YOUR EYES WERE OPEN BUT YOU COULDN’T SEE

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  • @mekalove8174
    @mekalove8174 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Once your free it's like a new beginning of your life Everything feels different...you're at peace!! It's the best way to explain it! It's like you can breathe again the most wonderful feeling ever just to say I'm free!!!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏💯😊

    • @maried7776
      @maried7776 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Breathe again, yes. ❤😊 & Free!

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mmmhhhhhmmmm it’s so good to BREATHE ❤

    • @catlady6938
      @catlady6938 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So well put, that calmness comes over you and you breath 💜

    • @joshuaanzalone2060
      @joshuaanzalone2060 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes meka it is so freeing to be free. Of course she harasses me daily through hacking and stalking but I'm completely indifferent to her now. I don't care what she says or thinks about me.

  • @chicka-rocka
    @chicka-rocka ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "I once was lost, but now am found was blind, but now... I see!!!" 💜

  • @PkmnMasterHolly
    @PkmnMasterHolly ปีที่แล้ว +73

    ‼️📣Andrew I just want to take your words and scream them from the rooftops for everyone to hear!!!! Your message is so powerful and clear! WHEN YOU SAY NO TO THE NARCISSIST YOU'RE SAYING YES TO YOURSELF! 🔥💯

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🙌💯😊

    • @lisaengland1048
      @lisaengland1048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I said yes to myself . I bought myself a new jeep for my birthday, . And when the narc. Said my car " don't . Work . !. She exped me to say you can have my Honda . 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. . I would have but . Andrew your videos opens my eyes . To takers . The guilt trip started . And . I had to go eat dinner . Thanks for drilling it into my thick head ❤️💯.

    • @lisaengland1048
      @lisaengland1048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I said yes to myself. . At least five times these three months . Good job Andrew . And other healthy self help platforms. 💪💪💪💪💪💪💯❤️😁

    • @lisaengland1048
      @lisaengland1048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm excited about going back to work, . I see the light at the end of the tunnel, and it's not a train🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lisaengland1048
      @lisaengland1048 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      After a heaping helping dose of a year of Andrews videos, . I'm going good . And . Like Fleetwood Mac, never going back again!.

  • @EWAMILENAP
    @EWAMILENAP ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The narcissist is not your friend. It is your enemy.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Andrew you are so right about the GASLIGHTING, all I wanted was clairity and sincere conversations, But it Got swept under the Rug, they riggle out of any accountability,even the flying monkeys gaslight you too, they are Proxy for the Narcissist,.....I sincerely hope all of us here never get entangled with them Ever again,.So True Andrew ,Thanks for keeping our Eyes. And ears open,.much, much, appreciated Andrew ,God Bless You and Everyone Here THANKS 💓💓💓💓🙏🙏🙏🙏🤗👍💡

  • @Sofia-xn8wd
    @Sofia-xn8wd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was married to an overt narcissist for 28 years until he died… while I was healing, I got involved with a covert narcissist- which is just as bad! I felt tricked because he seemed so nice, but then, I finally figured it out and walked away. Thank you for all that you do! I am an empath also.

  • @mekalove8174
    @mekalove8174 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Hi Andrew because of you and other TH-camrs channels on the awareness about narcissist....my life was saved!! I got my power back and got stronger and said enough was enough!! Thank you so much and you're appreciated more than you know!! Namaste 🙏🏼

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Namaste 🙏🙌

    • @erikathornton368
      @erikathornton368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Him and dr Ramani helped me heal and feel like I have support and there’s hope for happiness post narc relationship

  • @heatherroberson1648
    @heatherroberson1648 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I was a child. I never stood a chance having adult relationships after this upbringing and abuse. I'm working on this. I'm single and thank you Andrew for helping me stay out of these relationships while I heal and move on. I'm taking care of me.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Andrew and all our family here God Bless you all now and always ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @truthbehindthelie7511
    @truthbehindthelie7511 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No I love the Buddha way, not hate, and he hated and killed many in his mind everyday. But I was in a abusive relationship for many years, so this made me freeze. As hard as it was to be alone for the first time in my life at 62 I found my backbone!!! Thank you for explaining this to us. I appreciate you....

  • @DJ-le5lo
    @DJ-le5lo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Our default emotion at birth is to trust!
    Thank you for teaching us to trust ourselves via our intuition & intellect before anything & anyone else!

  • @sharonhorwitz7903
    @sharonhorwitz7903 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Once again, thank you, even though I’m crying . There’s a reason I’m exhausted after 13 years….I’ll be watching this over and over. You’re expressing things, I felt and lived, it’s overwhelming.
    Now, it’s getting weirder….you just used his expression “ no such thing as coincidence”.
    I don’t know how, and as I’ve said before, it’s as if you were living here.
    The realities are painful…however , I trust you.
    Thank you 😘🙏🏻

    • @laviniatemple2967
      @laviniatemple2967 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending hugs 🤗 to you. And prayers 🙏🏼

    • @hongtruong4576
      @hongtruong4576 ปีที่แล้ว

      No such thing as coincidence. It’s God work in mysterious way🙏

    • @sharonhorwitz7903
      @sharonhorwitz7903 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hongtruong4576 - thank you 😘

  • @isabelladevotedtogod1968
    @isabelladevotedtogod1968 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes it is rainy here in North Carolina. I like rainy days sometimes because they feel peaceful. 😌 Great day for seeking God, naps and Dunkin Donuts 🍩 Chocolate Frosted Donuts! Hot Chocolate too! Thank you for the video, good day and God bless. I pray women and men can get out of these toxic situations and if not, God will give you strength and peace to endure until you can get out, like He has me. God bless. ❤️ 🙏

  • @charityhouze647
    @charityhouze647 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Listening to you teaching often feels like being heard for the first time. Thank you Andrew.

  • @yourconnection9303
    @yourconnection9303 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Every thing you speak about is so very true Andrew. And yes, narcissists all too often eventually have the other person questioning their own sanity that, "Maybe it's me?" It's paramount that you show that you have respect for yourself at all times by setting boundaries, or you'll end up attracting parasitic people like narcissists who'll gladly set boundaries for you, and slowly strip you of ever ounce of self-worth you have. Beware.

  • @learnElvish
    @learnElvish ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Just to comment on the last two videos - thank you Andrew - whenever I was on time (or early for n appointment or date), the Narc would be be running behind. Did it matter? Or course not. When I was late - even by 5 minutes...my God.. all hell broke lose. Secondly, many times I would see the narc telling me she was complimented by a random guy. I told her that guys will try it on, but then I was given the abuse... "why would you take that away from me? Am I not pretty?". Of course - it made me work harder, it made me feel jealous.
    But all this said, I called her on her behaviour, we are on a "break", so why is it hurting me so much? She is half a world away - has been for 6 weeks, with other friends. Last contact was three weeks ago. Can't sleep, can't eat, can't think, can't work. Just cry sitting on my phone. But why?
    The pain is unbearable. I get some of it from Andrew's videos, but I am slowly losing the will to get on with life. Is that what these Narcs REALLY want? They want to ruin my life even though that have had their dose from me? Maybe I am just too sensitive.

  • @mariefrancebourget1749
    @mariefrancebourget1749 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Super video Andrew you said it all perfectly. All empaths need to memorize what you said. These are great tools to prevent us from another bad relationship with a narc and mostly keeping them away from us for good. Have a beautiful sunday afternoon Andrew. God bless you. I love you. 🤗❤🙌🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you 🙏💯🙌

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes. Memorizing. Meditating. Making it mindfully ours.

    • @mariefrancebourget1749
      @mariefrancebourget1749 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gratefultobehere well said Chelsea! 💯 thank you for your message i appreciate it. Have a great evening my friend. 😊💖🙌

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mariefrancebourget1749 💖🙏 you too Marie

    • @laviniatemple2967
      @laviniatemple2967 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes your right ma’am. 👍🏻 good thing i have good memory. But even If I memorize things i still write it down or screen shots when I’m educationg myself. My mama is an Empath. A lot of my characteristic I got it from my mom and we are very close and that’s why it’s hard for me to be away from her. 😢shes in Philippines I am here in America. Hopefully I can go home soon for the first time. Prayers 🙏🏼 for everyone of us. God bless us. Sending ❤ from Alaska.

  • @leeanderson2998
    @leeanderson2998 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Narcissists need to get their insults straight!

  • @JH-td4mn
    @JH-td4mn ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another great video Andrew thank you. I love how you always say "you are not alone", anyone who has endured Narcissistic Abuse has days when they really need to remember this. You're doing great work. Be strong survivors! Much love to everyone in this community 🕯️❤️

  • @rubyjet9513
    @rubyjet9513 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm not alone. Not any more. Amazing!
    All the Love ❤️

  • @Smalltowngurrl1
    @Smalltowngurrl1 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I needed to hear this today. Thank you. This is truly a healing path. I have learned so much during this discard/breakup. The most important thing I have learned is that it wasn’t my fault. I didn’t fail, I gave it my all. I just found an 🤬 of a partner. But now every new day is a day of discovery. I can do whatever I want. I don’t have to ask for permission. I can watch TH-cam without my AirPods in because that fool isn’t here to be over my shoulder every 5 seconds. While I realize all of this I am still grieving the loss and sometimes that makes me so mad at myself. Why should I be sad, but as we all know there was a little something that kept us there and that’s what I miss. Realizing now that what I held onto for all those years was a game that was played on me is infuriating. I long for the day when this is all a distant memory.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome 🙌💯😊

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No permission needed. Enjoy yourself 🙌❤️💪

    • @Smalltowngurrl1
      @Smalltowngurrl1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gratefultobehere Thank you. ❤️

    • @Smalltowngurrl1
      @Smalltowngurrl1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you are a real gift. Thank you!! ❤️🙏❤️

    • @crazykittylady6226
      @crazykittylady6226 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just wish that the narc I was with experienced true loneliness without supplies before he died just so he would of known what it felt to no longer be in control of no one like that anymore.

  • @rubyjet9513
    @rubyjet9513 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Everything became completely clear to me only now. Also Eckard Toll's videos gave me the deeper insight I was longing for.

  • @gratefultobehere
    @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Gaslighting is REAL and things get clearer and clearer the further away from the toxic environments and relationships 💯 yes 🙌- yesterday someone in a Mall wearing a shirt saying “gaslighting isn’t real - you’re imagining it”
    I prayed for the person walking not next to him, that’s right trailing BEHIND. 🤔 can’t say for sure, but pretty clear as day to me 😉
    Have a great night Andrew and everyone let’s keep educated ❤🙏💪

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing 🙌🙏😊

    • @joshuaanzalone2060
      @joshuaanzalone2060 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chelsea that shows the class of that individual and the class is low.

    • @mariageaney2362
      @mariageaney2362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow😯a t-shirt that says that!!
      Out rageous!! That is so incentive and cutting. Pray for the light of truth to penetrate to creates of that t-shirt!! We are not alone always remember this. Because that shirt has come from a place of isolation makers!! 🌹💖🙏🕊️💜🦊

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mariageaney2362 right?! Just shake my head at the nonsense. 😅 have a great night María 💖🙏

    • @mariageaney2362
      @mariageaney2362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gratefultobehere all designed to create a negative reaction!! Typical narc, always designing something!! Enjoy your evening Chelsea.🦋🙏🌹

  • @jodi578
    @jodi578 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this Perfect fitting Title and How Simply and Straightforwardly you Teach on this subject - It’s a Real Gift Andrew!

  • @SusanW-lc8rp
    @SusanW-lc8rp ปีที่แล้ว +15

    even though I don't know any of you, I feel your energy when I'm on the channel listening to the daily message. sending love and support to all of you today ☔🌦❤❤❤

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love that!😊💯🙏

    • @rubyjet9513
      @rubyjet9513 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soul tribe 😉👍

    • @laviniatemple2967
      @laviniatemple2967 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too same here. Watching this at 3:30 am. Now reading comments.

    • @lisaengland1048
      @lisaengland1048 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm finding that some days Andrew has a few nuggets of wisdom. Plus flowers great work . Keep doing this .

    • @emilywilson7308
      @emilywilson7308 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Susan. Andrew's tribe is very special❤

  • @jennifernewton4637
    @jennifernewton4637 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You just nailed EVERYTHING, Andrew!!!! I can’t speak to a marital relationship, as I’ve never been married… only romantic relationships, and of course, my parents. This is why I’ve followed your advice since I first found this channel… you have always been SPOT ON, and I was (and still am) AMAZED by how accurate you’ve been!!!! For everything that you do, and everything that you are, I love you! Thank you for being you and being _here_ 🥰🥰🥰💋💋💋💋💋🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥❤️💜❤️‍🔥😘😘😘
    My friends, I hope you’re all enjoying your Sunday! I’m just over here FINALLY eating the Mexican food I’ve waited MONTHS for!!! God bless my sister for taking time out of her VERY busy day to do this for me!!! I can only HOPE the extra money I gave her was enough to show just how much I appreciated what she did!!! 🙏🙏🙏 Love y’all, and I hope your day is as good as mine, if not, BETTER!!! ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙌🙏💯😉

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤ hope you enjoyed that Mexican 🥘 meal!!!

    • @jennifernewton4637
      @jennifernewton4637 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@gratefultobehere I DID Chelsea! And there’s even plenty leftover for dinner! Stuff’s WILDLY expensive now, a pint of salsa is $6 but I’d have GLADLY paid $100 for it at this point. Even when the beef fajitas got stone cold, they were STILL good! 😄😋😋😋😁🌮🫔🌮🫔🍽️

    • @gratefultobehere
      @gratefultobehere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jennifernewton4637 😊🙌❤️ you’re worth every expense - glad you enjoyed!!!

    • @jennifernewton4637
      @jennifernewton4637 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gratefultobehere ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, Chelsea, I NEEDED to hear that today!

  • @crosskross
    @crosskross ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so correct Andrew. But hearing it from you will help millions of us. Thank you 🙏

  • @warriormom5843
    @warriormom5843 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thanks Andrew! Stay warm. Sending a hot chai tea right about now. 💟☮️🕉️

  • @charlottebarden9221
    @charlottebarden9221 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Andrew, Thank you so much for supportive words. I feel you are speaking to me just as I need it, when I know there are thousands of others listening to you.

  • @davidphillips1895
    @davidphillips1895 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you to

  • @nicolehayes6020
    @nicolehayes6020 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts! My entire life for decades w my narc mother 🤦🏻‍♀️ THANKS MOM FOR THE GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING….Thank you Andrew ❤️✌️🙏

  • @hennisincoff502
    @hennisincoff502 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ooh Andrew, what a great was to express the manipulation, blame & red flags that are visible, but not to those who suffer from narrsistic abuse...our eyes were open but we could not see. Now that I know what narrsism is & red flags are, I imagine a healthy narrsistic free future. I have a long painful journey, but I am on the path. Thank you always for your gift of knowledge & love. Namaste 🥀

  • @rosannecadieux9476
    @rosannecadieux9476 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you! 🙏

  • @Jakilyn
    @Jakilyn ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The rage fits..yes. I'll never forget the first one - Every.Single.Discussion - thereafter was like talking with a toddler

  • @paulag7108
    @paulag7108 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We must learn about these monsters that surround us. Educate yourself ppl. Thanks Andrew👏

  • @hhsg11
    @hhsg11 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Another great video Andrew ❤️. I remember one day with the ex narc which started off nice, then I got back to the house after shopping and 💥. I was blamed for turning the sink taps off tight, not me, I hadn’t been near the sink. he couldn’t find his door keys and I got blamed for it until he found them in his car, we went for a walk and lunch with my eyes red from tears so I wore my glasses, got back to the house and played with his dog which accidentally put her tooth into my finger and with blood running down my hand,I was told it was my own stupid bl**dy fault for not being careful. Tears again as my finger really hurt and I told him all the things that he had blamed me for that day, and after shouting about how I had only mentioned the negative things, his reply was…’ but you didn’t say we had a nice lunch’. He’s a nutcase.

  • @feliciajoy2264
    @feliciajoy2264 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GUYS........ THIS IS HEAVEN SENT TRUTH. PLEASE SSAY "NO" IT GIVES YOU YOUR POWER BACK. INSTINTLY. TRY IT YOU WILL FEEL BETTER AGAUIN. . GOSH I CANT SHUT UP BUT THIS MEANS ALOT TO ME. LOVE YOU. THANK YOU

  • @rubyjet9513
    @rubyjet9513 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    How could we not break down when we had to spend our energy on maintaining ours self-validation and also on their self-validation without limits?

  • @davevenables3534
    @davevenables3534 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Many truths and words of wisdom in this video.
    Thank you Andrew.

  • @sherylcomptonpeters8737
    @sherylcomptonpeters8737 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I still have some up and down moments, but I have seen a brighter future. And yes I did know something wasn't right. I'm getting my physical energy back with some help. I got physically ill for a while, lost alot of weight, completely exhausted, no energy at all. but now I am so ready to move on, because I have felt a real love that brought more peace and happiness than I could have ever imagined. I don't feel heartbroken anymore or feel the need to cry my eyes out. I am seeing more clearly and what I seen was beautiful. It's like a whole new world for me. But. I am so ready to learn more, I was born for a reason. Lessons from the past are just that, No regrets, no coincidences, no games. No fear, and I know, with all my heart that a new beginning is in order. Thank you for being such an inspiration and help. I am so grateful to know that I am not alone, and really never have been. I just see things differently now.

  • @misskathleen490
    @misskathleen490 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Andrew drove to wk got the flood of emails..and I for a minute was going to engage and read. BUT, I stopped and took a cleansing breath and realized Im over the drama. Namaste! Happy Monday!

  • @user-xe9gv3tr3y
    @user-xe9gv3tr3y ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Andrew, because of you I am able to understand what I went through for the last 14 years of my life. I am divorced from him now, but you have helped me to realize that everything wasn’t my fault. My ex is a classic narcissist and took advantage of my empathy and then everything he could from me. Thank you for helping me overcome and see my worth.

  • @chelemae
    @chelemae ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At 2:20 ish SPOT ON SPOT ON SPOT ON! If you try to have a mature, ADULT conversation with a narc, they shift the blame to YOU! I did not have the clarity on this as I do now so spot on. It's maddening to communicate with my spouse in this regard I unfortunately have had to just give up but if you are in a relationship such as this and can leave DO IT! You will save years of anguish, exasperation, defeat! Andrew you're amazing! Thank you!

  • @shakthi9524
    @shakthi9524 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's been 100 days i went no contact with that person..still recovering from all the abuses he did. I regret so much for ignoring all the red flags and letting all this to happen.

  • @andreakohlhaussen7556
    @andreakohlhaussen7556 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So well said! I grew up not saying no. And I had to learn it the hard way to say “no”.
    This is one of the most important quotes for life ever: “To say “no” to someone means saying “yes” to yourself” Thank you Andrew every single day😌😘🦞

  • @marleigh9743
    @marleigh9743 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes, you feel like you're operating in the dark with these kinds of individuals. It can be so confusing. They gaslight us and we let them explain everything away bc we don't want to see what's right there in front of us. We cared about the relationship, but they did not

  • @marybarton5651
    @marybarton5651 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Another great video Andrew, glad I was able to catch it. Thanks again for the confirmation of information from today's content. As always, you have given me lots to think about. 🤔 God bless you and everyone on the healing path in this community 🙏 ✌❤🤓😎

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh I could see them but he didnt want me to see fear.....I know how to do my ownbattles always have had too..the scapegoating it was a conversation about respect the good Dr took. Fit I said it right in front of his staff... That's theor lesson to be leatnec...ty gpd bless

  • @12342087
    @12342087 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So true everything you’re saying. Thank you

  • @owenreynolds9318
    @owenreynolds9318 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These vids have helped so much, not only in understanding how a narc works but how unhealthy and self-destructive it is to spend time dwelling on their downfall and how that poisons who you are striving to be. I wish I wouldn't panic everytime we're in the same space though.

  • @Theresa1010
    @Theresa1010 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great message today Andrew! A lot of excellent examples of the insidious nature of the narc. Take care of yourself and get some rest! Remember yourself too 1st, 2nd, and 3rd. 🙏🌠

  • @elmaswanepoel1598
    @elmaswanepoel1598 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this Andrew. I'm grateful that I started the healing proses through education and videos like yours months ago when I first left, which gave me much more power to walk away again, for the last time, Friday evening, realizing that the change I saw in him was temporary untill a month ago and all is back to his "normal". Unfortunately I only found yours last week, but now I'm looking forward to watch it every day. I realise a lot more has to happen before the trauma bond is completely healed and broken. Your videos really help in a profound and significant way. Thank you for what you do.

  • @laviniatemple2967
    @laviniatemple2967 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Goodmorning.Again I learned new things from you. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. 3:38 am alaska time while listening this. I educate myself. And i read comments when i watvh your videos and i write it down. And I learned a lot. Prayers 🙏🏼 for you and for everyone of us here. Jesus loves us. God bless everyone. Have a nice day to ya all. Sending ❤ from a Filipina here in America.

  • @elainesetford549
    @elainesetford549 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ❤❤ 💯% thank you Andrew. Rain sounds lovely though headphones 😊🌧️

  • @Leesa1303
    @Leesa1303 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am newly subscribed and am glad to understand so I can move on in a healthy conversation....I stood by a man for 3.5 yrs while he was locked up and he left me 2 days after he got home...HE turned out to be a monster ....

  • @karenlacy8950
    @karenlacy8950 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Great video! Narcissist relationships are never on track Andrew. Everyone gets through this with a lot of work and introspection
    Much appreciated Namaste. Love and light ❤️🙏🎶🦋🌏

  • @janetroberts5140
    @janetroberts5140 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm on the road to recovery, dating would be nice. Though I have my son and I'm trying to be a good example for him. I'm also going to have surgery and will be resting for two weeks. It's my health that I'm most concerned with. God will give me the right direction when it's time for me to date again. Thank you Andrew, I enjoyed your evening presentation, much warm regards to Andrew and our Family Tribe Members.

  • @elizabethflorez2372
    @elizabethflorez2372 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes , this is all true Andrew. ❤Horrific experiences . Demons with Demonic beings . God save us all

  • @carlosgiron1246
    @carlosgiron1246 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video Andrew. Well in my narcissistic relationship, the signs were all there the anger towards me the secret txt he would get. I confronted him a few times and out of nowhere it was me being jealous and that I wanted to control him. My friends would tell me how wrong he was for me and they didn't understand how I could be with him, and I would get angry with my friends. Many signs were there but I thought it was just a bad day. I lost everything and everyone waiting for the man I fell in love with to come back. Never did only got worse all the way up to the discard. Thanks everyone for your kind words and thank you Andrew.

  • @luizamoura9193
    @luizamoura9193 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Andrew! 🙌 Currently living with a malignant narcissistic mother. And a couple months ago I began to see how evil her eyes are and catch her staring at me with very evil eyes. I really don't know how I didn't see it before. Before, I was uncertain if she had NPD or not because sometimes she shows so much empathy for others. But today I had a discussion with her, about her evildoings and she denied everything and blameshifted everything to me. Although it was an exausting discussion and am at this very moment with a headache, fever and feeling a coldness in my hands and feet, not only that but I am feeling energetically drained at the amount of evil I saw in her eyes today. I am grateful this discussion happened because today I got 100% sure she has NPD, I never saw that amount of evil in someone's eyes as I saw in hers today. Now that I am 100% sure she is a narcissist I know I have to elaborate my exit plan ASAP!!

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 ปีที่แล้ว

    Spot on Andrew. Exactly the case. God bless you❤

  • @yvettebrownstone1100
    @yvettebrownstone1100 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I appreciate you and all of these videos so much. Thank you, Andrew for your commitment to all of us going thru this.
    Namaste 🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome😊🙏🙌

    • @Infjjjoe
      @Infjjjoe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Andrew. In this short life on earth, we all found you and like an angel of light , you led us to discovery and healing...God bless you 🙏🏼 ♥️

  • @erikathornton368
    @erikathornton368 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Only time can heal and understanding the demise of the relationship isn’t your fault! Your relationship would’ve ended period. Not blaming myself was the only way I could get through the day. I view my ex as “sick” and I have been saved from him and I’m so much happier now. Please don’t listen to narc’s lies. Also a support system is so important most lay people don’t get narcs but being alone is the worst thing for healing.

  • @boutiquelove5391
    @boutiquelove5391 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thanks sooo much for all you do❤️❤️❤️❤️
    No amount of gratitude I can express to you will be enough for all you have taught us, you are a sincere and ethereal source of comfort in our hearts in times of great confusion anguish and darkness. God is working through you to help millions. May you continue to blessed you success, health, happiness, prosperity, wisom and peace. You are an angel🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @mitzistone4721
    @mitzistone4721 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I agree, triangulation is brutal. Having been the scapegoat growing up being triangulated brings it all back, it is like a form of torture. Narcs are very jealous so if they can turn the tables and have you feeling excluded or second place that pleases them greatly. I remember how they can take a sunny day and make it feel dark, getting away from their twisted games is liberating.

  • @BarbWiest
    @BarbWiest ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you , God bless you also .

  • @christinehow3595
    @christinehow3595 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi Andrew yet another great video.
    A Narc never forgets .
    Friends warned me of him . But when you think its love you are blind .
    Yes he tryed Traingle me with the women he moved in with near me .
    I have more respect for myself.
    I know the only way is up .👍
    Thank you for being there for us darling Andrew x

  • @mariageaney2362
    @mariageaney2362 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    🙏🕊️it is the narcs birthday today( the one I share the house with) and he is unwell,
    Sniffles and stuff. So I have intentionally stayed out of the way. He is probably milking his FB" freinds" for badly done to attention. !!
    He probably expects me to hold the fort because he is I'll. But sod it!! I come first, second and third!! By saying and acting " no" I am saying " yes" to myself.
    When I was sick or it was my birthday I had to fend for myself!! Table has turned my freinds!!!!! 💖Great video, Andrew. We love you, appreciate your light and love.
    💖🕊️🙏💜🦋🧡💛🦊🔥🕷️🐕🐕🌹🎆🖋️📖

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

    • @hollylorn131
      @hollylorn131 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Maria, Stay safe at this time. Keeping you in my prayers tonight. Much love! ❤️ 🙏 😇 😇 🛡️ 🖊️ ☀️

    • @mariageaney2362
      @mariageaney2362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hollylorn131 no worries, he is in his own quarters probably stealthely sulking!! I have ignored him all day and feel better for it. Got to take all power away from them no matter what!! Grey rock is the best power tool!! 😁Hope your day is going well, I am thinking of you. Sending you loving embrace.😊🦊🙏💖🌹🕊️📖🖋️🎆

    • @hollylorn131
      @hollylorn131 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariageaney2362 Hi Maria, I'm glad things are going well for you tonight. When I raised the concern about your safety, I was thinking there was physical abuse escalated around birthdays and celebrations or if the ex was sick in my marriage so I am concerned for you. Perhaps your narcissist is different from my ex narcissist in that way though, hopefully. Have a good night, Maria! Much love and peace to you! I still want to wish you to be safe too. They're so unpredictable. Hopefully he's busy with other things tonight. Take care! ❤️ 🙏 😇 😇 🛡️ ✌️ 🦊 🐇 🦌 🐿️ 🍀 🌿

    • @mariageaney2362
      @mariageaney2362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hollylorn131 they are definitely unpredictable, but I stay casually on my toes!! I won't be pressured by this freak, I have learned to see him coming, I can smell him on the air!! There may be some reactive abuse tomorrow!! But my guard is up and he knows it.
      Thank you so much for your love and concern. I appreciate it...big time!!🙏💜💖🕊️🕊️🌹

  • @simon13031
    @simon13031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost 1 quarter of a million dollar while stuck in a narcisistic fog. I have a crazy story that i might share one day. Almost lost my life, multiple time. Health problem etc etc... So hard to accept and put yourself back on track when you know you knew better. But you tought you were doign the right thing at the time. Im telling you guys, theres multiple dimensions to this reality and when you feel that something is wrong, trust yourself and move on

  • @Bianca-sw5id
    @Bianca-sw5id ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Andrew ❤️ , I absolutely love ❤️🥰 the Carolinas background Andrew ❤️ is sharing with us 🥰🌹😉

  • @lisavansant961
    @lisavansant961 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Andrew for continuing your videos I really appreciate it...

  • @payableondeath9091
    @payableondeath9091 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Now if I see love bombing I say no thanks and if they get mad I know what was going to happen 😂

  • @johnpool3501
    @johnpool3501 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Andrew. You and many others on TH-cam are of such a big support to all of us suffering from a narcissistic relationship.

  • @pamdee8454
    @pamdee8454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn’t understand. I had no knowledge of these things. Today I’m mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually in every way. And I work at it. Thank you for this education and knowledge.

  • @annettegutkind
    @annettegutkind ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I had multiple shifts in my vision through the narc nightmare. Multiple issues with my eyes 👀 LITERALLY- physical shifts. From a cancer scare to broken vessels to deteriorating vision.
    How interesting that now - having left this demon months ago - I am using an old pair of glasses.
    Seems I can see clearly now ☝🏻

  • @lrx54
    @lrx54 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, another great video. And courageous too. The emotional roller coaster ride took me to the highest highs and the lowest of lows and quite honestly all types of dark emotions in between. Only evil can be that provocative.

  • @debrastadnyk1351
    @debrastadnyk1351 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Andrew💗Thank you for educating me. I am very grateful for you sharing this information.💗

  • @ericnorthman9410
    @ericnorthman9410 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always thought I was a good judge of character. But when someone pretends to be you so good - because that's what he does with everyone - it's more than lying. I think he 60 percent would convince himself of the lies. It's crazy.

  • @mariabarbosa6351
    @mariabarbosa6351 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful video, been there in all , still trying to recuperate! You help everyone!
    Thank you 🙏

  • @DennisNowland
    @DennisNowland ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are so right, it is frightening. But at least mine is in the past where she can stay.

  • @roslyncerro1263
    @roslyncerro1263 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This confirms how grateful I am I am continuing to write much less about Version 2 hell and mostly, now, about Version 3. Much of Version 3 is the best. This investigative commitment is my, "yes" to myself. My life is simple, honest, in integrity, etc. Freedom rocks, and better late than never.❣️

  • @trudiamond30
    @trudiamond30 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos are always so powerful. Many of us are still in disbelief that this has happened to us. It’s almost unbelievable but we know that it’s real. Your videos are such a reminder of our reality and reminds us to stay on course and to keep on the healing path for a brighter future. ❤

  • @louise2091
    @louise2091 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yes. It is like I immediately dismiss and minimise people's behaviour s. Often really obvious stuff. I get carried away by a need to believe in the good . So ready to blame myself for not going along as well as I expect myself too.

  • @rubyjet9513
    @rubyjet9513 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I doubt the narcissists even see us. We are like a hologram for them.

  • @maried7776
    @maried7776 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One minute they are a semi adult, next a child. Yeah it was bizarre. When you find out this behavior is their norm...😱 twilight zone, exit stage left. ✌🏼☺️💕 TY Andrew, Enjoy the rain

  • @livinggood6876
    @livinggood6876 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Andrew I am glad to see you are in such a beautiful location now and landed on your feet as I did. You are correct. We have the knowledge now it's up to us to use it and our own intuition.

  • @catlady715
    @catlady715 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Another excellent and truthful video.

  • @emilyjudd9317
    @emilyjudd9317 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Andrew!! I am happy to say that thanks to your videos and the healing path, that i have been one year and one month free of my ex who was a narcissist. I have been watching your videos now for so long that I can tell in my family and ex-friends who are narcissists. I always enjoy learning things that I either didn't know or blamed myself for in the past. I appreciate being able to say that I am now a month into a healthy relationship and I couldn't be happier with where I'm at on the path and i'm continuing to get educated, staying awakened and aware and I hope for everyone else struggling to get out or find resources like your channel. I have referred you to many people and they watch your videos daily like i do. Thank you for opening my eyes to things i never knew.
    Emily

  • @amazingjane2703
    @amazingjane2703 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They train you, without your knowledge or permission, that yes means no and no means yes. On a deeper level you detected the anomaly but in your head it caused confusion and doubt about everything. It's easier to push a confused person off a cliff. Like pin-the-tail-on-the-donkey - blind-folded and spun around. If it wasn't for the blindfold and the spinning we would have accurately pinned the tail on the donkey -the narc.

  • @1LookingUp
    @1LookingUp ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I have adopted you as my Mentor!☺❣

  • @joshy0369
    @joshy0369 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Always right on the money dude

  • @Victoria-oe8gs
    @Victoria-oe8gs ปีที่แล้ว +7

    GOD bless you all

  • @acookhorn
    @acookhorn ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You’re so right, it hurts. It burns.

  • @oiputthatback7361
    @oiputthatback7361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “ You were vulnerable when you met “, I was and told all the things that hurt me. Guess what , ammunition for a later date. Fancy giving him the weapon that consequently used against me. 😫. Again you called it correctly. Thank you.

  • @GamesNarcissistsPlay
    @GamesNarcissistsPlay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the sound of the rain in the background. 💜

  • @BossBlio
    @BossBlio ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the greatest channel I have ever come across. Thank you so much, friend.

  • @loreley3126
    @loreley3126 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The narcs are very good actors…! No wonder they were able to fool us…! - but now we see… and they know that 😏… the monkeytheater is over!

  • @beegee5305
    @beegee5305 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The covert narc does not rage... outwardly.

  • @1Tmally3
    @1Tmally3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you❤❤❤💯🙏💫

  • @kengaroo5170
    @kengaroo5170 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I thought that she was stupid and lacked common sense, so I waited for her to learn. I never thought that the horrors were insanity and intentional. Insidious!