Why You Don't Have the Life You Want Yet
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 พ.ย. 2024
- This is why you don't have the life you want yet. There are so many possible ways to solve your issues to set and reach your life goals, but I want to share my thoughts on minimalism and the principles it teaches to help us set and reach our goals in life!
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What has helped you reach life goals? What are your goals that you want to reach this year?
Having faith in God knowing he has a Divine pan for me, despite not me. Knowing exactly what that entails quite yet, but it's one of those things you know, as you go, you kno?
@patriotpep exactly! That's the right attitude, it's a hard perspective to achieve but it's thr only one we can do that gives any peace!
@@ZachShurtz Right on not only that, typically, nine times out of ten, when i'm nervous before, like a job interview or some upcoming event
It usually always works out in the end, even sometimes better than expected, which tells me all I need is just faith in god knowing he has a plan set up for me, but it's up to me to meet him half way by following his commandments Along with living a righteous life, if Not at the very least striving to!
@patriotpep exactly! very good perspective, I totally agree, it's hard for some to see it that way and see that kind of life limiting, but it opens up the door to be able to be even more happy and successful! He really has a plan for us if we can calm ourselves and just do what we can in hopes that things will work out and they usually do!
Daily gratitude 🙌🏼
That's such a good thing! Yes! Gratitude is such an amazing tool to use! Thanks for sharing!
I loved the video and advice Zach. I can honestly say I’m bad at it. I need to reevaluate things as well.
But one thing that crossed my mind recently was that, “people who accomplish their goals don’t accomplish them because they set them, but because they changed their lifestyle.”
I think that is similar to what you were saying too.
I appreciate that. Yeah, I totally agree. You have to try living the lifestyle to change your life. It doesn't just happen to change because you set a goal or two. It's like sculpting yourself into who you wanna be.
What I'm about to say isn't something we all should do, but it might work for others:
Stop helping when it brings no benefit to completing your goals
I say it in the most personal way possible.
I'm not saying service or just being a good person is a bad thing, but when 99% of your day to day life is just helping others(and it wasn't on your schedule to do it), then you need to take selfish day. I even made a New Year's Resolution that I refuse to help others if it is 1. My parents, or 2. doesn't take more than a minute or 2 to do it and doesn't drag into more projects. I cannot tell you how of my 2023 experience was just helping others that easily they could do the work themselves, and they just want to use me out of pure ennui. It was mostly an emotional social rollercoaster for me and I'm taking this year to do just me! No one else! I'm even planning a destress/selfish vacation for just myself because I want to complete stuff this year.
I'm a good person, I want to help others, but I'm burnt out with helping with ennui-based people
Yeah I agree, we have to manage our time and energy and if it's always for someone else, that can make life unbalanced. Defenitely can vary from person to person but yes I agree, good point!