Questions Women Have Always Wanted to ask Men | With The Guys
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- The boys are back! We asked our IG family to send in questions they have always wanted to ask men and got the boys to answer!
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It's so refreshing to see Lornzie in charge! You should do it more often...
They usually rotate though Jules does the most
@@mochaleaves Exactly, we do rotate. Mostly lands on my lap because others are shy but please continue encouraging to boost confidence. It can be nerve-wracking moderating an episode esp when we have guests. Lorna is a natural.
She sure has rocked the role!
You're right sandra lornzie seems a little nervous but it's just so great
Right right!!!!!!!!
LORNA is INCHARGE! I'm here for it ! 🙌
I love Eli’s confidence, how Oscar is so self aware and Georgie for being so articulate! Thanks for sharing your experiences.
Much love to you girls- dream team🌹
I hate that I don't like this video as much as the rest these amazing ladies have done, but I'm getting a lot of "pick me" vibes from Eli...
@@chelliesimotwo which is quite ok hun! 🤗 We can definitely differ and still applaud the ladies for being consistent & bringing other sets of ideas/ mindsets on the vlog❤️
When Ivy said to Lornzie "you'd be on a journey" 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Funny as hell
@@lmuchemi14 Can you start vlogging hun?
I'd love that for you.
Like Oscar is 🤣
That was funny🤣🤣🤣
"Your job as a man is not to redirect but to observe and support"Alot of men need to understand that👏👏👏
Oscar's thought process is impeccable. 'Rediscover your partner, observe and support them', such a self aware man!!!! He is deep. Some of us appreciate such qualities. We can't all want the same thing. Let the man be.
Oscar is a misunderstood genius. There are so many men like him. People should stop criticizing him because he sees things different. We can't all have the same perspective about life . let the man be ffs
Agreed
genius?? lol
Lorna moderating the episode 💉💉 the energy >>>
we need more 🥰
I have enjoyed Lorna being a moderator today please give us more of her.
Slowly seeing the disappointment growing in the girl's faces 😂😂
Seen that too
I’m on min 2 and I LOVE Lorna’s energy on this episode!!!!! Yaaay 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You're here too 😂😂
You can't look for traits of a stable relationship from 40 year old married couples it's a complete journey you just have to be ready to be with this individual and the 40 years should tell you that value built it took that long #mythoughts
We miss you girlies!!!! This was a beautiful era😍
Lorna's look is fire!!!! Plus she did an awesome job today!!
My monday low-key starts after watching over25 channel
I think Eli's challenge is that he is looking for what his parents have and he isnt able to pull away and allow himself to have an experience thats not similar or aligned to it.
I don't think so, there are constants that must be there for every relationship to succeed, that is what I think he's looking for since he said that he's from a healthy relationship, there are also things that I've seen in my parent's marriage that made them stick together for more than 25yrs that I'd love to see in my own marriage so I'll look for certain qualities in the woman that I'll intend to marry that are the same with my mother's and also work to improve my own qualities as well.
@@k3ygvrv I can respect that but what worked for your parents may not work for you guys especially because people are so different and some traits a person can develop as you work together.
@@mochaleaves as I said, there are things I can't negotiate on, things like honesty, loyalty, kindness, being considerate, emotional intelligence etc, those are the things that I'd borrow from my folks' marriage. Hope you get what I mean.
@@k3ygvrvI get you. Those are traits that make one a generally good human being not necessarily exclusive to your parents marriage.
Remember temperaments also play a role.
Whatever it is he is looking for, he is allowed to get what he wants
I loved the last conversation with the boys and see you guys brought them back💗. I love loving you girls 😘❤️
Love right back!
Also the second question was 'Is it really hard to have a platonic relationship with women?' And they discussed it widely but didn't really answer the question...my point is, in future episodes could the moderator try to prevent this digressions? Coz I personally would love to hear their views on the questions asked directly before they go to the peripherals.
A very calm episode.. No talking over each other like you do sometimes, thanks to lornzie for moderating .
Anyways very insightful 😊
I feel like the episodes with men are usually the best ones, please make them more.. As a man I love seeing us being represented by sober men ..
These three are the best.
We need more Kenyan men like them,if so ladies will all be married😂
@@Torihappyness there are very many good men out here, ni venye not all of them are in the limelight to air their views..
I know right, personally I got glued to the episodes with guys featured
@@kmichaels114 love that, me too!!
The age difference between the guys and ladies is really showing. Guys wameiva theory but kwa ground everything isn't practical
That is so true
I don’t know that the idea is to pursue and capture but rather to pursue and experience a person which means you are in a constant active state in relationships. Putting up a front in your pursuit means the ‘other’ gets attracted to an ideal and not you. When you then withdraw the front after you get their attention, you are not the person the ‘other’ fell for and that is dubious.
If I was a dude, I'd aspire to be like Georgie. Dude is the definition of a quintessential modern man!
Every time I see Ivy and hear her point of view of relationships.. it makes me know and feel that she is on a great journey of not taking bullshit!! AND I LOVE IT! whatever you are going through May you find the strength to persevere and to make it out stronger!! ❤️❤️
Yasss. I fucking need this! Thank you Kendi
She was a side chic not the best person ask for relationship advice. She destroyed another woman's marriage
@@musasalimmwambogho4898 Your thinking is surprising. Someone's past does not dictate the value they bring in to conversations and to the table. Also, what you said is untrue. It takes two to tango and it us not a woman's responsibility to police 'her' man and V.v. Perhaps think through things better.
@@musasalimmwambogho4898 really? I thought Lee said they got together after he's marriage was over.
@@mercyme4262 I watched him on mancave and he said so, problem is we are a judgmental society and want to pick only on the side we feel safe with.
hahaha Eli!!!! ??? do you want us to exhibit traits of a woman you want to marry or be in a 40 year long term relationship just so you can be with us now? Abeg give us a break hahaha we just want to be. Please ask your parents if they were who they are now.
Oscar goes deep to quick. He is not able to stay at the superficial level in answering questions and thus throws people of a lot because the reference points are not communicated in the process of answering.
Could he be doing what you are doing? I lost you too 😫
@@annajohannes5455 😂😂😂
I think he over complicates everything
It's just part of lawyer mindset, I totally understand what he is saying and it's one of the traits that come with being a lawyer. But you also have to learn to explain yourself to other people
@@antonettewambani805 I would not hire him. Because he wouldn't be able to explain the law in a way I can understand
wah 🤣Jules and Ivy kept checking out. its been long since I've seen Jules this bored
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I honestly find Oscar over ambitious..
Eli is just amazing he thinks before he speaks which is awesome...
George is 👌👌👌always..
Ladies with no income have no business dating as well. Ma'am just get your ish together first!
Am i the only one that caught that? 😅
Why do I feel like Ivy is sooooo over Oscar?
She is 🤣🤣🤣
She is julie also
We all are. 😂
😂😂 they are not having any of it
Ivy was so intense in this episode...and clearly wasn't feeling most of the responses from the guys.
Saw that too....
🤣 me too. Esp that question for would you date yourself? I found myself really mirroring her facial expressions 💀
Very
I thought it was just me.
I noticed
I think Eli requires specific values from his partner to be able to commit to them. and until he meets that person, he is fine being alone. which in my opinion is realistic. Praying he finds that person.
I totally agree. He's not just looking for "who can I stay with to escape the single title"
He found her. He is dating 😊
I am curious!! What is Eli looking for?? Coz I thought I had * check boxes * but I think, HE is the SOURCE of check boxes!!! Georgie says a lot without saying much…beautiful mind, love it.
Love the episode, and the fact that yo brought in another set of guys (and twice) in a row. So refreshing! The conversation was quite authentic and relatable. Keep it up ladies!!❤❤❤❤
Oscar's compliments throw the ladies off in a good way. From last week's episode it was Jules. This week Lornzie was stunned when he mentioned the top...
funny thing is you will find some funny characters here going to roast the ninja in the bird app
Ndirangu and Jules could make a great couple 🥰🥰❤️
Yaaaaaassss
I soooo wanted to saaaayyyy this😁
Yesss they do
They kinda have thy sexual tension 😂😂😂 maybe it’s just me wanting Georgie
You and I sis
35:33 Don't shame Lornzie for cursing bratha...the girls have created a fully expressive space and we love itttt!!!! No take backs.
Yes please and thank you!
❤️❤️🥰.
Just a suggestion…. How about a round table or a setting where you all are facing each other while having conversations🤪.
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I want to ask how the 'journey' is going, but I won't 😂
😂😂😂
Lorna's intro🔥energy🔥great conversation.And yes, nagging makes men leave the house, come late etc. For sure. Even the Bible states in proverbs that you rather as a man spend time on the rooftop or in a lion's den than with a nagging woman🤣
This is so true, these days am just quiet in my relationship and I love the outcome, hubby talks to me more and is always asking "are you ok?"😉
The way Eliiiii talks 😍and not just the words or the accent but the deliberate and thoughtful way he speaks... So attractive😘👌
So true
I agree
His accent oh my 🥺🥺🥺😍
He is sweet
In all honesty you guys always mold me to be an ideal man . Keep on doing what your doing
About cohabitation, it is no longer considered as legal marriage after a certain number of years. The matrimonial act was revised. You are either customarily married, with proof of payment of dowry and witnesses, and/or you are married under statutory law (where we sogn certificates in church or at Sheria house) If you are married and acquire property together, no party is allowed to sell without the other party's consent. That'll be null and void. So if you are cohabiting, make sure that you are well protected in terms of property acquired by both of you. Or in case someone dies intestate, and dependants appear, with proof that they were dependant on the person who died, the property is divided into per unit. If married under statutory law, where you've signed the certificate, the other woman/man is not considered as married to the dead party, so he/she will not acquire any property but children born out of this, will get something because they are considered as innocent.
I think people who cohabit should consider just getting the marriage certificate and signing it, no need to have a big wedding.
Exactly.. Presumption of marriage nolonger exists. Children whether in or out of wedlock must be taken care of
@@sheilagrace9042 in this Kenya if a man doesn't want to take care of the child there is little you can do. Best bet is to start off with marriage.
For customary marriage,it has to be registered with 6 months of completion of the dowry ceremony. If it's not,it still isn't considered a legal union.
The body language of the ladies when men were talking says a lot. Also research shows that men over estimate themsleves. Contributes to why they take many bad /dangerous risks
Georgie is a national treasure!!
I totally like Oscar and I don't think he's trying too hard... I just think he's responding according to the phase of life that he's currently at.... it feels honest... loving all the guys tho, great episode
I swear you can just tell that Ivy is not feeling Oscar's opinions 🤣🤣🤣🤣 or I'm i over observing?
😅😅I saw that
I'm riding with Ivy on the same boat though i respect his ideologies, opinions etc ..
I thought I was being too observant! Weuh
Not just Ivy...
Aren't we all? 😂😂 I agree even last vid I saw the same
Oscar Koome is very theoretical- says the right things- or knows the right things that need to be said, it would be interesting to see this applied in his practical life else its all just virtue signaling
I'd think living that would be difficult, weird even.
I absolutely agree!
I agree
@@meshackmuli2809 agreed on that
Seems like he is saying things to sound deep and thoughtful. That usually hides a lack of substance underneath.
Gosh just listening to these gents makes me realize how much males and females actually think differently..and it takes intentional effort to make each other happy..in a friendship/relationship etc..
This was Oscars comeback after his over excitement last session
You meet a girl, start a crazy pursuit, create certain expectations in the girl, then when she says yes, the consistency and expectations end. This is duplicitous and insincere. I'd rather you leave the girl alone from the beginning. Also, men should be more honest about their expectations in relationships instead of tagging some poor girl along for n+ years, and when asked, they act surprised when their partners ask for a ring. Communicate your intentions early so that people know what's happening and they can plan ahead.
I've always loved How Ivy sees things,and how she interprets stuff!! Real AF!!
Also, George is phenomenal!!!
The male version of Ivy will go well with shikky
Growing up in a perfect family is a blessing in disguise 😂 the kind of boxes we have to tick is extensive. I feel Eli.
True
Why do men feel uncomfortable when ladies say about them wanting sex ir refering to it as having sex.... They want it to be marrinated with sijui making love.... Guys it is coz of what you are dishing out, out here is sex...You don't want emotional connection, you don't want to be there before the next physical catching up basically sex but you still want it romanticized after that. Let me just say women stopped sugar coating things until the whole experience is leveled up to involve everything.
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My guy, you've gotten the girl, you're hustling to get a car or a mortgage for your future and someone is asking why you no longer take them out to java and the likes as you try to now improve for the both of you. It can be really strenuous for dudes too. Ata serikali after campaign, they need to build schools and hospitals and stuff but Kenyans want you to come and give free money at any meeting you attend or burials, it is the same concept. After the chase, let us chase something to improve ourselves together.
Stop looking at everyone as a potential spouse.....I am taking that with me
I completely disagree, if you don't see yourself marrying the guy then why date him? You should actually find out if he is looking to marry you too so that there is no wasting each others time. Then what is dating?
Same here
@@mercyme4262 This is in reference to initial stages, like before defining the relationship. Some people can make better friends than spouses, so when a man approaches you, stop automatically trying to view him as a potential spouse. Get to know and understand him then decide what kind of relationship you'd want to have with him
Oscar is a textbook person. Lol. It looks as though he speaks in logic and philosophy. Lool. A lawyer indeed. I still believe he's a soffttiiee at heart and he's so protective of who he will allow in his space up to a point of vulnerability.
Eli knows what he wants. He knows and he doesn't want to play around or try to see. He wants to see, then commit. No unnecessary heartaches. I'm with him on this.
Georgie is just phenomenal!
I agree with you Firdaws. Oscar is a textbook guy and I think that he is always politically correct.
I absolutely agree! I find Oscar too philosophical and often times unrealistic
Not Ivy calling us Libras out on attaching ourselves to everyone...🤣🤣🤣🤣 Madam stop shouting, please!
I am more of Jules & Ivy's personality....so when someone with Lornzie's personality is in charge .....I just love it!....
Lornzie, great job❤️👏
Lornzigatabaki being incharge make this episode enjoyable maybe it b often .
I love you guys 😍.... keep doing what you are doing. So happy lornzie is chatty today😉
On the chase topic
Men who stop being nice and putting effort after winning a girl have personal issues. They are unintentional and confused because they are only thrilled by hard difficult things and shy away from ease.
It is choosing hard life. Could be attachment issues, ingenuity, or confusion.
The best thing to do is to leave them to it, maybe when they become goal-oriented and focused they will become intentional.
A great couple puts effort everyday, the effort becomes more with time not reducing
Bro said, “ yo I got a nipple piercing” and all the girls froze.
I froze too. It’s clearly a boundary unmarked.
Human relationships are interesting because we are all not the same and we were brought up differently. How we wee raised really affects how we perceive , give and receive love and the kind of a partner we chose for ourselves.
People who were brought up in love like Eli are hard to find a partner because they have an idea of what love actually is and they tend to find themselves in healthier relationships.
I know someone who has resolved to never get married because her parents’ marriage is so perfect she has already decided that she can’t find someone to match it up with her.
But most of us were brought up in dysfunctional families and we need to heal before entering in relationships and that’s what Oscar is big on .
If I date a guy for two years and there are no marriage plans in the pipeline, I’d definitely ASK because nowadays, I personally don’t use assumptions. Let the person verbalize their intentions and expectations
Also, I was super excited to meet George and Eli juzi, humble and awesome guys even kwa ground
invite Kibe,ya'll are not getting answers you are looking for
My now wife, was super drunk, and she was dancing on a pillar at blue times, I missed that place when it closed hahaha. We were in a group and everyone was trying to find a dude to buy them drinks and grinding on everything with a crotch and this chic was just grinding on a pillar hahahahahaha and just like that I was hooked completely, she still dated some guy for two and a half years, alinikataa yawa, juu ako na mtu, and just like that I was completely and unconditionally in love with this crazy tiny person. Now over 7 years sober, tired of booze, an epic son
This is beautiful...😭I'm happy for you guys...and for being sober as well💛
I align with Oscar's thought process. He probably shares the same ideologies with alot of forward thinking men. He's articulate.
I think Eli and George mostly give "politically correct" answers.
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“Your job as a man is not to redirect, but to observe & support.”
“You keep telling me your story, & let’s work on that story together. In the end, it will be beautiful.”
Well said, Oscar!
Lornzie did a great job moderating the episode. Also she looks so cute😍
Don't we all love her!
It's Lorna's fashion sense for me,it's just on another level ❤️
Am here watching this for the tenth time!!! Please we need the boys back
Absolutely beautiful episodes with our top ladies and these gents. Bring them back often please.
Lornzie's loctician understands their assignment 👌👌
I’m getting addicted to this this beautiful channel with amazing content ❤❤
Lornzie is a viiiiiiiiiibee
This isn't the exact representation of Nairobi men though 🤣 but this episode was really insightful ...I love how these guys have put in the work for themselves... Clearly shows that some men actually take time to become THEEE men😍
I love lornzie
Wueh! Loving the new intro🔥🔥not me rewinding to watch it again😍. Warembo always on point💯. Interesting men guests. My Monday just got brighter🌞.Nawapenda tu bure😘.
Lorna is always the quiet one and I love that she is in charge.
Lonzie Is 🔥🔥Uve Directed The Show Very Well..
Honestly, these guys are not realistic!
Being in my late 20s and listening to women in their 30s reasoning makes me get so interested in older women.
I F'ING LOVE IVY AND THE WAY SHE CARRIES HERSELF 😍😍 confident strong queen
The way Georgie looks at Ivy 🥰😍
@@mwakundi who is Georgie pls?
Oscar is such a vibe!!!makes one feel some type of way😊😊
This was a very dope panel, those three men are articulate, intelligent and made this episode so much fun
I find Koome too surface and philosophical. He says what he thinks women want to hear. His ideologies would not work in the real world and are often impractical.
I was thinking the same exact thing.
You guys are scrutinizing Eli for nothing. I totally can relate. Sometimes even finding that person you are sure of not marrying can be difficult juu unapata tu watu wa upuzi. Soft people like Eli can be taken advantage of easily in relationships. Plus there are people who fear the " Let's try and see where it goes" It could land you in trouble in future. You rather stay single than date for the sake of dating. Some people are still figuring out even their sexuality for God's sake🤣.
Yeeees my thoughts too
@@joymwenda9711 me I belong to the group of "lets see where this goes"... Unfortunately I am still here single but O would hate to go in with a plan of settling down. That one is too demanding from the onset.... Pengine I need to try this other side
@@carolm4691 not exactly I feel like he knows what exactly he wants or is looking for and he is willing to stay alone until he finds it. I pray he does . Like you are for the idea ya let's see where it goes...him he wants something specific ... you are both on different levels that doesn't mean he is wrong or you are wrong
@@carolm4691 im also open to let's see where it goes, but then still, I want to do this with someone who is worth the try not just anybody, just because people are dating, or that people should be dating at a certain age. I mean what's the point of jumping into any relationship and then being a constant victim of heartbreaks just because you need to count exes? Eli clearly knows what he wants, which he hasn't found. It compromise, there are things you can compromise like kungorota🤣some you just can't.
@@joymwenda9711 Also telling him that he won't get what he's looking for is so wrong. I mean he clearly has standards, he has ladies chasing after him too but this is somebody who probably doesn't just want to date but wants to date deliberately, even if they turn out to be one of the thousand frogs. I mean people are dealing with shit put here. It could be depression, anything that may make someone decide to wait, or that makes one uncomfortable talking about their kind of ideal relationships. To be honest I wish they just cut that part out. It wasn't nice
Lorna you look sooo good. I love the entire outfit
Amazing content ladiessss, however, the first question was, 'If they were female would they date who they are right now?'...and they didn't answer that, I was looking forward to their answers. Love you guys so much
True. I wish they did
I look at jules eyes whenever George is talking it's like they have a kaattraction ....🤣🤣🤣, 🥰🥰
these dudes make the ladies sound taliban🤣🤣
My heart skipped a beat when he said Bachata and Kizomba..
I agree with Oscar. Ladies look like a billion bucks!❤️ Never heard of man talk community but now I do. Keep doing the great work Kings!
I'd like to have Georgie back. I like that he's lived some. Has been really hit by life and come back from it. I relate to him better.
This comment section is vibes😂😂💯
Happy Valentine's day to Eli only..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ikr ...😂😂😂😂
Oscar take Juls and Eli take Ivy 🤣🤣🤣 and booom. Anyway let me stop Overthinking😅
I'm here revising notes!!! I can't fumble my man my man my man😅😍
When Ivy asked, "how would they know?" and Lornzie said "... Coz they're men" 🤣🤣