How Sex & Intimacy Changes in Long Term Relationships
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Hey ya'll!
Dropped something for you this public holiday. This is one of those conversations that evolve over time. It would be interesting to know your thoughts based on your personal experiences on this topic so please leave a comment sharing the same. Like, share and subscribe to our channel.
Thank you for watching!
Always,
Ivy, Shikie, Lorna & Jules.
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I love how each one of you represent every woman. From a woman who has been married for a long time with kids, a single mom, a single lady with no kids and a newly married woman who is expecting. There so much to learn from each one of you, not only ont this video but on the others too. Keep them coming!
Ivy is very knowledgeable,Lonzie is super rational/logical,Shikie is so intelligent and jul's is fiercely fearless. Much appreciate you over25. Keep on with the good work.
Oh, lovely ladies,all of them, Jules is bae though😅😍😍😘
I feel like my next relationship will be top notch because of over 25 and TMI ......the knowledge these ladies spitt.......wisdom tupu❤❤
Male take on "Act of service", believe me, I am overwhelmed sometimes that I had to check with a close friend if I have problems, I think it happens when the woman is young hot blood and may be due to some stress you feel it's just an act of service. Men are not always ready! And men love Over 25😊love you guys > 5 years
1:59 "Lorna's Correct.😍
3:56 "Lorna's Over 25 Member.😍
6:02 "Julz- I Am For The Streets And The Streets Are For Me. That Is On PERIODT!😅
6:10 "Julz- I Can Be Snatched. Somebody Can Snatch Me.-By Mistake (putting this on a tee😂)
7:23 "Ivy...Next Question, See Yah.😂(she couldn't be bothered)
Take Aways From Yall's... 💯
1. Communicate your sex styles. For the love of God let us stop assuming.
2. Go on an orgasm hunt.
3. If I am not in the mood, si I just have to communicate.
4. Inject some spice.
5. It is okay to schedule sex.
6. It is okay not to have sex for weeks, months and years after bringing life into this world.
7. Consent in long term relationships is vital!(thumbs up for the topic on consent)
8. Pull our your Kiswahili for beginners books.
Well Done Ladies.💛💛
Nice💯
You know what I like about the over25, the fact that you admitted this was hard to do and that yall still did it ! The way you give time and listen to each other's perspective on things. May God bless your friendship honestly.🙏 I just turned 25 and I'm so happy to have watched this channel for over 3 years now :) My internet big sisters fr.❤❤
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Jules looks soo pretty the way they zoomed her in ,her laugh and dental structure.yes we ended it on a high note.
You people should consider transforming this into a Podcast. #OverTwentyFivePodcast
Think about it.
👍I think you guys should delve further into the topic of consent sometime in the future.
I have also noted that Ivy has been a little more withdrawn and talks less in the last few episodes but when she talks she asks very important questions and gives really good insights.
Same thoughts 💭
I agree and she also speaks even lower now and it's a struggle to hear what she's saying.
I know her mic 🎤 is set right, but she doesn't want to speak lately. Body language in this clip is withdrawn. She is leaning further from the gals.. my observation ✌️
J
you just solved your own puzzle.
36:29 - Ivy, you said the answer to this question 30 seconds before you asked it - 36:00 . "If they can't get it up, they can't get it up." That's basically it. You had the answer all along. A man MUST be "in the mood", and there are no ifs and buts about it. Even if you can somehow 'jumpstart' an erection like you suggested, it doesn't mean that the erection will last. There are men who want to have sex of their own accord, let alone to perform an "act of service" for their partners, but still can't because of erectile dysfunction. I think we sometimes forget or overlook our physical differences to our own detriment. It is imperative to always consider the biological underpinnings of who we are when answering these questions. We might not like them but we cannot ignore them.
A man who has subscribed.
I agree to this as a woman who has been in a long-term relationship. At times he really wants to because I'm in need but he always tells me to give him some time.
Informative topic, guys please talk about the changes that a woman experiences before pregnancy, after they conceive and after childbirth birth not just immediately but also during parenthood and in different stages of a baby as they grow and even start going to school. I think it will be great topic because your group also represents these stages.
I love Jules for real...' I can be snatched, somebody can snatch me by mistake' 😂😂😂😂
17yrs in a relationship and everything you’ve said is so true 😅
JULES KNOWING KELLY CLARKSON IS ONE OF THE BEST VOCALISTS OF OUR TIME❣
Just liking and it changing from 999 to 1k..felt good
Haha ...little joys😅
I am for the streets and the streets are for me 😂😂don't I just love jules aha😂😂😭
Am with Lorna sex can be challenging when you are trying for a baby..I think I reached a point where I hated sex..Great episode as usual ladies...💖💖
Hey loves...I'm really enjoying this content although I want to address the point on communication coming with age...I'm 22 and I'm at a point where if it doesn't feel comfortable I'm telling the man to get off😂😂,I communicate what I want,how I want it and all that...I feel like the communication comes with being empowered sexually and tapping into your sexuality...this is just me😂,thank you for this,lots of love ❤️
I am just happy for you tbh
I completely agree...the sexual education we also get from social platforms like tiktok and twitter have really helped to explore and understand our sexual needs ESPECIALLY as a girl
On sex after child birth..... 6 weeks is just a guideline. There are women are stay longer and those who 2 weeks after CS are ready to keep it moving. lesson....... listen to your body
Sasa am here getting ready and how I support the girls is let the adverts run cos I know my location increases the cash 💸
Ivy has been looking withdrawn in the recent episodes & her voice quite low when she speaks. I hope you ladies can get back into the energy & psyche y'all had last year and before. It was so captivating. I'm a real OG fan of the fearlessly bold over 25.
Her voice was low,but we hope that she will be back on.
Rest pls!!!!! 🙄
I had to go to her IG & see if there's something wrong. It seemed awkward to me that Lornzie is more considered to be in a long term relationship than Ivy who has twins who are older than the 4yr relationship Lornzie has had. It felt to me that maybe there's trouble at home,, in which case I still applaud her for being strong & showing up for over 25.
Kids and a relationship with a significant other are very different things.
@@sheyskitchen9960 True. I didn't mention her relationship because it was a moot point. Everyone knows she had her children with Lee & they seemingly had a great partnership 🤷
I sat the whole 57:51 minutes of this video and it has made me remember one Esther Perel who said that the female sexuality is massively narcissistic. What turns women on is for them to BE the turn on. This was stamped when Shiki said she felt sexy and yearning sex 3 years after giving birth.
I am not saying it from a negative standpoint, I am now piecing the information I have been acquiring and it now makes sense. Because, having sex while you are not in the mood is like a chore; this is if both of you have always been intimate. Intimacy in this case goes beyond the act. Partners are always in sync with one another. If someone is really committed in a relationship and the situation is not a one night stand, both parties know if their partners are with them during the act.
Thank you for this episode.
The pioneers of Bold Conversations in Kenya❣️ receive your Flowers 💐💐💐💐🏆🏆🏆🏆🥇❤️
I agree with Jules on not being with someone who has walls up . Hugs are gold especially the long ones . Communication is also so important to sustaining sex long term. If there is breakdown especially in understanding your partner it looses touch.
Jules should always link or share the name of the podcasts.
Two things have gotten me so excited in this episode. First, I was thinking about this literally yesterday and you talked about so I reaaaalllly am your TA! I'm getting to hear from people whose opinion I trust. My heart. Y'all are fantastic ❤️
The second thing is THE KIJANI RING that Jules has on from Jada Marshleys...I have one too and I am so hyyyyypppppeee..
Omg 🤗
All looking Beautiful ❤️☺️Good to have you back. shikie and ivy I see those matching leg tattoos ☺️
What is Monday without warembos💕 making my day brighter🌞😍. Leo mumeamua topic moto moto coz issa holiday😅. From the comfort of my bed😍.
Great to hear that ladies can openly talk about this topic. I left Africa when I was young and sex was a taboo that no one talked about. Keep on keeping on ladies.
Hey!
This was a really good conversation, thank you!
Please bring Kaz to the show to talk about consent.
What a great conversation. It would be great to have opinions from male perspective on sex and intimacy and also consent in a relationship (INVITE shiv, bright , george ndiragu, mantalk and many other . Thank you ( OVER 25) for your content .❤💯💯💯
Noticed that Just Ivy avoids personal conversations and responses to group conversations. I like that. Good show I enjoyed
@@judywanjiru975 Gai you have chosen Vayolence 😂😂
@UCcW_kYdUzk15GnoinHfIbBg This was a very shameless comment from a fellow woman. Do better !
@@KJ-zt9yy She has removed the comment.
I was saying that to myself too 🙂🙂 she's a very smart lady, however she was too bored on this episode.
She is all about the money💰
Yes, part 2 required on consent in relationships. Some relationships have consent contracts and safe words. Consent in relationships needs to be normalized and not taken for granted that there is consent in all things and at all times just because you are in a sexual relationship.
Can't wait for the concent conversation, there's so much we need to know about it that's not addressed ❤️✨️
Jules: I could be snatched by mistake. Me: Exaaactly !😂😂😂😂
tbh Ivy's personality screams 'dominatrix'
But I think money definitely makes the difference it facilities plastic surgery, tummy tucks etc so you can actually get the body you wanted even better than when you looked before kids
I love shikie's hair😍
Beyoncé couldn’t have had surgery before Coachella, she started practicing for the performance 8 months before. How could she have gone through surgery and healed in time to practice? We also see her weight in the beginning of documentary. But I think she had a bbl after because this Renaissance body 👀👀👀
Ivy you're right about people's expectations. The entitlement that people have on others can be annoying. Anyway, you ladies are looking pretty. I wish we could see your outfits properly.
Jules you are just the one for me. I honestly just loveeee you. So real, so fierce.
I appreciate you girls and the conversation that you had. To me, you are the elder sisters I ever had. I keep learning and getting informed on new perceptives. ❤️❤️❤️Thanks for having this conversation
I come for information but I live for the money that’s always dashed before the talk 😂
👍I have r*p* at 10yrs and this made me fear men to date... Am now 24yrs...and not dating 😔😢
Oh, pole sana😰😰, may you find healing. Seek therapy too.
Thanks... It's hard but all is well
Sorry about that babe.. hope you find healing❤🙏🏾
Sorry about that.Sending love and hugs💕
Hugs darling 💔❤️ and may you indeed find healing and peace .
I really loved and enjoyed this conversation particularly about physical touch. I learnt something 😊
I admire Jules liberation😍 I want to get there😍
From my first first days in a relationship i want the scheduling 😊 it spices things
Ivy's outfit today is on 🔥🔥🔥
Honeymoon period ikiisha things definitely changed. Also is Ivy becoming more fashionable or what?
becoming???
@@linnetkirubi450 keyword more
Dont come at me am just making my observations and I come in peace.....All of you ladies your energies are notably low? Are you okay ladies ?Ahuh also Ivy esp is abit low in spirits she isnt comfy and worse of th beginning she was dodgy....i mean in a circle of gals you always wanna be at per wth each other interms of life strides bt it doesnt wrk like tht...so basically when shiky and lonzie are courageously talking abt long term rship...ivy and jules aren comfy esp Ivy my gal ily so much I just hope you heal and bounce back...I love your energy so much...and whatwver it is all of you aredealing with now..may you bounce bank...hugs from me to you😚
When Jules insisted on moshi 😂😂😂
I'd love a consent episode🙋🏾♀️
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I miss how easy going and bold your conversations were when you started when you were more fearless 😅
Me too. Those episodes were amazing. I feel like they are holding back sanaa. Anyway guess with age comes with responsibilities
Me three.....the conversations are less bold
Another Monday morning with Over25 conversations 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Hi, I'm a huge fan of Over 25. Your conversations, deliberations are out of this world. So quick one, there's phasing in your audio where the Left and Right are not perfectly aligned. That is what cause that 'echo' or 'reverby' effect to the audio. If you need help with it, please reach out to me.
You ladies are bussing (I only know this word because of my young nieces). Great convo!
Haha
Lornzie had me at teesho ya sen'gen'ge😂😂😂😂
Waited for this long to listen to Jules....daamn!!Your ideas ....
Loved the episode😊 as usual. There is a bit of echo or something going on with the sound. Apart from that. Lovely episode😊
Everyone of you teach me different things in relationships💕💕💕☺️Always thankful for youuu🥰Hugs,💖🥂
Honestly you guys look so good together please come back together we miss you.
❤️❤️❤️ Great episode as always. Had a request if you could improve Ivy's microphone. The past 2 episodes it has been misbehaving.
Trueeee
Veryyy trueeeeee
Trueeeeee
I was thinking maybe it's Ivy who is speaking quietly 🤔
Jewels are back with consistency 🤝 good job ☺️
Jules🙌🙌...nnakupenda bure🥰🥰
A video on consent would be amazing! It would be fantastic if you did it with Kaz Lucas! I think the conversation would be very informative
I was literally shouting at my screen trying to correct Jules that it's "mwashi"😂😂. That part was hilarious and so on point.
We need part 2 of this episodes.
Gals loved ❤❤❤
Jules...... You are alot like me. Ivy......weeelll....let's just say you give a whole new meaning to the term 'girl crush'
Am yet to find a channel that I really really relate to like this one, for your info am older than you guys but I feel that you speak to me every time! Keep doing what you do best ps. do not go on those loooong pauses without posting here!
7.26 ivy is so cuuuuute
At 43:42 you can spot that Shikie and Ivy have the same tattoo on opposite ankles
Why didn't I discover this channel long ago. Amazing ladies. Over 25 is the real deal. Raw facts🤫🤫
Kaz Lucas is the queen of the consent topic.Get her on the show
I concur!
When Jules sings along to SZA's Garden (21:38) and the rest can't relate, am like DAMN!!!!!!😉🥰
I'm looking at Ivy wagging her foot the entire time the girls talk about doing it for their partner.
Me personally, I wouldn't do it. I think couples can do things to get each other in the mood.
hard to understand if you don't love your partner.
Since I stumbled upon you ladies in 2020 each episode has been uplifting and eductional. Keep up the great work ladies.
The level at which I relate with Jules💯❤
Love you all...
Scientifically your body goes back to it’s pretty - pregnancy state after 6 weeks. Immediately after delivery your uterus returns to half the size..... Best on those scientific facts your body is physically ready however the emotional and mental part are subjective....
Pre- pregnancy state
You speak wisdom you guys am always having those aha moments 😍
I like this gal Jules sana ❤
Always waiting for these videos 😊
as you take on the conversation of consent,maybe add on..do mean understand what content means or rather do they know how to identify disapproval?.. idk if it makes sense
Notification gang kama Kawa💃💃💃💃💃
Yes it would be great to talk about it
this is a great show.. greetings to you all 💮💮
Ivy you've really stepped aside in this episode
she doesn't really engage in emotional/sexual stuff. she is all about the money and leveling up. serious convos😅😅😅😅
Now I look forward to Monday next week.great week ahead that episode was soo educational.
I really feel like this is an important conversation
I feel like Ivy is outgrowing the relationships conversation. It's not her vibe anymore. And it's okay.
She has now evolved into the money and innovation space.
I noted this as well
I think she was engaged contributed to the convo. She brought up the consensual submissive which is just on a different level. Something not much explored but could be quite interesting 🤔
😄 🤣 😂
I love shikie's hair
Okey Jules had me at Moshi... Like whaaaat😂😂.. Anyway this was very informative....
This is really informative and i love how open yall are and comfortable
Yeeeeees !!!!! Another episode
First time and I like the vibes already… Ivy hello
Consent around sex would be a great convo 🎊❤️ and also for differents ages.
🤣🤣🤣 am I a miner!!! Jules you are my spirit animal
i love this. i missed you guys
She’s talking about Sza’s song Garden (say it like that) @21:35
Great conversation of revealing realities.
Wow... Guys you looking gooooood😘💋👌😘😘😘
I love your content nowadays,good job guys 👏👏👏
When did u start being nervous.this sex talk was what drew me