3 Scientific Tips To Detect Lying | How To Spot Lies Using Body Language
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- www.realmenreal... - Click here to read 3 Scientific Tips To Detect Lying
www.realmenreal... - Click Here to help us create our new Body Language Course
www.realmenreal... - Click here to discover Advantage Body Language
Are you ready to up your style? Click here for the BEST style course on the planet! thestylesystem...
Video Summary:
1:12 - Step no.1: Establish a baseline
2:56 - Step no.2: Spot differences and identify clusters
5:47 - Step no.3: Dig deeper
🔴 www.missionfragrances.com/yt - Mission Fragrances - Performance Enhancing Colognes specifically formulated to help you reach Peak Performance!
www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/ - Click here to read 3 Scientific Tips To Detect Lying
www.realmenrealstyle.com/body-language-course - Click Here to help us create our new Body Language Course
www.realmenrealstyle.com/advantage-body-language - Click here to discover Advantage Body Language
I almost never get out but my hubby lies to me 24/7 he GASLIGHTS me he continues lying when presented w proof
interesting points ,if anyone else wants to learn about try Sarparder Catch Cheats Starter (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my partner got great success with it.
Mabuhay!❤ I love your channel. 🙏💖💕
What if he is lying to us
he isn't i am pretty good at spotting lies and no shows none of the tells. which means that he is telling the truth as he knows it.
+NiteOwl wow ok
Dr.Fails911 yeah its part of being hearing impaired we are very good at watching body language because we have to so we can understand. as we watch we pick up on a lot that most miss and start putting two and two together
+NiteOwl k
this is some inception level comment.
Man if this guy doesn't look like a car salesman.
KICK-ROCKS *slaps rooftop of the car
This bad boy can fit so many lies
He’s definitely lying
Using these techniques I've discovered that Stephen Hawking always tells the truth.
+nmurphydc1 :) I like this comment!
Lmfao
You win the internet today with this comment
LMFAO
Yeah he spoke directly from his mind loll
Now to use this video to become a better liar.
+Hawkins butrej Hahaha :)
Overwhelmingly Handsome Jack Noooooo
Overwhelmingly Handsome Jack to be honest that's what I was looking at these videos for to lie better to where people don't know great minds think alike
Overwhelmingly Handsome Jack LOL
Hodgee3 Exactly.
As somebody who gets nervous and self conscious very quickly, I'm not a big fan of these body language tips.
Sometimes I'm just not comfortable when put on the spot even if I'm telling the truth.
In my opinion it's a very slippery slope to assume you are being lied to up to 200 times a day (which I think is an awfully inflated number made up by pseudo-scientists, but that's another story).
My point is: you can never know what's going on inside peoples' heads. They might just be caught up in their own world.
+PeterPwn! Good point. Follow this process and you will become a much better lie detector. www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/
Yup
My hubby doesnt flinch looks me straight in the eyes no guilt no remorse flat out lies and keeps lieing when presented w proof
@@brendabernier5096 He probably a Psychopath lmao
@@DM-qh6zq I bet HE IS
did someone lie to him and tell him that tie color was a good choice!?
He was on the right track with the shirt and handkerchief... idk abt the jacket tho tbh
Look at the torso
Him: *looks at her torso*
Her: *thinking he's a perv*
I am bulgarian and I don't know what you are talking about. :D
Абе брат ние си мърдаме главата настрани като сме съгласни и на горе/ надолу какато не сме. А останалите хора правят обратното.
Its true tbh
Normally when someone describes their reasoning in wayyyyy too much detail, they are lying.
Not true
Yes my hubby over kills on details
It depends on how logical they are naturally. The more logical the person is the less likely this is to be true
:LMAO... "It is usually the liar who accuses others of lying, for the greatest lie Man has ever told is that He doesn't lie." - Sickology
"She wants to support me running my business" *shakes head in denial*
"I practiced on my wife and I'm still married." my favorite line.
Litmus Test: Where Were You When You First Heard A 9/11
why is he only speaking to men what am I missing?
My brother did sum dumb and Ik I ant do it so I’m not trynna get in trouble
ADD person touches everytime, moving around, not looking.. and response slow.. so this may not work.. any suggestion for ADD person lying?
This is a lot to think about when also thinking about what is being said, but still it is important. I think this comes almost naturally to many women.
+Ian Mayman Yes but it is kinda like when you started to drive a car. Lots of concentration and things to observe and remember. Now you don't even think about all the things you are doing and thinking about.
You can tell by your own instincts...duh!! some of this is crap.
Do you think I lied to you this morning? Do you believe that I would do that?
Let me know somehow person who has me in her hands
Let me know if after circle and child k
K… that dream was the most beautiful moment I’ve had in years
I belong to no one
But I will embrace the hatred
nice suit bru
I'm really bothered about the striped dress shirt and the polka dotted pocket square.
these tips are all good and fine but when caught in a lie and confronted..these people make it all about you "you made me do this because" and it ends up that you get called names because they cannot defend themselves from their lies..things get brought up from 20 years ago and nobody gets anywhere..people like this we really need to get far away from no matter how sorry we feel for them and whatever obligation we feel
because they won't seek treatment
One more point of clarification:
For all of those that are not Bulgarian (like me) I thought you might find this helpful: th-cam.com/video/6Gipj1caZUg/w-d-xo.html
Also there is something called the Indian head nod and here is a video that helps explain it in a funny way. th-cam.com/video/Uj56IPJOqWE/w-d-xo.html
+Kyle Mcnatt Thanks Kyle!!! And for anyone ready go check out Kyle's website on body language here advantagebodylanguage.com/
I can not stop staring at that pocket tie!
+George Simons What's your take on it?
I mean no offense, but I think it does not complement your outfit. Imo if it was a bit lighter blue/greenish, would have been just perfect!
He never responded. I think he took offense
George Simons he fired his stylist after this video
What if you setup your baseline when someone is lying to you? That way you won't be able to identify the lie because it will be your baseline for that person.
+TheWortex Start with the physical baseline, then audio baseline and lastly, an emotional baseline. www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/
I'm trying to figure if this individually soul is lying to me right now! My gut got me wide open right because I'm not feeling it. I feel like its bullshit straight and today could be the day that ass gets CAUGHT and dealt with for real
oh.. now I get it why my therapist says that my body language is very interesting... At the session I show signs of being nervous / defensive, calm, confident, worried, and then the lies.. :D sometimes I try to control myself and sit still but that's too hard to keep and eye on yourself while having a conversation. And then I use some lies to skip issues that may be to hard for me to speak about. Liked the video! :)
‘I practiced on my wife’…. 😂 the person you trust the most obviously!!
I noticed that these tips require some time invested on the observation of a particular individual, which is great if you actually interact with that person on a regular basis. However, if I may make a suggestion, I'd like to mention 3 cues that I've learned with trying to spot deception:
1) Fidgety body; because of the adrenaline of doing something you perceive as bad.
2) Disparities between body language and speech; like you said at one point, your mouth says one thing but your face another.
3) Evasion, like before, since the person might feel like they're doing something bad, their body posture might lean away from you, they won't keep eye contact, etc.
These are like a lighter, faster way of detecting deceptions with strangers or people you don't know very well but, if you'd like to be more certain, an in depth analysis like the one talked about in this video is essential.
I really liked this topic.
Thanks!
+Oscar Roque Yeah - it is a limitation...........
Brown blazer, purple striped shirt, solid forest green tie, and a blue polka dot pocket square? This guy has ZERO fashion style, that combo is a visual TRAIN WRECK. A business giving men style tips? Clearly, HE is the one who is lying.
He didn't say anything different, n he is so interested in making money from this ..
I only lie to protect people
Theres no sure fire way to tell if someone is lieing. Ppl get nervous over anything. Go to the doctor have your blood pressure taken. One time years i had to take a lie detector test for a job i failed . I had AFib.
Best way of figuring out if someone speaks the truth, is to have them tell the story, then ask some control questions. Then a day or two after, ask them to tell the story again, and ask some control questions about that. If there are major inconsistencies, then they may be lying. There's no foolproof 100% way of telling if someone is lying, though. Some body languages can be useful in addition too, especially signs that they are nervous or suddenly uncomfortable. When people are nervous or uncomfortable, they often do something to feel they have control over something, like rubbing your arm, tapping fingers/hands/feet, moving the legs a lot etc. Good liars tell a story in a simple, short, easy to remember way, and force themselves to sit/stand in a relaxed manner, without moving a lot, and looking you straight in the eyes.
+DonQuixotec Exactly! Start with a physical baseline. www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/
I want to know who has stolen my notebooks
This is all a complete load of BS. In completely controlled conditions the ability to detect lies is extremely poor. It is generally only a little bit better that chance. The best forms of detection involve analysis of content in statements and this generally can get 70% accuracy in a laboratory. This is only 20% better than a coin toss and means you will be incorrect 30% of the time. Through the methods outlined by this clown, you will detect lies no better than someone tossing a coin to decide.
This guy is creapyyy af
You spelled "creepy" incorrectly. Not judging.
jj hilestt nope, he isnt creepy. He is creapyyy
After I texted my gf she came back with a "I can't find him I've tried calling him" I asked her who is him but he said nothing ;-; is she cheating?
It could be a dog
i just laughvalways when i am lying. is that normal? and please dont make dumb comments.
Vladimir Putin.
Btw saying "plz don't make dumb comments" will only encourage someone to say something dumb😂
Joe Navarro and Vanessa Van Edwards go over this.
+baxtermaxtor Yes they do!
well made, nicely explained, very clean video. Nice job and thanks for the hints
In case anyone was wondering about what Antonio was referencing, in Bulgaria we actually nod when we are replying negatively, and shake our head for a positive response
+Adrian Ivanov Hi Adrian - thanks for the clarification. :)
OMG! Style??? This man has ZERO fashion sense. Who dressed him? Dr. Suess? Hahaha. Pretty basic stuff and that outfit is a lie.
Ken Well, I was thinking the same thing. The incongruence of colors of his outfit suggest incongruence of thought, or some reasons to lie.
Final step: Hack the person's social media accounts and see if they're lying about their social security number and credit card
my friend always lie so i wanna spot him out. i gonna make him nothing.
completely unrelated but where do you get your blazers i want some. odd blazers/sports coats but i have difficulty finding any
+John Dersion Here are my recommended brands: www.realmenrealstyle.com/resources/
+Real Men Real Style awesome thanks! didnt realize some of them did blazers and sports coats.
800th liker do i get a prize haha
+Becca Gerrie Hahaha...stay tuned. :)
Hey Antonio do you have a list with book recommedations? I would love to read something about business, marketing,.. and such to get introduced to the topic. I know there are a lot of people with channels about books and stuff, but you're one of my favorite youtubers so I wanted to ask you.
Ow and nice job on the cliffhanger (perhaps not the right word) acccording the amount of times we get lied to daily :D
+Hywooz zoowyh Go check out the article www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/
Like Governor of Jakarta Now?? Can u see He lie or not every him speak?
3 ways: he's a lawyer, he's a cop, he's a politician?
I generally don't care because the people who lie to me are people who are not close to me, they are people who I'm only going to see once and never see again. I also find irony in the lies that they tell me because they are already living artificial lives to begin with.
+Fate Nightroad Point taken. :)
Why is lying approached as a scientific concept and not a philosophical one?
Tnx! Ima bout to grill his ass like some bbq! 🙂👍🏽
How do people tell that I'm loyal straight away that's strange
90% accuracy . this is not true.
+Ox Bone Nothing but the truth. :)
I've always liked studying people's habits and can usually tell if somethings up and I learned a few more tips thanks to this video
+Serious(WithDaysOff) You're very welcome sir! Glad to help.
Good example about touching nose giving away lying is that Clinton did that when he talked about Lewinsky. Overall he's still a kind man though
Aidan Au also don't forget about the time he lied about smoking pot "I didn't inhale"
Just look at their body movements, tone of voice, and eyes. This is the way I can tell when they are lying to me.
Before you do this make sure to study the individual very well though. See how they act before you start seeing if they lie to you.
Am I don't think lying is a good place to start. Lying is actually a self defense mechanism tied to fear. Lying is a natural response to fear. We should observe the defensive behavior and not the lies it self. Also does it matter? That's a bigger question
+haris javed That's for another video :)
The most scientific way is to throw them off of a cliff. If they bounce, then you know they're a Bumble. Bumbles bounce! Wait, what were we talking about?
+JLConawayII It's a bit harsh to throw them off a cliff don't you think? :)
Everyone lies every day. There are many shades of gray.
People act differently...
I understand why i get away with lies especially with my teachers, it's because of my emotionless face and straight body posture
Hmm. Lied to on average - 200 times per day? But i live alone, practically a hermit!...Omg. 😳 my dog has been lying. . .Not to me, just lying.
Not spoken to a soul, neither has my dog. So, I've wasted 8.26 minutes of my eventful life - being given my full quota of lies for a whole day? Apart from what I just said between hmm and...hmm. I might have made that bit up.
Someone stole my VOCABULARY NOTEBOOK and I knew that it is my best friend. Now, I asked him he said " I DID NOT STEAL IT". I said" SWEAR TO GOD?", he replied" I SWEAR TO GOD **lifts hid right hand**"
Goodluck on your soul.
Can you please please please please make a video about why some Watch dials turn !!!!!
+Lex Dude I'll try - thanks Lex for the suggestion.
🤔🤔🤔👍🏼
Wow...this helped alot thank you very much you most definitely know your stuff and I thank you for that
Easy way to tell if someone is lying to you (or in this case, trying to scam you into buying something). You state false "facts" like there's 50/50 chance his method will work. 2ndly you try to look professional by wearing a suit with a tie that's a calming colour like green, not to mention the blue pocket square (which doesn't even match the rest of the outfit. 3rd, they post links to where you can get more info......which will turn into asking for money.
Antonio - having a hard time pulling this look together - I'm getting solid grey jacket - stripped blue shirt - solid green tie ( know you like green) and a blue and white puff? -how is this working ?
just don't believe anything....who has time for all this....the correct answer: no one! Congratulations!
Really neat video, in real time my limbic system keeps get in the way of my cerebral cortex, very difficult skill to cultivate
I honestly don't lie very often. However, I do tell a lot of half-truths, so I'm still not "technically" lying often...
I'm brutally honest... Even when my adhd kicks in. Lets not forget that some ppl are just not right in the head, but could be honest this first step he mentions don't skip it, because there are people who are honest, but over there like oh look a squirrel!!! And run to the window instead of answering right away lol
If you find nothing is unique, what are you gonna do? Sometimes someone else's behaviour automatically reflects on my action, even when I am telling the truth. If I say the same thing to many people in a different manner each time. Am I lying?
hi to Realmenrealstyle.com ,
ok i agree with you on most points, but what if a person, is a nerves person like myself and after a few meeting with a person/client i feel relaxed ,to be able to talk.But in the first meeting i may be sweating a lot , i can't lie for a reason (if i lie i have seizes, so lieing is out of the question) so after a few moments i calm down and my metabolism get back to normal, and if i take a few moments to calm down before an interview, per say i can talk and its better(so i do take a moment or two) "so lieing isn't one of my strongest points , so i'm quite honest and this really upsets people , so sometimes i just sit and listen and ,
only say anything when i'm asked a direct question .
This really works well with me .
In a briefer note ,"i was a watchmaker for 30 years and lieing only harms one's business,so i haven't done it since i was a twenty something adult" . And yes i watch body langue all the time and my BS detector goes off often ,but i just learned to ignore it,or i just stop talking to these people , that's me .
Mr A. Millar
Usually if they open their mouth. But that's just my experience. I'm not saying I've never lied, (that in of itself would be a lie) but not to the degree of most people I've been around.
The only thing I noticed in this video is that His hands are never caught my gravity. This breaks the laws of physics. Hence, lie detected.
Watching this video trying to determine if my gf cheated on me on a beach trip, it’s been an AMAZING weekend
Question - How Many Times A Day, Do I Lie? Answer - Whenever My Mouth Is Moving.
"I practiced on my wife and hey I'm still married to her" 😂👏 LMAO That's what I'm talkin about. That's ysh*t right there. LOL
I mean I be telling the truth and I got ADHD so I Fidgett sometimes and I can stay still and everything but nun of those things he just said will work on me I can have normal conversations and sometimes I forget what I eat lol and sometimes when I have a conversation I pause to remember lol I do t have short term memory loss but I forget things irrelevant things
Antonio, I have a huge topic that will help your subscribers regarding the previous video about the MBA. Please send me an email if you would like to know. This will further expand what was talked about!!
Not an email. A message 😀
+itumblers Great! Send me a message and I'll look into that. :)
very useful. and an iconoclastic approach to colours and patterns....very invigorating :)
when you are lying I bet you don't use your arms when speaking. Am I right? tell me.
I tried this today and my sister looks away when she lies
When your a girl watching this video but this dude keeps saying gentlemen😂
this won't work. evidence and witness are the only way to know if someone is lying. you can consider some psychological studies, however, a wrong accusation can change the entire life or future of other person.
+Hernan Matthew Eleazar At best you will have about a 50/50 chance of detecting if someone is lying to you. To start, you have to establish a baseline :) www.realmenrealstyle.com/lie-detection/
Real Men Real Style this is the reason why i came up to idea of changing the title to "ways to tell if someone is lying through interrogation" :)
In some statistic, 1% is considered unimportant since it is very less. But in considering the safety of people weather it is physically or psychologically, that 1% has to be observed. The chance is less, very less actually, but still, the fact that there is a "chance" should make us be observant of how we handle the questioning especially if the person is not keen to details. I believe that's what real men should do.
Some women curse to me when I do not want them to. When I confront them, they deny cursing. They also have weird movements and show signs of extreme stress when denying it.
Anyone with a little street smarts already know this shit..tell me something I don't know
Many people are so professional and acts like an actor that you can understand whether they are lying or not
Holy shit Antonio. How the guck do you manage to look soon classy every video. I never imagine seen that color of tie looking good ever.
used this video to find out that most of the things one of my friends said was a lie.
MAN that unexpected question is a killer for me. It can be something so simple but it always makes me pause..
+PsYcHoCI2usHeI2 :)
This isn't an instructional video... This as a commercial. That is the truth.
no scientific proof of this
I like this guy. Always good content and no bullshit.
How many times yr lied to depends on whether yr in Lost Angels or Frostburg.
How can you distinguish between a regular liar and a pathological liar?
I'm built different 😤