Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
I tried to reconcile several times and it was a mistake. Took me a little time but I finally realize this ship has sailed I’m not gonna play the games with my ex I’m not gonna go into no contacts I’m not gonna play any of these silly games of going back-and-forth I’m done with it too damn old to put up with the games like we’re teenagers.
How is my wife entitled to enjoy her newfound freedom while she left her kids and me ? I assume she is living her best life... on the expense of her two sons who fully understand that they have been left alone with their dad....
let her go man, i know it's hard. work on yourself try to find someone else who'd live with you and your kids.. the moment she'd be back full of regrets, you wouldn't want her anymore.
Jeez same as me mate. Cheated on me left me in April with my daughter to juggle work n okay all the bills. Started semen retention and when no contact she’s been tryna ring me and txt me about our daughter then on the day she was ment to see her didn’t even ring me or txt me she’s obvs wanting to no what im doing… im happy now if im honnest SR helped a lot. Stay strong brother
If your ex was highly narcissistic, then reaching out first is you reverse hoovering yourself back to the narc. Don't do it. Stay in no contact. It will only get worse if you enable the narc to mistreat you.
I rly wish she’d just call me just to talk one more time and clear some stuff up but I know she won’t, and I won’t either because I already let her know that I care.
my respect and value dropped for him as well and I don't have any commitment towards him either considering he didnt want me anymore yet he got mad when i blocked him and that I'm dating someone else lol
if we both had an argument at the end and we both suddenly stopped talking at the same time , who is the dumper ? how do i know what if I was the dumper , however we both mistreated each others and i did less fault than she did , who should reach out first ?
It's has been eight months since no contact but he just sent me a messege that we need to talk nd he miss me what do he is the one who ended the relationship.
Personally I see blocking as a sign of weakness. Leaving them unblocked but muted so they don’t bother you as you go about your day is better. Not blocking shows them you are indifferent to them after they hurt you, and you don’t need to stoop to that level. Being blocked feels like a slap to the face. Don’t give them the validation that they matter enough to you to be worth hurting.
After 4 months NC and being blocked, I just got unblocked everywhere yesterday. She hasn't reached out yet though. She was the dumper and there was the typical avoidant pull while commitment was becoming a real thing. Last interaction was somehow negative, cuz she simply shut down after getting triggered from something, and pulling away completely. What do you suggest I do?
@@LeeEverett1 yeah, I know this is the common sense here. And I also know that there's just a hundred possible reasons why she'd unblock. But in this case, I really thought this was over. I didn't see a reason for getting blocked in the first place, as I didn't chase or bother her at all after her finally pulling away. If anything I should have been the one to block HER. Anyhow, I never saw this coming, I really thought she'd close this chapter, but just the fact of unblocking me on multiple apps, means that she's been at least thinking about me.
I wouldn't even take her back honestly afther she blocked you everywhere for 4 months and because she was the dumper it probally just didnt worked out with the other person that's why she unblocked you
@@221rays It sounds to me like you've made zero effort in moving on and that you've been waiting around for her and checking daily if you've been unblocked. The fact you noticed immediately means you've been checking. My ex blocked me too and I blocked her back and never looked back. Never did the whole unblocking to check if I'm still blocked etc because it's not a game to me, once I block someone I'm done with them. More than likely she unblocked you because the other guy didn't work out, she temporarily thought of you so she unblocked you to check on you, then just left it open incase you wanted to message her and validate her. If she dumped you it's her job to fix things not yours, but I personally wouldn't take her back after she's been out there messing with other guys
@@LeeEverett1 not gonna lie, yeah I checked on her from time to time. Not something I'm proud of, and believe me when I say that I tried to distract myself and move on (and I'm still working on that). I don't think that it necessarily the case of "It didn't work out with the other person", as a matter of fact I think it more had to do with an ex (a long time ago ex) who had recently contacted her and just made her confused as hell. She claimed she'd never get back together with him, but still "cared" about him and appreciated the things he did while in a relationship with her. Either way, you're right. I should move on and look forward, I've been telling myself that everyday. It's just not easy, ya know?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I tried to reconcile several times and it was a mistake. Took me a little time but I finally realize this ship has sailed I’m not gonna play the games with my ex I’m not gonna go into no contacts I’m not gonna play any of these silly games of going back-and-forth I’m done with it too damn old to put up with the games like we’re teenagers.
How is my wife entitled to enjoy her newfound freedom while she left her kids and me ? I assume she is living her best life... on the expense of her two sons who fully understand that they have been left alone with their dad....
I’m sorry man. That sucks. She don’t deserve you all if she’s that selfish
let her go man, i know it's hard. work on yourself try to find someone else who'd live with you and your kids.. the moment she'd be back full of regrets, you wouldn't want her anymore.
Jeez same as me mate. Cheated on me left me in April with my daughter to juggle work n okay all the bills. Started semen retention and when no contact she’s been tryna ring me and txt me about our daughter then on the day she was ment to see her didn’t even ring me or txt me she’s obvs wanting to no what im doing… im happy now if im honnest SR helped a lot. Stay strong brother
If your ex was highly narcissistic, then reaching out first is you reverse hoovering yourself back to the narc. Don't do it. Stay in no contact. It will only get worse if you enable the narc to mistreat you.
Thanks, Jordan . I really need to hear that.
Keep it up Jordan !
I rly wish she’d just call me just to talk one more time and clear some stuff up but I know she won’t, and I won’t either because I already let her know that I care.
my respect and value dropped for him as well and I don't have any commitment towards him either considering he didnt want me anymore yet he got mad when i blocked him and that I'm dating someone else lol
if we both had an argument at the end and we both suddenly stopped talking at the same time , who is the dumper ? how do i know what if I was the dumper , however we both mistreated each others and i did less fault than she did , who should reach out first ?
The relationship isn't over untill one of you have actually said that you don't want the relationship anymore otherwise it's just a argument
I'm not reaching out to my ex for a while.
It's has been eight months since no contact but he just sent me a messege that we need to talk nd he miss me what do he is the one who ended the relationship.
8 months?? I guess he figured the grass ain't greener on the other side!
Should I block my crush when she’s dating someone else and have me blocked? Or what’s your opinion on this?
Personally I see blocking as a sign of weakness.
Leaving them unblocked but muted so they don’t bother you as you go about your day is better.
Not blocking shows them you are indifferent to them after they hurt you, and you don’t need to stoop to that level.
Being blocked feels like a slap to the face. Don’t give them the validation that they matter enough to you to be worth hurting.
After 4 months NC and being blocked, I just got unblocked everywhere yesterday. She hasn't reached out yet though. She was the dumper and there was the typical avoidant pull while commitment was becoming a real thing. Last interaction was somehow negative, cuz she simply shut down after getting triggered from something, and pulling away completely. What do you suggest I do?
Absolutely nothing. If she wants you she will establish contact otherwise don't even worry about it
@@LeeEverett1 yeah, I know this is the common sense here. And I also know that there's just a hundred possible reasons why she'd unblock. But in this case, I really thought this was over. I didn't see a reason for getting blocked in the first place, as I didn't chase or bother her at all after her finally pulling away. If anything I should have been the one to block HER. Anyhow, I never saw this coming, I really thought she'd close this chapter, but just the fact of unblocking me on multiple apps, means that she's been at least thinking about me.
I wouldn't even take her back honestly afther she blocked you everywhere for 4 months and because she was the dumper it probally just didnt worked out with the other person that's why she unblocked you
@@221rays It sounds to me like you've made zero effort in moving on and that you've been waiting around for her and checking daily if you've been unblocked. The fact you noticed immediately means you've been checking. My ex blocked me too and I blocked her back and never looked back. Never did the whole unblocking to check if I'm still blocked etc because it's not a game to me, once I block someone I'm done with them.
More than likely she unblocked you because the other guy didn't work out, she temporarily thought of you so she unblocked you to check on you, then just left it open incase you wanted to message her and validate her. If she dumped you it's her job to fix things not yours, but I personally wouldn't take her back after she's been out there messing with other guys
@@LeeEverett1 not gonna lie, yeah I checked on her from time to time. Not something I'm proud of, and believe me when I say that I tried to distract myself and move on (and I'm still working on that). I don't think that it necessarily the case of "It didn't work out with the other person", as a matter of fact I think it more had to do with an ex (a long time ago ex) who had recently contacted her and just made her confused as hell. She claimed she'd never get back together with him, but still "cared" about him and appreciated the things he did while in a relationship with her. Either way, you're right. I should move on and look forward, I've been telling myself that everyday. It's just not easy, ya know?
I don’t have a choice, have to reach out, we have something to settle 😢