How to tell if someone likes you
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ม.ค. 2012
- Welcome to the Body Language Videos! These series of videos will show you how to read other people's body language, and use yours to succeed in a variety of situations.
Loaded with practical tips, Robert Phipps, TV's #1 Body Language expert and author of Body Language: It's What You Don't Say That Matters, will help you to decode the body language you notice, and pick up on the subtle things you might miss, to lead to success in business and life!
In this video, learn how to tell if that certain someone likes you, and discover how to let them know that you're interested in return. This is fascinating yet easy-to-use stuff that'll help you understand the secrets of body language, use them to your advantage, and become a flirting expert! - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Girls find it super flattering when you tell them straight up how you feel. Just from my experience with guys telling me, I love it when they are completely honest and just makes me more attracted to them. It may seem really scary, but don't build it up to be scary as you think it may be! Just go for it!!
What if she's Muslim and is wearing a hijab? Do I rip the hijab to flick her hair? What if she's bald? Do I flick her eyebrows then?
XD best comment ever
what if she ain't got no eyebrows?!
Oh yes. A flick of an eyebrow can turn a girl (or even a guy) on in an instant
Just play with the pussy hair
That's kinda funny
I tried this and now she thinks I'm a creeper
😂😂
XD
lol xd
lol, XD
CameronXD lol XD
i started off watching motorcycle videos and now I'm here ..
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I started off with games and now i'm here .....
ang93NA i started with football and im in basketball. :I
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is it a bad sign if her pupils shrink so much they virtually disappear. Then her eyes climb out her head and run away? Is she ready to mate or what
XD
Oh my god
yes, she's ready.
If larger pupils are a good sign, then smaller ones would be the opposite. You see it in cartoons all the time, when a character has become repulsed by what they see and they throw up.
It's the same in real life when you spot a person or thing you find revolting; your pupils recede.
This is like national geographic lmao : the men puff up their chest to show attraction
Lol. Us humans are animals after all 😉
I read this in their accent😭
I still need to level up before I unlock the Eye Contact ability. This be too advanced.
Or in my case: a follow request on insta and then eye contact the next day is way too experienced
Took the words right out of my mouth.
***** Oh, so you understood a reference that hardly requires two brains cells, and only because you're a gamer. You must be proud of that achievement.
minty uses advice!
when looking someone in the eyes, just look long enough to process their eye color, if you do it any longer, it's just creepy
I think he likes me... his pupils expanded.... I'm scared.
LOL
Jeez TMI! TMI!
Wow lol
+Mr. Robota Robota XD
me to. he has blue/grey eyes and lately when he looks at me his eyes get bigger
Finally!!! Someone who gives some signals wich aren't the same as in a thousand videos. Thank you so much, i'll make good use of your advice!
The man in the video is engaging and knows what he is saying. I mean look at his body language. :)
I'd freak out if someone I met recently touched my face like that during a talk... or touched my face at all.
I think if someone tried to stroke my jaw bone I would bite there hand and walk off in a pissed manner.
here's then someone who'll be single for 100 years.
What if the person is a shy type? usually avoids eye contact from what I've experience...
I enjoyed your video but could never get through a book on this matter . Your video style and manner is perfect for a video series.
Me: C-Can I pat your b-back?
Him: uh... Okay... *turns a little*
Me: *PAT PAT PAT*
Him: ?
Me: there was a bug on y-your back
Him: You know you could've just said that right?
Me: oh, okay -///- *walks away awkwardly
Does that count as body language and touching?
This comment deserves an award
Awesome!!!
U said my name PAT!
I died laughing to this I'm suing you! For killing me
Jordyn Cameron sewing
HOW TO KNOW IF I LIKE YOU!
1. I will not look at you first
2. I will put my lower lip in between my teeth if you talk to me
3. I will get really hot under your gaze
4. I will blush if you even just brush against me
5. I will be attentive if you are in the room unlike other times when I go into my own world and stare in one direction thinking probably about you.
This really wants me to become a professional body language reader. Thank you for sharing. I am going to get this book the next time I go to book store and if it is there. If not, I will order it.
great video i really..wait a minute..Sting is that you?
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The movement of feet hand and head are also important to define how the other feels.If you are sitting the way that your legs are has also a meaning.Its just so amazing what people can do if they learn finally to use all of there power.And i don't mean only the body language...There several more 'powers' that we can use to make other people do whatever we want.And also the way to make your self popular or desirable...You can do everything if you can control your mind feelings..Just amazing...
I really like this guy who does not go to my school. We play tennis together only in the summer and we see each other around sometimes. He always seems to show off to me, like saying he beat this person, and repeats it again and again to other people loudly when i'm right next to him. He says hi and whats up, and seems to look into my eyes alot. Our parents are best friends, so we get to see eachother more. He compliments me and smiles alot. does he like me? We don't chat that much.
The eye contact thing does NOT work on me. I may be so attracted to someone, but you can't see it on my body language and eyes. I always give people a boring stare like i don't give a fuck and very calm composure in that even when I'm screaming inside, no physical signs can tell. A serious runway modeling does really help to hide your emotions. 😎
Whats with the arm crossing?! I just find it very comfortable DX
ikr
same
JustAn80sGirl it only matches your personality. You're most likely assertive, strong, a leo maybe lol. But really. Crossing your arms can show you have strong beliefs and well thought out too.
I'd say so too. My comment was a year ago yet it is still my most comfortable gesture.
Yaki Tok I'm a Cancer with some Virgo/Sagittarius influences and i cross my arms aloooot !
it works bro. thanks now i finaly know!!!
why all the freaking mind games? just walk over and say hello.
***** not following you
Well hello
Samuel Gallezzo lol you make it sound so simple....but for me its not lol
Vanilla_wafer05 it's not supposed to be simple. That's what makes it so special when you do meet someone. Technology is a good tool but it kind of detracts from interpersonal skills. When I eat out I see couple texting on their phones. Not talking to each other. Eating with someone you love is a special thing. Turn off the phone. Meet people the old fashioned way. Learn if they like you by being around them for awhile. I'm not judging people that use physiology as a cue but my opinion is that the harder you work for something the more you appreciate it.
So hello to you my friend
This was great info thank you :)
This is so interesting!!
Thanks this really helpful
Very awesome video. He said our pupils expand so we can see more of 'the thing we like.' That made me wonder if our pupils expand not only when we like someone but if they also expand when we see something we really like at the store, like a phone you really want or something. I wonder if it's just when there is physical/sexual attraction.
Solid tips!
This guy reminds me so much of Chris Martin from Coldplay lmao
Jill T. lol
Damn it!! I'm not very good at this game!! _leans head back, with chin protecting throat, folds arms looks away_
What about blind people? Are blind people ever attracted to anybody?
to tapeworms
get out.
troll
Quite a lot of blind people are attracted to the sound of the person's voice
ITIsFunnyDamnIT Idiot
Just go for it I missed too many opportunities in school because I was too nervous not knowing is much worse than getting rejected trust me
Sometimes i just FEEL like certain people are looking at me idek if its just me or if its really true??
It happens to me all the time. And to be honest I love being look at but I always give them a look that says i don't give a fuck and move on. 😂😭
i think we all tryed this one it always works.
Nice Tuxedo!
thanks!
I found this guy really funny and didactic
Thankyou! Your book could be useful!
I tried the pupil thing with my crush and he kinda knew that happens and now he looks at me like the guy in my profile pic.
Jack Brownwright, just go for it! You'll be glad you did! :)
i will follow what i feel in my heart,
I LOVE YOU!!!
lol im with you on this one pal
Sometimes us guys, like myself, once we are told someone likes us, we kinda stay away from the female, because we might say something to offend you.
OMG the man said when you are really close frineds after awahile you begin to touch each other and that totally right....
Interesting.
Thanks...now i know all girls like me young or old....
He was the first to initiate hugging. He touches my shoulder a lot and sometimes will be playful and flick my hair. He also teases me, says he loves to make me laugh; and we definitely look into each other's eyes when talking, BUT ... WITH ALL THAT SAID/WRITTEN... I'm always the one to initiate contact. He always bails when I MAKE the plans to hangout (never has he). He is a flirt in general, he has said it. And he is in between wanting/not wanting a relationship (in general/not talking about me). Plus, when I have asked him about us, he is answers a question with a question. I like him and this KILLS ME. I want to be over him terribly already.
if he liked you and wanted to be with you, when you ask him about relationships he wouldnt give you the impression he doesn't want one. I'll give you a tip. the person who cares the less or at least acts like they do has all the power in a relationship regardless of what type that relationship is. there are tons of ways to go about showing you care less. so if he does has even the slightest bit of feelings for you. you can use my tip as a way to get him.
+Scott Dayton I have heard about that, caring less I mean, but I'd rather be with someone who cares equally than more or less. Intimacy, created by vulnerability and security is my desire in a relationship. I'm no longer young enough to play games, so I got tired and moved on, but I appreciate your tips though! 😊
Completely unrelated and I don't know why I'm hype about it, but he has my last name. Yay!
We need to be aware about the ''touch'' sign,because I'll touch a lot of people without having any romantic or sexual interest in them.We need to remember that they're some people that are naturally Flirtatious and just SUPER nice,so be extremely careful with this kind of people.I guess that the best way to know if someone is interest is to see if they actually treat you like something exclusive(If they give you a lot of their time,that's a strong sign).At the end of the day,the best way to know is if they tell you and even then you need to be aware because not everybody that says I love you,means it.
what about if you both look at each other and then quickly back down or another position?
I love the way Jesus Christ designed the human body to react between a man and a woman. It is so awesome. Romance
One issue that I never see the experts address is that pupil dilation can be hard to see in people who have very dark brown eyes that look black, such as my own.
+Bruno Johnson there are many flaws to that. 1, it's not that easy to ask it for some people. 2, the person could deny it even if they do like you. And 3, even if they do say yes, it could be really awkward because one of you might have to wait to be a certain age to date.
i think my coworker like me. he was looking at me.and smile.
I can never see the pupils dilating shiz because my crush's eyes are either always looking away when I look at him or his eyes are TOO DAMN SMALL!
I went up to my crush and told her I liked her. The next day when I was walking home from school she stabbed me in the back 12 times. Does she like me?
Yes.
Passionately, it seems.
God, I must be so obvious lol. There's a guy I like and last time we were talking I kept running my hands through my hair XD
+φ First-order logic LOL. I don't have a crush on him anymore so it doesn't matter!! XD
GG no re
Gotta love the snot under his nose
where can i get the book?
Thx
maybe a dermatologist if i´m suffering a bad case of acne...
Finally a video that I understand! No need to search randomly on youtube now!
Now time to find a gf!
please someone help me... i dont think my crush likes me but we will never because we are BOTH shy so we will be too shy to talk to eachother which is bad because thats the only crush i have..... :'(..............
As long as its not too early, then it might just get awkward.
how can i be sure that her pupils expand because of me...there's one girl that has a boyfriend that she is happy with and said she loves him after a month of relationship but everytime i talk to her her pupils expand...could it be general interest because im the funnyest person in our generation (said by others, not me)
+jura pura She probably just finds you interesting... The pupil expansion can just be linked to a rush of adrenaline; for example an exiting/funny topic. Pupils expand for numerous reasons and that alone is NO INDICATOR.
What the guy was explaining was how our bodies react; so yes pupils dilating is one thing that happens. But it has to be followed by OTHER CUES for you to conclude they dilated BECAUSE she's attracted. Otherwise it's just a response that could have been triggered by many other things :/ and since you did not mention any other cues... I doubt she is "attracted" to you that way.
Does this go for someone if they find someone ATTRACTIVE???
so if i get out some crisps, my pupils will expand?
When I stared at him for 5 seconds because he was staring at me already, I could see his eyes change into 2 black spots. I think it were his pupils and then he looked away awkwardly and bounced his head to the beat of the music acting cool but he looked shy or awkward.
What if I have bad eyesight and can't tell whether if those pupils are expanding or not without leaning too close giving them a creepy feeling? XD
Makes sense!I trust this science of human interactions!
i have this guy i REALLY like but i'm nervous that he'll reject me. how do i tell him so he doesn't reject me? btw i think he likes me too
If you are like me, then eye contact is a hard thing to do. I can't look into someone's eyes for long (If I decide to at all) it's only a few seconds then I look at something else or I'll look down at my feet or something. Even if it's someone I like, I still can't make eye contact for long. It's always been that way.
Ghost Fusion unfortunately that may not help you much with makeup and impression. It makes you look like your hiding something.
Domelody do you have watery/ dry eyes problems?
i was watching LAHWF and ended up here
when ever I'm around a setant girl in school I feel shy and whant to talk to her but nothing comes out but hi or never mind what do I do
Never felt so exposed lol
ok where do start when you see some one you feel likes you? as I my self find it hand to make the 1th move :( ?
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She looks at me on the street but I'm always too nervous when I see her, we are friends on Facebook but never talk and when she is looking at me she never smiles and never touches her hair, does she hate me?
I never get the second eye contact...
I met this person at the gym. We don't speak to each other but we've done eye contact a few times. It's getting uncomfortable cause we still don't talk after 3 years
Idk but if I were you I'd try to get close to him and make a situation to start a conversation!
i will. thanks
Damnit. I can't even get into a bar yet
does distance matter???
And.... all of this goes out the window when you meet an 'aspie' or someone with Aspergers syndrome or is on the autistic spectrum. I laughed when some guy thought he could 'read me like a book' and after about half an hour of conversing, he exclaimed, 'you're weird! You don't seem to have regular body language'. Well, duurrr. And the worst part is I tell people that I am ASD and the 'normal rules do not apply' yet people, especially men' will still try to use sarcasm and 'flirt'.
I know how to hide my crushes now
The person i like walks over too me a bunch and does this stuff does she like me? Also she play fights with me just like a little punch. Pls reply i want to know
Ok my little niece is having trouble knowing she is 13 and there "going out" is texting each other and sitting next to each other at school haha anyway she says he always stares right into her eyes when he talks to her and taps he leg when he's trying to get her attention and says he ALWAYS talks to her walks with her playfully punches her and this one time he made her the cutest rose made out of paper can someone tell me if he likes her or not i don't want to give her the wrong info
I just came here for the "pupils will expand"
lol click bait wtf😤😭😭
This is crazy... is this the same guy in Vanilla Sky who was in charge of Lucid Dream? haha
You got me a girlfriend. Thanks!
Yeah there is allot of things that girls thinks are cute. But to be cute can also kill attraction so is important to be careful.
Im a lesbian and I told a straight girl liked her by text (we had been friends for a while now) and she said she loved me too. Although whenever I bring up the subject (by texting) and ask what kind of like she meant she says she's getting creeped out. Although she always seems to be flirting with me but then going on about her heterosexuality. I have told I loved her lots of times but only ever once got a response. Can anyone help?
so according to this, no one likes me...wow...
Haven't you been eyed up by anyone before?
Don't black women eye you up, since you're pretty dark looking?
Barrios Groupie LOL, i am not dark looking, its just the picture, and no one eyes me up, doesnt matter really
Barrios Groupie dude you are stereotyping and being racist. this is like your second offensive comment on this one video alone. you're being ignorant and insulting you should stop and recognize what you are doing.
what if a girl touches me, I touch her in a similar way and then she starts to kind of ease up on the flirting. I don't get it.
You did it too aggressively. At a friend's party, she put her arm around my waist and i figure it was just some chick brain thing where they just touch people a lot for no reason. I put my arm around her waist gently. Her's was more grabby and mine was more like a whatever touch and she smiled and backed up smiling while looking at me, indicating she wanted me to follow her, which I didn't because I'm illiterate in terms of body language, lol. In terms of attraction, I write well but I don't read well.
My buddies always make fun of me for missing signals. Most chicks send signals to me but in the moment, I don't get what they're doing, so i'm not being aggressive, which works to a degree... though if I never figure out they want more than a friendship, they get mad and cause some giant public scene.
Point is, chicks prefer a confident passiveness, where you just stand there and let them do their little dance for awhile before pouncing. PS: I'm only talking about chicks that are 7-10 on the hotness scale. Busted ones are different because they're more desperate and I don't know how to deal with them - their aggression/desperation scares/turns me off.
Who in the world starts touching another persons face when you first meet them?? That's straight up weird
I am actually very subconsciously aloof and standoffish. I know I look intimidating but then I hate the alternative! I actually am really obsessive about my crush but I'm really worried about giving off my typical vibe. What if I turn them off? Sometimes I literally do the "typical girl body language" INTENTIONALLY in order to try and send the message. I'm worried I'm scaring him... if I were him I'd get confused.... HELP (or at least give an honest opinion on how you'd feel or what I should do)!
Don't be afraid to put yourself out there a bit -- take a risk. Open up a little more each time you see him. It can be as simple as smiling, making eye contact, bringing attention to your lips (biting/licking them), staring at his lips (Do the 'triangle' look over. It's never failed me. Stare into his eyes, look at his left eye, then his right eye, to his lips, then back again. This signals you want to kiss and usually they take it (; ).
Don't cross your arms or legs as this signals disinterest. Open up your posture. Expose your neck by flipping your hair or lifting your head, and like the man said in the video, show your inner wrists.
Now I'm aware in the present moment, this slips the mind and you probably won't be thinking about it. Smelling good always captures others attention and makes you more attractive, so there's another tip. Don't be afraid to talk to him first or ask for his number/Social media so you can get to know each other better. It's really easy to get a guy to like you.
+Casmira Zeviani Thank you!! This helps me a lot.
What's the current status on things?
What grade?
Sort of, don't touch a girls face unless you've atleast talked to her for a month or over a month, and have got all the signals she likes you then you can touch her face. If you do this without waiting atleast a month, yes, you will get called a bad word;)
The game,it's complicated...
so many people forget that body language isn't 100% so they get pissed when they hear some tips and tricks. Learn it first.