We HUSHED another room in our house!

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  • @TheMinimalMom
    @TheMinimalMom  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

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  • @randoline13
    @randoline13 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +232

    My 8 1/2 yr old sat and watched some of this with me. When you pre-sorting the boys' bins and tossing stuff,, he said "I really hope you don't learn anything from this video." 🤣🤣🤣

    • @juliequates9529
      @juliequates9529 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      😂😂

    • @ktaemedina8951
      @ktaemedina8951 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      HaHa

    • @KatrenaS
      @KatrenaS 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      This is great

    • @kristikirby5764
      @kristikirby5764 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      😂😂😂

    • @melindagilbert6989
      @melindagilbert6989 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I feel his pain .. 🙄 I watched my mom clean out my toy box one time.... 😞

  • @valetoxicus5927
    @valetoxicus5927 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    I hate to say this, but it’s really refreshing to see a “messy” room in your house. Gives me peace of mind that it’s an ongoing process, even for the expert minimalists. 😉

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same!

    • @julieheinen2720
      @julieheinen2720 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Right?! I noticed that too! I would love for Dawn to do a video on this (maybe she has?) I am trying to be realistic about what mess remains even after I (finally) find my clutter threshold ?

  • @MollyMA13
    @MollyMA13 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    Can I just say.. I really felt the respect you treated your boys with in this video. You didn’t call your son a hoarder or disparage him at all. You respected his preferences while also helping him learn. Refreshing and encouraging to see (: ty

  • @pnwflipper2089
    @pnwflipper2089 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    This one motivated me to go down and clean the basement playroom! When my kids came home from school, I asked my oldest son to go through a box of stuff I had gathered up and he looked in and said “why? It’s just a bunch of junk. Get rid of it.” 😂 Whelp, that was easier than I thought it was going to be!

  • @Kristemamber81
    @Kristemamber81 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +62

    Have you considered adding puck lights or light strips underneath their beds in storage/play area? I think that might make the space more welcoming and usable and maybe encourage them to keep it clean😊

    • @juliestephens7740
      @juliestephens7740 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Great idea! I agree

    • @s.kurzeck3020
      @s.kurzeck3020 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Somehow Boys really seem to like these colorchanging strips ...

  • @jean1228
    @jean1228 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    Dawn, I appreciate you as a mom. The way you acknowledge your kids’ personalities, strengths and weaknesses - lovingly teach them management skills, and find balance. Kudos. ❤

  • @krc2143
    @krc2143 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    Even though I’m a minimalist and bring very little into the house as I’m single … two times a year I pack up the house as if I’m moving and clean top to bottom and get rid of stuff. 😊
    I’ve been doing this for years! I’ve been ahead of this.

    • @danahinson8212
      @danahinson8212 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Love this concept!! I can just imagine how peaceful your home feels after each big clean! 💖

    • @carolynworthington8996
      @carolynworthington8996 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Great idea! I wish I had that kind of energy.

    • @mrsmacdee1113
      @mrsmacdee1113 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Neat!

  • @ruthturkington1736
    @ruthturkington1736 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Literally translated from a Spanish saying in Venezuela is Blessed be the nothing that brings no bother. In Spanish, “Bendito la nada que no trae molestia”

  • @ruthturkington1736
    @ruthturkington1736 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Let Gage be a treasure keeper. Our 3rd was a treasure keeper I just let her and believe it or not today. She’s a minimalist !!!!!

  • @guykenniker9498
    @guykenniker9498 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    As a grandmother I stopped giving things. I give time or a special food or drink

    • @lucystrider728
      @lucystrider728 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Same thing, our whole family has gone to special food gifts. It is still fun and really cut down on the unnecessary stuff entering our homes.

    • @dsmith9796
      @dsmith9796 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I'm a grandmother wanta be!! But there are two neighbor boys (9 & 10) that I like to do things for. I always consider that when I give stuff it probably just turns to "junk" so I try really hard to give an activity - it can be movie tickets, a walk on the beach (we live close by), a trip to a favorite hamburger joint with a set budget... for Easter I gave them both tickets for a free game at a local mini-golf and at Christmas we went to see a local Christmas light show. Last year for 4th of July I gave them homemade/decorated cupcakes and a book about the holiday. I'm always on the look out for what active little boys might enjoy and I usually spend less money on an activity than I would a gift.

    • @tricia77grace
      @tricia77grace 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      We give our grandkids money or gift certificates.

    • @rickgonzalez1218
      @rickgonzalez1218 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Deb here. I have done the same with my nieces and nephew. I opened up an account for each of them and deposit money in it for their birthday and Christmas or any other special event. They still get plenty of things from other relatives. Most of those things get tossed aside eventually as they outgrow it. But they will have money when they get older.

    • @williamsmith4899
      @williamsmith4899 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@rickgonzalez1218 , we did something similar with our daughter when she was in elementary school - opened a custodial bank account for her. When she received cash gifts half of it went to the bank for savings and half she could use if she wanted. By the time she went to college she had $4,000. Not a huge amount but she took out a thousand each year to help with the little extras that wasn't in her budget. It was a great lesson on deferred gratification as she really appreciated that money more when she really needed it.

  • @mom2artists
    @mom2artists 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This is the first of your videos I have watched. I'm reading the comments and shocked people are criticizing your cleaning with the kids. I thought you were gentle and sweet. I know people who clean their kids' rooms when they aren't there and stuff is just randomly thrown out. My husband and I are way too sentimental about things, despite my ability to get rid of a lot, I do also hold on to too much. I think it is great you are trying to involve them in being thoughtful about what they keep. My daughter has been one to keep random empty things, like tictac boxes! Anyway, watching you hush their room has inspired me to find a space to hush right now.

  • @frozenjonesfam
    @frozenjonesfam 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +102

    We have an average sized house with an above average sized family so I feel like we are constantly decluttering kids' spaces. Whenever I feel the tug to look for a larger home it usually means we just need to get rid of a lot of stuff! Newly motivated to get to work on this! Thanks so much!

    • @elisabethfrey2293
      @elisabethfrey2293 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      We're in the same situation - smallish house, large family. What a great idea to read the occasional urge for a bigger house as a cue to declutter!! That makes so much sense, thanks!!

    • @angelinamccarville
      @angelinamccarville 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, one thing I appreciate the most about Dawn’s channel is the size of her home!! Many TH-camrs will move to a bigger house (I don’t fault them…I would too, if I could 😆), and I think it makes them less relatable.

  • @cynthiawhitcomb1780
    @cynthiawhitcomb1780 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I so appreciate that you do not force your kids to get rid of things. In dealing with children and their issues for over thirty years, I can tell you that they need to feel valued and that they have a voice. Respect is a two-way street👍🏻

  • @simplyfreedom171
    @simplyfreedom171 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    My oldest daughter would save similar treasures...she's late 20s and an artist, so it's a sign of a creative mind.

    • @lauram8973
      @lauram8973 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree that it demonstrates a creative mind! My oldest two daughters are similar - one is a musician and the other an artist.

    • @carlac33
      @carlac33 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm like this too. Teachers guessed I was type A because I was super organized A student in class, but my room was never that way. I went to school to be a creative in Advertising, so graphic design and writing. 😆
      I like a clean environment BUT cleaning is hard on me bc my brain doesn't stop going to focus on what spot at a time for cleaning. 😅

    • @FroilanTrejo
      @FroilanTrejo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This is my daughter

  • @uteme
    @uteme 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +145

    I've posted this before, but it's worth posting again:
    Something my DinL OFTEN says when she visits my house is, "your house is so peaceful." I believe what she's really noticing is the clean kitchen surfaces, the lack of clutter throughout & the calming effect created by having an easily maintained home. It pleases me, for her, that she has found a place of respite. ♡

    • @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx
      @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Love this!!!

    • @Rosa-kf6yy
      @Rosa-kf6yy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      That was me with my MIL who was a natural minimalist before it was popular. I couldn't understand how she kept her house so clean and tidy. She raised 7 kids in a 3 bedroom, 1 bathroom city townhouse (with a TIDY basement and a shed). She just kept what she needed and it was always enough. She kept brownies in the freezer for the grandkids. Easy to thaw (or eat frozen!!) My 40 yr. old son has fond memories of that. :) Minimalism is where the magic happens.

    • @jodischoolcraft9188
      @jodischoolcraft9188 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@Rosa-kf6yy I wish I knew there was a name for it 35 years ago when I started doing it when Marie Kondo was four years old lol I’d be retired and very, very wealthy.

    • @GracewithHumility
      @GracewithHumility 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      My niece says the same thing about our home. The house she grew up in is so cluttered.

  • @michianamom6343
    @michianamom6343 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +96

    I did this with our kitchen last week. People come over and say, “Wow, your house is so clean!” Feels so good!!!! I also did it to our car.

    • @megannelson6146
      @megannelson6146 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      THE CAR!!! That is BRILLIANT! I've come so far simplifying in my home, but my car is a rolling dumpster. I don't know why I've never thought of that!

  • @susanlawson5926
    @susanlawson5926 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    Pulled everything out of my kitchen!! Nothing on counters! I “slept” on it for 2 days & loved it!! Donated things I wasn’t using, had more than I knew!! THANK U DAWN❣️COULD NOT HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT U❣️

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Wow!! This is so awesome to hear!!!!

  • @ashleykirkham4181
    @ashleykirkham4181 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Yay, i’m so excited that i’m 50 and can have 50 stuffed animals on my bed! Seriously… i’m decluttering but love stuffed animals still so it’s so hard to get rid of any! My kids and i have given them all names and personality!

    • @ChristianAnneSmith
      @ChristianAnneSmith 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      😂😂😂 I had the same thought! I’m 50 as well. Love it.

  • @bmonster
    @bmonster 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I love this!!! So many minimalist parents seem to be almost too harsh with their kids stuff. Kids just collect weitd stuff and they will let go when they arr ready, we as parents just have to be patient. Recently my daughter brought home 4 rocks she calls her babies and wont let them go. I let her keep them of course but it seems so silly to me. However to her its special and she wants to keep them. I think its amazing you let them keep odd treasures like gum wrappers and prioritize their emotions over having an immaculate house.

  • @cathyshobe4681
    @cathyshobe4681 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I haven't seen Corbin in a long time. He looks so much more like Tom the older he gets .

  • @JillSwords
    @JillSwords 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Dawn, I love how respectful you are of your children's things. You definitely steer them towards keeping things simple and organized. i had two boys close in age and one of them kept EVERYTHING including lint 😂 and the other just wanted his books. It's a dance for sure! You're doing great.

  • @claireb3578
    @claireb3578 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Who needs a big bedroom when you have a cosy den bedroom you love...and huge amount of awesome land outside your house ❤

  • @jennifershaw4756
    @jennifershaw4756 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    Dawn... my LEGO loving heart sheds a single tear every time I see a block going into the black trash bag. Where was Gage when I needed him?! haha My husband just invested quite some time into tracking down a replacement piece in his newest kit that contained a malformed piece. I also wanted to rescue that Lego instruction manual... but I realize these things can be accessed online. Your boys are adorable and you are such a sweet mom. All the best.

    • @helenaschwartz4402
      @helenaschwartz4402 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Brick link - a great website for specific pieces!

    • @jennifershaw4756
      @jennifershaw4756 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@helenaschwartz4402 Thank you so much for this information. I'll pass it along to my husband. In the end Lego is mailing him the piece. Luckily it was a piece that is used at the very end so it didn't interrupt the build. LOL

    • @helenaschwartz4402
      @helenaschwartz4402 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@jennifershaw4756 haha best case scenario! My family loves Lego too… although the fun is definitely in the accumulating of Lego not the maintaining of Lego lol

    • @jennifershaw4756
      @jennifershaw4756 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@helenaschwartz4402 Hahaha So true!!

    • @mom2artists
      @mom2artists 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      LOL!!! I screamed in my head "OMG a LEGO!!!!" as she swept it into the bag. 😛

  • @kristadavis2825
    @kristadavis2825 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    We finally bought a house. So, as each room gets fixed so we can move belongings I’m totally doing this. The first room to be finished next week is our boys’s room. We have designated it for sleep, clothes, and some personal belongings. All toys will be in a playroom and a few for the toddler in our library/homeschool room.

  • @TGill-yf6fd
    @TGill-yf6fd 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Thank you so much for your videos Dawn. You taught me to view our stuff differently some years back and I went through and decluttered our whole house. We moved house not long after and the move was so easy with low inventory. We’ve recently moved into a new build and I feel like you’ve given me permission to not have a lot of decorations - as I realised I preferred the house before it had furniture in it!
    Over the years I’ve watched your videos when I wanted or needed to see a friendly face. I haven’t commented before, but just wanted to thank you for being so kind, supportive and optimistic. You have meant a lot to me ❤

  • @magnifisweets
    @magnifisweets 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    Just wanted to take a moment to give Gage props for doing such a great job! He had less things to “hush”, and he was working on his things independently at one point (behind you). Especially impressive if he is battling against his own “collector’s mentality” to achieve this. You and he should both be very proud of him! My parents always called me their “messy child” when I was growing up, and it really did a number on my self-esteem, and actually served to squelch any inclination to do any cleaning whatsoever. (“My mom says I’m no good at this, so why try?”) I’m now trying to undo that mindset, and appreciate the ideas I’m getting from your videos. Thanks so much!

    • @Kristemamber81
      @Kristemamber81 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      This is so true about being called messy.

    • @user-vq4kj1ww4i
      @user-vq4kj1ww4i 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I had the exact same experience 😢 growing up. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @tequilabarber9810
    @tequilabarber9810 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I just want to say, your an amazing momma! I love that you dont make them get rid if stuff they dont want to. Also, the way you considered tbeir feelings afterwards and during is so sweet and amazing!. Your an inspiration:)

  • @dptfo
    @dptfo 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    We hushed my husbands desk yesterday and he loves it. He rescued one thing from the pile, the rest can go

  • @naturalbeautywithmelanie
    @naturalbeautywithmelanie 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I keep a bin on our main floor and I throw the kids current important drawings, little trinkets they accumulate, basically little kid junk/treasures. Now and then, when it gets full, I go through it and almost everything gets dumped. But it’s helpful to contain it all to one area, and if they’re looking for something, I know where to find it. 99% of the time, they don’t ask for any of it and I can get rid of it. It’s been very helpful!

  • @lorikegley3327
    @lorikegley3327 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I didn't "hush" my livingroom during this video, but I re-arranged a little & moved a few things out
    It's looking better. You inspire me always!❤

  • @marypearsall3089
    @marypearsall3089 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    I have been decluttering for several months. I picked a room and went for it, kitchen, bedroom, master bath, basement (nightmare). I've even started a second round deciding there is still so much I can live without. Your approach has been helpful and motivating. Thank you.

  • @cynthiaslebodnik6945
    @cynthiaslebodnik6945 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    I wish I'd known all of this when my 2 boys were younger. Now those boys are men (actually, my older son is in Heaven), and they declutter their own stuff. Recently we went through our library. My husband and I went through them and saved our favorites. My son then had room for his books. When all was done, we've ended up with almost a dozen boxes that need to be donated. Another note: My younger son, now 36, lives in the main house while my husband and I live in an attached ADU. Thanks for everything you do for us. 😊

  • @apennyandapinch
    @apennyandapinch 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    You mentioned things are always coming into our homes. I started tracking how much stuff comes into our home 4 1/2 months ago. I was shocked to find, even though we try to be careful about what we buy, it is still over 1 item a day! (Perhaps even harder than purchasing control, is dealing with all the free stuff coming in.) Been decluttering as well, but it may be time to hush some rooms, to move even more out. Thank you.

    • @staceykrauss4098
      @staceykrauss4098 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Yes!!! So many little things always coming in and floating all over the house. Especially all the little gifts my girls get from family and friends.

  • @EditorSJ
    @EditorSJ 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love the boy’s legos!! Would you believe- we have a 44 yr old son w 3 daughters who is a Nurse practitioner/ Physician assistant, specializes in cardiology/ does family practice WHO has a WHOLE Room full of legos!! Still “plays” with them when working through knotty medical issues??? (His girls love them!) Has his childhood legos plus many adult sets as well. His other hobbies are woodworking, and High Sierra hiking/ photography. Someday your boys may need a simple stressless thing to do if they become adults with high paced jobs! ❤

  • @FrannyNan
    @FrannyNan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Why do some viewers tell people what to do in their own homes? Not very cool. Loved this video!!

  • @conniekreider6414
    @conniekreider6414 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Love your gentleness & encouragement with your kiddos 😃

  • @claireb3578
    @claireb3578 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Ooh yay another hush your room video. Can't wait to watch this tomorrow. After you did the kitchen video Dawn, I hushed my conservatory (that was basically a storage area over winter) and ended up with a lovely dining/garden room that I use daily and even if it's raining or cold outside I can see the garden and watch the garden birds which is great for my wellbeing ❤

  • @tamramckee4150
    @tamramckee4150 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    My 9yr old daughter (who sounds much like Gage 😘) watched this with me, and is quite inspired! She’s excited to try out “hushing” her room too! Thanks for this inspiration Dawn, Corbin & Gage! Y’all are awesome!

  • @brendadepue7683
    @brendadepue7683 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I just started watching this video on our tv…and my 20 yr old daughter sat down to join me. I also have one who keeps his room clean, and one who is a treasure saver. In the first 3 minutes of the video my daughter said “ I feel attacked”… lol. And she left. We definitely have rooms that need to be hushed here. Harder with a 20 yr old who works full time and is a full time college student.

  • @angiejones7401
    @angiejones7401 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    Squishmallows are the child equivalent of couch pillows😂

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I love them too and I have to ignore them when I'm in stores 😂

    • @LulaMae21
      @LulaMae21 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I definitely bought one for myself to use post surgery lol.

  • @melaniegaeth
    @melaniegaeth 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    When you rub your head and ask, “why can’t they keep it clean?!” I’m like exactly! That feeling! Omg. It’s exasperating. My son actually asked me to see this video and I was like, it’s not up yet. He will be so happy when I tell him. 🎉

  • @debbydoodler33
    @debbydoodler33 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Gage sounds like such a sweet kid. Reminds me a bit of my middle boy. Lovely to hear how youre both training him and accommodating his unique needs/values.

  • @leahwalraven4681
    @leahwalraven4681 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love that you show the real room, thank you!! We are definitely going to try this, my boys' room is even worse and they are the same way in their personalities of one who collects and one who doesn't!

  • @leonieharry2941
    @leonieharry2941 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow Corbin has been growing up! Corbin and Gage look very similar :) ...and both are so cute!

  • @muchmorethanmom6236
    @muchmorethanmom6236 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Makes me feel better than no matter how minimalist we get it’s normal for things to get a bit messy at times!

  • @ClassicalMommmy
    @ClassicalMommmy 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Hushing is a great time to repaint!

  • @Elizabeth-490
    @Elizabeth-490 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’d love to see Cas do your kids room! I think Gage is a butterfly and I’ll bet Cas would make the room super workable for both boys!

  • @cassierittenhouse7351
    @cassierittenhouse7351 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    This is exactly what i need to do today. My boys bedroom is trashed and i struggle to declutter more of their stuff. I think we should try hushing it! Thank you! 🙌

  • @allisonvandenberg3032
    @allisonvandenberg3032 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I've recently felt like my small house was closing in on me...I started to do this exact thing today and didn't realize it's a THING! I'm only halfway through the living room but already feel lighter and more peaceful. I wasn't sure I was doing the right thing by donating a huge box of stuff that I once considered treasures (nothing sentimental yet), but when I stepped in the door just now I literally breathed a sigh of relief. I hadn't considered doing this in every room, but I think that's my new plan. Thank you!!

  • @terrilynch5435
    @terrilynch5435 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just had the interior of my home repainted. We took down every single picture every single window curtain every single valance. It has been amazing. I love it. It’s like hushing the whole house. Some of the pictures are gonna go back up, but some walls are staying there until we find something new and special to put there. And none of the curtains are going back up because none of them match the new paint! No idea how long it will be before I decide to put some thing on those windows.❤

  • @veronikab1607
    @veronikab1607 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    One of my kids is the same, keeps every little item, even wrappers 😅. But the other day my husband told me that same child decluttered his toolbox ruthlessly because it was getting too much for him - this made my minimalist heart jump😂❤.
    Your kids are so adorable! ❤

  • @danielmcgrath564
    @danielmcgrath564 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I like how you lead your kids and give them choices

  • @cheryllovestoread
    @cheryllovestoread 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    My husband is your Gage. Empty bottles, cool food wrappers, rocks, etc. It’s all precious! 🎁 His treasure bin is actually an entertainment center with doors. The same strategies work for all ages who love every single thing.

  • @WithLoveKristina
    @WithLoveKristina 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ok several of my subscribers have mentioned you and said I'd love your channel and they're SO RIGHT. I love this method of hushing rooms!

  • @Abeautifulmundanelife
    @Abeautifulmundanelife 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Awesome! Thanks for showing us this! I know my kids also really enjoy their space more when it’s tidy & organized!

  • @sabihakhan2463
    @sabihakhan2463 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    We had to empty the basment for new flooring. I can honestly say. I was amazed at how good it felt empty. Now I've decided only what is needed will go back in and that wont be alot

    • @LulaMae21
      @LulaMae21 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      That will be me soon because my landlord wants to replace all the windows lol

    • @dsmith9796
      @dsmith9796 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LulaMae21 , lucky you!

  • @jessiekarl103
    @jessiekarl103 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    They have really grown since we started watching you❤

  • @lizbethdiane9403
    @lizbethdiane9403 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Aww, sweet Gage and his treasures!☺️❤️

  • @MelindaPlainandSimple
    @MelindaPlainandSimple 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I kept a few small things that my sister decided to toss when she got married...an Avon bottle and a couple of her art projects from school. I was around 11 or 12 years old. I decluttered them a couple of years ago. I'm 65.

    • @mom2artists
      @mom2artists 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      About 15 years ago I came across some stuff my husband had saved. (Actually, this is something I've done since day 1, he is a sort of hoarder.) It was his brother's elementary school report cards. I asked his brother, do you want these? He says "wth would I want those?!" I ask my husband "Can we let go of these report cards of your BROTHER'S?!" My goodness, he was wracked with anxiety. At the time he was 45 years old. He is like this with everything. I am better but not by much; mostly out of necessity, because we cannot keep everything! I'm frustrated because last year I finally decided to rent a storage unit for all this stuff that I'm sick of looking at but can't go thru. At least everything is being sorted and labeled before it goes into the unit, and the house is getting more peace/less clutter. My goal is to get the house free of this stuff and re-visit the stored stuff. It's like a huge "time will tell" place at this point. :-\ (we are 54&60, with a 19&17 yr old at home.)

    • @MelindaPlainandSimple
      @MelindaPlainandSimple 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@mom2artists My hubby is a keeper too. I have been decluttering my stuff for 3 years. I declutter around his things. Just getting my own excess out of the house has made a huge difference. I didn't even realize he had so much attachment to things until I started decluttering. He's not an anxious person, but it definitely trigger anxiety in him. I try to be very conscious of that, even when decluttering my own things. I've kept some things that I would have decluttered because I know it would bother him. Other things, I have let them go. He understands my need to have less, and I understand his need to keep things. We've been married 48 years. A lot of years of accumulation. I don't expect him to change just because I did. I just find a balance so that we are both happy and validated in our home.

  • @bethtaylor491
    @bethtaylor491 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    So thankful for you, Dawn! You have made such a difference in our home!

  • @SimplyKellyNoelle
    @SimplyKellyNoelle 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love this idea of hushing a room!!! I want to try it and know my husband will FREAK OUT but then he’ll probably say he likes it and say, “Why can’t you always keep it this clean?”

    • @veronikab1607
      @veronikab1607 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      "Why can't *we* always keep it that clean?"

  • @RhondaFry-zl7ze
    @RhondaFry-zl7ze 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love that you fixed both the cube dresser to the wall...I love where they are in the room...and I love the gallery wall.
    Their room looks SO much better!!
    Amazing!!

  • @angelahagemeyer698
    @angelahagemeyer698 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Oh my gosh! I just did this with my kids’ rooms last week. All of us are so much happier! They are keeping their rooms clean, I’m not losing my mind, and they have both said they are sleeping better.

  • @chantelleablakwa7862
    @chantelleablakwa7862 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I’m just so thankful for you and your passion to share minimalism with us!! This week marks 1 year since I found your videos and began the process towards minimalism. I never expected that this would be the answer to my many prayers as an overwhelmed mom. THANK YOU!!!!! May God bless your beautiful family ❤😊

  • @jannamccuistion5036
    @jannamccuistion5036 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I loved this video so much! I enjoy your longer videos !

  • @cakedupkevin
    @cakedupkevin 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Love this! Going to hush my walk in closet first since it's small!

  • @mage7603
    @mage7603 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We switched bedrooms (turns out our previous room was smaller than this one, who knew? 😉) anyway, I’m going to hush it even more tomorrow and see what needs to be changed. Just switching the rooms made us get rid of SO MUCH STUFF and we don’t have a lot to begin with. Something I’ve discovered recently is that friends who come over to our simple home are now telling me they are going through boxes and storage and sorting through their things. Realizing they don’t use these items and are either using it up or letting it go. Thanks for the great content Dawn, each video I watch I find myself getting rid of something and sharing knowledge with others and it’s helping others too. Good ripple effect 😊
    Also, we now use Helix thanks to you- great mattresses!

  • @DD-xf1yd
    @DD-xf1yd 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love how you moved the Shelf Unit & Bins to the Wall near the Window
    (& Attic Door). It looks great! Especially with the Photo Gallery, too! What a clever use of space; and the Mementos add charm.
    It reminds me again, that small spaces can be functionally maximimized
    & enjoyable, too.

  • @dawnangel1966
    @dawnangel1966 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I listen to you all the time Dawn, And I always listen to some kind of declutter video while i'm trying to declutter. So the bug guy is coming out tomorrow.And in order for me to get him to do a really good job.He said you know pull some of the stuff out of the cupboards. I decided to act like I was moving and I am going to take everything out except the furniture. I thought.
    It was a brilliant idea and then I came across this video. And now I know it's a brilliant idea. And I'm so excited not only that. When I told my husband there will be nothing in the kitchen. He said oh, too bad money is tight. We could redo the coverage and I said well, I will get alone. He's a general contractor I will pay him to do it. We've been in this house 32 years and it is the same.He Did the counters once but the cupboards have been the same. I have 2 pantry cupboards, one the shelves only come halfway out. The other one is a lazy Susan. From top to bottom, can you imagine how much room I lose with that? Absolutely Horrible, 32 years 5 kids now a lot of grand kids. Sometimes 8, here at the same time.I need more room. I will find the money somewhere

  • @kaychaney6102
    @kaychaney6102 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You are such a breath of fresh air! Thank you.

  • @user-gu1dd6dh8u
    @user-gu1dd6dh8u 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Oh Dawn, God just send me this video today. You have no idea how much it means to me. I've been minimalist for very long tine but sometimes I need new ideas and perspective. Thank you.
    And thank you for showing real life kids room, it really ease my stress level knowing it looks like this in other minimalist families as well. Love you.!

  • @MelindaPlainandSimple
    @MelindaPlainandSimple 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My hubby is like Gage. He feels more comfortable with things around. But I am liking the less is more look and it's easier for me to maintain. Soooo...
    I compromised.
    Our kitchen is fairly minimal. Clear counters, etc. Easy for me to maintain.
    Our family room is also fairly minimal. It's my sanctuary. My peaceful zone.
    Our living room has more furniture and decor. That is his peaceful zone.
    It's manageable, and just as important, we are both comfortable and happy. I don't feel like the whole house is cluttered and he doesn't feel like the whole house is bare. It's not perfect, but it works for us. That's all that matters.
    I'm glad you validate Gage's need to have things. He's a very sweet and creative boy.

    • @carriem4719
      @carriem4719 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Many people enjoy having their things around them. I’ve learned not to judge this. Clutter has become such a negative term.and we shouldn’t force our clutter threshold on others.

    • @dianasimplifies
      @dianasimplifies 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hey Melinda!❤

    • @MelindaPlainandSimple
      @MelindaPlainandSimple 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@carriem4719 Exactly!

    • @MelindaPlainandSimple
      @MelindaPlainandSimple 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dianasimplifies Hey sweet friend!

  • @cindytaylor698
    @cindytaylor698 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The boys did such a great job! ❤

  • @gaironnpoole9452
    @gaironnpoole9452 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love your videos Dawn, great work and thank you for sharing with us.

  • @crystalwhitney3331
    @crystalwhitney3331 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have an 8 year old Gage too, and he is also the ultimate treasure collector! He keeps everything! It might be a Gage Thing!!

  • @isabellabrown5956
    @isabellabrown5956 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I always love how you know each of your children so well! What a gift for them that is ❤

  • @deniselavigne6876
    @deniselavigne6876 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really appreciated this video and have lots of take aways! I have one son who is similar to your Gage and I loved how you talked about him respectfully and how you included him in the process- it was a great example to me on how to declutter my boys room moving forward- thanks Dawn!!

  • @lisadixon5886
    @lisadixon5886 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love this approach- makes so much sense, thank you!

  • @elizabethshaw6727
    @elizabethshaw6727 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dawn you keep inspiring me and my family. Your
    Positive tones and words and ideas have moved us forward in the right direction for 2 years! I am a faithful listener ,keep going!!!❤❤❤

  • @cgt6497
    @cgt6497 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love the idea of the Time will Tell Bin. It helps me so much to declutter!

  • @Nina.177
    @Nina.177 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So fun spending time with you, Dawn! And guess what I'm doing... Changing my closet from winter to summer! Gorgeous day in Minnesota!

  • @leslieschmitt7749
    @leslieschmitt7749 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video! I learned a lot and feel way less stuck!! Thank you 😊❤

  • @CynthiaRaeC
    @CynthiaRaeC 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this idea! Haven’t done it yet, but I plan to, and I can see how helpful it would be!!!

  • @user-oj5si6bm2j
    @user-oj5si6bm2j 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for this motivating video - I’m going to hush my grown up sons bedrooms with them this weekend !

  • @brittannytaylor5693
    @brittannytaylor5693 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ive really enjoyed this hushing the home
    Ive even been doing that outdoors
    And has a made a difference for sure

  • @jessicaskankey1964
    @jessicaskankey1964 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video is so helpful! Thank you for showing me and walking through the process. I often will read about tips for kids rooms and organization but SEEING it in action is so valuable.

  • @lindagallop6529
    @lindagallop6529 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love both of your children’s rooms! They are so unique and cozy! You did a great job designing and decorating them.

  • @user-oy8kk4hh4t
    @user-oy8kk4hh4t 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I love the way you did the boys room! So creative. And your boy who gets attached to everything, I LOVE THAT, means he is sensitive and caring...AS MARTHA WOULD SAY, " IT'S A GOOD THING" 👍

  • @kimo2608
    @kimo2608 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Funny this video came out! I have been stalled on organizing my office and thought to pull everything out and reset. I didn't realize there was a term for it!

  • @rose2525bud
    @rose2525bud 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m going to do the kitchen this summer. Thank you for the video 🤩👍🏼

  • @_JanetLouise
    @_JanetLouise 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Dawn. Good job guys 👍

  • @jenniferschmidt7569
    @jenniferschmidt7569 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I am that super attached kid recovering at 38 years old. Travel makes it worse because I try so hard to hold on to every memory. I had a cracker barrel syrup bottle too, not long ago. I am not a mother but your episode about doing missionary work in Tijuana with your kids helped me realize that you can be that wild travel soul and bring kids into that and its completely ok. My brother is an American living in Juarez with kids. Looks like you are raising a brave family. If it was normalized to be this kind of mom, I might have been one. Thank you for your open mind. Ill be hushing my house this weekend.

  • @cindylou3317
    @cindylou3317 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow Dawn, the boys' bedroom turned out absolutely amazing!! Thanks for another example of "hushing" a room!

  • @tracil7493
    @tracil7493 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really appreciate you showing the technique of hushing a room. We need to do this in the kitchen, seasonal clothes, etc.

  • @IamSnowbird
    @IamSnowbird 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +49

    Have you considered moving the boys into the room you set aside for foster kids?

    • @susandermond9254
      @susandermond9254 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Or move the boys into the girls' room and let the younger girl have their room and the older girl have the downstairs room

    • @elizabethsydnor5247
      @elizabethsydnor5247 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Genius idea!!!!!!!

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Yes, we probably will at some point! 👍

  • @libbymath
    @libbymath 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video. I'm going to try and "hush" a cupboard or maybe even just a drawer as a start

  • @sarahfrancescutti9873
    @sarahfrancescutti9873 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So excited to hush my honey office as I start a new job in the next few weeks. Finally time to let go of my fantasy self business items from my skincare business too!

  • @ThKiwi
    @ThKiwi 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’ll be hushing my kitchen later this month…on the 29th a company is coming in to refinish all of my cabinets and I need everything out of the kitchen! I have been decluttering hard in there in preparation, but I’m still excited to get it all out!

  • @wonderingsanna
    @wonderingsanna 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Haha, is it called "hush".
    I used to to this in my room all the time as a kid and now as a grown up I do it once ni a while to. When it´s empty I really really clean every little inch of the room and when I put it back again I decide over one piece at a time, clean it and give it a spot or declutter it.
    My family and friends used to tease me for doing this...