Being a working foster parent and what to expect in terms of appointments, visits, etc.

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ค. 2024
  • This video covers:
    - Can I work and be a foster parent?
    - The different types of foster care providers and how it may impact your work
    - The time commitments on a monthly basis
    - Considerations when a call comes in
    - Common jobs of foster parents
    - Things to discuss with the employer
    - Childcare
    - Talking with coworkers
    - County services that may support working
    - Setting boundaries

ความคิดเห็น • 38

  • @shawnmarie459
    @shawnmarie459 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I'm 3 years away from being an empty nester, and I'm already dreading life without kids. Your videos are giving me a lot to think about. and maybe hope :)
    Please keep posting the positive and negative!

  • @MrJking065
    @MrJking065 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My daughter adopted my granddaughter. Her grandmother and I was very involved. I would pick her up from school. We would go somewhere to eat. Than go home to do school work. My wife would take her to Doctor and dentist appointments. When school was out she would come and stay with us during the day. It worked well for us.

  • @meschahayes1003
    @meschahayes1003 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I have been WAITING for a video like this. I'm a 40 yr old paralegal, about to have a hysterectomy at the end of this month, and want to figure out now how to grow our lives moving forward.
    Just watched the video and you offered a wealth of knowledge. Thank you!

    • @byeblckbirdxx
      @byeblckbirdxx ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lawyer and #1 paralegal fan here. Y’all do God’s work. I hope the attorneys you work with are grateful for you and supportive of you as you start fostering

    • @meschahayes1003
      @meschahayes1003 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@byeblckbirdxx ❤️ thank you! If not, you hiring?? 😎

    • @MrJking065
      @MrJking065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jehovah God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. - James 1:27. And including Foster Care Children. May God send blessing to you as you start your Journey.

  • @aimeem8156
    @aimeem8156 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why did you become a foster parent? Was it something you always wanted to do? I really enjoy your videos, you have a lovely kind manner ❤ I wish you all the best. And thank you for being such an Angel in the community you live in ❤❤

  • @annaandre9131
    @annaandre9131 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Child care should always be free, especially for unprivileged, traumatized children. I hope 2023 brings more social justice around the world!

    • @emmib1388
      @emmib1388 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      and how would you get those child care providers to work for free? What would your plan be to get so many volunteers?

    • @lindamarshall3485
      @lindamarshall3485 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@emmib1388 A country that can give billionaires tax breaks can pay those child care workers. Even if they have to give billionaires slightly smaller tax breaks.

    • @alli6791
      @alli6791 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emmib1388 obviously it wouldn’t be free. If the ultra wealthy payed their fair share in taxes and if our country closed all the intentional loopholes the ultra wealthy use, we could fund all the social issues. Trumps tax cut alone lost us 1 trillion tax dollars over 10 years, for social issues. If our government actually worked for the average American, and not the ultra wealthy and corporations, we’d be better off. Now they have to cut Medicare, food assistance, veterans care and soooo much more to make up for the lost tax revenue. Oh and our over bloated defense spending that ends up in the pockets of defense contractors and not the actual soldiers who die and risk their lives. See where I’m going, you’ve been brainwashed into thinking that we can’t make the government work for us, because that’s what the ultra wealthy have been force feeding us.

    • @jessicastaples5942
      @jessicastaples5942 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@emmib1388 Public education employees, firefighters, police officers, and librarians are not volunteers. But those services are free.

    • @emmib1388
      @emmib1388 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lindamarshall3485 if the taxpayers are paying for it, then it is not 'free'. Those billionaires that you reference, are taking the same tax deduction you are eligible for...the only difference ...they employ more people than you probably do. If you don't like the tax system, contact your state representative.

  • @wall_to_wall
    @wall_to_wall ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was super helpful and informative. Thank you so much!

  • @jessicakleeberger2504
    @jessicakleeberger2504 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I'm a single working 22 year old who is interested in starting to provide foster respite care within the next couple years. Thank you for this! Would you have any suggestions for preparing for respite care in particular?

  • @byeblckbirdxx
    @byeblckbirdxx ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is so helpful, thank you! I don’t have the space right now, but I’d love to do emergency respite for tweens and teens in the next 2-3 years. What’s the best way to start familiarizing with my city and county’s specific requirements and expectations? I know I could reach out to agencies directly, but I also know they’re overloaded. I’m not ready to start just yet, so I don’t want to waste their time if there’s something I can do independently. Thanks again for all you do!

    • @r.m.7138
      @r.m.7138 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Google

    • @brandihillcom
      @brandihillcom ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Just sign up for the training the agencies offer. It’s online (mine was twice a week for 8 weeks) very very insightful and it doesn’t obligate you to take in kids.

  • @jbountalas
    @jbountalas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was helpful and informative. TY.

  • @Sapphire_Harley
    @Sapphire_Harley 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this information! We hope to do foster-to-adopt in a few years, and this helps me feel more comfortable that my job (telework with a fairly flexible schedule) won't be a problem at all. ^_^

  • @crazymusicchick
    @crazymusicchick ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow in Australia all fostered kids get childcare free well paid for by the department child protection, I'm a childcare worker and we get children that are fostered most I've cared for are fostered by a relative eg grandparents

    • @lizzy9975
      @lizzy9975 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let's be realistic here. It's not "free." It's being paid for by the taxpayer.
      And to be brutally honest these are the only children in Australia who should be receiving taxpayer funded childcare.
      It certainly shouldn't be going towards upper middle class welfare for parents earning incomes of $300k plus per annum.....

    • @crazymusicchick
      @crazymusicchick ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lizzy9975 I wouldn't be at work if I had to pay full daycare fees at $ 165 a day that's what I earn a day so yes childcare needs to be funded but my tax covers it ps it's not given to those earning over 250k a yr so ya 300k earners pay full fees

  • @kaylanek1
    @kaylanek1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I want to be a foster parent when I am older. This was a great video! I have watched all your videos and they are so interesting!

  • @queeny5613
    @queeny5613 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome

  • @louykins
    @louykins 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    With my agency, we’re not allowed to be at visitations with bio family.

  • @inkylynx7344
    @inkylynx7344 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm starting as an engineer at a small company (and also would be a single foster parent)
    Guess I'll have to stick to respite care :/

  • @JatinderKumar-oq3lr
    @JatinderKumar-oq3lr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello

  • @rachelhorgan5721
    @rachelhorgan5721 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Emergency placement is the worst as when it can happen whenever.

  • @MadeinNY
    @MadeinNY ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Do you get paid to Foster? Can you be single not married

    • @tabitas.2719
      @tabitas.2719 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      To my knowledge in many places (definitely not all countries) it's possible; the stipulations will be slightly different. :)

    • @katiedyck5407
      @katiedyck5407 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s more like a volunteer position, the government gives money for the child’s basic necessities.
      I have heard of single foster parents.

    • @Healings
      @Healings ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I live in Illinois. I'm a single foster parent and I get a monthly stipend.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Healings The stipend is to buy things for the child, right? It’s not pay for you.

    • @trishna_6815
      @trishna_6815 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      depends where you are. In my state in Australia you get a foster carer allowance from state that is to cover food, basic travel, medical, clothes etc, just to cover costs of all the normal kid stuff. it's about 500-550 per fortnight. there are some allowances for childcare for young kids. if there are extra expenses eg for special medical, psychological, educational, travel etc then that will most likely be reimbursed.
      You are also eligible for the various family tax benefits, parenting payments etc from federal govt the same as any other parent - in most cases this would apply for medium to longer term placements.
      You can be single, married, straight, gay, male, female