Should you quit your PhD?

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  • Should you quit your PhD? In this video I share my own story of why I almost quit (and why I didn't), as well as some questions to ask yourself before you make the decision to stay in your PhD or walk away.
    For more PhD tips, one to one coaching and details of my academic writing course, head to; phd.academy
    And for a transcript of this video head to: phd.academy/blog/quit-phd
    0:00 "It's OK, everyone goes through this"
    1:06 Why I almost quit my PhD (and why I didn't)
    7:11 Basic self care
    9:05 Are you putting too much weight on the PhD?
    11:11 Are you getting the right support?
    13:51 The sunk cost fallacy
    14:55 Is there anything you can change?
    16:16 Summing up

ความคิดเห็น • 27

  • @Sorobai
    @Sorobai 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you so much for your videos. I've learned more from you than from my supervisor. After six years of struggling, abandoned by my school and by my supervisors I have a lot of notes and readings but a very few actual work done. Feeling miserable and struggling in other areas of life just as you said the thought of giving up crossed my mind a few times. Your video reforced my resolve to do it no matter what. I will in debt and probably die trying to do it. But I wil do it. I will never give up. Thank you.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The PhD isn't worth dying for... It's OK to decide to keep going, but something will have to change if you want to ever finish. You say you have notes and readings but little actual work done, so have you started your actual research?

    • @Sorobai
      @Sorobai 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@James_Hayton thank you very much for your reply. I'm trying to aply your lessons in my work. As you said something have to change. My PhD is in the area of the humanities, so my research relates to reading and analysing texts and not to do experimentations. I belive I read everything I need and I have a lot of citations and notes. I only have to write it but I'm afraid I wrote too much in some topics and almost nothing on others. I tend to be too curious and keep reasearching infinitly, but I learn't from your other video to refraing from that. I stopped reading and started actually writing from my own notes and from the citations I got from my reading. But I found I still tend to make long texts about a single topic which I think take my time from the overall writing of the thesis. After watching your video I decided to keep going, and focusing in limite the amount of citations I use for each topic. I always feel afraid of missing something or leting something out. I feel I am traveling alone in a desert not sure if I will ever find an Oasis. Anyway, I don't want to bore you. I know you're a busy person. I just wanted to thank you, your videos means a lot. Best videos on youtube for PhD students. Thank you.

  • @michaelw8955
    @michaelw8955 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Very helpful! PhD students often feel so overwhelmed by the workload/self-discovery/plus life that is true. Your videos remind me of the importance of keeping calm (acknowledging that it can be difficult) and doing one thing at a time. Thank you!

  • @Death.ByShred
    @Death.ByShred 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Cheers. This all sounds obvious and common-sensical, but... it is so easy to forget. This is a great reminder to get back to first principles and the groundings of life, from which we thrust. All else, becomes a joy.

  • @Youtuber-sk8tg
    @Youtuber-sk8tg 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much James

  • @Natalia-kc6zh
    @Natalia-kc6zh 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks a lot for this video and all the advices you gave. I really struggle with writing at the moment, can’t motivate myself to start. But the thing is I do not want to quit, but can’t keep going the same time. Stuck in procrastination, doubt my abilities and beat myself up every day for doing nothing.
    I guess if I let the pressure go I will take it easy and even enjoy writing. I started my PhD in 2016. This is how bad the situation is.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Maybe try doing 90 minutes writing in the morning (before doing anything else, before coffee). No guarantees it'll work, but it's much easier than trying to write once you've started doing other things

    • @Natalia-kc6zh
      @Natalia-kc6zh 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I followed your advice this morning and it worked! I managed to write a few sentences and move a few paragraphs around.
      I found that the biggest obstruction for me is my phone with social media in the morning.
      Thank you very much for your support.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Try using some app blocking software on your phone. I use Freedom and another program called Cold Turkey on my laptop

  • @EL-ub2df
    @EL-ub2df 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    9:24 sense of self-worth
    11:15 took the pressure off without worrying about the end result
    12:30 maintain it by keeping others down (about some supervisors)
    15:27 simplify

  • @Heyu7her3
    @Heyu7her3 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    WELP! Already did a month ago 😅 But I want to thank you for providing SO, SO much helpful info & for the online resources (including your course!)
    During my 1st year, I sought an ADHD & learning disability. I burned out being too hypervigilant & wasn't lucky enough to get through the dysfunctions (mostly external).
    However, I hope to utilize your strategies in my next ventures after I've recovered! I've already used some recently to get through a research conference presentation 👍🏽

  • @Chesonate
    @Chesonate 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you look very fit 💪

  • @helmutwagabi6688
    @helmutwagabi6688 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting stuff. I thought the frustrations along the academic ladder only happen in Africa! Now I know.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      check out r/phd on reddit and you'll see plenty of frustration worldwide! What specific problems are you facing?

  • @pavel4616
    @pavel4616 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My PhD programme is over and now the dissertation writing is all up to me. I have some papers that can be turned into a dissertation, but I want to get some additional results and make a reproduction. I refuse to defend without them. I have also started a new job with new research projects. I also want to study something new and maybe change my field of study. Am I a dreamer? My therapist says that I have ADHD.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why refuse to defend without them? It seems like you're setting an impossible standard for yourself, given that you've started a new job and probably won't have time to get new results. Are you afraid of submitting?

    • @pavel4616
      @pavel4616 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@James_Hayton I think that there's not enough good results to describe in the thesis and present at the defence. Also my work looks like good master thesis than a PhD dissertation

    • @pavel4616
      @pavel4616 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@James_Hayton I know that my arguments are not reasonable and PhD isn't about results, it's about demonstrating skills. But I can't force myself to like my current state.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      What has your supervisor said? If you have published papers in peer reviewed journals it should be enough for a PhD

    • @pavel4616
      @pavel4616 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@James_Hayton 3 peer reviewed papers at conferences, which is ok for data science. Superviser says write and defend thesis.

  • @DSScully
    @DSScully 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Walking away doesn't always remove the power the supervisor has ... some supervisors are so inappropriately bad that they'll pursue you after you leave, intentionally damaging your future prospects.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Did this happen to you?

    • @DSScully
      @DSScully 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@James_Hayton I would not have made the comment if I did not have first hand experience with it. Yes. Supervisors can be vindictive and inappropriately cruel. Yes, it was reported to the university. Did they do anything about it? No. Universities do everything possible to absolve themselves of responsibility. Is that professor still employed by that university, No. Is it illegal, yes. Is the power structure not in favor of the student in a vulnerable position, yes. Does anyone care? I sincerely doubt it. Academia is driven by exploitation and lack of accountability. And they hope you are too afraid to speak up - or worse, they hope no one believes you.

    • @DSScully
      @DSScully 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @James_Hayton his words were very specifically: "When I say you are done, you are done. " ... that means that he wanted to do everything in his power to destroy my prospects.
      And when the supervisor is more widely recognized than their student... it makes it very easy to cause such harm.

    • @James_Hayton
      @James_Hayton  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      So sorry you went through that. I wish I had advice that could help, other than to say to others to get out as soon as possible if they're in that kind of situation

    • @DSScully
      @DSScully 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@James_Hayton too much is built into the "prestige " of the PHD with too little protections.