i think the reason many people (including me) fear the "selling" concept is because we percieve others as "superior" in a way, and tell ourselves "why would this person let themself be convinced by me?". Only recently have i been starting to realize that everyone else is just as stupid as me, just as human as me. We're all equal, so there's no reason I cant convinve someone in the same way that i myself can be convinced.
I dont really get the mindset that all people are equal, when theres smart og stupid people, good looking and ugly, workaholic and the lazy. To a degree we are kinda the same but still not really. Am i wrong?
@@KK001 Well, equal doesn't really mean identical or similar. Yes we're all different, no two people are the same. But we can still be equal. There's a reason why imposter syndrome exists. Under the persona there's the real human and that I think we all have in common. Once you realize that, everyone who seems important or superior, you'll see they're just as lost in life. I recommend looking into Alan Watts a bit to understand this concept better. (there might be a bit of a language barrier at least from my side, english is not my first language).
@@simondolian3565 your english is good man, dont worry about it. This makes sense although i still kind off disagree, there deffinetly people who got a good grip on their life and others who are significantly more lost in general.
I'm 17, I lost my father when I was 12. Watching your videos have helped me on my quest to find out what it means to be a man when I have barely any 'manly' father figures. As a Christian I look to Jesus. Jesus was an amazing communicator in this "pitching" sense you are talking about. Btw I found your channel from Captain Sinbad.
I worked at my dads shop selling art supply since i was 17 now im 23. working there and trying to improve my selling skills made me learn sooo much about the world people and myself my flaws gained confidence it made me stronger and i improved more than watching thousands of self improvement vids. Thanks for the talk eli
same here. Worked along side by parents and their business for as long as I can remember (up until a few years ago), and it taught be so much about people, selling, and life in general. Such a valuable experience.
The thing is people deep down actually WANT to be sold really well. They don't want to be sold by someone with a weak frame because that shows that they don't have conviction in their idea/product/service. Confidence is contagious, pitch confidently and close confidently
Awkward when younger. Went into engineering. Ended up getting a job cold call sales job after a layoff. Wanted to throw up on my first calls. It was the most uncomfortable thing I ever did. Ended up running the entire department right under the executive leadership. Sales and marketing, the ability to speak and convey ideas changed my life.
This is why I’ve always said everyone should work in customer service or a call center at least once in their lives. You get humbled a lot, but you also learn to sell yourself and persuade people. I’m naturally an introvert, but thanks to that I’ve learned to open up a lot and sell myself in job interviews as the friggin man for the job and it’s worked.
i remember i got pulled over by a cop one time for speeding and I remember he stopped me and asked me why and I confidently told him that I was hauling ass to the nearest gas station because I needed to take a shit. I was not that explicit obviously and I put on this expression someone would put when they need to take a shit. Did not get a ticket and got off scott free!
Sales is a career path that everyone should dabble in. I've been in IT sales for most my working life, and I'm shit with IT! It's taught me how to pitch and captivate people on cold call's, on a subject that I know very little. Sales and learning the psychology of selling is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Elisha, love the video bro, and the channel. Been supporting for a while and loving the content lately. Maybe bring back some stuff on SR? I know you said you dont wanna be known as 'that guy' on youtube, but you should stress the importance to your following - over 100k now, congrats dude.
I like the idea of "male shit tests", I think that would be a very interesting topic to talk about more and go over some of the most common shit tests other guys give you throughout your life. Loved this video my man, definitely gotta get my sales skills up overall.
Agreed this is a very is a nuanced subject. Lot of times men who are in their feminine frame do this. For example guys who try to stare down every man they see as a threat. Male tests are usually just through joking and throwing jabs after getting to know ya. The opposite is men who try to pull you down and are egoic. Male tests are positive challenges not feminine envy
This pitching thing is what I've been trying to really master since I've started doing some preaching in front of 20+ people. It's amazing how learning how to pitch turns you into a "character," someone like David or Solomon from the Bible. I used to have this problem where people would come to me due to the halo effect, but the moment I started talking, very quickly they sense weakness. But over time I created and nourished a stoic/philosopher mindset that people genuinely respect and in turn I learn as I teach or pitch. This thinking and painting the big picture to sell an idea is a very important part of being a leader inside your home and outside. Start with creating a strong foundation and that starts with knowing what your heart wants to share and needs.
I am a waiter, so I agree w you that pitch is very important. Some of my coworkers lack this, and they don’t get paid as much (bc we make $ off tips for the most part), and I’ve found that having a strong and confident aura leads to me being getting better tips, I’ve found that my customers are much easier to talk to, and I think both my customers and I recognize that I am there to help them, and will do what I can to do that. Being your own character and having a strong pitch is super important and makes connection easier, thanks for making a video about this (Edit) and this only applies to one aspect of life, which is money making. A good pitch and strong aura can help with your athletic prowess and hobby building as well, overall I’ve been more confident since I started working on that in all aspects of life
Hi Elisha, i see a lot of your videos but i have never done a comment. I just needed to say, that this video is the best one i have seen done by you so far, so much value and true is given here and also reaches me in a time where i am learning how to improve my charsima and social skills, the most important skill of all, improving and experiencing life is the key. Thank you so much for your content because is helping me a lot and specially for this video.
Coming from someone that works in enterprise sales this is excellent content Sell or be sold. At the end of the day you’re always selling yourself even if you don’t have a monthly sales quota you will always be selling/pitching ideas.
Amen . This video and yesterdays really resonated deep with me . I had subscribed to you a couple years ago but haven’t been consistent in my viewing but over the years it seems like I’ve been apart of the collective , energetically , the whole time . High thumos life .
I’ve been around car salesmen growing up & I always had a bad view of them, my ex’s father sold me a truck for $500 & not soon after the brake lines go, & I’m barreling down a busy bridge, sideswiped a car & turned into a gas station & almost ran into the pump but hit the guardrail with his daughter in the car, anyway most are usually all out for themselves.. maybe I need to change my perception of “selling” & not see it as “inauthentic, manipulative, greedy” you’re right Eli , that’s how the world keeps moving, businesses prosper from “selling”! We would be nothing without selling truthfully…
I worked in a restaurant for 5 years and gym sales for a year. Sales taught me how to be persuasive and better with talking\listening. I feel like every man should get a job in sales.
I am new at this type of concept. But its pumping me hard. I think improving my basic pitch and selling(whatever you guys say😅)can really make my character better. I Loved this video. Waiting for more❤❤
What a banger man, being able to “sell” and persuade for good is kind of baked into our DNA as I think we are inherently selfish. Not in a bad way, but our ideas and being will always be better than others
sales and pitching are everything, everyday is a different pitch, some higher frequency than other times, once you learn the skill of resilience and how to walk into a confrontation on a daily basis you can negotiate life better
I don't usually leave a comment on your videos, but this one is so brilliant dude. I've been following you for years, nonetheless I still get surprised at how the ideas you spread resonate so deeply with me and everyone here in the tribe lmao. Thanks for everything bro 💯
Great video bro. This video and the one where you talk about enthusiasm as well as the one where you talk about the importance of bjj and weight lifting really stand out. Those concepts you covered are things I’ve integrated into my life recently, and I’m enjoying life way more because of it!
The beginning of this video reminded me of a video I watched on predictive processing with John vervaeke and mark Miller check it out. Great video, kind of life changing. Nice vid!
Was speeding with music 2 night ago great story to hear in this video hahaha, and I did exactly what you are saying and got a warning then again it's the first time I was ever caught or would have possibly recieved a ticket. What a great dude thank you man. Off to the gym, take a poo, shower, clean up, and boom arm day.
Great info, for me it all comes down to trusting and believing in yourself. You are saying to get out there, but imagine someone posting music that sounds like shit. Why go through all that shame. The path is created only when you trust yourself enough. Not everyone is born to be a king. And it will keep being that way. Is the natural order of things.
Damn I did not see it this way, for me I treat using TH-cam as a platform to help me improve my communication skills. But of course learning to sell is a skillset that is needed in any industry and I am excited to learn it as well.
100% man. I didn't learn the importance of this until my 30s but I can tell you that being able to pitch - sell yourself - is very important. Nice work for bringing this up for the kids out there. edit: Yes, the black pill community is very toxic and ignores all the nuance of life, love, and spirituality.
Great video Man! I remember you saying in older videos that you used to sell cars Elisha, would be very helpfull if you make some videos teaching us how to sell. Tips that we could apply in our day-a-day life.
Man Im just genuinely happy I got a chance to find a content creator that doesn't give a F**k about having the most views or more subscribers and has been just consistent on teaching us (whoever gets to find this channel by chance just what happened to me an hour ago) on how to "really" be a man. I mean I'm not a little boy anymore and I've not been lockin myself up in the room or anything I've been going out meeting new people all the time manning up voicing out and shit but it's just real cool to find a somewhat mentor on TH-cam other than these famous famous dudes that just create shit and pitch it out into the world and just pay loads to get people watching em and sh*t. Anyways my point is that I'm just really grateful I found this channel tonight. I've been watching Dr. Peterson for the past 3 years as well. But man this Andrew tate thing is just rubbish and it's all over the place, should've been this man's hype rather than that bald empty headed guy that just goes on podcasts and just gets to the minds of us with such charisma and dominance but just all for nothing, that doesn't really teach you real world sh*t and he's actually just paying people to market his "real-world" courses which I won't ever pay for. This guy is just genuinely helping all of us out there to just keep thriving with the best he's got to say. Big brother things here man, love this. Peace Elisha, love the content man.
I think it's funny how I'm supposed to be myself but I'm supposed to change who I am completely. I am naturally a introvert. I have done well with women in the past by being someone else. If I am myself women wont want to talk to me. I am pessimistic. That is me. But I'm supposed to change?? I have evolved tremendously over the years.
Also. Just be yourself lmao as you do it, nobody's perfect, no need to put a facade be how you are but at the same time without being contradicting to not display the side that one shouldn't if you know what I mean, like cmon brah we don't wanna see/hear dat. 👽
I dont think blackpill means necessarily low iq, Im considered to be a pretty smart guy, got a full scholarship on med school and I used to believe the blackpill. What made me this way? Social anxiety. You pre frontal cortex get much worse when you are anxious, so you will get dumber and unable to really understand the social dinamics around you. Im still anxious but since I try fight it, I go to parties and bars like 2 times a week, and witnessed so many guys that are much less attractive than me getting laid that it inst even funny. The thing is that your average anxious guy will enter social situations like 1 time per semester and it will screw his perception that is already lacking due to anxiety
Exactly! I'm the same way. I actually just got into med school and even made a joke that I have a better chance of becoming a doctor than getting a girl. Lol, I ended up being right. My problem is that I can never keep interest at all. When women talk to me, they stop caring after 5 mins. And I agree that I can't understand the dynamics as well as my friends who get women easily. However I will say improv has helped a bunch. Have you tried it? It tends to make you talk in different scenarios in front of people. It has helped me know what's funny and what should follow after a convo. But yeah alot of social anxious people don't go out enough to practice
Sometimes what you're selling is good, but people don't want to buy it for one reason or another. It's at that point where you know your pitching to the wrong guy or crowd. No matter how good the market your in is, you're not going to sell 100% of the time and 100% of people aren't going to buy in.
I disagree I dont think being black pill is low iq. I think womens standards are way to high even if I was what they wanted I wouldnt settle for them. I'm basically self improving so I can reject them in the future.
@@shaun9184 at some point you will realize girls and money are not it. It’s a young mans game, you don’t want to be the 50 year old still chasing 18 year olds and still trying to become rich. Self improvement is great but at what point does it become a selfish lifestyle? Ive been watching this channel for half a decade or so and it’s still highly focused on high school boys. I understand that gets views but at what point do we move on?
My philosophy is that the world is ending due to overpopulation/resource depletion/climate collapse. So it’s hard for me to want to sell people on how awesome life can be, because that might influence people to want to have kids so that their kids can theoretically have an awesome life too - while me believing they are doomed. Don’t get me wrong, I love my life, but I’m torn between expressing the awesomeness of life and discouraging others from having kids. You might call my philosophy black pilled, but there are a ton of people with a higher IQ than me that think this planet is screwed too.
i think the reason many people (including me) fear the "selling" concept is because we percieve others as "superior" in a way, and tell ourselves "why would this person let themself be convinced by me?". Only recently have i been starting to realize that everyone else is just as stupid as me, just as human as me. We're all equal, so there's no reason I cant convinve someone in the same way that i myself can be convinced.
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I dont really get the mindset that all people are equal, when theres smart og stupid people, good looking and ugly, workaholic and the lazy. To a degree we are kinda the same but still not really. Am i wrong?
@@KK001 Well, equal doesn't really mean identical or similar. Yes we're all different, no two people are the same. But we can still be equal. There's a reason why imposter syndrome exists. Under the persona there's the real human and that I think we all have in common. Once you realize that, everyone who seems important or superior, you'll see they're just as lost in life. I recommend looking into Alan Watts a bit to understand this concept better.
(there might be a bit of a language barrier at least from my side, english is not my first language).
@@simondolian3565 your english is good man, dont worry about it. This makes sense although i still kind off disagree, there deffinetly people who got a good grip on their life and others who are significantly more lost in general.
@@KK001 you are not wrong. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Equality is a fantasy.
WE GOTTA TAWK!
I'm 17, I lost my father when I was 12. Watching your videos have helped me on my quest to find out what it means to be a man when I have barely any 'manly' father figures.
As a Christian I look to Jesus.
Jesus was an amazing communicator in this "pitching" sense you are talking about.
Btw I found your channel from Captain Sinbad.
We're the men now brother. Hope you're doing well.
@@LDarlong Yea in one of his videos he listed all the Nofap Ytbers he watches.
@@jacobgodde6576 man like Captain Sinbad lol 👽
Following you for 3 years now, thanks for everything Elisha
I worked at my dads shop selling art supply since i was 17 now im 23. working there and trying to improve my selling skills made me learn sooo much about the world people and myself my flaws gained confidence it made me stronger and i improved more than watching thousands of self improvement vids. Thanks for the talk eli
same here. Worked along side by parents and their business for as long as I can remember (up until a few years ago), and it taught be so much about people, selling, and life in general. Such a valuable experience.
this is so true, no one said this before in the "self improvement" sphere
The thing is people deep down actually WANT to be sold really well. They don't want to be sold by someone with a weak frame because that shows that they don't have conviction in their idea/product/service. Confidence is contagious, pitch confidently and close confidently
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Awkward when younger. Went into engineering. Ended up getting a job cold call sales job after a layoff. Wanted to throw up on my first calls. It was the most uncomfortable thing I ever did. Ended up running the entire department right under the executive leadership. Sales and marketing, the ability to speak and convey ideas changed my life.
Let's go, yes, everything is a sale. We have to sell ourselves everyday to do the things we need to do. Great video Elisha.
This is why I’ve always said everyone should work in customer service or a call center at least once in their lives. You get humbled a lot, but you also learn to sell yourself and persuade people. I’m naturally an introvert, but thanks to that I’ve learned to open up a lot and sell myself in job interviews as the friggin man for the job and it’s worked.
i remember i got pulled over by a cop one time for speeding and I remember he stopped me and asked me why and I confidently told him that I was hauling ass to the nearest gas station because I needed to take a shit. I was not that explicit obviously and I put on this expression someone would put when they need to take a shit. Did not get a ticket and got off scott free!
Haha that's hilarious bro
Sales is a career path that everyone should dabble in. I've been in IT sales for most my working life, and I'm shit with IT! It's taught me how to pitch and captivate people on cold call's, on a subject that I know very little.
Sales and learning the psychology of selling is one of the best things you can do for yourself.
Elisha, love the video bro, and the channel. Been supporting for a while and loving the content lately. Maybe bring back some stuff on SR? I know you said you dont wanna be known as 'that guy' on youtube, but you should stress the importance to your following - over 100k now, congrats dude.
I like the idea of "male shit tests", I think that would be a very interesting topic to talk about more and go over some of the most common shit tests other guys give you throughout your life. Loved this video my man, definitely gotta get my sales skills up overall.
Agreed this is a very is a nuanced subject. Lot of times men who are in their feminine frame do this. For example guys who try to stare down every man they see as a threat. Male tests are usually just through joking and throwing jabs after getting to know ya. The opposite is men who try to pull you down and are egoic. Male tests are positive challenges not feminine envy
Thank you!!! I've been thinking about this for awhile now!
Really thought this men shit tests have been gone for good in this genZ society, I'll seek more of it tho, maybe I'll start shit testing others rn
This pitching thing is what I've been trying to really master since I've started doing some preaching in front of 20+ people. It's amazing how learning how to pitch turns you into a "character," someone like David or Solomon from the Bible. I used to have this problem where people would come to me due to the halo effect, but the moment I started talking, very quickly they sense weakness. But over time I created and nourished a stoic/philosopher mindset that people genuinely respect and in turn I learn as I teach or pitch. This thinking and painting the big picture to sell an idea is a very important part of being a leader inside your home and outside. Start with creating a strong foundation and that starts with knowing what your heart wants to share and needs.
I am a waiter, so I agree w you that pitch is very important. Some of my coworkers lack this, and they don’t get paid as much (bc we make $ off tips for the most part), and I’ve found that having a strong and confident aura leads to me being getting better tips, I’ve found that my customers are much easier to talk to, and I think both my customers and I recognize that I am there to help them, and will do what I can to do that. Being your own character and having a strong pitch is super important and makes connection easier, thanks for making a video about this
(Edit) and this only applies to one aspect of life, which is money making. A good pitch and strong aura can help with your athletic prowess and hobby building as well, overall I’ve been more confident since I started working on that in all aspects of life
Hi Elisha, i see a lot of your videos but i have never done a comment. I just needed to say, that this video is the best one i have seen done by you so far, so much value and true is given here and also reaches me in a time where i am learning how to improve my charsima and social skills, the most important skill of all, improving and experiencing life is the key. Thank you so much for your content because is helping me a lot and specially for this video.
Coming from someone that works in enterprise sales this is excellent content Sell or be sold. At the end of the day you’re always selling yourself even if you don’t have a monthly sales quota you will always be selling/pitching ideas.
Amen . This video and yesterdays really resonated deep with me . I had subscribed to you a couple years ago but haven’t been consistent in my viewing but over the years it seems like I’ve been apart of the collective , energetically , the whole time . High thumos life .
I do need to learn how to pitch and sell myself. Thank you Elisha for this video. I realized I played the game wrong.
I’ve been around car salesmen growing up & I always had a bad view of them, my ex’s father sold me a truck for $500 & not soon after the brake lines go, & I’m barreling down a busy bridge, sideswiped a car & turned into a gas station & almost ran into the pump but hit the guardrail with his daughter in the car, anyway most are usually all out for themselves.. maybe I need to change my perception of “selling” & not see it as “inauthentic, manipulative, greedy” you’re right Eli , that’s how the world keeps moving, businesses prosper from “selling”! We would be nothing without selling truthfully…
I need to save this video for when I'm out of the mental hospital
I worked in a restaurant for 5 years and gym sales for a year. Sales taught me how to be persuasive and better with talking\listening. I feel like every man should get a job in sales.
I agree, I found for women it was also very beneficial. Just what I noticed :)
This video is so valuable! I love you Elisha!
Thanks bro, I’m gonna start reading the book and looking into the biases. Helpful info. I want to influence young men to be better on TH-cam.
Absolutely man. Let me know what you learn
I am new at this type of concept. But its pumping me hard. I think improving my basic pitch and selling(whatever you guys say😅)can really make my character better. I Loved this video. Waiting for more❤❤
What a banger man, being able to “sell” and persuade for good is kind of baked into our DNA as I think we are inherently selfish. Not in a bad way, but our ideas and being will always be better than others
Fax too much passive soy nowadays. Only real channel on dis shit 💯
Thinking is a trap. True man.
Actually very true, sales is everything
Great message Eli
sales and pitching are everything, everyday is a different pitch, some higher frequency than other times, once you learn the skill of resilience and how to walk into a confrontation on a daily basis you can negotiate life better
Amazing message, subscribed
Based and sales pilled.
High Thumos Stay Based
I don't usually leave a comment on your videos, but this one is so brilliant dude. I've been following you for years, nonetheless I still get surprised at how the ideas you spread resonate so deeply with me and everyone here in the tribe lmao. Thanks for everything bro 💯
Appreciate the comment man. Thank you
Great video bro. This video and the one where you talk about enthusiasm as well as the one where you talk about the importance of bjj and weight lifting really stand out. Those concepts you covered are things I’ve integrated into my life recently, and I’m enjoying life way more because of it!
"The perfect is the enemy of the good."
Brother, you reach your 100k subscribsers, well deserved, congrats.
High thumos brother! This one hit home..again.
The beginning of this video reminded me of a video I watched on predictive processing with John vervaeke and mark Miller check it out. Great video, kind of life changing. Nice vid!
Was speeding with music 2 night ago great story to hear in this video hahaha, and I did exactly what you are saying and got a warning then again it's the first time I was ever caught or would have possibly recieved a ticket. What a great dude thank you man. Off to the gym, take a poo, shower, clean up, and boom arm day.
Great info, for me it all comes down to trusting and believing in yourself. You are saying to get out there, but imagine someone posting music that sounds like shit. Why go through all that shame. The path is created only when you trust yourself enough. Not everyone is born to be a king. And it will keep being that way. Is the natural order of things.
Thanks for this mindset
Damn I did not see it this way, for me I treat using TH-cam as a platform to help me improve my communication skills. But of course learning to sell is a skillset that is needed in any industry and I am excited to learn it as well.
100% man. I didn't learn the importance of this until my 30s but I can tell you that being able to pitch - sell yourself - is very important.
Nice work for bringing this up for the kids out there.
edit: Yes, the black pill community is very toxic and ignores all the nuance of life, love, and spirituality.
always with them hitters bro, thanks
Black Pill is a cope for depressed losers.
saying this as a former depressed loser (never got into Black Pill though, thankfully).
Great video Man! I remember you saying in older videos that you used to sell cars Elisha, would be very helpfull if you make some videos teaching us how to sell. Tips that we could apply in our day-a-day life.
it's very coincidental for me that you're speaking on this topic right now. thank you for the great content. keep up the great work!
Facts!
This Is Golden advice Mate
Great stuff bro🔥
Self-improvement is masturbation. Now self-destruction is the answer. - Fight Club
Thanks for the info bro
They are copy and paste with no effort... GRIFTERS
Man Im just genuinely happy I got a chance to find a content creator that doesn't give a F**k about having the most views or more subscribers and has been just consistent on teaching us (whoever gets to find this channel by chance just what happened to me an hour ago) on how to "really" be a man. I mean I'm not a little boy anymore and I've not been lockin myself up in the room or anything I've been going out meeting new people all the time manning up voicing out and shit but it's just real cool to find a somewhat mentor on TH-cam other than these famous famous dudes that just create shit and pitch it out into the world and just pay loads to get people watching em and sh*t. Anyways my point is that I'm just really grateful I found this channel tonight. I've been watching Dr. Peterson for the past 3 years as well. But man this Andrew tate thing is just rubbish and it's all over the place, should've been this man's hype rather than that bald empty headed guy that just goes on podcasts and just gets to the minds of us with such charisma and dominance but just all for nothing, that doesn't really teach you real world sh*t and he's actually just paying people to market his "real-world" courses which I won't ever pay for. This guy is just genuinely helping all of us out there to just keep thriving with the best he's got to say. Big brother things here man, love this. Peace Elisha, love the content man.
Really appreciate the message brother. Thanks for taking the time to write this. I hope you have a blessed week.
boosting the analytics great content
I think it's funny how I'm supposed to be myself but I'm supposed to change who I am completely. I am naturally a introvert. I have done well with women in the past by being someone else. If I am myself women wont want to talk to me. I am pessimistic. That is me. But I'm supposed to change?? I have evolved tremendously over the years.
HIGH THUMOS!
great advice for the morning, thanks elisha! on the point of wanting to read more, you suggest an e-reader?
awesome lesson
Awesome
Great video
They know how to lie.
Great content ! :)
i like this guy
Glad I’ve had sales jobs
Good to see you man
@@ElishaLong Been supporting! Just been quiet these days 🤣
Also. Just be yourself lmao as you do it, nobody's perfect, no need to put a facade be how you are but at the same time without being contradicting to not display the side that one shouldn't if you know what I mean, like cmon brah we don't wanna see/hear dat. 👽
Tomorrow. I’m not bringing the headphones. Maybe I’ll talk to someone at the gym for once
we gotta hit 100 speech just like fallout boys
I'm kinda getting sick of the alpha self improvement channels
I dont think blackpill means necessarily low iq, Im considered to be a pretty smart guy, got a full scholarship on med school and I used to believe the blackpill. What made me this way? Social anxiety. You pre frontal cortex get much worse when you are anxious, so you will get dumber and unable to really understand the social dinamics around you. Im still anxious but since I try fight it, I go to parties and bars like 2 times a week, and witnessed so many guys that are much less attractive than me getting laid that it inst even funny. The thing is that your average anxious guy will enter social situations like 1 time per semester and it will screw his perception that is already lacking due to anxiety
Exactly! I'm the same way. I actually just got into med school and even made a joke that I have a better chance of becoming a doctor than getting a girl. Lol, I ended up being right. My problem is that I can never keep interest at all. When women talk to me, they stop caring after 5 mins. And I agree that I can't understand the dynamics as well as my friends who get women easily. However I will say improv has helped a bunch. Have you tried it? It tends to make you talk in different scenarios in front of people. It has helped me know what's funny and what should follow after a convo. But yeah alot of social anxious people don't go out enough to practice
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What do you think of How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, have you read it?
I love you
Sometimes what you're selling is good, but people don't want to buy it for one reason or another. It's at that point where you know your pitching to the wrong guy or crowd. No matter how good the market your in is, you're not going to sell 100% of the time and 100% of people aren't going to buy in.
Where can I join your group bro
BOOM! You helped me change my life!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Start talking like Alex Jones ✍🏻
just watch Better Call Saul
yo elisha what countries are your videos most popular in?
Yes become curious about the world Elisha Long actually read Aajonus Vonderplantiz and try the raw primal diet, or else you are not walking the talk
I disagree I dont think being black pill is low iq. I think womens standards are way to high even if I was what they wanted I wouldnt settle for them. I'm basically self improving so I can reject them in the future.
It that pathetic and spiteful yup.
You're a good looking guy. Stop thinking, go lift some weights and take some Shilajit
Being an introvert isn’t a good reason to not sell tbh. Some introverts are great at it and some extroverts are terrible at it.
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what was the author's name? warren clef?
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@@ElishaLong thank you very much Elisha
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lol i eat raw meat
damn early
Still all about picking up chicks?
its about you bro lmao
@@shaun9184 better myself to pick up chicks…
@@shaun9184 at some point you will realize girls and money are not it. It’s a young mans game, you don’t want to be the 50 year old still chasing 18 year olds and still trying to become rich. Self improvement is great but at what point does it become a selfish lifestyle? Ive been watching this channel for half a decade or so and it’s still highly focused on high school boys. I understand that gets views but at what point do we move on?
That's not what this vid is about
@@ElishaLong it was one of the first things mentioned
My philosophy is that the world is ending due to overpopulation/resource depletion/climate collapse. So it’s hard for me to want to sell people on how awesome life can be, because that might influence people to want to have kids so that their kids can theoretically have an awesome life too - while me believing they are doomed. Don’t get me wrong, I love my life, but I’m torn between expressing the awesomeness of life and discouraging others from having kids. You might call my philosophy black pilled, but there are a ton of people with a higher IQ than me that think this planet is screwed too.
Theres declining birth rates in the US so i dont think over population will be an issue
2nd or third vid ive watched of yours. its interesting to see how some of you views may have altered since 2019
I'm sure you've heard of Jordan Peterson but if you haven't u have now.
dont react respond.