What Nice Guys Need To Know
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Women need strength and boundaries and modern feminism is creating a culture where they are taking away what they actually need. It's no good for anyone. Men need to be strong, and ladies, if you can support them in their natural role, we will all flourish.
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My wife heard my cussing while fixing the family truck. She logically saw I needed a better tool for the job and I was fighting the job with the wrong tool. She called the local parts store, described the problem. They had the correct tool. She went and got the tool (while I cussed some more) and brought it to me. Problem solved, and tool now in top drawer of tool box as reminder. Married 29 years to the most helpful and considerate wife ever.
my wife does those kind of thing sometimes. makes me very happy, i may be strong and technically good at many things but in the end when things are tough her help is key to fix problems
You are lucky man to a rare woman
Unicorns exist!!! Lol
All the best bro! God bless
You married a gem!
Thanks for sharing, great story.
I’ve never heard a woman make a sincere apology in my life. They aren’t real big on accountability.
Exactly. No accountability
True. Jennifer you should comment on this topic on a future video!
A bro say that shit AGAIN!!!
They NEVER apologize.
@@5Gen Thanks for saying this. Yes, it doesn't matter how much self-accountability others may or may not be taking. Keep your focus on your own plate. "Regardless of what others do or what has happened, how can I take ownership of this?" That's the key to leadership.
My first wife tried something like that one time early in our marriage.
Shortly after I got out of the service one Saturday morning the starter went out on her car, so I figured I'd swap it out myself and save us a bit of time and money instead of having to have it towed, three or four days in the shop, and the mechanics bill.
I called the auto parts store about 4 blocks from the house and they had it in stock, so I asked her to take my work truck and go pick it up for me while I got her car up on jackstands, disconnected the battery, crawled under (on a gravel driveway) and pulled the bad one out.
You'd have thought I asked her to go turn tricks downtown, so I said "fine, I'll just call the shop and have them send a tow truck", which I did. In the mean time she wanted to use my truck to go gallavanting all over town shopping with her friends, and when I told her no, that I had things I needed to do, she threw a hissy-fit and had one of her friends come pick her up.
It really hit the fan twhen the shop called the following Friday to let us know it was ready and I told her that SHE was going to have to pay for the repairs out of HER account (we each had separate "fun money" accounts separate from the household budget account) and the bill was more than she had because she had spent it shopping the day her car broke down. I told her flat out "then the next time I offer to fix YOUR car, maybe you'll get off of your lazy ass and go get the parts, won't you?" I paid for the repairs out of my account, but told her I wasn't putting any more money into her account until the bill was paid back.
Long story short, she didn't learn and six months later I kicked her ass to the curb.
The happy ending to this story is that about a year later I found the love of my life, and we've been together for nearly 40 years.
Women are grown children.
@@MrRyanwonderland Not all, but yes, a lot of young women today are spoiled children with completely unrealistic expectations of what a healthy relationship is actually like.
Congratulations on getting rid of her
Bye, Felica!~ Nice job, bro.
"Long story short, she didn't learn and six months later I kicked her ass to the curb."
LMAO!
What nice guys need to know is, when that hot girl that he's admiring finally gets to the point where she really appreciates kindness, she'll be old and used up.
🎯🎯🎯
Why is old equated with messed up? We all grow old
@@mrsc4760 Its not messed up, but it is the end of somebody's life cycle.
When I was a teenager, there was that girl I asked to be in a relationship. There was a cousin there and she pretended to be her boyfriend to say "go away". When her birthday came, I bought her a gift. She felt bad for I was returning good to her. But we never had a relationship. The word NO may hurt, but it means that I needed to walk away. I was not going to force anyone to a relationship against own will. Later she married a bad man and divorced. The problem was a toxic family teaching the wrong ways. She was not a bad person. But that was not what I was looking for. I did not want to marry to get a divorce, so I had to be picky.
@@mrsc4760 It's not "equated", they are 2 separate attributes and are not mutually exclusive. On average, older people tend to have had more sexual partners than someone half their age because of the simple fact that they've spent more time being alive.
Why should I care for a society that only sees me as either a joke, an annoyance, a disposable resource, or a threat?
@Fires And Flowers cry me a river. You don't have it even remotely bad as men do in this sick, twisted joke of a society we live in.
@@onemanarmy36 Funny how all the information are left out by the joker we are replying to.
I am with you brother. When these dumbass talk about crime rate and all that jazz and fail to bring up the massive male homeless and male suicide victims out there.
@Fires And Flowers your a joke
@Fires And Flowers u open your legs to losers you will be used..
Thats still HALF the womans fault..
YES I dare suggest women own accountability.
@Fires And Flowers Bullshit. No one cares about men. Men's issues are laughed at and go unaddressed, while for MOST of society, all a woman has to do is cry or pout/complain to get IMMEDIATE results. Men are the majority victims of violent crimes, are sentenced much more harshly by the courts and taken advantage of in family courts, not to mention the life expectancy, suicide rates, and the homeless majority. Things are so good for women now and getting better, to the point where there's not a lot more to complain about, save for a few misogynistic individuals who will always act a certain way. On the other hand, people seem to have forgotten the preference given to women SOCIALLY for hundreds of years that puts women on a pedestal. Combine that social conditioning with the equality you now enjoy, along with this revenge/I'm-better-than-you mentality that modern feminist are adopting and it's no small wonder you and alot of women think like this you're all just Echo Chambers and entitled Toxicity leaking into the mainstream. *Sigh* whatever, man.
getting married is like playing Russian roulette for a man. the only winning move is not to play
togotfury
Not true. I won a free bullet!
Worse odds than Russian Roulette. Russian Roulette is 1 in 6...divorce rate is 1 in 2...4 out of 5 divorces are initiated by women...1 in 5 men commit suicide. It's literally safer to play Russian Roulette than get married!
The thrill of not blowing off your head probably gets old, as heart pounding as it may be...
Russian Roulette with a round chambered in the barrel.
togotfury 60% divorce rate means 4 bullets in the revolver
Was married 47 1/2 years to the same woman. We made one rule never go to bed mad. Talk it out no matter what the subject. It showed respect for each other, Gods word. And common sense. It stop lots of miss understanding but more importantly it showed love. After my wife died I found her note or journal which told me that one simple rule saved our marriage over the years.
We tried this too, and it was so tough! How were you able to ever get sleep? They are always angry about something, honest to pete!
With whatever due respect for your departed wife…. I have to ask…. How did talking it out work? Too much compromise on your end? Look back and reflect. Jennifer suggests men will think the relationship is in proper balance and it is not. Leans too far to the Eve Woman (Bible) rebellious against God and their man chaos. Men are strangled by godless satanic Eve Women “legal” protections. They have the legal power, they have the mental jujitsu upper hand manipulating most men who were raised by Eve women mothers.
That is great Carl. Thanks
Told my last girlfriend the contract up front. That cheating was a deal killer. She cheated on me I walked away and never look back.
I have done the same for all. There,rules don't cheat,steal or lie to me & we will be fine. I have never in my life had one be able too do or not do them all each is different current have child to & she's much better now but our relationship still isn't the best. But a lot is my fault as well not just hers. I really just wanted to write that. Its,practice im not good about admitting I was wrong
How'd you realize she cheated?
John Desey Damn straight. Men need to have more self respect.
You know, Sandman predicted this environment several years ago, and here we are. MGTOW is still winning
The chameleons are adapting
MIchael Belt NO, The Wall is wining and SOME men are TEMPORARILY losing ... but time and the internet will Level the playing field and eventually tilt it out way 😎👍😁
@@glenholmgren1218 The wall... The wall is undefeated.
Although some land whales make me worried sometimes about the integrity of the wall so I will be performing regular inspections 😎
outsideworld76 LOL - Classic! 🤣🤣🤣
I was a Blessed man, married for 25 years. Widowed. When we married, boundaries were set, before marriage. They work and kept both of us happy and together through kids, bankruptcy, and cancer. Why don't women want them now. I love this video, helps me remember my wife , and how wonderful she was.
I now remember her in spirit thanks to your comment.
Thank you.
Those days are over pops. It's about oppressing men now.
Yes what boundaries ??
I had a similar experience. Had she survived we would have been celebrating our 30th anniversary this month. I miss her badly
Boundaries equals bondage in today's shallow culture,
married 32 years to the same amazing woman, we hold each other accountable but there is no 50/50 trash or separate accounts. It's 100% and 100%. We had a long hard talk right at the beginning and set those boundaries as you described and it has made the difference. All I do is done for her and the family, all she does is for me and the family... 5 healthy, happy, homeschooled children who are successful, independent, and have come back to thank us for never putting them in public schools multiple times. I told her if she ever leaves me I am going with her! An amazing woman and I am blessed among men to call her my wife.
How about instead of feminISM we practice actually being FEMININE 🤯
Too much common sense for the world to bear
What's feminine to you may not be feminine to another
@@SD-pi9co Pretty much all adults know what is feminine or not. Don't buy your reasoning.
@@jackwalker1822 What’s feminine to you might not be feminine to me. It’s subjective at best and I have no concern over the wardrobe or behavior of others that doesn’t impact me.
I was MGTOW before ever knowing about it. Just analyzing women made me realize marriage was/is not for me.
@WonkaaVision sharks dominate the seas. Wolves are on land so i don't lend money to land whales just because they're related to real ocean whales.
But lone wolfs die alone. We all need a pack, we are designed that way as humans. So learning to deal with women is a natural part of development, to neglect this is unnatural.
Right and Exact! It's for the Corporate State System !
GOOD MAN.. Men need to stop thinking with their dicks and be practical like yourself. The trick is getting this message to horny teens and young men in a way that grabs their attention.
@@cyberpunkalphamale I see a dog with a big tongue and jars of peanut butter on your bedside table in the future... Feminists start dying at menopause and they do it ALONE.
I refuse to date a woman that does not already know the boundaries.
Yeah, 2nd wife and I had the whole deal breAkers convo before getting married - she meant it as long as SHE didn’t have to live up to it ... apparently, she realized that I wasn’t going to sign on the dotted line without agreeing to the deal breakers.
So, 4 years later, here we are separated and heading for divorce because she pulls the CLASSIC immature female gimmick - double standard.
She thinks she gets to tell me what to do; when; where; how; and with whom; but isn’t going to take a “No” for an answer.
Got into definitions of correlation vs causation and that logic is merely a tool to communicate, persuade & convince someone of one’s own point of view - NOT used for manipulation, that’s what feelings are for.
Refused to be held emotional hostage and told her so.
Tripped up on deal-breaker #1.
Treat me like an equal - not a subordinate.
Moved out the next week.
Done with that “do as I say; not as I do” attitude.
Got peace and quiet now. 🙏🏻😁👍
Never be with a woman that can define boundaries but won’t respect yours! 😎😁
You have to set the boundaries before going steady.
@@glenholmgren1218 Bet you missed some red flags early on.
Most important red flag is, only marry once and it is for life. If spouse passes, you get to have another. Marriage is also for having kiddos. Marriage is not some Golden Parachute for partied out broads that are near or past menopause to allow them to take their earnings and their new husbands and get a big house to show off that they don't need because they have no kids! So men, be patient, be picky.
Diggy d touché - and believe me, I DO fee like a fool because I believed what she said in spite of clues
Youb Cbr yeah, or “you can’t change intelligent design by benevolent Creator” - either way, same end result. 👍😁🎯
Teach men to stand up for themselves. Teach women not to take advantage of men. It's called good parenting folks.
Standing up for yourself is called toxic. Women with no boundaries are called brave and fierce. So for men it's just better not to play a rigged game until the insanity isn't supported anymore.
Came for the advice... stayed for the hilarious one-sided banter. We need women like this up here in Canada!
No wonder men are fed up with us!
You are what you are just as guys are, each has all of the pluss and minuss we each have. But, females literally have the full force of the government shadowing them every single step of the way today, (he gave me the bird, arrest him! (arrests for this have already been made in Europe for this very thing)) tomorrow (he looked at me too long and I fear he MAY do something in the future, and of course there's the pound me too movement, which covers times past as she imagines it was. When is it ever safe to approach a relationship with government there at her disposal with zero proof of any of these occurances. Of course they do happen, but when the charges are layed and NO due process is required makes every single charge also a guilty verdict, wtf? What choice does a man have?
well said Jim very well said totally agree
Study proved that women cheat twice as much as men do like literally 50% of women have a back up lover and use men for free food and that behavior is heavily associated with narcissism.
On top of that women initiate alil over 70% of all divorces and mostly because of financial issues not infidelity meaning majority of women are materialistic and marry for financial convenience not love.
Also suicide is in the top ten deaths for males statistically 21 males commit suicide every week due to unfair access to see their children because these narcissistic sociopath women weaponized the children against them..
In the UK alone 2 men commit suicide every 2 hours at the core of most of these suicides is divorce rape and abuse by women.
I personally will never ever in my life trust women. I've never cheated in any of my relationships but from here on I will never ever be loyal to women. Specifically after what my x did to me cheated on me with multiple men when she became a flight attendant dumped me on my birthday and she lied about getting raped 2 months later
How's that for mental health.
No women is worthy of a mans devotion in this era. NONE
I got stories for days on my recent dates you wouldn't believe the audacity of these hoes
@@armandohenriquez2103 ... Tell the stories man... The world needs to hear how bad women behave.
yep, time to shake it up ladies, this sh*ts got to stop, you gotta bring more than your T&A, pretty face and Vag to the table
I took the red pill, off the plantation!!
I was married just one month when my car broke down while I was driving home from work. No cell phones in 1979 so I walked to a pay phone while foolishly thinking "At least I have a wife now to come and pick me up". I called my newlywed wife at home, and asked her to come pick me up. She was really irritated, saying she was tired, no matter that I had just got done working all day on my feet while she had sat on her ass at an office job. After an argument on the phone she finally drove the 5 minutes to come pick me up, in the brand new car I bought for her, but her incredibly selfish attitude never changed and we were divorced less than a year later. I had a lot of girlfriends the last 43 years but I never have wanted to risk getting married again; they ALL change after awhile.
a woman was bragging about how women can multi-task, i told her to sit down and shut up and .......
she could do neither
Oh jeez this hit me just right. Awesome 👌
🤣🤣
ROFLMAO!!
a funny joke lol....
Hahahahahaha
Some women have a lot of issues, just like some men! The difference is most men will apologize! Women don’t!!!!
I agree. If women start admitting that they're wrong when they have done something wrong, then men will start respecting them not fully but for what they have admitted.
@@vinceamal1015 if a woman did that.. She's a man in a dress 👗
Superdude70 Same
Women sometimes apologize though, but it's just lip service in my experience. If she meant it she would change or at least try to.
@Matt M. I forgot who said it (in a video) but he said a man's response should instead just be: "I'm sorry you feel that way".
When I divorced in 2014, I started telling people relationships needed to be treated like business deals, they thought I was crazy.
You are right because that is what they are.
That’s right, they need to contribute in the relationship
A life without consequences is a life of CHAOS. I have two key consequences, 1) They way you treat me will come back to you two-fold. Love, affection, care, kindness... right back at you X2. Hate, anger, disrespect, infidelity... yep, X2 2) You get ONE free punch. If there is a second one, I punch back.
Thank you Jen. Finally you made sense of the whole “Women don’t like needy men” mantra I hear. I always asked why 2 needy people would not make a good match. Yes I am needy and yes I let women walk all over me. My last relationship got so bad that she ended it and I was grateful not to be stressed the Hell out! I will grow bigger balls because I’m a super nice guy and deserve better. This whole internet dating scene is really a crummy load of BS; you must go through Hell just to get a date! It’s enough to make anyone desperate! I think I’m going to find somebody out in the real world and then set some boundaries. Let’s see what happens....
What nice guys need to know: Beautiful women aren't all about you. They're all about themselves, because they feel entitled by their looks. They can ALWAYS find another sucker who will give them what they want, and they will have no problem discarding that sucker when they find something better. A beautiful soul is far more important than a beautiful body. It's RARE to find both.
@Chris I've seen a few who can, but only a few in the 39 years I've been alive. Our society conditions women to be independent and vain, not loving and loyal. You might find some good ones who are not followers of the trends and think for themselves, but that is a quest that requires great endurance and fortitude. It ain't gonna be easy to find them.
men are so programmed to equate beauty with quality, that they'll ignore 9 low status women to be cheated on by one high status woman,but society and government now REWARDS those high status women for treachery.it's a rigged game.
@Chris lmao more woman hating BS and if you're letting a few taint the lot you're weak
@ThePatUltra you're hard case mate 😂😂 I don't have to prove anything to anyone in a YT comment section also I'm from NZ bro idk how u think I'll get there but in your dreams hahaha jk 😂😂
@ThePatUltra swea sje
Sounds like marriage is just raising a child instead of having a lover who's got your back. Not interested
marriage is really..... adoption.
@@heedmywarning2792
Hmmmm. Never looked at it this way. Makes sense though
@@heedmywarning2792 Hammer head, meet nail. Not all, but so many that the effort and chance of finding the exception is very daunting.
you got it. you will not have a lover who's got your back in an american marriage. if that's what you want quit watching so many movies. no woman in the whole world has a sense of devotion and a sense of doing the right thing.
You seem to be missing the message. "Don't marry a child." If all you ever find is a child, you're right, don't marry. But there is the option to consider changing how and where you search.
I’ve watched this video like 5 times.
Ingraining these truths into my mind so I don’t forget and so I can remember some of your analogies.
Thanks again
This is the best I have ever seen on this subject. Well done! The only thing I would add is that the more your own life is in order first, the more potential desirable partnership options you have and the better terms you can negotiate. The more your life is in order the easier it is to refuse to put up with behavior in a relationship that should be a deal breaker for you.
Of course it's the Man's fault...
When will you women take responsibilities for your actions?
Here's a hint: NEVER
Michael Baldry Jack Nicholson’s character in the movie As Good As It Gets, about how he writes about women so well ...
“Simple; I start with a man, and I remove reason and accountability!”
@Michael baldy well said. Ladies you want men to respect you, then admit that your wrong on things that you have done wrong.
Vince Amal Save your breath, Brother - you’re just pissing into the wind
It's only.a problem if you expect different. "Expectations are pre-meditated disappointments".
I only date women after i know the relationship she had with her dad, that alone saves a shit toon of problems.
I suggest dating women who have a good relationship with their mother and father. Girls tend to rely on their father to dote over them and get into fights with their mother.
@@vikbik902 Is great, both my parents are still married, i go to thanksgiving at my parents house every other year, and we all get along pretty well, no drama or anything just a toon of fun.
So how is your relationship with your father?
Like Kevin said, see how they get on with their mother also. Wife absolutely loved her dad, (he passed on before we met), but fights tooth and nail with her mom. If I had thought about that before hand, I doubt I would be married to her. (way too much drama.)
There’s a catch, if the father/mother is a asshole, you’ll have to negate it.
My cousin’s dad is an example, he’s an alcoholic and has been married multiple times after my aunt. His own family even dodges him.
My aunt married young and thought he was Prince Charming.
@@DOffio you're wrong mothers treat their daughters different. so just look up how their relationship is with their father to find out how she treats men.
"You didnt like it, did you?". No, I really appreciated this video and everything you said in it. Simple but powerful and effective relationship truths. Thank you Jennifer!!!
I loved your video Jennifer! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
No more Mr Nice Guys There will be more Mr Red Pill MGTOW
@@cyberpunkalphamale you are really afraid... oh my god... MGTOW is so powerful
Sh0t This is your typical feminist responds to anything a man does. Why does it bother you that men have decided to listen to your feminist demands and leave you women alone? I have walked away from women after my divorce. It took me only 3.5 years to fully recover financially while paying the ex thousands per month alimony. Men like me use to remarry and start supporting another woman. In my income bracket, our divorce rate is 83%. Definition of insanity is doing the same thing while excepting a different result. I will never support another woman ever. She can keep her aging body and mind to herself. MGTOW.
Guys anytime someone responds with the word "COPE", its a freudian slip. Its them acknowledging the game for what it is because they have no retort for men that do not want to play
Here's a boundary, marriage rates are at a 100 year low. Hold the line boys.
If you've gone you're own way, and good for you if you have, why do you need "the boys" to hold the line, or more generally, anyone to do anything, you've disconnect and on your own bruh, regardless of how many MGTOW there may be. It's ridiculous that some MGTOW try to recruit other men to do the same, rather than just sharing their experience and letting guys find their own way.
@Proud Goy No Soy Why? We need more women who think like this, if not for us then for young guys, I have a few nephews and it would be cool to see them not deal with all this feminist shit.
@Proud Goy No Soy Boy ok, but we do this with the bad ones, not the good ones. But again, MGTOW should not even be concerned with any kind of societal movement, otherwise you really haven't gone your own way, have you?
@Proud Goy No Soy Boy doing both means you are not going you own way, therefore MGTOW is just an illusion to make you feel better. Don't be scared brah, go ahead and choose, just don't lie to yourself about what you're really doing
“Whosoever is delighted in solitude, is either a wild beast or a god.” ― Aristotle
Your talks help me become a better man for me, and the woman I'm cultivating a relationship with. Thank you
You are completely correct. You are expanding it clearly and precisely. well done.
I hope women like distance, because that's what they'll get from me.
With the Internet, there is always attention just a swipe away!
@@superchuck3259 That won't last forever for them.
@B Strom Until they slam into the age wall. And they definitely WILL.
She nailed it. Good message. It is better of being MGTOW. Alpha makes the rules and theyll still break it. Betas follow feminist moves and get stepped on and cheated on. Just dont play their games. Thats why Chad and Tyrone just pumps and dump. Move on and leave ASAP
"A strange game. The only winning move is not to play. How about a nice game of chess?"
lol, nice!
Patrice?
Wow, that is a WHOPPER!
You made a lot of sense and I am better for hearing you out. Thank you Jennifer.
Great message, delivered clearly. Love it!
Women don't honor contracts. That's the problem. Adding more contracts to the pile that your wife will dump into the shredder (before she obliterates your life) won't help.
Exactly. They just can't take responsibility for anything or face just how fucked up they are.
It's always: "YOU need to just do these few things and THEN we will be great wives"
Lmfao. There's ALWAYS another hoop to jump through.
Women don't fight with honor or fairness, men do.
That is the problem. There was a time when pre-nups worked but women judges threw them out (refused to honor them) because they were fair to men and did not follow the feminist paradigm. Today.. just go mgtow, its the safest. Next better may be a foreign wife that follows traditions.
@@fjfell5979
Yeah foreign wives do have a lower divorce rate (or so I've heard). Instead of 50% it's like 30%. Still too much.
@@ralphfurley4217 they dont have honor
"What nice guys need to know"
They need to know MGTOW.
i think the mgtow people have a lot in common with the third-wave feminazis... the same kind of madness different expressions.
@@hansdampf640 Feminism is the attack, MGTOW is the defense.
@Chris Got that!
the mgtow movement was inevitable and it started with really good content,and ther also is good new content....buuuut today there ar soooo much bitter man,spreading hate wherever they can... hate is never an solution,unless you want to destroy your opponent (wich is,in this case,like you saw the branch you sit on)
we need to remind all of us that there are assholes on both sides of the genders.
and mother nature,as far as i know her,make the numbers allways even! ;)
@@hansdampf640 MGTOW is just men who don't want to have relationships, that's all. As such, there are all kinds of men that conform to this simple definition. In contrast, feminism holds many basic tenets that their members must conform to, like women being oppressed by men, the fight against gender roles, etc. The word you're looking for when you try to describe women haters is misogynist, not MGTOW. Feminism is the attack because it's tenets go directly against long term relationships.
@Wytchfinde odd.. maybe you´re right,if it is ok in your world to demonize a whole gender (of two!) you are not better then those crazy feminists...
so if you think that is normal,then i really like it when people like you call me odd.
You're awesome!! Thanks for putting this out there.
Thank you for the insights Jennifer. I appreciate you sharing.
Keep being nice it’s women repellent lmfao Mgtow for the win
Hell yes! MGTOW!!!
Combined with dressing plainly.
Craig Irvine - They run from the nice guys to ride off into the sunset with the bad boys then cry, "Where have all the good men gone?"
Wolfgang548 Yes, they crave for good men, full of respect, but cannot even talk in a respectful way, wanna be slapped and pulled in hair while having sex, then going to police for having pain in her second...
@@wolfgang548 Her definition of good man isn't the same as yours. Good man means rich primarily, then good looking, and faithful. We all know these three qualities don't exist together in a man.
The more I hear about other relationships the more I realize how blessed I am in my marriage. She constantly tells me that she'd rather hear an ugly truth then a sweet lie. 28 years of ups and downs and all that life throws and I still look forward to seeing her face everyday. She's my best helpmate partner and I try to help her as much as I can.
You found a unicorn!!! Congrats -- and treat her better than fine rubies because she is more rare than fine rubies. The emotional corpses strewn across the landscape that enables your good situation are many.
And, in fairness, there are a lot of narcissistic (petulant children who are insecure and have to have their way) that pummel the women the try to force into conformity. This is really a narcissist vs. empathy issue, NOT a male vs. female issue. It just so happens that more women are programmed narcissists (covert, wounded most) than men, but the number of men is growing by leaps and bounds!
Congrats man! Such a rare breed in this crazy feminist world, and it will get worse with more victimization coming
Mike Henthorn: I really hate your guts man! Not one woman I was with was like that, but I accepted what i thought I could get! But seriously, though, congrats on hitting that lottery! its a real shit-show out here, and it makes me sad! There are NO good single women out here!
I know this is old but I want that in a relationship
Thanks! This helps continuing being good 😊
I agree and I’ve subscribed. Love it!
So your telling me that women have to have rules laid out for them in order to behave. Instead of using their own values and will to treat their partners with respect? So basically women never stop being children?
No wonder they make such excellent government sheep.
Wow
@bigricester I believe 100 percent in that statement, Psionic spelled it out, blunt and powerful.... i was blown away..... its sad but but true... So I'am inspired as a man to continue give women what they really want "to be put in their place". with respect of course lol
Nope, they never stop being entitled children. It’s all about opportunities. They seem to have them all. If you want to be with one you must pay the piper.
Even the old religions basically say they are lesser..... but still needed. There is a reason that older societies all say the same shit about women.....
Ah, refreshing to so someone who understands the female hive mind.
Lots of men, including myself, who otherwise would be strong masculine men, were raised by a single mother and did not learn any of this - how to deal with a lady effectively, lovingly, and firmly. Good stuff.
Wasn't expecting to like this... But I really do.
I love the no BS approach in your videos.
The messages is men and women can have a happy relationship, marriage, home. But there needs to be boundaries and responsibility and communication.
Thank you for your refreshing prospective. Please keep the content coming.
The only problem your contract list for behavior and expectations is that it's only enforceable with the man; the woman can break any or all of the contract terms without consequent.
كلام الليل يمحوه النهار
Robert Secor Good Plan - they’re loyal, don’t blow the budget on shoes & clothes, won’t screw your friends, understand and respond positively to dominance hierarchy messaging and will never leave you.
You tell a woman she’s violated the boundary you’ve long since discussed...she’s having a bad day so she violates three more boundaries and dares you to do anything about it or she’ll call the police. MGTOW is next.
A woman needs to know that you can leave her.
Yes, it's the keystone to a more durable relationship.
*replace her... the only thing is, it becomes harder and harder to do so, the more time and energy you invest into her. And once you become emotionally vested (i.e fall in love) ... that's it. Game over, you'll become her bitch now.
She needs to also know that the house has a door and she is free to leave at any time.
It has to be clear that she might come back to find the door locked and you gone as well!
You leave her and she keeps your house, children, and income through alimony and child support. And if you didn't marry she will take the time and attention you gave her, listening to her shit tests, bad behavior, etc. No such thing as relationships in the west anymore. Either pump and dump or be celibate.
Impossible. She gets the house and alimony.
Jennifer, I have to say, I love your insight, and intellect. You really do put it bluntly.
I am thoroughly impressed. Finally, someone with a TH-cam channel who is part of the solution. I need to share this with my friends. Thank you Ms. Moleski...
"I have a lot of male friends."
She doesn't know.
Orbiters to validate her.
She knows.
She is attractive and yes they want to be inside her.
She might even want some of them, but she uses restraint.
Wonder if any of those friends are Ex Boyfriends?
@@superchuck3259 why would you be so gross and graphic? Really dude? What's the purpose of that? You couldnt just say "She is attractive and men want to be with her"?
@@johnsteele8073 Put on your crown, you are White Knighting pretty hard. Sounds like you have a massive crush on her. Are you one of the friend zoned men? Or just have a big internet crush?
BTW, most women have the feeling like they are begging men they desire to be inside them. I just flipped it for fun.
How do you know I am not just meaning kissing and tongues in mouth?
Go mgtow and avoid the whole problem and stay safe and happy
World has run amuck- agreed-MGTOW.
If MGTOW was greatly flawed then there would be a 23% increase in male suicides. you either follow a system that is largely designed to screw you (males/family unit) or you rebel against it if you have any sense of dignity/hope for the race.
but then you're abdicating yourself
Indeed. MGTOW is the way to go, and women like this one are terrified of it.
@@cyberpunkalphamale lmao you're out of your mind, women are already complaining about "man deserts" and being perpetually single
Lots of wisdom and good advice here. Thank you for this post.
Great stuff, thank you! It's life saving!
always remember boys she is never yours, its just your turn
always remember boys its not Rape, if its dead.
That's why you don't put a ring on it Andy Bennett. The contract she talks about is phony. It holds no weight in court, therefore it's a waste of time and effort.
same goes for boys They're never really hers, just her turn
If she's with you she's probly cheatting on someone else
Is that how that movie came to be? …." A street car named desire" or is she just the village bicycle and everyone gets a turn to ride?
While you possess valid points, society does not grant men authority, let alone to be head of household. In fact there are criminal laws in place to insure men can not act in authority, & women not only know, but use this to usurp power, & manipulate men with threat of law to be used against men. It does not matter if the woman commits, for example adultery in a marriage, the legal system will side with her, give her all the cash, & prizes for her adulterous behavior, & even charge the man to pay for a bastardized child, not biologically his from said adulterous relationship, because, "in the best interests of the child..."
It would be nice if we lived in a society of meritocracy. Where people handled their §hit, & were held accountable, & responsible if the didn't. However, we live in a society of double standards meant to perpetuate the lie of equality, by exploiting men for their resources, & labor to be thrown into the meatgrinder of society to maintain the status quo, & keep society opperational.
Absolute power corrupts absolutely. This us the very definition of the modern, westernized woman.
Bryan M And with this accurate comment you destroyed her talking point about women loving boundaries.
We christians warned you guys what happens when you let women have power. They misuse it like gollum in lord of the rings. It's like giving a kid a rocket launcher and getting angry that the kid blew up someones car with it. lol When you disobey the King of Kings what you get is chaos. Men were given authority of the woman because when they are pregnant they need resources for the baby and that requires a man to be the hunter out in the workforce. Any deviation from this natural way of doing things is because rich men want to extract twice as much labour out of the workforce and lessen the population. (now that women are career minded what do you think they invest the money in? Boob jobs, brazilian wax, plastic surgery, dildos, blood facials, makeup etc all things designed to slut themselves up to catch the richer guy who can give his resources to her so she can show off her jewelry to indicate she is higher status than the other women. It's how corporation make money and it's not going to change. Humble women? I don't see that anywhere. The modern women is full of themselves. Look at the recent Star Wars movie as an example. A black guy tries to help her out and she barks at him to not help her or touch her as if he was trying to get in her pants. That kind of behavior if I were the dad I would have slapped her for being rude and lacking of manners. Actually bring back Jar Jar Binks so he can stick his tongue out.
STANDING OVATION, Bryan!
@@UToobUsername01 Check out Toy Story 4 and how Bo Peep treats Woody. Guarantee he didn't have a woody anymore. It's disgusting how men are betrayed in the media nowadays. The only option we have is MGTOW. It's not the solution we want, but it is the only option available.
@@kandrkandr Yeah I agree. The other solution maybe is to just train the kids to not make all the same mistakes of past generations. It's only getting worse so they will suffer harder than the kids of today from broken homes.
I loved it. You are so right. Yes, I have subscribed.
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in months. I can’t wait to use this advice. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
One of the smartest things a guy can do is only date women who grew up with strong father figures. That alone mitigates almost all of the bad behavior.
Strong father figures are almost unheard of these days.
Perfect advice. Married and divorced to a Roman with daddy issues. Now with a woman who has a great relationship with her dad..... we’re still together and she’s great
NOPE. No serious girlfriends and short term hookups only. This will save you lots of time and money. Women will drain you of your resources, time, money and sanity. If you don't believe me then try it. You'll be thinking of me later when there is no escape.
@@ashbennett261 the "trick" is to not fall for the snares of low quality women and do what the above commenters have done
When a king sacrifices his peasants, when the rich sacrifice the poor, when You forfeit the vulnerable, that is ignorance, neglect, and disrespect. A good man leaves no one behind. Take some responsibility and help shape better quality women. We can start by setting boundaries like Jen said.
It sounds like too much to ask, I can’t trust women because the law is on their side. Im going MWTOW
Even red-pilled women like Jennifer just don't seem to understand that it's not advantageous for a man to leave marriage. You can't threaten someone with a reward. "If you cheat on me I'm going to give you my house, custody of the children, and half my income..." The woman will just laugh and say "go ahead".
Valken that’s right. It’s a shame that we man have so much to lose when entering a relationship with a woman. But it’s the law, so MWTOW
@@XOX-ZOMBIE-XOX They make all kinds of excuses when confronted with no-fault divorce. Women will never give up this power. Men can find marriage in countries like Saudi Arabia, because here you're either scammed at divorce or have to endure being a slave always afraid that she will take everything from you.
Valken the solution is not to get married or cohabitate with them. Just tell them that it’s because of the law. Be upfront with the issue.
And may be can find a solution to the law issue together. Also never not have a place were you can go to. Like never sell your apartment so you can go there in case of emergency.
Your spot on Jennifer. Enjoy listening to your messages.
Thank you! You're not only entertaining, you're just being realistic. Without respect for each other, it's not much of a relationship.
I heard a beautiful woman say that a guy was a creep if he wasn't handsome. She wasn't so beautiful anymore.
Eh..no offense, I feel thats something that men are more likely to say.
@@Greatsharkbite Actually he is right. Have you ever seen how differently a woman reacts to men based on looks alone. example: a good looking man hits on a woman and she eats it up, but when a not so good looking man does it he is harassing her. just saying
@@scottsevits9408 The term "creep" implies that a man who fails to meet this standard, not only is not acceptable to her, but has no value. And, I have long maintained that the statement by many women that they value a man's confidence, only applies if he already exhibits attributes that meet her threshold. A man who does not meet that threshold in terms of looks, age, height, clothing, and other factors but exhibits that exact same level of "confidence" is thought to be arrogant, pushy, or self absorbed. Ladies, let's try to be a little introspective and candid here. "Confidence" to a woman is what I would characterize as a second tier quality; if a man does not get to that second tier, it is not only irrelevant, but disdained.
@@Iminsidethebeltway ok, I agree in that sense. I also feel that most women don't really understand what confidence is. they mistake it fir arrogance and bravado or even an overblown ego. personally i am now 54 and never been called a creep. then again I also don't go around hitting on women either. I haven't really received any female attention in my life either.
And all the handsome creeps used her up like so much toilet paper. Selfishness has its consequences.
The only power you have in a relationship is walking away.
Don’t get the state involved and you can have the relationship you want or you walk.
And that is why woman push marriage to “quality men “ so they lose that option to just “walk away “
odd thing is many women tell each other horror stories of the bad men. Men that are drunks, abusive and/or addicted to drugs. Women also have fears about those things in marriage. For that reason, I just rarely drink and if I do it is way moderated. My wife and I have discussed how we feel about drinking alcohol. If you have not discussed how drinking impacts your relationship, then you are really not that close and I encourage the discussion so you become closer! But please do it from your perspective. Don't rail on the man working on minivan on a hot summers day and drinking a few beers, like under a 6 pack. Don't rail on the occasional meal glass of wine. Do it from the perspective of reassurance. Both spouses agreeing to not drink and drive is a starter place of discussion. FYI, men if a women sees you drunk she might test you, she might pick a fight, so best to not drink with your wife around. It is called a shhh-it test.
@@superchuck3259 I prefer to drink. It's safer and more reliable.
Love it Jen!!
Just found your channel and have watched about five videos. This is by far the best video that has connected with my life. Thank you for all of the work and time that you’ve put in to make these.
I was married 17 years when my wife flipped out and left me and our young children for another man and then died 3years later chasing the loser she left us for,,,and then a 13 year relationship and raised two of her grandchildren for the last 6 years of the relationship and she flipped out with menopause and left and never let me see the kids again,, so glad I didn't marry her,,, now I'm with a beautiful kind caring submissive no feminist Spanish lady,,,but I will never marry again and even too her..just not worth the risk.
I think men dont think of the boundary thing when it comes to women because we mostly deal with men who have common sense enough to know how to treat a person or we will fight or kill each other literally lol We are taught all our lives that women are more mature and smarter than us so we assume they should know simple things like boundaries so when we realize they dont we freeze because we are taught our whole lives that women are so much more evolved than they really are, but then we realize they arent and we realize we been lied to our entire lives about women🤔 just a thought🤷♂️
women don't grow up, they grow old...well they finish growing up around 17 years of age
Your both so right.
We are fed so much bullshit only to realize they are big children.
Majority are narcissistic and have no morals
So fu$$ing true
Women are smarter in that they abuse the system to their needs.
You’re really great. I support this.
Excellent advice, thank you very much. Very good video.
"She doesn't want to be needed but wants to be wanted." Simple. Awesome. Thank you!
Good morning sir
Wanted solely on HER TERMS. That's the catch. Trying to solve the average woman is like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube that has had the color stickers removed.
Or go mgtow and live a good life
Brilliant, and more. Thank you!!
When I got married, we had these things called “wedding vows”...
Go MGTOW, it comes with a guarantee
Yes, you absolutely know for certain you'll never get fucked over in the courts. Whatever money you earn is yours for life!
Don't jinx men, you still have the government to worry about... sad but true
@alpatr0s There is IVF+surrogacy for children. Or just wait a little longer for artificial wombs, scientists already grew baby sheep in an artificial womb a few years ago. Most emotional connections with women are garbage, they will do everything in their power to make your life worse.
@@valken666 He probably meant emotional connection with eventual children and that legacy and continuation of your ancient bloodline. It's destructive for the whole western civilization to be so irresponsible. Look up William Pierce's video called "Our Cause".
@Norm T Your children and grandchildren would thing and talk about you and be proud of having you in their bloodline. If you are a westerner(white man) it's your duty to reproduce and continue the legacy of Aryan Atlantean and Hyperborean bloodlines for souls to incarnate to a higher state.
I like you, and I understand your desire to see men maintain their traditional, masculine roles. As others have already pointed out, though, the legal system has taken all authority out of the hands of men.
It's important not to conflate legal inequity with simple complaining. Yes, decades of feminist indoctrination have made good women hard to find, but it's still the law that makes marriage a very bad call for men.
@steelmongoose well said. If a man raises his hand to a woman he goes to jail. If a woman raises her hand to a man she goes free. If a woman point to any man and says he did it when he's innocent,he goes to jail....... how is that fair were is the respect at.
BTW thank you again Jennifer for your always competent balance and consideration
Thanks for your perspective everyone should listen
My terms after learning the hard way in 40 years of marriage, is never again. You're not worth it! MGTOW
So u re 60 right now and u bitch around like a twat?. No wonder she took da fack off when u couldnt grow da fuck up. How about giving some solutions here. Mgtows are mostly divorced after 10-15 years marriage. Please dont bullshit people here that u have high libido still or some other omega bullshit
Spardasquad Spqr what are you even talking about ???
@@glenholmgren1218 im talking about that some old ass prick after 40 years of marriage figures out that wamen are not worth the stress etc...
And then some 20 years virgin males figure that its some kind of end of world and they wont try either, just cuz some old geezers here are being betas and crying river...
Wamen got feminist retards, men got some old geezers that fucked a lot but yet still tell kids to dont bother.
@@spardasquadspqr3535 Stfu
"Auto transfer part repair" technically correct.
100% agreed.
Communication is key.
Nailed it!
You nailed it . I was with an older woman ( me in my 50's ; her 7 years older ) . I set the boundaries early on ; she was good with them & everything was great for 5 years until she changed the rules which I could not live with .... thus I packed up & left . Both peoples needs must be met or the relationship will never survive . Both people have to agree to the new rules .
I like it. Thank you Jennifer.
Our parents really screwed us over by not teaching us what being an adult in relationship is all about. About real life in general
It's not totally there fault they were & our manipulated same as the rest of people are by there governments. & who would pay the chiropractors if they did a good job. Current generation has ability to do good if they pay close attention to what's true & what's bull shit. No other has had this since seems about late 1800s. People started being programmed young after WW2 and ever since it seems until now & still are but ever generation is a different experiment and no its not new so no need to get all upset about what governments do
@@darinsiegle9424 I agree totally with you. I’m not saying it was totally our parents fault. I know they were doing they’re best and just went by what they thought was the right thing. The solution now is for “us” the children to teach our children using the massive amount of information (be skeptical of what we read) available to educate them for them to open their eyes.
It was not your parents job. Their job is to make you a good person. YOUR job is to stand for yourself, think your head and your wishes, and to STAND behind your words and doings.
@@Wache3 I didn’t state it but I probably should have but I was talking about our parents screwing us from childhood up to the age 20s. Forget when we’re adults, it’s already too late then. They screwed us as kids for not teaching us what we really need to know. Can’t say I really blame them because they were ignorant too. They were also brainwashed and misled by tradition themselves
Most of the problems men & women have is from them starting the relationship in the wrong order. I did it too, when I was younger. We go for passion first, then try to see if we can become friends, and usually find we can't stand each other. Friends make the best lovers. Find someone with whom you can become friends first (they are out there) and you have the rest of your lives to explore passion.
You're 100% right on the boundaries.
Thank you for being in the side of humanity & make sense ✊🏻🙏🏼💔😘🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
When a man says "THAT"S IT!" to a woman and actually does leave because she broke the rules. HE CANNOT go back later. OR allow her to talk him back into another try. I learned when I was young that staying in the relationship without fulfilling the promise of breakup when she crosses boundaries versus breaking up for a period of time with the intention teaching her a lesson and then reconciling the relationship later is no different in her mind. She loses the same respect for the man regardless. That is the sucky part of the break up regarding major boundaries breached, is there can be no going back. She will beg... text...phone calls.... plead with him.... show up where he's at., and her desire to have him back is genuine. It's not a game on her part. She will really feel sorrow, regret, etc etc etc.... BUT she will feel these things strongly only when she cannot have him and she sees he really did have a backbone. She highly respects his Alpha stance as long as he maintains that stance, because that's naturally attractive to a woman. AS SOON as he gives in and reconciles with her thinking she will maintain her stance of humility and desire to have him back.... She will respect him 10 times less subconsciously. She doesn't even realize it's happening. There's an old saying that a woman will never forgive a man for forgiving her, and not even know that is the reason why. This entire scenario sux bad for a man , because if the boundary she crossed is bad enough to end the relationship and he really loves her a lot,,, there is no repairing it for him. They both lose and he has to mourn the loss just as much as she does when he did nothing wrong. The punishment is divided both ways because he losses her as well. There are people who will disagree with this, but it's just one of those things I know from plenty of experiences when I was younger. They will say I'm still with my wife after she crossed the boundary of cheating and we worked it out. Yes, as far as you know....
Respect
The only reason to get married is to have children if ya aren't interested in having children don't get married
Agreed. I would never remarry. When any female friend asks why I tel them its because I already have kids. Whats the point in remarriage? Even if my wife dies today I'll never remarry.
@Davo Rebo too late 😕
You don't even have to consent someone will just make the choice for you. Married or not once you get her pregnant you have no say
I agree with you with DNA test
I would go one step beyond that.
The only reason to cohabitate is children.
This is PURE GOLD if you get it ... I want to thank you for Making this video... Keep up the good work!!!!
Keeping it plain and simple. You are also a very beautiful speaker.
Simply replace the word "women" with "children."
"Women respect and need boundaries."
My last GF: We agreed to both pay into a vacation fund. She defaulted on the payments, and, per our agreement, I gave her back her money, took mine, and had a lovely trip to England on my own.
She couldn't believe it.
Next, she wanted relationship counselling.
I told her that would be fine if the counsellor was a straight man, and if she paid 50%.
Stopped that notion dead.
Then, she wanted me to go to visit her relatives on my car restoration day.
Nope.
Threw her out about a month later.
Happiest time in my life now.
@@vikbik902
Hello, no I do not trust a female therapist, especially a Jewish one. Our problems were financial, on her end. She also spent thousands on her anxiety, expecting me to pay for that nonsense, and every quack she visited.
Money down the drain.
No, I am not going to give up my car restoration projects to visit her loser, leftist family, who are not in my social class.
I threw her out, and am happy, productive, and saving money.
I hear she is still the same, going nowhere.
@@thomasmulhall4873 ...and after all of those facts, there ware no reply from Victoria, ha... even sinle "oh..."
Good for you
"We" went to a counselor once and the only thing that changed was money from my pocket to his...
Well that was a dick move. You do understand that there are certain things that women would expect if they can afford men to pay for. & if you had taken her with id bet you that she would have surprised you with thing upon the trip aside from the sex you arnt receiving any longer. You only will get so many chances to get it right. Don't squander them
"Women don't want to be needed, they want to be wanted." Isn't that everyone?
Great advice! Thank you
So glad I found this. Great advice Jennifer.