MAGIC Words (To A Man)! John Gray

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    John Gray of MarsVenus fame and author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus shares what men want and need in a relationship and how they fall in love. When women understand this they can get more of their needs met, find love and experience greater intimacy with their boyfriends, partners or husbands.
    Dr. John Gray shares how men connect with women and how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her! When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
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  • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
    @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

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    • @Katrica670
      @Katrica670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Great chat! Where did that get you? Did it end up being very dysfunctional?

  • @Lady.Luck.
    @Lady.Luck. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It seems difficult to navigate the fact that men despise neediness from a woman but simultaneously want to be the hero 🤔

  • @Merky-Merk01
    @Merky-Merk01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Women are taught to do for and please your man. This is across the board, especially with religiously raised Women. We are taught from baby hood to please and do for our man. The "role " has always been to cater to his all.

  • @stellarhope6954
    @stellarhope6954 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    In uncertainty, don't pursue him, don't ask questions

  • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
    @gabrielamartiniuc6322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’m so glad I have never told a guy “that hurts …” I’ve never said that. I’ve never asked a man questions. I’ve never felt insecure . And I allow men to do for me. I don’t do anything for men…I have had guys do it to me. It’s a huge turnoff

  • @stellarhope6954
    @stellarhope6954 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Let him provide. Can be vulnerable

  • @Mary-t2p6p
    @Mary-t2p6p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    Women, feminine energy, whatever you want to call it, are sick and tired of manipulating men to come to them correctly, with words of encouragement and whatever bs they think they need to hear. Men will regain their respect in the world of women the minute they start providing for and protecting all the women in their lives and any children all of their own initiative.

    • @d.thompson7464
      @d.thompson7464 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I agree. However, if you want a mostly positive experience understanding the nature only makes sense.

    • @ashleymarie6682
      @ashleymarie6682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I agree. Im getting pretty tired of this guy only talking about what women can do to figure out me instead of educating men on how to understand a woman.

    • @seedsoftruth57
      @seedsoftruth57 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly

    • @seedsoftruth57
      @seedsoftruth57 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sick of men not growing up and behaving like a baby man child… emotionally intelligence is lacking in men that’s the issue

    • @andziagreen4922
      @andziagreen4922 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Societies especially in the Western countries are brainwashed, toxic and addicted to various things so how do you expect men to be healthy? I totally get your point and agree 100% but I lost hope seeing whats going on and behaviour and entitled men these days. They do not want to provide for toxic women and based on their own personal experienced many of them gave up and decided they will milk cows without marrying them 🤷‍♀️ it's all sooo toxic and destroying balance between masculine and feminine energies and this is what those hell powers on top want. Games after games, I don't play by their rules that's why I'm celibate now.

  • @Cricketchirps39
    @Cricketchirps39 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Why do we have to hold back if someone hurts us. They just keep repeating it then.

    • @reginaschwab6286
      @reginaschwab6286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And how is that an honest relationship if you can't say your hurt by something he did?

    • @Cricketchirps39
      @Cricketchirps39 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @reginaschwab6286 I agree 💯

    • @fruitascension5089
      @fruitascension5089 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agree.

    • @Unaminousverdict
      @Unaminousverdict 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He said you can say it but say it in a different way than using the words “you hurt me “

  • @mlu18
    @mlu18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Great information. Sometimes, listening to advice on relationships will confuse a person. I believe we must respect each other, be careful with the words we use, and continue to find loving ways to keep the relationship alive. Have a good heart .

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks so much for watching and for your great comment as well! 🙂

  • @Remedy-my2ml
    @Remedy-my2ml 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    If a man wants a woman he must prove worthy of her as she can choose her mate from many suitors 😄 generally we only want to choose once and choose wisely so its in his best interests to show case everything he can to win her heart without compromising himself

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    4:21 -4:36 -4:57 -5:03

  • @LA-cm9uo
    @LA-cm9uo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Personally I think it's ok to say "that hurt" with a man who you are very close with (family, long-term relationship.) But you must NEVER assume that your hurt was their intention. "Honey, I know you didn't mean it, you really didn't mean it... But when you ___ I felt hurt because ____. Next time please ___? But it wasn't a big deal..."

    • @49kitkatbar
      @49kitkatbar 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, he said don't use that word in the initial stage of dating if you think he is worth getting to know and you want him to be further interested in you.

  • @reginasimon8784
    @reginasimon8784 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Things to say;
    1. It's not that big of a deal.
    2. Oh, would you be sure next time to do this?

  • @basia1586
    @basia1586 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is life-changing 💖

  • @stellarhope6954
    @stellarhope6954 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Say, " it's not a big deal"

  • @joybeybeeluv4234
    @joybeybeeluv4234 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These interviews are really nice….

  • @QueenJessica-z5j
    @QueenJessica-z5j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Wonderful video, A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. I'm irritated because I can't see my life with anyone else. The love of my life chose to leave me, and I loved him so much that I can't stop thinking about him. I've done everything I can to get him back. Though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him, I can't help it. I'm not sure why I'm writing this, but I miss him a lot and can't stop thinking about him.

    • @Jennyfenty-n1b
      @Jennyfenty-n1b 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.

    • @QueenJessica-z5j
      @QueenJessica-z5j 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

    • @vivellaz
      @vivellaz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Why do you even want someone back who does not want you? Rather work on self respect and find someone who WANTS to be with you!

    • @DesertflowerUSA
      @DesertflowerUSA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It seems to me that you had a crush relationship. Too much emotion on men/women can push another away. Should be reciprocated. Wonder if you look back can you see how you may have overlooked that aspect? Love is give and take. If a man doesn’t willingly give then you should pull back, not charge forward, then he will lose respect even more.
      Spiritual guidance a very good idea. You need to retreat, give yourself all the love you meant for them. Be good to yourself, take care and heal. ❤

    • @LA-cm9uo
      @LA-cm9uo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Check out Adrienne Everheart's "ABCs to get him back" TH-cam videos and course. It helped me and lots of women personally. I got my man back and he is better than before. Actually we are engaged...

  • @DianeW-gd7dl
    @DianeW-gd7dl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Barf. Let me live my whole life trying to correctly react to men.
    Be yourself, find someone like you like..love, are attracted to.

    • @dinahsoar6982
      @dinahsoar6982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You can do that...but trust me...what he's saying in the video is true...another expert, Dr. Gottman who's married is an honest man...he advises men to listen to their wives, but he also shares that when is wife says 'we need to talk' his first thought is 'dammit she's upset with me AGAIN.... AND he feels like she's picking on him ...again'...THAT is the real truth about the way men feel .... Understanding men makes for a better relationship ..men don't understand women and most probably aren't going to make the effort to do so...and the few who do will eventually get fed up if they have to do that often. I hope you'll take this to heart..it'll save you a lot of conflict and grief later.

  • @jernejamuhic5757
    @jernejamuhic5757 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    How about "MAGIC words (to a woman)!" for a change?

    • @ZXY86
      @ZXY86 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      There are channels for that lol

    • @jernejamuhic5757
      @jernejamuhic5757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ZXY86 Where? Would like to listen John Gray speak about it in this manner.

  • @UVstarbaby
    @UVstarbaby 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting, and makes sense. Learned a few things, and I understand better. Glad I listened. Thank you. 🌸🌿✨

  • @ozperl
    @ozperl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hmm, their is someone around me who is manipulative thank you for the information this truly help I can move on with my life 😏🙄🤨❤

  • @cdpglam8895
    @cdpglam8895 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s the laughing at us clowns that has made me weak 😂

  • @SunShineLady-d4r
    @SunShineLady-d4r 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    What if the man is narcissist selfish? You can't help but give him a gentle honest feedback 😉 especially if you are both middle aged practicing Christians 😉

  • @stephaniefortney22
    @stephaniefortney22 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙌 Wow……….This Conversation-Absolutely Insightful and Greatly Appreciated Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @10:23 i thought they said its beer belly!.

  • @ffssathena
    @ffssathena 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    what if I’ve made all these mistakes with a man who is still around - but pulling back for obvious reasons - is it too late?

  • @robinkeith1507
    @robinkeith1507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    But why does my guy seem stressed whenever I tell him anything negative or that's going wrong in my life !! ?

    • @Atanasisa
      @Atanasisa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Could be ASD, watching Mark Hutten videos. You'll know more information.

    • @christys.3912
      @christys.3912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Probably because you never take his advice that you never asked for... but you don't respect his opinions because you don't let him fix it... when you were just wanting to talk...

  • @ashleymarie6682
    @ashleymarie6682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Im getting pretty tired of this guy only talking about what women can do to figure out me instead of educating men on how to understand a woman.
    I have looked and looked but he publishes absolutely no information for men to learn how to approach and behave around a woman.
    It’s a 2 way street.

    • @MichelleMarchantJohnson
      @MichelleMarchantJohnson  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This channel is for women. His books are full of advice for men and women. Take care.

    • @millafin9469
      @millafin9469 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your commet

    • @SunnyDeevine
      @SunnyDeevine 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's bc he is a Man..he can only give a man prospective..not a real Woman's perspective. If he was to provide a woman's prospective he would have to ask a woman for her advice..perhaps his wife provides helpful tips for woman? It's kind of like the movie "think like a man" we loved hearing what men's thoughts were..we wish we had a guy that we could just ask what does a guy think about/or desire? Well this guy is providing this insight for us woman who want to know.

    • @nylaclancy2655
      @nylaclancy2655 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree 100%

  • @Remedy-my2ml
    @Remedy-my2ml 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just seeing johns beautiful happy face makes me happy. i've been a big fan of johns since the 90's as he is so right. i have a lot of male friends and after learning their perspectives, as a woman and learning other womans experiences, he is so right. ❤ From kiwi land

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1:33 -1:35
    1:36-1:47

  • @dinahsoar6982
    @dinahsoar6982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Can I tell him that it makes me mad instead of 'it hurts my feeling'?

  • @juliethash5199
    @juliethash5199 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤️

  • @L.Hodson
    @L.Hodson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    11:35

  • @nm9412
    @nm9412 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Women: plz these are men! They are complicated. I would take this advise seriously.

  • @romanahatfield-jo6bo
    @romanahatfield-jo6bo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That sounded s like complaining whi h I don't like

  • @ashleymarie6682
    @ashleymarie6682 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    If he isnt sure?!? Then let him go until he is sure!!! Stop playing these stupid mind games ladies!
    This man is a joke.
    Ive been married 15 years and never had to employ any of these tactics. No woman that respects herself should have to do anything of this scientific research on psychology. If you are with a real mature MAN you will not have to do any of this.
    Maybe im fortunate but for every day of the 15 years, ive never had to stress more than a few hours at a stretch to ask him to hear me. There are ALWAYS learning processes and rough patches. But it you are having these to the point you need “magic words” to manipulate a man, you shouldnt be with them. Leave. And get away from this nonsense. Start respecting yourself and the right man will treat you in a way that doesnt harm your mental health to such a degree you find yourself watching these ridiculous TH-cam videos.
    If you are here, find another partner. Or better yet? Start finding yourself. Plain and simple.
    I big issues couples have is lack of sex. One of the cornerstones of communications is sex. Trust and sex. Respect. Love. Then go from there.
    Not one of those things requires the omega code to keep a relationship intact. Sheesh.

    • @reginaschwab6286
      @reginaschwab6286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @ashleymarie6682 I agree with your points but wondering what made you listen to this video if all is good with your relationship?

    • @AngelwithAttitude7
      @AngelwithAttitude7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reginaschwab6286 I was thinking the same thing. But I like what she wrote.