Full Episode: Desperate For Insta-Fame | The Mel Robbins Show
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ธ.ค. 2019
- People go to great lengths to achieve internet fame. On today's show, Mel discusses social media addiction with a concerned mother and her daughter. Do you know somebody who is trying to be the next Kardashian online?
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Thank you, Mel, for saying the truth: this actually OBJECTIES women rather than empowering them!
The first mum scares me and is the biggest enabler 😏😏
That “momager” is delusional.
I don’t see female empowerment. I see a manipulative little girl. If I were her mother, (I don’t care how old she is) I would make her immediately take it all down. There is a brat behind these “empowering words”. This girl is a little snot. A lot of gaslighting words, not empowering. She knows exactly what she is doing and it’s not female empowerment. Mom needs to raise her voice and not worry about being friends with her daughter and be a MOM.
I don’t necessarily disagree, but I also think the source of her manipulation is the fact that she’s been brainwashed with what the “idea” is of female empowerment. That part of it is not her fault. Lots of women get manipulated into thinking selling and showing their body is empowering by people who are trying to sell products. She’s basically a walking, talking billboard to brainwash other young women and that shit needs to stop. Not to mention the byproduct of which is putting her in grave danger.
I just read an article the other day about a woman in her 20s who was contacted on Instagram with a modelling job by some guy who appeared to be legit based on her online searches and he offered to pay for her travel expenses. Once she arrived at the destination, he held her captive for several days. He forced her to do meth and repeatedly violated her. Luckily she was able to contact police by using a pre-arranged code phrase with her roommate while speaking on the phone, and was rescued. She now makes blankets for other sexual assault survivors, as she said receiving a blanket at the hospital made her feel safe after such an ordeal. Scary stuff.
I wear man thongs
Omg the first mom is just as bad as her daughter. Calls her self a “mom-ager” like she wants to be Kris Kardashian. Gross 🤢
I'm glad Mel went in on the first mom as well as the daughter!
The daughter knows exactly what she"s doing and it has nothing to do with art...especially seeing that all her comments and attention are coming from men, then at that point she's not even reaching the audience that she so call saying she"s trying to reach about body image (which in this case would be women).
The lady that applaud Emma in the end is a no no. When it comes KIM K which is the influence for many young ladies, it is slim to none of the success in that area and many young ladies expose their bodies thinking they can do like Kim K and it backfires and then they are exposed in the worst way and their image is destroyed. This happens a dime a dozen. Steve Harvey touched on this issue.
She’s a momager? Such stupidity. I can’t even. 🤦♀️. She can call it art all she wants....
What an amazing young woman Flau'jae is. Wishing all the best for her and her family. Great show Mel ❤
This first young lady is foolish, has limited insight. She is setting herself up for potential likely danger. I certainly don't appreciate her 'self expression'. Thanks Mel for calling out the reality. Hey, mom, stop supporting your daughter in this!
Bonnie Holman bruh if employers saw that bammm there goes her career and little missy can do what she wants then 🤦🏻♀️
2nd Mother. Love it. I'm glad the grandmother is willing to be more supportive. Great show.
Typical eighteen year old:
“I’m 18 I can do whatever I want”
Cut her off from everything and let her figure it out in her own.
Mom supports the nonsense you can tell.
The girl is clearly wanting the acceptance from ANY man just as long as she hears feedback. The fact she said there’s nothing wrong doing p...
This girl is going to go downhill. Smh she doesn’t want help. Neither does the mom, she feeds her the idea that because she iS 18 that she can do what she wants.
The rapper was awesome. Mel, this girl is grrrreat!!! Her lyrics made my day!!! So positive.
Emma looks dead behind the eyes...I could be wrong but I think something might have happened to her and now she is trying to reclaim her power...side note, mel is amazing. 💜
Emma is using “female empowerment” and “performance art” but she is using sex to get views and klicks.
When her mother said “I am your momager” and that she too has channels was very revealing... It seemed like they only came in the show to be on television. I truly hope they learned something. It was so disturbing to see people use a serous topic to push their agenda because unfortunately there are impressionable minds.
It feels like they wanted to promote her YT channel but mommy didn't want to come across as irresponsible
Loved the rapper! So positive & talented!
Sooo dangerous. I was under my parent's authority til I got married. Why because I still lived at home. I am a Latina and my parent's didn't play.
Omg, I not into rap, but that girl is great. I wish her a successful career.
First woman has very low self esteem. The internet posts are forever.....limiting your opportunities because of you did when you are 18. Potential employers will search all social media.
Great point!!👍
Exactly
Hunny there will always be perverts out there wanting to see skin. It doesn't make you special or empowered. It's not just you they're looking at. And I hate to say it but a lot of it is cause you look young. A lot of sick people out there. Respect yourself. Men will always test you to see how easy you are.
Exactly. She looks and sounds like a 14 year old.
So she was 15 years old and was allowed to have a TH-cam channel? Now,we know why it got fined.
The young lady showing off her body makes me wonder why "sexually arousing" men is so important to her and, honestly, what need it satisfies other than the "adrenalin rush" she mentioned. Having worked in Vice for years let me say that this is the stuff that any man wants to see but sexual abusers want to conquer. Be very careful; you are just a pound of flesh to them and they watch every girl who will "give it up". Sorry, hon, but you are no one special to them...or do you want to be? Really want to be? Value yourself. Mom, you have helped put her out there so you have some decisions to make. How much did you really know ages 7-18 ? Love, hugs and just be content; happiness is contingent and overrated. Joy is found in proving your own morality, your own ethics and decent fruitful work and then you will find tremendous satisfaction in YOURSELF alone and not in another person's approval of your conscience.
How In the hell is that art???
Lmao 🤣
Emma- listen to Mel. She might be saving your life!
First mom ask for help but then became very defensive and not realizing the handicap she being in the issue.
I absolutely agree that exposing your body is not the best way to showcase being body positive. It is form of objectifying, crying out for attention and as a woman, I find it offensive. All the feminist in the past fought for ladies to be seen as more than body and young girls today do precisely to themselves what men did in the past. Don't do that girls, respect yourself - you are more than a body or even a pretty face :-)
If the first girl wants to know how to produce positive content that inspires young women...see the second girl. Flau-jae just got a new fan.
Favorite episode of all! I know that Flaujae has a career to pursue and she wants to fulfill her fathers legacy and that's what she's here to do! It's her dreams and she's gonna go for it.
That "fame coach" sounded clueless in my opinion....
I agree she seems suspicious
Mel is awesome. First mom is a train wreck. No wonder the daughter is like that
It’s not art - it’s trash
Yes
Well said !
“Momager.” 🤢
She thought that was cute. 🤦🏿♂️
The first mother daughter guests are so out of touch, it's scary. I really hope the daughter can see a different perspective soon.
The mother’s perma-smirk irritated me. I think she gets off on the likes too. They both don’t seem to get it.
Mom puts all blame on the daughter and takes no responsibility of her part.
her mom even dares to smile
She’s a joke
First mom and daughter only wanted to be on show for attention hoping they would gain more followers🤦
Yesssss!
100 %
👌🏿
That first girl knows only men are watching her videos
How is that mother trying to reach for help going to the show when she is clearly traying to get as defensive as posible to her and her daughter, that is indeed by making any attempt to help them she just makes it imposible, I would think that she whent to the show to get more attention than her daughter.
The 1st girl has 5,000 subscribers on TH-cam & thinks she's an "influencer".
Mom, is typical of alot of mom's. She is okay with her daughter having sex. There was no deep message in that video.
The second girl is doing great! Beyoncé wouldn’t exist today if she wasn’t pushed and managed from her childhood
So trying on underwear for the world is an art now ? What is going on ???
But that grandma in the second part is so cute ❤️ wishing there family well
Her mother is so smart and amazing, but Mel is right to call her out on her ‘momager’ energy 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
LOVED the rap!!!! Well Done beautiful Rap Warrior
TERRIFYING!
Please don't tell me they actually named that kid Fly J....
Grandma, your Grand Daughter wants your support ! So what if Mom wants the lifestyle ! So what !
There are also 50 year old women that do this too. I'm so tired of seeing motivational quotes under a picture of a chick in her bra and underwear. It's just an excuse to post a sexy pic of themselves. If i want a motivational quote, I'll google one.
Emma still seems part little girl to me...wake up, Emma!!!
My mother would have been pissed if I did that.
Art?? PFFFT ridiculous
Wtf is wrong with the mother of the first girl? My parents would have taken my phone away and deleted the account and stopped paying me money. Period. The girl is obviously groomed by older men and is incredibly naive. You aren't an artist - you are an underaged cam girl getting attention from perverts
Here is the problem with what she is doing:
1. These videos will stay on-line forever and if one day she happens to join a competition or try to get a job that requires a background check, these will resurface and will be dug out and make her lose a possible career move. Sexy videos or photos can ruin a career.
2. Predators and rapist are the only one liking your videos, never cloaked your actions with an excuse "Women have rights" rights with what, sexual objectivity? Women fought for Women's freedom of sexual harassment and here you are selling it as a right to be a victim of one.
3. What would you say if I tell you that all your followers are using your videos as a justification of how low women's standards are?
4. No man is going to respect you this way, they may like you for sex but that's all you are to them.
5. In reality you are only famous because of your body not because you have a talent.
6. Lastly, videos like these are a proof that you have a very low self esteem. Because you need other people's approval you go as far as getting half naked on video just to get likes.
7. All people see except for predators is someone who is desperate for attention nothing more. You are not showing a good value or example to little girls out there. You are telling them that it is ok to get naked in public to get famous.
Remember your past is always going to follow you.
I just hope she does not regret this someday when she finally realizes there are kinds of actions that have a prolonged consequences.
5:06 That's one of the reasons Why Men Are Not Taking Any Women Seriously Anymore!!! This 18 woman says that because, she is 18 she can do whatever she Wants...Does she still living at " Her Parents House"? If Yes, she can not do Whatever she wants! Period!
I'm sorry but the first girl seems very manipulative, using big words and trying to portrait herself as some ground breaking women's advocate. To me she seems just shallow and attention seeking
When that "fame coach" mentions Kim Kardashian as an examplary model I knew there and then she's no expert and I won't trust her advice even she is a so called professional
Haha did she just compare these gwo girls? One is a rapper and the other is a stripper, lmao 🤣
U r so cute n unique rapper👍❤️
Only here cuz of flaujae🖤
I'm here because of Mel and i think this rapper girl deserves success.
Kor Na Xon she definitely does! I watched her in the rap game and she was my favorite.
@@archivez101 Rap has never been my cup of tea, but even if i'm no fan i can see this girl is dedicated, hard-working, down-to-earth, talented and intelligent. I wish her the best and hope she'll be fine. 👍
Honestly the rapper gave me anxiety, it’s high energy. That’s a lot to handle. It’s good she has support to keep her grounded. I do think the model was going somewhere with her empowerment.
There are many girls who just want to be kids but are stolen into sex trafficking. That could be her. I hope not but announcing that she is sexual is a turn on for perverts.
Who was that female rapper I'd like to see some of her rapping videos she sounds good. If anyone can let me know that be awesome thank you
She's 14 why' her mom happy with that
The mother looks like Melissa Gilbert.
The first mother is completely clueless. Her daughter was a minor when she posted those videos. NOT OKAY. She should have that shut down when she first found out about the videos.
I feel like the first girl and rapper are basing their value and success on social media likes.
The rapper's mother who gave her TWO OLD SON an instagram is wrong. I see it as exploiting her children. A two year old can't consent to having their image online. I don't agree with children having social media.
I’m surprised Mel is entertaining this B.S......the mother is worse than the young girl!,
7:24 Thank GOD, she is not being followed by other young women because, this 18 years old woman isn't Influencing Nothing Good!!!
flawwha looks like queen b
The MOM (of course) has a channel also, am I the only one who doesn't?
This is what I would say. Hey Emma, I get that you just turned 18 but do you pay for everything? Because if so I’ll shut up. If your Mom is supporting you, then Mom, you DO have control and can stop her from making videos like that unless she wants to be on her own financially.
That little girl hasn’t learned much and isn’t as bright as I expected
This whole episode is a great example of how to be a r* apologist.
Min 39:55 - 39:58 :D :D :D
Wheres her father?? Wait its america now. Its not like the dad would have any say
"MOTHER OF THE YEAR" arguing with mel..... men coming to the house.....KEEP IT UP.....maybe, she will make an episode of "forensic files".....just thinking they went on "MEL" to increase views.....
I had to laugh becuase I didn’t see two talented young ladies but one. Flaujae is gifted and talented and clearly has wise support from her mother while Emma seems to simply seek male attention there is no talent in trying on underwear and sexualizing yourself.. 🤦♀️ I hope she can realize that her value isn’t based on her sexuality or how explicit she can be.
Dr Phil 2.o
how is showing your flesh influence people? i feel for these kids, so lost. kids do not know right from wrong.
Activist??? This looks like soft porn, a cheap one. Of course, women should be supported, but seems to me that you're supporting middle-aged men by offering them a sexual fantasy. The sad part is, the mom is so proud of the whole thing. Despite all she's saying, her face is telling a whole different story.
She is not even cute! What the heck??
Uhhg! Feminists 😔
i dont agree with this whole mother/rap girl bunch. nobody said how the father died? hum. cant these young people start making good music instead of this rap crap. im so sick of it. its not music anyway.
Just cause it’s not your cup of tea it is real music btw
Fly J and mom are a bit delusional. I hope that girl is okay.
flaujae smajae. you can paint it anyway you want its still going to come out the same way in the end. this rap crap serves no good purpose. start making real music. its a toxic industry. mother wants the money and fame. sorry. its the truth.
Do you know what poetry is? And you look far too old to make fun of a child's name.
She could literally be the next female "Will Smith".
Well she is talented and I think with enough work and guidance she’ll be successful no need to be a hater