I can't stop hating myself or my existence. I wish God didn't create me. Now I have no choice but to continue existing either in Heavin or hell. I'm terrified of going to hell but I hate existing. I'm not looking forward to being Heaven either. It's a lot better than hell, not even comparable to Heavin, but i'd still be existing. I wish we actually had a choice. I don't understand why God would give us a free will but not a choice in being created.
I feel exactly that same way. I wish my parents had never met. Now I'm here by no choice of my own with a destination to hell because I can't do all the things necessary to serve God. I'm just stuck!
@@ladyreams-butler7306 You are not saved by good works, but only by the blood of Christ. There is no way you can earn your way to heaven; believing in Christ as Lord and savior has already given you salvation. Take heart in this, that your sins are already forgiven through Christ! Yes, good works can serve as proof that we are a true Christian, but it is not what saves us! I will pray for you, that the Lord may bless your heart greatly, in Jesus name, Amen.
@@lizzie3724 I understand how you feel, but understand that the Lord is good and faithful, and certainly understands your sorrow so deeply, that He understands it better than you. Know that we are not saved by good works, but only by the blood of Christ. When we are saved, we can then desire to do good works, but good works do not save us. I will pray that the Lord blesses your heart greatly, in Jesus name, Amen.
I have dealt with self hated since I was 8 yrs old. I have been a Christian since I was 13 yrs old. This poor self esteem and self hated for over 30 yrs. I don't know how to change it, to get rid of it.
I have found myself at times believing my own self-diagnosis OVER God's pronouncement of forgiveness and acquittal. So for me, my friend, it became a matter of my unbelief in the greatness and goodness of God, and my pride stuck in reverse gear! I sincerely hope you have travelled towards freedom and wholeness and belovedness in the last year... Chris G
I totally understand that. I will the same way. I don't know how to change it. And at times the more church I listen to the more worship music I listen to the worse it gets.
@@wyatt2852this is happening to me and was not happening to me before until now I was really lost and trying to come back but just hate myself so much and don’t know what to do
Hating myself is a result of the circumstance I've put myself in due to the consequence of my sins. They feel inescapable no matter how long ago I turned from my sins. I feel like my purpose is to endure life and finally die as a believer.
I hate this world. The evil that's continually perpetuated by man brings me to tears. From the pedophile rings around the world down to your fellow neighbor and brother lying to your face for no good reason. Mankind is so fallen and when you become a Christian you see mankind for what it is: hopelessly lost without Christ's mercy. Now pleasures bring me no solace. Temporary joys pass like the rushing river. Thinking about seeking to pleasure myself brings me great pain for only God should please the heart, yet the heart of man imagines only vain and evil things. I feel as though I am sometimes trapped in my body, trapped in this world, knowing and loving God above all things and wanting to love my neighbor as myself, but being unable to do so for I lack that very love for myself. I wish not to confuse self-pleasure with self-love, but the former is so obvious and the latter so difficult. But when I focus on my Lord Jesus Christ... my heart finds peace. I long for the day that I leave this temporary world of pain behind for the eternal glory of God the Father. I am 25 years of age and I have long been tired of this world. Please Jesus take me in my sleep soon. I long to be with you forever... amen.
This hit a nerve in me. Because that's how I feel. And it really saddens me to know you are passing through this at such a young age. I also learned to live for Christ. And to accept my tribulations as gain. Like gold purified in fire. There are times when I think of Paul the Apostle. He also suffered this way. But he said, " To live is Christ and to die is gain." And he had it much much worse. He wrote most of his Epistles in a Roman prison . Until his death which he called " ..run the Race." He won that race. Take heart, we will one day be there along with the winners. And our sufferings are temporary. The reward is much greater. I hope and pray you are well. In Jesus Name, Amen!!
I've honestly felt the same way sometimes thinking it would be better to just die and go to heaven and be happy and I'm not afraid to die anymore (but I'm still afraid to die painfully) but I am afraid for what would happen to my family if I were to die before them? I don't know if my loved ones are saved or not and it would break my heart to see them cry for me just like it would break my heart and probably send me into a depression if they were to die without me knowing weather or not ill see them in heaven so I really don't want to die because I know it will hurt my loved ones but also because I want to keep praying for them and talking to them about the truth about Jesus in hopes that they will be saved and I will be able to see them in heaven. I don't like this world but I'm not anywhere close to being ready to leave it like I still got more to learn about the truth and I still need to build up more courage to actually talk about the truth with the hopes of dragging a bunch of people with me to heaven with the first of those people being my very family lol. I fear God cuz he can send me and my family to hell and I love Jesus cuz he can save us from that hell and I love them both cuz they are one in the same (the trendy is hard to understand sometimes lol) but I know everything good I have including my family that I love is from God and I so badly want them and my friends to and even more people to be saved but that's only possible through Jesus and I know not everyone will be saved but I'm scared my family is apart of that everyone and I know all I can really do is pray and trust in God to help bring them to the truth but I'm still scared thinking it won't happen but then I think uh stupid just keep praying and believing it will happen I mean God loves them more then I do and he loves me more then they do and the Bible says if u pray for something and believe God will answer your prayers then eventually he will right so pray everyday for your loved one's and talk to them about the truth when u get the chance 😊. Lol sorry about this long comment . Your comment just kinda hit me a bit and I started to get a bit emotional and just wanted to let it out abit lol
I need help, I hate myself for my sin. I hate myself that I choose sin every day over the Lord. Despite all he has done for me, I still spit on his spirit. I know Jesus Christ gave his life for us, but that still doesn't make the sin go away does it? I still sinned. I still turned from God. I am forgiven, but my crimes not erased.
You are wrong! Christ has died for you to make you as white as ❄️ snow. ‘Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.’ - Isaiah 1:18 By the love of God you are saved from hell by the blood of Jesus. God is not asking to be perfect, but to repent and believe in his only begotten son. I see that you are very sorry that you have sinned against God, I think that you just came to Christ and that its hard to stop 🛑 sinning. The bible says: ‘There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.’ - 1 Corinthians 10:13 Be therefore strong and don’t hate yourself anymore. Its good to hate sin, but hating yourself can be really dangerous. Read Romans 7 and specifically 7:14-26. Paul was in the same spot. Learn from the bible but be patient. We are not perfect in a day, or a week, or a month, or a year. We always fail at something, be thankful that God has brought a redemption to save you anyways. Its not about our works, but the perfect work of God, the cross. Know this: ‘And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.’ - Romans 8:28 God is sovereign.
@@jeepjaap7727 thank you. I've began to get over the self-hatred, and you're only helping more. Thank you again. Let the fire of the Holy Ghost burn like a wildfire in your soul!
Pure Testosterone good to hear, and remember: be thankful for the little love you have for God. Be thankful for the little faith you have. Desire for more faith and love but always be thankful for what you have been given from God.
Be still and be loved on. Who do you think you are to desire to be someone else? Is he not the Lord who told you to take heart and be courageous. Fear not for the Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. You are not just loved you are adored. You are beautiful to the LORD. His love is better than life. Drink deeply of the psalms and the gospels slow down and read them and I dare you to ask God before you read them to fill you with joy. You must learn to speak to the Spirit of God to stir him up zealously" are you not the God who saves? Are you not my rock and my fortress? Did you not say ask and you WILL recieve SEEK and you will find KNOCK and the door will be opened. Lord I'm managing on your door and Father I demand you answer me I am your child. And I want to know my Father. Now show me your Glory" be gutsy with God. If your suffering then let him know in this way. And mean! it wring yourself out at his feet and he will show you something. Expectation is faith bold faith.
Lord God Jesus Christ please do Your Will in my Life, that is my only joy, break me even when I cry for Your help and wound my proud heart so that only Your Will be done in my life Lord God Yahweh Abba Father and dear Lord God Holy Spirit make me your slave and envelope me in Your love in Your Way, so that I will spend my eternity with You dear Lord God Jesus Christ, Amen.
Do you still struggle with some of these thoughts? I am afraid myself at times, but I am happy knowing that I am saved through the blood of Christ, and if Christ loves us so much that He is willing to die for us, how can we say that we are not valuable, when the God of the universe bought us with His own blood? This same God of the universe loves us, despite us being infinitely less significant than Him! It is a false statement to say we are worthless, because Christ has given us worth. Sometimes we can forget that. I will pray that, if you are still struggling with anything right now, that the Lord will help you with it, in Jesus name, Amen.
Self hate is easy to have "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23) but by the grace of God we know that we are saved through faith in Jesus.
@@lauracostanzo8481 I hear you, Laura, but for me, the self hatred pollutes my perspective of God's love in this way, that He's too good to love me. Self hatred leads to worthlessness and even though I know what scripture says concerning it all, I am always in the Peter mode, "Go away from me Lord for I am a sinful man." Maybe its a mental illness I have, but its something I just can't get unstuck from.
Jesus the messiah is a fictional figure posthumously glorified by fake backdated prophecies, fake miracles, fake eyewitnesses, & made up stories like virgin birth, 12 disciples, crucifixion, dead for 3 days, resurrection, & walking on water, which were copied from previously glorified figures like: Horus, Attis, Mithra, Krishna, Zoroaster & Dionysus.
I hate my self because I know the answer and know about God but somehow I confuse myself or say u are lost to myself. I hate that I realize that I sinned but keep sining and I have a panic attack later and feel so ashamed to ask god for forgiveness. I hate this about myself
Love John Piper but this response is pretty far removed from the question. The verses quoted speak of self hate in a way that illuminates loving others more than self and calls us to love God and man more than life itself. Which is an encouragement to me. Self hatred, self despising, utterly and angrily hating oneself to the point of cursing oneself does not fit here so easily. This kind of self hatred can come from abuse and sexual assault. Some would say, just forgive and hate your life. Yes okay, but still suffering with deep emotional devastation. My response is not so cut and dry either. I’m just hoping for a holistic systematic theological approach.
I know what you mean. There are things in our lives that have caused us terrific pain. My approach is to concentrate only on Christ and ask Him to give me the power to forgive just as he forgave me. The problem is we want to FIX the problem we have with ourselves. He is with us and knows what happened and will guide us. We just leave it in His hand. We will be ok. We just move as the Lord gives us guidance.
Jesus the messiah is a fictional figure posthumously glorified by fake backdated prophecies, fake miracles, fake eyewitnesses, & made up stories like virgin birth, 12 disciples, crucifixion, dead for 3 days, resurrection, & walking on water, which were copied from previously glorified figures like: Horus, Attis, Mithra, Krishna, Zoroaster & Dionysus.
@@AtamMardes I believe in Jesus Christ not because my parents told me, not because the church told me, but because I've experienced His goodness and mercy myself. from my past, today, tomorrow and always i will believe in him.
@@prinzalocelja4239 I am not saying belief in made up gloried figures gives you happiness. A child is also happy believing Santa Clause is real. Billions of people of other religions achieve the same happiness you do. I am not trying to stop you from being happy, I am just saying they are all made up and you are fooling yourself. cheers
@@prinzalocelja4239 You thank God for your life & the life of the animals killed to feed you. You thank God for choosing you amongst many dead patients to recover from illness. You ignore evolution evidence, but you believe an Adam&Eve story just because a book claims itself to be the holy truth.
@@prinzalocelja4239 *QUESTION:* Are you going to continue being intellectually dishonest & condone how religion uses an imaginary God to fool you into feeling special by exploiting your hypocrisy narcissism gullibility arrogance & ignorance? No offense.
I found it crazy that the caring and loving heart God has given me can only be used on others except myself. Self hatred really is a hard battle to overcome especially when the devil is involved
I would say this, when you look at your sefl from God`s law perspective you will not like what you are("like" is a light word), lets say Mathew 5:27-28. There is a place in this that you can start to hate yourself to much, not your deeds, if you are there turn to your first love that should be Christ and understand emember how much he has done and suffer couse He\God love`s you (not your sin and deeds). In time God will make you hate your sin\deeds, like really really hate it, it happend to me and I "can`t" tell how, from loving the bad in Mathew 5:27-28 to hateing it, it scares me to see this in my life(in a good way couse I can`t make make myslelf do that...), but it took some years, patience and waiting for God`s help is crucial, alone we can`t do nothing. Be glad if your poor in spirit and broken over your sin(wich means that your not blind), be glad becouse of Him who died for you and those thing don`t have power over you !!! You`l be 100% perfect when you die and God will transform you, for now wait and persevere Saints, ask God constantly to make you grow in holines ! Oh and maybe look and David how he has see himself before God(and yet in his brokennes\shame he knew that in the end he well see God) and read Micah 7: 7-10 to get a picture how to rise from your brokeness\shame, there is a boldness in this, true and sure hope for redemption in Christ Jesus. Sorry for my bad english, i hope it makes sense.
I used to be confident and has absolutely no cares in the world but when it became a Christian I've become depressed anxious and I lost all of my self-esteem and I'm even afraid to show even a glimpse of confidence or even talk well of myself because of the fear of God resisting me because he hates proud people
Similar thing is happening to me by listening to this gospel of self hate! I think it's actually a ridiculous doctrine.. How can we be told to love others, but hate yourself. Loving yourself will make you confident in this world. We don't need to be depressed and hate ourselves. Love yourself brother. I rebuke this sick doctrine
@reganoryan2292 I hafe disagree and hafe agree the whole self hate thing it just doesn't sound right but I know Jesus talked about denying yourself and follow him but I terk that as in deny your own beliefs of the world and accept the truth or something? I think their has to be a middle ground somewhere but I do know that we should not have confidence in this world cuz this world like it says in the Bible is passing away and is just getting more and more evil I want to pert my confidence in Jesus and in him I can have confidence in the things I do and way I live now I definitely hate the stupid things I do and the good things I don't do I hate the thoughts that I have some times and I hate the facts that it's so hard to change and I hate the way I look but I know I can be more confident in my looks if I just try harder but I don't think no matter what I do I will ever love myself but maybe I could love the way I look more and actually try to take care of the body God gave me. Even though I hate myself I love my family but I hate the things they say and do sometimes just like the way I hate the things I say and do and I have a feeling maybe it's the same for everyone? Honestly for a very very very long time I've hated people because people are just so mean hateful and cruel but some of the thing's they do I've done before to and as I've been struggling to actually love people I'm realizing it's not the people I hated but it's the things people do that I hate and still hate just like in the Bible hate the sin not the sinner so maybe we can love ourselves while at the same time hate ourselves for the things we do like we r supposed to be apart of the body of christ and we r supposed to love christ so if we r apart of him then how can we Hate ourselves if it maybe the same as hating him? So we should love ourselves because of the fact we r apart of him but hate ourselves because of our sins but I don't think we should hate the way we look I want to think we should love the bodies God gave us by trying keep it healthy by taking care of ourselves so with that maybe it's not wrong to be confidence in our looks but not be conceited about it and if we don't like the way we look maybe that's where we need help? I'm still struggling understanding alot of things and I'm still trying to change in lot's of different ways and I've been praying for the ability to understand these things and understand people and I think God is beginning to answer these prayers. I still don't want to hate myself but I feel as long as I sin I always will hate myself and maybe I will always struggle with the way I feel about my body as well? But even though I don't have much confidence in myself I can say without a doubt in my mind I have full confidence in Jesus and the truth of the Bible and in the Bible where its says once we leave this world and go to heaven or when Jesus comes back which ever happens first for me it says that their will be no more tears so maybe that means we don't have to hate ourselves at all anymore cuz sin won't exist anymore? And we just have to keep enduring and growing in christ until then.
Hey. I’ll pray for you. But you must know that speaking well of yourself isn’t pride if it’s true. If your trying to boast then it’s sinful but I’d you want to share your accomplishments or talk about something good you’ve done it isn’t wrong. Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.
🙏 God Bless you & thank you I really needed to hear this rn 🥲 I love as I hear the scripture so many questions in my life has been answered through feeling the Holy Spirits unconditional love and the warm comforting feeling in my chest, as I hear or read the Bible.Well for me at least not always immediately but always, when the time is right. 🤲 🤲 God Is Good•God Is King ☮️ 🙏
While u guys are struggling from hair my yourself from your sin, I hate myself just because I hate myself😔everything about me from my personality to the way I look. I hate all of it. I wouldn’t even want to be friends with myself
@Nikki True I also go through the same thing☹️ I think self hatred comes when we start comparing ourselves to others. In that case, we must remember that we are here to accomplish the purpose📜 for which God made us💎 We are not here to be like others or satisfy the world's standards of beauty💄 intelligence, studies, personality, riches, status. Scriptures say that our world🌍is evil, so we must not focus on world's standards but rather focus on selflessly serving God📖✝️ In the end, our bodies will no longer matter but our souls will matter in heaven 🌤️
I understand the Bible more by hearing from Godly men then from what I have read myself. And I have read a lot. I am familiar with mist of the scriptures used to teach by all you good teachers . It just puts what I have read into perspective.
Nothing I just always feel like I will never be good enough, I always struggle with comparing myself to others, like others around me are normal and better than me who is abnormal, examples are, I don’t understand math at all, my attention span sucks I feel like I have adhd, and I always check myself everyday if theres any errors in my life, my appearance, how my body works, I basically have a lot of problems, I just realized I have never accepted myself at all, when I was younger I always wished I never existed because I always felt like i’m the problem, but since I’m a christian I just have to keep living and accept myself and because I don’t want to perish eternally, I guess yeah thats my repetetive sin comparing myself to others, always complaining, anxiety, and negative thoughts. You know what I didn’t want to sin anymore but it’s just hard, I really do struggle with my existence, I know I am good to others but to myself I neglect caring for it, I treat myself too harshly, thinking I can fix myself if I punish myself and treated myself like a pressured soldier, Lord no matter how many times I have sinned I’m sorry, sometimes I thought of just take me instead of my family because I dont wanna sin anymore, and I won’t give any problems to the people around me anymore, but then I thought of what about that future I dreamed of my precious dreams or talents, thats when I should start thinking positively now I shall always mark this on my mind, reverse those evil thoughts into positivity. Lord I hope I can still get through this thank you for always giving me tomorrows, I should’ve always counted my blessing, in Jesus name Amen.
I have a friend who has self-hate and is extremely insecure and not confident in herself but she is a Christian how can I help her and explain to her not to have self hate
God and going to church makes me hate myself. I'm constantly told how awful and imperfect I am and how I deserve to suffer as a sinner. Christianity has made me hate myself
Separate the two the Bible says the kingdom of heaven rejoices when one sinner repents. know that u are valued by God, Jesus and all the kingdom of heaven ur wanted and needed and given value and purpose. Sometimes we just gotta give it all to God and let him take us out of our mental and physical circumstances
Hello dear friend, may I suggest you take a look at Anita Philipps teachings? She’s an incredible trauma therapist, scientist and preacher. Through her God’s love has been revealed to me in a completely new way. Bless you ❤
How on earth can thid be positive to the human psyche! You cannot hate yourself, you'll fall in a deep depression. I reckon love yourself, and hate your sin. Also, you've become a new creation so be lead by love. Love of others and yourself
I'd been struggling with the same thought pattern in the past. But then I realized, I don't belong to myself, I belong to God. He is the One who truly has control over my life, therefore if I hate myself, I basically hate God's creation and what He has chosen to do. God is perfect and He makes everything perfect and we aren't above God to deny that. If God is perfect and makes everything perfect, and God made us, you and me, in His own image, that means we hate a perfect creation. Which is you. That means you want something above perfect which can't happen and it shows ungratefulness. So I won't hate myself anymore and focus on what's important and what truly matters, and that is doing the will of God. I recognize that I am a sinner, but I also recognize that God still loves me, and I won't turn back in the past ever in my life. I'll keep moving forward. It doesn't matter how bad I may seem to myself, I know I'm made in God's own image, and that means I should be like Jesus and do God's will.
@@veray685 I can accept that God's will for me is as a pathetic loser, God IS sovereign, but I doubt i can ever be grateful or happy about being such a minor and worthless vessel.
I can't stop hating myself or my existence. I wish God didn't create me. Now I have no choice but to continue existing either in Heavin or hell. I'm terrified of going to hell but I hate existing. I'm not looking forward to being Heaven either. It's a lot better than hell, not even comparable to Heavin, but i'd still be existing. I wish we actually had a choice. I don't understand why God would give us a free will but not a choice in being created.
I understand, if you ever would like to talk about it.. no judgement you can message me.
I feel the exact same way but never found anyone I could articulate it to. I just wish I never existed. I'm tired. I'm just tired
I feel exactly that same way. I wish my parents had never met. Now I'm here by no choice of my own with a destination to hell because I can't do all the things necessary to serve God. I'm just stuck!
@@ladyreams-butler7306 You are not saved by good works, but only by the blood of Christ. There is no way you can earn your way to heaven; believing in Christ as Lord and savior has already given you salvation. Take heart in this, that your sins are already forgiven through Christ! Yes, good works can serve as proof that we are a true Christian, but it is not what saves us! I will pray for you, that the Lord may bless your heart greatly, in Jesus name, Amen.
@@lizzie3724 I understand how you feel, but understand that the Lord is good and faithful, and certainly understands your sorrow so deeply, that He understands it better than you. Know that we are not saved by good works, but only by the blood of Christ. When we are saved, we can then desire to do good works, but good works do not save us. I will pray that the Lord blesses your heart greatly, in Jesus name, Amen.
God I wish I could go back in time
I believe that all can face self hatred including God’s children. Great word of encouragement Pastor John.
I have dealt with self hated since I was 8 yrs old. I have been a Christian since I was 13 yrs old. This poor self esteem and self hated for over 30 yrs. I don't know how to change it, to get rid of it.
I have found myself at times believing my own self-diagnosis OVER God's pronouncement of forgiveness and acquittal. So for me, my friend, it became a matter of my unbelief in the greatness and goodness of God, and my pride stuck in reverse gear! I sincerely hope you have travelled towards freedom and wholeness and belovedness in the last year... Chris G
I totally understand that. I will the same way. I don't know how to change it. And at times the more church I listen to the more worship music I listen to the worse it gets.
@@wyatt2852this is happening to me and was not happening to me before until now I was really lost and trying to come back but just hate myself so much and don’t know what to do
Hating myself is a result of the circumstance I've put myself in due to the consequence of my sins. They feel inescapable no matter how long ago I turned from my sins. I feel like my purpose is to endure life and finally die as a believer.
I feel the same way. Sometimes I think the pain is too much to handle.
I agree so much.
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I hate this world. The evil that's continually perpetuated by man brings me to tears. From the pedophile rings around the world down to your fellow neighbor and brother lying to your face for no good reason. Mankind is so fallen and when you become a Christian you see mankind for what it is: hopelessly lost without Christ's mercy.
Now pleasures bring me no solace. Temporary joys pass like the rushing river. Thinking about seeking to pleasure myself brings me great pain for only God should please the heart, yet the heart of man imagines only vain and evil things.
I feel as though I am sometimes trapped in my body, trapped in this world, knowing and loving God above all things and wanting to love my neighbor as myself, but being unable to do so for I lack that very love for myself. I wish not to confuse self-pleasure with self-love, but the former is so obvious and the latter so difficult.
But when I focus on my Lord Jesus Christ... my heart finds peace. I long for the day that I leave this temporary world of pain behind for the eternal glory of God the Father. I am 25 years of age and I have long been tired of this world. Please Jesus take me in my sleep soon. I long to be with you forever... amen.
This hit a nerve in me. Because that's how I feel. And it really saddens me to know you are passing through this at such a young age. I also learned to live for Christ. And to accept my tribulations as gain. Like gold purified in fire. There are times when I think of Paul the Apostle. He also suffered this way. But he said, " To live is Christ and to die is gain." And he had it much much worse. He wrote most of his Epistles in a Roman prison . Until his death which he called " ..run the Race." He won that race. Take heart, we will one day be there along with the winners. And our sufferings are temporary. The reward is much greater. I hope and pray you are well. In Jesus Name, Amen!!
I've honestly felt the same way sometimes thinking it would be better to just die and go to heaven and be happy and I'm not afraid to die anymore (but I'm still afraid to die painfully) but I am afraid for what would happen to my family if I were to die before them? I don't know if my loved ones are saved or not and it would break my heart to see them cry for me just like it would break my heart and probably send me into a depression if they were to die without me knowing weather or not ill see them in heaven so I really don't want to die because I know it will hurt my loved ones but also because I want to keep praying for them and talking to them about the truth about Jesus in hopes that they will be saved and I will be able to see them in heaven. I don't like this world but I'm not anywhere close to being ready to leave it like I still got more to learn about the truth and I still need to build up more courage to actually talk about the truth with the hopes of dragging a bunch of people with me to heaven with the first of those people being my very family lol. I fear God cuz he can send me and my family to hell and I love Jesus cuz he can save us from that hell and I love them both cuz they are one in the same (the trendy is hard to understand sometimes lol) but I know everything good I have including my family that I love is from God and I so badly want them and my friends to and even more people to be saved but that's only possible through Jesus and I know not everyone will be saved but I'm scared my family is apart of that everyone and I know all I can really do is pray and trust in God to help bring them to the truth but I'm still scared thinking it won't happen but then I think uh stupid just keep praying and believing it will happen I mean God loves them more then I do and he loves me more then they do and the Bible says if u pray for something and believe God will answer your prayers then eventually he will right so pray everyday for your loved one's and talk to them about the truth when u get the chance 😊.
Lol sorry about this long comment . Your comment just kinda hit me a bit and I started to get a bit emotional and just wanted to let it out abit lol
I need help, I hate myself for my sin. I hate myself that I choose sin every day over the Lord. Despite all he has done for me, I still spit on his spirit. I know Jesus Christ gave his life for us, but that still doesn't make the sin go away does it? I still sinned. I still turned from God. I am forgiven, but my crimes not erased.
You are wrong! Christ has died for you to make you as white as ❄️ snow.
‘Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.’
- Isaiah 1:18
By the love of God you are saved from hell by the blood of Jesus. God is not asking to be perfect, but to repent and believe in his only begotten son.
I see that you are very sorry that you have sinned against God, I think that you just came to Christ and that its hard to stop 🛑 sinning.
The bible says:
‘There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.’
- 1 Corinthians 10:13
Be therefore strong and don’t hate yourself anymore. Its good to hate sin, but hating yourself can be really dangerous.
Read Romans 7 and specifically 7:14-26. Paul was in the same spot. Learn from the bible but be patient. We are not perfect in a day, or a week, or a month, or a year. We always fail at something, be thankful that God has brought a redemption to save you anyways. Its not about our works, but the perfect work of God, the cross.
Know this:
‘And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.’
- Romans 8:28
God is sovereign.
@@jeepjaap7727 thank you. I've began to get over the self-hatred, and you're only helping more. Thank you again. Let the fire of the Holy Ghost burn like a wildfire in your soul!
Pure Testosterone good to hear, and remember: be thankful for the little love you have for God. Be thankful for the little faith you have. Desire for more faith and love but always be thankful for what you have been given from God.
@@jeepjaap7727 Thank you
Why do you hate yourself for your sin? You didn't ask him to be born a sinner did you?
I would give anything to be literally anyone else
It feels like I’m the only one struggling with sin:(
Be still and be loved on. Who do you think you are to desire to be someone else? Is he not the Lord who told you to take heart and be courageous. Fear not for the Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. You are not just loved you are adored. You are beautiful to the LORD. His love is better than life. Drink deeply of the psalms and the gospels slow down and read them and I dare you to ask God before you read them to fill you with joy. You must learn to speak to the Spirit of God to stir him up zealously" are you not the God who saves? Are you not my rock and my fortress? Did you not say ask and you WILL recieve SEEK and you will find KNOCK and the door will be opened. Lord I'm managing on your door and Father I demand you answer me I am your child. And I want to know my Father. Now show me your Glory" be gutsy with God. If your suffering then let him know in this way. And mean! it wring yourself out at his feet and he will show you something. Expectation is faith bold faith.
I'm trying so hard. I hate myself so much. I hate myself
You're not alone. Big hug🤗
Same here
Thankyou pastor for giving me the answer! I will do it! Please come to indonesia !
Reynaldo Wibowo will pray for her and your ministering now.
Lord God Jesus Christ please do Your Will in my Life, that is my only joy, break me even when I cry for Your help and wound my proud heart so that only Your Will be done in my life Lord God Yahweh Abba Father and dear Lord God Holy Spirit make me your slave and envelope me in Your love in Your Way, so that I will spend my eternity with You dear Lord God Jesus Christ, Amen.
There’s nothing I hate more than myself:(
Thank you for this.
Do you still struggle with some of these thoughts? I am afraid myself at times, but I am happy knowing that I am saved through the blood of Christ, and if Christ loves us so much that He is willing to die for us, how can we say that we are not valuable, when the God of the universe bought us with His own blood? This same God of the universe loves us, despite us being infinitely less significant than Him! It is a false statement to say we are worthless, because Christ has given us worth. Sometimes we can forget that. I will pray that, if you are still struggling with anything right now, that the Lord will help you with it, in Jesus name, Amen.
Self hate isn’t good why love others if you can’t do it to yourself and it’s proven if you don’t love yourself you can’t love others
Self hate is easy to have "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God" (Rom 3:23) but by the grace of God we know that we are saved through faith in Jesus.
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But I want to stop sinning so much. Every day.
Thank Reynaldo from Jakarta. This is good for me to hear, I experience this all my life,,
I really really struggle with this. I'm a Christian
Same here man.
I do too, but what would we say to another Christian struggling? Let"s focus on Christ's love today and his goodness. We are covered in Him.
@@lauracostanzo8481 I hear you, Laura, but for me, the self hatred pollutes my perspective of God's love in this way, that He's too good to love me. Self hatred leads to worthlessness and even though I know what scripture says concerning it all, I am always in the Peter mode, "Go away from me Lord for I am a sinful man." Maybe its a mental illness I have, but its something I just can't get unstuck from.
AMEN 🙏🏻 Jesus Christ paid it all so we could live in Him and love God with all our heart!! Gods Love covers a multitude of sins!!! ❤️❤️
Jesus the messiah is a fictional figure posthumously glorified by fake backdated prophecies, fake miracles, fake eyewitnesses, & made up stories like virgin birth, 12 disciples, crucifixion, dead for 3 days, resurrection, & walking on water, which were copied from previously glorified figures like: Horus, Attis, Mithra, Krishna, Zoroaster & Dionysus.
I hate my self because I know the answer and know about God but somehow I confuse myself or say u are lost to myself. I hate that I realize that I sinned but keep sining and I have a panic attack later and feel so ashamed to ask god for forgiveness. I hate this about myself
Love John Piper but this response is pretty far removed from the question. The verses quoted speak of self hate in a way that illuminates loving others more than self and calls us to love God and man more than life itself. Which is an encouragement to me.
Self hatred, self despising, utterly and angrily hating oneself to the point of cursing oneself does not fit here so easily. This kind of self hatred can come from abuse and sexual assault. Some would say, just forgive and hate your life. Yes okay, but still suffering with deep emotional devastation. My response is not so cut and dry either. I’m just hoping for a holistic systematic theological approach.
I know what you mean. There are things in our lives that have caused us terrific pain. My approach is to concentrate only on Christ and ask Him to give me the power to forgive just as he forgave me. The problem is we want to FIX the problem we have with ourselves. He is with us and knows what happened and will guide us. We just leave it in His hand. We will be ok. We just move as the Lord gives us guidance.
praise and glory to our Lord Jesus Christ.
Jesus the messiah is a fictional figure posthumously glorified by fake backdated prophecies, fake miracles, fake eyewitnesses, & made up stories like virgin birth, 12 disciples, crucifixion, dead for 3 days, resurrection, & walking on water, which were copied from previously glorified figures like: Horus, Attis, Mithra, Krishna, Zoroaster & Dionysus.
@@AtamMardes I believe in Jesus Christ not because my parents told me, not because the church told me, but because I've experienced His goodness and mercy myself. from my past, today, tomorrow and always i will believe in him.
@@prinzalocelja4239 I am not saying belief in made up gloried figures gives you happiness. A child is also happy believing Santa Clause is real. Billions of people of other religions achieve the same happiness you do. I am not trying to stop you from being happy, I am just saying they are all made up and you are fooling yourself. cheers
@@prinzalocelja4239 You thank God for your life & the life of the animals killed to feed you. You thank God for choosing you amongst many dead patients to recover from illness. You ignore evolution evidence, but you believe an Adam&Eve story just because a book claims itself to be the holy truth.
@@prinzalocelja4239 *QUESTION:* Are you going to continue being intellectually dishonest & condone how religion uses an imaginary God to fool you into feeling special by exploiting your hypocrisy narcissism gullibility arrogance & ignorance? No offense.
I found it crazy that the caring and loving heart God has given me can only be used on others except myself. Self hatred really is a hard battle to overcome especially when the devil is involved
I would say this, when you look at your sefl from God`s law perspective you will not like what you are("like" is a light word), lets say Mathew 5:27-28. There is a place in this that you can start to hate yourself to much, not your deeds, if you are there turn to your first love that should be Christ and understand
emember how much he has done and suffer couse He\God love`s you (not your sin and deeds).
In time God will make you hate your sin\deeds, like really really hate it, it happend to me and I "can`t" tell how, from loving the bad in Mathew 5:27-28 to hateing it, it scares me to see this in my life(in a good way couse I can`t make make myslelf do that...), but it took some years, patience and waiting for God`s help is crucial, alone we can`t do nothing.
Be glad if your poor in spirit and broken over your sin(wich means that your not blind), be glad becouse of Him who died for you and those thing don`t have power over you !!!
You`l be 100% perfect when you die and God will transform you, for now wait and persevere Saints, ask God constantly to make you grow in holines !
Oh and maybe look and David how he has see himself before God(and yet in his brokennes\shame he knew that in the end he well see God) and read Micah 7: 7-10 to get a picture how to rise from your brokeness\shame, there is a boldness in this, true and sure hope for redemption in Christ Jesus.
Sorry for my bad english, i hope it makes sense.
Thanks a lot 😇😇
I used to be confident and has absolutely no cares in the world but when it became a Christian I've become depressed anxious and I lost all of my self-esteem and I'm even afraid to show even a glimpse of confidence or even talk well of myself because of the fear of God resisting me because he hates proud people
If your remorseful and repent, God won't resist you. He looks at the heart in the present.
Similar thing is happening to me by listening to this gospel of self hate! I think it's actually a ridiculous doctrine.. How can we be told to love others, but hate yourself. Loving yourself will make you confident in this world. We don't need to be depressed and hate ourselves. Love yourself brother. I rebuke this sick doctrine
@reganoryan2292 I hafe disagree and hafe agree the whole self hate thing it just doesn't sound right but I know Jesus talked about denying yourself and follow him but I terk that as in deny your own beliefs of the world and accept the truth or something? I think their has to be a middle ground somewhere but I do know that we should not have confidence in this world cuz this world like it says in the Bible is passing away and is just getting more and more evil I want to pert my confidence in Jesus and in him I can have confidence in the things I do and way I live now I definitely hate the stupid things I do and the good things I don't do I hate the thoughts that I have some times and I hate the facts that it's so hard to change and I hate the way I look but I know I can be more confident in my looks if I just try harder but I don't think no matter what I do I will ever love myself but maybe I could love the way I look more and actually try to take care of the body God gave me. Even though I hate myself I love my family but I hate the things they say and do sometimes just like the way I hate the things I say and do and I have a feeling maybe it's the same for everyone? Honestly for a very very very long time I've hated people because people are just so mean hateful and cruel but some of the thing's they do I've done before to and as I've been struggling to actually love people I'm realizing it's not the people I hated but it's the things people do that I hate and still hate just like in the Bible hate the sin not the sinner so maybe we can love ourselves while at the same time hate ourselves for the things we do like we r supposed to be apart of the body of christ and we r supposed to love christ so if we r apart of him then how can we Hate ourselves if it maybe the same as hating him? So we should love ourselves because of the fact we r apart of him but hate ourselves because of our sins but I don't think we should hate the way we look I want to think we should love the bodies God gave us by trying keep it healthy by taking care of ourselves so with that maybe it's not wrong to be confidence in our looks but not be conceited about it and if we don't like the way we look maybe that's where we need help? I'm still struggling understanding alot of things and I'm still trying to change in lot's of different ways and I've been praying for the ability to understand these things and understand people and I think God is beginning to answer these prayers. I still don't want to hate myself but I feel as long as I sin I always will hate myself and maybe I will always struggle with the way I feel about my body as well? But even though I don't have much confidence in myself I can say without a doubt in my mind I have full confidence in Jesus and the truth of the Bible and in the Bible where its says once we leave this world and go to heaven or when Jesus comes back which ever happens first for me it says that their will be no more tears so maybe that means we don't have to hate ourselves at all anymore cuz sin won't exist anymore? And we just have to keep enduring and growing in christ until then.
Hey. I’ll pray for you. But you must know that speaking well of yourself isn’t pride if it’s true. If your trying to boast then it’s sinful but I’d you want to share your accomplishments or talk about something good you’ve done it isn’t wrong. Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself but thinking of yourself less.
🙏 God Bless you & thank you I really needed to hear this rn 🥲 I love as I hear the scripture so many questions in my life has been answered through feeling the Holy Spirits unconditional love and the warm comforting feeling in my chest, as I hear or read the Bible.Well for me at least not always immediately but always, when the time is right. 🤲
🤲 God Is Good•God Is King ☮️ 🙏
While u guys are struggling from hair my yourself from your sin, I hate myself just because I hate myself😔everything about me from my personality to the way I look. I hate all of it. I wouldn’t even want to be friends with myself
You’re absolutely great. You’re literally royalty
Same:( and I’m a Christian... I feel like I’ve sinned so much because I’ve insulted His creation.
I don't know you at all but if you'd ever like to talk about anything I feel for you and you can message me anytime. take care.
@Nikki True I also go through the same thing☹️ I think self hatred comes when we start comparing ourselves to others. In that case, we must remember that we are here to accomplish the purpose📜 for which God made us💎 We are not here to be like others or satisfy the world's standards of beauty💄 intelligence, studies, personality, riches, status. Scriptures say that our world🌍is evil, so we must not focus on world's standards but rather focus on selflessly serving God📖✝️ In the end, our bodies will no longer matter but our souls will matter in heaven 🌤️
Bible says love your neighbour as yourself. I do not love myself (I hate myself) which means I cannot live my neighbour either.
I understand the Bible more by hearing from Godly men then from what I have read myself. And I have read a lot. I am familiar with mist of the scriptures used to teach by all you good teachers . It just puts what I have read into perspective.
Nothing I just always feel like I will never be good enough, I always struggle with comparing myself to others, like others around me are normal and better than me who is abnormal, examples are, I don’t understand math at all, my attention span sucks I feel like I have adhd, and I always check myself everyday if theres any errors in my life, my appearance, how my body works, I basically have a lot of problems, I just realized I have never accepted myself at all, when I was younger I always wished I never existed because I always felt like i’m the problem, but since I’m a christian I just have to keep living and accept myself and because I don’t want to perish eternally, I guess yeah thats my repetetive sin comparing myself to others, always complaining, anxiety, and negative thoughts. You know what I didn’t want to sin anymore but it’s just hard, I really do struggle with my existence, I know I am good to others but to myself I neglect caring for it, I treat myself too harshly, thinking I can fix myself if I punish myself and treated myself like a pressured soldier, Lord no matter how many times I have sinned I’m sorry, sometimes I thought of just take me instead of my family because I dont wanna sin anymore, and I won’t give any problems to the people around me anymore, but then I thought of what about that future I dreamed of my precious dreams or talents, thats when I should start thinking positively now I shall always mark this on my mind, reverse those evil thoughts into positivity. Lord I hope I can still get through this thank you for always giving me tomorrows, I should’ve always counted my blessing, in Jesus name Amen.
I wish my parents never met.
I've said this myself... But then I thought what if we still would've just been born regardless from another family? Idk
@@Human1136 Hey Jery, that really never occurred to me! Deep, really deep!
Real talk 💯
I hate myself.
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I have a friend who has self-hate and is extremely insecure and not confident in herself but she is a Christian how can I help her and explain to her not to have self hate
God and going to church makes me hate myself. I'm constantly told how awful and imperfect I am and how I deserve to suffer as a sinner. Christianity has made me hate myself
Separate the two the Bible says the kingdom of heaven rejoices when one sinner repents. know that u are valued by God, Jesus and all the kingdom of heaven ur wanted and needed and given value and purpose. Sometimes we just gotta give it all to God and let him take us out of our mental and physical circumstances
I understand ur self hatred I still struggle wit it because of my past trauma and comparison to others
Hello dear friend, may I suggest you take a look at Anita Philipps teachings? She’s an incredible trauma therapist, scientist and preacher. Through her God’s love has been revealed to me in a completely new way. Bless you ❤
The Bible says we are as filthy rags and are mot deserving of God's love.
My attitude sucks
I battle with self hate everyday its not even funny .
i think the bible increased my self hatred by a bit
Life is so unfairley giving out of all the people in the world that could be born why die it have to be me
How on earth can thid be positive to the human psyche! You cannot hate yourself, you'll fall in a deep depression. I reckon love yourself, and hate your sin. Also, you've become a new creation so be lead by love. Love of others and yourself
I hate the me that He made.
I'd been struggling with the same thought pattern in the past. But then I realized, I don't belong to myself, I belong to God. He is the One who truly has control over my life, therefore if I hate myself, I basically hate God's creation and what He has chosen to do. God is perfect and He makes everything perfect and we aren't above God to deny that.
If God is perfect and makes everything perfect, and God made us, you and me, in His own image, that means we hate a perfect creation. Which is you. That means you want something above perfect which can't happen and it shows ungratefulness.
So I won't hate myself anymore and focus on what's important and what truly matters, and that is doing the will of God. I recognize that I am a sinner, but I also recognize that God still loves me, and I won't turn back in the past ever in my life. I'll keep moving forward. It doesn't matter how bad I may seem to myself, I know I'm made in God's own image, and that means I should be like Jesus and do God's will.
@@veray685 I can accept that God's will for me is as a pathetic loser, God IS sovereign, but I doubt i can ever be grateful or happy about being such a minor and worthless vessel.
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