Hi Soph! I'm Tab. I see your channel is brand new, so I wanted to pop in and say hello and that I look forward to watching more videos now that I'm subscribed.❤ Sending so much love to you!!❤ PS: I'm so proud of you for TRYING to go to the cinema. It's a step! I also seriously struggle going into public places and usually have to wait a bit in my car and I MIGHT be able to in. Usually when I have to go anywhere, I go with someone I trust if possible. It's not an easy thing to deal with and the "feeling useless", frustration, confusion, all the emotions, I feel that way too! IT'S NOT FUN. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. ❤❤
Hi tab welcome to the channel! Thank you for all the kind words, it really isn't fun at all but like you said it's important to know we are not alone and comments like this helps achieve that ♥️
Hello Soph! I saw your video recommended on my homepage. I heavily suspect I am autistic, but coming from a poor family my parents never got me evaluated (I live in America). I still can't despite being an adult cause I don't have a job yet and we don't have the funds. But, it's nice to see I'm not the only one with struggles despite how it makes me feel so bad about myself quite a lot. I loved your dogs, I have 3 dogs! Two little ones and one medium sized one. Your dogs are really cute! It's nice to just see you talk, and just be yourself. I really want to stream and share myself with the world to hopefully make people feel less alone. Since so many youtubers and streamers have done that for me. I'll definitely subscribe to your channel, and I hope you continue to make vids. Maybe u can record stuff u see, but that might be really nerve wracking cause of all the people and then having to carry a camera around. Anyway, glad I saw your video :)
Hi thank you for the kind words, I'm sorry you are struggling and I'm sorry it's so difficult for you to get evaluated but that's what these videos are for, to show anyone who is feeling the same but maybe feel lonely that there are others out here who struggle and hopefully we can build a community on here where we can help and support one another ♥️
I also forgot to mention how much I struggle to be alone in public spaces. It was only when I was around 19 that I finally ordered my own food even (though if i have to walk up to a cashier to order I still struggle). I live with my parents and so I always go with them anywhere. I still dont pay by myself (im abysmal at paying with cash) even. So you can imagine, that if I had to go to the movie theater by myself I'd be so anxious haha. I think it's awesome you at least tried! Also, if u want it to be quiet I do recommend going in the early morning if possible. I saw the Five Nights at Freddy's movie with my mom in the early morning and only a few teenagers were there. That made it way more bearable, but I still needed to recharge after. I also empathize with you about feeling useless and the routine. I have a routine as well, and I only go out once a week (i go with my fam to eat dinner). Anything else and it's hard on me to actually go out. I'll either be too anxious or it makes me super super tired. Usually both lol. I can only recommend that u let out your emotions in a safe place (for me, it's my room). And then to have patience with yourself. :)
This is very similar for me as well with regards for doing things myself in person and that's why I make going to McDonald's or getting food a big win for myself if I can do it, it's the small things for some but massive for us that we need to celebrate. Yeah I normally do the 10am showings but this movie had to be in the middle of the afternoon which is annoying... I wish more movies had autism friendly screenings! I'm glad you have your safe space to retreat back into, mine is also my room too 😊
Hi Soph! I'm Tab. I see your channel is brand new, so I wanted to pop in and say hello and that I look forward to watching more videos now that I'm subscribed.❤ Sending so much love to you!!❤
PS: I'm so proud of you for TRYING to go to the cinema. It's a step! I also seriously struggle going into public places and usually have to wait a bit in my car and I MIGHT be able to in. Usually when I have to go anywhere, I go with someone I trust if possible. It's not an easy thing to deal with and the "feeling useless", frustration, confusion, all the emotions, I feel that way too! IT'S NOT FUN. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. ❤❤
Hi tab welcome to the channel! Thank you for all the kind words, it really isn't fun at all but like you said it's important to know we are not alone and comments like this helps achieve that ♥️
Hello Soph! I saw your video recommended on my homepage. I heavily suspect I am autistic, but coming from a poor family my parents never got me evaluated (I live in America). I still can't despite being an adult cause I don't have a job yet and we don't have the funds. But, it's nice to see I'm not the only one with struggles despite how it makes me feel so bad about myself quite a lot. I loved your dogs, I have 3 dogs! Two little ones and one medium sized one. Your dogs are really cute! It's nice to just see you talk, and just be yourself. I really want to stream and share myself with the world to hopefully make people feel less alone. Since so many youtubers and streamers have done that for me. I'll definitely subscribe to your channel, and I hope you continue to make vids. Maybe u can record stuff u see, but that might be really nerve wracking cause of all the people and then having to carry a camera around. Anyway, glad I saw your video :)
Hi thank you for the kind words, I'm sorry you are struggling and I'm sorry it's so difficult for you to get evaluated but that's what these videos are for, to show anyone who is feeling the same but maybe feel lonely that there are others out here who struggle and hopefully we can build a community on here where we can help and support one another ♥️
I also forgot to mention how much I struggle to be alone in public spaces. It was only when I was around 19 that I finally ordered my own food even (though if i have to walk up to a cashier to order I still struggle). I live with my parents and so I always go with them anywhere. I still dont pay by myself (im abysmal at paying with cash) even. So you can imagine, that if I had to go to the movie theater by myself I'd be so anxious haha. I think it's awesome you at least tried! Also, if u want it to be quiet I do recommend going in the early morning if possible. I saw the Five Nights at Freddy's movie with my mom in the early morning and only a few teenagers were there. That made it way more bearable, but I still needed to recharge after. I also empathize with you about feeling useless and the routine. I have a routine as well, and I only go out once a week (i go with my fam to eat dinner). Anything else and it's hard on me to actually go out. I'll either be too anxious or it makes me super super tired. Usually both lol. I can only recommend that u let out your emotions in a safe place (for me, it's my room). And then to have patience with yourself. :)
This is very similar for me as well with regards for doing things myself in person and that's why I make going to McDonald's or getting food a big win for myself if I can do it, it's the small things for some but massive for us that we need to celebrate. Yeah I normally do the 10am showings but this movie had to be in the middle of the afternoon which is annoying... I wish more movies had autism friendly screenings! I'm glad you have your safe space to retreat back into, mine is also my room too 😊