I cannot begin to explain how timely this message is. I am breaking away from a cult that I was raised in and moving out at the same time. Thank you for this message of strength. 💪
This made me realize that I've been looking for others to dictate how I should act in my own life, that is not a respectable nor reliable way of living.
I was publicly shamed for a bad relationship and 'kicked' out of my social group. I carried it around for a long time, it got to the point where I would believe people could look at me and tell I was the bad person others wanted me to believe I was.
This message rings true deeply in me. I feel like I live with a constant feeling of shame for whatever little thing I said or felt. It's as if I had an evil judge inside, constantly. Also I'd like to add: accepting yourself is an incredibly powerful message. You can't change things that you havent yet accepted.
That was beautiful. I like watching yoir videos in the evening when everything is calm. I swear that in your content there is something that resonates with me. A simple and natural string of thought. Very inspiring. Thank you.
This video is perfect for me. Within the past couple months I've had some nasty mental episodes where I truly hate myself. But the past week or so I've noticed that I've had zero negative self talk or thoughts about myself
Hey man I been watching you for a long while now. I appreciate the help and insights you’ve passed along to guys like me who may have needed it along the way. Thank you truly
Been off weed for almost 2 months. Just started my new job today. Gonna hit the gym here in second. Not feeling the shame anymore I’m feeling the THUMOS.
The time of this was uncanny for me. Certain events have made me realize that I have been apologizing for who I am my whole life. You cant level up until you stop being sorry for the man you truly are inside.
Carl Rogers put it: “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself, just as I am, then I can change.” "Any attempt to dictate what thoughts, feelings, and sensations are proper or improper creates a breeding ground for guilt and shame" Peter Levine "Since most non-HSPs do not seem to enjoy thinking about solutions, they assume we must be unhappy doing all that pondering. Preferring toughness, the culture sees our trait as something difficult to live with, something to be cured." The Highly Sensitive Person, Elaine N. Aron
First time ever commenting here... I think shame is probably the biggest problem that I'm becoming aware in my life. Shame can destroy you completely! And shame it's the problem that no one wants to talk because of its very nature. I'm reading a book about shame from John Bradshaw that shows a lot of what I had been through. I'm so glad that in US there are much more awareness of the shame problem and help for shame-based persons then where I live. This shame thread is really extremely important on so many levels. Thanks a lot!!
You are a 150 yr old man in a “however old you are” body. Analogies, wisdom, it’s all there man. Been gravitating towards people on TH-cam that use common sense, have wisdom, and think for themesleves. Such as you. Good stuff man
I can see how shame can be imposed on people, but I'd argue that a lot of shame is self-induced. Not living up to expectations that you set for yourself for example can lead to shame , which I think everyone struggles with. its a natural emotion that can be manipulated and used to control people.
Dope video Elisha. I was raised by narcissists so I know exactly what you're talking about. Healthy shame is good for you, it keeps you in line and guides you and others. It's toxic shame that is the problem, usually comes from childhood and adolescence, being overly shamed, frequently and then isolating and letting all those thoughts and emotions ruminate. It eats you from inside out. Something that helped me clear shame and emotions surrounding it is EFT Tapping, u can tap on areas of your body and bring up emotions then release them - sounds like BS but it works wonders, give it a try, there's loads of vids on yt
Guilt and Shame are natural responses that we’ve done something wrong. The first 3/4ths of the video was a bit all over the place and sounded like encouragement to indulge in vices and addictions. But then the last 1/4th really summarized what I think is what you were trying to articulate. I’d say overall the modern world is severely lacking in feelings of shames, guilt, and remorse, but the pathway from shame>cope>addiction you talked about is a very true phenomenon. For anyone watching this, we’ve all fallen into that before. Where for the general person, the world has taught them to erase shame and embrace our toxic behaviors.
Sin is death. Sin means missing the mark. When we sin, we are out of alignment with God's perfect will for our lives. When we sin, we separate ourselves further from God's presence and peace in our lives. This is where the enemy wants you. He will use your shame to further divide you from the truth, the source. Religion misses the mark in relation to this, but true Christianity, is knowing Jesus died on the cross for all sin, for all of us, so that we can live in freedom, peace and have salvation without trying to be perfect, because he lived the perfect life for us as an example. Feed your spirit with the truth of Jesus Christ, not societal expectations, religious doctrines etc. By grace we are saved, and by following in his footsteps we will overcome all obstacles, even if we fall thousands of times. Accept yourself because God accepts you. There is a standard, there is a right and wrong, but stop being so rigid. God did not give you a sprit of fear, but of power, love and a calm mind. Bless you Eli, stay strong gents
Excellent comment man! Today I was blessed in experiencing being loved by God even in my worst. Man... That's soooo good! I've been learning a lot of the Grace of God recently, but nothing better than to feel it. That's so powerful! Knowing that you can't disappoint God. That's very calming and assuring. That love is what heals any heart. Peace! God bless you!
@@yuri6947 In his Grace is where the healing and inner transformation can take place, but when we sin, we get in our own way, so repenting, confessing it to God (accepting every aspect of yourself) and picking up your cross daily in pursuit of spirit over flesh is everything. It's a daily battle but as long as you keep fighting you won't fail. I'm glad this helped man, this is just as much a reminder for myself as anyone else
@@dylanfrawleycontent Yes, you reminded me of a theologian that says: "Takes sides with Jesus". His ways are way better than our own ways. Thank you man, much appreciated.
I like the distinction between living with shame and being shameful here. Accepting shame is much like working through bad memories. We hold onto bad memories because there is something we must face or deal with that we continue to hold onto and until we can find we are stuck in place. Just like shame. Unless you find the meaning, or lack thereof, you will be weakened as you've described. Interesting stuff.
Great Video, im just before graduating from an industrial engineering degree which took me some time and i still wish i would be a bit smarter or more funny...😏
Accepting yourself is good. But I think humbling yourself is a better name for the same idea. Know your faults, and deal with them. Alot of people talk about self-acceptance or self-love nowadays, and use it as an excuse to remain who they are, and never rise above their faults, heck even going so far to identify with them. This is bad. They ought to know they are imperfect and not hate themselves for it, but they should also acknowledge that they can be someone else, someone better. But to truly do that means letting go of pride, and letting go of the illusion that they already are good, so they can embrace real hope. Sometimes it's good to be at war with yourself, and to be already happy knowing one is giving their all to become what God has destined them to be.
Jesus Christ is king. alpha and omega. author and finisher of our faith. the lamb and also the lion of the tribe of judah. we must live holy as he said, set apart. seek the kingdom and everything shall be added unto you. Without love we are nothing. He is love, he died while we were sinners. wow.. what an amazing God. no other like him.
Important video, the west has a history of living in a 'guilt' type culture. This is due to the history of fuedalism and a control oriented form christianity. The east has had more 'shame' based culture, which is what you noted: chastisement by the group for dishonorable deeds. This is part of the reason why the east is more inclined to warrior type cultures. To liberate yourself and become the strongest version of yourself, you must let go of the guilt thinking, this is symbolised by Nietsche in the form of the pack camel of burden. To let go of the guilt is to unload your pack and say no: which is how you will eventually slay the dragon of life and become a king.
No one is living the life they evolved for. We cope with this in various ways, from healthy mind activity like meditation to the depths of depravity like PMO. Some get high to get by. I say that is a much less damaging activity than anything else federally illegal. There are scientific studies that show a positive relationship between cannabis use and bodybuilding numbers. Of course there are plenty of studies claiming the opposite but they were done wrong
I had a sex injury man and my urologist told me I could live with it without surgery and if in 2 years or so I’m still not satisfied then I could get surgery.. I’m sad man, my girl left me now and Idek how ima get to test my peen to see if I’m still having a hard time staying hard. This sucks I’m always in situations nobody can really relate too. 😣
I just feel like a burden of a man now if I try to get with another girl. I’m grinding making money but it’s like I gotta put that love side of my life to rest just to see if I’ll heal normally. It’s already been a year and I still don’t feel like my penis is how it used to be. God man
Meditation helps turn off the brains self-deprecating Default Mode Network. Also, would you criticize others the way you criticize yourself? Think about that before shaming yourself any longer.
The reason one feels shame from doing a particular act is because the act itself is inherently shameful. Religions have may or may not have things to say about certain shameful acts, which is secondary to the point. One doesn't have to be religious to have an instinctual feeling that doing something that would otherwise lead to feelings of guilt or shame, implies the act itself is the source. Why that is, gets into things like morals. But modernity tries to hide that conversation. Masturbation for example, is deeply shameful and often accompanies a nagging guilt after doing so. This is because it undermines the purpose of sex, which is for procreation. The shame in this act is implicit, which is why people do these sort of things behind closed doors, where no one can see them, like say, one's parents, a roommate, a girlfriend, a wife or even their own kids. That's because there's nothing noble about it. Nobody posts on their FB account: "BRB gotta whack it again for the 12th time!" Two pernicious lies modernity has spread stems from masturbation's connection with pronography: that it's "liberating" and that you're "free" to do so. Isn't it weird how pron is free? This, is the form of control, not religion. Pron has been used in warfare as well, look up Israel - Palestinian conflict back in '02. It's a covert form of bondage. What are you liberating yourself from? Self-Control? Order? Discipline? There's reasons for that, people like Augustine have spoken about it: a man has as many vices as he has masters. I'm all for making your own thoughts but there's wisdom to be gained from men like him, Plato, Socrates, and writers like Bradbury, Orwell, and Huxley. Learn as much as you can yourself, but there's significant value in gaining articulated knowledge of these concepts long before we were born and they often had the prescience to foresee consequences of things like uncontrolled passion, particularly in regards to sex. You're "free" to drown in all the pron you want all right and waste away masturbating. Is that freedom? No. It's bondage, under the illusion of freedom. You're free alright...to become addicted to your passions and vices, and thus become controlled. And oftentimes you have to pay for it. So you're not only willingly becoming a slave, but you're happy to pay to be one. This is the essence how one is controlled, not by religion, which through Logos offers limits, meaning one can't find elsewhere, and truth which will set you free, but through The State; the more secular, the more depraved and totalitarian it will degenerate to. Shame isn't necessarily what inhibits you per se. It's the shameful act, especially if it's masturbation. Masturbation is what causes one to feel isolated and alienated from the opposite sex. The lie here that is being promoted today is that there's no consequence to it and that it's completely harmless. Add pron to the mix and the pron clouds your mind and judgement, further alienating you from people, especially the opposite sex, as your mind becomes so warped from being desensitized to the grotesque stimuli needed to get off that you become a monster. This is the zombie consoomer that many have spoken about and detest. Reject becoming this. Reject the lies. You can do it. Learn the easypeasymethod if need be, and get some spirituality to help you get through it. You can still be a tough man without it all being about you, all the time. Lastly, if you're still reading this, let me leave you with a quote to consider and a book recommendation: Quote: "The man who becomes addicted to his vice learns to love his vice while simultaneously hating himself." - E. Michael Jones. Book recommendation: Logos Rising by E. Michael Jones.
Fuck all this. I accept myself how i am, but women don't accept me, I'm 5'8 with a hardly average tool. When i say that i get rejected by all decent looking women i mean it,so it's not a coincidence.
What's the back story to this video? Seems like you've got a lot on your mind. Best of luck with that. Shame is a true beast only to be unleashed on the worst of the worst. It saves lives, but it also steals them. For most guilt is enough to send the signal that something is wrong, but if you're dealing with addictive behavior shame can get you stuck in that cycle of the behavior that caused the guilt, because of a sense of worthlessness, leading you right back to it for relief. It's such a tough thing. You want to set good standards and deter people from self destructive behavior, but for most cases leading people to shame isn't helping. Man......God Bless anyone dealing with that. Crack open a bible and fine a therapist.
The presence, the awareness, and the clarity of this young man are astounding.
I cannot begin to explain how timely this message is. I am breaking away from a cult that I was raised in and moving out at the same time. Thank you for this message of strength. 💪
I grew up in a cult too and moving out solved nearly everything 💯
Yoo for me too ! He is a warrior of God sent to us to deliver us from the evil of the world. It's divine intervention
Timely yet timeless
Church of Latter Day Saints?
@@tonyh1345 Jehovah's Witnesses
This made me realize that I've been looking for others to dictate how I should act in my own life, that is not a respectable nor reliable way of living.
I was publicly shamed for a bad relationship and 'kicked' out of my social group. I carried it around for a long time, it got to the point where I would believe people could look at me and tell I was the bad person others wanted me to believe I was.
This message rings true deeply in me. I feel like I live with a constant feeling of shame for whatever little thing I said or felt. It's as if I had an evil judge inside, constantly.
Also I'd like to add: accepting yourself is an incredibly powerful message. You can't change things that you havent yet accepted.
That was beautiful. I like watching yoir videos in the evening when everything is calm. I swear that in your content there is something that resonates with me. A simple and natural string of thought. Very inspiring. Thank you.
Thanks for the comment and checking out the video man. Hope you have a great weekend
This actually left me speechless.
This video is perfect for me. Within the past couple months I've had some nasty mental episodes where I truly hate myself. But the past week or so I've noticed that I've had zero negative self talk or thoughts about myself
Hey man I been watching you for a long while now. I appreciate the help and insights you’ve passed along to guys like me who may have needed it along the way. Thank you truly
Been off weed for almost 2 months. Just started my new job today. Gonna hit the gym here in second. Not feeling the shame anymore I’m feeling the THUMOS.
Every time I need something one of ur vids pops up exactly talking about what I’m “going through” god bless
The time of this was uncanny for me. Certain events have made me realize that I have been apologizing for who I am my whole life.
You cant level up until you stop being sorry for the man you truly are inside.
Carl Rogers put it: “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself, just as I am, then I can change.”
"Any attempt to dictate what thoughts, feelings, and sensations are proper or improper creates a breeding ground for guilt and shame"
Peter Levine
"Since most non-HSPs do not seem to enjoy thinking about solutions, they assume we must be unhappy doing all that pondering.
Preferring toughness, the culture sees our trait as something difficult to live with, something to be cured."
The Highly Sensitive Person,
Elaine N. Aron
This channel is gonna hit million soon ...Mark my words.
First time ever commenting here... I think shame is probably the biggest problem that I'm becoming aware in my life. Shame can destroy you completely! And shame it's the problem that no one wants to talk because of its very nature. I'm reading a book about shame from John Bradshaw that shows a lot of what I had been through. I'm so glad that in US there are much more awareness of the shame problem and help for shame-based persons then where I live. This shame thread is really extremely important on so many levels. Thanks a lot!!
High Thumos Eli, thank you for constantly helping me out. Love you, bro, may the Lord continue blessing you
Barely 6 minutes in but the message is hitting man. Exactly what I needed to help myself reset for the upcoming week.
You are a 150 yr old man in a “however old you are” body. Analogies, wisdom, it’s all there man. Been gravitating towards people on TH-cam that use common sense, have wisdom, and think for themesleves. Such as you. Good stuff man
I’ve watched a lot of your content, this may be your best video yet
You're really knocking it out of the park recently.
Thank you Elisha
I'm a fatherless individual and I feel lost right now
This particular video helped a lot
thanks you're a God's man
I can see how shame can be imposed on people, but I'd argue that a lot of shame is self-induced. Not living up to expectations that you set for yourself for example can lead to shame , which I think everyone struggles with. its a natural emotion that can be manipulated and used to control people.
Dope video Elisha. I was raised by narcissists so I know exactly what you're talking about. Healthy shame is good for you, it keeps you in line and guides you and others. It's toxic shame that is the problem, usually comes from childhood and adolescence, being overly shamed, frequently and then isolating and letting all those thoughts and emotions ruminate. It eats you from inside out. Something that helped me clear shame and emotions surrounding it is EFT Tapping, u can tap on areas of your body and bring up emotions then release them - sounds like BS but it works wonders, give it a try, there's loads of vids on yt
By far my most favorite intro
Awesome video. Great blueprint to sort out the righteous feelings from the corrupted ones
Elisha ... you come thru at the right place and time man . God bless 🙏 High Thumos !!! Thank you !!!
I'm gonna need this one lol. Thanks elisha. It's hard sometimes
Thank you for your wisdom. When you mentioned the guilt associated with jerking off, that hit me personally. Again, thanks for the video, much needed.
Guilt and Shame are natural responses that we’ve done something wrong. The first 3/4ths of the video was a bit all over the place and sounded like encouragement to indulge in vices and addictions. But then the last 1/4th really summarized what I think is what you were trying to articulate. I’d say overall the modern world is severely lacking in feelings of shames, guilt, and remorse, but the pathway from shame>cope>addiction you talked about is a very true phenomenon. For anyone watching this, we’ve all fallen into that before. Where for the general person, the world has taught them to erase shame and embrace our toxic behaviors.
Sin is death. Sin means missing the mark. When we sin, we are out of alignment with God's perfect will for our lives. When we sin, we separate ourselves further from God's presence and peace in our lives. This is where the enemy wants you. He will use your shame to further divide you from the truth, the source. Religion misses the mark in relation to this, but true Christianity, is knowing Jesus died on the cross for all sin, for all of us, so that we can live in freedom, peace and have salvation without trying to be perfect, because he lived the perfect life for us as an example. Feed your spirit with the truth of Jesus Christ, not societal expectations, religious doctrines etc. By grace we are saved, and by following in his footsteps we will overcome all obstacles, even if we fall thousands of times. Accept yourself because God accepts you. There is a standard, there is a right and wrong, but stop being so rigid. God did not give you a sprit of fear, but of power, love and a calm mind. Bless you Eli, stay strong gents
Excellent comment man! Today I was blessed in experiencing being loved by God even in my worst. Man... That's soooo good! I've been learning a lot of the Grace of God recently, but nothing better than to feel it. That's so powerful! Knowing that you can't disappoint God. That's very calming and assuring. That love is what heals any heart. Peace! God bless you!
@@yuri6947 In his Grace is where the healing and inner transformation can take place, but when we sin, we get in our own way, so repenting, confessing it to God (accepting every aspect of yourself) and picking up your cross daily in pursuit of spirit over flesh is everything. It's a daily battle but as long as you keep fighting you won't fail. I'm glad this helped man, this is just as much a reminder for myself as anyone else
@@dylanfrawleycontent Yes, you reminded me of a theologian that says: "Takes sides with Jesus". His ways are way better than our own ways. Thank you man, much appreciated.
Beautifully said!
I like the distinction between living with shame and being shameful here.
Accepting shame is much like working through bad memories. We hold onto bad memories because there is something we must face or deal with that we continue to hold onto and until we can find we are stuck in place.
Just like shame. Unless you find the meaning, or lack thereof, you will be weakened as you've described.
Interesting stuff.
Thank you so much Elisha
Been in the gutter for a few months but hoping to move on. Thanks for the message Elisha
Thank God for you Elisha for he has sent you to us younger folks in need of guidence. You are doing God's work and God bless bless you 🙏
I’m full of shame I hate myself and it cripples me. I am embarrassed to even be myself.
I hear you bro. You're not alone. Reach out for help.
@@yuri6947 have tried just get avoided and shamed
Thank you! I needed to hear that.
Been dealing with this for some time. It's time for a change. Thank you brother.
Thank you for the talk man, it's very timely.
We all put on our trousers the same way in the morning
thanks for this man, the videos lately been real asf
Radical Acceptance is an idea I like
We need more men like you
Wow that is so accurate thanks❤
Gotta accept
This is the message I needed! Thank you Elisha
IM sorry man but i love you, been watching here and there for 6 years
That's damn true..
Amazing message. Thank you Elisha
Great Video, im just before graduating from an industrial engineering degree which took me some time and i still wish i would be a bit smarter or more funny...😏
Accepting yourself is good. But I think humbling yourself is a better name for the same idea. Know your faults, and deal with them. Alot of people talk about self-acceptance or self-love nowadays, and use it as an excuse to remain who they are, and never rise above their faults, heck even going so far to identify with them. This is bad. They ought to know they are imperfect and not hate themselves for it, but they should also acknowledge that they can be someone else, someone better. But to truly do that means letting go of pride, and letting go of the illusion that they already are good, so they can embrace real hope. Sometimes it's good to be at war with yourself, and to be already happy knowing one is giving their all to become what God has destined them to be.
Thank you.
💯 speaking directly to me. Lets go brother 🔥🔥high thumos
High Thumos Brother
I thought you were talking about food donuts 😂 but you’re actually talking about the skinny spare tires
Corolla crew checking in.
Jesus Christ is king. alpha and omega. author and finisher of our faith. the lamb and also the lion of the tribe of judah. we must live holy as he said, set apart. seek the kingdom and everything shall be added unto you. Without love we are nothing. He is love, he died while we were sinners. wow.. what an amazing God. no other like him.
Important video, the west has a history of living in a 'guilt' type culture. This is due to the history of fuedalism and a control oriented form christianity. The east has had more 'shame' based culture, which is what you noted: chastisement by the group for dishonorable deeds. This is part of the reason why the east is more inclined to warrior type cultures. To liberate yourself and become the strongest version of yourself, you must let go of the guilt thinking, this is symbolised by Nietsche in the form of the pack camel of burden. To let go of the guilt is to unload your pack and say no: which is how you will eventually slay the dragon of life and become a king.
Needed this one
Powerful bro!❤
Amen bro
I really want to join the high thumos community but I don't have money to pay for the Patreon.
No one is living the life they evolved for. We cope with this in various ways, from healthy mind activity like meditation to the depths of depravity like PMO. Some get high to get by. I say that is a much less damaging activity than anything else federally illegal. There are scientific studies that show a positive relationship between cannabis use and bodybuilding numbers. Of course there are plenty of studies claiming the opposite but they were done wrong
Hey Elisha did you ever heard of Lyndon Mcleod? He reminds me of you... he was also against ''weak'' man or something like that.
thanks
Put some date syrup in that coffee
I had a sex injury man and my urologist told me I could live with it without surgery and if in 2 years or so I’m still not satisfied then I could get surgery.. I’m sad man, my girl left me now and Idek how ima get to test my peen to see if I’m still having a hard time staying hard. This sucks I’m always in situations nobody can really relate too. 😣
I just feel like a burden of a man now if I try to get with another girl. I’m grinding making money but it’s like I gotta put that love side of my life to rest just to see if I’ll heal normally. It’s already been a year and I still don’t feel like my penis is how it used to be. God man
(Jesse Pinkman voice) “You mean we just like, accept?”
Meditation helps turn off the brains self-deprecating Default Mode Network.
Also, would you criticize others the way you criticize yourself? Think about that before shaming yourself any longer.
The reason one feels shame from doing a particular act is because the act itself is inherently shameful. Religions have may or may not have things to say about certain shameful acts, which is secondary to the point. One doesn't have to be religious to have an instinctual feeling that doing something that would otherwise lead to feelings of guilt or shame, implies the act itself is the source. Why that is, gets into things like morals. But modernity tries to hide that conversation.
Masturbation for example, is deeply shameful and often accompanies a nagging guilt after doing so. This is because it undermines the purpose of sex, which is for procreation. The shame in this act is implicit, which is why people do these sort of things behind closed doors, where no one can see them, like say, one's parents, a roommate, a girlfriend, a wife or even their own kids. That's because there's nothing noble about it. Nobody posts on their FB account: "BRB gotta whack it again for the 12th time!"
Two pernicious lies modernity has spread stems from masturbation's connection with pronography: that it's "liberating" and that you're "free" to do so. Isn't it weird how pron is free? This, is the form of control, not religion. Pron has been used in warfare as well, look up Israel - Palestinian conflict back in '02. It's a covert form of bondage. What are you liberating yourself from? Self-Control? Order? Discipline? There's reasons for that, people like Augustine have spoken about it: a man has as many vices as he has masters. I'm all for making your own thoughts but there's wisdom to be gained from men like him, Plato, Socrates, and writers like Bradbury, Orwell, and Huxley. Learn as much as you can yourself, but there's significant value in gaining articulated knowledge of these concepts long before we were born and they often had the prescience to foresee consequences of things like uncontrolled passion, particularly in regards to sex.
You're "free" to drown in all the pron you want all right and waste away masturbating. Is that freedom? No. It's bondage, under the illusion of freedom. You're free alright...to become addicted to your passions and vices, and thus become controlled. And oftentimes you have to pay for it. So you're not only willingly becoming a slave, but you're happy to pay to be one. This is the essence how one is controlled, not by religion, which through Logos offers limits, meaning one can't find elsewhere, and truth which will set you free, but through The State; the more secular, the more depraved and totalitarian it will degenerate to.
Shame isn't necessarily what inhibits you per se. It's the shameful act, especially if it's masturbation. Masturbation is what causes one to feel isolated and alienated from the opposite sex. The lie here that is being promoted today is that there's no consequence to it and that it's completely harmless. Add pron to the mix and the pron clouds your mind and judgement, further alienating you from people, especially the opposite sex, as your mind becomes so warped from being desensitized to the grotesque stimuli needed to get off that you become a monster. This is the zombie consoomer that many have spoken about and detest. Reject becoming this. Reject the lies. You can do it.
Learn the easypeasymethod if need be, and get some spirituality to help you get through it. You can still be a tough man without it all being about you, all the time.
Lastly, if you're still reading this, let me leave you with a quote to consider and a book recommendation: Quote: "The man who becomes addicted to his vice learns to love his vice while simultaneously hating himself." - E. Michael Jones. Book recommendation: Logos Rising by E. Michael Jones.
This is a great video so far Elisha. As you made this video and uploaded it, who did you intend What it should be for specifically?
Any man dealing with shame and not feeling whole
Is that honey in hot coffee? I thought honey loses its vitamins when heated
Fuck all this. I accept myself how i am, but women don't accept me, I'm 5'8 with a hardly average tool. When i say that i get rejected by all decent looking women i mean it,so it's not a coincidence.
What's the back story to this video? Seems like you've got a lot on your mind. Best of luck with that. Shame is a true beast only to be unleashed on the worst of the worst. It saves lives, but it also steals them. For most guilt is enough to send the signal that something is wrong, but if you're dealing with addictive behavior shame can get you stuck in that cycle of the behavior that caused the guilt, because of a sense of worthlessness, leading you right back to it for relief. It's such a tough thing. You want to set good standards and deter people from self destructive behavior, but for most cases leading people to shame isn't helping.
Man......God Bless anyone dealing with that. Crack open a bible and fine a therapist.
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No audio brother
Audio on my end
turn your speakers on
@@paulyjackdaniels3432 😂
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Nice bro
Thank you.