I Don't Want To Keep My Adopted Child Again After Having My Children - Woman Reveals

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  • A story caught our attention online where a woman who hadn't given birth for 6 years went ahead to adopt a son. Only for her to get pregnant 2 months later and she started regretting her action. The ladies shared their opinions on this mind-boggling story as they also advised the woman in question.
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  • @dumadan7561
    @dumadan7561 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    They should immediately take that child away from her o! Before she starts to abuse him..she sounds like a wicked soul!

  • @ibnBasil
    @ibnBasil หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    As someone who grew up in the Caribbean, I enjoy listening to the conversations on this program so much. The amount wisdom and insight these ladies express is just on another level. I love it here

    • @merocode1821
      @merocode1821 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Really ? what island

  • @chronicles624
    @chronicles624 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is the beauty of online platforms that people can truly show who they are.

  • @chigozieubah134
    @chigozieubah134 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    She is just a wicked person... no one should justify her feelings in any way!!

    • @vibrantwoman1323
      @vibrantwoman1323 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It happens because people are human and cave in under pressure. The same Sarah in the Bible who begged Abraham to have a child with Hagar is the same person who cast them out of the house.
      Women need to learn to take responsibility for the outcomes of their decisions, especially when innocent others are affected.

    • @graciedee8248
      @graciedee8248 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@vibrantwoman1323I couldn’t agree with you more. Your comment is so on point. Regardless of her feeling. She needs to take responsibility & make efforts to love that child.

    • @gracenmercy1085
      @gracenmercy1085 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you....A wicked woman to a vulnerable child

    • @richevericheve5156
      @richevericheve5156 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vibrantwoman1323 this is totally different abraham had sex with hagar for child this woman and husband went and got a child which has nothing to do with his sex

    • @vibrantwoman1323
      @vibrantwoman1323 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @richevericheve5156 The point is about wanting to have a child so badly that you will do anything to obtain your goal, then when the circumstances change you also abandon the same child.
      It isn't about s3x. It is about responsibility in spite of your human frailty. And I used the example of Sarah because there is nothing new under the sun.

  • @baronesslizzy8428
    @baronesslizzy8428 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m sure she shall benefit from seeing a psychiatrist and a child psychologist to better manage her dilemma. She needs help and is crying out. She already knows her behaviour is appalling and needs help to keep the child safe and secure.

  • @aminaadebolaajala6026
    @aminaadebolaajala6026 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    She doesn't deserve the child, it better she return the child if possible, before she makes life miserable for the innocent child.

    • @showemimoazeez6730
      @showemimoazeez6730 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U are very wrong to say she doesn't deserve a child...

    • @oluremiajayi6096
      @oluremiajayi6096 หลายเดือนก่อน +2


      No, she doesn't deserve a child. She doesn't deserve to be called a mother.

    • @ferdimako
      @ferdimako หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@showemimoazeez6730 a child and the child are different.

    • @eniolaojo9429
      @eniolaojo9429 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree too…. She’s already honest about her feelings. Let her return the child

    • @chz76
      @chz76 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes she doesn't deserve a child.​@@showemimoazeez6730

  • @phoebefada1104
    @phoebefada1104 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s sad she doesn’t want the child again but it’s better she takes him back to the agency she adopted him from, it may take time for the child to recover from everything but it’s way better than staying with a woman like that.

  • @mammavictoria4832
    @mammavictoria4832 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The law is very clear an adopted child has to be treated like your own biological children, can she take back the children she gave birth to? May God have mercy on her after God has blessed her with her own children she get mind shaaa. She should love that child more and more because that child brought blessings to her family.

    • @okwaoshen7607
      @okwaoshen7607 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly what I was going to type that God bless her because she adopted that child.

  • @Momrae
    @Momrae หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my God, how is this child supposed to feel? She is toying with his mental health. I know families who have adopted a child and continued to bring them up with the other children that came after. One is a family with all grown up married kids and they love the adopted first born as their own, including the children.

  • @FullTimeChildofGod
    @FullTimeChildofGod หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hmnn! We need to be careful. She needs help because she was unable to bond with the child in the 2 months before she got pregnant. Pregnancy already has its effect and then she also has a guilt of questioning her faith in God by not waiting. All I can see is a woman that needs help and we shouldn't condemn her because she spoke out

  • @michellespann7545
    @michellespann7545 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    By adopting the child it opened the door for her blessing of the twins. She is ungrateful I hope she doesn't treat him when he gets older.

  • @marycole7196
    @marycole7196 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I HOPE THERE ARE CHILD WELFARE REPRESENTATIVES THAT VISIT ADOPTIVE HOMES PERIODICALLY TO CHECK ON THE WELLBEING OF THESE CHILDREN. SHE SHOULD BE RELIEVED OF ALL THE CHILDREN UNDER HER CARE.. SHE DOESN'T DESERVE TO BE ANY CHILD'S CARE TAKER, PERIODT. IF ANYONE CAN TAKE THAT CHILD AWAY, THEY SHOULD. SHE IS GOING TO MALTREAT HIM, WHEN THE HUBBY ISN'T AROUND. HUSBAND'S FAMILY MEMBERS, SHOULD ALWAYS BE AROUND FOR SUPERVISION. HMMMMH, VERY HEAVY DEEP SIGH. THIS IS PURE WICKEDNESS OF THE HIGHEST LEVEL. HMMMMH.

  • @adeolaadedayo7909
    @adeolaadedayo7909 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know an Anglican bishop wife,who adopted a child when she was still barren but after God open her womb she asked and frustrates the husband to return the adopted child back to orphanage home,do you know this woman has PhD in marriage counsellor.some women are too mean

  • @TY-bb5qb
    @TY-bb5qb หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She should be investigated, she probably patronised baby factory that the reason she doesn’t value the child

  • @adeabraham126
    @adeabraham126 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She doesnt even deserve her own child bcos even your own child is a gift from God not yours and so as much as the adopted child. If care is not taken, she might not see the good of her own child coz God can take either her or the child away or your child will be a slave to the adopted child in the future becasue karma speaks

  • @Shayoyeye4525
    @Shayoyeye4525 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s better she returns the child, I respect her courage & honesty for admitting she won’t be able to love that child. I would rather she returns the child, than keep the child and maltreat or abuse him/her.

  • @gracenmercy1085
    @gracenmercy1085 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This woman is very selfish and has no love in her heart. She is a pretender, Please take the child from her before she kills him because of "inheritance." The rejected stone shall become the CORNERSTONE!

  • @mytube3020
    @mytube3020 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you please talk about the psychological effect or mental state of children born through surrogacy? How does it affect them in their adulthood once they get to know the truth ? Would they go through that route to procreate if they find it difficult to do so? Also could we say that surrogacy is a form human trafficking? A way of dehumanizing/devaluing wombs? In the sense that a woman " choosing to sell" her womb to satisfy a person's/ couple desires just for some monetary token?
    Would you allow your biological child born through surrogacy to marry your once surrogate's biological child of the opposite sex or not? Thank you

  • @richevericheve5156
    @richevericheve5156 หลายเดือนก่อน

    to love a child from a adoption is far far far more love than having your own if you cant do this then shame on the person evil evil people who can just give the child it is not the childs fault

  • @Funmyy
    @Funmyy หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That woman is horrible 😮

  • @chz76
    @chz76 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A child that brought blessings to you, you want to discard. That will bring curse to the family.

  • @ileguthecook
    @ileguthecook หลายเดือนก่อน

    That is pure wickedness. She is not fit to be a mother at all.

  • @KayKay-rm5mr
    @KayKay-rm5mr หลายเดือนก่อน

    My friend adopted she lied to me she did surrogacy

    • @adeteleolaosineye6941
      @adeteleolaosineye6941 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Makes no difference. It's this response of yours that made her lie knowing your view

    • @onyinyechin4610
      @onyinyechin4610 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think her decision was solely her responsibility. Even though you are her friend, she probably was afraid you wouldn't accept her decision, so she covered the truth. I think you should be more open to your friend(s) so they can be free to tell you things happening in their life.
      I hope you find good friendships and the wisdom and strength to nurture it.
      With love

    • @KayKay-rm5mr
      @KayKay-rm5mr หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@onyinyechin4610 I didn’t ask, I saw her with a 2yo child and the next thing she started talking about surrogacy. A common friend already told me she adopted so why the lies

    • @danieladanyi9818
      @danieladanyi9818 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just respect her decision and move on. She don’t actually owe you a true confession or explanation

    • @KayKay-rm5mr
      @KayKay-rm5mr 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@danieladanyi9818 did u comprehend what I wrote, from ur comment u didn’t . In a simpler English “I did not ask her before telling me” so where’s the decision here to be respected. Pls read to comprehend before replying.

  • @atinukenafiu3290
    @atinukenafiu3290 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Horrible human being