I Would Have Been Depressed If I Had My Baby At 22 - Morayo Speaks On The Struggles Of Motherhood
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 พ.ค. 2024
- A South African woman, Khvnyi, has said that becoming a mother is one of her biggest regrets. Khvnyi who stated this on X, on Tuesday, December 7, however, added that she doesn't hate her child.
“I hate being a mother. It’s one of my biggest regrets and nobody can convince me that it’s worth it. Ever," she wrote.
“Being a mother is very overwhelming. I hate it and if I could turn back the hands of time, I wouldn't have been a mother. It doesn't mean I hate my child."
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I have a colleague that has refused to have children, she said she has not finished taking care of herself let alone take care of a child or children. she is over 40 years old and enjoying her life.
one of the best decision have made in my life is not getting pregnant immediately after my wedding... people are staring at me... but I really don't care...
Being a mother is a lot... especially for people like us that don't have mum's to help out
Isaiah 65:23. You shall not labor in vain or bring forth for trouble. A lot depends on you and your mentality. I love children. If the marriage is bad and the children are not doing well or caring, it affects perspectives. Busola. May God give you beauty for ashes. If you hear from someone like mama Gloria Bamiloye, it will be another perspective. If you have 4 and you are always going abroad from house to house enjoying, it will be different. Oh Lord, who changes stories, please help strengthen and help women enjoy motherhood. Since you've had them already, better to seek God for help and peace. Poverty and other factors can also add to ir. Please Mothers ask God for direction personally. These children are destiny on 2 legs, if you don't know why God gave them to you, you will feel depressed, it will all seem like vanity. Jesus is Lord
It's really tuff being a mother in this 21st century. You be the mother and father at the same time.
So true- tough but there are now so many things available to assist to make us more effective and efficient and it takes added divine wisdom to plan well and manage parenting and the home. God help us in all various seasons in life...Pray!!!! Seek help and get help in good blessed places
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I actually agree, it’s not easy to look after a child, you have to be psychologically ready. For me, I waited 10years to have my kids, at some point I felt it wasn’t going to happen again but God came through for me. In their early age 1-3, it was really tough, but now in this time of my life, I look at them and thank God for this gift. The only thing after having 2 of them consecutively, I zipped up. Am scared to be pregnant again. My life was on hold for 3years but thank God my life revolves around my children now.
Yes, is a lot of stress, but please always pray pray pray, ask family for help, when you are overwhelmed. Is a blessing to give birth, that means you are BLESSED and HIGHLY FAVORED!. I pray GOD ALMIGHTY! Continue to strengthen you, give you Grace etc etc etc. Please be patient in every situations, take time and think before you speak ❤
Children are a product of reproduction. You are not less human if you choose not have them. The world is already tough as it is so why bring an innocent baby into this planet.
Thank you o. For most people, it's perspective because of experience, and that is why we have to be careful who we are listening to. Let's imagine this, a woman knows God, spends a lot of time with the Holy Spirit, she has a child, she knows why she has that child, she gets a personal trainer after having the child. Her husband is Godly, responsible, and they are close. They are wealthy, not greedy. They are not trying to keep up with the Jonses. They have help. Both of them are mentally and psychologically balanced, and they eat well. What do you think they will tell you about marriage and children if you speak to them. There are major things that affect perspectives. If a family is poor, it will be very hard to love children because most of the time, one of the parents or parents is running around looking for money, so there are many factors. But the parents are very important. Children should not be blamed, yet even in poverty, there are parents who will tell you how God gave them wisdom to keep the family together when they were transitioning from poverty to wealth. Another thing, if you are addicted to SM as a parent, you won't like children either because they will not allow you to spend 8hrs in SM. One thing we must ask is this. What are parents also doing to hurt their enjoyment of children? If you are a party person, even when they don't invite you, you want to be there, you are not ready. Many people still have to work on themselves. You can't give what you don't have. If you are a bitter, jealous woman who is always looking for another's down fall. You are not ready o. Work on yourself, same with marriage. If you are a selfish and proud person, so much that life is about you you you and you alone. You are not ready. Pray to God to work on you. There are successful people with great children. Yes, there are also people struggling, for those struggling, seat down with God and get a plan. Your story can change and it will, but if you are always ranting and getting angry, you'll also be hurting yourself, not only your children. We must apportion blame correctly and be humble so God can help us. For example, not in all cases, some people were warned by God not to marry who they are married to, if such a person goes online to start ranting, people will not know the foundation of the problem that led to the difficulty in raising children, they will just pick up on that story. There are so many things happening in secret that people don't know. My conclusion is this. To thyself oh man be true. Seek the Lord and plan properly. Work on yourself, and you will be useful to yourself also and not blame people for everything. If you think you have been slowed down by children, Brace up, get up, encourage yourself, and ask your maker what to do. Then get to work, don't sit down and wallow in complaining and self-pity. Also, what do you like about yourself. A parent with an inferiority complex already will also have problems raiding children. What's your next step. Do you want to get a job, set up a business, start a TH-cam channel, learn a trade, and go to school. That phone you have in your hands is a powerful device, you can make it work for you or against you. Get up. Life on earth is shorter than eternity. Arise and Shine, those who don't have as much as you are doing something. Commit your children into God's hands, but get up. Some parents also talk out of depression, which is not the fault of the children, though. If I say all I know here, I will write a book, so let me just stop. Please please Arise and Shine. Enough of excuses, you will rise again, but you must get up. Where are you right now and where are you going?
YK's point is vey valid. I waited 2 years before giving birth 19 years ago when we got married and we took time to enjoy ourselves and solidify our marriage before starting a family. It helped build a solid foundation and God has blessed us in so many ways including 3 lovely Children. We were prepared mentally, emotionally and financially by the time the kids arrived.My family were anxious but I stopped any form of pressure from my mum. I will do it again if giving the chance.
The lady is right, being pregnant is hard.
This is such a real topic. Welldone all.
There ought to be legalized,properly co-ordinated closed-ended options for adoption by 2 parent ,married couples who’d find it a blessing to raise and love on such children. It’s tough both ways so let’s provide proper options.
Busola. May God grant you peace.
Busola.GOD be with you
May God comfort caller Busola, and give you peace in Jesus's Name Amen 🙏🏾