  • @keymarieharlii
    @keymarieharlii 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm from Philly originally and thinking about moving to Dallas! It was super helpful hearing you compare Dallas to Philly specifically

  • @nealthompson6269
    @nealthompson6269 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Born and raised in Dallas, this is a fairly accurate depiction of Dallas for sure.

  • @user-jy7ye3jm1v
    @user-jy7ye3jm1v 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a Dallas native I thought your video was full of great information especially for someone still relatively new to the city. Thanks, and keep up the great videos.

  • @exboyjr
    @exboyjr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love your energy!

  • @selena6616
    @selena6616 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The way you speak made me feel like I was talking to a friend which is what I kinda need at the moment. I am definitely subscribing 😊

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hii friend! And welcome ☺️💓

    • @ogonnaben4261
      @ogonnaben4261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love you..😂❤❤❤ can we be friends

  • @Scott-yg6bf
    @Scott-yg6bf ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I move to Dallas from California two and half years ago and I love it!! I would say you have to get out alittle more and keep exploring there's so much to do out here in dallas and TX I'll say couple things I consider before moving out here 1> Austin has a lot homeless people and not as many black people as Houston or Dallas 2> The only thing about Houston that worries me is when hurricanes season rolls around and can hit the city and flood it🤔 3> Dallas is growing very fast and there's a lot cool nee spots popping up town town every day!! But the overall vibe is very cool and nice out here!! Looking to buy home by end next year when hopefully interest rates go down and housing market cools down alittle.

    • @LilAlShabooti
      @LilAlShabooti ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck Scott! Thanks for the insight

    • @angelacraft1511
      @angelacraft1511 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said. True. You spoke for a lot of Cali transplants like me.

    • @brittoncoil2518
      @brittoncoil2518 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Moved here from California 2 years ago and Dallas is very very boring

    • @khadygueye4794
      @khadygueye4794 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brittoncoil2518 go back to Cali and live with the vegan lgbt feminist and wokist😂😂😂

    • @crimjqt83
      @crimjqt83 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@brittoncoil2518 Why do people from California and NYC moved to smaller areas and still complain? You choose to move there.

  • @truckerbaby171
    @truckerbaby171 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yea you did that, good good video thanks, considering Dallas a little more now

  • @Maxthafirst
    @Maxthafirst ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video, I agree with some of your points, and I've been here since 2003. I'm in the Farmer's Market, great spot for Saturday daytime activities.

  • @5karatsormore
    @5karatsormore ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I’m planning to move out there in June. ❤

    • @zuli.realty
      @zuli.realty ปีที่แล้ว

      If you need help with buying or leasing, I am happy to assist

  • @Theoryofjariatou
    @Theoryofjariatou 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Going from Philly to Dallas too! This was really helpful

  • @thelittlethings678
    @thelittlethings678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am a woman from Minnesota. I agree with you that we love doing outdoor activities when the weather is nice! It’s nice doing more active dates.

    • @paradysetrezvant5001
      @paradysetrezvant5001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm from Minnesota, too, and will be moving to Texas in the summer of 2024. How do you like it so far?

    • @kristy889
      @kristy889 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m from Minnesota!! Thinking of moving any tips?

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so helpful! I’m in MISSISSIPPI and I’m ready to relocate

  • @juliebrown6818
    @juliebrown6818 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the video lovely!!

  • @husky7985
    @husky7985 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everything you are saying is 💯 spot on.

  • @ZaharaReign
    @ZaharaReign 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love love love this video

  • @divinityorg
    @divinityorg หลายเดือนก่อน

    Planning to move to Dallas from South Africa, thank you for this!

  • @AshhMartinez
    @AshhMartinez ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You were spot on with this entire video

  • @theamethyst93
    @theamethyst93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super helpful thank you so much

  • @antonaecoleman470
    @antonaecoleman470 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, for the insight 👍🏽😉💜

  • @gwenbby2
    @gwenbby2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Great video! People take it so personal on videos like this. Please y’all, it’s not a personal attack against you, there are critiques and positives to every city (especially to those who are born and raised you may not see it from an outside perspective)

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Shantel!

    • @ogonnaben4261
      @ogonnaben4261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤❤l will love to be your friend

  • @Marchant2
    @Marchant2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Actually, Dallas has the largest light rail system in the country. If you live and work along one of these train lines, you could POSSIBLY do without a car.

    • @kenishas.1360
      @kenishas.1360 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for this…That’s super helpful because I’m moving out to Dallas without a car…I lived in NJ/NY for 10years.

  • @Happy-mp7vm
    @Happy-mp7vm ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video. Very thorough, shit now I got a lot to think about. Especially, when it come stop having the option of to walk or drive and also getting outdoors and seeing greenery😩

  • @letsgoviral777
    @letsgoviral777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm from NY and after work would run all my errands. I saved so much time and can't imagine not having that. I've also lived in other states that were flat, with no side walks and concretey. I didn't care for them very much. Thanks for such a helpful video.

  • @Dre_Key
    @Dre_Key ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank You for this video. I think its great due to the fact that you arent a real estate agent trying to sell the city. Your honest takes are awesome! One thing important to me are demographics which you went in depth on. Weather is another... cost, so are spots to hang out and in general what it would be like there everyday and things that affect everyday life. As im looking at Texas it has to be between dallas and houston maybe some suburb area in between where you can get the best of both worlds that would appease moving from a big city like LA.. not that it has to be here. Thanks again!

    • @zuli.realty
      @zuli.realty ปีที่แล้ว

      Houston big, more crowded, very humid. North more cooler . You will not see beautiful nature here, and ocean is dirty . But it’s growing really fast and good opportunity to grow and get good job or success business. And of course houses cheaper than LA, if you need realtor . I am happy to help

  • @tubehead8203
    @tubehead8203 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree. There is a surplus of concrete & no greenery. You have to pack up the vehicle & drive to parks etc.

  • @freqfreqs9826
    @freqfreqs9826 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It's kinda like you have to be accepted in the culture. Most people come here & notice it's a beautiful place but the people are segregated.. so you enjoy the city but not so much the people. Once you're accepted it'll get waaay better. We have places all over full of majority black people living rich but not uppity attitude. People just keep quiet about the places so they won't get crowded with outside opinions & trends. You'll see.

  • @tonydavid492
    @tonydavid492 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good job on your video. I'm looking at Grand Prairie

  • @user-ju8cc8ml1r
    @user-ju8cc8ml1r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2023 and I’m moving to Dallas. I work in tech and it’s a pull. I been in Dallas and Garland and when I was there for just a few days I felt like I would thrive and prosper there and raise my family. So I’m going to see what’s up.

  • @krissy-jw8kj
    @krissy-jw8kj ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m not sure what days you go downtown Dallas but there is plenty of bars/restaurants and things to do after work. Especially by Klyde Warren park

    • @damoriousmurphy223
      @damoriousmurphy223 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was thinking the same thing here go ppl from the northeast talking down on southern city

    • @mzTraci2020
      @mzTraci2020 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I understand what she means because I’ve lived in different parts of the country.

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Compared to Philly and NYC it's dead.

    • @damoriousmurphy223
      @damoriousmurphy223 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bossK78 Compared to Philly lmao
      You really want philly to be a part of the conversation lol

    • @bossK78
      @bossK78 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@damoriousmurphy223 she literally said Philly in the video

  • @thegoldieloxs7324
    @thegoldieloxs7324 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! I’m coming from the greater philadelphia area, and looking to move there next year

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว

      welcome! It was (and still is) an adjustment for me coming from Philly but depending on what you're looking for and enjoy, you may love it! Definitely no center city but..lol

  • @lordjusticeel157
    @lordjusticeel157 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Video was very cool,I agree with everything,minus the public transportation,as someone who grew up in NY/NJ Philly transit,and have lived all over the country,Dallas has 1 of the most vast and affordable transit systems I've seen outside of my area and Chicago,they have park n rides all over the city,also ,u can buy a morning, midday,afternoon,or day pass,and ride anywhere in Dallas non stop,plus connected places with transit(Richardson,Irving,Garland )or all the way to fort Worth (TRE line) with said pass.
    Dallas is a hidden gem,and if pub trans is important to you,here is where you can manage.

    • @Levi-jd7pg
      @Levi-jd7pg 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! I was worried if the public trans was good in Dallas moving there April 2024. I don't like to drive all the time. I'm happy I know it's not surpar.

  • @AshhMartinez
    @AshhMartinez ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you .. coming from Philadelphia born and raised the downtown in Dallas really shocked me … I moved to Dallas without visiting first and I moved 5 min from the downtown and I was pissed to say the least 😑

    • @AshhMartinez
      @AshhMartinez ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also moved here without a car don’t be like me 😂😂😔

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How Center City Philly is set up was perfect for me!! Feel like I kind of have to go out of my way in Dallas to get just a few things done. But it definitely has its pros as well. Hope you're enjoying it besides that!

    • @jamesgreen7752
      @jamesgreen7752 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Philadelphia is basically it and that's why Downtown has much more including a high crime rate! Dallas is surrounded by many large cities is spreader out twice as large as Philadelphia and there's so much to do in each city. I'm from Houston and Love Dallas

    • @mercedsetienne4248
      @mercedsetienne4248 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where near downtown I got accepted for a place 15 mins away from downtown

    • @mcw0089t
      @mcw0089t ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Philly is waaaaaay more dangerous. And the down town area is pretty slow quite honestly. Dallas is safer. No comparison. And probably more to do.

  • @tyronehumphrey8216
    @tyronehumphrey8216 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Currently renting a 1 bedroom in the "far north" Dallas area Carrollton/Addison. Off of Dallas North tollway. 1095 a month for the smallest unit. 4 those single with no children it's a dope deal. Also a peaceful area very quiet getaway from the new normal (all day traffic) Plenty of restaurants, shopping malls (thrift stores), all in close range. Bars, movie theaters, and diversity. Please check out this area. ✌🏾

  • @mcaug07
    @mcaug07 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Commenting in 2024, I appreciate your video and how detailed you presented the information. I will have to disagree about lifestyle a bit. I am from Florida; Miami ,Florida to be exact and I lived in Dallas for four months (residency). I loved the lifestyle there. I lived off Preston & Alpha Road near the Galleria and there was plenty of outdoorsy places to go for walking, biking, and skating. Some places were only 5-10 minutes away and family oriented. There was so many other locations (to your point) that was 15-20 minutes but to me it was well worth it on days I had free time. Coming from Miami, everything (and everyone) is on top of each other so my time in Dallas was amazing. I think regardless of where you move, you have to be intentional to live your life the way you want. If you had something in one city, it won't be the exact same in the next (and that's okay). Your friends had a point about having to go out of your way. You have to be intentional otherwise you'll continue to have an unpleasant experience (and this is coming from someone who/is struggled with chronic depression and anxiety). Anyways, I figured I make a comment for any new comers, I understand that everyone is entailed to their own opinion/experience. I am planning to make my return to Dallas long term.

  • @pressplae
    @pressplae หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was fabulous! Your wrap up was on point too. I’m really considering Dallas as well as some other places. I lived in Philly for a bit so I could totally relate to the comparative points you made.
    I do want to know though, did you drive from Philly to Dallas? How was the move? And you’re gorgeous BTW! OH! And do you foresee yourself staying in Dallas for a while?

  • @Tess-nb5hw
    @Tess-nb5hw ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love Dallas. I made the mistake kf moving to the east coast and i hate it here. I can not wait to get back to Dallas!!! Cant wait!!! Lol

    • @livinginthehudsonvalley845
      @livinginthehudsonvalley845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love the east coast...originally from texas (moved in 2008) and thought about moving back, but love it here :-)

    • @Dallas3212
      @Dallas3212 ปีที่แล้ว

      What you love about it?

    • @amberyoung5192
      @amberyoung5192 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Same here. I am from Connecticut, and moved (AZ, NC, GA) and recently moved to MD for a job from Houston and I am on the first thing smoking to get back to Texas.

  • @huntley390
    @huntley390 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m from ny I moved to LA/sf valley. 3 years ago beem In Dallas 9 months. The jobs here pay the same as in Cali. But rent is half the price. I have a lady but as a single black man you will have fun. More space but food isn’t to great here. And it’s a good place to invest in real estate without having to spend a fortune to get started

    • @andreclark2472
      @andreclark2472 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Money is always an issue, but if money wasn’t an issue which city do you prefer between LA County and Dallas/Fort Worth?

    • @huntley390
      @huntley390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@andreclark2472 LA.

    • @rwall3450
      @rwall3450 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @huntley390 how is the dating scene for a single black male? Especially for someone who is 40? Are women in Dallas approachable? Easy to talk to?

  • @dominiquechenevert2760
    @dominiquechenevert2760 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're GORGEOUS!!!

  • @erikaflow4558
    @erikaflow4558 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s so interesting how you live only a few miles away from me & we have a completely different experience lol I live across the street from the AAC & I walk everywhere including work. You should definitely look into relocating to Victory Park or Uptown. You’ll be a lot less sedentary.

    • @KittyKat-vb1nd
      @KittyKat-vb1nd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If you come from a major city NY, London,Chicago, San Francisco, Toronto. Dallas is no where close. It's decent but it's not a true urban vibe. It's more LA or Phoenix.

  • @tariyonspann7395
    @tariyonspann7395 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m 19 & I’m considering up and moving because I feel like I have nothing left in Atl I hope it’s worth it

    • @AyanaTheDoll
      @AyanaTheDoll ปีที่แล้ว +2

      updates? similar situation

    • @akilahboone3304
      @akilahboone3304 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It ain’t no different here 🫤

    • @ogonnaben4261
      @ogonnaben4261 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤❤❤❤I will love to be your friend

  • @PrettyEnergyBeautyBar
    @PrettyEnergyBeautyBar ปีที่แล้ว +25

    North Dallas is really nice if you’re looking for a town with shopping & living. Very diverse white, middle class blacks, & ofc Hispanics. I’ve lived here for 7 years coming from Denver Co. Lots of opportunities. I like Arlington too. Uptown, deep elum etc are more for the youngins that want to party. I can’t stand that the don’t have as much nature which sucks.

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. I think the major drawback of Dallas is the lack of outdoor activities. Some lakes a few miles out of the area are nice to kayak/swim etc.

    • @Bigpeanut5081
      @Bigpeanut5081 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm actually thinking about moving from Denver to Dallas. How are you liking it so far?!

    • @PrettyEnergyBeautyBar
      @PrettyEnergyBeautyBar ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Bigpeanut5081 I like it out here… the weather is better as in not as cold, there are a lot of things to do for fun, and lots of opportunities. I overall think Denver is a better place to retire or raise a family.

    • @BrittMichelle
      @BrittMichelle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I can walk to 26 restaurants and bars, 6 hotels, music factory, museum, nail shop, lash studio, tailor shop, spa, trail, lake and multiple other places and things; plus grocery and shopping is only 10-13 mins driving taking only one street. I absolutely love it, only been here for 2 months and it has been good.

    • @BrittMichelle
      @BrittMichelle ปีที่แล้ว

      Your actually the first person that I’ve heard say that Dallas is affordable, everyone that I’ve encountered only talks about how it’s way to expensive.

  • @ish1030
    @ish1030 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m getting China McLain! Thanks for this. Ive lived in Dallas for 5 years now and looking to venture for more diversity and culture.

  • @blkbeauti05
    @blkbeauti05 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Planning to move from NY to Dallas, thank you.

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      happy to answer any questions!

  • @universtechno4345
    @universtechno4345 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Anais, very nice video, but it will take you a long time to understand DFW. Downtown Dallas has underground tunnels with shopping malls / centers and restaurants to protect people against the heat at lunch time. Ask someone to show you the underground areas. Dallas is a business place with tons of headquarters, great suburbs where people can work. Philadelphia is more of an old, depressing place with a lot of drunks. The facts are that when the manufacturing jobs fled Philadelphia decades ago, they left behind an underclass of unemployed people. As a result, morale suffered, and many of these people turned to drugs and alcohol as coping mechanisms LOL.

  • @raysmith2477
    @raysmith2477 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Check out some of the areas mentioned .
    Addison, Old Downtown McKinney, Also Downtown Grapevine, Legacy West & East which is in Plano. And of course Frisco which has the Star. Downtown Dallas is getting ready for several Multi-Billion Dollar Developments including the Trinity River Project. I’ve lived in all the major cities Austin & Houston & for me Dallas is better than both. Anyway enjoy your content. THE MIND IS A BEAUTIFUL THING😁

  • @dannyland4582
    @dannyland4582 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cedar Hill , Joe Pool hiking trails. 🙂

  • @back2relaxed
    @back2relaxed ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You should get out and about a little more. It seems that you have mostly been in the center of the city. Everywhere has sidewalks, access to public transportation, dining. shopping. There are hills with nature trails, greenery, lakes, etc all over. They aren’t in Downtown, but they are all driveable.

  • @deronr7560
    @deronr7560 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I left Houston (Katy) after 6 months and I’m a truck driver that’s thinking about moving to Dallas now. Especially since their jobs pay more.

    • @kellmarktv
      @kellmarktv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My mom just moved to Katy under a year now she said she loves it.

  • @livinginthehudsonvalley845
    @livinginthehudsonvalley845 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great recap.... Dallas has been "uppity" since forever... it's not just starting to get uppity - it's the vibe since the last century or longer. Grew up in north Texas (denton) lived there 1967-2008 - uppity is just the way it is. That's why Austin and Houston are so much better. But, nothing beats the Hudson Valley :-)

    • @Damianoutlaw
      @Damianoutlaw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No kidding. Dallas is the home of Neiman Marcus. Dallas has always been considered uppity.

    • @mrc2432
      @mrc2432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I moved to Dallas FROM the Hudson Valley! Grew up in the Bronx. I miss the Autumn colors and the safety but THAT’S IT.

    • @deronr7560
      @deronr7560 ปีที่แล้ว

      Houston is uppity too

    • @Jay-kx5cb
      @Jay-kx5cb 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@deronr7560Maybe in the galleria area and the woodlands but in general not really. It's pretty chill

  • @sharondaadams1673
    @sharondaadams1673 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Considering, I’m from Chicago this was helpful especially about downtown! Lol

  • @demetriuswilburn7043
    @demetriuswilburn7043 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Downtown Fort Worth, Sundance Square

  • @mrc2432
    @mrc2432 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    13:18 absolutely this 💯 percent. DFW is built up upon every inch and they continue to pour concrete over everything at a rapid pace. Are there trees here ? Yes. There aren’t that many open forested areas. Here and there you will find parks , but they aren’t very big and not very pretty. You don’t get large swaths of uninterrupted nature. That makes me sad. All of the shopping and restaurants available doesn’t make up for the lack of open natural areas.

  • @Tina-zt8dk
    @Tina-zt8dk ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone have any recommendations on bakeries in Dallas Grapevine or Irving??? I know it's a random question.

  • @kfen8794
    @kfen8794 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im from the boston area, and im considering moving to dallas for an internship opportunity, so your saying your really can't walk anywhere in dallas? like they don't have sidewalks, districts, squares, parks around the city? no greenery? corner stores?

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi! I want to clarify by saying that there are definitely walkable neighborhoods in Dallas. There are all of those things you mentioned above, just not in proximity to each other unless you live in Uptown, Greenville, or more upscale areas. What I mean is that walking is not convenient as Dallas spreads out wide, so unlike Boston or NYC/Philly where you can most likely get errands done in one day all over the city on foot or via subway, here you will 100% need a car. Good luck!

    • @Damianoutlaw
      @Damianoutlaw ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anaisdottavio BIG OIL is based in Texas. The transportation in the major cities is going to be more car oriented because there is more space to build things.

  • @jonesl83173
    @jonesl83173 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What is some nice apartments you would recommend? I’m looking to relocate but a lot mention roaches? 😢

  • @mercyofagbomum5976
    @mercyofagbomum5976 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where would be the best place to live that is walkable to restaurants, shopping, gym and everything. But also can be quite sometimes

  • @konoro.5595
    @konoro.5595 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am planning the exact same move (Philly to Dallas) and I have struggled to find a suitable apartment. Please any tips you can give to help plan it in terms of apartment that are affordable?

    • @akilahboone3304
      @akilahboone3304 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only thing affordable is the hood in Dallas 😂 you wanna live in the good areas it’s about to run you about 1.5k a month and that’s the least 😬

  • @mariomario7379
    @mariomario7379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of the cities in Texas are great. Dallas is one of the better cities in the south.

  • @adajahmontgomery1923
    @adajahmontgomery1923 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is the most honest vid I’ve seen about Dallas. The City is beautiful, the food 👍🏾, the housing space impeccable. If your a earthy natural, hippie, down to earth person. You might feel out of place. I miss Nj Issa good mix

    • @AlwaysGrowing0
      @AlwaysGrowing0 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am from California. I hate California politics and taxes. However, I can drive for 1-4 hours to get to the beach, the mountains, lakes, or the desert. I love hiking, and California is one of the best places for hiking in the United States. I would love to live in Texas for the politics and the taxes. But my dilemma is to do so; I have to give up all of California's great outdoor activities.

    • @adajahmontgomery1923
      @adajahmontgomery1923 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AlwaysGrowing0 I would suggest to take I few trips spend a few days and see how you like it

  • @Iceberg_Mac
    @Iceberg_Mac ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your perspective

  • @MastermindLLCcorp
    @MastermindLLCcorp 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really appreciate your deep thought about Dallas, but I have a question: I am doing finance independently as a buisness ; I can help people save as little as 200 bucks a month, do you think Dallas could be a place for me?

  • @wesleygriffiths8496
    @wesleygriffiths8496 ปีที่แล้ว

    What would you say is the best city in Texas for good walking and outdoorsy stuff? Austin?

    • @back2relaxed
      @back2relaxed ปีที่แล้ว

      Dallas and Austin are totally walkable. DFW is a sprawling metroplex. So you will need to research cities and neighborhoods that offer what you are looking for. Texas is not like older East Coast cities that are completely built around downtown areas. The cities are newer and have spread out in every direction. Each area has different attributes. So moving to downtown May not be a best fit for everyone. There is lots to do in Austin and Dallas and Fort Worth’s downtown. Also San Antonio. Public transportation is by far superior in DFW. But there are tons of lakes, nature trails, hilly areas, parks, bike lanes, etc in DFW. Is a car ideal, most definitely. It’s the South!

  • @j.r.6094
    @j.r.6094 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Any city on the east coast will ALWAYS have more walkable cities. Those cities are extremely old and were built like that. Also its extremely hot here. You're not walking in the heat during the summer up and down the street unless you're ready to pass out

  • @MrGmcjr
    @MrGmcjr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful! You still live in Dallas?

  • @AlannaBoo524
    @AlannaBoo524 ปีที่แล้ว

    If y’all are looking for some Dallas apparel, shop with elchuy! Erykah Badu wears his stuff and many other celebrities like Tayyduhh or whatever her name is!

  • @mikelee9612
    @mikelee9612 ปีที่แล้ว

    Which is better Houston or Dallas I'm thinking about moving

  • @lisasdfwhightechworld9946
    @lisasdfwhightechworld9946 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dallas used to be an engineering town back in the 1950s and 1960s. Some important inventions were invented in Richardson and Irving, and the patents created wealth and jobs. This drew in people from beautiful places where there were no jobs for them. The real solution is to create jobs in the beautiful places.

  • @CHRISPOPTV
    @CHRISPOPTV 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice video , fr

  • @mcw0089t
    @mcw0089t ปีที่แล้ว +8

    With all due respect your video is not bad but there is alot you have to learn about the city.

  • @Dreamer-qq2rx
    @Dreamer-qq2rx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you gone to Ft Worth or Addison?

  • @DS-br1wn
    @DS-br1wn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just curious. Why wasn’t Houston an option? Since you say Dallas and Austin are laid back

  • @samuelhouston7989
    @samuelhouston7989 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No its always been like that the uppity atmosphere!!

  • @passion4091
    @passion4091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What about the tarantulas? I heard that Texas are common known for having those in their houses🥲

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahha well none in my house thus far 🤪

    • @passion4091
      @passion4091 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@anaisdottavio good to hear!😫

  • @jonathan6480
    @jonathan6480 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm from Philly, and I'm deciding between Dallas and Tampa. The only thing putting Tampa ahead of Dallas is the beach for me. Dallas seems more affordable than Tampa, so I'm stuck lol.

    • @zuli.realty
      @zuli.realty ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Texas is growing and a lot of investors coming here . If you looking to make money it’s Dallas, if you looking to enjoy and waste money Tampa😃

    • @jonathan6480
      @jonathan6480 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zuli.realty I've taken FL off the list. I'm looking at Addison, TX.

    • @jonathan6480
      @jonathan6480 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zuli.realty I make $70k with a fully remote job.

    • @zuli.realty
      @zuli.realty ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jonathan6480 Addison good choice 👍

  • @ianbruce4314
    @ianbruce4314 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lived Houston a while, Hell hot,
    Floods every time it rains
    So is Dallas like this ?

    • @salvador754
      @salvador754 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Doesn't flood easy I Dallss Houston way hotter/humid not much humidity

  • @jbarres80
    @jbarres80 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My wife and I are planning on moving from NY so we are used to bad weather high taxes crime high gas prices rude people lol my job is in north Richland hills area any advice on areas looking at Arlington another question we are interracial couple and I want my wife to feel safe

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You'll be in the Fort Worth area, which I heard is an awesome place, lots to do. It has more of a "southern/country" feel to it - it's home to the forth worth stockyards. Arlington is nice, green, and quaint, much more quiet than NY (if you're coming from the city). I have had no issues since I've been here regarding my safety as a black woman. People of all backgrounds have been very kind and welcoming. I see lots of interracial black/white/hispanic couples. Good luck!

    • @jbarres80
      @jbarres80 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anaisdottavio thank you for responding

  • @TeflonBarbie
    @TeflonBarbie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to move to Philadelphia, I lived in Dallas for 6 years, you did a good video. Can you make a video on Philadelphia?

    • @86msmason
      @86msmason หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just don’t do it girl. Most people in Philly can’t wait to leave. Not safe, expensive, and crowded. Also clicky and people don’t tend to be as friendly.

  • @sen8536
    @sen8536 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The homelessness and crime rates out here is nowhere near the amount of what it’s like in Los Angeles California right now. LA has gotten soooooo bad and coming here it’s been a huge difference.
    I also find DFW has more nature than LA in Cali. Cali has nature but they’re ALWAYS building apartments businesses or expensive homes in any place there’s open land. Out here in the outskirts of Dallas, I see so many beautiful trees lakes and trails.

    • @LilAlShabooti
      @LilAlShabooti ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait really? I was planning on moving to LA in a few months and didn’t take this into serious consideration

  • @humbler.6367
    @humbler.6367 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Do you see a lot of interracial couples in Dallas? And how is the high end shopping?

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do! As for high end shopping - not my personal hobby but Highland Park Village is very luxurious and home to all the VIP fashion/dining/events

    • @humbler.6367
      @humbler.6367 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks will be there around the last week in October. What places would you recommend far as r&b music. Hip hop reggae type spots. Not finding to many online. And thank you so much for responding

    • @humbler.6367
      @humbler.6367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks definitely might check it out.

    • @Blk_pantherfit
      @Blk_pantherfit ปีที่แล้ว

      @@humbler.6367 no problem

  • @JBR7655
    @JBR7655 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Transportation: you can do Uber or Lyft. I drive for both.