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  • @edheide7229
    @edheide7229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    About a year ago, a small group of women asked me "Where have all the good men gone?" I replied without thinking, "They left with all the good women". I was immediately embarrassed and proud that I came up with the right answer. Love your channel.

    • @dhall936
      @dhall936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Ed Heide. That was a very good comeback and very true as well, made me laugh, lol. If you dont mind, I plan on using the response in a book I am hoping to write one day on interesting and funny quotes, which will reference the original authours. Good stuff!

    • @edheide7229
      @edheide7229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dhall936 I don`t mind.

    • @davep2945
      @davep2945 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My usual response is a question. I ask the woman who asks that question when they think all the good men existed and they usually reply with sometime around when their fathers or grandfathers were coming up. And then I say, alright, now ask yourself this, what were the women like then? Almost invariably they say that shouldn't matter. And now we know why so many ladies today can't find the plethora of good men that still exist today.

    • @reybangayan2649
      @reybangayan2649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You NAILED it!!! Thank you.. rb

    • @williamblair9597
      @williamblair9597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You handled that perfectly. How long were you at the ER?

  • @willwinters3910
    @willwinters3910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    As a man, I would appreciate women who accepted personal responsibility for their actions over all else. Learning that there are other clothing options other than yoga pants would be a VERY close second.

    • @thepagecollective
      @thepagecollective 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I gotta say, see a woman in yoga pants, and you feel like you are looking at an object. See her in a sun dress and you see her as a woman. Maybe it's just me. I miss ladies in sun dresses.

    • @katrinaleightilley8741
      @katrinaleightilley8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thepagecollective Hey, I miss sun dresses too, and I think we should bring them back in style. That being said, I still find your comment rather disturbing - you see her as an object just because she's in yoga pants? First of all, yoga is a beautiful practice. Second, regardless of why she's wearing the yoga pants - to actually do yoga, to go shopping in, or to just loaf around in - she is every bit as much of a woman in those pants as she is in the dress.
      (I say this with the caveat that, admittedly, I actually feel a bit more like a woman in a sun dress than I do in pants, lol - but I don't think that makes me hypocritical. I know logically that I'm still just as much of a woman no matter what I wear. There's a difference between what you feel and what you know to be the truth. I am 100% pure woman, always, no matter what I'm wearing or how feminine it makes me "feel", or doesn't.)

    • @Jason1Pa
      @Jason1Pa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yoga pants are a privilege not a right!! 😆 Seriously though. Our culture in general dress terrible.

    • @katrinaleightilley8741
      @katrinaleightilley8741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Jason1Pa Regardless, I believe in learning to see the human beings beneath the attire above all else.

    • @rbfarrell1
      @rbfarrell1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katrinaleightilley8741 yoga pants are for yoga exercise. And less then 1% of women look good in yoga pants. Women will always be judge by how they look. Because it naturally tells a man if she is healthy or not. And the way women dress tells me if she would be a good role model to her children. A fat lazy woman would not be the best choice for a mother of your children. And women that wear alot of make up hide their natural look that could get past to her children. It is a fact good looking health people have a much better chance at success in life.

  • @douglasschaden3475
    @douglasschaden3475 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    My 2 cents: Walk more. Make walking a part of your commute. Walk errands. Take a stroll after dinner. Just get out and walk.

    • @FlyingFun.
      @FlyingFun. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah , simple but incredibly effective.
      I walk at least 3 times a day, with my dog and my wife and daughter, it's a great time to connect with them too.

  • @dennishaty899
    @dennishaty899 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    If every woman was a clone of you, there would be so many women pregnant that it would make the baby boom look like a blip on the graph. Some of us men really try to make ourselves the best versions of modern day men, only to be met by negativity and games by the ones with we form romantic relationships. So we end those ties with doomed people and resign ourselves to short-term physical interactions even though we'd be happy to get out of the dating game.
    So thank you for representing the type of person us modern men would be ecstatic to live our lives for.

    • @luxemag4347
      @luxemag4347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      small correction: complement our lives with, not live our lives for.

    • @shakespeare_hall4788
      @shakespeare_hall4788 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luxemag4347 excellent correction

  • @ajacobs100
    @ajacobs100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Learn impeccable hygiene
    Keep a clean and tidy living space
    Learn cooking and dexterity
    Exercise and healthy habits
    Pray
    Everything else will come naturally

  • @MQuinn9124
    @MQuinn9124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This woman should be on national tv with her own show- she just might save humanity

    • @johnnybbgunner2136
      @johnnybbgunner2136 ปีที่แล้ว

      She believes in God and that eliminates her from normal TV. I would ❤️ to see her on The View.😎

  • @ShyMplsMale
    @ShyMplsMale 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Something that works for me is to seriously take a deep breath, relax, and be grateful for every little thing around me and in my life. Prayer should never be about supplication but appreciation.

  • @martinengelbrecht5384
    @martinengelbrecht5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    1. Release stuff, travel light.
    2. Marriage someone that doesn't need to change.
    3. Exercise it releases stress.
    4. Doing a job that you enjoy.
    5. Have a number of hobbies, be an interesting person.
    6. Learn to cook.

    • @aphilippinesadventure9184
      @aphilippinesadventure9184 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usually, women marry men hoping he will change....and he won't. Men marry women hoping the NEVER changes, and she does.

    • @tropicaoptica
      @tropicaoptica ปีที่แล้ว

      So do you think a woman should work when you are married and pay half the bills?

    • @aphilippinesadventure9184
      @aphilippinesadventure9184 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tropicaoptica individual situations differ. Often in the USA, people are trapped into a life that absolutely requires two incomes. It is wise to be able to live on one income. What is ideal? A man is patient, waits to find a way high quality woman who wants to form a family. If she wants to be free and independent, more power to her, but bad wife material. Being a good man's indispensable wife is a powerful position, far more than a 50-50 business arrangement. I do not like housework. My wife is very good at it and does not mind it, but we hired a full time housekeeper anyway. I did not want her to have to do it. She used the open time to become good at buying local real estate and opened a resto-bar. Of course, I want her to have back up resources if I crash and die.

  • @meghan7547
    @meghan7547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Only thing I would add, that I do often, is to say, "thank you Father". Misplaced something, rough day and husband comes home, in a great mood and picks me back up.... giving thanks is really a big thing in my life. To family, friends and the Almighty
    I learned to cook and sew at a very young age, my best friend and I in high school would get together and make alterations to clothes so they fit perfect, we still do that now. It is sad things some find everyday occurrence for, others have no clue. Sewing, cooking, canning, growing many varieties of veggies for family... amazes me so many have not a clue to so many things.
    Thanks, this was a great topic!!

  • @russellstephan6844
    @russellstephan6844 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My father enjoyed a beer or three when I was *very* young, like five and six. Of course, he was in his twenties at this time and spent many hours socializing with coaching buddies (he was a high school athletic coach). As he matured in his career morphing into a psychologist (80 hours past his master's degree) alcohol became a very rare item in our house. He was working with lots of parents at this time with troubled or at-risk kids along with meeting with parents suffering no issues with their children and wanting to avoid upcoming possibles...
    One of his go-to lines for parents was, "Be an example of someone that navigates life without the crutch of alcohol."
    No screaming, no yelling, no draconian prohibitions, just demonstrate...
    Talk about very simple solid Jordan Peterson type practical advice!

  • @lacierussell8249
    @lacierussell8249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a young women in a serious relationship my sisters are 14 years older than me. The biggest lesson that I have learned from their relationships is that you are not in competition with your spouse. You are not trying to be the more successful, the better parent, the better in-law, you are the support they need you complete each other. As my boyfriend and I talk about what our career goals are his parents told us that they would invest in a solid business plan of ours only if we did it together. Their reasoning behind this was that as individuals we were missing what the other persons strengths were and together we would be unstoppable. Looking at their relationship and my sisters relationships I can clearly see that we all chose parters that push us to be our best and they complete us because of our differences. CHOOSE A PARTNER THAT WILL PUSH YOU TO BE BETTER

  • @johnpenn74
    @johnpenn74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was expecting something different from the video, but I will say the most tender gift I ever received was when my girl had sewed a tear in the collar of my jacket. It was an obvious correction. Red thread on black. It was obvious. It was a gift. It was a validation of her taking care of me. It was comforting. Should have kept that one.

  • @miffedcuttlefish6139
    @miffedcuttlefish6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I would say Prayer is first and of most importance. Being able to pick yourself apart and pick ONE thing to fix at a time is one of the best things I ever did growing up. And I'm not done. That's the best part about it because we're not perfect. Then yes, pick up a hobby that forces yoir mind to create something from nothing. Not make-up or coloring. Really something that you have to MAKE. This will help you recognizes weaknesses in yourself that you can try to refine, sometimes you discover that you're not cut out for something and even though ut sucks, you learn to deal with it gracefully. And ALWAYS GO OUTSIDE! Look at the sky and feel your both how insignificant and amazing your life is, and how you can make it better, and how you can share it with just one other person. Anyone. Even if it's just for a moment in time.

    • @12bInspired
      @12bInspired 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Start a new channel called "Miffed Up". What you wrote here is perfect startup content to go off of.
      💚

    • @miffedcuttlefish6139
      @miffedcuttlefish6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@12bInspired it's a little too cliché, but sadly, sometimes the clichés are the bare bottom truths. And nobody wants to hear those anymore.

    • @12bInspired
      @12bInspired 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@miffedcuttlefish6139 cliche needs a voice 😉

  • @TheSangredegrado
    @TheSangredegrado 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Mandatory reading for all young girls should include Emily Post’s Book on Etiquette. I know manners are a lot to ask for in an age where women are selling their bottled farts, but it’s worth a shot.

    • @kenrehill8775
      @kenrehill8775 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      “Bottled farts”, too funny.

    • @prodoomer3166
      @prodoomer3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mandatory reading is reading for the sake of abandoning your own common sense.

    • @TheSangredegrado
      @TheSangredegrado 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you, assuming everyone is born with a fully formed common sense faculty. I certainly wasn’t.

    • @stevengiles346
      @stevengiles346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes - Manners! I’d like to have met a woman who understands the concept of Table Manners! And doesn’t curse like a …….

    • @stevenkoehler6018
      @stevenkoehler6018 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol!!!!

  • @rmv4646
    @rmv4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Traditionally feminine qualities and characteristics are a calming, loving and enlightening force that improve absolutely everything on earth. When they spread their feminine gifts to their man, they make the world a better place. Thank you, Jennifer!!!

    • @WildMidwest1
      @WildMidwest1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed, but I doubt femininity can be taught in a society that seeks to eradicate it. Femininity is pretty much a hopeless cause in the West, and its absence is the leading reason why relationships have become so transitory.

    • @rmv4646
      @rmv4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WildMidwest1 the left is doing the same with masculinity

    • @sophieruby9135
      @sophieruby9135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That should be true of EVERYONE.

    • @darylfoster7944
      @darylfoster7944 ปีที่แล้ว

      Except when they all voted for welfare

    • @sophieruby9135
      @sophieruby9135 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@darylfoster7944
      Really? Every woman voted for Welfare? Women aren't all in one political party. And a big reason for Welfare is deadbeat dads.

  • @MahdiTidjani
    @MahdiTidjani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sex absolutely must be learnt. Some are naturally better than others, some are naturally god awful at it.

  • @RickyCoyote
    @RickyCoyote 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Interesting list. Thanks for sharing.
    My List: (No particular order)
    1. Practice Humility
    2. Practice Manners
    3. Practice Patience

    • @ashmarie617
      @ashmarie617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Humility!!! Absolutely one of the most important parts of life. I continue to pray I’m walking this way every day. It brings me so much joy…

  • @jacklee7505
    @jacklee7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a beautiful message...for all woman! I would add this advice...that since she'll be spending her life in a relationship with a man (hopefully) " a man does not think, do or act like a woman"... this idea seems to be a revelation to most woman...

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who will pay her bills until she meets her man?
      She needs higher education and a lucrative job

    • @jacklee7505
      @jacklee7505 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 lol...

  • @johnnyford9839
    @johnnyford9839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    my advise for women is Never get a tattoo. No woman Ever has improved their looks by getting one... NEVER

    • @alexanderlapp5048
      @alexanderlapp5048 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially if it is a frog on the breast, a tramp stamp, or a spider web.

    • @tomdaley9154
      @tomdaley9154 ปีที่แล้ว

      Speak for yourself scooter. Some of us like em

  • @williamsporing1500
    @williamsporing1500 2 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    I wouldn’t think about dating any woman that is a feminist, has a Twitter or tik tok account, drinks too much, does drugs, is an atheist, or is a democrat.
    That’s just the list to get my attention…..

    • @renaissanceman5847
      @renaissanceman5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Being Democrat alone pretty much covers 90% of them. After that it just a matter of finding one with the least bipolar or least multiple personality disorder issues.

    • @singlechristiancowboy
      @singlechristiancowboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen!

    • @thepagecollective
      @thepagecollective 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@renaissanceman5847 I know you won't listen to me, but I'll say it anyway. I've dated Democrats and even an anarchist, and I've never met a single one who was a feminist behind closed doors. It is women that turned me against feminism, because behind closed doors, you want to see a woman roll her eyes? Bring up feminism. But don't take my word for it. For 50 years, they have done surveys, asked women a simple question: Do you identify feminist? Eighty percent, 80%, say no. Now, if only 50% of women are Republican, you do the math.

    • @joshuacalig3144
      @joshuacalig3144 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If she speaks English, she's a feminist.

    • @nathanwoodruff9422
      @nathanwoodruff9422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thepagecollective _"they have done surveys, asked women a simple question: Do you identify feminist? Eighty percent, 80%, say no. "_ Your problem is you believe what women say. All women lie, *every* one of them, especially if it comes to personal gain. What is even sadder is that you believe a feminazi is going to give you a straight honest answer... Didn't you watch the Johnny Depp - Amber Heard trial??? And No, nobody is going to listen to you.

  • @futurehope1900
    @futurehope1900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A breath of fresh air on the internet. Thankyou for your content, you remind me in a roundabout way of how feminine my wife is....east German lass of subtle ways that command respect. Born behind the wall it seems she did not suffer the society melting consequences of people being aimlessly rude and stupid whilst believing these traits as virtues.

  • @KatyaVasilivna
    @KatyaVasilivna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Amazing advice, I would love to hear you expand on all of your points. I would also add to be mindful of the negative expectations/advice given by third wave feminists, miserable women, and/or society.
    Promiscuity/hookup culture, over-sexualization, career > family, being a strong independent woman, hyper-individualism, and lack of gender roles are promoted from such a young age. That's not to say the traditional path is for everyone, but the preservation of the nuclear family is vital for a society to thrive.

    • @kevinfernandez9999
      @kevinfernandez9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes 😍

    • @josephzsoka874
      @josephzsoka874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try watching Dr. Sam Vaknin ( a psychologist ) who discusses most of your points ... just spent a few days watching his video analysis of 3rd wave feminists...very interesting stuff.

    • @KatyaVasilivna
      @KatyaVasilivna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@josephzsoka874 I shall definitely look into it! Thank you for the recommendation.

    • @unclebounce1495
      @unclebounce1495 ปีที่แล้ว

      Understand your role is to support and be your partner's muse, not his leader or equal, and you'll have all the answers you need. A muse cannot lead or direct, only support. Once a muse begins to lead/direct or tell the inspired what to do, they've left the realm of inspiration and entered the realm of manipulation, where most woe-meyn today live.

    • @gregjoumard9172
      @gregjoumard9172 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations !!!

  • @brandymeidl7126
    @brandymeidl7126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with taking up skills:
    sewing, self moderation and others Jennifer mentioned.
    Example: zipper on your pants or jackets breaks. get comfortable and familiar with how to mend these items. extend the life of the garment.
    This last winter, my boyfriend's snow pants (for clearing snow) broke. It took me 4 tries and 2 zippers but dang it, that zipper would make a seamstress proud!! 2 evenings. Cost

  • @staceyestes8730
    @staceyestes8730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Im a guy, and if what you say you really believe? You are a Unicorn! Every man in America would love to marry you! Damn! I hope you can get through to these women of today!

  • @smokey3829
    @smokey3829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video. Men have a similar list that makes them more appealing to women. In short, men need to be masculine and women need to be feminine. By the way, your happy mood is contagious. 😂

  • @bubbadoolittle-vh8ev
    @bubbadoolittle-vh8ev 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was 8 years old before my mother let me have a soda pop! No diabetes no heart troubles no kidney disease or any other health problems. All is good.
    Don't put trash in your body!!

  • @cbwil3121
    @cbwil3121 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Praying is a great thing to do..and read the word..

  • @michaelblacktree
    @michaelblacktree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    IMO, sweet potato pie is better than pumpkin pie. And homemade pie is always better than store bought. Always.

  • @13elad49
    @13elad49 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video! New subscriber. My foster mom was my Spiritual mentor. I will always be grateful for her guidance and encouragement.
    May she Rest In Peace.

  • @wandadrees6384
    @wandadrees6384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Positive energy and sound advice
    Being in a good mood is a blessing

  • @charlesbutler4646
    @charlesbutler4646 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is so nice to hear a woman say the things you do. Females occupy a very special place in nature. Males need to learn to appreciate the magic of a woman. And women need to learn how much magic they truly have.

  • @bumpercoach
    @bumpercoach 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    cultivate GRATITUDE
    since your happiness is YOUR JOB
    (nobody else can MAKE you happy
    -- even God wont/cant force you)
    and the best shortcut there
    is via gratitude

  • @billandpech
    @billandpech 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Save 5% of your money every month and put it in the market. Also, never buy a TV. Don't let the media decide what you watch and what you study!

  • @shirleycrosner634
    @shirleycrosner634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    To learn and understand the value and power of money - to - understand how to handle money from a young age /
    And that - saved my life - even though I left school at age 17yrs - due to a learning problem and abuse at home...
    My daddy taught me ..

  • @dumbass3770
    @dumbass3770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yep you give great advice. You deserve millions of subs.

  • @edstevens2875
    @edstevens2875 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just brilliant. The world needs more traditional woman with these skills to make it a better place for all.

  • @singlechristiancowboy
    @singlechristiancowboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well said as usual, ma'am. Watchin yor videos otta be a requirement fer all young women. Taint bad fer the fellers either, says I. Only thing I might would add would be to not let baggage keep you from travelin. I met a nice, GORGEOUS, southern, country, rodeo girl at a farm supply where I do business sometime back. Like the majority of men (I'm convinced) I waited fer a opportunity and made my move. She was checkin on some products on the shelf for a customer that had called. I said, "I don't wanna get you off track of what yer doin, but I can't make myself leave here without knowin your name." She seemed impressed and told me her name as well as asked me a few questions which where answered and thrown back at her. We exchanged our plesantries and, knowin I'd be back in a few days, I wished her a good day and left.
    A few days later, I was back and asked her fer her number. She said that she was actually recently out of a relationship and wasn't ready fer another yet. I told her I respected that and I thought it healthy and wise fer her to take some time. I gave her a couple weeks and asked her again. Same answer. I left her the way I found her....alone. I meant what I said that I respected her decision, but she took TOO much time! She let her last relationship control her emotional availability and let the last guy have more control than I'd say he deserved. She checked a lot of boxes I look for in a woman, but her baggage kept her from travelin. It ain't always the cowboy who rides away from commitment. So this king that ain't never touched tobacco other than to throw it away, ain't never drunk anything stronger than vinegar and has purposed in his heart and mind to remain a virgin til marriage is off again to search fer a queen in a world of blind princesses.

  • @toddsickinger3934
    @toddsickinger3934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My wife is good at both and do you know it’s hard to find but shouldn’t be. There are lots of lonely women out there that look down on things like sewing and think they are good at sex, but aren’t. Sadly, if I had to get a wife today, it would be very hard to find a woman that meets these criteria.

  • @dumbass3770
    @dumbass3770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The only thing I can think of that would help goes with the mind body is emotional control. Don't be led by your emotions.

  • @pl-mn2ro
    @pl-mn2ro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Keep learning, nourishing your curiosity, reading real books not on a screen

  • @thunderandrain09
    @thunderandrain09 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would add, and this is part of mentoring but much broader-service. Service for others, doing things for someone else they can’t do for themselves (not to be confused with WON’T do for themselves) is very important for all ages and both sexes.
    It’s the main reason we are here.

  • @HELLH0WND
    @HELLH0WND 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank God you're wearing a shirt. I've seen lots of girls where that's their actual skin.

  • @patricke.987
    @patricke.987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My advice is that young single women should take advice from older MARRIED woman. They will get advice since they are not seen as competition. Family advice is generally best. Praying is also key! Just by the single fact that it is a time of refection. All of this is simple and leads good guidance!

  • @dennisgray7509
    @dennisgray7509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your posts are calming to me! Thank you !

  • @jasongoodman3546
    @jasongoodman3546 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We love you, Jen. Thank you for your hard work.

    • @rombios3056
      @rombios3056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude here and seconded

  • @gehnzou1
    @gehnzou1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One of the benefits to being raised in the early 80s by a traditional woman (who saw the rise of the current climate) is that I was taught how to cook, clean and sew for myself.
    "You can't expect a woman to do these things for you when you get older."
    I still thank her for teaching me those skills and for her life advice: "No drugs, no booze, no women."

  • @rolfjacobson833
    @rolfjacobson833 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "keep yourself sober' i love it

  • @j.paulina244
    @j.paulina244 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the Gonzalo lira for females, pure genius with serious functional traction.
    I am so glad that your interesting conversation can express very real, significant biological forces... so empowering for everyone.

  • @taylort726
    @taylort726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think young women need to know the importance of their own individuality. Sometimes you get impressed by a guy or jealous or intimidated by the world around you. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Once you understand this and learn to weed out people, men, situations that are taking from you, you will be better off. If you respect yourself, people around you will respect you. This means a willingness to walk away. Young women don’t have to try hard to overimpress because they already are enough. That sense of knowing that you are enough is SO important. That unshakability and non-attachment because you already have a relationship with God and you know that you will always be protected and guided. Life has seasons of ups and downs. Sometimes you feel like you have lost, but God really does surprise you and give you back something similar or better. We need to stop robbing women of their spirituality through atheism and materialism in the culture. Back to my original point, relationships are very counterintuitive. If you try too hard or feel shakeable, then you are. The most feminine and beautiful woman is actually going to be average on a certain level because feminine beauty is natural and it’s either present or it is not, so there is no reason to worry too much. You should mostly do beauty/dress for other women, not men, and appropriately for your job or environment unless asked on a date, then still wear appropriate shoes. You automatically gain so much more respect and look more beautiful when you are happy and have a relationship with God. The movie A Walk To Remember comes to mind. Also playfulness might seem like something to throw away when you are a kid, but it’s actually a bonding technique. Use your bonding techniques as much as you can because you build those pathways in your brain. Don’t ever feel like it’s too late or you are a lost cause. You have so much to be grateful for. Patience with your emotions because yes a lot of them are an illusion. Dr Joe Dispenza.

  • @Garandasaurus
    @Garandasaurus 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice Jennifer.
    Virtue is a wonderful thing.

  • @product1349
    @product1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are spot on about women. Love this channel.

  • @atcjoe1600
    @atcjoe1600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It seems to me the old fashioned almost out of date ways are the best . Hard work, cooking,cleaning, mending, fixing and using less modern conveniences. Not to mention going outside and gardening and enjoying nature.

  • @brucew.willett8196
    @brucew.willett8196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying is always a good start. My advice for woman (from me being a man) is to look at those women in your past and see what made them, or what stands out to you as the character of that mom, grandmother, woman, coworker, and try to emulate those characteristics. Don’t chase what is popular today that will destroy you tomorrow. It is a long race and full of many stages. Listen to Jennifer and others as their is strength in their words.

  • @WesleyAHuff
    @WesleyAHuff ปีที่แล้ว

    I was at Starbucks in Disney Springs and I was watching a young mother with a baby about 5 months old on her lap. She was feeding the baby with a bottle and I noticed how smoothly and easily and lovingly they interacted. Later, I noticed how she and her husband handled the baby, passing him back and forth like a professional team that had practiced a highly polished performance, beautifully choreographed. And I thought to myself all these terrible feminists who want women to give this up so that they can compete with men are totally INSANE. There isn’t anything better in life than this!

  • @GigaChad-yu4sh
    @GigaChad-yu4sh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learning how to grow food, or even just flowers in a garden would be good too. Potential fun hobby and helps the family.

  • @dariushmilani6760
    @dariushmilani6760 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Learning to play a musical instrument.❤❤BTW love your videos. You are in a right path and make a lot of sense. Liked and subscribed.👍👍

  • @realbigmanoncampus
    @realbigmanoncampus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Huge thumps up for all three advices. 👏

  • @marksims6425
    @marksims6425 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the hair Jennifer!!!!!!!!

  • @GeorgeJazzVideos
    @GeorgeJazzVideos ปีที่แล้ว

    The mind-body connection is profound. There is more to it than we can intellectualize. A woman who moves in a feminine way is one of the most beautiful sights to behold. Please don't equate "feminine" with "weak". Women need to realize there is an incredible strength in femininity.
    Some women move heavily on this earth....as if they are moving against not just the earth, but themselves. Others flow with the earth and its energy. There is a lightness and fluidity to their movements. My attempts to describe it are lacking, but we all know it when we see it. It is the most under rated mode of attraction, power and influence and it says so much about her being and how she relates to the world...how a woman moves.

  • @realwvufan
    @realwvufan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jennifer… I’m a very recent convert to your channel. Awesome content… I’m going back to your video log and starting to watch them all. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for screaming the truth, in a not so truth accepting society! I find you quite refreshing, and damn funny!
    I don’t really have a question or a comment per say, other than thank you for your channel as well as your refreshing opinions!
    Also, my honey digs your hair thingies…..where can she get them? Weird….yep! Later….keep em’ coming!

  • @larrycook6269
    @larrycook6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Daily Prayer: God will NOT interfere in our affairs UNLESS WE ASK. It's the LAW. Divine Intercession is REAL - but *must* be asked for. Pray. Every Day. Life will flow better. Great advice Jennifer.

  • @Str8Bidness
    @Str8Bidness 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think what you were grasping for with the Praying/ Meditation suggestion was a "recentering" if you will between mind and spirit. Like maintaining the relationship with a loved one by calling them frequently rather than just texting them. The real act of connecting and calming the "self."

  • @Kevin-qd2xx
    @Kevin-qd2xx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for all you do for us !

  • @rickbourne1376
    @rickbourne1376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Femininity is very attractive if done honestly and correctly. I think grace is a component. Doing things execeptionally well is generally attractive.

  • @AkelasanAK
    @AkelasanAK 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    .... great, excellent! ... so real, priceless ...

  • @craigg5051
    @craigg5051 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Things to add
    Tell that person in the mirror they are enough.
    Future-ized gratitude. Writing in a journal gratitude for something you don't have but are working toward.
    Get a little bit better every day with something(s)

  • @dr.k.eliassummerel8143
    @dr.k.eliassummerel8143 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank YOU for all the good advice / wisdom. My Blessings added to and for YOUR WHOLE LIFE, every aspect inclusive. k

  • @KP-us5pq
    @KP-us5pq ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with everything you said. I personally find peace with walking. So that’s another thing to try. I love talking care of my family and husband. Giving myself space to do that really makes me happy. I try to find ways to please my husband just as he finds ways to please me. It’s easy to let yourself get lost in negativity so if you find yourself in a cycle of negative thoughts try to notice that and understand why you maybe feeling that way. Maybe you need more rest? Maybe you have been missing out on movement/exercise? How has your diet been? I ask myself those basic things if I find myself in a downward spiral. It really makes a big difference. I think being calm, put together person makes women inspirational especially if she teaches her skills to others.

  • @RicardoGonzalez-ii3nx
    @RicardoGonzalez-ii3nx ปีที่แล้ว

    @Jennifer moleski your a smart admirable women we need people like you to teach people to be better parents

  • @adriankristiansen1293
    @adriankristiansen1293 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are many things I could list here and will share with my niece. For starters, I agree with the first three.
    1. Its great to stay sober. This may not work for everyone, but I was exposed to alcohol at a young age under supervision, so it was no big deal and not abused when I reached drinking age. I even made some wine from home made grape juice. I think kids get into bad things when they are too idle. I had a great childhood, but had chores like weeding the garden, feeding the dog, etc.
    2. Praying is great. I still do it every night before I go to sleep, thanking God for a safe and productive day.
    3. Indeed young women need to embrace their femininity. How they differ from men is their beauty.
    Adding more to the list...
    4. Things of value tend to be hidden from view. Your heart and eyes are deceptive. Be careful of what your mind consumes. In 5 years you'll become the books you read and the people you associate with. Also, be careful of the lyrics you embrace from songs. They can be very misleading and hurt you.
    5. Control your mind or it will control you. Talk with others to test your thoughts. Your mind can be your greatest asset, but it can also work against you, causing unnecessary anxiety, depression, worry, procrastination, unrealistic expectations, etc. Having specific goals can really help.
    6. Don't go at it alone. A one person show is a small show. Big achievements usually require collaboration within a team. Always get information from many sources.
    7. Help others and you'll be helped, but not necessarily by the same people. Some call it good karma.
    8. Protect your skin from the sun and you'll be very glad when you're older. It's nice to have a tan, but lotions and creams will not fix premature aging of the skin.
    9. Invest your money early. Buy shares of the SP500 index fund with your allowance at regular intervals and don't touch it. You have time on your side and its an easy way to invest without knowing anything.
    10. After ripe comes rot. Things never stay the same for long. Always find a new way to grow. This may involve making new friends.

  • @bluewaters2829
    @bluewaters2829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good advice! How did you get to be so grounded? Have you covered the topic of logic versus emotions? Or of stating I'm the moment instead of going back in time to dredge up old fights or things said that were never said until later?

  • @CdoGtheGreat
    @CdoGtheGreat ปีที่แล้ว

    Sister, you are a profit and a Saint. God bless you and your lucky husband. Wow such great advice

  • @RyanLongP
    @RyanLongP ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting point about the mind/body connection.

  • @rh1507
    @rh1507 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reminds me of a previous relationship I was in. There's much more value and satisfaction when my previous was sober and we got... busy. Not that alcohol didn't loosen our perceptions it's just that our true desires were better gratified with clear mind's.

  • @dodgerblue7381
    @dodgerblue7381 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A Well fed man is Happy, Healthy doesn't stray and is productive. Ladies, learn how to properly feed and care for your man. Best advice I have.

  • @blahahtheelder4343
    @blahahtheelder4343 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. I know its of topic but those hair accessories are rockin. Very cool style

  • @williamdavidjanda1789
    @williamdavidjanda1789 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Others have always saved me through prayer 🙏.

  • @staceyestes8730
    @staceyestes8730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh, and I forgot, Funny as hell! Your hubby is a lucky man for sure!

  • @andrewdanvers308
    @andrewdanvers308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would say women are comforting and soothing, and can make the mind and body feel better at the drop of a hat if they so choose which is whenever she's in the mood and happens to feel like it. But calming, not so much. As a man, I got no problem at all being calm and relaxed on my own until my wife sees me being comfortable and comes over and requests that I perform some time consuming task like shopping a a big box store filled with the entire third world or want me to address some concern that triggers her OCD and wants it delt with immediately when it's really something that can be handled later or at a more appropriate time or maybe should have been done much earlier and she waited to tell me until I was good and comfortable with my feet up and are relaxing and being calm.

  • @frankwilliams5934
    @frankwilliams5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I normally pray Ephesians 1:17-21 and Ephesians 3:16-17 daily. Of course thats not the only thing, but they are both fundemental yet powerful prayers, particularly when prayed daily.

    • @singlechristiancowboy
      @singlechristiancowboy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @shodapad07
      @shodapad07 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love those verses too. Especially the first one. Learnt it about 15 years ago. And coincidentally, one of our pastors preached on it 2 weeks ago during Ascension service. Amen.

  • @goodtalker
    @goodtalker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A woman who takes the time to look as beautiful as she can be, who has not been promiscuous and wants to follow her husband's lead will find a man who will make sure he is creating the best version of himself, essentially, always. It really does not get any better than that.

    • @AndrielleHillis
      @AndrielleHillis ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope you are right. I have been praying that one day, I will find a Godly husband. In the meantime, I have been working on looking for feminine, my housekeeping skills and habits, and trying to ask God to help me prepare to be a good wife to him.

  • @ezrabrooks12
    @ezrabrooks12 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU'RE A GOOD WOMAN JENNIFER!!!!!!

  • @samgreen6144
    @samgreen6144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think it would be very beneficial for young women to learn how to listen and think before they respond instead of reacting without thinking it through.

    • @ashmarie617
      @ashmarie617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. I can reflect back and see where I was in error in behaving that way in the past and how immature I was. It’s interesting how the more I’ve wanted to improve myself and admit how crappy I was before I’m able to humbly change and think things through and wait to say something to my husband when it’s clearly not the most appropriate time. Life is such an amazing journey and I’m excited every day to be the best me I can with my Heavenly Father guiding me! 🌻

  • @johnbonwell8735
    @johnbonwell8735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jennifer, you have a lot of wisdom; I’m glad you follow Jesus.

  • @Allan_aka_RocKITEman
    @Allan_aka_RocKITEman ปีที่แล้ว

    @JenniferMoleski >>> Great video...👍

  • @drat9625
    @drat9625 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the excellent advice for women. I am a man, and from my perspective this is perfect.

  • @j.borchard2208
    @j.borchard2208 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the female Native American look Jennifer! 😊

  • @JenniferMoleski
    @JenniferMoleski  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would _really_ like to hear what you would add to the list of advice! I'm sure you can articulate an idea and help change someone's life for the better.

    • @michaelblacktree
      @michaelblacktree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I appreciate a woman who is a good cook. I think nowadays, cooking is considered banal or oppressive or whatever. But a home cooked meal will be healthier and less expensive than restaurant food. And if you're good at it, that's something to brag about.

    • @jaredb6934
      @jaredb6934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Women are victims of the comparison trap. I'd say, don't compare, just compliment and try to encourage!

    • @j.s.1158
      @j.s.1158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My response to Jennifer Moleski's request: "I would really like to hear what you would add to the list of advice! I'm sure you can articulate an idea and help change someone's life for the better." ~ ~ ~ Don't look down on being a mother - there is no greater job on the planet then that of a mom. I wouldn't trade my mom in for all the gold in fort knox. Being raised by someone who loved being a mother and traded the peak years of her life to make sure that I was a happy and grew to be a decent human being is - quite literally - priceless. Society today makes it seem that women waste their lives if they choose to be a stay-at-home mother ... this is heinous. That anyone tries to convince others of this lie is simply disgusting. Raising a good person is more rewarding and more fulfilling than any job ... a hundred years from now there will be no evidence that you ever worked at some company and traded your life for all the years spent there - but a hundred years form now a son or daughter raised by a good mom will have an incredible impact on the world.

    • @michaelblacktree
      @michaelblacktree 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jaredb6934 - Women already do the 'fake praise' thing. You can't force someone to be genuine.

    • @johnzientek735
      @johnzientek735 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't lie and treat others as you want to be treated, don't do things to others you would hate done to you. Sometimes emotions get the best of us and if you say or do something you wouldn't want done to you or your mother father son or daughter then when you realize your anger got the best of you and you messed up. First apologize then remember and learn then go and sin no more. God,mother nature the universe they all love you and have faith in you it's time to start having faith in yourself after all you and everyone else is a product of those three entities. That's pretty amazing you're even here you must have been chosen👍✌️❤️😀

  • @j.ih.p8813
    @j.ih.p8813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Make an habit stay fit doing workout and eating healthy, preferable with weight training combined with cardio... and second... skin and hair care...

    • @jackwalker1822
      @jackwalker1822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just google up how French women as a whole eat healthy and prepare healthy tasty food and how they take care of their skin and hair. It takes time and money and needs to be a priority. Even if your natural born looks are not what you would like them to be, by taking care of your body, skin, and hair, and having a good heart, you are well on your way to getting a high value man.

  • @DELTA_77805
    @DELTA_77805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    _An oxymoron can be very effective in conversation, poetry. ie. Shape without form, shade without colour, Paralysed force, gesture without motion;_ ts eliot "The Hollow Men"

  • @johnjasonkearney
    @johnjasonkearney 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a guy I think this would be great advice for young women

  • @stevenkoehler6018
    @stevenkoehler6018 ปีที่แล้ว

    I personally LOVE the female singing voice

  • @lacierussell8249
    @lacierussell8249 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice… but that lamp shade is killing me 😂

  • @roncolangelo3264
    @roncolangelo3264 ปีที่แล้ว

    i agree with the sober part ---If i was not drinking I wouldn't have been stupid enough to get married--my wife is 100 the opposite of you!

  • @joelkoonce8559
    @joelkoonce8559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unselfishness, understanding and love for your Mate.

  • @brianwoo8877
    @brianwoo8877 ปีที่แล้ว

    3:15 Yes, my wife is a calming force. Thank you Lord Jesus.

  • @db4419
    @db4419 ปีที่แล้ว

    You REALLY had me at 6:12 - 6:17...😅... " and often dexterity of hand"... Said so "calmly"....😂😂.. Husband gotta be a HAPPY guy!😀😉😄

  • @thorivaldic
    @thorivaldic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praying is to talking it out... Meditating is Listening it out.

  • @michaeltellurian825
    @michaeltellurian825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great advice! I'm in the process of converting my Toyota Sienna into a camper van and I just finished the bed system. I built the bed at a normal length for a twin but the width is only 28 inches. That's the size of the memory foam mattress I had to cut down from a regular twin mattress. Unfortunately, sheets for that size must be custom made. Now, I don't know how to sew. It would be great to have a woman in my life who knew how to do that. I have a woman in my life, but she doesn't know how to sew. She also doesn't know how to cook. She keeps saying she wants to be my girlfriend and be able to tell her friends and family that I'm her boyfriend, but she hasn't shown that she has any interest in sex. So the bottom line here is that she doesn't DO anything that contributes to my life. I, on the other hand, pay for everything and listen to her talking about her day and support her emotionally. I consider myself a good friend to her, which is fine by me. I resist the "romantic" connotation to our relationship because it seems one-sided. Maybe I'm being taken advantage of? I don't know. Love your take on things, Jennifer!

    • @RNicolasRuvalcaba
      @RNicolasRuvalcaba 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      To me it sounds like you're a really nice guy and she's probably just waiting for the perfect asshole to give herself to. Mark my words..

    • @joegreen4089
      @joegreen4089 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      At best your being taken advantage of. Most likely your enabling learned helplessness and preventing her growth. Best to cut ties and let her learn to grow up.

    • @j.w.31
      @j.w.31 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree with @joe green, this isn’t an individual that will help _build_ a life long term

    • @alphaomegastables
      @alphaomegastables 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hello!???.. You r definitely being taken Advantage of...If it walks like a duck..etc!!

    • @greenrock8171
      @greenrock8171 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael, I have a 2018 Sienna I want to use as a camper van also! Can I DM you somehow?