Maybe Just Try The Honest Approach

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  • @LFA
    @LFA  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The shirts I wear in my videos >> intotheam.com/LFA
    Don't forget to use discount code “LFA”
    The jacket is also available and it’s called “Sierra”

    • @andreigarin6564
      @andreigarin6564 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      love your content dude, been watching you for years :)

  • @dalewhite5152
    @dalewhite5152 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    LFA is introspective..he sits back and looks at every angle..rare sometimes in a complex society today

  • @adrianlemus2768
    @adrianlemus2768 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +76

    You’re a really smart dude LFA. You give nuanced advice and don’t just try to give us what we want to hear.

    • @huckleberrymulberry4764
      @huckleberrymulberry4764 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      He’s not just smart but he’s super engaged and perceptive of the world around him.

    • @adrianlemus2768
      @adrianlemus2768 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @ I love my father but I haven’t gotten the best advice from him just because he’s not the type of man I want to be.

    • @w3rewolff
      @w3rewolff 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      He's not. All his advice is from the perspective of a guy who easily gets attention and action from women due to his looks. Over the years he has never been able to realize that's not the case for 90% of guys. It's like he's speaking to himself or to other Chads, but Chads don't watch this channel, so that leaves us with an audience of delusional guys listening to advice they'll never put into practice because they have nobody to practice on.

    • @GymJones865
      @GymJones865 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Telling people what they want to hear helps nobody.

    • @martycashcow6292
      @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@w3rewolff He literally said he's sharing his perspective. Why would you assume that it needs to align with yous?

  • @tommyknocker111
    @tommyknocker111 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +86

    My philosophy is simple.
    - Direct, with respect.
    No manipulative bullshit, no pick up, speak and be honest in your approach and interaction and see what happens from the truth.

    • @BlueFisher22-y2u
      @BlueFisher22-y2u 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Couldn't have said it better myself

    • @santieldasavage
      @santieldasavage 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only way to be we're men

  • @proloductions726
    @proloductions726 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +45

    HOPING EVERYONE IS DOING WELL OUT THERE...

    • @jayr3938
      @jayr3938 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Legendary quote

    • @PrimRoseVI
      @PrimRoseVI 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can confirm not everyone is doing well out there. Let’s check & see if the male suicide rate got any better.

    • @o0oStillWeRiseo0o
      @o0oStillWeRiseo0o 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@proloductions726 Ty Brodie likewise 👍🏾

  • @ColleenGallagher-b2i
    @ColleenGallagher-b2i 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    No games. Just be honest. Authentic self. Humility when you win, quick to apologize when you’re wrong. Trust and respect.

    • @tylerk140
      @tylerk140 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What if she is the one to apologize but she got pride or ego and still wants me to keep chasing

    • @Hello2u3582mypincode
      @Hello2u3582mypincode 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@tylerk140 You've got a few options: Ask her why she wants you to chase her?
      Or you can say that you don't want to chase.
      Or you start looking at other women and out of jealousy and uncertainty she will
      try to cling on to you.
      Up to you wheter you like that

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    This is solid advice. Nothing beats honesty.

  • @fugginchit1
    @fugginchit1 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    "When men call women easy I think that's a stupid insult. What, do you want them to be difficult?" 😂😂 Insightful

    • @rku1212
      @rku1212 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Depends. Easy how? A Lot of men call women easy when they are easy with sex, and I think there is some truth to that.

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      When a woman is called easy it’s obviously meant to imply that she is promiscuous, which is not about being difficult. It’s about determining if a woman has virtue or not but I guess many men out there are still coping about that. Oh well.

    • @sophie8466
      @sophie8466 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@adriana12995 Sex is not virtue, its an act. Loyality is a virtue and you can't predict it such ways. Religion made some kind of brainwash on people who doesn't want to think for themselves...

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@sophie8466 Cope in whatever way you want to cope. Promiscuity is destructive and disgusting. Only reason you don’t think it is because YOU have been brainwashed by modern culture into seeing it as ok.

    • @adriana12995
      @adriana12995 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes, women should stop being so easy, actually

  • @The1cdccop
    @The1cdccop 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Wisdom is the reward of a life of hard decisions. The cost is a lot of pain. Us old dudes have earned it. Keep pushing forward.

  • @shortking-bs1be
    @shortking-bs1be 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This dude is legit. Not perfect and I don't agree with everything he says but he's right more often than not and he's legit and talks from the heart. Godspeed to you friend

  • @amanraj-pb9ce
    @amanraj-pb9ce 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +66

    i always thought being magnetic was about looks or charisma. i couldn’t have been more wrong. reading Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki totally changed my view. chapter 3 blew me away-once i started applying the tips, i noticed a huge difference in how people responded to me.

    • @testarossa311
      @testarossa311 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Can you share what's in that chapter?

  • @stevieG.
    @stevieG. 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The last few minutes were very profound ,definitely worth waiting for!👍🇬🇧

  • @Slimc74
    @Slimc74 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Best channel for men is LFA. Solid man.

  • @Well-Put
    @Well-Put 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    21:13 and this my friend, is one of the many reasons why I enjoy watching your content. My friends and I hold each other accountable, nothing else matters.

  • @FathersLoveWithoutEnd
    @FathersLoveWithoutEnd 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    LFA, this video is legendary. Excellent work, my man.

  • @wowalbi
    @wowalbi 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Beautiful message brother

  • @okeythegoat2332
    @okeythegoat2332 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love how different and out of box thinking 💭 you possess!!! Intelligent

  • @Proudscandinavian
    @Proudscandinavian 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Man…
    You could easily make a full time living coaching both “Face to Face” or at bigger event’s
    All the relationship BS out there ruins the life of many people
    You are honest, straight forward and people need to hear this

  • @decaygrim8943
    @decaygrim8943 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Bro your blowing up, keep it up

  • @Mr.ErikSnake
    @Mr.ErikSnake 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very well said Sir. a lot of nuance in your story telling 💯👌🏼 great advice

  • @coreymcmiller3588
    @coreymcmiller3588 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shout out to ya brother, real content for realistic authentic people, becoming a rare commodity in this season. Helping me for sure. And thank you!.

  • @MWB-storyteller
    @MWB-storyteller 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great talk LFA.🍻
    The right mindset for self mastery and success in any game. 🦁💪

  • @Jesuswalks7475
    @Jesuswalks7475 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Learn to love others by learning to love yourself. What makes you tick, then love it.

  • @alex.sonnet
    @alex.sonnet 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LFA, thank you for this amazing talk. Greetings from Mexico City. 🇲🇽

  • @CGAVENGERSNONSTOPGAMEING
    @CGAVENGERSNONSTOPGAMEING 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +147

    for the longest time, i felt like i was just in the background while others stood out. nothing i did seemed to make a difference. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me how to harness my own energy. chapter 3 was the turning point-it made everything make sense.

  • @stevesuprafluid2711
    @stevesuprafluid2711 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I completely confirm what your saying and like to add: It is not any different in Central Europe.

  • @quantumfineartsandfossils2152
    @quantumfineartsandfossils2152 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    9:10 Yes the greatest pleasure of bachelorhood is not exploitation it is experimentation and the cultivation of the joys of a mans own self awareness & freedom to feel the pleasures of self awareness & actually being truly liked and loved just for its own sakes

  • @Kyteasahigh
    @Kyteasahigh 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I’m ex service I served in Northern Ireland I can’t sleep right now I’m drunk seeing masked Irishmen at the bottom of my bed in balaclavas with that strong Belfast accent telling me “night night tell Jesus I said what’s the craic” while the other one slowly walks up towards me grinning his teeth together in unexplainable anger then bang it’s all over. And this happens over & over & over. Every. Single. Night. God bless you. Time 02:16am.

    • @desertraider8628
      @desertraider8628 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's the booze ,they are called spirits for a reason and it's not a good one .

    • @mrsenkur613
      @mrsenkur613 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol kinda In a same situation but yours is more brutal. Good night homie.

  • @douglaslangham4417
    @douglaslangham4417 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    You had a encounter with a Angel, at the fair 100% certain

    • @IvanChristopher.
      @IvanChristopher. 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Hebrews 13:2
      Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.

    • @TheXsandman
      @TheXsandman 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I had the same thought come to me

    • @inker1972
      @inker1972 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like in highway to heaven

  • @robwesker
    @robwesker 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    “I wanna take you to Los Cabos”

  • @deepf0r3st
    @deepf0r3st 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I am from Germany. It might not be as bad as in the US is, but also pretty bad.

  • @kenlee-97
    @kenlee-97 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love LFA- he's our saviour and psychologist, and our comfort on our times of psychological trauma (and in yimes where we are having a lot of "Wins"- dont forget)- as we are forever grateful to LFA for saving us from ourselves/the world...❤

  • @MM-yy9us
    @MM-yy9us 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dude you are the best!!!!!
    End of the vid mindset is top!

  • @Jimminityjabooboo
    @Jimminityjabooboo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Majestic, Majestic Indeed

  • @survivalkommando
    @survivalkommando 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video ,needed this ,thanks.

  • @MuhChetti
    @MuhChetti 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Much love homie

  • @shawnmiller8756
    @shawnmiller8756 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey bro., LFA enjoyed snow last wk. too, cold as hell. Bro. Shawn born in T-twn live just a lil' East. Happy New Yr.

  • @martycashcow6292
    @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Word!

  • @ghostfocus
    @ghostfocus 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Salute brother. Even tho I think im older than u, I won't feel little calling u my big bro. Respek

  • @Oki-t7q
    @Oki-t7q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    its emotional validation, acknowledging an emotion releases it

  • @omarmartinezmendoza3716
    @omarmartinezmendoza3716 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hear you from Mexico, I get perfectly English and still improving, regards from Mexico

  • @AllNattyJah
    @AllNattyJah 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have started taking this approach and not rushing into judging or emotions and people generally just explain how they feel

  • @laxmikhemka3396
    @laxmikhemka3396 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    i used to walk into a room, feeling invisible, no matter how much effort i put into being seen. then a friend recommended Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and everything clicked. there’s a part in chapter 3 where it talks about how your energy shows up before you do-it’s so powerful.

  • @joshweatherly8715
    @joshweatherly8715 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Was thinkin the same thing today

  • @Champwsox05
    @Champwsox05 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I went to lunch with a Venezuelan and it was awesome. I barely spoke her language and she didn't speak mine.But we tried to teach each other. It was intersting...
    She was a really nice person.

  • @JojoAces
    @JojoAces 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video

  • @crooksomebody1138
    @crooksomebody1138 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Honesty or silence...either way. I try to apply them as much as possible, and choose wisely with whom, when, where, and why I apply them.

  • @AllNattyJah
    @AllNattyJah 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This same experience with a foreigner I did like it’s crazy different languages it’s just about being honest and confident

  • @stevewarner6621
    @stevewarner6621 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    LFA videos be like "What's up brothers, I was thinking about this one time, when this dude said some shii to me, and now I'm going to share it with you. Hope this video was somewhat informative."

    • @renenorambuena7
      @renenorambuena7 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Indeed they are informative.

  • @TrenchTownNoble
    @TrenchTownNoble 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My man, this hit. I'm normally pretty honest, abrasively so most of the time. This approach puts a bit of ownus on the lady, I literally texted this as soon as you said it (because it was an honest question I had) and I got traction. Good traction at that.

  • @silentwalk1768
    @silentwalk1768 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💯 strongly agree well done

  • @ColleenGallagher-b2i
    @ColleenGallagher-b2i 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent video as always
    I have three degrees past highs school… 8 years worth. But I’m madly in love with a guy who has no education past high school but was in the AF. He’s a mechanic … smartest wisest man I know. His brainpower and common sense is over the top. And trust me he knows how to handle and treat a woman. I submit to my Master lol

  • @Phil-j7t
    @Phil-j7t 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    I’ve used the honest approach for several years. It does work on most women however they will use it to manipulate you once they hook you in you gotta watch their actions. I compare it to people that carry a firearm concealed vs people that call police when things happen and they’re defenseless and can’t fight

    • @vitorpereira5461
      @vitorpereira5461 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      exactly. The honest approach can work shortly. To maintain women, you HAVE to position yourself, be mindful that women are SUPER manipulative and work your way out.

  • @proloductions726
    @proloductions726 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I already have the answer to the situation iam dealing with by only reading the title.

  • @subbingcontent1980
    @subbingcontent1980 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I havent watched the Video yet, but give Mark Manson's: Models Attract women through honestly a shot. ITS worth IT! Thanks LFA keep rolling brother

  • @madaosan6452
    @madaosan6452 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s funny cause seeing the phrase “honest approach “ it made me remember that one elevator scene with Jim Carrey from “Liar Liar”.

  • @VADemon
    @VADemon 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    12:25 You are spot on, it's also about the expectations set upon the women. But not just parents, society too, to an extent. Also I believe there's a bit of innate will of notoriety, bragging inside her circle of friends. It's a story from a second hand (trustworthy), but here it goes:
    A guy earns 20k a month working a management job (actually self-made for once), recently bought an expensive yacht for himself. About a million Euros iirc? Through that venture, he got to know a girl who's younger than him. Oh well, turns out her yacht is "bigger" at like 7 million. Aaand, uh, her parents' is like 5 times that.
    Although they didn't know each other for long, he was invited to a Christmas dinner with her parents. As you might have expected, (from his perception) her dad's look wasn't all that welcoming at times. Hinting at the idea "who are you with, daughter?" and that this relationship won't last for long.

  • @sircefiro
    @sircefiro 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I've gone my own way for a while, I'm going to try a couple of pick ups, no game, no shit, I'm just going in & saying I've come to shoot my shot, that's it, see how it goes lol.

  • @DeeperCurrents
    @DeeperCurrents 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    There should be a caveat on the "why do you think you're too good for me" line
    It can't come across as aggresive begging, angry, complaining or really emotional at all.
    A lot of girls are defensive when rejecting guys because they have had butt hurt guys freak out and make a big scene asking those sort of questions

    • @martycashcow6292
      @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Then maybe don't follow it up with aggressive begging.

  • @ShivGupta-ym3hd
    @ShivGupta-ym3hd 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i always thought people who were magnetic just had a natural gift. but after reading Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, i realized it’s all about the energy you project. chapter 3 was a game-changer-it taught me how to shift my vibe, and since then, i’ve noticed people reacting to me differently.

  • @arunambalal5845
    @arunambalal5845 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    whatsupp Brotherrrrrrssss !!!!!!!!!!!! 🤠🤙🤙

  • @ShinobiShowdown
    @ShinobiShowdown 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Men are honestly not bothering with approach anymore much like dating and apps it is not worth it.

  • @thedarkhacker8799
    @thedarkhacker8799 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    If we want to blame someone we can always look in the mirror. We gotta be our own competition.

    • @koc3127
      @koc3127 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      reddit IQ

  • @Zom-B-Gone
    @Zom-B-Gone 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Asking yourself why before every decision helps you weed out the stupid decisions from the smart ones.

  • @josht1167
    @josht1167 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fellow Tulsan! If I spot you around town, I’ll say what’s up

  • @Oki-t7q
    @Oki-t7q 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    we shame each other instead of practice mutual respect

  • @ericeighteen
    @ericeighteen 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your vids are always informative for me, just sayin.

  • @Alpha0371
    @Alpha0371 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I would like for you to be my Wingman.

  • @TimeWarpReels
    @TimeWarpReels 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Where is the jacket from LFA?

    • @LFA
      @LFA  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Check the pinned comment

  • @o0oStillWeRiseo0o
    @o0oStillWeRiseo0o 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Always be honest but don't reveal everything gents ! Trust me

    • @lloydwalden4053
      @lloydwalden4053 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Keep them Curious. 🤔🙏🇬🇧

  • @Surfsup448
    @Surfsup448 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @derekkase7884
    @derekkase7884 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just saw a girl who I felt saying what up to but I didn't do it .I regret not doing so ..if only I seen this video before 😅

  • @MX-CO
    @MX-CO 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Honest approach only works if she is attracted to you

    • @LFA
      @LFA  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

      The honest approach will reveal if she is or not.

    • @rutvikrs
      @rutvikrs 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@@LFAagree, but the survivor bias is high. There are too many situations where your honesty comes off as naivete or worse.

    • @Livingmybestlife82
      @Livingmybestlife82 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@rutvikrs and that's when you can decide for yourself to walk away based on their reaction to your authenticy. It's a win/win as your saving yourself time if they play games and if they respect you for your honesty your on the right path.

  • @DustinD-h3i
    @DustinD-h3i 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Theyll call you bitter and angry and think you are getting mad at them, bc honesty and truth is scary to people so caught up in the lie of themselves.

  • @Dan0rioN
    @Dan0rioN 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I say just live your life.. stop thinking about other people so much

  • @PikUpYourPantsPatrol
    @PikUpYourPantsPatrol 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You look so much younger without the sunglasses

    • @martycashcow6292
      @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You thought he wore them to look cooler. He wore them to look more modest.

    • @PikUpYourPantsPatrol
      @PikUpYourPantsPatrol 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@martycashcow6292 No....I didn't assume anything, I just notice he looks younger without them

  • @gusevening4910
    @gusevening4910 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great video, i used to ask my teenage son that same question when he would get upset. why are you so angry? i was legitimately curious.

  • @bharthishinde885
    @bharthishinde885 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    there was a time when i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. tried all the confidence hacks, but it still didn’t work. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it flipped everything for me. chapter 3? That one really changed the way i saw myself and how i project energy. it was like unlocking a secret.

  • @gilmore4523
    @gilmore4523 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are you still retaining?

  • @ijbermudez5785
    @ijbermudez5785 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I see you had an encounter with the rarely encountered unicorn species. Hopefully you captured it for further study 😂

  • @EstrellaO-2023
    @EstrellaO-2023 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    honest will always work...at least it will lead you to the "honest girl"

  • @HoàngThịNguyênên
    @HoàngThịNguyênên 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Your videos are always so helpful! Thank you for the new knowledge! 😻👅

  • @shanecle
    @shanecle 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are describing the Socratic method

  • @Andrew_406
    @Andrew_406 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💪💪

  • @Maze1930
    @Maze1930 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There is Still Truly Power in Simplicity..
    DetroitMaze19

  • @koc3127
    @koc3127 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    only works if your face passes the threshold. ( to be honest ), and if you don't know if it does, then you've just found the answer.

  • @thegirl150Ebisu
    @thegirl150Ebisu 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "I think it would be a huge service to yourself if you were to adopt a mindset in which you take 100% credit for all your wins and you take 100% of the blame for all your losses."

  • @RadikalfürRecht
    @RadikalfürRecht 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Germany in da House

  • @antevrankovic4539
    @antevrankovic4539 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    18:51-My girlfriend (beautiful, simple, honest, interesting) just told me at the beginning, after a few days: "I like you." It was all that it took

  • @yellowquantum4240
    @yellowquantum4240 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you lose because they cheat, accept, that if one day you win, you take all the credit...LFA Philosophy.

  • @juliend9495
    @juliend9495 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It worked on you because you have a male brain.. You think logically.. Even overwhelmed with émotions, you can return to Logic mode pretty easily ..
    Most women can’t.

  • @mrsenkur613
    @mrsenkur613 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Watching this drunk at 3am hits different.

  • @coolwinder
    @coolwinder 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bro, u are telling us how it should be, not how it is.

    • @LFA
      @LFA  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wrong. I'm telling you what my experience is.

    • @coolwinder
      @coolwinder 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @LFA then you are lucky. My experiance corresponds exactly with eg terryjoeljunior. Cheers

    • @SeanRussell-r1z
      @SeanRussell-r1z 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@coolwinder LFA is original. Most of these other guys just copy each others stuff. You’ll catch on eventually.

    • @coolwinder
      @coolwinder 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SeanRussell-r1z comment not of concern

    • @SeanRussell-r1z
      @SeanRussell-r1z 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@coolwinder Then I guess you simply aren’t ready.

  • @VADemon
    @VADemon 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    15:45 you extrapolate too much from that one Hispanic guy. Most other countries are either literally part of the western civilization or heavily influenced by it. So he's only had the tourist factor going for him.
    17:45 this next story, imo, shows that for a stranger from another country we're much more tolerant and lenient. If you did speak rapidly but in broken language, would she put up with that short interaction, handing over the phone to better understand what you are saying? I don't think so. With what I said before, I think we as a society would earn a lot by going to early 20th century levels of openness to casual conversations and not being annoyed about the distraction from TikTok by an inquiring stranger. Do people talk to each other in public transport? NYC is the horrifying example.
    18:50 why is it not easy to talk to the other gender in your own country? because the expectation of being approached by a man is that of pick-up. That's not what you expect from a foreigner... I guess?

  • @zeyuzhou4125
    @zeyuzhou4125 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I found a corporate job recently. The female colleague sitting next to me is cute. I’m attracted to her. And she seems is also interested in me. I used all my wit to make jokes with her and she laughed a lot. We talked a lot. After several weeks everything seems so nice until one day I ask her out. She immediately rejected me. And after that she even avoid to sit next to me. She ghosted me entirely. I’m so sad and confused. I’m a Chinese. All my friends say I’m a good looking guy. However I never had a girlfriend. I’m almost 30 years old now. Just a lonely, miserable, pathetic Chinese man and so confused about Chinese women.

    • @Aleksandar-yl4gj
      @Aleksandar-yl4gj 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      th-cam.com/video/CyTSoUEZ3ZI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=-KXLIi2A5R5CXCeJ
      And you must love yourself first bro...

    • @Yarmox
      @Yarmox 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Its hard out here man

    • @zeyuzhou4125
      @zeyuzhou4125 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Yarmox It’s like I did everything right. I said everything right. Everything goes so smoothly. And when I think this one can’t go wrong. So I just make one move. Then it’s done for me😂. But it’s alright. This is life. And life doesn’t make sense.

    • @Yarmox
      @Yarmox 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zeyuzhou4125 Yeah it seems like a game thats getting harder every year. I dont remember dating being this insane over a decade ago..

  • @MFAutoloader
    @MFAutoloader 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Me and my Nicaraguan girlfriend don't speak the same language. It's amazing 👏 we Google translate face to face and android translates on WhatsApp. She's fkn gorgeous, and we communicate better than most couples

  • @deF4vlt
    @deF4vlt 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man, I was just thinking about this. What happened to being genuine. All this game and shit has just so many rules, it seems almost unachievable. I remember in the past if you liked a girl, you would get the courage and say you liked her. If she didn't like you back, well it was just a heart broken, but you would still move one. Be real, man. Stop overanalyzing

  • @evernew23
    @evernew23 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not sure why you had to call him old man but nice story anyway.

    • @martycashcow6292
      @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because there was an old man and a young man as descriptors. No need to be upset by that big dog

  • @ZA56AA
    @ZA56AA 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No.
    First of all many Men are considered as sub5 today.
    Secondly and most importantly, you can ask her everything you want but the problem is NOT the fact you wont stand up for yourself but HER genuine attraction for YOU!
    And yes 80% of Men is unattractive to women, i personally believe its more than that always had been.
    Unattractive not necessarily repulsive or nauseating .
    At least not all of the times * laughing.
    Just unattractive.

    • @martycashcow6292
      @martycashcow6292 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      50% of everything has always been sub5 genius. That's how math works. Maybe you should find others in your bracket and appreciate your life.

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Then get in the 20% for looks and charisma it is easy.

    • @geekiepooh
      @geekiepooh 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@BigG6179
      I'm pretty sure if you put someone else's mindset who is more positive into a person who's a sub 5 or below, he will change/improve the person.

    • @BigG6179
      @BigG6179 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@geekiepooh It really is not that hard and so many people think because of bad selfie angles they think that they are sub 5 forever and that it is over for them. My hair is starting to receede and I am going on dates. These people have to stop being obsessed with Wheat waflles and just listen to LFA, but do the work to make it easier for themselves. If you combine doing the work and LFA's advice you are going to have women after you all day.

  • @CaptnAmeriQuann
    @CaptnAmeriQuann 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anything happen with the foreign girl ? I honestly prefer them even tho i haven't had one yet lmfao 💀