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- Men Step Up And Women Step Down...that's a hard pill for many to take, but that is part of a partnership. Just like in business, you should never go into one 50/50; there should always be someone who has the final say; find the right partner and there's nothing to worry about. What do you think?
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I've noticed lately that my wife is feminist propagandizing my two daughters. They are 18 and 13. My 18 year old is a senior graduating high school 2021. She doesn't go on dates has never shown intrest in having a boyfriend. 13 year old while to young to date shows no interest in boyfriends either. I know some of this is due to my wife being a high school teacher at their school has been for around 25 years. My wife has seen alot of what teenagers are capable of and is over protective. Now I have noticed since women, much like African Americans, are digging in the ancient history of the horrible unfair treatment of the past dredging up male dominance related societal control in American and old world religious times gone by that can't be undone by males today.
I hear comments from my wife to my girls that have feminist connotations. I'm afraid that she's giving them the wrong message.
She is a devout Christian who has attended her church since birth. She has always put alot of effort into taking the girls to church and shaming me for not. I don't want to be involved in any kind of organized religion, including political belief systems. I think any group of like minded individuals becomes radicalized.
I have only treated my daughters like I want them to expect to be treated by potential male partners. I treat my wife as I want them to see how a good man treats the woman he loves.
The one ideal I have expressed to them is think for yourself, question what you are told, and don't just trust that people have your best interest in mind because they have a position off high standings.
My wife is a college educated woman and very intelligent.
I am confused about the situation and how to handle it
Any comments will be read respectfully.
Let me think on this.
I say this... as the man and head of the family, you need to be clear on where you stand with the messaging to your daughters. Even if your views conflict with your wife's. Be prepared to back up your position with an air-tight argument, because you will be challenged. That is when you as the man will demonstrate your authenticity and leadership with brute wisdom and logic. Be loving yet firm. Never waver or back down from your stance. Your wife can be entitled to the messages she gives your daughters. You are entitled as well. They need you as their father to help them to truly understand the world from a man's perspective and understand what men need from their woman.
Stand up to her. Show them what strong men do. tell them no and they will love you for it.
Well first and foremost I would say stand up for yourself and lay down the line with your wife as far as the "shaming for not going to church" goes. You don't get someone to accept faith because they are shamed into it. It's just obnoxious behavior on her part and people who try to manipulate need to be dealt with accordingly.
Second how often do you counter anything your wife says, when it comes to your daughters? Does your wife get in their head more than you do? How often do you sit down and talk to your daughters, have a genuine heart-to-heart with them so they have two sides to consider?
Oddly enough someone close to me is going through something very similar to this and although your stories are obviously not going to be identical, I noticed with the person in my case, the man is more apathetic and complacent; he tends to shrug off behavior until it becomes a real problem. I think we as men tend to be more carefree in these situations than we really should be. Honestly I get the feeling from your post that may be the case with you as well; you may have taken a back seat too many times.
Your wife teaches teacher your daughters all men are the enemy, right?
Then what makes this you related to her?
The only direction men are stepping is away. And I don't blame them.
I've been moving in womens direction the past year and a half
Yes for sure! They say there’s only one way to beat a woman! Put your hat on, & walk away!
This is the reason my marriage lasted 19 years until my Wife succumbed to death due to medical reasons. We played our roles correctly. Good Vid
May she rest in peace. My condolences
May you meet her soon again
I agree entirely, Randy and I suffered the same fate too but I only got a perfect wife for ten years before cancer stole her from me. She made me promise I would find someone else to support me when she was gone but I have so far failed miserably. Even in the older age group, of which I am part, the number of quality women is infinitesimal.
Sorry about your wife. May she rest in peace.
@@dallassukerkin6878 you didn't fail, it's not your fault. There really aren't many good women left. Not much we can do about it
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf." -- George Orwell
This needs to be the banner when people open up their browsers; any browser.
Bottom line. But it starts at home. Where men have no authority in their household because "rough men" stand at the ready to take it away from them and undermine it, that is the current situation we are in as men, and it's a real mindfuck if you're willing to go there.
I have 3 BEAUTIFUL daughters and a BEAUTIFUL wife. They all get their “beauty sleep” and I don’t sleep. Wouldn’t have it any other way...
sizzlot And only rough men do the violence. So rough men are the problem not the peaceful people sleeping.
@@stevemcrichards8768 Those are savages with minimal mental acuity. This is why they lowered police IQ ceiling in 90s
I haven’t met many feminine women lately, much less small.
The worse dragons I have faced were the fair madens that morphed into dragons.
Ain't that the truth!
@@happytrails125 In my Kelso voice: Gender Burn! 😂 🔥
Id rather chill in the cave with puff the magic dragon 🤣👌🏻🐲
Damn Skippy
I consider your comment as highly offensive! These myhical creatures have nothing to do with the "(un)fair Maidens" you are refering to, why insult the Dragons like that? :-)
A man with charachter dose not want a woman that steps all over his feet. He wants a women to walk by his side. If the women has proven she is worthy to walk by his side, then he gives her the upmost respect. However, today a lot of men have chosen to walk alone because women do not know how to walk.
Very well put.
Ain't that the ugly truth!
Mgtow2 until i meet a woman like this
Very well said.
Oh they don't know how to walk beside him, instead they wait for him at the finish line expecting to take her in.
Finding a woman who will love you for who you are and not your finances is rare..
In the last two decades things have changed drastically for women. I feel so sorry for them.
Beyond impossible, pal.
@Williamsiller80 siller funny way to put it. Ive been out of the loop, but im assuming chads and tyrones the worthless bums that still end up being the guy on the side?
Get over it dude. Men ARE providers....if you dont wanna provide...
Go wear a dress 🤣👍
Doesnt exist anymore pal
I'm the proverbial dragon slayer. I love it when a woman helps me put on my armor.
Well said brother.
I am learning to become one... at 56 it's late, but not too late. I am so thankful that I am improving in every facet. I love being me
Better late than never! 😉
@@dmahadeo never too late
Do not complaint when your armor falls off in the middle of battle.
Peterson's "Ha Gotcha" is my text notification. Everybody laughs when they hear it.
Where did you get that? I need it.
@@matt-hew69 I made it. Copied the audio of a video and chopped it with Audacity. If I can figure out a file sharing app I will reply a link with the file. Maybe sometime this weekend.
I had wondered if I was the only one that recognized it! HAHAHA
As soon as I heard it, I paused the video and dove into the comments looking for this one.
I'm glad I wasn't let down!
Off to make my bed....
I just watched this in a flat of woman ... fucking priceless 😂😂😂😂
Ballsy move. o7
What were their reactions?
I lean left, and still agree with 95% of what you said. I was married until age 31, and since I divorced 5 years ago, I have been appalled at how masculine women have become in the dating scene. It's simply not attractive. They act shocked whenever I don't respond to their masculine gestures. Whatever happened to femininity and the essence of a woman?
If women are going to judge men by their height, then they have no business whining and complaining when those same men return the favor and judge them by their *waistlines.*
Hey, this waistline delivered 7 children sir. Another mishap with societal standards debunked.
@@Mamabear1138 Nice try, but it's the *double* standard to which I was obviously referring that's been "debunked." Have a nice day.
@@Mamabear1138 no to fat women.
@@SingleTax the difference ... you can do something about your waistline .. you can't do anything about your height .. so one is the equivalence to racism but about height .. one is about character
and no a woman which birthed 7 children is excempt to the extend to being slim but it's still absolutely on her to keep herself fit and healthy .. which also means not being obese and not reducing the movement to the bare minimum
Men are fat too nowadays so ....
As a veteran I think tactically. My girlfriend, I am trying to get her to bulk up. To get physically stronger and so far she is doing good. I look at threats and though I want her to be my "fair maiden" in mentality, I also want her to slay the dragon if I am not there.
Yes! She's the backup warrior, not the main warrior. Her primary responsibility differs than his, but they both are on the same path; same goal.
I'm a fellow vet but more than that I have 14 years of martial arts in several forms most was in power braking. Whenever I worked with women trying to help them understand that they could defend themselves no matter how small they were if they learned how to use what strengths or using weaknesses of others in the moment. A hundred pound woman can't hit a 230 lb man and make an impact unless it is exact. I trained in particular women that I was engaged or women I married on how to lure them to a place with a weapon that they knew exactly where to put it, or if the man was assaulting her the basics eyes and throat scratch the eyes hit the throat and my women knew how to actually hit meaning that I had them actually hit me as if they were trying to hurt me but they knew what it felt like and what it would do. If you make a plan but don't practice it you won't be able to do it when it counts. Also if you're training her with a gun if you expect her to kill a human and she hasn't been able to kill a rabbit then your training her in vain
@@JenniferMoleski Most definitely, I couldn't agree more. That's what a Human male-female partnership is all about, sharing the same goals.
You can't always be there. Good thinking.
I was dating in the late nineties. I am 6ft tall. The nineties in California was a horrible time. Women there were headed to the WOKE me too movement they are in now. Luckily,I am still single. No babies. I don't give in to any of their demands. At my age of low forties,I think I am done with relationships. I,for the first time I get to spend money and time on my own independence. Given today's female social construct,you have a uphill battle. Film and media is creating a false narrative against you and these idiots believe it. I saw a fairly large black girl punch a thin black man over nothing. His response was fierce and powerful,to even a man it would have been.She went to the hospital,he disappeared. The false sense of empowerment is a dangerous belief system.
Welding, plumbing, farming, building. You could easily have four or five very productive decades ahead of you this life. Stick with it!
Sadly, I get what you say
im high 30s been living with this chick im dating a first for me its been a year and ..im seriously done with females once i get my money straight im leaving doing the lone wolf thing women today are too much a handful and head ache .at this point in my life ive had enough poon to where im good im not trippin over women anymore
I only have two small tattoos on my body one is the symbol for blood. My fiance was killed when she was pregnant with my son enough said. The one on my right arm which is the arm of power I have the symbol 4 never abused power. To remind me that power is always supposed to be used for the protection of others and no other purpose.
I’m terribly sorry for your loss.
My wife was 5 inches taller than me. Our marriage lasted for 43 years until complications of diabetes took her life. So, sometimes a shorter man and taller woman do make a good match.
I'm 5'3" a 3rd degree black belt in BJJ, Krav Maga, and Kendo, my wife is 5'8" she fells safe with me. I'm also a well decorated infantryman that served 8 years.
lolz
While women may perceive height as equalling strength, my military career taught me that couldn't be further from the truth. Some of the weakest men I have ever met were 6'2" and some of the strongest were 5'5" . What makes a man strong is what lies in his heart. If he has the will to be aggressive and determined, then he is a powerhouse of a man. That's is what women need to look for, not how tall someone is. But to each her own.
It's an evolutionary construct.....embedded in female nature for a reason. It's difficult to program away with reason.
I bet an MMA fighter since beginning and the best fighters are between 5 ft 9 in + 5 ft 10 in
Yeah I'm a mma fighter and I'm 6'3 worst guy in there.
I think the preference for height goes back to hunter/gatherers. Taller men may have had an advantage when it came to hunting.
Except that women are ‘always’ going to submit to the man that makes her ‘feel’ the way she wants to feel.. and a taller man is a shortcut to acquiring those ‘feelings’.
So, I've been married almost 17 years. At first I felt like I was "saving her" by giving her a better life. Keep in mind that I made less than $1000 a month and our first apartment was literally a one car garage converted to a studio. Truth is, she also saved me from a life of underachieving. The weight of responsibility for her well-being and our three kids made me work harder. Till this day I always affirm that "she is the best decision I have ever made."
Wishing you and your family Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year.
Well done brother...you are entitled to be proud.
Good for you! And I know you're happier for it. Wish the bitter lonely hearts club at the Better Bachelor channel could see this.
Thank you for all the kind comments. Merry Christmas and a happy new year everyone.
I'm not sure how '' she '' contributes to what you are the sole reason for achieving, if you can please elaborate her contribution. Thank you.
legalized prostitution would end radical feminism in 1 years time.
I mean, it hasnt in europe
You obviously haven't spent any time in Nevada.
@@Finnerski Have you? How bad is feminism in Europe? I haven't been there in 15 years. My point is if men could initiate a one time transaction for sex, they wouldn't feel pressured into tolerating a person who's horrendous in exchange for sex. Thoughts?
@@codycox2685 I live in Nevada where prostitution is legal. It's had absolutely no effect on today's radical feminism. Unless you're a wealthy man, you probably couldn't afford a legal prostitute.
@@Finnerski That would be the issue then. If prostitution were legal and within the reach of the middle class man. I amend my former statement. Legalized prostitution within the reach of a middle class man's budget would end feminism.
I liked the part contemplating if men should pick up their sword first or the woman should become the fair maiden. In my relationship, I decided to take the first step and be the maiden, after pretending to be the dragon slayer for years. My husband took a bit of time but soon enough he picked up his sword and started swinging. We are both so much happier. We didn’t really realize how unhappy we were until we were on the other side looking back
I grew up in Norway and always wondered why I never found Norwegian girls attractive, despite being beautiful. Then I had an exchange year in Thailand and realized that it's because Norwegian girls would never let men be the man in the relationship, but instead compete to lead along with you...
@SIRROMON Mandi Even in the 90s there were submissive women. And yes, tall men with abs and pecs are to women what short ladies with huge tits are to us.
Society-western society-is the reason so many women feel “safe”-against the same society that created that “safety”-men. Most third world countries dont have issues out of their women. When both people gotta go to a stream to get drinking water, survival is more necessary than combating the opposite sex. But in a society where as long as you can pay rent, you have water, heat, electricity, etc, there is no thought of self preservation, so a counter must be found...and that counter, that “opposing faction” is men. Now, men are quickly losing interest
I'm 6'1" ... 6'3" if I stand on my wallet.
Lols. Too right 😂
Standing on your wallet adds two inches... who knew. That’d make me 6’5. 😆
As a 5ft 1 man, due to childhood cancer. This subject has been a large part of my dating life. i have no anger about it, I came to terms with natural instincts.
It is always interesting to think how tall I could have been, i work on who I am instead.
@Veit Schrumpf Thanks. Merry Christmas to you too.
Bro....
A man doesn't find his purpose....inbetween the legs of a woman. If YOU think being 5'1" literally means you dont deserve some action....then I wont argue.
Then again, if you wanna think it bears nothing on your identity as a man....ya won't hear me argue either ;)
@@Macheako oh it's an understanding I've come to. it's not about deserving, its about attraction. What ever women think has no real bearing on me these days, it used to, but after reading books and watching copious amounts of videos on the subject from various sources, my time is far better used working on myself than pining after people who aren't interested.
Oh and I've never thought my purpose was between a womans legs.
@@nzevertonfan cool. Just making sure 😉👌🏻
Remember Rocky Marciano the greatest heavyweight fighter ever was a short Italian
There's a book called "How to Date Men When You Hate Men." Let that sink in.
That book should read: "how to date men when you resent men because you weren't born one and you don't know how to be happy being a woman because you actually hate who you are but just blame men because it's easier and doesn't involve any personal responsibility." Long title, I know.
@@stevemcrichards8768 no it should be called how to be single forever
I'm beginning to think we share a brain. I neeeeed more women in my actual physical life like you. We would be so unstoppable is we were the majority. Get this world back on track!
Living in liberal New England I’ve lost a lot of hope in women but still love the idea of having a wife and being her man. I want to protect, provide for, and devote myself to a good woman but unfortunately so many women do try to be controlling and refuse the role of being feminine. It’s not about her being less, I’d cherish a woman that trusted me with her heart and safety. You’ve proven that there are still women out there that are worth marrying, thank you
That is very honorable of you, you have my respect (for what it is worth to you).
You are so right about women not wanting to take up the role, and they have been programmed to abuse and control men they are in relationships with as a sign of "female empowerment". I hope you find what you are looking for but please protect yourself. If she seems too good to be true, she probably is. You live in a liberal area, the family courts are brutal to men, they will rake you over the coals if you are not careful.
I am from Canada or family court system is a joke which is why I have chosen to never marry and never have kids. I don't trust the system or women because the system is built for women to take advantage of it.
Merry Christmas to you, maybe Santa will bring you an actual woman and not just some girl trying waaaay to hard to be a powerful woman..
As a man what do I want from a woman, In a relationship. Respect, Truth, honesty, For these are the things that I give them. And that's all I ask back.
Was I the only one that noticed the Ha , Gotcha! Was Jordan Peterson?
It's why Beauty and the Beast is such a popular book and movie with women. They want a big strong dangerous beast, but they want him to direct that power away from them, they want to tame it
Couldn’t have expressed it any better or accurately!!!
Spot on Jennifer! Although, shorter men who carry themselves confidently generally don’t get looked at as “short”
@MrFirehouse22 I’ve seen plenty of guys shorter than me who with tall, pretty women who were as tall or taller than the guy they were with. The dudes generally had enough charisma and self confidence that women of all heights tended to migrate to them
With great power comes great electricity bill
Surrender is the word, not submission.
Absolutely this runs DNA deep in both men and women the reasons are primal in nature. You really should write a book Jennifer, maybe your words could reach a wider audience and heck who knows they might even be crazy enough to invite you to speak at a college class someday. OMG no lol YESSSSSSS!!! A dragon slayer will not risk personal injury to defend what also wants to bring him down, it"s a win win if they kill one or each other in the process. A woman is so much more powerful and safer in her own nature and in turn helps to make the man an even fiercer fighter, a man who has something worth dying for will fight to the death to protect what is valuable to him. Have a great day and thanks for your unique insight into this crazy world we are living in. Merry Christmas and a joyful holiday to you and your family. JP
I love the analogy of "Don't open until you're 35." LOL Truth
Great video, Jennifer. I think the most refreshing part of your content is knowing that there are still individuals out there who have their own ideas. And there is still an audience for that
Submission is the most tangible form of trust. True that it comes from respect, and if two people have neither sense, then their partnership is doomed. Love grows out of these things. It dies when neither is the head of the home.
Very well said! If the man earns the woman's trust, she can submit without fear. Both need to do their part.
There are 5 pillars to a successful relationship/marriage. They are:
Lust
Admiration
Sympathy
Respect
Trust
Lust is the initial "spark" that gets things going. It fades in importance over time, but doesn't disappear & needs to have the flames stoked from time to time.
Admiration + Sympathy = Love.
Respect comes partly from admiration, partly from fear. It is expressed through deferential regard for someone.
Trust is built over time, through consistency. Keeping your word whenever possible (and not knowingly giving your word about something you know you can't keep) is the key. Also, setting expectations and conforming to them.
Thinking this could be a topic for its own video...
@@michaelblacktree give me a freaking break. You people are crazy.
@@kelleyfolsom6902 why?
No submission is needed in a romantic relationship, just love and respect.
Ily Jennifer🥰
Ty for being a positive model, teacher and leader for young Respectable women and even older women who are trying to find the way!
Finding a small female is getting tougher every day though.
With all the carbs and staying home
then men need to stop being fat lazy slobs, who do nothing but act childish.
work out.
become strong.
become tough.
@Dale Weiss really ? because was everywhere else ... and saw the same thing.
Thats true. Im 5'2 and wwigh 96 pounds. You should see the hate I get for being little. Its a shocker how many "you should eat a burger." Comments that I get.
Finding a small female is hard? Try finding a _kind_ one! And of course, I mean kind to MEN.
True men want someone to walk beside them and when Danger rears its head understands that he's going to take the lead and that he expect to protect what's theirs
And also true men don't kill coyotes!
I don't think that you would know any of that
I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in this monologue. Thank you so much for taking this stand and sharing it with others. I was losing hope that there are any fair damsels out there anymore. You give me hope for my son's. Thank you and MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎄
WOW!!! Thank you Jen! God Bless you and your family.
I got some serious stink-eye from the ladies in town a few years ago when I told one (who made sure to tell all) that they couldn't rely on me to defend them if a fight broke out. When I was working security, it was my job to protect everyone within my purview, but outside of that... nope. Reason? Because they are always telling me how they're my equal and can do everything I can do. Okay, then you should have been learning how to fight and take care of yourself, recognize danger signs, etc. Women talk about chivalry but forget that men were never obligated to defend women simply because they were women. The only women the chivalric code applied to were kind, educated, polite, courteous, etc. Maybe a witch was slaughtered and left in a roadside ditch!
Today, it boggles my mind how women think they should be protected even by those that they constantly harass, insult, belittle, etc. They are allowed to do anything they want, say anything they want, and then demand that men protect them from all the evils of the world. Doesn't work that way, unfortunately.
Your opening line about contempt for the protectors is spot on my dear.
@Fred Welsh how do u mean?
More women and men should listen and participate in your forum. Great gems Queen.
You on it. The world needs more women like you. You understand the balance. It's a gift from the lord. Keep doing ya thang
I definitely agree with this message. I certainly hope society (to include the parents) comes full circle and teaches young girls their particular strengths as a woman and teaches young boys how to become good men. I know today's society will criminalize me for thinking like this but I don't care. There's nothing wrong with the patriarchy. The day I have children, I'm going to be certain to teach them the correct way of going through life and their particular strengths as it relates to their gender.
Patriarchy is bad. Feminism is bad. Egalitarianism is healthy.
What about teaching them about their strenghts as individuals? I think that would be better
People are not all the same. We are individuals, not all men and women are the same. Teach them to exploit their own personal qualities, rather than trying to make them fit into a mold they may or may not fit in.
I had no intentions of being married again ever. My wife made me feel like being the role of a husband, lover, faithful partner, and provider. She is much shorter than me, continues to show concerns that I am happy with her, and makes honest effort in all things to make our house a home. Before her, I dismissed the modernized non traditional non binary non gender mass of cells as a liability to drag and leech upon me. Jen, you do very well preserving the natural non brainwashed by media woman. Thank you
@Joe Duke Doesn't matter who wins. My lifestyle remains the same. I might be put to death or killed for not bowing to their cult think, but I am dead if I do so....
@Joe Duke I don't disagree with you. Guess I die, can't change who i am for anything
@@G0dspelronin The average man is only 5 inches taller than his woman.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 I don't know the averages. I am about 18"s taller than my wife
@@G0dspelronin Wow either you're a Giant or she's like 4 foot something.
You're articulate and spot on. One voice in a huge battle. Keep up the good fight.
Living it out girly as the "fair maiden" and loving every minute of it!
I took up the sword this year. Woke up at 3am this January because I heard my neighbor screaming. Beat her ex-husbands legs with a pipe because he was attacking her IN front of their 3yr/o girl. Cops showed up with an MP5 and shook my hand. I took martial arts most of my youth and was raised by Germans ( In Canada). As far as everyone around me is concerned I'm not meant for this day and age and It took a good decade before my wife realized the differences in our capabilities. Thank you for sticking up for the people that stick up for people.
So you broke into their house at 3am or what?
@@irshad334 nope. He had already kicked the door in(lock was busted splintered wood). I asked if she was ok and she yelled for me to come help. then I don't really remember but I broke my wife's door stop bar thing on his leg. took pictures of the door the pipe. The girl and kid went to her moms.
Absolutely amazing video. Needs to be discussed more openly. 💯🙏
Thank you Jennifer, you understand the natural order of things and the recipe for true happiness between a man and woman.. You understand that most men want to honor, love and protect women, but so many women today are so disrespectful, aggressive and vindictive towards men, and so intolerant, selfish and hypocritical that we find them absolutely repulsive. I wish I could find a woman like you.
All I want is a feminine woman who can keep the house clean and raise children with. She doesn't need to work, take out garbage, fix things and if danger is present that is my job as well. That is all I ask. Why are women fighting for equality? Do they not realize how much responsibility it is to be the "Man of the household". If anything goes down its on us men.
Femininity is the new turn-on. There are so few left.
My wife and I have been married 70 years and I agree with everything you said.
how old are 100 lmao
@@IdkIdk-gw3qo Did he get married at 30?
Congrats. And may there be at least another wonderful decade to come!
Women honor themselves by serving and submitting to their man. Men are MADE to lead - it is the role given to them by God, and a real woman understands that supporting her man in this role by stepping back and allowing him to take charge is one of the most critical aspects of being a supportive partner and cultivating a strong relationship. One of the most shameful aspects of modern-day dating/relationships is the belief that so many women have subscribed to that tells them being subservient and submissive is parallel with weakness, inferiority and misogyny. We, women, have unfortunately become our own worst enemies. There are so many women who have been reduced to a jaded, miserable mess due to their constant rejection of traditional gender roles within their relationships. Women these days simply cannot get out of their own goddamn way it seems like.... Thus, the loneliness continues.
But submitting is dangerouss
@@sakuraesther6309 only if you're submitting to a man who doesn't truly know how to be one. A real man deserves a woman who will submit to him, and in turn he will protect her, care for her and uplift her. Any man who isn't willing to do those things isn't worth being with in the first place.
Thanks for completing my request for the "submission" topic, Miss Jennifer.
Well said once again Jennifer. Thank you. I share so many of your posts. Keep it up. From the Daddy of 3 strong girls.
Have watched you now and then for the last year., As a fellow Wisconsonite this is the best video you've done yet. Have never replied to a vid. before this one motivated me. (Honesty, truth, reality)
Take a look at Women’s profiles. Most of them won’t talk to a guy under 6ft. This goes along with the “5 sixes” that Women look for. 6ft tall, 6 inches, 6 pack abs, 6 figure salary & 6 figure bank account. Any guy looking for a Woman in the past 10yrs or so would probably have seen the same stuff I am.
I saw a woman add a "600 horsepower car" to that list.
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Yes, and they have 6 kids to boot!
It's fair and reasonable when their requirements are things men can earn, sadly height is just genetic lottery. I don't feel any negative emotions for women who feel this way - it's not their fault in what they're attracted to. It's just unfortunate to be born short.
@@KineticSymphony Can anything really be "earned" though? Isn't what someone is capable of "earning" genetic as well?
I think you hit the nail squarely on the head. Well spoken!
I must say stumbling upon your channel has made me feel so good inside. Society today has just been bringing me down and with this Covid crap plus the threat of economic collapse. Hearing a female with your values and CORRECT view of the roles of men and women. Thank you so much. Be well.
The shorter the lady is, the more she wants 6’ 6” or tall man! I talking a lady that 4’ 6” tall!
"Ha! Gotcha!" was awesome. Lol
The carat for carat analogy/question is perfect.
I think this world needs more women with your mindset. We would be way better off
Best video I think you’ve ever made Jen. I wish more women understood this.
I Agree With Everything You Said 💯
Spot on, Lady.
Knocked it out of the park again Jen.
The more I watch your videos, the more I want to be a better man to deserve a woman with this mindset. Thanks for posting. Subscribing right now
Jennifer, this is a great video. I appreciate and respect your ability to communicate so effectively.
Great vid. This reminds me of an issue I previously had. My now ex was constantly on me on why I would protect other people but not her. I wasn't until the end of the relationship that I realised that I found it near impossible to protect her back and protect my own back from her at the same time. Yes it was an abusive relationship.
10:02 That metaphorical line burned deeply in my brain
Spot on........ Problem the Dragon Slayer now has is that whilst fighting the Dragon he has to watch his back because the Fair Maiden has a knife ! Much easier to just build a castle and play XBox !
Said fair maiden is not a true fair maiden. She killed the real fair maiden by slitting her throat and impersonated her.
IMHO The Is A Big Difference Between Male & Man... Man Is A Title That Is Earned... He Is The Truth, Has Good Character, Principles, Values etc... Most Importantly He LOVES Women!!!
Great Show, Just Subscribed... Not Submitting LmAo
A good woman is a pin in a haystack and almost impossible to find in modern time. After giving equality modern women destory good men just because she can.
As a short man (5 feet 9) I one hundred percent agree that women prefer taller men. I’m not even mad at them for it. I just focus on my purpose and stay as fit as I can and still have plenty of options but most of them are my height or shorter.
Men: "Height doesn't matter!"
Women: "It does to us. Deal with it."
Women: "Body count doesn't matter!"
Men: "It does to us. Deal with it."
Only difference is that it's incredibly difficult to lie about your height.
But if you learn to decode women, you can definitely tell if she belongs to the streets.
Woah.
How? Women lie about it always, what gives them away? I'm 32 and don't date women older than 28 just because of their body count.
So many women have so little to bring to the table. Especially older women.
When folks ask why I'm not married, this is exactly what I tell them. I might not have a pot to piss in, to be fair, but that doesn't mean I'm somehow obligated to get into a relationship with a woman that also doesn't have anything to her name. It's not like guys can "marry up" the way women can, and I certainly don't want to date a woman that's got 2 divorces, 3 kids and is working at yet another dead end job.
...and most of them look like Walruses on leggins!!
It is your meaning...ok...from your sight..now. what's about statistics. Women live longer...Who gets the money ...???
@@alinobody3350 I find it rahter interesting, I don`t know about the statistics in USA or north america as a whole. But here in europe ( Sweden ) mens life expectansy has increased faster han womens. In the 80s when I was in senior school mens life expectansy was 76 years and womens was 80 years. Now in recent yeras mens life expectancy is 80 years and womens is 81 years. Mens life expectancy has increased quite rapidly in the last couple of decades and womens almost has come to a halt. Why has this come to be? Ny take on this is that women today are far more stressed and miserable than women where before, now they has to work for a living and divorces are common and many women end up living alone witch is harder for women. On the other hand men has been stripped of their responsibilities for women and family, they no longer have to work as much to have a good living and focus on their hobbies etc. Just my thoughts but the fact is that men are closing in on women on their life expectansy.
To be fair....young men demand almost NOTHING from them....
Spot on Jennifer. Great video. Thanks for making it.
Well said. It’s rare to find a fellow woman with this perspective. It’s refreshing. Thankyou.
Here , have my subscription !
It think is more important for women to know & understand “why” women were duped by feminism, into PHD’s, careers/jobs, retirement plans, vacations, rather than find a special someone to connect with, have children, raise a family. . . It was a combination of Feminism and Neo-Capitalism. Businesses, corporations, institutions realized if they hire more women into the labor/work force, it would “lower labor cost”. . . So these businesses only care about saving money, they never cared about women’s right, they fool them into thinking they did by giving women opportunities, only to lower labor cost for their businesses. Think about it. . .
Good video. 👌🏿😎🌴
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Satan, fallen nature, the human condition...
Cry more, men that are so threatened and scared of women having careers are weak and frail. Stay mad.
Agreed Jennifer. Thanks for a great year of content. Keep safe and have a great Christmas 🎄
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Most of all I liked your description comment. "Men Step Up And Women Step Down". My wife is exceptionally strong both spiritually and mentally and I love her logic and analysis. She's most often smarter than me in most worldly things. And, that's a gift to me, she has helped me grow spiritually and materially because I have learned things from talking to her. But, at the end of the day, I'm the team leader and I have to answer for the decisions made in my house. I don't always know what's right, but I believe I will be held accountable for every decision I made, even those I chose not to make.
I'm only 5'8". So I'm invisible to women.
@Friendly Demon lol quit crying you can easily get a date tonight just install tinder you crying for what frfr while short men are destined to be alone their whole life
Judging a guy by his height is equivalent to judging a woman by her bra size. Everyone is entitled to their preferences but neither aspect is something that can be controlled.
It doesn't matter whether or not I personally pass the height test. The fact that it's seen as a metric at all is enough to make me lose respect for someone.
When men prefer non fat women, feminists go nuts. That is something you can control
Yeah it’s almost the same as judging a human by skin color. Well , I geuss at 5’8 I’m undatable, but I’m considered tall by global standards
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@dumb genius Women are not a horde, these are cultural trends and individual values.
Agree judge them that way
Ladies...listen to this woman. She speaks wisdom. Every man is born with a key to his castle. He spends his whole life building his castle in the hopes he can find a quality woman worthy of him giving her a duplicate key. Quality men want a feminine, submissive woman that will follow his lead and help him so you both can benefit.
Brilliant observations and insight Jennifer. ALL women should read and heed this.
Ex girlfriend literally wanted me to be her feminine buddy. I didn’t agree to it and any type of masculine behavior turned her away. It was strange. Lord forbid I make a decision for the both of us or talk about mature stuff and she wouldn’t have it. Always competing with me.
You are 100% spot on! I am 6’3” at 220. Still blonde ha ha at 64. Blue eyes and an ex national level swimmer. Former businessman, investor and a pastor. Everything you stated is exactly correct without the slightest modification or correction. I have experienced everything you stated and currently communicating with the elusive very feminine, very family oriented woman. I eliminated all western women. I stepped out of their game and gone to the East. Not even Western Europe. Keep going. I had to go were feminism and the BS has not yet won. By nature, men provide, protect and desire to procreate with women. Women want to be provided for, protected and want the alpha male, dominant and the best to protect them, their children and provide. It’s as old as the mountains and in our DNA. Societal norms have totally bastardized perfect creation. I checked out but sought one of the last areas to find an actual feminine untainted woman. I found her but at 26 she can still be at risk to have her mind polluted by the west. She is from central Ukraine. She is 5’1”. I am currently in what you are educating so many to be aware of. I’ve studied everything for one last attempt for a forever relationship, even at my age. Every western women from USA, Latin America, Europe has cheated on me because as my sister has said, “Michael, you are safe.” I am a protector not a tyrant. But, every woman wanted to return. To their demise, the door to me was locked and sealed. This video needs to be seen by everyone. Again, absolutely nothing is incorrect, twisted or weighted. You are spot on!
INSIGHTFUL on so many levels!
A lot of what you are saying I can see every day! I wish I would have found your videos before the last girl I dated. You give a lot of advice for both men and women!
Great topic for a good woman to cover Jennifer.
PUT THIS WOMEN IN PUBLIC SCHOOLS “ASAP” OUR CHILDREN NEED TO KNOW THIS ASAP..!!!
This woman is playing you. She is just doing this for the views.
Public schools are the problem.
I like the description of the man. Good points! Young men would benefit from hearing this.