Bullshit without Spore Msia cannot survive why many Msian come Spore to work ? Dont make me laugh what really happen to Pastor Raymond Koh ?? U talk about religious harmony !!! BULLSHIT !!
tak suka jgn duduk malaysia, pegi balik negara kamu. apa sibuk dgn hal negara kami, suka hati kami nak malas ke apa ke, mcm la kau tu bagus sgt. penjajah....
She is right. Lazy & complacent are 2 different things. Lazy means you don't want to work or if you work you put half hearted effort. Malaysians are not by any means lazy. I would say we are actually hardworking and certainly overworked compared to the west if we compare the working hours. However the difference is, countries like Singapore, Japan, Western countries. They are very determined to be successful. They chase promotions or when they do business, it's amazing how far they think. I am speaking based on my experience living abroad. They would go all out to achieve their true potential. Which is nothing wrong, in fact I am all for people making more money and achieving success and so on. At the same time, I don't think there is anything wrong with being complacent and just being content with what you have in life.
Malaysian especially the Malays are brought up to be thankful and content in whatever situation they’re in which is why they are more relaxed and laid back but in some ways they tend to reach their comfort zone too soon before reaching the peak of their potential.
@@MaxChernov It's also mostly from religious viewpoint especially for Malay being Muslim, they're taught not to live for the materialistic world but rather strive for the hereafter, and a successful Muslim is considered as one who is in balance with both this life and in their religious obligations to the Creator. When you hear about hospitality, it's also an obligation in Islam to emphasis on charity or donation doesn't matter if you're rich or poor and the simplest of charity is the smile. As this life for Muslim is considered as a test, you will find most of them will be quite content and grateful for whatever they have even if it's little. And because of this contentment, you would rarely find a depressed Muslim or suicidal one like with the other groups. In some ways, this religious belief is being blamed for the lack of progress when it comes to comparison between Malaysia and Singapore, and it also drives the capitalist groups crazy because they can't exploit a group of content people. But like the lady said, there's actually no difference between Malaysia and Singapore when it comes to development, but I've been to Singapore and it's just a soulless city where wealth is the only standard of success.
@@nutzhazel I kept on hearing this religion thing being a reason for non progress. In terms of materialistism, Islam is no different than most other religions. Be it Christianity, Buddhism, Hiduism, etc. I mean if you are Buddhist, the right thing to do according to the monk is to be as minimalistic as possible. Why do you think those Buddhist monks live such a minimalist lifestyle? They don't even sleep on a bed. It has nothing to do with the religion itself, it has to do with culture. Prophet Muhammad once said that doing business is the most noble job in the world because then you provide jobs, you eliminate poverty, etc. He even preach people to travel as far as China to gain knowledge. If you are telling me Islam is the reason for backwardness you are wrong. The Malays today are far more successful than the Malays back then. Back then u can only dream to see Malay doctors, engineers, etc. If u are sick u go to the shaman back in those days. These days there are plenty of doctors. So clearly being Islam is not the reason for stifling progress. Neither is any other religion in the world. It's also a myth to say the Malays made no progress when the Malays made such amazing progress in less than 70 years since independence. Even in a country where people are not religious, it seems like there is a system that is putting countries under a lot of stress. Its called the welfare system and its making some people lazy. Are u going to blame religion for that too 🤷.
the way she answer shows that she understand Malaysia. calm, polite, just talk lightly about things. you can ask but malaysian or longer stay residents will always be careful and aware not to openly say any matter which is regarded as sensitive issues in Malaysia.
It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤
I fully agree.. She looks a wonderful person who's probably more Malaysian than I am 🤣. Politically polite with a comprehensive knowledge of the people and the country. Proud to have her as one of us 👍
It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤speak english like an educated Indian
Singapore is a first world country with highest GDP per capital, Malaysia is far behind in many way, but that doesn't mean Malaysian's living quality is lower. In Malaysia, we enjoy more space, lots of highway, good food, modern infrastructure, and we drive our car without the need to take the train for more privacy, bigger house , etc. But we still love Singapore for sure, they are our friends and we have family and friends in Singapore too.
To compare Sg to Malaysia is a bit skewed because the geography and demography is vastly different. It’s a little bit more accurate to compare Sg to KL city.
It is like using the yardstick to compare stuff... Which stick are you using? Malaysia's GDP is already past USD11500 last year. That's just a few hundred dollars short for it to be deemed a 'fully developed country'. Again if you use the health services as a yardstick and WHO criteria, Malaysia is already a developed country in 2023! That is now! Because the ratio of healthcare workers especially doctors and nurses produced has exceeded the minimum for it to be considered world class! Malaysia's healthcare is one of the world's best. Despite the long waiting period to see doctors in some public hospitals made worse by some richer folks who want free medicine and drugs in govt clinics! I certainly don't want to see Malaysia as a powerful country with a huge army and useless sophisticated weaponry that gets obsolete every so often to demonstrate we are a proud, strong yet touchy nation! (Like a certain country I know!)
The notion of 'lazy Malayans' came from the British colonials who at the time tried to exploit the Malayans into working in British plantation farms and tin mines. However, the exploitation failed. Malayans weren't interested into British recruitment system. The frustated British later recruited tons of Indians (Tamil/Telugu/Malayalam) and Chinese (Southern China) into working in British labour. Then the term 'lazy Malays' was coined. The Malays however, continued to work in rural areas without keeping in touch with urbanisation of some areas of Malaya at the time. The British even educated some early Malay leaders the notion of 'lazy Malays'. These leaders continued to spread the notion among the people. It's just a matter of perspective whether you believe it or not. Hey, the idea of Malay nationalism is now gone and irrelevant. Being lazy or industrious has nothing to do with racial today.
woah,im malaysian,and i safely said,this lady is surely assimilated to malaysian cultural..i like how she keep having her russian cultural side also,the other blood if i might says..not your typical normal mixed blood race in malaysia..the fact she experienced both good & bad and able to differentiate the crime for me is is the highlight for me..yes crime/bad thing happend,but as to to go the word criminal/heavy duty in society arent here (malaysia) are truly right.. most malaysian crime are small-time,snatch & grab,break in or whatever..also,her word are genuine not biased,all based on experience.. seeing this vid,like watching the un-cut version of the 1st vid u on her.. really broaden my view on foreigner-married-malaysian couple..
@@nolimitcityid Don’t be rude in the comments. I’m guessing you’re from In Do, so please be more polite and show your intelligence rather than your Stpdty
@@ld-n1648 Okay, We will immediately take Sarawak according to Majapahit's instructions. That is our island which is claimed by the English. You can develop the region towards Bangladesh.
I like this lady. She politely speaks truthfully and honestly without being offending to others (some people don’t know how) from her past experiences. I “Likes” this video and the other video she featured in. 👍😃
Very sharp observation about Malaysia, not just for a foreigner but even better than a local. Daria has the best view because she can step back and look at Malaysia as an 'outsider' but also resided in Malaysia and literally married into the society long enough to get the nuances.
@@RUHappyATM It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤
Daria shows herself to be an astute observer of cultures and human behaviour, and has deep and honest insights. And conveys her views tactfully. She is really worth listening to.
@@lotuseletre8724 It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤speak english like an educated Indian
Malaysians are smart, innovative and hardworking and are not lazy like people who don't know and make up stories. That's why our country is developed and prosperous. Ignore what people who don't know say..... if you search and know about the country of Malaysia, you will definitely love and like .... because the country has a diversity of races, cultures and food .. greetings from Malaysia
So true, agree with you 💯 … For me personally, political tur moil is what has always been holding Malaysia back 😔 If not for that, I think our country would be the most advanced in the SEA region.
I believe those lazy are alphabet warrior copypaste soybean cube folks that only know about specific maling, rendang, claim, batik knowledge...and they even have University for that kind of lazy special brain
Yeah. You see, there are many Malaysians at oversea working abroad and they prove that they are not lazy. For me that is how lazy can be measured if the race is lazy, they will not survive living outside Malaysia. I have many friends who work and living in Qatar UAE as an example and they are good hardworking, smart Malaysians.
Malaysia Inside, d book written by Daria, an interview would d best opportunity to get her insights about d book n about Malaysia from her perspective, any plans for an interview about her book?
Visited KL on a work trip recently as a SGean. It's pretty much the same as SG, better food. My Malaysian colleagues are just as hardworking as my Singapore counterparts 👍
a simple comparison, Singapore cannot accommodate many people, because this country has very limited places to build homes, but Malaysia is a country that can accommodate millions of people..like a lot ❤❤ for this both countries, Malaysia 🇲🇾 and Singapore 🇸🇬 🎉🎉🎉
Listened to what she answered n shared I get some points. People from the west coming to southeast Asian mostly for the tropical beaches and islands attractions. Other than businesses where it mostly goes to Singapore. Or Bangkok too. Eventually after tired of chaotic in Bangkok, Thailand and stressful high paying densely Singapore, they discovered beautiful KL in between. Same standard (or a bit higher) but more laid back, cheaper and easier to live in. No stress no obstacles. Suiter to stay as a family. If they need extra weekend funs, thailand n Singapore is just 1hour away flight.
The lady's observation & insight on Malaysia/Malaysians are spot on. 2:10 - The 3 rules are actually good advice that applies to everyone anywhere. Overall a good interview 👍
My classmate who converted to SG citizenship has a biased opinion that SG is better in all aspects and KL is not safe. She recently visited and stayed at the more affluent area in KL, she was impressed and thought it’s better than SG. At least the condo she stayed is nicer, has a lot more square footage than her HDB.
of course. i guess your classmate must be from rural area when they are malaysian. i’m klite. born and breed so when i’m start travelling to singapore for my first job it seems not really impressed me. after more than 10 years back and forth between kl and singapore it seem both of this city the gap is not that big. people tend to compare between singapore and Malaysia so the gap getting bigger. compare apple to apple like KL vs Singapore. thats much better i believe. singapore is just a city
as person who born and live in johor, I agree with her statement. yes, johor has nothing much to see and places to go is far, except if you travel out from city center but mainly due to food. reason I staying here because of the food; there's variety here (probably because I am local here :P)
3:49 "Cultural Appropriation" is a western (or US) thing. For us Malaysians, that term is just mind boggling and confusing..... to us it's "cultural appreciation"
Max, great video. I like Daria's comment (even the first video few months back) because she lived long enough in Malaysia to be able to give it a fair comment and critic as an outsider/foreigner - therefore less biased but at the same time, still very respectful and tactful in how she put down her words. Max, would love to hear her or any other guest to comment on the religion and racial situation in Malaysia. Many Americans and Europeans have very negative view of a certain religion, some even preventing them from wearing certain attire (i.e France), associating them with fatal crime etc, so, how true or untrue is the west's media. I think South East Asian countries formed a pact called ZOPFAN - zone of peace, freedom and neutrality back in the 70s due to the Cold War. This is still being held fast although Philippines and Singapore do have closer relationship to one side than the other. That is why Malaysia in particular, have good relation with Russia (USSR back then) and the West (but we decided to look east to Japan in the 80s).
Awesome talk. I like how Daria talks about her perspective on Malaysia, on its people, culture and everything, it is spot on. Realy like to get her book, to know more about her views about us. But is it only in Russia language? I hope there is an English version.
I think a Russian and an Indian should be the last to talk about crimes😂😂😂😂 Where she came from they are bombing each other😂😂😂😂 no wonder she stays for 30 years. Daria sould be writing about kgb or wars😏😏
Depending on what you're looking for, Thailand could be able to provide you with a better entertainment experience. Even a lot of Malaysians visit Thailand for leisure. On the other side, if you're seeking for a decent standard of living, Malaysia might be more pleasant for you. As Malaysia produces oil, which lowers the price of fuel here and lowers the price of other products as a result, Malaysia may also be more economical than Thailand. Due to the fact that many international businesses choose Singapore over other Southeast Asian countries to establish their regional headquarters, Singapore may have a much higher expat population. However. Due to their strong currency, which is three times stronger than Ringgit, Singapore is more expensive. In terms of food, the only significant difference between Malaysia and Singapore is the cost. Yet, Malaysian food, such as Nasi Lemak or Roti Chanai, is hard to find in Thailand while Thai food, such as Tom Yam, Song Tam are easy to find here. Malaysia's diversity is more apparent due to the prevalence of English-speaking Malays, Chinese, Indians, and other ethnic groups here. Malaysians frequently use English when speaking with foreigners to ensure that they can understand us. It's possible that many foreigners don't bother learning Bahasa when they are in Malaysia because they can still communicate with us in English. Only those who are driven to integrate into the community will go above and beyond to become so fluent in Bahasa. In contrast to Thai people, we need to master their language if we want to understand them better. Despite having Chinese or Malay ancestry, most people in Thailand are difficult to distinguish because they all speak Thai and English is not commonly spoken in Thailand. Like their counterparts in other Southeast Asian countries, Malaysians appear to be friendly people in general. We are used to strangers visiting or living in our country. We often let people enjoy our country on their own unless they require our assistance. If such is the case, we would be happy to help them. As an alternative, we are concerned that we would be seen as violating their privacy or arousing unjustified apprehension on their part. Yet, we give both tourists and expats a warm welcome and encourage them to get to know us as civilised people who can become excellent friends with them, especially while they are in our country.
@kepala kentang - Yes, we have a diverse selection of food because each ethnic group in Malaysia still adheres to its own culinary traditions, and exparts' restaurants serve their own cuisine to their own population, including Japanese, Koreans, Arabic, Thais, Indonesians, Myanmarese, Bangladeshis, Vietnamese, and many others. As a result, we have a wider selection of cuisine.
Malaysia are the most safest country for sure. Singapore too but Singapore easy to handle coz it’s too small. While Thailand , many Malaysian go over there to go for that ‘exxxtra’ entertainment. Mostly, not everyone but most of them.
@@kengchooamir - You can try at La Moon Thai Restaurant, Jalan Wan Kadir 3, Taman Tun Dr. Ismail G-02, The Green Terrace, Kuala Lumpur. The price is RM98.
Great to learn to improve ourselves from others' opinions ... Thank You So Much for the useful information that we normally wouldn't find in travelogues! 🙏🕯🌏🕊🇲🇾
I remember last years Singaporean man with Samurai sword attack random people on the road and drunk gangster fighting in the club but world will forget and forgives because the name of Singapore.. If the samething happen in Malaysia the world will said Malasyia is the most dangerous country in the world and the world will not forget and forgive..
@@hazejm Yes..malaysian artist have been attack by singaporean.. There is many more crime almost everyday i see in singapore but they still say singapore is safe 😂 if the same situation happen in malaysia they will say malaysia is dangerous 😂 so funny singaporean 😂😂
@@zulimanismail1966 Since when singapore is Tanah Suci with no crime ?? 🤣 i think you haven't been the most dangerous country like to mexico, usa or philippine, the people can bring g*n everywhere
There is no injury no? That is just one of the rare incident that a drug addict went crazy in the neighborhood with a cosplayer sword and got pin down by a few passerby. Such an incident it can get into the news that says how safe sg is. We don’t have riders go along the road and snatch hand bags from old folks and woman in sg, we also don’t have syndicates that tow your car away from shopping center to sell, we also don’t have robbers that knife old people withdrawing from atm for just 3k sgd. That’s why Sg has the impression Malaysia is a dangerous place, too much crimes stealing, robbing even in daylight.
Daria is right about Johor, Genting and East Coast during monsoon season. I agree totally. I came from Johor and now live in KL (for non-gambler, Genting is not appealing). As to the East Coast during monsoon season, you may find yourself unable to enjoy the beautiful beaches because of the constant rain and big waves (which can be dangerous too). It is cold with strong wind. Even the fishermen stop fishing during the monsoon season.
It is true that Malaysia has a policy known as the New Economic Policy (NEP) which was introduced in 1971 to address economic inequalities among the different ethnic groups in the country. The policy aims to increase the participation of the Malay community in the economy and reduce the wealth gap between the Malays and other ethnic groups. As part of the NEP, the government requires all companies operating in Malaysia to have a certain percentage of Malays in their workforce, including at the management and board levels. Specifically, for companies listed on the Malaysian stock exchange, the government requires that at least 30% of their board of directors be made up of Malays. This requirement is meant to ensure that the Malay community is represented in the decision-making process of these companies and has a stake in the country's economic growth. It is important to note that while the NEP is intended to promote Malay participation in the economy, it also aims to encourage the development of all communities in Malaysia. The policy has undergone several revisions over the years, and its implementation has been a subject of debate and criticism from some quarters. Overall, it is accurate to say that Malaysia has a policy that requires companies to have Malay representation at the non-executive director level in order to do business in the country. So the impact and effect of such policy is very obvious. 0:01
Malaysia having NEL policy and makes every non Malay company to employ Malay as their non executive director in order to do business in Malaysia. Even though there is a limit of 30 directorships, but it seems many dignities and children of elites holding more than 30 directorships of companies. It is true that Malaysia has a New Economic Policy (NEP) that includes affirmative action programs aimed at promoting the economic advancement of the country's majority ethnic group, the Malays. One aspect of this policy is the requirement that all publicly listed companies in Malaysia have at least one Malay non-executive director on their board. While there is a limit of 30 directorships that an individual can hold, it is true that some individuals, including the children of prominent politicians such as Dr. Mahathir Mohamad, have been known to hold directorships in multiple companies. This has led to concerns about potential conflicts of interest and the need for greater transparency and accountability in corporate governance. It is worth noting that Malaysia has made some efforts to address these concerns in recent years. For example, the Securities Commission Malaysia has introduced guidelines aimed at promoting good corporate governance and addressing conflicts of interest on company boards. However, it remains to be seen how effective these measures will be in practice, and whether they will be sufficient to address the broader issues raised by Malaysia's affirmative action policies. 0:01
The discourse surrounding the characterization of Malays as inherently lazy is a common one. However, a closer examination reveals that this perception is unfounded, for every race undoubtedly encompasses both industrious and indolent individuals. So, why is the Malay community, in particular, burdened with this label? The answer, I suggest, lies not in their innate disposition, but rather in their prioritization of religion. By placing spiritual fulfillment above other pursuits, Malays may appear to be less ambitious in the realm of material gain. Conversely, Chinese Malaysians, who exhibit an assiduous work ethic, prioritize the accumulation of wealth as a primary objective. Thus, it is not a matter of laziness, but rather a question of divergent value systems that gives rise to these different modes of behavior.
FYI, no specific race was mentioned in the video though, just Malaysians in general. And she did debunk the preconceived notion that many Singaporeans have, which is, Malaysians are lazy 😂
@@ld-n1648 fyi, it was common knowledge by now that Malays are the one being labelled as that. Thus here comment wasn't unwarranted. The way he/she gave the explaining was nice and accurate.
Good to watch this. I have been to some countries and have had mixed with the locals. Most of them will offer the best hospitality and kindness for the tourist. Approach the right person with the right attitude.
love my country the way it is.. dun want to be like japanese & korea who work like no tomorrow.. get stress coz of workload.. then go jump over from a building!?? ..we like our balance live! ..not chasing money 24/7.. got drunk by night.. and repeat everything the next day!! ..after all its all up to you to choose how u want to run ur life!! ..may Allah guide us!! ..peace all!!
Even me as johorean also think same as this lady. I dont think johor is fascinating enough to be visited. Nothing to offer except for the legoland, forest city, bla bla bla. I think johor has many attractive places to show to people outside there but sadly there were no effort to make it attractive. Many beautiful kampung and cultures but not enough effort to promote them.
JB is like a business city, many even Sngaporeans go to JB especially Pasir Gudang area for customers visits at the fabrication yards or industrial areas. It was not like this back in the 70s or 80s. Pantai Lido was a beautiful laid back area where families or couples will hang out at the long stretch of the beach area. And this is in the middle of JB. I love JB. It has this old city vibes. But then again Johor is a large state. There are so many places to explore.
Many Singaporeans do not plan to retire in their own country. Wealthy Singaporeans may choose to retire in Australia, while middle-class individuals may opt for Malaysia where they can live comfortably. Poor Singaporeans may choose to remain in Singapore to receive government subsidies. This is the reality.😅
If I remember correctly, the saying that Malaysia has very bad crime rate started from during the time when Singapore PM was Lee Kuan Yew. Someone high ranking mentioned it and it was quoted in the news. There was a bit of a small hu-ha that happened because of that because that person specifically mentioned Johor in their assertion. So from then on, Singaporeans always repeat this statement as a cautionary tale. Something like, "look at that clerk, if you don't study hard u will grow up to be a clerk" type of thing. 🤷
It used to be back in the 90s even during early 2010s. But ever since, the police have stepped up, snatched theft has been reduced and illegal racing was also reduced these days. It is still happening every now and then but it is not nearly as bad as it used to be. I actually think KL is moderately safe compared to most other cities. I haven't spent a lot of time in JB so I can't speak of the city quite as much.
@@oralabora One thing to note about Sabah, it’s the state which has the highest amount of illegals (more than 1 million population). The local Sabah population is only around 2.9 million. Most of the crimes (especially the heavy ones), are committed by these illegal immigrants, and that’s truly a sad fact. I’m a Malaysian Sabahan btw.
You are right, Daria. My gosh you are really right... i sometimes say the same thing as well the moment i cross the causeway as well step in the airport. Thanks for making the wake us Malaysians.
3:10 That reminds me of an acquaintance who went for a drink with my other half and they came across one European expat inserting “lah” in almost every sentence. The acquaintance, not able to contain himself… started scolding the over excited “lah” expat. 😂🫢 21:12 I’m in a mix marriage too. For me, we exposes our kiddo to both cultures pretty much as soon as kiddo is born. 😅 Many of my maternal extended families are the same and their kids speak 3 - 5 languages.
the country is the reflection of its people...Malaysia wont be where it is if the people are lazy...as simple as that... when I was young i used to work more than 12 hours a day
You don't know how your country until foreigner give their opinion on your country... Is like reading people review about your shop on Google maps. She is very nice person BTW.
May i correct... It's " Lazy Malay ". Actually it used as a reminder or boost our anger ( motivated ) and challenges ourselves improving way of life. If you are really a lazy person...you will hurt and offended. But rather than determined
Frankly speaking, Malaysia is a nation with no strong culture unlike other nations. Malaysian tend to accept any outside cultures which they percieved benefited to them and suite to thier preferance. Thus, thats why many foriegners will claim that they easily assimilate with local in Malaysia.
Daria is just a amazing Human Being. I like her values about Genting Highlands and about Johor. And she appreciate the natural things who can give us more joy, then all the glammer around Genting shoppingmall. Thank you for sharing Max 👏👏👏🙏🌹
Lazy malay comes from british colonial era when they saw Malay wake up at noon, that's what they see. But what they didn't see is that Malay already wake up around 5am, go to sawah padi or rubber estate and finish work by 9am and they go back to sleep.
It was a very enlightening and pleasant conversation. Sis Daria, may God shower you with blessings for the rest of your life. I wish you a healthy and happy life in the long - run. Have a great day today and every day!.. 🙏❤️
The people who insults Malaysia most are actually Malaysians. LOL. Ive been to almost every developed countries and I love Malaysia most. So has my son and he doesnt want to follow anymore whenever I go overseas.
I remembered a malaysian said he love go to Russia coz russian are more acceptable to outsider especially muslim compare to america and other european country
I am a Singaporean who LOVE Malaysia so much. Food in Malaysia is SOooooooOOO much better and more variety. Although, if i want healthier option, i will get them in Singapore and I do appreciate that as well.
Don’t know where you all get that idea from, opinion of young teens? As adults we also read world news and don’t worship angmoh. US is definitely not safe with all the gun violence and US after Obama is just going downhill. However as a small Nation we do not want to make enemies, whatever our opinion are doesn’t change the fact that we can’t offend anyone just for the sake of it.
@@azizahabdullah1143 I see. Such racist comment does not deserve our attention. I can debate all day long but I prefer to enjoy my peaceful night watching old movies lol.
FYI ....Singapore was once part of Malaysia....we were one before and spiritually is still together. These are cross border relatives...separated only by a political border...and that includes my own family. This is even more true for the people of the former Strait states ie Singapore, Malacca and Penang. The parents of the next Singapore PM in waiting migrated from Ipoh... that gives you an idea how the families are related to each other across the border.
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'never feel I'm taken advantage of, because I'm a foreigner'... Me, remembering how many times I was offered the 'non local rate' in Singapore or Malaysia, more than twenty years ago, when there were many shops, stalls, even large stores with no fixed prices, where you had to bargain...
it's not lazy but malaysian mostly have the incommodious behaviour and the workers always had an ambitious dream to become a boss as soon as possible and that's what happened till this day😀
Like in malaysia we didnt want to be alot of stress with work compare to other countries like japan and america but we still could achieve our goal just by using strategy and teamwork Malaysia are not that workoholic
Like this video, if you like Malaysia
Like this video and I'm Malaysian 🥰
@Lexx Don't misleading information.
Bullshit without Spore Msia cannot survive why many Msian come Spore to work ? Dont make me laugh what really happen to Pastor Raymond Koh ?? U talk about religious harmony !!! BULLSHIT !!
tak suka jgn duduk malaysia, pegi balik negara kamu. apa sibuk dgn hal negara kami, suka hati kami nak malas ke apa ke, mcm la kau tu bagus sgt. penjajah....
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She is right. Lazy & complacent are 2 different things. Lazy means you don't want to work or if you work you put half hearted effort. Malaysians are not by any means lazy. I would say we are actually hardworking and certainly overworked compared to the west if we compare the working hours. However the difference is, countries like Singapore, Japan, Western countries. They are very determined to be successful. They chase promotions or when they do business, it's amazing how far they think. I am speaking based on my experience living abroad. They would go all out to achieve their true potential. Which is nothing wrong, in fact I am all for people making more money and achieving success and so on. At the same time, I don't think there is anything wrong with being complacent and just being content with what you have in life.
It’s nice when you have a good balance, right?
@@MaxChernov True 😁
Malaysian especially the Malays are brought up to be thankful and content in whatever situation they’re in which is why they are more relaxed and laid back but in some ways they tend to reach their comfort zone too soon before reaching the peak of their potential.
@@MaxChernov It's also mostly from religious viewpoint especially for Malay being Muslim, they're taught not to live for the materialistic world but rather strive for the hereafter, and a successful Muslim is considered as one who is in balance with both this life and in their religious obligations to the Creator. When you hear about hospitality, it's also an obligation in Islam to emphasis on charity or donation doesn't matter if you're rich or poor and the simplest of charity is the smile. As this life for Muslim is considered as a test, you will find most of them will be quite content and grateful for whatever they have even if it's little. And because of this contentment, you would rarely find a depressed Muslim or suicidal one like with the other groups.
In some ways, this religious belief is being blamed for the lack of progress when it comes to comparison between Malaysia and Singapore, and it also drives the capitalist groups crazy because they can't exploit a group of content people. But like the lady said, there's actually no difference between Malaysia and Singapore when it comes to development, but I've been to Singapore and it's just a soulless city where wealth is the only standard of success.
@@nutzhazel I kept on hearing this religion thing being a reason for non progress. In terms of materialistism, Islam is no different than most other religions. Be it Christianity, Buddhism, Hiduism, etc. I mean if you are Buddhist, the right thing to do according to the monk is to be as minimalistic as possible. Why do you think those Buddhist monks live such a minimalist lifestyle? They don't even sleep on a bed. It has nothing to do with the religion itself, it has to do with culture. Prophet Muhammad once said that doing business is the most noble job in the world because then you provide jobs, you eliminate poverty, etc. He even preach people to travel as far as China to gain knowledge. If you are telling me Islam is the reason for backwardness you are wrong.
The Malays today are far more successful than the Malays back then. Back then u can only dream to see Malay doctors, engineers, etc. If u are sick u go to the shaman back in those days. These days there are plenty of doctors. So clearly being Islam is not the reason for stifling progress. Neither is any other religion in the world. It's also a myth to say the Malays made no progress when the Malays made such amazing progress in less than 70 years since independence. Even in a country where people are not religious, it seems like there is a system that is putting countries under a lot of stress. Its called the welfare system and its making some people lazy. Are u going to blame religion for that too 🤷.
the way she answer shows that she understand Malaysia. calm, polite, just talk lightly about things. you can ask but malaysian or longer stay residents will always be careful and aware not to openly say any matter which is regarded as sensitive issues in Malaysia.
Yes, because moreso than anything else, Malaysians are known for our tissue hearts.
It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤
Her opinion is not bias and also express it in a polite manner. 100% agreed. I would say she's already a malaysian. 😁
I fully agree..
She looks a wonderful person who's probably more Malaysian than I am 🤣. Politically polite with a comprehensive knowledge of the people and the country. Proud to have her as one of us 👍
It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤speak english like an educated Indian
awesome... Daria, you have done it again... it's true, if you like / love Malaysia, Malaysia will like and love you back... kudos to Max
Super true!
Where she came from they are bombing each other😂😂😂😂 no wonder she stays for 30 years!
No country is prefect….not even Singapore… but every country has its beauty…..🎉🎉
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especially not singapore
@@brabaius162 oh, such hate……
Singapore has it own natural beauty for instance migrating birds. Sadly this place had been destroyed by the development.
The fact that u use "not even Singapore" kinda bothers me. Why didn't u say "not even Malaysia" instead?
Singapore is a first world country with highest GDP per capital, Malaysia is far behind in many way, but that doesn't mean Malaysian's living quality is lower. In Malaysia, we enjoy more space, lots of highway, good food, modern infrastructure, and we drive our car without the need to take the train for more privacy, bigger house , etc. But we still love Singapore for sure, they are our friends and we have family and friends in Singapore too.
To compare Malaysia with Singapore is......
Singapore is just a city-state, Malaysia is a Nation.
To compare Sg to Malaysia is a bit skewed because the geography and demography is vastly different. It’s a little bit more accurate to compare Sg to KL city.
@@leealex24 FYi, KL has only 2 million people, Kelang Valley ( KL+Selangor) has 8 million people.
It is like using the yardstick to compare stuff... Which stick are you using? Malaysia's GDP is already past USD11500 last year. That's just a few hundred dollars short for it to be deemed a 'fully developed country'. Again if you use the health services as a yardstick and WHO criteria, Malaysia is already a developed country in 2023! That is now! Because the ratio of healthcare workers especially doctors and nurses produced has exceeded the minimum for it to be considered world class! Malaysia's healthcare is one of the world's best. Despite the long waiting period to see doctors in some public hospitals made worse by some richer folks who want free medicine and drugs in govt clinics! I certainly don't want to see Malaysia as a powerful country with a huge army and useless sophisticated weaponry that gets obsolete every so often to demonstrate we are a proud, strong yet touchy nation! (Like a certain country I know!)
@@wancipong Such a ra c I st response. Please don’t be a poor representation of your great country Singapore.
The notion of 'lazy Malayans' came from the British colonials who at the time tried to exploit the Malayans into working in British plantation farms and tin mines. However, the exploitation failed. Malayans weren't interested into British recruitment system. The frustated British later recruited tons of Indians (Tamil/Telugu/Malayalam) and Chinese (Southern China) into working in British labour. Then the term 'lazy Malays' was coined. The Malays however, continued to work in rural areas without keeping in touch with urbanisation of some areas of Malaya at the time. The British even educated some early Malay leaders the notion of 'lazy Malays'. These leaders continued to spread the notion among the people. It's just a matter of perspective whether you believe it or not. Hey, the idea of Malay nationalism is now gone and irrelevant. Being lazy or industrious has nothing to do with racial today.
We love Malaysia! We know how to appreciate our lives .
I am a Malaysian. I love and respect my neighbouring countries, culture and people whether it be Thailand, Indonesia or Singapore.
even Malaysians need to go Thailand to get married(s), so respect our neighbors..
@@paanbon6543 so they can hv sex legally..😁
woah,im malaysian,and i safely said,this lady is surely assimilated to malaysian cultural..i like how she keep having her russian cultural side also,the other blood if i might says..not your typical normal mixed blood race in malaysia..the fact she experienced both good & bad and able to differentiate the crime for me is is the highlight for me..yes crime/bad thing happend,but as to to go the word criminal/heavy duty in society arent here (malaysia) are truly right.. most malaysian crime are small-time,snatch & grab,break in or whatever..also,her word are genuine not biased,all based on experience.. seeing this vid,like watching the un-cut version of the 1st vid u on her.. really broaden my view on foreigner-married-malaysian couple..
I noticed her. Daria works as translator to UN diplomats.
@@bahloolstories5361 yep, that's her..u can watch Max's 1st video on her,she did tell him bout her job & how'd she ended up stays in Malaysia..
@@nolimitcityid Don’t be rude in the comments. I’m guessing you’re from In Do, so please be more polite and show your intelligence rather than your Stpdty
@@ld-n1648 Okay, We will immediately take Sarawak according to Majapahit's instructions. That is our island which is claimed by the English. You can develop the region towards Bangladesh.
@@nolimitcityid I want whatever it is that you are smoking😂😂
I like this lady. She politely speaks truthfully and honestly without being offending to others (some people don’t know how) from her past experiences. I “Likes” this video and the other video she featured in. 👍😃
She works for the United Nations, and so, diplomacy is in her bones.
Very sharp observation about Malaysia, not just for a foreigner but even better than a local. Daria has the best view because she can step back and look at Malaysia as an 'outsider' but also resided in Malaysia and literally married into the society long enough to get the nuances.
LOL, she's married to a Malaysian.
But she does have a Plan B as well.
@@RUHappyATM It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤
well obvoiously russians where she came from, are zombies with their bombs and their tanks..no wonder she don't want to return to russia
@@brabaius162 RU sure he is an immigrant?
@@RUHappyATM poor Chinese were brought to work in tin mines. while the British brought poor Indians to labor in plantations
Daria shows herself to be an astute observer of cultures and human behaviour, and has deep and honest insights. And conveys her views tactfully. She is really worth listening to.
yes, thank your sharing your thoughts Daria. She's affirmed what I have observed from the outside.
@@lotuseletre8724 It's a love story set in the Malay Federation. A russian migrant in search of adventure in far away land met an Indian migrant and fell in love..The tale of two migrants.❤❤❤❤speak english like an educated Indian
We are hard working but lazy when relaxing. Soo it is healthy to be lazy when necessary, but hard working when required. We enjoy life.
Malaysians are smart, innovative and hardworking and are not lazy like people who don't know and make up stories. That's why our country is developed and prosperous. Ignore what people who don't know say..... if you search and know about the country of Malaysia, you will definitely love and like .... because the country has a diversity of races, cultures and food .. greetings from Malaysia
So true, agree with you 💯 … For me personally, political tur moil is what has always been holding Malaysia back 😔 If not for that, I think our country would be the most advanced in the SEA region.
Developing not developed.
I believe those lazy are alphabet warrior copypaste soybean cube folks that only know about specific maling, rendang, claim, batik knowledge...and they even have University for that kind of lazy special brain
Not lazy but slow lah. Especially our politics and our ROAD!!!!!!!! Come to old klang road and see how many pot holes!!!!!!!
Yeah. You see, there are many Malaysians at oversea working abroad and they prove that they are not lazy. For me that is how lazy can be measured if the race is lazy, they will not survive living outside Malaysia. I have many friends who work and living in Qatar UAE as an example and they are good hardworking, smart Malaysians.
Thanks for sharing this wonderful video. Daria is such a lovely person, speaks passionly, truthfully about Malaysia from her genuine perspective.
By d way, d phrase 'Lazy Malaysians' on d cover of your video ???
Malaysia Inside, d book written by Daria, an interview would d best opportunity to get her insights about d book n about Malaysia from her perspective, any plans for an interview about her book?
@@Yasin_Affandi maybe to 'impress' kiasu s'poreans? haha!
@@norzainimohd-zain1325 Maybe, hahaha. 😀
@@Yasin_Affandi its how it works on TH-cam to get viewers :)
Visited KL on a work trip recently as a SGean. It's pretty much the same as SG, better food. My Malaysian colleagues are just as hardworking as my Singapore counterparts 👍
Thanks for sharing!
Singaporeans most stressed in the world a rat island
@@MaxChernov shame Many Singapore people stole cheaper petrol in Malaysia 🤭🤣😂
a simple comparison, Singapore cannot accommodate many people, because this country has very limited places to build homes, but Malaysia is a country that can accommodate millions of people..like a lot ❤❤ for this both countries, Malaysia 🇲🇾 and Singapore 🇸🇬 🎉🎉🎉
Listened to what she answered n shared I get some points.
People from the west coming to southeast Asian mostly for the tropical beaches and islands attractions. Other than businesses where it mostly goes to Singapore. Or Bangkok too.
Eventually after tired of chaotic in Bangkok, Thailand and stressful high paying densely Singapore, they discovered beautiful KL in between. Same standard (or a bit higher) but more laid back, cheaper and easier to live in. No stress no obstacles. Suiter to stay as a family. If they need extra weekend funs, thailand n Singapore is just 1hour away flight.
The lady's observation & insight on Malaysia/Malaysians are spot on. 2:10 - The 3 rules are actually good advice that applies to everyone anywhere. Overall a good interview 👍
My classmate who converted to SG citizenship has a biased opinion that SG is better in all aspects and KL is not safe. She recently visited and stayed at the more affluent area in KL, she was impressed and thought it’s better than SG. At least the condo she stayed is nicer, has a lot more square footage than her HDB.
of course. i guess your classmate must be from rural area when they are malaysian. i’m klite. born and breed so when i’m start travelling to singapore for my first job it seems not really impressed me. after more than 10 years back and forth between kl and singapore it seem both of this city the gap is not that big. people tend to compare between singapore and Malaysia so the gap getting bigger. compare apple to apple like KL vs Singapore. thats much better i believe. singapore is just a city
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Another great discourse from both of you, bravo..
Agree with her about Johor being an uninteresting place compared with KL for holidaying.
I have been living in JB since born. What she said is so damn true.
You mean JB city, not Johor state. The state has many beautiful places.
If you like to fish Johor is best in peninsula
as person who born and live in johor, I agree with her statement. yes, johor has nothing much to see and places to go is far, except if you travel out from city center but mainly due to food.
reason I staying here because of the food; there's variety here (probably because I am local here :P)
Max, you have done a great job and as to Daria, her honesty and open mind is just fantastic
3:49 "Cultural Appropriation" is a western (or US) thing. For us Malaysians, that term is just mind boggling and confusing..... to us it's "cultural appreciation"
Max, great video.
I like Daria's comment (even the first video few months back) because she lived long enough in Malaysia to be able to give it a fair comment and critic as an outsider/foreigner - therefore less biased but at the same time, still very respectful and tactful in how she put down her words.
Max, would love to hear her or any other guest to comment on the religion and racial situation in Malaysia. Many Americans and Europeans have very negative view of a certain religion, some even preventing them from wearing certain attire (i.e France), associating them with fatal crime etc, so, how true or untrue is the west's media.
I think South East Asian countries formed a pact called ZOPFAN - zone of peace, freedom and neutrality back in the 70s due to the Cold War. This is still being held fast although Philippines and Singapore do have closer relationship to one side than the other. That is why Malaysia in particular, have good relation with Russia (USSR back then) and the West (but we decided to look east to Japan in the 80s).
interesting perspective! thanks!
Yes this will be interesting to watch though 😊
Awesome talk. I like how Daria talks about her perspective on Malaysia, on its people, culture and everything, it is spot on. Realy like to get her book, to know more about her views about us. But is it only in Russia language? I hope there is an English version.
let me ask her to make the Eng ver :)
I want to read in English or BM language too... Pls ask her.. Thanks Mark...
I think a Russian and an Indian should be the last to talk about crimes😂😂😂😂 Where she came from they are bombing each other😂😂😂😂 no wonder she stays for 30 years. Daria sould be writing about kgb or wars😏😏
Depending on what you're looking for, Thailand could be able to provide you with a better entertainment experience. Even a lot of Malaysians visit Thailand for leisure. On the other side, if you're seeking for a decent standard of living, Malaysia might be more pleasant for you. As Malaysia produces oil, which lowers the price of fuel here and lowers the price of other products as a result, Malaysia may also be more economical than Thailand. Due to the fact that many international businesses choose Singapore over other Southeast Asian countries to establish their regional headquarters, Singapore may have a much higher expat population. However. Due to their strong currency, which is three times stronger than Ringgit, Singapore is more expensive.
In terms of food, the only significant difference between Malaysia and Singapore is the cost. Yet, Malaysian food, such as Nasi Lemak or Roti Chanai, is hard to find in Thailand while Thai food, such as Tom Yam, Song Tam are easy to find here. Malaysia's diversity is more apparent due to the prevalence of English-speaking Malays, Chinese, Indians, and other ethnic groups here. Malaysians frequently use English when speaking with foreigners to ensure that they can understand us. It's possible that many foreigners don't bother learning Bahasa when they are in Malaysia because they can still communicate with us in English. Only those who are driven to integrate into the community will go above and beyond to become so fluent in Bahasa. In contrast to Thai people, we need to master their language if we want to understand them better. Despite having Chinese or Malay ancestry, most people in Thailand are difficult to distinguish because they all speak Thai and English is not commonly spoken in Thailand.
Like their counterparts in other Southeast Asian countries, Malaysians appear to be friendly people in general. We are used to strangers visiting or living in our country. We often let people enjoy our country on their own unless they require our assistance. If such is the case, we would be happy to help them. As an alternative, we are concerned that we would be seen as violating their privacy or arousing unjustified apprehension on their part. Yet, we give both tourists and expats a warm welcome and encourage them to get to know us as civilised people who can become excellent friends with them, especially while they are in our country.
amazing analytics! thanks!
@kepala kentang - Yes, we have a diverse selection of food because each ethnic group in Malaysia still adheres to its own culinary traditions, and exparts' restaurants serve their own cuisine to their own population, including Japanese, Koreans, Arabic, Thais, Indonesians, Myanmarese, Bangladeshis, Vietnamese, and many others. As a result, we have a wider selection of cuisine.
Malaysia are the most safest country for sure. Singapore too but Singapore easy to handle coz it’s too small. While Thailand , many Malaysian go over there to go for that ‘exxxtra’ entertainment. Mostly, not everyone but most of them.
but I can't find Thai crab meat omelette in KL/PJ
@@kengchooamir - You can try at La Moon Thai Restaurant, Jalan Wan Kadir 3, Taman Tun Dr. Ismail G-02, The Green Terrace, Kuala Lumpur. The price is RM98.
Great to learn to improve ourselves from others' opinions ... Thank You So Much for the useful information that we normally wouldn't find in travelogues! 🙏🕯🌏🕊🇲🇾
thanks! we are trying to do smthg more unique on this channel
Great video. Love it.
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I remember last years Singaporean man with Samurai sword attack random people on the road and drunk gangster fighting in the club but world will forget and forgives because the name of Singapore.. If the samething happen in Malaysia the world will said Malasyia is the most dangerous country in the world and the world will not forget and forgive..
Since when everyone in the world care about Malaysia..??..
Happened in Geylang street isn't it?
@@hazejm Yes..malaysian artist have been attack by singaporean.. There is many more crime almost everyday i see in singapore but they still say singapore is safe 😂 if the same situation happen in malaysia they will say malaysia is dangerous 😂 so funny singaporean 😂😂
@@zulimanismail1966 Since when singapore is Tanah Suci with no crime ?? 🤣 i think you haven't been the most dangerous country like to mexico, usa or philippine, the people can bring g*n everywhere
There is no injury no? That is just one of the rare incident that a drug addict went crazy in the neighborhood with a cosplayer sword and got pin down by a few passerby. Such an incident it can get into the news that says how safe sg is.
We don’t have riders go along the road and snatch hand bags from old folks and woman in sg, we also don’t have syndicates that tow your car away from shopping center to sell, we also don’t have robbers that knife old people withdrawing from atm for just 3k sgd.
That’s why Sg has the impression Malaysia is a dangerous place, too much crimes stealing, robbing even in daylight.
Hey Max, just come over and stay here already 🤣 You seem quite interested on knowing what's it like living in Malaysia. Why not give it a go.
Nice:) thanks for staying
Daria is right about Johor, Genting and East Coast during monsoon season. I agree totally. I came from Johor and now live in KL (for non-gambler, Genting is not appealing). As to the East Coast during monsoon season, you may find yourself unable to enjoy the beautiful beaches because of the constant rain and big waves (which can be dangerous too). It is cold with strong wind. Even the fishermen stop fishing during the monsoon season.
Excellent interview, the questions were good and the answers are on point.
thanks so much!
love your video. your video is getting better and better
Thanks so much! 🙏
Congrats Max and team...11.3k subs & growing. Happy for you...hard work shall be rewarded
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It is nice that thailand indonesia malaysia singapore philipines etc are closed to each other
It is true that Malaysia has a policy known as the New Economic Policy (NEP) which was introduced in 1971 to address economic inequalities among the different ethnic groups in the country. The policy aims to increase the participation of the Malay community in the economy and reduce the wealth gap between the Malays and other ethnic groups.
As part of the NEP, the government requires all companies operating in Malaysia to have a certain percentage of Malays in their workforce, including at the management and board levels. Specifically, for companies listed on the Malaysian stock exchange, the government requires that at least 30% of their board of directors be made up of Malays.
This requirement is meant to ensure that the Malay community is represented in the decision-making process of these companies and has a stake in the country's economic growth.
It is important to note that while the NEP is intended to promote Malay participation in the economy, it also aims to encourage the development of all communities in Malaysia. The policy has undergone several revisions over the years, and its implementation has been a subject of debate and criticism from some quarters.
Overall, it is accurate to say that Malaysia has a policy that requires companies to have Malay representation at the non-executive director level in order to do business in the country. So the impact and effect of such policy is very obvious. 0:01
Malaysia having NEL policy and makes every non Malay company to employ Malay as their non executive director in order to do business in Malaysia. Even though there is a limit of 30 directorships, but it seems many dignities and children of elites holding more than 30 directorships of companies.
It is true that Malaysia has a New Economic Policy (NEP) that includes affirmative action programs aimed at promoting the economic advancement of the country's majority ethnic group, the Malays. One aspect of this policy is the requirement that all publicly listed companies in Malaysia have at least one Malay non-executive director on their board.
While there is a limit of 30 directorships that an individual can hold, it is true that some individuals, including the children of prominent politicians such as Dr. Mahathir Mohamad, have been known to hold directorships in multiple companies. This has led to concerns about potential conflicts of interest and the need for greater transparency and accountability in corporate governance.
It is worth noting that Malaysia has made some efforts to address these concerns in recent years. For example, the Securities Commission Malaysia has introduced guidelines aimed at promoting good corporate governance and addressing conflicts of interest on company boards. However, it remains to be seen how effective these measures will be in practice, and whether they will be sufficient to address the broader issues raised by Malaysia's affirmative action policies. 0:01
LOL. Except given how corrupt the politicians are in there, the ones who benefit the most are cronies of said politicians.
The discourse surrounding the characterization of Malays as inherently lazy is a common one. However, a closer examination reveals that this perception is unfounded, for every race undoubtedly encompasses both industrious and indolent individuals. So, why is the Malay community, in particular, burdened with this label? The answer, I suggest, lies not in their innate disposition, but rather in their prioritization of religion. By placing spiritual fulfillment above other pursuits, Malays may appear to be less ambitious in the realm of material gain. Conversely, Chinese Malaysians, who exhibit an assiduous work ethic, prioritize the accumulation of wealth as a primary objective. Thus, it is not a matter of laziness, but rather a question of divergent value systems that gives rise to these different modes of behavior.
FYI, no specific race was mentioned in the video though, just Malaysians in general. And she did debunk the preconceived notion that many Singaporeans have, which is, Malaysians are lazy 😂
@@ld-n1648 fyi, it was common knowledge by now that Malays are the one being labelled as that. Thus here comment wasn't unwarranted. The way he/she gave the explaining was nice and accurate.
Good to watch this. I have been to some countries and have had mixed with the locals. Most of them will offer the best hospitality and kindness for the tourist. Approach the right person with the right attitude.
I'm loving this series of interviews! Thank you for creating them!
For me Malaysia is the heaven of earth...even we are not rich as Singapore but we are happy what we have...
S'pore is not a heaven but we are lucky and happy to be born in this country!
nice of you to be very frank about Malaysia :)
GDP in Singapore is higher, but most of its people live in stress condition, since the cost of living is very expensive.
that's a stereotype actually. Singapore came in 27th out of 146 countries in the World Happiness Report 2022. Malaysia is ranked 70th
This is what Malaysians like to think. Singapore is affordable if you earn in SGD.
love my country the way it is.. dun want to be like japanese & korea who work like no tomorrow.. get stress coz of workload.. then go jump over from a building!?? ..we like our balance live! ..not chasing money 24/7.. got drunk by night.. and repeat everything the next day!! ..after all its all up to you to choose how u want to run ur life!! ..may Allah guide us!! ..peace all!!
100% Agree
I enjoy your videos with Daria. She has great insight.
Even me as johorean also think same as this lady. I dont think johor is fascinating enough to be visited. Nothing to offer except for the legoland, forest city, bla bla bla. I think johor has many attractive places to show to people outside there but sadly there were no effort to make it attractive. Many beautiful kampung and cultures but not enough effort to promote them.
I love to go to Desaru ♥️
JB is like a business city, many even Sngaporeans go to JB especially Pasir Gudang area for customers visits at the fabrication yards or industrial areas. It was not like this back in the 70s or 80s. Pantai Lido was a beautiful laid back area where families or couples will hang out at the long stretch of the beach area. And this is in the middle of JB. I love JB. It has this old city vibes. But then again Johor is a large state. There are so many places to explore.
Haha.. same.. even im muarian.. serius johor bosan pdhl byk benda boleh offer.. why not ambik sikit2 idea dr melaka..
Now u doing a good video showing different personality
Great interview. Very friendly & likeable lady. Well done.
Many Singaporeans do not plan to retire in their own country. Wealthy Singaporeans may choose to retire in Australia, while middle-class individuals may opt for Malaysia where they can live comfortably. Poor Singaporeans may choose to remain in Singapore to receive government subsidies. This is the reality.😅
Daria, I think I met her many years ago in Bangsar. If I can still recall, it was a dinner at home gig she was doing with her friends.
She's right. Cultural Appropriation is not a thing in Malaysia 😂 and I like this Daria. She's very tactful.
If I remember correctly, the saying that Malaysia has very bad crime rate started from during the time when Singapore PM was Lee Kuan Yew. Someone high ranking mentioned it and it was quoted in the news. There was a bit of a small hu-ha that happened because of that because that person specifically mentioned Johor in their assertion. So from then on, Singaporeans always repeat this statement as a cautionary tale. Something like, "look at that clerk, if you don't study hard u will grow up to be a clerk" type of thing. 🤷
Yeh, I don’t think Johor is so dangerous
It used to be back in the 90s even during early 2010s. But ever since, the police have stepped up, snatched theft has been reduced and illegal racing was also reduced these days. It is still happening every now and then but it is not nearly as bad as it used to be. I actually think KL is moderately safe compared to most other cities. I haven't spent a lot of time in JB so I can't speak of the city quite as much.
yeah, i live there 15 years before & i'm still alive😆😆
@@oralabora One thing to note about Sabah, it’s the state which has the highest amount of illegals (more than 1 million population). The local Sabah population is only around 2.9 million. Most of the crimes (especially the heavy ones), are committed by these illegal immigrants, and that’s truly a sad fact. I’m a Malaysian Sabahan btw.
@Entertainment WOW that what you are saying actually sounds dangerous! 😅
You are right, Daria. My gosh you are really right... i sometimes say the same thing as well the moment i cross the causeway as well step in the airport. Thanks for making the wake us Malaysians.
3:10 That reminds me of an acquaintance who went for a drink with my other half and they came across one European expat inserting “lah” in almost every sentence. The acquaintance, not able to contain himself… started scolding the over excited “lah” expat. 😂🫢
21:12 I’m in a mix marriage too. For me, we exposes our kiddo to both cultures pretty much as soon as kiddo is born. 😅 Many of my maternal extended families are the same and their kids speak 3 - 5 languages.
the country is the reflection of its people...Malaysia wont be where it is if the people are lazy...as simple as that... when I was young i used to work more than 12 hours a day
Thank you for your feedback Daria! Appreciate dat🎉
Malaysia is like Asgard, it is not a place, but it is the people.
❤ this one Max.. 🤠👍🏻
You are very kind.. Thank you 🙏
So nice of you
You don't know how your country until foreigner give their opinion on your country... Is like reading people review about your shop on Google maps.
She is very nice person BTW.
May i correct... It's " Lazy Malay ". Actually it used as a reminder or boost our anger ( motivated ) and challenges ourselves improving way of life. If you are really a lazy person...you will hurt and offended. But rather than determined
Frankly speaking, Malaysia is a nation with no strong culture unlike other nations. Malaysian tend to accept any outside cultures which they percieved benefited to them and suite to thier preferance. Thus, thats why many foriegners will claim that they easily assimilate with local in Malaysia.
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😂😂😂😂😂. don’t just read. travel more.
You are so misinformed.
Daria is just a amazing Human Being. I like her values about Genting Highlands and about Johor. And she appreciate the natural things who can give us more joy, then all the glammer around Genting shoppingmall.
Thank you for sharing Max 👏👏👏🙏🌹
Lazy malay comes from british colonial era when they saw Malay wake up at noon, that's what they see. But what they didn't see is that Malay already wake up around 5am, go to sawah padi or rubber estate and finish work by 9am and they go back to sleep.
It was a very enlightening and pleasant conversation.
Sis Daria, may God shower you with blessings for the rest of your life. I wish you a healthy and happy life in the long - run. Have a great day today and every day!.. 🙏❤️
This is very helpful, thank you
You're very welcome!
The people who insults Malaysia most are actually Malaysians. LOL. Ive been to almost every developed countries and I love Malaysia most. So has my son and he doesnt want to follow anymore whenever I go overseas.
You have a great attitude and 👍 feel of who to interview
She totally sounds local.
Very educational interview. This lady has been around.
I totally agree with her opinion on JB city and Genting Highlands
You survived 20 years here. You may not have survived that long in Chicago, LA, San Francisco, NYC....
Beautifully done sharing sessions.
"Genting is overrated". That so true and everything is just overpriced
Her comment about the Langkawi rental car was spot on
I agree with her about Genting.
The only thing I don’t like about Malaysia is they are showing potential to be the second Iran or Afghanistan.
Daria is so beautiful and calm. I would like to hear more from her, it's like a lot more to tell.
She is Russian?
I remembered a malaysian said he love go to Russia coz russian are more acceptable to outsider especially muslim compare to america and other european country
I am a Singaporean who LOVE Malaysia so much. Food in Malaysia is SOooooooOOO much better and more variety.
Although, if i want healthier option, i will get them in Singapore and I do appreciate that as well.
Singaporean always say Malaysia is dangerous but will never say USA is dangerous when they visit USA.
It's normal to compare with your closest neighbour.
Yes, many cities in US are like in the warzone. But Singaporean worships US. Nothing bad of US compred to Malaysia.
Typical for them to worship white.
Don’t know where you all get that idea from, opinion of young teens? As adults we also read world news and don’t worship angmoh. US is definitely not safe with all the gun violence and US after Obama is just going downhill.
However as a small Nation we do not want to make enemies, whatever our opinion are doesn’t change the fact that we can’t offend anyone just for the sake of it.
@@ben.s.sObama guide us down hill and continue doing so behind Biden regime.
She's pretty much a Malaysian.
Haha
Hello my dear friend. Doesn't it make your blood boil reading that racist condescending BS from that smart-aleck above? Kurang ajar betul 😠
@@azizahabdullah1143 which one?
@@GajahMengaumTheBruce Itu tu yang bernama Ang Xiang, an opinionated chap.
@@azizahabdullah1143 I see. Such racist comment does not deserve our attention. I can debate all day long but I prefer to enjoy my peaceful night watching old movies lol.
FYI ....Singapore was once part of Malaysia....we were one before and spiritually is still together.
These are cross border relatives...separated only by a political border...and that includes my own family.
This is even more true for the people of the former Strait states ie Singapore, Malacca and Penang.
The parents of the next Singapore PM in waiting migrated from Ipoh... that gives you an idea how the families are related to each other across the border.
As a Malaysian myself, I agree about Johor.
Very insightful.
She is an Extremely lucky person.I actually tried a few times to get foreigners to stay in Malaysia.
Are you sure she is not Malaysian? Anyway I'm totally agree with what she said / explained... Very well said!
haha
She’s very well spoken and seems to hv nice personality as well..
Goto Cameron Highlands and Fraser's Hill for family vibes...
Great interview with a lovely woman.
another SHOCKING MALAYSIA !!! for tourist visiting PUTRAJAYA which is about 45 minutes from Kuala Lumpur by MRT train
service which is currently free of charge until 31st March 2023 !
Please take the opportunity to visit the wonderful places
'never feel I'm taken advantage of, because I'm a foreigner'... Me, remembering how many times I was offered the 'non local rate' in Singapore or Malaysia, more than twenty years ago, when there were many shops, stalls, even large stores with no fixed prices, where you had to bargain...
As a malaysian i agree genting is overrated, prefer fraser hill. so quiet and peaceful
The place they are in is call Desa ParkCity. Am I wrong?
it's not lazy but malaysian mostly have the incommodious behaviour and the workers always had an ambitious dream to become a boss as soon as possible and that's what happened till this day😀
4:40 😂😂😂 is that a reference to Masterchef UK where the judge criticised the chicken rendang for not being crispy?? 🤣🤣🤣
Good advice.. yes be ur self n get along that all
Like in malaysia we didnt want to be alot of stress with work compare to other countries like japan and america but we still could achieve our goal just by using strategy and teamwork
Malaysia are not that workoholic