Body Language Exercises in the Streets - with Strangers who don't expect it!

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  • @lhonlymllx3655
    @lhonlymllx3655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Clip 4: I thought that he was acting more kind of playful, bashful about the girl being a dominant in the relationship that was my gut feeling

  • @KatkaJessie
    @KatkaJessie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    i would like to know if the big guy had confirmed, that he is the leader....because i´m pretty sure, that the girl is the BOSS :))

    • @5Siver
      @5Siver 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      KatkaJessie i know right?

    • @heltunikt
      @heltunikt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Totally agree.

    • @anastasiaantoneac3094
      @anastasiaantoneac3094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same thought

    • @katrinaweaver8486
      @katrinaweaver8486 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah the way she was blushing and the way they looked at each other gave it away I'd say she's the leader

    • @xhuljanalezi6857
      @xhuljanalezi6857 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope, I think she is an independent woman comfortable in her relationship. Definitely their body language shows they have a healthy relationship!

  • @malikabdullah8249
    @malikabdullah8249 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    In Clip 8, there is some information from the lady. She, even though using the shawl, she has her arms folded, standing in an authoritative pose, head cocked forward, and eyes fixed, and I bet that she is standing broad, with feet either at or wider than shoulder width apart. This was pretty much the same pose that I saw from my drill instructors in the Army.
    She stands this way, if needed, to bark out commands, or give eye glares. This also a mom's pose.

    • @redfiree5062
      @redfiree5062 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      (I know I'm late) The male also has his hands in his pockets, which is a sign of insecurity and anxiety.

    • @georgouspeach
      @georgouspeach 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Malik Abdullah she's blocking too

    • @Ajesen
      @Ajesen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@redfiree5062 are u kidding me lol

    • @KTFREACTS
      @KTFREACTS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@georgouspeach yeah but the woman is giving the dominant body language vibes

  • @TimeWizard727
    @TimeWizard727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    In clip 8, the older couple definitely thought that the interviewer were making a sexual related question at first, hence the look of superiority. When they realize it's not, then comes the surprise, and them both laughing, the man's sly look at his wife and the the wife looking subtly at the camera. Agreeing with anothers comment who mentions the wife's guarded power pose, it's clear who rules the relationship outside of the bedroom here between these two.

  • @dariawells7438
    @dariawells7438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is neat. In Clip 2, I also noticed the woman looked away a few times when the beach holiday was mentioned like, "Meh, I'm bored with this option, let's hear another option." She did not look away at all when the active holiday was mentioned.
    The big boyfriend guy did the same look down when his relationship was mentioned. Would this be considered a "negative" microreaction?

  • @meethealthy_lori7548
    @meethealthy_lori7548 7 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I thought the girl was the boss in clip 4

    • @barbararplv
      @barbararplv 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      me too

    • @unkowngambler6706
      @unkowngambler6706 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I really think so as well. He looks at the girl first and is also looking to the left toward her without turning his head. He seems pretty anxious as well.

    • @samishrimp4907
      @samishrimp4907 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree

    • @vafode
      @vafode 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yeah ur right, wtf is the dude unto

    • @lolothe2nd
      @lolothe2nd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      mabe she just makes him feel like a leader

  • @tamastorok9306
    @tamastorok9306 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hello!
    I'm a huge fan of these body language exercises / micro facial expressions, very happy to find your channel. Are there any chance to upload more these kind of videos?
    All the best!

  • @danyael2065
    @danyael2065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Please make more videos like this. I'm learning a lot.

  • @TateTheTalisman
    @TateTheTalisman ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Can you do more of these excersizes in the streets? This is really entertaining.

  • @fyoloswaggins5203
    @fyoloswaggins5203 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    for the leader role conversation, they were both showing signs of happines but what gave it away was the girls brief sadness lip press and the look away moment

  • @utuber8363
    @utuber8363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really started to learn after watching ur vedios sir... Thank u

  • @abryant5258
    @abryant5258 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You should show the answers, clip 4 had some mixed answers based on actual body language. He wasnt dancing, he was leaning towards her and even faces her to engage her. He almost turns away as if to say "they dont need me"

  • @galvanizedcorpse
    @galvanizedcorpse 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice thanks!, but of course the scenario changes from people being actually willing to find out what they like the most, vs the scenario of people actually trying to hide their reall thoughts... of course i get this one is for beginners and i learnt a lot thanks

  • @magictrick8833
    @magictrick8833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Very clearly” lmao

  • @jaketh1729
    @jaketh1729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have been studying body language and micro expressions since my adolescence and I can tell you that the clip number 4 his more nuanced than that.
    Yes he have happy feet but he have them since the beginning of the video...so we can't take this this for a sign because this is his baseline.
    When the interviewer say "one quite happy to follow", the guy look down and the girl show a little bit of anger at the same time (from this angle of camera) maybe it's sadness but she is too at the side for being sure of that.
    Also you must take into account his posture, hands in front of his part...maybe this is a standard position for him or maybe he feel uncomfortable.
    We need to hear it from them, who is the real leader in this relationship.

    • @halimas7330
      @halimas7330 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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      Translate 🌱

    • @baekhyuneee5965
      @baekhyuneee5965 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is the leader, another point is that some of us women like to make the man feels like he is the dominant even if he is actually not

    • @jaz11girl
      @jaz11girl 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

  • @stefanocatalano1501
    @stefanocatalano1501 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice video!
    Keep posting them :)

  • @Vidyut_Gore
    @Vidyut_Gore 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    In your clip 8, you don't even need the question or microexpressions. The woman is in a position indicating control and evaluation of the interviewer. The man's body posture is more of an intermediary between them. He likes the interviewer, is interested in the interview and hoping the woman with him approves. Paying attention to both, though he's only being interviewed by the interviewer. He's checking with the woman. The woman is responding for herself. No approval needed. Facing the interviewer. Ignoring both cameraman and man. She is not all that impressed by the interviewer.

    • @duttatreyapandey4175
      @duttatreyapandey4175 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vidyut Gore a pretty thorough and insightful observation.

    • @AlexanderNathan2346
      @AlexanderNathan2346 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eh, I felt that they both had a very powerful/serious demeanour but I think that’s also just due to the age. Either way, his reaction and laugh showed me immediately that she held the power aswell as his little glance lol. But after watching the clip and going back, she definitely has more overt confident body language. They both seem rather confident people though.

  • @NoajmIsMyName
    @NoajmIsMyName 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That old lady look like my grandma lol.

  • @cidaoaparecido4162
    @cidaoaparecido4162 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    haha that big guy acting like a little boy around his girlfriend

    • @AterNyctos
      @AterNyctos 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      br? (ಸ‿ಸ)

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    • @theamericanwellbeing
      @theamericanwellbeing 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      what would he have to do bastard?

  • @leeboriack8054
    @leeboriack8054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great videos for navigating the human experience. This will help a lot of people living with aspergers or autism.

    • @kelcamer
      @kelcamer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed it really is helping me tremendously

  • @arch3mi_22
    @arch3mi_22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In Clip 2, the woman tilted her head when the student was talking about the beach. This means distrust or unbelief.

  • @eddiebear34
    @eddiebear34 6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    In clip 4 I'm getting the signals that the guy is attracted to your student

    • @lhonlymllx3655
      @lhonlymllx3655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eddie Bruce me kind of as well lol

  • @emanuelefaraoni4674
    @emanuelefaraoni4674 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    About example 4 it seemed to me like the big guy thought he was the leader of the couple, while the girl knew she was but that was lovely he thought so. Isn't that realistic or am I just seeing wrong? Thanks in advance if you answer.

    • @fyoloswaggins5203
      @fyoloswaggins5203 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      she showed a little sadness when the student was mentioning the lead role thats when i got the clue that she wasn't the leader

    • @nomanulhaqkhan8135
      @nomanulhaqkhan8135 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      And she looked at him before laughing

    • @baekhyuneee5965
      @baekhyuneee5965 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah some women like to make the man feel dominant even if he is actually not and she knows it

    • @jaredlaird4191
      @jaredlaird4191 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The guy was and the if you watch the girl close. She does show some sadness and then her lips form a line in anger. And also, she doesn't like meat, well it looked like disgust, but could be her feelings toward the student. He should have covered her reaction as well...

  • @isaiahburns4616
    @isaiahburns4616 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think at 5:58 you can also see the guy's jaw slightly jut forward at the mention of spicy food, signaling very slight anger, you can also see him swallow, which may be a reflex thinking of spicy food?

  • @zaynrobert416
    @zaynrobert416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    for what subject is this ?

  • @mila2428
    @mila2428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Missing a very obvious tell that the first couple prefer active holidays. Their clothing. He’s wearing a camo hoodie & she’s wearing a sports top from Decathlon =0)

    • @mellotune7
      @mellotune7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think that makes the inference stronger. There are people who wear athletic clothing who are not at all athletic. Her appearance and her micro expressions in combination make a stronger inference of which holiday she would prefer.

  • @mayleespann4552
    @mayleespann4552 ปีที่แล้ว

    what’s funny to me is that I’m not fast yet at recognizing microexpressions but I am pretty adept at making evaluations about people based on their face, clothing, body shape and stance. I could have told you without the conversation that the first woman would enjoy an active holiday much more than a beach one. However, microexpressions are way less vague, but you have to be fast.

    • @mayleespann4552
      @mayleespann4552 ปีที่แล้ว

      In clip 4 the guy shows contempt when vegetarian was mentioned, haha

  • @thomasbelichick3297
    @thomasbelichick3297 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could anybody help me with the facial expressions of the difficult ones?. For example, in Clip 1 I'd like to read the facial micro expressions of the guy in the left side of the screen.

  • @othomas4592
    @othomas4592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's very frustrating that you are cutting off the clips before the people actually provide the answer...

  • @ashwinprasanth8158
    @ashwinprasanth8158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HOW CAN A PERSON OBSERVE ALL THE CUES IN REALTIME SPEED?

  • @patgedeon
    @patgedeon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In the Clip 2 it's an active holiday for the woman. But from the body language of the man I would say he would prefer the other one. Am I right?

    • @MushrathChoudhury
      @MushrathChoudhury 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pat Gedeon the woman also touches her face when the student mentions cafe. I think that means she doesn't like coffee?

    • @phoenixbae3310
      @phoenixbae3310 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think for the woman it was more disinterest. It was an "I'm not interested in this part what's the other part".

    • @mellotune7
      @mellotune7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phoenixbae3310 Agreed, her gaze also shifts a few times away from the interviewer during that part of the question - one obvious sign someone is not giving their full attention because they're not interested

  • @bepanimations850
    @bepanimations850 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you mean by "we dont have much information" on the lady?

  • @Xtazation
    @Xtazation 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    10:34 im not an expert but the lady crossing her arms indicates she is not really in the mood to answer her she let him do the work which means he is the dominant one

  • @onee
    @onee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Could you tell me what you're supposed to do with body language. I mean I can kinda read it, but it's still pretty useless for me, it is like knowing how to recognize a broken car, without learning how to fix it.

    • @PatrykWezowski1
      @PatrykWezowski1  7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      to learn to fix a broken car, you need to follow a course and practice. it's the same with body language ;)

    • @willtestoi6739
      @willtestoi6739 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's very handy for lie-detection

    • @jaredlaird4191
      @jaredlaird4191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When in clusters yeah

  • @acevergel1999
    @acevergel1999 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    In Clip 4 i think the Guy is the boss on Significante decisions on Relationship but the Woman do Some Decisions and i think thats the reason he look at her between the question.

  • @catarinarodrigues4829
    @catarinarodrigues4829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:43
    Is that Sheldon?

  • @fojigods2061
    @fojigods2061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👈this man in the profile is the ma.ster of body language

  • @MysitcSoul
    @MysitcSoul 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    By looking at her, we can conclude she is athletic with no effects of sun on her face. She will go hiking or better active sport.

  • @HupfDole87
    @HupfDole87 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    at the end the taller guy is the leader and the smaller one is like second in command, cause he looks at his friend and his friend seems to be more relaxed and natural while he is more tense. the girl on the right seems to show a bit of negative emotions i think, lips are pressed together, maybe sadness, contempt, anger.the guy on her right barely moves so i guess he is rather low ranking, cause he really tries to be still so he doesnt get noticed. just my two cents so i could be totally wrong.

  • @blondefish2417
    @blondefish2417 ปีที่แล้ว

    In clip 4 the girl is quite disgusted by the way probably because of jealousy.

  • @Delsey77
    @Delsey77 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I guessed most of them wrong😔

  • @sivabharathik5703
    @sivabharathik5703 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤔-------🤨

  • @AnGel-tf9wg
    @AnGel-tf9wg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    She looks disgusted when the topic was dominantation the relationship. ~ 8.13 or sth like that

    • @idrissk6002
      @idrissk6002 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      3 years later, yeah I think you're right.