Robyn a HOARDER? My Sisterwife's closet DEFUNCT???
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Do you remember when Kody said Christine wasn't cooking and cleaning? Then Christine got a TH-cam cooking show... I wonder if Kody wasn't confusing her with Robyn...
Maybe Christine just got tired of cooking for Kody?
Not cooking for him
Christine always cooked. Janelle is the one that admitted she wasn't a homemaker. Of course Kody was wrong.
@@Marthitaandsunflowers well we all saw how Kody eats crepes .he probley grossed Christine out. 🤢
Koody & robem always project & gaslight- think he was projecting about R onto C
The funny thing is Kody was always critical of Christine’s home saying she certainly wasn’t cleaning in her spare time. And Christine’s home always looked very neat.
IKR??? Dying to know his feelings on Robyn's cleaning (non) skills.
Christine had 6 kids and no husband…. I agree it always looked neat, which I think was amazing, but there never seems to be an allowance for sooo many kids!
The inside of Robyn’s house triggered me so bad that I had to stop in the middle of the video and go clean and put things away. 😂
this made me laugh out loud!!!😂
Mykelti needs to put glasses on as Robin is a hoarder. She doesn't clean, cook, or take care of her kids as she has a nanny, so what does Robin do all day as we all know that she has never had a job. I would say that the viewers know what she does all day as her daughter confirmed that her mother and Kody spend their time in the bedroom that is locked.
she is the Robyn apologist for sure
Why would anyone want to buy jewelry with the letters SW as I, for one, don't believe in polygamy and never will. All their jewelry was garbage.
Ugly and clunky and overpriced
Right? It makes NO sense!
That's what I kept wondering. Who are they selling to. The general public who aren't polygamists or polygamists who many aren't given money to spend on themselves I'd assume or they are supposed to be hiding they are polygamists so why wear something advertising it? Am I missing something...
Look into the 5 stages of hoarding. IMO, Robyn & Kody are in between stage 2 & 3, meaning either one or both are at risk in later years of becoming a stage 5 hoarder.
I am going to check out the stages!! very interesting!
You're amazing, Stephanie! I had no idea it was a 5 stage disorder! I say Robyn is the one that will go full stage 5 eventually
I'm a former OT and have not only grown up with hoarding in family of origin and see it as a spectrum or progressive condition, but on a home assessment 20 years ago walk into a house that was as later was featured on the show that brought the harder word to the public.
Along the way I'd learn theories of genetic predisposition, and at the end of my career was specializing in people with complex, chronic illness. (Insert image of Robyn and symptoms evident with her of thyroid disorders and be ready to peel the onion on genetics + environmental load ).
In 2007 I was organically putting pieces together via my patients or others coming to an education group for complex chronic pain and fatigue.
In my best brief explanation of things, if you're not detoxing right (which is genetics and load) , a domino effect can occur. Endocrine / hormones effected, look into APH axis as a step that takes you to moon face with goiter.
In 2015-17, after leaving mainstream, I was to help a person soon to be diagnosed with a condition under environmental illness umbrella, whose house was very much like Robyn's in layout and size.
It took 2 years to get it culled and organized enough the person could bring I the next steps professionals to repair and restore the home for selling.
I could see the high functioning evident, organization, etc. a decade before .... before the loads of things pushed the genetic buttons, so to speak.
Functionally more difficult things are bypassed and avoided by doing easier things. Buying is easier than getting rid of.
Then you can have disordered thoughts previously masked that are now unmasked. Sometimes it seems to be worry of landfill space being a resource of concern.
I shared a minimalist M.O. with my mother as a child at a time they were scraping by so my sib keeping everything they ever owned did not seem problematic. She died as a young retiree. We had been 4, 2 and 2 balanced simple and minimal, and opposite. Now it was me vs 2.
Fast forward 50 years and when I'd go for an overnight stay, in the bathroom there was not space on the counter to put a small makeup bag or an oral care bag or my cup for rinsing. So I made room by throwing out the same Bactine I'd used as a child and a few things and mostly reorganized things to make space for me to keep a few things there with last parents end of life coming.
I had underestimated the distorted thoughts and rehearsed mental plans for how things were going to be. With the end if life I was offered to take anything I wanted but they had 1 small coffee table of things going to thrift so I selected only from that, to be polite. I'd have liked to have many items special from my family but by then had realized the repercussions any little thing could bring.
I suspect mold, Lyme and company, heavy metals / not detoxing properly and underlying genetics plus triggers which can be physical or emotional in person or previous generation/s are at play.
I'm glad more people know more about it all the time.
I remember also being intrigued with the theory / info about families that fracture with end of life of parents tending to have more females than males. I forget the name of the book.
In 2008 I took a gal needing to buy things relocating to a moving sale of a woman I knew as a prim proper clerk in retirement and quickly realized she was a hoarder. Her dtr lived in a mansion. Not like Robyn's house, an actual Has been in Architectural.Digest mansion. She was who first educated ne of the genetics part. She had managed it, worked at it .... then not long after my family member got into treatment.
I wonder if all those boxes are from when Kody was kicked out of Christine’s house. 😆
OH Lordy! Could be!!!!! 🤣
The price of those Cladagh rings ! Unbelievable. I can tell you that in Ireland where I live , the rings are not that price !
Right? Who's gonna pay that? Well, i guess no one did....
It blows my mind that they know that their income is a fraction of what it used to be and they're still spending like crazy
I'm fearful they're trying to drain the banks accounts so there's nothing for Janelle
I have noticed Robyn's house looks messy for a stay at home mom
The nanny only takes care of the kids not scrubbing the floors.
right?
@@MarthitaandsunflowersNo one’s taking about clean floors. They’re talking about all the crap and mess, not dirt.
W a nanny 😂😂😂
@@cherylmcnutt9905 I was trying to b nice.
Well.....that was some ugly jewelry to start out the morning with.......I believe that Robin thought that the jewelry was going to 'fly off the shelf' because of the show. She should have gotten a 'head's up' when they were ALL at some kind of craft show and no one was looking at it, let alone buying it.....
"Well.....that was some ugly jewelry to start out the morning with......." LOL
I remember looking at the SW Closet website to intentionally find a simple, pretty piece so I could help them out financially in my own little way, but it was ALL so ugly! They kept saying more/new pieces were coming in, but that never happened. I gave up after the first couple of months.
I stopped wearing jewelry because I took care of my children. They would pull at necklaces and earrings and I didn't want my rings to scratch my children during diaper changes and all the rest.
I would never have bought jewelry because I only recently started wearing it again. I would have bought a T-shirt if they offered those.
I think you meant "drone" pictures. Also, the basement is called a walkout basement, where one side is mostly underground and the other faces downhill and has windows and doors at ground level.
I really do love these targeted topics that you cover where they're not limited to a single episode or season. Thank you!
I also enjoy these discussion videos .
Thanks, April!
Thank you, my friend! @@craftyflalady
They can be called daylight basements too❤
When you love you’re supposed to get rid of some stuff. The stuff mykwlti is referring to is big stuff like furniture. She is neglecting all the tiny crap that one acquires in life. I’ve moved a ton past member of the military and my home is always way cleaner when I move cause I get rid of little stuff and love just what I really want and need. Robyn has also been thought to have hidden stuff and we know she kept a storage unit for some time. She is a technical hoarder. In my opinion
so true.
And don’t forget one of the teenage kids will be Solomon in November, and actually all three of the older kids are between 25 and 21
Imagine what their bedrooms look like 😳
So true, Michelle!
Woah! Can't imagine@@skokian1able
@@skokian1ableThey might be neat. My mom struggled with hoarding tendencies when I was growing up. Not full blown hoarder, but she kept all kinds of stuff she should have let go. Then she remarried and the guy she married REFUSED to throw ANYTHING away. Our house was clean (thanks mom!) but ridiculously cluttered. Especially when I was a teen. My room was not cluttered. Every year, twice a year, usually once in the spring & once in the fall, I would go through ALL of my stuff and get rid of everything I no longer used & had no attachment to. I refused to live in a cluttered mess. I still do that, just not twice a year anymore. Since my mom divorced, I've been able to help her learn to declutter and not have as many hoarding tendencies. She had literally nothing for so much of her life and I think that triggered the desire to keep everything just in case.
I think Robyn is a hoarder but she just hasn't gotten to the severe hoarder stage yet. Mykelti's explanation of moving from a smaller to a larger to fill space is ridiculous. Robyn's shopping addiction is the reason and her inability to get rid of what she doesn't use. I have moved several times and based on the size and layout of the new place if all of my stuff wouldn't fit I would donate or sell what wouldn't fit. I think Kody is part of the problem too because he has said that whatever he has in one house he had in the other 3 houses too. I remember Christine's garage being full of his boxes that she packed up for him. Probably some of those boxes in the basement are his stuff still packed up and forgotten about.
That’s what theBarndaminium was going to be for.
You're probably right, Joanne! I bet those basement boxes are all Kody's junk from Meri's and Christine's and Janelle's houses!!
I always figured that shot with the basement full of boxes was from when they first moved but I don't know.
I live in New Hampshire
We have yard sales to get rid of our crap
Robin needs to get busy with having yard sale
yup! Every weekend for the entire summer
Once Robyn gets things home she loses interest and has to buy more stuff.
I can see that. Could have ADD like Kody
She’s losing interest in Kody now that she got him home
Typical of the covert narcissist…love then discard…
Agree that Robyn LOVES shopping. Back in the old days when you had to order from catalogs and couldn't order online... I used to fill out orders and just never mail them in. I found it was more fun to technically shop than to spend actual money and get more stuff. It's too easy now to spend your money. I spent almost 2 years paying off credit card debt before I retired, and I'm not going back into debt. Lesson finally learned. Robyn had too many enablers, but maybe that ended when Meri left.
It has to end without a family fund to draw from anymore!
Excellent video! I had so many thoughts running through my head on this one, my mind began to feel like Robyn's walls! So I'm going to purge them by vomiting some of them out. For starters, I loved your little circle earrings at first sight, but then Meri's voice began to echo in my head, "Circles are stupid!" so now I'm second guessing my own judgement😉LOL! Now, on to the real issue. Robyn. I agree 100% that a person's home is a reflection of their state of mind. A person can be a shopaholic and not hoard. They can freely give away and share with others what they are tired of and don't want anymore. But hoarders are always hanging on and refusing to share because they want EVERYTHING for themselves. They are unwilling to let others have what they deem is their "stuff". And with Robyn, it extends beyond just things. Did she not hoard her first three kids away from their father and keep them all to herself? So she can't share kids. Did she not hoard Kody away from his other wives and kids? So she can't share Kody. Is she not systematically hoarding all of the land and money away from all the other wives with the "legal wife" usurpation that she pulled on Meri under false pretenses? Let's face it. Robyn is one of those rare people in life whose entire philosophy is, "What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine too."
And I will comment on my own comment. Kody always seemed irritated by disorder in the other wives homes, yet he is fine with it at Robyn's. But I remember an episode where all the wives were cooking in the kitchen together and Kody made the comment that Robyn was so beautiful, she didn't need to cook. Well.. I think he carried that same philosophy over to housekeeping as well.
such a good comment!!!
"my mind began to feel like Robyn's walls! " LOL. this is a great comment. She's a hoarder in EVERY area of her life!
Wow! That was a lot of judgment! I especially liked the part where you say hoarders "refuse to share because they want EVERYTHING for themselves". Equally funny was the comparison to people who "freely give away... what they are tired of and don't want anymore" - hysterical! I know you called that "sharing" - but that's not actually having true generosity of spirit. By definition, if you don't want it anymore, it's less of a hand-me-down and more of a make-this-go-away dump. Neither one can be compared to coping with a very tough, very tenacious mental disorder. Although it is technically part of the compulsive spectrum disorder family, most clinicians (other than the unprincipled ones on the hoardy show), address underlying mental issues, both cognitive and emotional, if they expect to see truly long-term maintenance. One of the four kinds of cognitive difficulties that researchers have found hoarders to have has to do with information processing deficits which are actual and measurable and lamentable, affect all areas of their lives - and are not selfish. The emotional/mood are anxiety and anxiety-avoidant. None of them are personality disorders, or character flaws which the unwillingness to "share" that you accuse them of (which, again, is still not passing on to others your unwanted trash, as you described) would suggest. The rationale and anxiety behind parting with objects has to be made manageable. The anxiety is real. It is overwhelming. It is painful. Someone else picking up a stained broken useless object and moving it to the garbage can cause a panic attack. That is not selfishness. That is not a refusal to 'share' with the trash bucket. Think about a mother's fierce evolutionary instinctive hardwired love and protectiveness for her children and how few things can supercede that: drug/alcohol addiction, thrall to an abuser, and mental illness, specifically here, the unsafe environment that can come with hoarding. The anxiety is just that all consuming, you can lose your kids or be in the great pain of watching them suffer and the anxiety still wins. It gets expressed in many different ways, but just to address your post, often it takes the form of "but what if somebody I know is going to need it later?" I guess you could think of that as selfish too if you want, that the hoarder just wants the credit for the gift, but usually that person has had the helper role in their family and is worried about not being able to provide what everybody else needs. Another gross thing the hoarding show does is use shame and degrading, which I have no moral objection to, but it's just not effective long-term (although it is good for ratings) but I mention it because they are missing something that actually is very effective. That is, assuming that for some worst practices reason, you are starting treatment bass ackwards with the trash removal trucks and not the mental therapy. All you have to do is tell any hoarder regarding any object about someone who needs it and they will happily give it away. It's called dispositioning. It's totally manipulative and it totally works. Got a stand up basketball hoop you're saving for your grandchildren 20 years from now? I know someone with two kids who would love it - boom, it's gone. Got a second refrigerator unplugged in the basement you're not using? I know a family leaving a shelter who needs one - boom, it's gone. Got a broken down rusting car in the front yard bring down the neighbor's property values? I know a shop teacher who'd love a car his students can work on, and off it goes too. For these big objects, the item's destination needs to be specific, not generic donation or thrift store, but just knowing that it is 'needed' and will be used and the hoarder is thrilled to be rid of it. Obviously you can't dispose of a whole hoardy house like that, I'm just mentioning this one particular tactic to show that in general, this mental disease is not about being selfish and un-sharing.
As to Robyn, I personally certainly am not qualified to determine if she has compulsive hoarding disorder or not. Is she self aware, do her objects bring her pleasure or anxiety? There's a bunch of criteria to be met that lay people can quickly identify in those extreme examples shown in the first few minutes of a hoardy episode. I understand why Mykelti chose the question, it's a titillating topic, maybe next Mykelti will ponder if Robyn and Kodi are behind that locked door being furries. But I think before Mykelti or anyone lays a diagnosis on Robyn, we all might want to have a better understanding about the mental illness they are discussing before we diagnose.
I do not disagree however that Robin is probably one of the most selfish and fake, duplicitous women on television. I have no idea what any man sees in her, but if she were my neighbor, and looked twice at my husband, I'd move.
@@heidikickhouse- Wow! THAT was a lot of judgement. And it didn't change my mind one bit. Robyn hoards and is selfish. Period.
There are a few shirts on the website. No purses. And very pricey cheap looking jewelry, with lots "sold out"
Interesting....wonder if they'll deeply discount at some point to clear it all out
Looked like lots have been discounted.
Ps. Love your channel, just found you not long ago!
Wait… didn’t Kody “vet” her real hard? I thought he would know that her husband filed for divorce because she has so many debts. So obviously, he didn’t or he didn’t care. I think if Janelle had known that, she would have put up more of an objection.
I bet you are right! I would LOVE to hear what Janelle thinks of Robyn's debt and her spending habits!
Hi Jenny!! It's amazing how often Kody misplaces his anger towards Christine regarding house cleaning and keep children away from their father. He is in love with Robyn, therefore he can't admit that she is the true source of his anger. It's easier to blame the person you "hate". I'm truly happy that all of the OG3 left their unhealthy relationships with Kodilocks!!!
Totally agree, Tina. He blames Christine for phantom problems when there are real problems right in his home!
I find it interesting, that on the show & when they phone the paps, Robyn is wearing her flower blouses. But when she's at a traffic stop the bodycam shows her in a purple T & white hoodie.
What she wants us to perceive as fact is never reality.
Women in grannies blouses don't spend $16000 Victoria Secret. 😂😂😂
Suzanne, dont be so sure about that. I'm 74. If i wasn't a widow, i just might check out Victoria's Secret merch. Lol. NOT!!!
Good point, Suzanne!
@@judyl.7234 😂😂😂
Thank you, Jenny's mom!
She's brilliant! :)
Safe to say she's somewhere on the hoarding spectrum.
can't argue!
I remember Robyn crying 😭 at that meeting where they were begging for money
I remember laughing when I first saw that episode. LOL
Robyn's behavio😊really made me cringe....and Janelle was nowhere to be seen. She knew it wouldn't fly❤
I don’t know how Robyn can be so overwhelmed. She doesn’t do anything! Unless she is miserable with Kody and super depressed, that I could understand.
That could be it!
She is clearly depressed, anxious and paranoid. She is also in a cult that is terrible for women. It’s sad how much damage these things cause.
And that pig kody asked what Christine was doing and then he said its sure not cleaning and cooking! WOW sometimes i thing he gets Sobin Rob em mixed up with Christine because when you see her house its clean, Christine house. He cant say what he wants to Sobin Rob em so he saids it to Christine. 😅😂 He is, such a joke!!!😅😂
I remember that episode/I couldn’t believe he said that/I thought also that he had the wives mixed up/he was just being nasty and mean/Christine house was clean for always having 6-9kids in and outta her house 😮
He just points blame where he wants to. Doesn’t have to be true or real or make sense. Kody has made a statement.
@@laneneal3510 yes and he is an idiot.
You're so right, Patsy. Her house was always organized. AND SHE COOKED DAILY! The kids have also said she's the best cook in the family. He's just mean and vindictive.
@@SeniorPerspective-123. Remember the episode when they were shopping for houses when KB told RB she didn’t really need a kitchen because she was “too pretty to cook”. 🤮
Jill-informed calls her house “the Cracker Barrel”, lol.
That's awesome! 😂😂
Ooooofff...what an insult...to Cracker Barrel. 😂
Notice how in the kitchen, in the middle of the freaking floor is a $200+ Christmas carousel from the village! Why? For the past two years I've wanted a Christmas carousel for my Christmas village, but the small ones are like $50 and I can't justify spending that much on a single decoration that we use for 5 weeks out of the year, it's not logical. But there's Robyn, never brings in money but spends as much as she can, buys a Christmas village that is $200-$400 per piece, gets an expensive carousel to go with it and leaves it on the kitchen floor, why not! 🤦♀
Also, Robyn literally had a Christmas jewelry set that had hideous snowmen, dangle, earrings with a "matching" necklace, but the necklace was a silver block that just said "jolly" ....what women wants to wear a necklace that says jolly?! Or when they made that diamond shaped necklace with "SW" straight up copying Scooby-Doo's collar! And on IG or maybe it was a "jewelry collection" but either way, she called something "love gives you wings" and made coordinating jewelry to match the slogan. That is the slogan for Maxi-pads or close to it! Maybe it had something to do with Ko-Ro's "love song" which Kody quoted the lyrics to on the show. Of course, my nosey-self had to look up these quoted lyrics to find their "love song" lol. It's Phoenix Rising by Annihilator, a horrible early 90's hair ballad but the lyrics are quite interesting to Ko-Ro's "story." They have a weird thing with "love" and flying creatures, but you can totally picture Ko-Ro making out to this song in the lil Kodester Roadster.
I just heard Kody unfollows Robs on Instagram. Trouble in paradise?
"straight up copying Scooby-Doo's collar! " LOL! That is SO TRUE! 😂😂
The anxiety!!!! My oh my!!!! I got it too watching this.
Right???
Decor is a 'want', not a 'need'. If Robyn and Kody view it as a 'need', then I wonder what holes in their lives are they filling with 'decor'.
Years of indoctrination holes
Imo, Kody and Robyn are buying a lot of that crap just to tie up the money so the OG3 and OG13 kids can't get the money. They probably look at it as investments that they can liquidate down the road if needed. Again, imo, who the heck would buy their used ugly crap?
good point, Cathy!
Robyn is a shopaholic but I think Kody is also.. in one of the earlier seasons Kody was shopping with Robyn’s girls and Kody joked when the clerk handed him the receipt that he bet she’d never seen any one person spend so much at once and Brianna piped in that her Mother’s receipts were WAY longer! 🤣🤣🤣 I wish you could find that in one of your rewatches. It was in in season 1, or 2. Brianna was very young!
😂😂
Wow! I'll look for it! I don't remember that. I'm shocked how much I have forgotten!
You are CRACKING me UP esp when describing the clothing going up in flames if near a stove! James over at My Take on Reality has a theory that MSWCloset was going to be an MLM. XO
Oh, interesting. Oh that makes me laugh out loud to think they could EVER turn this into a MLM! 😅😅
I know what you mean. Why, in a month of Tuesdays, would anyone in that family think that there would be a big market for plyg jewelry is beyond me. It's one of the silliest ideas ever to be sprouted, in my not so humble view. XO@@SeniorPerspective-123
I'd kick out the nanny and hire a housekeeper.
agree!!!
Kody designed ...
18:18 PIXIE QUEEN for Christine
18:28 ROOTS OF LIFE for Janelle
(Not Shown)
FIDELIS for Meri
PHOENIX for Robyn
If the boxes are inventory, Robyn and Kody aren’t motivated to sell it because they will owe 3/5 of any net income on it to Janelle, Christine, and Meri.
Oh, that's so true. Although, I doubt they give ANY money to the OG3
Ohhh Mykelti. Ever the fence straddler. I’m curious to find out whenever the show actually ends and contracts are done with TLC if we will hear what she REALLY thinks of Robyn and Kody. And of all the others as well. Bc my gut instinct is that she is giving heavily filtered responses to her patrons’ questions so as not to upset anyone OR TLC. I absolutely cannot stand the “yes and no” answer, unless you have a REALLY good explanation for it. Robyn shops and shops and is clearly a hoarder. Not to the degree that we see on the show Hoarders, but she is a hoarder. It is a mental health issue. I believe Robyn has a lot of unresolved and untreated mental health issues. I am sensitive to THAT aspect of her life bc I deal with it myself. I believe she has a shopping addiction (pretty well documented) and she has a chaotic and cluttered mind, which translates to a chaotic and cluttered environment, like you mentioned. I dealt with the same thing. At work, everything was neat as a pin and in place, at home things were cluttered and I couldn’t seem to get it together without help. I believe she feels “paralyzed” and doesn’t even know where to start. I also agree she would be better off hiring a maid or organizational specialist rather than a nanny to help. I am ONLY sympathetic towards Robyn on this issue of the cluttered house and her mental health bc I’ve been there. It’s an awful feeling and not a good place to be at all 😕 I take medication to help with my bipolar and other mental health issues but I don’t think she does. Their religion doesn’t believe in it right? I still very much dislike her for everything else she’s done to this family 😒 As for My Sister Wives Closet🙄 I don’t even know where to start. This was allll Robyn like you said. The other wives got dragged into it basically against their will and bc Kody backed anything Robyn wanted he pushed them all into it. Like you said, he even called it a hobby at first. She didn’t want to do any work. Except design. Ugly ass designs 😣 way overpriced and even if it was cheaper it was still so ugly! Mykelti was right when she said it was too expensive for what it was. Robyn wanted the other wives to do all the work while she just spent the $. But a twist in the plot! No one bought the ugliness that was her designs so no $ coming in. And that guy they got the 250K from will never see any $ back. I’m sure Kody is shitting his pants and Robyn is having one panic attack after another right about now bc even Stevie Wonder can see that this may be the last season of sister wives. The fans are screaming that they’re sick of watching Kody and Robyn. We want to see more of the OG3 and the OG13 kids and their lives. NOT kody and Robyn. But we will see. It will be interesting to see what those two actually do for jobs when the $$ runs out. Have a great weekend Jenny! Hugs 💖
Been there 😢
@@lucytowns6971 I hope things are better for you now 💖
Kody wanted to be able to say Robyn has a job and brings in money. But with the help of the OG3. Bc they are expendable. That’s what they are there for. To aide Kody in whatever he wants.
I agree. If the show would shift to showing the kid's lives now and the grandkids...I'd LOVE it! I really would watch it. Heck, Sister Wives had many seasons that were boring, yet, I was addicted to it!
@@SeniorPerspective-123 yessss! I would definitely watch! I don’t know how many of the kids would be interested in still being on tv and exposing their children to being filmed. But that is something I would love to see too! I’m sure the OG3 would be up for it! 😊
12:22 since I am 66 and have a lot of life behind me, I’ve lived many different sorts of lives. I know that sounds strange but I will explain. When I was a child my room looked like a hoarders room. We had papers all over the floor but the beds were clear so we had places to sleep and I really don’t know why the room was such a mess. I was six and sharing a room with an older sister. I had to sleep on the bottom because I kept falling out of bed and in a bunk bed that would’ve been disastrous. Got a little older we moved to a bigger house I still had to share a room but that room was much cleaner and we tended to use that the footboard of the bed as the closet the closet was way too small for two people. And there was a time when we were the same size even though my sister and I were five years apart. My sister would just outgrow something and it would come directly to me because I was not small for my size like she was. This house downstairs was very clean and my father always had the self deprecating thing where he would apologize to visitors for the house looking a mess. My mom worked full-time he was disabled and there were four children. We tended to put things on the dining room table because we didn’t really use the dining room table. We had a small kitchen table which I wish I still had because I had a beautiful porcelain top but we didn’t really eat together in the dining room unless it was a holiday or the rare occasion we had someone over. We used TV trays in the living room because my father was disabled. But there was no bags and boxes and clutter and we didn’t even really have tchotchkes. And a lot of the pictures on the wall were things that my father had painted. Then my parents finally bought a home and we lived in it for nine months before it was hit by a flood. We lost everything that wasn’t on the closet shelf. And that house was never really a mess. My mom would stack up newspapers but the kitchen was always very clean and we didn’t have money to buy a bunch of tchotchkes. I eventually moved out and got married and we used lawn furniture in our living room for the first and even though we didn’t have stuff to make messes with my husband would still complain if the magazines on the coffee table were crooked. I like them found out he did not. I didn’t even on a dresser so I kept my underwear in a box. Then the children came along and we bought a house children come with toys and high chairs and swings and bassinet and little Carry things. The living room was only 12 x 14 and had five doors, which made it next to impossible to keep from being cluttered when you have four children and all of the accompanying stuff. I have been known to collect crafting materials but I didn’t have any separate place to put them so they went next to the couch. But I was called a hoarder and I was called messy and I was called sloppy and never ever measured up to his expectations. I found out much later that it really wasn’t me and he would’ve treated anyone that way. So this video is actually triggering for me and I’m surprised I’ve gotten halfway through without clicking off. This comment is actually cathartic so you know you don’t have to read it. I truly don’t know what Robbins issue is but most of the time people that continue to buy even though they don’t have the money in cash or don’t have the money to pay off the credit card bills that they’re creating, is usually someone trying to satisfy their emotional needs with things. That dickens village which we know she probably bought new is very expensive and I don’t know why when you have that many children in the house you would forgo your island which is probably where they have most of their meals. I don’t think there’s any rational or logical thought process for her spending except in her own mind. I think she’s a see it and wants it mentality and it probably gives her an adrenaline rush to buy something. But that also tells me that she is not emotionally fulfilled and being a mother or and being Cody’s wife. And the only way that she’s going to stop this behavior is if she goes to very lengthy counseling and is upfront with the counselor. I do not see that happening because right now this is working for her why should she change it?
excellent insight! And good point!
Hi jenny, on a other utube channel ithink it was James mtr or iq someone commented they had bought a necklace and had it appraised it was 300% over priced.
SHUT UP! Really??? that doesn't surprise me at all. But that's amazing information, Marie!
I bet their garage is completely full of crap
YES! I've never seen a car go in or out of it. They all park outside.
Those Christmas decor gives me anxiety!
Drone footage is what you are thinking
That's it!!!
Good morning Jenny!
And good afternoon to you, Valadia!
WOW!! That’s crazy!! How can that not be stressful for them?
WooWhoo so EXCiTED🎉
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They seemed to use the excuse of covid to film outside, in the dead of winter. But after it was over they were still trying to film outside. In one of their first segments after Christine left, I believe, they showed the kids coming home from school. They all gathered outside their entry door, but had to stand or sit on the steps, even though there was a bench right next to the door. The bench was loaded up with random junk.
that fits. the junk spilled out to the outside
Robyn's house is junked up , and in such a disarray !! Ño she doesn't clean ,that house is a dump inside !! Nasty !!
13:37 As I understand it right after Christine left they did open it back up and drastically reduce the prices of everything that she had contributed to. And then I think it went back down again.
Interesting. Wonder why.
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Aw! This is the sweetest comment. Thank you so much! I'm so glad I can help make your work day go by quicker. Imagine me taking back to you too! :)
That's why "buying off their websit" ' was initially so shocking to me from her. I finally figured out it's got to be an internet colloqialism that old ladies like me never heard, so it grates.
(first clue was "website" = internet. Ta-da.)
I have nothing worthwhile to say except, Thank you for being you!
Here is a senior perspective….since I retired from teaching, I spend a lot of time getting rid of stuff. I do not want my family members burdened with it. My biggest fear is that my oldest sister dies before me and I’ll be stuck with alllllll of her crap. It isn’t really crap, but there is so much it might as well be. 😮
that's such a good point.
And isn’t the oldest daughter actually living in the basement? There was that whole deal where Cody was so bummed because she was in the basement for two weeks during the Covid swapping going on in that house. So maybe Cody is still kissing the teenage girls on the mouth?
ew. he probably is. ick. And you are right. Poor Ariana has to live with that stuff!
She needs to give up on sister wives closest. I don’t think it’ll ever be anything because it’s Robyn’s.
agree, katrina
I will never understand why they thought the world needed jewelry that says " Sister Wife." Maybe those involved in this polygamy, MAYBE.
They bought the home fully furnished. They also kept all the stuff from Robyns home in Vegas. Then you add the fact Kody has all his stuff from Janelles, Marys and Christines now at Robyns. In addition they have storage units for things like the family food storage, Which is 3/4 fridge freezers plus dry goods. Then they have all the actual "art" and seasonal decorations. Then the multiple cars and trucks plus the RV for Dayton. The opposite of Jenelle.
You have an amazing style I totally enjoy! Your added funny clips fit each situation perfectly it’s difficult to fit the right clip and you are an artist. Plus you aren’t a senior are you? You look so young and vibrant. Thank you for you TH-cam sight. Keep going 🎉❤ 12:53
You're so kind. I AM a senior. 55. But like to think I'm 24 inside. :). Thank you so much for the kind and sweet comment. ❤
Your momma is a wise wise woman
She's a good lady!
I prefer James Avery over SW Closet.
They should have done t shirt merch or Janelle's idea of investing in a gym.
Yes. Janelle's idea would have at least made money. AND Janelle would have WORKED to make it a success.
On the shopping trip you played the clip from Robin steered them to a store that only had her sizes. She then said well i can try them on & model for you. 😮
You are correct I just checked and it’s back open, but I heard that they shut down the sister wives closet through the government LLC. She can’t have it up and running with the OG3 or they are entitled to their share of the profits, it’s would be still their company. Sobyn and Baldylocs are trying to empty out the stock for $$, but I just pulled up bracelets there were 1 style ( men and woman). Didn’t discount at all!
INTERESTING Tina!
It's true, women do like jewelry but not cheap jewelry that costs too much.
preach!
As to the boxes… some have speculated that the boxes may be Kody’s for the gun shows he goes to.
19:07 It actually looks fragile like it could break easily and that’s in the design. I would not wear some of those necklaces on an every day basis like where you don’t take it off. Because the pieces are going to fall off of it. But some of those bar necklaces look like they should be $10.
i agree
I love the clips, I'm sure it takes a long time. You do a great job! The boxes might be all of Kody's stuff from the other wives' houses.
Thanks, Beth! And you're right! That's probably just Christine's garage! I didn't think of that.
Remember when they moved out of Las Vegas and Christine and Jannelle left when they were done packing. Robyns house did not look even close to finishing so then she had a melt down.
A lot of people think hoarding requires filth. That's not true. Hanging on to too much crap is hoarding even when it's tidy. It's the compulsion to collect and hang on to things that creates the hoard.
I just think they do different MLM’s. That’s why they have so much stuff.
Could be! wonder which one's they are into. I don't remember hearing Robyn did anything. But I did hear Kody was into one. Or at least used to be.
@@SeniorPerspective-123 well, there was one show where Cody offhandedly said we all do MLM’s so I tend to believe they all do MLM’s
I have started to rewatch and I am at the epi where MERI and Janelle are seeing the Duggars (not sure how to spell) and they float the one kitchen idea. Kody says at least one wife feels that’s abusive… referring to Janelle
ah, interesting!
Cluttered? Yes. Shopping addiction? Yes. Junk? Yes. Mykelti is a flying monkey and won’t say anything bad about Robyn. There’s way too many shelving units just in her kitchen space alone. With junk on it. There’s no way anyone is taking that amount of supplements daily or whatever that is. The whole house is covered in junk.
agree!
I hadn’t see any of the jewelry before. My mind is blown. Didn’t know it was that bad. I’m not intentionally being a hater just, …. it’s really unattractive
Right? Like what little kids wear.
Don’t forget she has all the unsold inventory from the closet. And for all their assertions about quality jewelry is not cheap and you’ve got a pay a little bit more for it I still think they over priced everything. And from reviews the quality was not there. They probably got it made in China which will tell you with Sterling when it’s not, they were even selling children’s pajamas that were not flame retardant. And a lot of their stuff is full of lead, there’s a whole Lotta laws that they’re breaking when exporting to the US. That being said all those boxes of product have to go somewhere. And we know Cody stuff wasn’t at robins because it was at Christine‘s. Because he threw a hissy fit when she told him to get his stuff out of her garage and there’s a little problem of having a 10 room house but you have no room for truly to come and spend the night.
that's probably why he fought Christine so much about moving to Utah. Remember when he was ok with her "leaving him" but couldn't understand why she would take 'ALL HIS KIDS' away from him (translation: one kid...all the rest had moved out already). He needed her in town to store all his stuff!
Sobbin buys those hideous flower tops at Costco i saw them there!
No shopping in the celestial kingdom ? Gotta buy useless stuff here on earth
It's like that old polka song 🎼in heaven there is no beer
That's why we drink it here .🍺😁
LOL. Excellent comparison!
Not uncommon when you are brought up poor. People tend to want to buy and spend to make them feel good and to show the world they made it! For example, why would Kody buy sports cars? Make sense? Just IMO.
true. Kody loves to portray wealth in his cars, homes, watches etc.
Maybe she had cleaned up the house before the cameras can😂
LOL. Probably did. :)
I am by no means a minimalist, I have some carefully curated pieces and family antiques about, but there's also plenty of visually restful SPACE between furnishings and on walls and surfaces. Robyn's house would give me claustrophobia! I think she and Kody are both hoarders. The kitchen and pantry areas look like a page from an Eye Spy book, I have to wonder how much food goes to waste because they can't see it and forget it's there. As for SW Closet, I would guess that the OG3 were criticizing Robyn for being a freeloader and she devised that foolishness as a way to avoid getting an actual job.
Exactly! And Kody encouraged it so as not to hear the OG3 complain. But again. Robyn cost them money
LOL. I Spy Book! 😂
I heard/read awhile ago the reason behind all the art and decorations they have in their house is because if the other wives pursue a lawsuit against Kody & Robyn for any owed money from the family fund that spent, then they won’t have to pay them anything because “those are Robyn’s things and you can’t take her things” So Kody thought he was slick by buying expensive worthless art and ugly horsey rings.
Just bring the inventory to a pawn shop and sell it by weight so they can melt down the silver. Nobody wants the jewelry.
that's exactly what they should do!
Not the Dicken’s Christmas village!! 😅😅 I will admit the house is looking cluttered and messy.
I remember Kendra saying that she was an enployee and how she payed the taxes or something to get done (for sister wives closet) and Robyn didn't want to pay her. In fact, she wanted for Kendra to commit fraud and that's when their friendship ended. So bwcause Kendra wouldn't commit fraud, she never got paid. I wanna say it was at least 2,000$.
wow, that was the demise of their friendship?
Robyn needs a flashy garage sale for her overpriced inventory 🤣
I'd love to see it
Dayton has said he designed some of the jewelry.
I know this is a bit older video; however I’m new to your channel.
Usually someone that has a problem such as hoarding, kleptomaniac, shopaholic is continually trying to fill a void. I think their lives are shallow and will continue to try to fill the void because they haven’t learned how to love. The sad thing is I doubt any of them received it when they were growing themselves. You can see reflections of this in varying degrees in their kids.
Just my observation
She might be able to sell some of that awful jewelry if the price was at all reasonable. The prices are ridiculous for that jewelry. A basement full of boxescof ugly jewelry sounds like a hoarder to me 😂
I can't argue with that!!!
Hoarders. Definitely Hoarders…
Yesterday, I had the same "brain fart" as you just did. I couldn't remember the name, drone. I even tried triggering the memory with the same actions and thought process as you. TWINS!
Twinning!! Love it!
Robyn is a “clean hoarder.”
They have those on the hoarders show that have lots of stuff with tags on them still.
Eventually it does become a dirty hoarder situation because you cannot clean properly ever.
Is it possible she met with Kendra to start a clothing line for larger women as she wanted and told Janelle to start a clothing line for larger women multiple times during the very short lived my sister closet ( where all their secrets are kept) maybe that’s where the name came from bah bah bah Robyn meeting Kendra was just another one of a thousand manipulative things Robyn did behind the OG3’s backs
Kendra…the go-between of the catfisher, Jackie. But Robyn says they weren’t that close of friends.,uh-huh…
@@laneneal3510 Robyn’s full of 💩
LOL. Robyn probably had the subtext on "closet" the whole time. that manipulator!
I am having anxiety too looking at that house surely they must realise how messy it looks .If she has a nanny why isn’t the house reasonably ok to look at.
Chris and his wife had the Pawn Shop. Kody asked for $250k.
Mykelti has said her dad thinks art is an investment.
Thanks!
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I’m NOT saying that she’s an Einstein.😂😂😂
Just to be clear! LOL
Sobyn also was using 3 different names!
RIGHT? She's not to be trusted.
I'll tell you what Sobin does all day, shops, services her best customer,Kody and causes trouble.
Their house is large so there must be more storage space than most people have. Maybe she needs an organizer.
Realtors can go inside a house with a drone and can take pictures of all the rooms and outside to get pictures of the house and surrounding property. I also wonder how the older kids that go to college avoid any stories about their real dad.
OMG, that jewelry was hideous and sooo expensive.
I wonder that too
Mykelti is lying, they are putting h paintings at 4 ft off the floor, cause the walls are covered!
yuppers!
I recognize some QVC decor so maybe she was hoping sister wives closet would be picked up by QVC or HSN and make her rich. It worked for several real housewives. It would also explain what she spends her time doing!! 😂🤣😂🤣