6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

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    6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic
    When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally.
    In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.
    Those charismatic beliefs are
    1. No matter what, I will be okay
    2. I care more about my character than my reputation
    3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
    4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
    5. I share my purpose proactively
    6. I go there first in humanizing interaction
    If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.
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  • @LeonLush
    @LeonLush 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2523

    Also, your lack of jump edits really speaks to your ability to be comfortable in front of the camera and get your ideas across in a pleasing manner without a lot of distraction. I'm sure there was plenty of prep that went into it, but it is commendable and I thought I'd point it out.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      +Leon Lush Haha, I appreciate that. I'll have to put up another video of all the takes where I just brain fart, trip on my words, and walk off camera ;-)

    • @gilbertolopez7387
      @gilbertolopez7387 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      I'd never expect to see Leon Lush here

    • @dallaswilliams8816
      @dallaswilliams8816 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Charisma on Command .... You're Awesome And Good Work Dude.. I guess guys in the industry giving advice... Dude.... Kill the plain backdrop !!! Go with Still Pics if you dont have A roll or b roll.. Thats all you missing !!! I will subscribe and you keep going!!!
      Good Luck Dude !! You are helping people and you helped me...
      Thanks Dude...

    • @iloveme8950
      @iloveme8950 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Charisma on Command I see some comments here of people who dont see the importance of what youre doing and why you do it. I think u should make a video about people who find it hard to understand these kind of things, what makes them not understand, what they need to do to understand it, what they need to be aware of, what they need to do, etc you get what i mean.

    • @kangaroofoot
      @kangaroofoot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My sentiments exactly. Very impressive doing in on one shot.

  • @NO-yx6yl
    @NO-yx6yl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4255

    Thanks this will help with starting my cult

    • @Jc-ul9ff
      @Jc-ul9ff 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Lol wut??

    • @spoony01428
      @spoony01428 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      +Nik OBrien gl bro

    • @sandersk2605
      @sandersk2605 8 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      +Nik OBrien AHAHa, omfg that made me crack, laughing so badly, HALP

    • @jcastrellon11able
      @jcastrellon11able 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂😂😂😂😂 Spot on!!!

    • @Jagspear
      @Jagspear 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Nik OBrien how u gonna name it?

  • @aminferdous3116
    @aminferdous3116 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3805

    1) No matter what, I'll be okay.
    2) I care more about my character than my reputation.
    3) I have impeccable honesty and integrity.
    4) I don't need to convince anyone about anything.
    5) Put your purpose first.
    6) Be the first person to initiate things.

    • @vietanhtran6431
      @vietanhtran6431 7 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      thanks i love all messages of the videos on this channel but he talks too much

    • @NoajmIsMyName
      @NoajmIsMyName 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I do all but number 4 I'm struggling with

    • @NoajmIsMyName
      @NoajmIsMyName 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If you love his all messages so, you say he talk much but all wisely.

    • @vibrationalcurrency
      @vibrationalcurrency 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Viet Anh Tran Hes just soo clear minded.

    • @nameless.greyceo
      @nameless.greyceo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amin Ferdous these bullet pionts should be on every video. Ain't nobody got time to listen to this guy go on about common sense.

  • @tabokamoalosi1494
    @tabokamoalosi1494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    'When you lie sometimes you hurt your ability to speak with conviction ' i felt that.

  • @MrWilko2000
    @MrWilko2000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1699

    1. No matter what, I will be okay
    2. I care more about my character than my reputation
    3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
    4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
    5. I share my purpose proactively
    6. I go there first in humanizing interaction

  • @ivelinivanov3414
    @ivelinivanov3414 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1246

    You know I watched this video today and I applied this thing immediately. I went to a salsa party but when you come early everyone stays at the entrance and no one goes to the actual dance room. So it was empty up there. They just sit downstairs and chat and postpone the start of the party forever. And everyone feels awkward to go upstairs by themselves. They all have to decide as a group it's time to go. But no one does it. So i remembered your tip from your video. "Be the first to take the awkward action that no one wants to do first" And that's what I did. I went upstairs to the empty dance room by myself. I don't care if you wanna come or not. It's time to start already. And 1 girl followed me, then a few minutes later the others came as well. If I had decided to stay downstairs with them instead of immediately going upstairs by myself we would've just sat there forever.
    But this way I triggered the start of the salsa party and it was very cool :) I loved it. I love your videos as well. Learning a lot. Thanks for them.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 ปีที่แล้ว +193

      Wow! Nothing makes us happier than hearing people are applying these tools, let alone so quickly ;-)

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👏👏👏👏

    • @des6181
      @des6181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Българин ли си?

    • @senza4591
      @senza4591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Good for you! Now I don't have an excuse, now that there is a success story.

    • @rebeccahill7197
      @rebeccahill7197 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ivelin Ivanov way to go!!

  • @nothisispatrick1797
    @nothisispatrick1797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    He's so good at speaking, I can't pause or remove the video because I feel like I'm disrespecting him ;-;

    • @azeriaknights
      @azeriaknights 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol glad I'm not the only one XD

    • @memorandum740
      @memorandum740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed Patrick

  • @mzjj4285
    @mzjj4285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    A very good friend of mine is an introvert, but she told me the story of a time when she went to this dance. She knew no one there, so she wasn't worried about how she acted because she probably wouldn't see any of them again. She had always wanted to be a bubbly, outgoing girl, so that's what she did. That night she chose to be that fun, bubbly girl that stood out, and she had the *time of her life.*
    Edit: the difference between an extrovert and an introvert is an introvert's "battery" is charged by having their alone time, while an extrovert will be charged by interacting with people. Both introverts and extroverts can have a great time socially, or a not-so-great time. Introverts just need to be charged beforehand, and extroverts don't.
    Extroverts sometimes need breaks from people too. And sometimes introverts need interacting

    • @mzjj4285
      @mzjj4285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Phineas Gage just because she wishes she was outgoing doesn't mean she's not an introvert. I've lived with her my whole life and i know her social battery doesn't last long.

    • @mzjj4285
      @mzjj4285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Phineas Gage read my edit. Also you don't have to want what makes you uncomfortable. I think it definitely helped her situation since she LOVES dancing

    • @yes7855
      @yes7855 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mzjj4285 how did she learn to dance? :) or is she just very into it maybe that it comes naturally? Really would love to hear what you think! I’m tryna learn to dance xD I do love dancing too but I feel I’m too repetitive and my moves too weird to dance in a party if it’s not crowded and a chance of attention on me lol

  • @thesauceman9132
    @thesauceman9132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1436

    Master yourself, master all.

    • @Brieen
      @Brieen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Harambe Sweet price

    • @thesauceman9132
      @thesauceman9132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      My child, I am selling nothing

    • @mejamesme1
      @mejamesme1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      not about mastering. its about learning to operate your self and whats around you. in the way you want.

    • @thesauceman9132
      @thesauceman9132 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Is it just me or does this guy look like a serial killer

    • @mejamesme1
      @mejamesme1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Owen Massey well most are casted to be confident. or at lest some. so i guess if thats what you see. but who cares

  • @stevenpalty2027
    @stevenpalty2027 8 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I like the fact that this channel includes the concepts of character and integrity rather than just winning.

  • @none377
    @none377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    "If someone is not treating you the way you'd like to be treated" don't try to convince them or change them, either accept them as they are or remove them from your life. This hits home.

  • @chlidera75
    @chlidera75 7 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    What a great video. I wrote the mindsets down on my personal development notebook and I know I will read them over and over again and more importantly practice them in real life. Thanks for this awesome channel and the great work you're doing for us. Olivier from Paris, France

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Happy you found it helpful

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're right. . .But wait, it's the 21st century! XD GET REK'D BEEYOCH!!

    • @matec.1773
      @matec.1773 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Paris75 This comment is so sweet.

    • @realworldhistory266
      @realworldhistory266 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @user-ok7nw3hd4k
      @user-ok7nw3hd4k 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never met a bigot that wasn't a deep closet case.

  • @jeremymaxwell4469
    @jeremymaxwell4469 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1360

    "You build a reputation with yourself" when you lie. That's powerful stuff.

    • @markotter2707
      @markotter2707 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I try to keep this simple rule in mind..."When in doubt, just do the right thing." This helps when you have a difficult decision to make.

    • @camilletriboulet-hall4901
      @camilletriboulet-hall4901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mark Otter Yep!👊 & another thing that's helped me a TON, (beforehand,) if it's morally questionable, I at least ask myself, just #2 Questions:
      #1.) What is the most hurtful, realistic result/ending, & #2.) What are my motives behind doing or saying whatever it may be...🐱

    • @freeri87
      @freeri87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markotter2707 What if you don't know what the right thing to do, is?

    • @markotter2707
      @markotter2707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@freeri87 Sometimes you might not, but maybe look at the situation as though it's someone else, not you.

    • @thecowboy9698
      @thecowboy9698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You also build a reputation with yourself when you're honest.

  • @nicjfrancis
    @nicjfrancis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1030

    You should do a Tedtalk

    • @thedarkmaster4747
      @thedarkmaster4747 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Nicholas Joseph-Francis yup!

    • @danieltucker9118
      @danieltucker9118 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +The Dark master yup!

    • @reby1583
      @reby1583 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He would be amazing

    • @kevfit4135
      @kevfit4135 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Daniel Tucker yup!

    • @Baamthe25th
      @Baamthe25th 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He's too good for Ted Talks

  • @worldsbeauty5876
    @worldsbeauty5876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    I can be a confident person with strangers but not in front of the people I have known... because they have seen me as an unconfident person...I don't know what kind of psychology is this , which I am going through I just want to come out of it...so please make a video about this...

    • @skerion7956
      @skerion7956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      This is true but the answer is be confident anyway so you can break free and everyone will notice the changes about you

    • @astridolin2306
      @astridolin2306 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I feel the exact way!

    • @weebwithadream8260
      @weebwithadream8260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      omg same! I was like that in the past.
      Let me tell you something that helped me get out of this.
      Change never comes without pain. Evolution never comes without pain.
      It will hurt when you suddenly act differently in front of your friends and family who know you. It will hurt when you suddenly take initiatives. It will hurt when you signal your purpose to them. It will hurt, and your body will start shaking when you attempt to go for it.
      That person, that voice inside you, which makes you feel doubtful.
      That's not you.
      That is the sign that you are finally changing.
      That pain is the seed for change.

    • @Corvid
      @Corvid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Gradually start changing your personality to match how you want to be 24/7, it's hard work for sure... Might even be worth a change of scene if your life permits. Expect to tread very carefully if you've got a partner though... some people rely on being in a relationship with someone who they think is less confident, and that type of person could feel very threatened by the prospect of not being the "confident one". Others may do the same, and to be honest, you don't need those people.

    • @Annksunamoon666
      @Annksunamoon666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's because of our need for consistency - your friends already saw you when you think you looked less confident that's why you have this subconscious idea of being always like this, be consistent with your behaviour otherwise they might think it's weird or not recognise it as real, or think you're weird (at least that's your fear) . The need of consistency is deeply ingrained in our psyche, it's a social need as people that are inconsistent are not seen as trustworthy.

  • @sososapien4227
    @sososapien4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've made a ton of progress overcoming social anxiety over the past couple years, and whenever I re-watch Charisma on Command videos I'm reminded of how much they inspire me. Whenever I commit to internalizing the advice Charlie and Ben share, I see enormous benefits in my confidence approaching new people, being vulnerable with my friends and family, and expressing what I'm passionate about. Thank you guys so much for your insight and hard work

  • @wreccen
    @wreccen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    This information is very important and you are giving it away for free. Good on ya mate.

    • @tobihq2481
      @tobihq2481 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This is true.. We are forever grateful for these quality videos and the valuable information you share with the world ✨✨✨✨😍

    • @stevebrizzle
      @stevebrizzle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Allan Lomas - two words for you: advertising revenue.

    • @bluhcrih3127
      @bluhcrih3127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is Still Getting Paid.

  • @HardcoreMontages
    @HardcoreMontages 8 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    This guy is the fucking human embodiment of charisma, wtf

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Thanks so much - I really appreciate that!

    • @kashiyog
      @kashiyog 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agree

    • @suk4honesty
      @suk4honesty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He seems really sweet but the nature of his job makes him seem scary and neurotic, but again, it's just the job, constantly delving into the microscopic nuances of interacting with people.

  • @riyagupta3027
    @riyagupta3027 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am revisiting this video after 4 years. This video had a really good and calming impact after my turbulent experience in high school, and helped me be a better person ready for college. Now that I'm done with college, I wanted to come back and thank you from the bottom of my heart, as this video was the corner stone for helping me to be the better version of myself. Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge here.

  • @Username-cs1bi
    @Username-cs1bi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been binge-watching your video in the recent days, and I'm really thankful to you for creating these contents especially this video. I've been quite a negative person for years, with a dose of self-loathing. Watching your videos helped me a lot, especially the first 3 points because you emphasize on character building, instead of 'how to trick others to like me', I've been trying a lot in being more positive towards life and my own character, and I'm very grateful for your work man. I hope you continue to inspire a lot more people.

  • @RYSEproductions
    @RYSEproductions 8 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The best word to describe this channel is "healthy". This has to be the healthiest channel on youtube.

  • @sherrishah
    @sherrishah 7 ปีที่แล้ว +298

    You are that intelligent therapist I have been looking for all my life! :)

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Thanks so much :-)

    • @hxvideo
      @hxvideo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      question: what about not lying but not telling either?

    • @LanaLeon
      @LanaLeon 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      intelligent and very handsome

    • @paulwebb2078
      @paulwebb2078 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hxvideo Technically that's called "lying by omission". But if you don't consider them lies, then they don't matter. The point is, you have to trust yourself to tell the truth so that you can be more honest in your interactions without having to think about it.

    • @CS-bh4ur
      @CS-bh4ur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sherrishah ohhh sweety he’s a sociopath. Half of women reject him and the other half aren’t conscience enough to even know they’re breathing 😂😂😂

  • @fionakylee6261
    @fionakylee6261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here I am thinking I have enough knowledge in Psychology. I’m taking notes and slowly applying them in my life.
    You’re so honest and on point!

  • @sevenstarred77
    @sevenstarred77 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your awesome!! Everything u said is absolutely true. it makes me realize how many people are not Charismatic, but instead are rude, obnoxious and controlling. Thanks for the video

  • @smileyourock
    @smileyourock 8 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    1. You will be ok.
    2. Character > reputation
    3. Don't lie and believe what you're saying.
    4. Don't convince people - just ask.
    5. Proactively communicate your purpose.
    6. Do it first.

    • @user-pp4ks9zp9l
      @user-pp4ks9zp9l 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Can I use you in my class to take notes for me please?

    • @smileyourock
      @smileyourock 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Abdullah Did you just proactively express your purpose? well done.

    • @InfectedSoup
      @InfectedSoup 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +smileyourock u da real mvp

  • @2211gk
    @2211gk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    This is the second video of yours I am watching in past 25 minutes (first was the GOT video) and right now I am really glad that I found this channel

    • @danielgrigg3426
      @danielgrigg3426 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Giorgi Kelbakiani exactly the same here lol

    • @Ikiratuki
      @Ikiratuki 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Giorgi Kelbakiani Ditto.

    • @GunninRebel55
      @GunninRebel55 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right! This is my 4th and it started with the why Tyrion Lannister can't be killed. Lol

    • @ilv1
      @ilv1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Giorgi Kelbakiani Haha... TH-cam recommendations controlling everyone! (Same here.... Tyrion can't be killed and this next)
      The GOT videos were a very smart idea for some extra exposure but they are great nonetheless.

    • @2211gk
      @2211gk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      :) Thanks guys for pointing out about Tyrion video, had not noticed it before... Watching it right now

  • @gleison451
    @gleison451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Probably the best video I’ve ever seen.
    Mindset is the key! When you learn how to think in the right way, everything else will becomes easier or even unnecessary!

  • @ferasusif
    @ferasusif 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    the last tip was definitely the best. it requires bravery, integrity, and self-respect. Thanks for sharing man. Definitely subscribed

  • @Andrew-xo3uv
    @Andrew-xo3uv 8 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    If only Naruto knew about filtering Sasuke out of his life.

    • @FunWithJazak
      @FunWithJazak 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Then sasuke blow up leaf village

    • @94nolo
      @94nolo 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Naruto TH-cam is so weird.

    • @alissaminina1537
      @alissaminina1537 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      at the end of the show Sasuke had a battle with Naruto then they became "best friends" and Sasuke helped the leaf village

    • @Leo-ef2tc
      @Leo-ef2tc 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nerd

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What

  • @charliexoxox
    @charliexoxox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    This reminds me of a great book called "7 habits of highly effective people" I highly recommend

    • @arifinaslam
      @arifinaslam 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i know that book :)

    • @v.c.18
      @v.c.18 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Btw, the channel 'fightmediocrity' made an animated and voiced over summary video if you don't have time to read that book. :D

    • @paola9922
      @paola9922 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      awesome read

    • @KalpanaKumari140203
      @KalpanaKumari140203 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Isn't it by Stephen R. Covey? I love that book. I have read it and by implementing it I found myself happier. Seriously recommend it.

    • @charliexoxox
      @charliexoxox 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah, I agree.

  • @thegoldenb7280
    @thegoldenb7280 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re such a good person to share these types of videos for us that don’t get the information elsewhere. Bless you and may you’re biggest dreams come true 🙏🏿. And that goes for the rest of I guys reading this.

  • @TaakeItEasyy
    @TaakeItEasyy 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i agree to those mindsets. and i am pretty glad that you point those out because there are people in this world who need some "tutorials" like that.

  • @KelleyBroussardMackaig
    @KelleyBroussardMackaig 7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Finding this channel was seriously like finding a gold mine.... Thanks for doing what you do, Charisma On Command!

  • @MisterGuitarItalia
    @MisterGuitarItalia 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    So much wisdom in such a young person... amazing

  • @lucasantambrogio9739
    @lucasantambrogio9739 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    had a bad day, now i'm feeling much better by just watching this channel. thank you and cheers from Italy

  • @danielohana4068
    @danielohana4068 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such an amazing video! Every word is a pure gold. I really liked when you taked about "little lies" and how eventually they affect us in the worst, unconscious way. It was really powerful. Thank you.

  • @dragonfruitkokiri8071
    @dragonfruitkokiri8071 7 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    Where have these vids been all my life??

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Love that, thanks!

    • @claudiuskube4049
      @claudiuskube4049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You make great stuff ...this is what i need/needed in my life but you know i think its to late to change.yeah i say to other people it is never too late but i cant do it i have this huge huge problem with confidence ;( :) Keep up the work its good stuff for the kids

  • @bahaanaldo
    @bahaanaldo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My favorite thing about this video, isn't just the information, but it's the fact you chose to present it one on one. With eye contact basically. Most youtube people have a bunch of pics and clips with a voiceover. This was a brave move, but it works. Very nice.

  • @Mvitoriars
    @Mvitoriars 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're amazing! I found your channel while studying on how to be more charismatic, make friends and get people to like me, because as a socially introverted person, I struggle on making interactions with other people and I want to change it. So, thank you very much for your videos!!

  • @julien156
    @julien156 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are truly one of the greatest TH-camrs. Professionalism, skill, and knowledge. It’s always a pleasure and up building watching your content.

  • @mellofan2012
    @mellofan2012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This channel and my therapy complement each other really well

    • @HashPackLP
      @HashPackLP 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rob_gamer34 red dead❤️

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 5 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @erfman1422
    @erfman1422 7 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Really like how you don't edit your videos like some of these never ending youtube ramblers. Thumbs up bud

  • @hannekepeeters
    @hannekepeeters 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are the best tips eveeeeerrrr. Thank you so much for this! I will be brave! I will go out and socialize! I hope everyone who reads this feels the energy and goes out with a smile!

  • @nupurmalik9
    @nupurmalik9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know if it’s through your research or experience or both, but the content and the way you are presenting it is sooo relatable. I recently realised some of these things but find it hard to explain it to people or for that matter to myself.
    Thank you for these videos! I have huge respect for you guys!

  • @mrcookiemonster4051
    @mrcookiemonster4051 8 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I wish I saw this at an early age, so much great stuff!

    • @luv2touchpink
      @luv2touchpink 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +MrCookieMonster Well how can you see this @ an early age??... It was published only on March 28, 2016!

    • @mrcookiemonster4051
      @mrcookiemonster4051 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      ...

    • @RithwikSudharsan
      @RithwikSudharsan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Let's hope he's a troll

    • @MattePBG
      @MattePBG 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      he said ''i wish i saw this at an early age'' he said ''wish'' so it doesnt matter when the video came out couse he would still ''wish'' he had seen it at an early age :) ppl should stop be so close minded

    • @hilalc.792
      @hilalc.792 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It's NEVER too late :)

  • @RiyadhK
    @RiyadhK 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Dude, I Iove your channel! Keep it up. Great content and so accessibly presented :)

  • @EfoulaMp
    @EfoulaMp 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    its so attractive when someone is so smart and has self awareness

  • @suzywilson
    @suzywilson 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is hands down your BEST video for me personally. Thank you very, very much!

  • @mickc4672
    @mickc4672 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Favourite content on TH-cam of my year. Valuable tips. He's gorgeous too!

  • @ZuckThat
    @ZuckThat 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing video, Charlie!
    I really appreciate your mindset and am so happy that you've decided to make these videos.
    All the best,
    Andrew

  • @annemariecarrigan4098
    @annemariecarrigan4098 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you are one of the best motivational people I have met on TH-cam. Keep up on what you are doing.

  • @TheBtuggle
    @TheBtuggle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of those videos I need to watch over and over till I memorize it! Love every word, thank you for sharing your insights!

  • @happycreepersdk
    @happycreepersdk 7 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    1:27 "Probably better that you know, rather than using 6 months trying to figure out what signal she is sending" well.....
    Should have seen this video 3 months ago... D:

    • @taydavies9971
      @taydavies9971 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Frederik Bøgelund Me too dude..4 months of wasted time:'/

    • @riajali4609
      @riajali4609 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I wasted a year xD

    • @emce3ime_linuxtechaddict936
      @emce3ime_linuxtechaddict936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try a year

    • @jhonjohnjonjondoe5011
      @jhonjohnjonjondoe5011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn guys I just talk and when they do a few things that indicate interest then I get there number. Easy then I try to progress things and if she puts 3 road blocks up I move on.

  • @ZoeyArielle
    @ZoeyArielle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    You are amazing! I love all of your videos :)

  • @baronlipschutz-perry5089
    @baronlipschutz-perry5089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm considered old, or at least when my grandmother was this age I considered her old. The information you just imparted in this video is probably the best 12 minutes of presentation that I've had in my life. I can't praise you enough for discovering these points and going them to us in a concise and clear presentation. Thank you.

  • @abigaelrarts2257
    @abigaelrarts2257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is def one of your more important videos about being charismatic from within. I love it.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ~ Thanks Abigael! Glad you're loving it. :-)

  • @MistaTrox7
    @MistaTrox7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    until now, I've never found a pointless video from this channel. that's why I've subscribed.

    • @nouffahad9365
      @nouffahad9365 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Canadian Girl she probably meant up until now.

  • @alexander_martinez6084
    @alexander_martinez6084 8 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    Did anyone else watch this hoping they'll be like magneto?

    • @ultrafly100
      @ultrafly100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Yes, I thought I'd gain metal bending superpowers.

    • @alexander_martinez6084
      @alexander_martinez6084 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +ultrafly100 me to

    • @therealjoeyjazz
      @therealjoeyjazz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I, too, came for mutant powers

    • @sexybeast7728
      @sexybeast7728 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      on 'Charisma on Command' channel?
      That was quite ambitious.

    • @jonyphoenix
      @jonyphoenix 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Instructions unclear, dick stuck in toaster.

  • @DownHillSkateTime
    @DownHillSkateTime 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are wise far beyond your years! Your videos are fantastic, this one in particular! Also, I love how openly self critical you are of yourself when offering comparable situations to your own life.

  • @nilanjanahazra
    @nilanjanahazra 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are my brother across the oceans. I believe in these fundamental points and I make them govern my thoughts and actions. Listening to you is like listening to me speaking out loud. 🙏

  • @Summileinchen
    @Summileinchen 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely love your videos! So glad I found your channel. I don't understand why this channel is not the biggest one on TH-cam haha. Really looking forward to all of your new videos and thanks for making me happy while watching them. Greetings from Germany

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +VeganEasy °Wow! All the way from Deutschland, so happy to have you!

  • @leachatee
    @leachatee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I started to incorporate some of your confidence/ charisma tips in my social life even tho I already felt pretty confident. And I did notice big changes! More and more often I find myself in a group where they all seem invested and interested in what I’m saying and I don’t get overheard anymore (with strangers or friends, it only gets hard in a group where everyone knows everyone else better than they know me, but that’s normal ig). I think i do some of the strategies intuitively but I’m also hyper aware of my and others body language, eye contact etc. to the point of it getting annoying. But I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Someone even told me I’ve got a talent to make people feel special and that really made me happy. I always try my best to really get to know someone and make them feel good about themselves while still having a blast on my own. I think I get closer and closer to where I want to be in terms of personal development. Just looking back a few years, I was like a completely different person back then. It’s amazing to not feel this social pressure anymore and to be free in expressing yourself. Thank you, as always, for your great advice, it really does help!

    • @idriss2864
      @idriss2864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This video in particular is awesome to build character. I hope you keep on thriving in your social life, thanks for the extra motivation you gave me with your experience.

  • @SuperDogWannabe
    @SuperDogWannabe 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey man, just wanted to say thanks. I've started watching these randomly as I work, and today something frustrating happened... I just really needed to hear that doing the right thing can be free of what other people think of you.

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great points here. Honesty, integrity and your own character are way, way more important than what others think of you, which we cannot control.

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Top 3 things he said I think are:
    #1: Speak the truth.
    #2: Stay focused on doing the right thing.
    #3: No matter what you will be okay.

  • @umtimo6854
    @umtimo6854 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! That was super insightful and helpful. l like how your ideas are down-to-earth and straight to the point.

  • @jboyler1
    @jboyler1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, this channel has all the answers to questions I had as a teenager. If I had this channel back then I would have saved myself a LOT of pain and wasted time.

  • @reenabooth7009
    @reenabooth7009 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your strength to make all these videos!! I already use these techniques in my day to day life and it is wonderful that you are spreading the word! My motto is treat others as you would like to be treated! We are all in this crazy world together!

  • @Mar-mx3zi
    @Mar-mx3zi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I remember talking to my friend about menstruation, then she's like "It's impressive you are talking about that without being shy, most girls will not talk about it because they think it's weird to talk about or they are shy." Me: "Why would they be shy? It's normal, nothing to hide". I have this thing to be confident about these kind of subjects. My friend also told me: "It's nice to be around you because you don't talk about the usual subjects, like "how was your day", you talk about interesting ones." I am very flattered :3

  • @shyliearzouan2722
    @shyliearzouan2722 7 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Your videos are filled with wisdom

  • @ishapande6607
    @ishapande6607 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think that's one of the very best videos out there. Put so many things in structure. All the best to this channel.

  • @xxNiKeForEverxx
    @xxNiKeForEverxx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am honestly so glad that this came up on my suggestions today. I started reading about neuro-linguistic programming today and this really ties in with it!

  • @harshrajkumar923
    @harshrajkumar923 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the energy and probity with which you approach different points in all of your videos.

  • @Juaansi
    @Juaansi 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Knowing that you genuinely care about the one watching the video makes me appreciate your video even more. World needs more people like you.

  • @robertsullivan9232
    @robertsullivan9232 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re the man bro. I really appreciate the depth to this info, identity is truly the only way to make a lasting change

  • @carrots7216
    @carrots7216 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really glad I've found these videos; they're very clear and realistically inspiring. Thank you for making them.

  • @Iciclus
    @Iciclus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel sad that I did not discover your channel much earlier! Your video's are amazing, they're helping out a lot :)

  • @keltic07
    @keltic07 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved the video man! Keep up the good work, I'll be sure to write this down somewhere and say it to myself every morning. And to be honest, I think these are great philosophical tips, in plain simple terms most people can understand, which is like, another level of awesome.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +keltic07 Wow! Thank you for nailing what I really intend to do with my channel. Glad you get it.

  • @thylatrash7668
    @thylatrash7668 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been binge-watching your videos for the last few weeks and they've really inspired me to work on being more confident and daring in social situations.
    Thank you so much, keep up the good work! ^-^

  • @carinag4238
    @carinag4238 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's so true! I was actually struggling to write an application essay. Thank you for give me inspirations☺️

  • @damenwhelan3236
    @damenwhelan3236 8 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I came here for the magnetic powers.....
    I was robbed!

  • @blue1spiral
    @blue1spiral 8 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    About a year ago I suddenly realized all this same stuff. I agree 100,000% with this video. I had a deeply traumatic marriage and divorce, and finding my way as a single mother, with such stigma around it and so much judgment toward women in my situation, and my self esteem obliterated by my ex husband, I almost didn't make it and I struggled for years, but suddenly I had the thought, what if my positive thoughts have the same ability to create my world that my negative thoughts do? I started paying close attention to how happy, admirable, confident people lived their lives and I started mimicking it and just literally shoving my crippling negative thoughts out of my head and replacing them with positive, productive thoughts. Having overcome something that surely should have killed me and almost did, gave me the fearlessness needed to conquer every challenge I have met so far and also the ability to read people better than ever before. I love that this video so strongly confirmed everything I learned for myself this past year+.

    • @hayhacker55
      @hayhacker55 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kaela Bronan i hope u you to became more and more happy , i know that was too diffcult to you to learn through life ,not through a video . good luck.

    • @Rois300
      @Rois300 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😇😎💪🙆

    • @darealrulezbreaker9493
      @darealrulezbreaker9493 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also youve learned a valuable thing: fuck marriage :D

    • @rekikrania228
      @rekikrania228 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kaela Bronan wow this is awsome

  • @marinaalex0510
    @marinaalex0510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of your greatest, most helpful videos, Charlie. Thank you

  • @tylerburk3313
    @tylerburk3313 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like u r that one guy who when he has to present a project, or sales pitch etc, he just nails it, and is flowing with confidence!

  • @skygroup6166
    @skygroup6166 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This young man is poised and set to take his world by storm. I see a great future for you sir. You belong to same level with great speakers like Tony Robbins, Les Brown, to mention but a few.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Appreciate the "huge" comment my man! Glad you liked the vid :-)

  • @arturocuya7578
    @arturocuya7578 8 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    Thank you for the advice Mr Old Joker's smile

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Arturo Cuya °Thanks! Haha!

    • @SchMasHed
      @SchMasHed 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Arturo Cuya Seriously, I said it on another video, he should play the joker on the next batman reboot.

    • @arturocuya7578
      @arturocuya7578 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ez money

    • @nadiajr1500
      @nadiajr1500 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He looks nothing like Joker; he's way too handsome to act as Joker.
      Charlie, great job on your channel. I have a feeling one day it will be big like Brandon Burchard's. I've learned a lot. May God bless you.

    • @x1legoman1x
      @x1legoman1x 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nadiah Johari Ramzan well, joker is handsome too...

  • @harrysmyth4540
    @harrysmyth4540 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The first recommendation is so powerful. Works in any situation and very applicable to everyday events. The others are too but the former dramatically impacts the way you think about everything. Thank you so much! I regularly come back to this video when I need to hear you again!!

  • @madrazz8888
    @madrazz8888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video! Lead by example. Goes with the saying "Know thyself." From personal experience, I used to be very anxious to try new things, talk to new people or take opportunities, fearing the worst. So I watched a bunch of videos like this one and started pushing myself. What I discovered is this: "It's never as bad as you think it will be." It took some time for my brain to get used to that idea, but now, a few years later, I'm not nearly as hesitant to engage and I'm actually building up success in my life :) I go into situations without expectations and as a result, I'm always pleasantly surprised. Other people sense that, even online, and I've never built so many business relationships before in my life. I can still improve, but it's going in the right direction.

  • @ThePinkChilli
    @ThePinkChilli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is SUCH a good video. Love it.

  • @joshuaprick2596
    @joshuaprick2596 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is propably the best channel on youtube.

  • @LookAwaaay
    @LookAwaaay 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely love this, because your advice is extremely applicable. I just discovered your video and in my experience, the realistic assessment of the worst possible outcome of taking action is the single most valuable message that works for people irrationally afraid of things across all ages. The example of asking someone out who means a lot to you was perfect. Even if they say no, it will help you to close the case and move on. I think having tried and failed is far superior to never having tried.

  • @danielnagy9717
    @danielnagy9717 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    So simple, but useful, thank you. The lack of cuts are appreciated too.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ~ Our pleasure! Glad you're finding it useful. :-)

  • @VDuro1
    @VDuro1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    going through a rough patch and your shit really helps. thanks bro, kinda reminds me of old youtube!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +VDuro1 °Knowing it helps you, makes the effort really worthwhile. Thanks!

  • @callum7081
    @callum7081 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This kind of advice often comes up if you look into self help but it's so true, the less you care or need people to like you, the more people will.

  • @tomaszzielinski4521
    @tomaszzielinski4521 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is pure gold and should be sticked to the main page of TH-cam

  • @howtotangetic
    @howtotangetic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, these beliefs changed my way of thinking rapidly. Thank you so much.

  • @horizon5677
    @horizon5677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    hey dude you're awesome

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Appreciate that!

    • @josetteamboise4018
      @josetteamboise4018 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, he is! I enjoy watching him speaking and moving! Keep on, you've got a good energy and good advices for us!

  • @nouveaugrunge
    @nouveaugrunge 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    omg i love this channel

  • @mikerealundergroundmusic8057
    @mikerealundergroundmusic8057 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great brother thank you very much! i was very desperate for many years about myself and my image and how i could ever be happy with who i am.. , i hope you are happy and i wish you the best in your life!

  • @GJoelB1993
    @GJoelB1993 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    How did I not find this video sooner... number 3 hit home so hard