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MEET Rebekah Bruesehoff - the 10-year-old transgender girl ‘the media warned you about.’ Mum Jamie Bruesehoff, from New Jersey, and her daughter Rebekah are spreading awareness of transgender people one rally at a time. Since her transition started over two years ago, the young girl has been campaigning, attending marches and speaking at rallies to stand up for transgender rights.
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I'd like to quote jazz jennings' mother here for a bit
"I'd rather have a living daughter than a dead son"
Rü chan best quote
@@MintTea769 most ignorant quote
all good not really
@@allgood9102 jazz's mother said she would rather have a living transgender daughter than a dead son. That's all it says, that she cares
@@malk2good no, her hair changed, her clothes changed, but jazz didn't. She is the same person she always was
You know what one of my favorite parts about this is? Her father, is a pastor. A pastor, is proudly and happily raising a transgender daughter. That's wonderful.
Blank unless it goes against the word of God because he's supposed to be for that first
Well, he's not a good pastor then. Might wanna read the Word of God.
Certificate transphobic
@@kateanderson5938 How am I transphobic for saying the truth? You have probably never read the Bible, so with what excuse are you telling me I am transphobic?
Certificate kind of funny that I haven’t read the bible because I am an atheist
WAIT HER FATHER IS A PASTOR??
I STAN A RESPECTFUL RELIGIOUS FATHER
@@alexrod1072 Her*
Sılvıa P sorry but he’s a boy you can’t just say I feel like a girl that’s not how it works
@@alexrod1072 Yes you can. She feels like a girl because it makes her feel better.
@@alexrod1072 This is her choice. You have no right to tell a child what she should be doing with her life.
Fandom Smoothie he’s a child he has no idea what he’s doing
Rebekah? Elijah ? Their mother is really into The Originals 😂
kaitlyn west lol 😂
Or the bible 😂
@@blutick2892 exactly
@@blutick2892 okay, so all christians are against the lgbtq+ community?
I mean, her mom can be a christian yet still let her son become her daughter.
Her mom or her dad...
*Well, she looks more feminine than me*
Cause nowadays if you look like a female, I guess you are one
Ryan Thomas yes because that’s basic biology 😂😂😂😂
Me to
tabassum khan then change that
Me too
Unrelated but her hair is actually super awesome??? When I dye my hair I look awful!
TransitioningGhoul her hair is amazing! I'm sure no matter what colour you dye your hair, it'll look amazing!
TransitioningGhoul my hair is red
TransitioningGhoul all I have to say about your pfp is
BA NA NA NA NA
(i love notevendustlikewtf)
Eating with jazper she is a girl.
Eating with jazper SHE identifys as a GIRL. Dumbass.
"I thought i was a girl cause i liked the color pink"
Me: *triggered*
Same
SAME
I don't have a favorite color, the whole world is dull to me, but if people actually accepted me as a boy, I know that would bring color to my world🙂
Wow, this comment actually brought up memories
Potatoe Art that’s how I felt
I'm a chick that used to love playing with bugs and Tonka trucks and toy dinosaurs. I hated lace and frills....and nobody ever told me that that made me a boy. Toy and color preference aren't indicators that you were born in the wrong body. Stupid logic.
As a parent, when I heard them say ,she was suicidal and depressed at such a young age. I knew right then ,I would make the same decision. Anything as simple as happiness and being comfortable in your skin and loving thyself,is one of the Most important things in life. I wish the best for this family.
I sincerely hope you're never within arm's reach of a child, psycho
Damn that's scary having suicidal thoughts at such a young I'm glad her parents made the right decision
If your seven year old is suicidal, you are already failed as a parent
Doctors are blackmailing parents with the suicide routine. No mental health help, just go ahead and mess the kid for life. So sad.
Thats influence from social media and from schools
The hard part is when puberty hits.
April which is the reason she is going on purberty stopper it pauses puberty until she decides to take female estrogen or continue living as a Male
Emily's little zoo
what the hell does that have to do with anything?
MegaKris300 did you just assume it’s gender?! TWICE?!
MegaKris300 - He*
April indeed. Hard to fight what you were born as.
All you can do is start with acceptance; accepting what you are at birth. You can be a tomboy or a sissy guy.
So, I was having a great day today. And then this comment section happened.
Edit: I was going to start replying to the comments, then I remembered probably the greatest quote of all time: "Never argue with stupid people. They'll drag you down to their level and beat you with experience". Truly a magnificent quote.
DogoByte who are the stupid ones?The ones calling him a girl or the ones calling him a boy?
DingDingSoLong TheyCallItLongShlong
The ones unaccepting of the fact that transgender people (and every other member of the LGBTQ community) exist. Yeah, this comment section could fill an entire ocean worth of salt.
Anthønyee Well, possibly, if people like you didn't discourage her, maybe she would've ended out better than she is now. I mean, do you realize what your actions are doing? The exact people who hated her for being trans when she was young could also possibly be in the exact same situation you're in right now. So, be careful, because sometimes the same actions that caused trouble to your or a friend of your's life, can be the exact same actions you're taking right now. Life comes full circle, and it's not always pretty, my friend.
rarest of pepes rarest of pepes oh my let's ignore all the grammar mistakes in this comment for the sake of actually responding to what you're saying lmao - plenty of studies have shown that gender does not necessarily correspond with your biological sex and it's not like they're choosing to be a female or male or anything, they just are. just like gay or straight people can't choose who they're attracted to, transgender people can't choose what gender they are
I am very sorry for your friend - this is really unfortunate / =
The problem though is, that many people - just like she - do start transitioning at such a young age and never end up regretting it.
What I think is important is, that she is happy now - especially considering how she attempted to jump out of the window, as in she was HIGHLY suicidal.
The family treats this very carefully - in the video they say for now she hasnt decided on surgery yet and she'll only be blocking her puberty, as well as taking estrogen.
She can always decide to stop these meds and then go through a typically normal male puberty, which will result to her having facial hair (if she has the genes for it), lower voice, et cetera.
What I'm saying is - there are always some people who end up regretting transition, which is why there are specialists and procedurs and long theray sessions to make sure the clients really are sure about this - or as sure, as they can be.
Medicine and Professionals are doing their best - but even they sometimes fail -and some people make mistakes.
However, the bigger number of transitioning people ends up being very happy - and having their live saved.
To me, it seems clear that she is very happy and content - and I pray it will stay this way.
(As long as she doesn't have lower-body surgery though, I assume most changes - in case she reconsiders - should be reversible.)
She appears very mature for such a young age though, so I think she knows what she is doing.
The mom went to my school, not a long time ago ♡
hoax was here really?????
@@simplyalicjavibes6468 yeah
Really?
Lies
Cap, wait frr
"It's cool to have a sister because I already have a little brother and two would just be too much for me" 😂
LauraIsNotA Cat I agree an older brother is not something you would want aha, I'm also trans MTF and I'm the eldest.
LauraIsNotA Cat ikr
LauraIsNotA Catj
Ik he’s a legend supporting his sister ❤️❤️
LauraIsNotA Cat XD
"you are not alone and you are safe"
A ten year old saying that makes me so happy
Edit: wowie so many likes what
Shillllllllllll
I’m 10 łøł
What’s your favourite tøp song?
GalaxyCat 284 Trees or slowtown
Infinity On High cool! Those are some of my favourites too. I also love Ride, Message Man, Addict With a Pen, Fake You Out, HOTY, NATN, Ode to Sleep, and more that I couldn’t be bothered to write down lol. What is your favourite from Trench so far?
5:19 *billie eilish has entered the chat*
Mushrooms423 girl i wrote this one year ago idk what it was about
hsgsdhfgdhshdgshdf
BBHAHAHAHAHAHHA
@Mushrooms423 why no she does look like Billie Eillish
Jeez. I’m not transgender, but my parents told me if I was, they’d send me to counselling.
Gotta throw away the whole parents now.
i don’t like to joke about this stuff because it’s not right but put your parents in rice
Blackbox Studios
I’m Asian and dayum they’ll send me off to adoption.
Good
@@superbob5822 What?
But why is this 10 year old prettier than me...
Curly Keys ikr
Jules Winnfield * she
Aloha Ash He
Cody * She if he wants to be girl we should respect it and say She not he.
Curly Keys shut up kid
I like this quote
"I would rather have a happy sister
Than a dead brother"
She's not a transtrender she's transgender stop saying it for fame
Shelbi Jackson Terrible parents letting children chose what their gender is, causes so much bullying, if they get surgery it can be even worse, in kindergarten I wanted to be a T rex, my life would of sucked if my parents would of told me I was a t rex becayse I felt like it
+Matt TheDestroyer 2 I believe we should be our truest self.
Gay people also get bullied a lot is that cause their parents let them be gay?
I would rather have a dead sister and a dead brother....
+GalaxyCat 284 well then
Elijah and Rebekah...Where is Klaus though? (I hope someone will undersrand)
Lol yes😂
Hahaha loved it
Kinky Beebo Elijah & Rebecca are biblical names. Don't you find that ironic? The family is going against everything the bible teaches!
@@discobikerAndRosie You mean family from the video or the Mikaelsons? 😂
@@discobikerAndRosie it's odd the father also seems like hes in the closet.
I avoid this film for months because I thought it was going to be a horror story about a trans person killing everybody. And then I realize it's a sweet transgirl who was dubbed the scary trans person the media warned you about😂😂
Chocolate Mafia430 lol XD
Me too but I still watched it bc why not😂😂
So many comments about the bad comments that I can’t find any bad comments
prob they deleted them
Daniel’s Lost Son OMG I was just thinking that!
@Phillip Boyd there isnt one bad statement in this comment. What in the
@@timc4765 they need serious help.. People need to stop praising them and start committing them.. btw I'm using they and them in a plural form.. the way they and them are supposed to be used.. these nut jobs need medication, not hormone replacement therapy and a dress
They’re all the people replying to comments. It’s so annoying when someone comments something nice and some transphobic person has to put in their two cents
She’s lucky. She is young enough to be able to shift corse and go through female puberty instead of male.
Dumbass he’s still a boy
@@sacredtruth4870 It's really not that risky. The chances of it being an issue are extremely small.
@GeorgeC Totonjie I see you're also one of those annoying types -_- You know stating this means nothing.
@GeorgeC Totonjie It's uneccessary. We all know she was a boy and is biologically male, but nobody is going to change their mind and call her a boy just because you say it.
@@cartermcmillian4865 dumbass she is trans which mean she is a girl now not a boy
"Im transphobic"
"what does that mean?"
"It means he's scared of transgender people"
"No it doesn't!"
"Oooo I'm trans"
"Stop it Patrick you're scaring him!"
transphobia doesn't just mean being afraid of trans people. read the definition well.
@@mariakelselr2859 lmao they are taking a quote from a spongebob episode and changing the word “claustrophobic” with “transphobic”
@@mariakelselr2859 they took a quote from a spongebob episode..
41%
@@mostacholesalabolognesa3148 now %50
Thank you for speaking out about this. One of my very best friends was born at a time (1950’s) where she was forced to hide who she was and ultimately, it did lead to what your daughter felt and experienced. The main differences is that your daughter has the supports and she has her own voice, and she has the medical experts behind her. Thank goodness for you. 💯🌸Thank goodness for you being you and, not letting anyone else determine your future and your happiness.
I lost my friend last year. She was denied surgery that she wanted in her 40s when she finally took a risk. After 65 miserable years that I can’t even imagine, and bring tears to my eyes, she found love and acceptance in a loving relationship, finally.
She told me she knew that she was a girl at three years old. I can only wish she had a family like yours. 👏🏼☀️♥️Thank you so much for making this video. 🌱🌻🌟💜🩵
"My friends don't even believe me when I say I'm transgender."
Oh god she sounds so happy and proud of that, I'm so happy for you.
@Chief Juk Oh, how creative. It's almost like that insult hasn't been used 100 times already. If your going to say something transphobic, at least make it funny mate.
@Chief Juk The only joke is just how unoriginal you are my dude. Really, you gotta step up your game.
@Chief Juk Word of advice man, I've done a fair share of trolling and riling up people for fun myself. You're really bad at this.
If every parent can be the supportive then the suicide rate will go down
You're confused
LaTavia Washington until they hit puberty and realize the mistakes of childhood stupidity
LaTavia Washington it’s not that simple sweetie.
If people didn’t get their genitals cut off the suicide rate would go down. Case closed.
So you want every parent to be supportive in their children destroying their lives??
Alright I promise not to scroll through the comments.
I failed.
Sorry you had to see that
Pinguino del Rio ULTRA TRIGGERD DRAMA DOWN THERE.
some people can be weenies ya know
Mr.Shovels a
My teacher was right about many people failing biology.
She has a beautiful soul and has a powerful message, she has strength and a strong sense of Passion.
She is spreading a message to people and brings courage! I am so proud of this child!
Sydney Cava and I am so sad for you and all other lost people in this world.
And she is beautiful
@@rae1324-y7c I am sad for you being hurt by someone else's opinion.
*he
@@surrealityzero5122 The person is talking about the transgender girl, not her dad or someone else.
This comment section has made me lost all faith in humanity 😭
In what way? What comments made you lose faith?
I'm sorry if this trigger anyone's but-
HER HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL AF
The Grim Reaper ikr
IM SO TRIGGERED lol but her hair is so pretty tho it's not fair I wish my parents would had let me dye my hair at 10
The Grim Reaper Ikr
The Grim Reaper his
^^Her*
Is any one else watching this video and thinking why this 9-year-old is allowed to dye her hair yet me, a teenager, isn't? Like where can i find these girls parents and have them talk some sense into mine?
DEAD
omg this is so true i wish my parents were like hers. im currently 15 and transitioning to female and my parents dint support me at all
ME! i was watching and the whole time 'she has pink hair! I'm still not allowed to dye my hair. why can't i dye my hair?''
HONESTLY
Same i can dye mine temporary dye in dark colors (darkk red dark purple really dark green dark blue) you xan barely see it
My son was born a girl. He has lived as a boy since he was 3. People say ‘it’s a phase’ or ‘I was a tomboy’. It’s NOT that, not at all. My son would be devastated if he lived as ‘Poppy’. People are quick to judge and say things like ‘you’re pushing something unnatural’. Ultimately, I want my child to be happy, so I’ll do everything in my power to make that happen, he has my unconditional support. That makes me a good mum in my books!
So do you have a daughter or a son? Judging by your comment you gave birth to a girl and now your "son" will have periods and get ovarian cancer.
@@mryes413 What kind of comment is that? Ridiculous and rude!
@@melhay9969 just asking a question therefore you are the rude one.
She has a beautiful soul. I’m glad her family is so accepting of her!
She has a smile that would brighten any dark day.
@Db_Krdstn no she’s a girl why would she be a he?
@@sxdive2lile19 is a boy 🙁
@@th-rex6560 nah
He* 😈😈😈😈
Why is the color pink associated with girls😂 like I love blue but I'm still a girl
Danah alsaif because most girls like pink and most dudes dislike it
Matt TheDestroyer 2 but your gender doesn't depend on what color you like
Danah alsaif watch vox "why pink became a girly color"
Me too
Danah alsaif I like Pink, Purple, Blue lol but I'm a girl
“Part of being an adult means that just because somebody has a different view than you doesn’t mean you have to try to prove them wrong.” -Mature Adults
No No Amen
No No Opinions are one thing, opinions with added hate behind them are another. We have every right to tell someone their opinion is wrong only then.
Says the guys using reaper from overwatch as his profile picture. and that quote can be taken from anyone, not just specifically mature adults
No No True dat.
darthevil9999
Chose your battles, this world has far too much conflict and there is no room for being petty.
Two years ago, i made a comment about my sister transitioning into a male. At the age of 10 i didn't understand about how difficult this would be for me and my family. I didn't realise that it took years to transition. i am now 13 and my sibling is 12, its hard to understand what they are going through. And its painful to see them struggle with situations that "normal" people wouldn't have to think about like, which toilet they feel most comfortable using. i have been studying the science aspect behind transiting, i'm only doing it for them but it seems that they have got to that point where there just always moody. But i was exactly the same. Its so confusing sometimes, but everything is going great otherwise. Just know if you're struggling with gender issues you are amazing! Just think about all the people who love and support you and forget the ignorant ones who can't love you for you. ps. i can't actually believe i found my old account and this comment, it really brought light to my heart when all the comment again. :)
For everyone who says her liking "girly" things does not make her trans, please keep in mind she is very young, and isn't as skilled at expressing what she feels in her heart as a mature, fully functional adult would be. The society she is being raised in has taught her that that's all you need to be a girl, so that's all the explaining she thinks she needs to do. She felt so free to be able to enjoy "girly" things without being mocked by a hateful society. She knows what she wants and who she is, and my love goes out to this beautiful GIRL. I wish her all the best, and hope she enjoys many successes in her life.
I don't know if you know this, but 10 year olds are a lot smarter then you give them credit for. I knew I was bisexual at 10, so why can't she be transgender at 10? Would you have rather she suffered through constantly being labeled as male, despite that just not feeling like who she knows she is? This girl tried to jump out a window! She was miserable! If you'd rather let a little girl end her own life simply because she didn't like the way she was made then I have no words for you.
B E U X but it's different, she felt like she was born as a girl but in a boys body
Boy*
Dae Tv fuck of you piece of shit
Dae Tv
Fuck off. She's a girl, not a boy. Go to hell.
Whoever you are, you've made a grave mistake by looking at the comment section
Ikr
@@shimmer4771 you can't juge someone just because their kid is like that.The parents cant stop their kids from being like that. stupid
@@labreahutcherson238 yah they can. When a boy says I like pink, dont tell them only girls like pink.... seriously it is that simple
@@shimmer4771
It was her choice. She wasn't forced.
Noodles McCheesecakes wha? Everyone’s being nice? Unless you mean the people who are being nice are the ones that you are against?
The child "liked the color pink, liked girls clothes, and how they wear their hair". These determine sex?
“They are correct. Those aren't the things that make Rebekah a girl.
Still, from the time she could talk, consciously or unconsciously, Rebekah used the language, assumptions, and systems around her to communicate where she belonged.” -Jamie Bruesehoff (Rebekah’s mom), _Raising Kids Beyond the Binary_
No but stuff like that can be hard to explain at that age.
For the person that said Rebekah wasn't mature enough to make decisions like being a 10 year old transgender at 5:00, their comment doesn't seem very 'mature' saying that Rebekah parents forced this decision upon. Tons of children tend to gain knowledge and maturity quicker than most grown individuals across the globe. When will the world see that children can be a whole lot more mature than what is known? Shoot there's even 7 year olds who can do more than most adults.
I just gotta say, I love you just for commenting this. I hope people can see it so they will stop commenting things like "Her parents are forcing it on her!" or "She's not old enough to make the right decisions"
Without the title, I would have never thought that she was transgender
The cheese girl same. I had no clue until she told me. I always thought she was really pretty.
Tosic she*
The cheese girl Me neither
The cheese girl me too
Ya she looks so cute she looks like she’s always been a girl
Oh gosh i shouldn't have looked at the comment section...
Shit man me either. It pains me to see how little brains people have nowadays
Alex Ries thank god there's SOMEONE here with common sense. I like you.
This just makes me sad. Its sad people cant be more accepting. Even though im not really part of the lgbtq+ community, i try to be open to new ideas, and i wish people could at least tolerate their decisions. I think that Rebekah is a beautiful little girl, and i wish her all the happiness in the world.
she is Rebecca if I had the courage I would tell my foster parents I SHOULD be a boy.
Syfe Kai Your way of thinking is a mental illness. And "Next it's going to be people transitioning to animals"? First of all, humans are still a species of animal. Second, people transitioning to animals would mean going outside of our species. Transitioning to the opposite gender means staying within the species.Your non-existent logic doesn't make sense.
Awwww. She is beautiful, and her message to let other transgender boys and girls know that they are not alone is amazing. She has gone through so much at such a young age, that is going to be a great tool to let her help those who are struggling. Whether it's suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, or being scared to come out into the LGBTQ+ community, she can help them.
So if a kid wants to be a rhinoceros or a tiger and their parents give them hormones and therapies to do that, you're ok with that too right??
@Blued_ Well you obviously haven't seen the latest advances in gene therapy - where Elon Musk talked in depth about the limitless possibilities of how man could soon transform into anything similar to how a caterpillar can transform into a butterfly - so go educate yourself you abject moron....
@@rs72098 you're bang on the money
Sorry....I just read your about page....that was sad - I shouldn't have said what I did....
.....you obviously know no better - but you should realize how evil this whole agenda is....I wish you well....
ps - you're a very good singer
:)
This girl is so adorable!!!! I don’t get how the media warns us about “scary trans people” though! Can’t these parents just let their kids be who they want to be before they want to die too? This isn’t the first story I’ve heard where the parents explain they weren’t conforming and it made them depressed....just some thoughts and I really hope the best for her!!!
Melina Andrews yeah, the media actually supports this kind of messed up behavior. They just have a clickbait title about the media, when actually, the media is too afraid to oppose transgenderism
Whoa Whoa Whoa....... since when is pink and purple only a female color.
Ethan - Yeah what happened you their "gender spectrum" ...?
What
It is not ONLY a female color, however more women like those colors than men, it is a predominantly female color.
she's a child and its what she was taught in school let her live smh
What are you talking about?
*did i hear crippling depression*
Hear***
Trashy Potato hear*
Whoever left that comment on Facebook, must be really embarrassed right now
I don’t think anyone ever warned me about a transgender girl named Rebecca
Phoebe !! He`s turning himself into an abomination, these people need to hear the true, not be lied to, this is sick minded behavior , this nation is under Gods judgment, and hes turning it into hell on earth,
@ how is this abomination...?
Venus is hella wild - that person went wild with Christian beliefs but I mean.. to me, I think it’s messed up for a minor to be allowed to mutilate their body
Heart? Warmed.
Smile? Wide.
Faith in humanity? Restored.
insubordinate
Hotel? Trivago
@@mia-yn4ri Very good job.
Well... Faith isn't restored yet... There's still those pedos at there...
Hotel? Trivago
Is this a real thing? Everyone accepts her and even the pastor supports her? Her parents too? What kind of ideal world is this? My best friend was bullied his whole life for being queer.. and he still is bullied. I am bullied too to for being pansexual. Where does this girl live cuz we're moving there
The fact that her father is a pastor and still supports her is just wonderful. That's not something you see everyday
christopher Urban no it's actually the complete opposite. He doesn't deserve to be a pastor
+Logan Andrews lol..your stupid. how is it possible for someone to not deserve to be a pastor? just cuz they have a trans kid? f***you
christopher Urban no offense but really thats not ok u dont just change ur gender because ur not happy
+Daiana Perfecto Huaman ok...personally, i dont understand church-like things...soooo i guess thats true..
+Impulse Haze you can change your gender if your not happy. if you were in her position, you would have done the same. anyways, its her personal choice what she wants to be.
An ad play before she said "I'm the scary transgender person", the thing was like *COMEDY CENTER*
I love how people online develop psychic abilities and are able to know everything about the person or the people they are talking about online...😒
The only thing I’m bothered about it’s that her name is Rebekah and not Rebecca because this is the 1st time I’ve seen it written like that bc that’s my name w hat
RBc another TH-camr has that name. They’re also trans/non binary
Ikr
My name too OMG
it's the Biblical spelling, and her father is a pastor.
My middle name is spelled like tht...
her dad the pastor is being so brave in supporting her! you can tell he's scared but the love he has for the child will overcome all fear of judgement.
this.
Omg...
Total respect for her parents, they have lots of different minds and opinions to deal with. But as long as they see their kids happy by what they do for them, I think they'll all be fine. 😊
Nah, he's simply been successfully manipulated by some dishonest people with an agenda
@@comment6864 no. He's just helping his beautiful daughter.
She looks happy and it doesn't seem this was pushed on her, like geeze her father is a Pastor. I dont know what I would do as a parent, but I should as hell wouldn't want my child being so unhappy that the try and jump out a 2 story window. I hope SHE is happy for the rest of her life. And judging by her smile, she will be.
She dyed his hair pink and placed the son in pink dresses at 2 years old. Me: I wasn't allowed to dye my hair till I was 13
Lol-
curlytana01 he*
Alex 123 no it’s she because she’s trans. she was born a guy, but transitioned into a girl.
Her
Claire Mcfadyen *her
Are the "negative" comments being deleted or something?
Some are for sure. And if they are negative, they are negative. No quotes needed.
Not mine. I haven't had a single deleted comment.
Cause I preach facts to these morons
@@ryanthomas9306 Oh I am sure you have had comments deleted!
@@darthevil9999 nope... not one... even my first stance from like 4 months is still standing.... loser
@@ryanthomas9306 heh....loser. I'm not the one talking down to people who are Transgender, using what they think they know about it to demean people. You're an idiot.
*watches the video*
"Aww, this is sweet and supportive! Let's look at the comments..."
...
"...I hate myself for doing that."
i know its horrid..
It's true he will alway be a he that a fact bro
Damn even an innocent comment gets a hater... wow
@HitchhikersGuideToLife
...that wasn’t a hate comment. It was a fact. The truth sucks, doesn’t it?
@@kirsten8518 truth must be hate these days, I guess. Feelings over facts are how these folks seem to roll.
Awww poor girl, I suffer from depression, male anorexia and I was suicidal last year, I can’t stand hearing she felt that way especially so young and I’m just so happy for her and I will pray nobody EVER hurts her precious soul
Anyone else notice the whole family have perfect eye brows
They DO HAVE VERY BEAUTIFUL EYES
isreal wiltshire not the mom
My eyebrows look like slugs and I feel like this is really unfair
Not the mom
Lol , what's up with this whole eyebrow thing ? Looks like lately everybody's been obsessed with them ...
Her dad is a pastor... incredible! So happy to see that her parents are in full support of her choice. 😊
I feel sorry for the boy ... and for the parents too, this is a really tough mental and physical condition, his hormones are screwed up. I think people need to look for the cure, not accept the illness. It is like agreeing with a schizophrenic that the voices he hears are indeed real, instead of trying to help him ... I don't know, I might be wrong but when I see something like this I feel it just aint normal and right ...
+Bodhisattva
So true. I agree 100%.
Спасибо, Елена, но, да, конечно ... не дай Бог, чтобы это случилось с нашими детьми в будущем
The cure is what they are doing though. It's not exactly harmful to her should she feel it a phase. If people do their research they would know she would be just fine in that case.
You can't lump all Christians into one bigoted category there Gcole6. I'm a Christian and I fully support the LGBTQ+ Community! The Bible though does not say anything about Transgender people by the way. Go ahead and throw any verse of the bible and I will tell you why you are wrong!
when I was a kid my parents would have never let me do that I would have to wait till I was old enough to move out to be trans
She's so cute I hope that she has a great life 😆😆
I made the mistake of going to the comments section DONT DO THAT
Jules Winnfield nope, we'd like you to go burn in hell
Larry Stylinson FOREVER im here too! And oh, im not another account of theirs. I dont even know them
DONT LOOK, DIFFERENT OPINIONS AGHH
Jules Winnfield The hell is wrong with you-
Asriel Dreemurr She/He has no respect, I find it easy to just ignore them...❤️
Ok guys... The girl is only ten. She chose to be a girl.
Yes- she said it was just because she like pink and such- but that's the only way to vocalize why she's a girl that she can think of.
SHE IS TEN. if she can't explain perfectly why she's a girl- so what?? She's happy! Let the kid live her life. So long as she's happy- what's the issue?? People seem to forget she's only 10, don't expect a perfect explanation.
(Just to be clear- because I worry its not obvious- this doesn't bug me. I support this stuff- so long as the kid is happy and its their choice. )
Kajovi Ace kids also think they're astronauts, firefighters and kings and Queen's lol kids do not have the responsibility nor the experience to make these big decisions!!!!! This is indoctrination into a cult of demonic perverts!!!!
@@kingdavid4466 I knew by age 6 and there was no one to help me as it was the 50s.
@@kingdavid4466 Excuse me, not all kids think that.
Kajovi Ace I can't wait til someone chooses to end him
I thought the goal was to eliminate the stereotype that pink = girl?
Her message is powerful. It can help overcome hate, racism and discrimination. Plus she has the prettiest smile. As pretty as she is, it won't be long before she has a boyfriend.
Anyone having issues with this should understand. This is a human who you will never meet. Whose city you will never see. And will have not a slightest impact on your life or anyone in the comment field. Writing a negative thing about this only exposes yourself as a bad human being or a insecure one. Have faith that other people can find happiness in ways you don't understand. And you are allowed to find happiness in the way you want to. Win, win in the end? ... Kids today and young adults don't understand. In most cases you will never become a influencer or a famous person. You will find 30-40 good friends in your life. You will spend most your days with someone you love and their children, and people around that area. You will learn that everyone is allowed their own life, and you don't need to feel anything regarding what they like or dislike. As you be to occupied with either.. work.. your close-proximity of friends, your husband or wife and children.
correction i've been to jersey city before
This transgender generation is growing up with greater support and understanding as well as protection. I feel sorry for transgenders who were murdered or who committed suicide because of the situation not having any support. I always think of Gwen Aroujo and the torment she endured. Though her mother eventually came around and supported her, it was too late as far as realizing the danger that lurked around her.
Yeah, her murder was horrible...
Acceptance into the delusion didnt help the child, and has shown not to work. UCLA took empirical data and there was zero improvement.
Some stupid fucks have been linking me biased blog posts suggesting how acceptance improves by 80 percent with transitioning.
Hrm rough math time. 80 percent of 47 percent suicide is 9.4 percent... the national suicide is 10. So apparently these people are suggesting suicidal depression is completely removed, however the data suggests otherwise
@@ryanthomas9306 Yawn!
@@darthevil9999 more people like my comment on your biased propaganda piece.
Just stating facts
@@ryanthomas9306 You can be proud of all your likes for all I care, doesn't and wont ever change the fact on where I stand in treating people. You just proved my point on how arrogant and ignorant you will always be. Yawn!
I love how her parents are so accepting. A lot of parents aren't, and many trans kids and teens are closeted and depressed because of that. It sucks. And because these closeted teens can't tell their parents they have to go through puberty and that just makes it worse. I wish I had parents like this. But I'm really happy for her, and happy that her parents are so supportive.
Are they gonna accept something that will make the kid more likely to commit suicide when they get older and their brain fully develops ?
See people if you let your kid think their an opposite sex than what they are they become depressed and that seems okay? Makes sense to me i get how my little son might want to get a girl’s toy at mcdonalds but to get him a god damn barbie and girly shit even though he’s fucking five is pretty insane. These parents are insane in my eyes your child is a CHILD they don’t know what they are talking about children have imaginations. My god what has this world come too. You CANNOT be born in the “Wrong” body that is not possible you can however be born and brought up to be told that it’s okay to be something that you are simply not. Our founding fathers would be disgusted to see this happening in a country and world they fought to make free just to have idiots do things like this.
NextProductionsTV I'm wondering the same thing about the world except I'm wondering what's wrong people like with u ok I'm a 13year old boy that's transgender and I'm ftom now how dose that mack u feel also transgender kids aren't the one with the illness it's people like you so take your hate and Burnet because love is love be who you are!☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️
your a 13yo ....uem ...thing
with a mental problem :-)
featfeater You can count me into that section. My mom thinks that how I feel is just a phase going on for years..... to now
she’s now 16!! an absolutely gorgeous girl i loved her sm ❤
She's my girl
He’s a boy
man
I'm gonna ask her out
I wish her the best life...
I feel what she's gone through, but I am a teenager...
It's 2011
You’re trans?
It's sad to see that ppl are bashing a kid....
NitroDubbbz What exactly do you mean? She showed signs of gender dysphoria and she tried to jump out of the window, so the parents obviously know the dangers. That's why they let her transition and they'll be putting her on T-blockers
Jawahir Mamidi now, now, children, let's not tell anyone to die.
ιηαrι You are coming here as a saint when you literally denied that she was a girl in other comments... Just let her be!! Your stupid ass comments aren't going to change whether she is a boy or a girl
Mìnty Crŷstäl If I ever meet you, we're going to fight. I don't fucking like you.
Dwight Schrute Exactly, so why bother replying to me? You read the bait and went for it. That shows how much sense you have in your head.
well, her parents were perplexed because she was wanting to die, so they did what they could to help her.. It isn't child abuse.. If the parent was actually forcing their kid to be a trans, that would be a form of sexual and emotional abuse, but they clearly were not forcing her.. The child truly wanted this, and even wanted to end her life, so her loving parents did everything to help her.. As someone who had abuse as a child (and now has borderline personality disorder from it) and went to many mental health facilities as a child where I saw many other kids who had been abused, I can say that this is far from abuse. People who think this is abuse do not know what child abuse is. Again, only would this be abuse IF the parents LITERALLY forced it on her, or continuously made her feel like she was not good enough as a boy, and only she would be as a girl which this isn't the case.
There is a video of her speaking in front of 31 thousand of her very accepting church congregation, and in no way was she forced, purely how she talked about her journey. Also, I agree with you, I was abused, no way is this abuse. Even the CPS who was called on the Bruesoffs found no single trace of evidence of child abuse. People who declare Child Abuse, are purely in it for joy of being hateful to people.
This is her speaking th-cam.com/video/16v4H70hqRk/w-d-xo.html&app=desktop
Her mom Jaime discussing how it feels to have CPS called on them. www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/defending-your-identity-to-the-state-when-parents_us_59cbcccce4b0b99ee4a9c9a6
Westboro Baptist church dont physically abuse their children, but they are still brainwashing their kids with rubbish..
Cant connect the dots?
His*
That is the bravest girl I have ever seen. I am a demi girl and only recently had the courage to tell my parents. She is so strong for dealing with such challenges!!
I wish my parents were like Jamie and Christopher! I would have been transitioning to a Girl at a Very Early Stage of my life with their Valuable Love, Care, Help and Support! Today, at the age of 45, I am, STILL, an Androgynous CD, MtF Woman, Struggling and Fighting on My Own With/For my Transition, Without Family Support and Acceptance and Being in a Hostile Home and Social Environment! 😒😢😥😭
What a genuinely kind and loving family. All of their kids are so sweet.
Look so sweet ya never know
But they will go to hell
Yeah ?, and all them and their kids are headed for HELL, , their going to be the sweetest false loving family in HELL, one day, wishing they had never been born !! if they continue down this broad road, to destruction !! its not about how we perceive things, its about the truth of the scriptures, and what they say, the facts, people, not our winey feelings and emotions, better get to reading the true bible, 1611 K J authorized bible, before its too late, and see God for who he really is, and how he really is, YOU`VE BEEN WARNED !!
Rose Hinton I agree
SabakaJunglay proud trans ❤️
The brother is an OG
🤣🤣yah he goes like " having a big brother is just a little too much for me "🤣🤣
What media warned me about a scary transgender person?
I love that her parents are so supportive. I wish my parent's were like that
my parents never care and I had to hide it for 23 years of depression and now I'm being who I am now as a female and I'm happy she didn't have to go though what I had to for 23 years ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm happy you can be who you are after so long! Much love ♥♥♥
Bless you!
Good job! I'm so happy that you survived that long and are happy now! I just wanna say that I care about you and I hope you have a good day/afternoon/night!
eagle wolf I'm so happy you can now be who you truly are your very brave in a world with so many hateful opinions being thrown every single which way. I'm just so sorry you had to suffer for so long. You are strong and amazing x x x x and so brave
Well, your brain structure or feelings is not what determines your gender, chromosomes do. If you’re born with XY chromosomes you are a male and if you’re born with XX chromosomes you are a female. There is no changing that. You can tell me that I am not accepting of who you want to be, but what sane person would promote delusion?
It's a sign of good advancement in our country when I'm sitting here more concerned about the fact that the mom allowed her daughter to dye her hair pink rather than the fact that her daughter is transgender.
Alex Garcia Oh yeah... enabling kids to indulge this stuff is really now and happening. What a world.
Alex Garcia mother is actually stupid, giving the child puberty blockers hurt the growth of the brain
Alex Garcia ikr
Loganatorexit I would rather be less smart, but in the right body than be intelligent, but suffering from major dysphoria and having a major longing for death
You to
*my parents said I'm too young to be transgender and I'm a year older than her*
You’ve got good parents. You’re not old enough to make such a big decision as using irreversible hormone pills. Neither is the kid in this video.
I hate it when people say stuff like "she's not old enough to make that decision" like being trans is a choice. Sure, going through the transition is a decision, but you don't just decide to be a girl. It's just something you're born knowing.
Social media sucks...she is absolutely beautiful
He.
*she :)
@@ruined_carpet9630 *he :)
@@heehoo6014 he. For the last time. Dont give a damn what anymore of you say. Still he.
@@heehoo6014 he.
she seems to have very feminine structure, too.
What structure?
His/her face is all you really have to judge.
There is no 'hips', 'boobs' etc.. specially when the child has yet to hit puberty.
Your comment is troubling and frankly... quite demented.
It's not difficult for a child to appear either gender. Specially when the female form has for centuries attempted to associate beauty and youth as one in the same. Your mind is well fooled into believing 'feminine' simply by long colored hair.
I feel sorry for the child. -Used as a propaganda doll. Rebecca is not invited to my child's party that's for damn sure. That little puppet can play hopscotch out the front with her nutty mother.-
Name Withheld Wow your comment started all right but then it took a turn. That’s way worse than the starting comment itself. Rude. Please reconsider your comment?
Name Withheld Name Withheld rebekah does not want to attend to your child’s party she’s doing just fine sweetie
julia thørntøn wait till he/she gets older
Matthias Wilberger please just shut up you don't understand until you have been through as much as others so I warn you to stop.
I wish we lived in a world where we could all be accepted for who we want to be. Why is it so scary to let people be themselves? I know, the bathroom issue. That's a hard one. Let's work hard at finding an answer.
Actually over here in Ireland we had no bathroom issues, pronoun issues or anything of the sort when we got our rights.
American politics is the one that focuses on this crap to distract from real issues like crime rate and robbing the people blind.
Yes, like, for example, common bathrooms! I know some places which use common bathrooms, and nothing special happens there. Everything "private" is made in a closet cabin, after all.
I've heard lots of stories with "a girl goes into a ladies bathroom in a secluded place, and then a man sneaks in blocking her inside", I've heard some stories with "a trans person goes into a "wrong" bathroom and gets severely beaten there". But I have never heard one story about "a trans girl enters the ladies bathroom and then... WHAT"? I can't even imagine WHAT!
@@threetimesforgotten ^ moron
Your not scary. You and your parents are inspirational. Thank you for your share.
Ok so like....
99% comments= positive
1% comments = not
And everyone like talking about how bad the comments are... lol
Katherine Randall
Cause like you don’t expect this to still be happening, but here we are.
It was because the comment section on this video was originally a hate filled swamp and some wonderful people have come along and been supportive and outnumbered the hate as far as I see but I'm not that far through the comments yet so idk
WE WUZ VIKANGS!!! n shiet.
They never victimized themselves. Like ever in this video
I've seen some hate comments, but I also see comments with valid information being concerned for this ideology.
I for one cannot agree based on the information out there. I know WHO changed it to sexual inconguence, but the dysfunction fits a psychological disorder perfectly... also suicide has been getting worse and UCLA reported oppression wasnt the cause...
Well people are scared to post their opinion because if someone says anything in a negative light, they get attacked. It's not fair for people that can't share their opinion.
How come she's allowed to have pink hair and me (at 15) I'm not?😂😂
He's*
Maybe because your parents love you and truly care about your well being. Go give them a hug and stop encouraging this nonsense.
@@AG-om3jn Exactly.
Wise words
You should love everyone The way they are because hating on them ain't gonna get you any where in life
@ProfessorRomendev haha wow what a hypocritical, ignorant comment
@ProfessorRomendev actually, indeed incorrect. Not only did you accidentally use the wrong pronouns, you also called a girl a boy when it clearly states female on her birth certificate. Its quite funny that you act like you know everything about this girl when in reality, the person who knows Rebekah the best is herself. You haven't even met her yet you think you have the right to judge her situation. Cant you just leave a poor innocent child alone? She is living her happiest life and the fact that you have nothing better to do than bully a child and purposefully hate on a 13 year old is sick. You will never know what its like for someone like her. Not only does she have to deal with the hardships of everyday life, but she also has to deal with bigots and morons like you.
Sometimes God creates things for only one reason...to bring joy in people´s lives!
Sometimes and somewhere he creates a light for us, just to let us know about beauty in this world! Rebekah IS one of those lights!
Even she is 10 years old...It´s easy to see this special light around her! She´s got something only few people have...an AURA...something very pleasant...very warm!!!
Rebekah is a GIFT to her family...and allready a wonderful person! I hope she´ll have a peaceful and fulfilled life!!!
Ok but I was never warned about this girl lol
*boy
Temmi san same
Temmi san where? One of her little brothers?
Temmi san boy*
RockmetGamingGuy *girl
I know this is unrelated, but I love her hair. I wish I had hair like that, but my hair is too dark to get it to look like that.
(Edit): Will people stop debating whether Rebecca is a girl or a boy? Idk why everyone cares so much that I used she. I just liked Rebekah's hair. That's all!
LocuraLins IDK? HE
Majestic Fox
She
I'm pretty sure this is a she
you have your opinions and I have mine. well mine may have a little more logic than yours but whatever.
Majesic Fox if you don't agree with trans ppl, why are you here?
Just saw her account now and she’s 14!
Kids who are trans have to grow up so fast. I wish people could just accept them so they didn’t have to become so aware of hate so young
"When I see pictures of Ben, I just think of it as part of my past. And now I'm....Me."
*YAAASSS BBIIISSHH SLAAAYYY*
*Cringe*
^^ why do you take the time to comment though lol like you already know what the video is about. Don't click if you have a problem.
Ian Tomlin there is something wrong with you she is beautiful
Ian Tomlin u make me sick
Eles Land drop the last part of your comment and it's a nice comment.
Sorry to offend any of you but "I felt like I was a girl because I liked the color pink" JUST BECAUSE YOU LIKE PINK DOSENT MEAN YOU ARE A Girl
Brooklyn Greish I totally agree, but from my experience it's hard to really put into to words why you feel as if you're born in the wrong body. Especially when people are asking you. But I totally agree
this poor kid has no concept at what biological sex even mean.
Brooklyn Greish. She's young and being put on the spot to describe very complicated emotions. We all have better a understanding of our feelings when we get older, and most people are nervous when talking about something very personal on camera. I do agree that liking pink doesn't make you a girl, but if you listen to her mom she says that Rebekah was distressed when being sorted with the boys and confronting the idea of growing up into a man. I'm sure her parents considered many things and talked with her about her feelings much more than we can see in a short video.
Her parents are just trying to love and support her and let her grow up happy and healthy. That's the point of parenting. How many kids who were forced to "man up" had a happy childhood and healthy life?
I like blue. So I'm going to turn trans? I don't think so.
Yeah like Jin in BTS his favorite color is pink he even dyed his hair pink and some people call him princess jin HE IS STILL A MAN
She stand up for herself and she said I am what I am.
Instead to say this and that why nobody said that she is ten yo and she got some guts that people like me at 43 don't have.. she spoke in front of her community and she stood up..great example Rebecca of how the people should do and be..straight to the point..❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍C
She's so beautiful.. And a lucky one with such supportive parents.. Bless this family
I'm seeing all these hate comments and they're really pissing me off. This little *girl* tried to commit suicide because *she* was born as a boy, and *she* is now happy as a *girl* . Can't you all respect that?
GunsNSpirits no.
GunsNSpirits
Nope. You Freako.
It's a he ya moron
GunsNSpirits something about it is just so off. This "boys" logic for being a girl is that he liked the color pink and liked dresses at like the age of 6. There's the paradox of being transgender. It's that you are simultaneously saying that one does not have to conform to physical and societal norms to identify as a gender but you base your identity off of societal norms and chase the physical aspects with drugs. It's terrible. YOU CAN BE A BOY AND LIKE THE COLOR PINK! YOU CAN HANG OUT WITH GIRLS AND STILL BE A BOY! If your gender doesn't matter why are we so DAMN CONCERNED WITH LABELLING? It's saddening. Also at the age of 7 that kid has no sexual attraction whatsoever. You are damning that kid from natural development.
SHE is a weirdo
I'm not disrespecting anyone but I'm genuinely confused- how would you tell the different between a young kid who just likes to dress up as the other gender and later grows up to be the gender they were assigned at birth with no problem, and a young kid who wants to transition?
Kids have to be diagnosed by a specialist. I think it has to do with how kids self-label and how strongly they assert it. Like, if a kid insists that they are (in this case) female. It has nothing to do with toys they like or clothes they like or colours they like. A lot of kids (but not all) also have dysphoria, where they are disgusted by or reject their boy/ girl parts, and they may avoid seeing that part of their body or self-mutilate themselves there. They make plans for their future as a (in this case) woman and talk about being a mom someday, and all that sort of thing. They experience distress when told they are not that sex. If they have a temper tantrum when told they can't play with dolls, that's not considered a sign of being transgender, but if they are told they have to sit on the left side with the "other boys" and they have a tantrum, that is a sign.
Her parents went to a professional in the field
@@SabakaJunglay this is pathetic. In order to transition, one must be approved by a specialist and be mentally sound. You cannot have suicidal depression and transition... the fact this girl tried to commit suicide should make itcimpossigle to transition but some how this little girl did...
@@ryanthomas9306 You cannot physically/ medically transition if you are not emotionally/ mentally stable, you can't get surgery or cross-sex hormones if you are unstable. BUT social transitioning, where a person lives as the opposite sex, asks the people around them to use different pronouns and call them a different name, that is a normal part of alleviating the distress and depression, and is perfectly acceptable. In fact, there is often no other way to improve a transgender person's mental health. This child has only socially transitioned, not medically transitioned, and it has indeed improved her mental health symptoms. She is no longer depressed, anxious or suicidal.
@@SabakaJunglay ps I have studied suicidal depression for over a decade, not once have I seen a clinically depressed individual get fixed by changing their name, or giving them nicer clothes, or even buying them a mansion / ferrari. Material objects dont make someone clinically depressed happier..
A child with a temper tantrum sure. All you're doing is raising your child without the proper mechanisms to cope