Dating MULTIPLE people (should you TELL A MAN?)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 พ.ค. 2024
  • Should you date multiple people at the same time?
    Is it okay to let a man know?
    When and how to bring it up? Lots of questions and here are their answers.
    Oh and btw, don’t bring it up unless he does 😜
    Let me know your thoughts on dating several men at the same time👇
    #datingsite #onlinedating #datingcoach

ความคิดเห็น • 32

  • @Lenny2012S
    @Lenny2012S 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If you want a good quality car, you should let many people ride it off-road.
    That would surely make your car valuable to prospective buyers

  • @Marcus-gw4bb
    @Marcus-gw4bb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I have a girlfriend now and I'm so glad to have her because this just all sounds so utterly ridiculous. "Exploring my options?" There's no finding the "right" partner in this or any life. You work towards becoming the right partner for each other through communication, respect and understanding. You meet each other half way. Not whatever this person said in the video. People who say these things are those who are trying to sell you on a dream/an idea or a movie ticket.

    • @travisjensen1338
      @travisjensen1338 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What she said was a little disgusting and gross

  • @paulskopic5844
    @paulskopic5844 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Come on man, she needs to date a multitude of men such that she can sample a wider verity of restaurants.

  • @graymatters7584
    @graymatters7584 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Vibes are so overrated. Yet that’s 100% of what w0men care about. Back in the day people grew to love each other. Today, everybody’s got to feel it right away or it’s over before it began. No wonder the divorce rate is 50%.

    • @Marcus-gw4bb
      @Marcus-gw4bb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. This woman is telling other women to go on dates with multiple man to increase your chances of finding the right one and her only justification is because you're still at a stage where you are not committed to each other and that the man is sure as hell to be doing the same thing. Such flawless logic and argument...
      If you are dating multiple man, you will never really have enough time to truly get to know one individual man because your attention is already divided between work, social life on top of meeting MULTIPLE men. The same can be said about men who do shit like this too.

  • @caylarabdk8389
    @caylarabdk8389 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    if the man gets upset it is because he cares about you
    if you see that as a redflag, then truly, you deserve a man who gives no fuck about you

    • @BodhiCody-mh2ec
      @BodhiCody-mh2ec 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She wants them to be miserable, old and alone like she is.
      Misery loves company.

  • @commiserable4626
    @commiserable4626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "He who chases two rabbits catches neither."

    • @Marcus-gw4bb
      @Marcus-gw4bb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As a Southeast Asian Chinese, I appreciate the proverb from Confucius

  • @michaelkane7021
    @michaelkane7021 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dating! This day in age that most likely includes sexual relations ... probably should define dating... I'm a big fan of one at a time for both men and women...

  • @testingforyoutube
    @testingforyoutube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Terrible advice. Women in the past found true love easier despite not dating that much. The more women date, the pickier they become until they reach a moment were their standards are too high to find a man that qualifies.

    • @BodhiCody-mh2ec
      @BodhiCody-mh2ec 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bitter, unwanted, leftover old catlady trying to drag down others so they turn out like her

  • @truthandunity623
    @truthandunity623 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Mmmm... Interesting advice, highly suspicious. Here's my advice: hang out at places that indicate a worldview that is related to your core values. It's not about increasing the number of fish you try to catch. It's a matter of being in the right pond. For me there was a hanging out with each other phase, where romance was not involved. In this phase you can enjoy each other's company and friendship no strings attached. In addition this allows for data gathering in a non-excited state allowing for better insights. Later this can go into the exploration phase, where both people indicate that they'd like to get to know each other better. Finally, as commitment grows, intimacy can grow.

  • @Marty13B
    @Marty13B 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you are dating multiple people you should let them know so that you don't waste their time if they aren't interested in polygamy. This lady is giving terrible advice that will lead to more women to end up alone. There are a lot of men that do not want a serious relationship with a woman that is sleeping around. Ladies in this thread I warn you that most men will find this type of behavior as a huge red flag and not want you. You can do what you want but don't expect men to want you after they find out that you have a roster of men you are seeing.

  • @vyse102
    @vyse102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Don't bring it up, if he does minimize it then divert to a new topic immediately."
    That's the behavior of someone who knows they're doing something pathological that they shouldn't be doing.
    Ladies, for the love of god, *stop listening to other women's dating advice.* If this is the sort of content you're getting, pull the ripchord and gtfo.

  • @Lenny2012S
    @Lenny2012S 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Modern divorce law makes it easy to uncommit acommitment.
    So, why bother pseudo-committing?

  • @bradleyblauvelt1572
    @bradleyblauvelt1572 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Let me tell ya honey there’s always one better

  • @dave23024
    @dave23024 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This sounds like the advice for how to be a 50-year-old cat lady who lives in a trailer park.
    🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱👩‍🦳🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱🐱

  • @gezenews
    @gezenews 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Look at Eastern Europe. Now look back at this advice. Now look back at Eastern Europe. Now look back at what this woman is saying. Now look back at Eastern Europe. Hmmm.

  • @scotturner3178
    @scotturner3178 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent advice. It's not just about probability, it's also about establishing the market. When you've dated a fair number of people you'll recognize the good and bad qualities in your next date automatically. You'll know when you've found a good one.